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Grihastha ashram is an
important and integral aspect
of the Daivi Varnashram system.
This manual on Grihastha ashram is
based on information culled from
the writings of Srila Prabhupada
in his valuable purports in
Srimad Bhagavatam, Bhagavad- Gita,
his lectures and letters and
contributions from several leading
devotees of ISKCON.
CONTENTS
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How to earn ones livelihood in grihastha ashram: Dos and Donts ...................................... 7
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What should be the consciousness of a devotee couple who decides not to have a child ? .. 12
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Samskaras .................................................................................................................................... 14
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Success in the Grihastha Asrama .......................................................................................... 23
Guidelines for selecting ones partner .................................................................................. 23
Six thumb rules ......................................................................................................................... 23
Understanding the Male Ego .................................................................................................. 23
General Psychology ................................................................................................................. 24
Mans Psychology ..................................................................................................................... 24
Womens Psychology ............................................................................................................... 24
Typical Challenges and situations faced by Grihastha couples
in Krishna Consciousness and possible solutions .............................................................. 25
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One spouse in Krishna Consciousness before marriage and the other not: .................. 25
Both devotees before getting married: ................................................................................. 27
(i) Staying with parents ................................................................................................................ 27
(ii) Lack of sensitivity ..................................................................................................................... 28
(iii) Poor communication ................................................................................................................ 31
(iv) Lack of respect / trust ............................................................................................................... 32
(v) a. Husband and wife speak with eachother rudely ............................................................. 32
b. Husband speaks very rudely to his wife in the presence of his parents .................... 32
(vi) Only one partner wants a child .............................................................................................. 33
(vii) Complacency after marriage .................................................................................................. 34
(viii) Immature understanding of oness social responsibility .................................................. 34
(ix) Not Understanding ones role in Marriage........................................................................... 35
(x) Imperfect understanding of devotional service\ neglecting house-hold duties ............ 36
(xi) Comparing ones spouse to other devotees ........................................................................ 37
(xii) Making the husband feel small .............................................................................................. 37
(xiii) Nagging ...................................................................................................................................... 38
(xiv) Washing dirty linen in public .................................................................................................. 38
(xv) Not respecting ones wife. ....................................................................................................... 38
(xvi) Difference of opinion in bringing up ones child ................................................................. 39
(xvii) The husband and the wife blame each other for lack of
progress in their Krishna consciousness .............................................................................. 40