The Wonderful YouReality-Mohamad Hajj

The Wonderful YouReality Mohamad Hajj
To all my Beloved TPA Dynamic Free Realists in homeland and

abroad with Pride and Admiration
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The Wonderful YouReality 1

(YouTranscendence)
Transcend all fancies and fallacies as well as idealities and ideologies, but
keep transcendental all the way growing wiser, improving steadier, and
ascending higher.
-- Transcendental PhiloSofia Oct 17, 2013.
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To all my Beloved TPA Rational Motivational Realists in

homeland and abroad with Honor and Appreciation
--------------------------------The Wonderful YouReality 2
(YouLove)
Never try to challenge your reality by all means; just love it as it is in factity
and youll love the entirety of you including your soul/self/essence, your
heart, your mind and your body. Your factual reality aint as it seems to be
in time and space; it is simply limitless.
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To all my Beloved TPA Gallant Adventurous Realists in

homeland and abroad with Love and Gratitude
(YouObjectivity)
Face the taboos of any sort and source, analyze them realistically, stick to
facts positively and avoid illusions shrewdly, and keep wise and objective.
-- Transcendental PhiloSofia Oct 19, 2013
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To all my Beloved TPA Vigorous Realists in homeland

and abroad with Trust and Recognition
(YouLife)
Never confront fear; never destroy fear; just embrace it with wisdom and
love; let it be turned into calmness and confidence; let life in you work on
you for you.

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To all my Beloved Outstanding TPA Realists in homeland and

abroad with Faithfulness and Gratefulness
(YouHappiness)
Happiness aint a goal youre after by all means, since theres no goal of
yours in reality but you.
Happiness aint either a by-product as Eleanor Roosevelt once said.
Consequences and offshoots are yours not you.
Fundamentally, everything you aim at and earn aint meant for itself but for
you.
All your plans, decisions, goals, accomplishments and upshots are
exclusively for you.
Once you meet the real you, youll not obtain happiness but youll find the
YouHappiness.
Happiness in actuality aint but you at your optimality.
-- Transcendental PhiloSofia Oct 26, 2013

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To all my Beloved Unique TPA Realists in homeland and

abroad with Fidelity and Conformity
(YouLove)
Jane Howard said once: Call it a clan, call it a network, call it a tribe, call it
a family. Whatever you call it, whoever you are, you need one.
Well, thats quite fascinating and inspiring indeed!
Getting connected and attached to others should mean realistically getting
a greater, higher, deeper, brighter and keener You.
Up to my experience I cant find any bonding so delightful, strong, steady
and dynamic like love, since love is realistically about attachment and
unification between two or more distinctive entities to form some amazing
cohesive universality at a higher state or level in existence.
Accordingly, I would prefer to call such a trustworthy bonding NetLove
confidently and contentedly.
Successively, NetLove will manage to reveal the splendid reality of YouLove
clearly and resolutely.
Such YouLove aint secluded at all; it embraces all beloved ones and things
within.
The YouLove is universal indeed.

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(YouBeauty)
The Human Masterpiece
Claudia Hammond said once that mental time-travel is one of the greatest
gifts of the mind. It makes us human, and it makes us special.
As long as the mind with all its conceptions including thoughts and ideas,
opinions, principles and beliefs arent but the reflections of the superior
nous that is fully connected to factity embracing exclusively realities, the
mental travel in existence will merely take place above time and space in an
endless world of understanding and contemplation sculpturing therewith
the human entity to become the best miraculous magnum opus in the
outstanding museum of life where everything there is a fascinating
collection of rare unique masterpieces of beauty and magnificence.
-- Transcendental PhiloSofia Nov 1, 2013
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(YouFreedom)
Genuine freedom of the human reality is the authentic offspring of realistic

awareness; the more youre aware of factuality beyond ideality, ideologity
and religiosity the more youre free from horrible self-imprisonment.

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(YouSharing)
Ruth Ann Schabacker said once that each day comes bearing its own gifts.
Untie the ribbons.
-----------------------Better open the gifts of life before those who brought you giftsShare the
joyfulness of gifts with your beloved onesShare your love of lifeShare
your satisfactionShare your happinessShare you

(YouHome)
Maya Angelou said once that the ache for home lives in all of us, the safe
place where we can go as we are and not be questioned.
All homes are comparatively safe and comfy including parents and spouses
except the authentic beloved ones heart, where one could feel
unconditionally cozy, comfy, safe and secure, and never be questioned or
judged. The unifying power of love based on trust, respect, admiration and
appreciation dissolves all kinds of negative attitude. Get united in love and
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feel the indescribable taste of sovereignty, liberty and autonomy.
(YouIndependence)
She had resolved never again to belong to another than herself. -- Kate
Chopin
Relationship with parents, kin, and spouse among various social and
traditional perspectives including religious authoritative dominance will
always put Her under hazardous standards chaining Her awareness,
freedom and will and classifying Her as a fully dependent sub-individual.
Only when She finds that genuine Love that will make Her feel Shes his
royal empress, Shell realize the beauty, majesty, independence and liberty
of life within Her.

(YouKnowledge)
John Locke said once that no man's knowledge here can go beyond his
experience.
Thats quite realistic and positive indeed!
All knowledge is earned through experience absolutely.

Experience is the very interaction with realities in factity that will be
reflected naturally via connection on ones reality.
All knowledge inherited from others wont deserve to be called knowledge
but mere info or data symbolizing others experience or knowledge.
Having info about love wont be called knowledge about love.
To have knowledge about love you have to experience it in factity.
Having info bout success wont be called knowledge about success.
To have knowledge about success you gotta experience it in reality.
The only knowledge you obtain about any reality is what you experience in
factity not what you collected of info and data at schools or universities.
However, knowing about love realistically will make you become yourself
the very reality of love.
Knowing about success or happiness factually will make you become
yourself the very reality of success or happiness.
Thats why knowledge is one of the basic influential characteristics or
aspects of the human reality.
Its in fact the outcome of awareness the most essential characteristic of the
human reality.
Thats why knowledge as is real and lively as the human reality is.
Once you strive for knowledge, you gotta strive for your experience in life
not for data or info signifying the experience of others.
You gotta strive for you.
You are the real degree that you deserve to earn it and feel proud of.
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Having virtual degrees indicating the quantity of info you obtain wont be
called knowledge in realism by all means and wont be fundamentally you.
So, never bet on virtual means indicating the amount of info youre able to
maintain and conserve.
Bet on you!
Bet on your reality as it is in factity!
Be your life book not others!
Be YouKnowledge!

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(YouLove)
Jack London said once that the proper function of man is to live -- not to
exist.
As a matter of fact, the proper attitude the human reality would adopt is not
only to LIVE, since living is enjoying LIFE as the apex of EXISTENCE, but
to LOVE. LOVE is absolutely the apex of LIFE, since LOVE is getting
connected and attached cohesively and integrally to LIFE and all living
things not only humans.

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(YouEsteem)
Wear own Vest

Pursue own Quest...
Enjoy own Zest
Pass own Test
Build own Nest
Be own Best
-- Transcendental PhiloSofia - Nov 26, 2013

(YouInventiveness)
Winston Churchill said once that we make a living by what we get; we

make a life by what we give.
Well, thats quite impressive and moving matching therewith completely
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the ecstatic and esoteric way of spiritualists known all over the world and
throughout history.
As a realist, I would like to cope with this critical issue objectively on basis
of factuality and thus would see that we will make a living by what we
make out of what we get and we will make a life by what we make out of
what we give.
Mere getting and giving anything in life is almost responsive and reactive to
whats going on around.
Your need for satisfaction drives to get as well as the need of others drives
you to give.
Yet, making out of what we get or give in life is gonna signify the very
exclusive unique touch of our human reality outstandingly.
Its then all about what you cook out of what you get or give of lifes
ingredients.
Its all about your unique inventive touch in life.
Its all about YouReality with regard to yourself or others.
(YouFlexibility)
Bruce Lee requested once to notice that the stiffest tree is most easily
cracked, while the bamboo or willow survives by bending with the wind.
Once the human reality manage to reach moderation and balance with
regard to accessible options by not going to the extreme opposite poles, for
polarity endures within horrible obstructive and destructive elements, and
that is done strategically via factual awareness fortified by shrewd freedom
and resolute will, it will eventually come to enjoy flexibility, dynamicity and
progressivity that will push the human march towards optimality quite
advantageously.
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(YouDevotion)
Albert Pine said once that what we do for ourselves dies with us. What we
do for others and the world is, and remains, immortal.
Thats quite self-denial and self- denigration confronting the reality of the
human beingness so boldly, deceptively and fancifully as seen in asceticism,
spiritualism and religionism as a radical fanatic response to materialism
and egotism.
Every sane, even-tempered and level-headed person knows well that his
personality is one of the components of factity as a distinctive specific
reality.
Hence, everything you do to your personality in the world, youre doing that
in factity absolutely and thus affects all realities therein comparatively.
Thus, whatever you do to yourself, youre doing that to others definitely.
What youre gonna do to yourself will be done to the entire world.
Everything done in factity is kept preserved in factity and will be everlasting
as an existent in the entire existence.
Just choose whats apt and satisfactory to you, and it will fit in factity
properly and benefit other realities somehow.
Only when you mistreat yourself deceptively and foolishly, youre gonna
make harm to the entire world relatively.
Love your personality you love therewith the entire world.
Love your realityyou love thereupon the whole factity.
Love your beingyou love accordingly all existence.
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(YouIntentionality)
Edward de Bono said once that If you can change your perception, you can
change your emotion and this can lead to new ideas.
Perception as well as understanding or comprehension aint ones
deliberate action by all means.
Whats premeditated and planned beforehand consciously indeed is the
want or the need to get in connection with something in reality actually.
Once intentional connection is already done, interaction will follow
spontaneously unless something else would distract ones alertness,
whether its his reality mentally or emotionally, or any other reality in
factity.
As long as attention keeps on, interaction including awareness and
subordinates or subdivisions such as understanding or perception will
follow naturally.
Emotions are exactly as spontaneous as perception or comprehension.
They are the inward impact of the interaction with realities upon the
cognitive human reality at the sentimental side of its psychical level.
Afterwards, the human reality via the power of conceptualization i.e. the
power of mind is going to form adequate logical mental codes i.e.
conceptions symbolizing that natural spontaneous effect of that interaction
between the human reality and other realities in factity.
Thus, conceptions including ideas, opinions, principles and creeds are quite
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intentional, calculated, prearranged, designed, organized and formulated
with regard to both perception or comprehension, emotions or APS
(advanced psychical sensations) and feelings or PSS (primitive psychical
sensations).
Hence, one should be pretty careful and cautious about the way of
interacting with realities and the way of formulating conceptions since both
are affected entirely by the human trio: awareness, freedom and will.
Only then, changes have to be brought shrewdly and adequately once
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(YouActiveness)
Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don't resist them; that
only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward
in whatever way they like. ~Lao Tzu*
*Posted by Amanah Abraham
----------------------------------It's all about that "LET..." thing then!
It's surely not about sitting aside lazily and watching passively how things
go on actively
It's actually about "let's get up
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"Lets move it"
"Lets do it"
"Lets make it"
"Lets head to it"
Lets reach it
"Lets get it"
It's all about "let's go for it"
And never "let go of it" by all means
Even negativities, never let go of them, 'cause they won't let go of you!
Just face them, analyze them, filter them and synthesize them as
positivities adequately!
-- Transcendental PhiloSofia Dec 2, 2013

(YouMetamorphosis)
Laura van Dernoot Lipsky said once that if we can transform ourselves, we
have the potential to change the world.
We are in dynamic universal motion since we got our specificity in
beingness
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We keep transforming by reality via reality into reality
However, its up to us humans as the sole noetic entities full of awareness,
freedom, will and capability
Its up to the degree of our realistic awareness not to the amount of data
and info we acquire
Its up to the degree of our shrewd freedom not to the chaotic optionality we
maintain
Its up to the degree of our astute will not to the wicked intentionality we
uphold
Its up to the degree of our wise capability not to the vicious capability we
assert
Although transformation is taking place innately via reality itself, still it
needs all components at the human level of beingness
The more we are in concord with our reality, the more we reach our
optimality in reality
We can rely on our reality confidently
We can undergo universal human metamorphosis successfully
The world wont change via mere technology surely
It wont change via mere philosophies certainly
It wont change via religions and politics absolutely
Lively history tells the truth
The world will only change towards the best once human awareness
changes towards the best
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Human freedom and will should change successively
The entire human reality will change consequently
The entire cosmic reality will change accordingly
Start with you
Start with YouReality

(YouConstruction)
Bruce Lee said once that "self-conquest is the greatest of victories. Mighty is
he who conquers himself."
What he aimed at is quite understandable and esteemed pretty much!
Conquering ones own self prior to or without even conquering the
opponent is all about defeating negativities and freeing the self from
obstacles that hinder its growth towards fulfillment and satisfaction.
Yet, such instructional and pedagogical attitude belongs to ancient
primitive thinking based somehow on the dualism of forces in life such as
good and evil, yang and yin, Yazdan and Ahriman, God and Satan, or
positivity and negativity in general.
In Realism, especially the Transcendental Realism based on the dynamicity
of the monistic reality, theres merely positivity out there, while negativities
arent but immature and undeveloped or inapt and insufficient positivities
in factity.
Hence, dealing with negativities of any kind and source wont be a realistic
reasonable approach but only if negativities are dealt with as mere
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positivities needing yet optimal completion and fulfillment.
That leads to modifying our way of handling negativities fundamentally by
focusing on the monistic positivity in everything at any degree of shortage
or deficiency and trying to make sure it becomes adequate and proper.
This will lead also to modifying our behavior towards negativities primarily
and towards ourselves essentially by encompassing negativities efficiently
not fighting them and embracing ourselves affectionally instead of
conquering them.
Theres no concept of destruction or annihilation in Transcendental
Monistic Positive Realism by all means.
Theres only fruitful construction or production of positivities and thus of
ourselves to discover and deal with profitably in factity.
Hence, the aphorism should be as such:
Self-construction is the greatest of achievements. Master is the one who
constructs own self.

(YouPleasure)
We cannot learn without pain. -- Aristotle

-- Posted by Amanah Abraham
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Pain aint something essential in reality as to Transcendental Realism by all
means, but merely subordinate and subsidiary.
Pain is ontologically a sort of pleasure lacking aptness and sufficiency
comparatively.
What might deal as pain for someone could be pleasure for any other one!
Regarding monism of realism theres no negativities in reality but
positivities solely, since theres nothing out there but reality.
Reality in itself (alitheia qua alitheia = reality as reality) is the very being
(on qua on = being as being) [Greek , on (gen. , ontos) for being] yet
manifested in specific traits and traces (on qua leptomreia = being as
specifications).
Hence, being is all whats out there but within own specificities.
Negativities and essentially nonexistents arent realities in factity.
They are mere mental formulations in term of codes and symbols pointing
at positivities and existents lacking aptness, sufficiency and completion.
Anthroposophically, no one could be after negativities as negativities, since
theyre Not, nothing or nonbeing.
One can only be after positivities since one can only be after realities as they
are in factity.
Hence, pain aint a goal, objective or aim.
Pain aint something one notices independently, since it aint out there as it
is.
There are only pleasures out there, since pleasures belong to positivities
fundamentally.
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And since positivities vary gradationally and systematically from aptness to
inaptness, sufficiency to insufficiencyand since pleasures follow
positivities fundamentally, pleasures will endure a diversity of gradational
levels varying exactly as positivities.
Thus, only pleasures at any rate and degree of aptness and sufficiency or
inaptness and insufficiency are to be noticed and interacted with in reality.
Nevertheless, one cant learn or do anything through pain as negativity
realistically and monistically but allegedly and deceptively.
Its that inapt and insufficient degree of pleasure of the positivity of reality
that is actually noticed and interacted with in factity.
Only pleasures of the positivities of realities at any rate or degree of
completion or incompletion that are to drive one towards doing something
in factity, whether it would meet aptness and fulfillment or not.

(YouIntellectuality)
Buddha said once that "the mind is everything. What you think you
become."
-----------------------------The mind is one of the duo psychical aspects along with the sentiment.
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While the mind is the psychical aspect concerned with conceptions, the
sentiment with emotions.
What the mind acquires of thoughts, ideas, opinions, principles or creeds
will keep uncertain unless authenticated by reality via the intellect, the
highest level of the human reality that is concerned naturally with realities
as they are in factity not only as they are reflected on the human reality,
which is called then the self or the heart.
Hence, its not what the mind thinks will become you or becomes even true,
unless its validated by the intellect or the self of the human reality as long
as it is attached to factity.
What you do with your reality as intellect or heart is what you become
factually, not what you think via the mind or even feel via the sentiment.
Its all about what you realize in factity that affects your mental conceptions
and sentimental emotions drastically as well as your heart essentially and
your intellect ultimately and fashion thus your specific reality in beingness.
Hence, its all about your heart or self that deals as mere integration and
unification of reflections of realities as they are in factity including ones
own reality on own reality specifically.
Moreover and above all, its all about your nous or intellect that deals as
mere connection to and interaction with realities as they are in factity via
your own reality as it is in factity certainly.

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(YouBeing)
Jay Inslee wondered once about what is a fish without a river? What is a
bird without a tree to nest in?
Thats quite thoughtful and sentient!
However, I wonder more about what would be fish and river as well as bird,
nest and tree without life?!
What would life be without reality?!
What would reality be without factity?!
What would factity be without being?!
All what we touch in life of realities in factity aint but the abundant
diversity of the beauty and majesty of being.

(YouHeart)
Jerome K. Jerome said once that an aching head soon makes one forget an
aching heart.
The mind what is meant by the head here - is weaker than the heart in
realistic approaches especially the anthroposophical.
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The mind is located at a lower level than the heart, since the mind belongs
to the psychical stage of the human gradational system of being, whereas
the heart is the very essential stage that is called also the self.
The heart is the apex of the human reality that controls the lower psychical
and physical levels; its called also the self or the core as long as it touches
realities within as mere reflections on the human reality; it is called the
nous or the intellect as well once involved fully in realities as they are in
factity not as mere reflections of realities on the human reality.
Hence, the mind with all its conceptions, problems and solutions cant ever
affect nor have any influence upon the heart with all its approaches and
aspirations.
There is actually no kind of negativity at the level of the heart including
aches of any kind.
Ache or pain is only to be found by the sentiment including emotions at the
psychical level of the human reality.
Its the common understanding or customary thinking that keeps mixing
between the level of the heart and that of the psyche or spirit including both
the mind and the sentiment.
Thus, mentality problems of any kind and source might affect emotionality
and vice versa at the same level of psychicality.
The emotional aching of the sentiment thereby might be unnoticed or
disregarded due to the conceptual aching of the mentality comparatively.
Being aware of problems and solving them is actually the job of the heart at
the level of psychicality by the power of human reality that is fully
connected to factity.

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(YouVictory)
Bruce Lee said once that defeat is a state of mind. No one will be defeated
unless the loss is accepted as a reality.
How realistic and shrewd he was indeed!
In Transcendental Realism, defeat belongs to the row of negativities
formulated by the mental power of cognition as virtual codes and symbols
pointing at certain unfinished positivities in reality detected and realized
exclusively by the human nous, the ultimate level of the human reality.
Defeat hence reveals a certain unfinished, unfulfilled and unsatisfactory
state of victory in terms of gain as opposite to loss en route towards apt
optimality in beingness.
The pain escalating via the bitter sensation of lack of gain should be
installed essentially as an influential factor of endorsement and
encouragement for further trials and restarts until goals are achieved.
Conquering own thoughts about defeat aint about confronting own self or
holding own self as antagonist to be defeated, as casually and naively coped
with in religions, spirituality and ethics, but as a friend in need of care and
love reasonably, wisely and factually.
There should be only factual astute reasonability in dealing with reflections
of realities on the human reality, especially in the mental virtual aspect of
the psychical level of the human reality concerned fundamentally with
codes and symbols called epistemologically conceptions that deal as basis of
thoughts, opinions, principles or creeds.
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Theres only positivity in factity, whether finished or not yet.
Theres only gain in factity, whether obtained or not yet.
Theres only victory in factity, whether achieved or not yet.
(YouUniversality)
Bertrand Russell asked once: Do not fear to be eccentric in opinion, for

every opinion now accepted was once eccentric.
Thats the way mentally motivated personalities visualize the truth.
Its either about conventional or unconventional attitude.
Its all about subjective view and evaluation.
Nothing then is to be coped with as reality or factity.
Nothing then is to be coped with objectively.
For, by realism and objectivism there are no eccentric or accepted views to
be detected.
Either theres reality spotted, identified and realized objectively or theres
nothing in the meantime.
Theres no sense in being eccentric or traditional by realistic and objective
approaches.
Stick to realities as being you yourself some reality and feel uncontrolled
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and liberated entirely.
Feel freedom, independence and sovereignty of factity in you and free your
entire reality at all levels from limitations of any kind and source.
Be the selfsame Universal Factity as YouReality!

(YouSupport)
Linda Conway said once that it is not what is poured into a student that
counts but what is planted.
As a matter of fact, its neither what is poured into a student nor what is
planted that counts aptly and adequately
Its the energizing sunshine and freshening breeze of love, care and support
you provide for your students
Pouring, planting, cultivating and harvesting are all students job
autonomously
No one gives anyone anything
Life within each and everybody as well as everything gives all to all solely
We just aid and support mutually
We just love and care conjointly
We just unite and integrate universally
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(YouWay)
Lauren Oliver Midia said once: I'd rather die my way than live yours.
-- posted by Amanah Abraham
-----------------------------------------------Well, it's actually neither about my way nor yours
Thats idealism based on conceptuality and subjectivity not factuality and
objectivity
Its rather the way in itself
Its the way as it is in reality
Its the way as it is leading towards reality itself
Its the reality that draws the way towards optimality
Its the reality that is you in factity
Its the reality that is your optimality in factity...
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(YouPurity)
Bruce Lee said once that mistakes are always forgivable, if one has the
courage to admit them.
Well, having the courage to admit mistakes merely is a great attitude indeed
but wont change anything in reality internally and externally.
Mistakes arent going to be forgivable or forgettable by mere admitting
them.
Still admission of mistakes is an essential step to get out of self-disgust and
self-destruction.
Its surely a crucial step towards building self-esteem and self-integrity.
However, making mistakes forgivable is going to be done factually through
changing incorrectness into correctness internally and externally, since the
negation by incorrectness is actually about mere inaptness and
insufficiency of proper correctness.
Thats how one strips mistakes from the mis-factor and makes them
proper actions.
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Thats how one purifies own entity from impurity and reaches own
optimality in reality.
Thats how you transcend and reach the YouReality.

(YouSatisfaction)
Bruce Lee said once that the usefulness of the cup is its emptiness.
As a matter of fact, an empty cup is useful in order to be filled, not to be
used.
An already filled cup cant be filled by all means unless emptied before.
However, a cup cant be used for drinking for instance if its empty.
Bruce was pointing at martial artists who were already overloaded with
preset principles, stiff styles and routine movements, whereas he preferred
a free style in martial arts or a styleless style by which one expresses own
self in combat not own school or style typically.
Accordingly, an empty mind or sentiment aint useful by all means to
express thoughts or feelings, but only to be ready to perform adequate
thinking or feeling.
When one tends to realize a certain reality and formulate consequently an
apt relevant mental conception, one should free own mind from prior
opinions, principles or creeds in order to gain new rationalizations upon
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new realizations.
But when one tends to reveal own assimilated deductions and developed
theorizations, empty minds wont help at all.
Empty minds are useful to be filled with new acquired thoughts as codes
symbolizing realities in factity.
Filled minds in terms of satisfied not stuffed ones are useful to pour
thoughts for further studies and advanced researches.
YouPositivity
Elvis Presley said once that when things go bad, dont go with them.
-----------------------------------------------Although thats quite reasonable and realistic, still you ought to make sure
they won't go bad anymore...
Never keep avoiding things when they go wrong...
Thats not a life to run...
Dont be positive yourself solely...
Make things around positive as well...
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(YouCompetence)
Dennis S Brown said once that the only difference between a good day and
a bad day is your attitude.
-- posted by Amanah Abraham
--------------------------------------------------Well, that's half the truth for sure...
Things you face throughout your day might not be fitting you even if your
attitude would be good...
Thats how bad days seem to be...
Bad things don't exist but in the sense of being inaptly or insufficiently
good...
Either you make them become inaptly and sufficiently good or you pick
other options...
Good attitude and good (apt and sufficient) things you interact with make
your day good...

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(YouDynamicness)
Bruce Lee said once that life is an ever-flowing process and somewhere on
the path some unpleasant things will pop up it might leave a scar, but
then life is flowing, and like running water, when it stops it grows stale. Go
bravely on, my friend, because each experience teaches us a lesson. Keep
blasting because life is such that sometimes it is nice and sometimes it is
not.
Outstandingly uttered!
What a realistic dynamic figure Bruce was indeed!
Lifes abundance of positivities and actualities originating from reality
within is the factual reason for all dynamicness, activeness, energeticness
and vigorousness in everything.
Nothing endures negativity all over existence but mere apt and sufficient
metamorphosis towards everlasting originality.
Only the intellectual, free and determined sort of being, the human being
exclusively, endures the so-called negativities, when humans fail to meet
aptness and sufficiency in what they choose and achieve.
The flow of lifes positivity will go through the human life as the
dynamicness of being will flow through the human being.
What the human being ought to do out of awareness, freedom and will is to
flow along with lifes flow of positivity.
Thats how one should be flowing with life not confronting it.
Thats how one should always flow with things around even when others
think hes blasting.
Life is always nice and never was unpleasant by all means, since its all
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made of positivities of reality.
Its only when humans stopped flowing with life that brought them the
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(YouConfidence)
I am not easily discouraged. I readily visualize myself as overcoming

obstacles, winning out over setbacks, achieving impossible objectives.
--Bruce Lee
----------------------How amazingly hes overflowing with self-esteem and self-confidence!
He just expressed boldly and optimistically one of the basic human
characteristics, the human liberty.
Human liberty exposes the power of life within the human personality,
since it wont comply with any kind of restrictions or limitations within the
human life circle.
Once the human liberty is jeopardized, the entire human entity is in
serious, extreme and fatal danger.
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Human liberty needs and demands proper characteristics that safeguard
and fortify human liberty and essentially the human entity: self-esteem and
self-confidence.
Self-esteem is an essential human quality that reveals the real value of a
human entitys worth found at the essential level called the self or the heart
above the emotional evaluation or even the mental or the conceptual in the
mind or sentiment.
Hence, self-esteem aint a mere thought or a sheer feeling identified at the
psychical level mentally or emotionally adopted by academic psychological
researches.
Fake self-esteem should be called thus self-centeredness, self-absorption,
egocentricity or narcissism.
Genuine self-esteem encompasses relevant apt self-statuses such as ability,
aptitude, power, control, strength, triumph, pride, and dignity.
Self-esteem is deeply associated with self-consciousness as well as selfliberty.
Self-worth, self-regard, self-respect, and self-integrity all belong to the
same family of self-esteem.
Self-confidence is an influential human quality that assures the value of the
human entitys worth when action is to be taken.
Self-capacity, self-proficiency, self- domination, self- competence and selfefficiency all belong to the same family of self-confidence.
Once the human personality gets aware of both essential qualities and
nurtures them aptly and adequately, it acquires the tremendous ability to
achieve successfully and beneficially what ordinary common understanding
holds for impossible.
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(YouPersonality)
Ralph Waldo Emerson* said once that "people only see what they are
prepared to see."
-- Posted by Ali Zeindeen
------------------------------------Although its true, still you ought to expose own self to others via the power
of own personality in order to let them see you as you are not as they are
prepared to see you.
Its your call or theirs.
Its your option eventually.
Its their right however to know you as you are.
Its your right essentially to introduce you as you to others.
Its the right of life basically over both parties to know things as they are not
as one likes or wishes.
-- Transcendental PhiloSofia Dec 18, 2013.

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(YouPerseverance)
Two things define you. Your patience when you have nothing and your
attitude when you have everything. Unknown
-- Posted by Jinane Khashouf
----------------------------------------I would rather like to say that two things define you: your Persevering
when you have nothing and your Preserving when you have everything.
Persevering is to persist steadily in an action usually over a long period,
especially despite problems or difficulties; patience is the ability to endure
waiting, delay, or provocation without becoming annoyed or upset; only
when patience indicates the ability to persevere calmly when faced with
difficulties, then its influential and beneficial.
Preserving is to keep something protected from anything that would cause
its current quality or condition to change or deteriorate or cause it to fall
out of use. Attitude wont pay if one loses what one gains. Attitude comes
next fundamentally.
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Elizabeth Bibesco said once that blessed are those who can give without
remembering and take without forgetting.
-- posted by Ali Zeindeen
-------------------------------------Well, I would rather like to say:
"Blessed are those who give without Haughtiness and take without
Humiliation.
Keep remembering thankfully what you gave and took.
Keep connected self-confidently to your reality in factity.
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(YouUnity)
Christopher Columbus said once that you can never cross the ocean unless
you have the courage to lose sight of the shore.
-- posted by Ali Zeindeen
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Well, that's quite true but through the tangible perspective at the physical
4D level in beingness characterized by distances and moments that are
restless, ever-changing and concealing one another.
The intangible perspective, the so-called spirituality ain't worthier by all
means though superior, since inner statuses overshadow one another once
focused on and interacted with.
The only way to keep all levels of the human reality integrated and united is
the realistic ontological way that combines spaces and times as well as
diverse gradational levels of the human reality altogether to form a cohesive
monistic universal unity.
Thereupon, I would like to say that "you can never cross the ocean of your
reality or any other reality in factity but only as long as you have the
courage to keep sight on the shore you left and have sight on the shore
you're up to."

(YouUnification)
I think its the first time you use the word "Human entity"*, or maybe very
rare. Is it to point at something special? Or is it pointing to the same as
"Human reality?
-- Adnan Sharara
* Referring to what I said once in my (YouConfidence) YouReality
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safeguard and fortify human liberty and essentially the human entity: selfesteem and self-confidence.
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As always expected, you have this special talent that I admire extremely as
well as my close intimate Realism followers...
I usually use the term Entity in Anthroposophical approaches at TPA
among the gradational variety of human levels in beingness
I would start empirically and systematically with the Human Personality
that is marked by specificity and distinctiveness...
Next I would explore the Human Identity in a higher human rank in
beingness enveloping of course the lower level of the Human Personality;
the Human Identity resembles the vey general combination of the infinite
Human Personalities marked by mere specificities without distinctions
what lets the infinite various specifications of infinite Human Personalities
get combined together in a coherent state of beingness; thats of course
ontological not epistemological; in other words, its going on in reality not
in ideality; the Human Identity aint but the very Human Personality
enjoying a higher level in beingness; its found in the depth of the Human
Personality; its the Human in Adnan for instance; Adnan and the Human
in Adnan arent two existents by all means; theyre the very being specified
by Adnan and identified by the Human in Adnan...
Afterward, I would discover within the Human Identity that combines all
Human Personalities in full harmony and coherence the Human Entity
that encompasses all specifications of the Human Personalities combined
in the Human Identity in a united way where all specifications are going to
become fully homogeneous and unified into one mass of being obtaining
yet within all infinite specifications absolutely...
Eventually, I would realize within the Human Entity that unifies the
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harmonious and coherent variety of infinite human specifications the
Human Reality that connects the Human Entity to factity along with
other infinite cosmic realities; the Human Reality aint but the very Human
Entity once related fully to factity...
As the Human Entity unifies harmoniously and cohesively all its
gradational levels into one united mass of beingness, the Human Reality
unifies that Human Entity including within the Human Identity and
Personality with factity harmoniously and cohesively...

(YouOptimality)
Buddha said once that you cannot travel the path until you have become
the path.
Well, the path in reality aint but the goal at first steps.
The path aint you but preliminarily.
The path aint you by all means.
Its the goal that is you indeed.
Just travel your path and get to your goal.
Be your goal not your path.
The goal is your optimality.
Never stick to paths of any kind or source.
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Never stick to means by all means.
Never be your means towards your objectives.
Never draw your means towards your objectives.
Let your objectives determine your means.
Let your goal determine your path.
Let your reality determine your goal.
Let YouOptimality determine YouReality.

(YouAdvance)
Buddha said once that what you are is what you have been, and what you
will be is what you do now.
What you are now or what you will be tomorrow depends fully on the
degree of dynamicity you achieve and implement towards the optimal level
of improvement you could obtain.
If you managed properly and aptly to invest your dynamicity in satisfactory
improvement, you wont be now as you have been once.
Had you failed to do that amply, youre gonna be now as you were
yesterday.
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If you succeeded to improve appropriately and sufficiently, you wont be
tomorrow what you are today.
Had you missed the opportunity to improve adequately, youre gonna be
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(YouReassurance)
Dale Carnegie said once that our fatigue is often caused not by work, but
by worry, frustration and resentment.
-- posted by Jinane Khashouf
---------------------------This horrible trio - worry, frustration and resentment - attacks both the
psychical and physical system of the human reality causing that fatigue
symptom in gradational comparative levels.
Reach for Reassurance instantly and directly and feel the delightful healing
touch of positivity within.
In general, Reassurance manages skillfully to restore self-confidence and
dispel apprehensions in terms of anxiety within worry, dissatisfaction
within frustration and bitterness within resentment.
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As to worry, Reassurance works proficiently on the negative nature of
thoughts, images and emotions of worry freeing thus your psychicality from
anxiety disorder and protects your physicality from corporal anxiety
disorder aftershocks.
It allows you to focus reasonably and realistically on the universal positivity
effect of your human reality in factity instead of the negativity sensations in
both your ideality and emotionality.
Just apply Reassurance as much as it needs to overcome the awful negative
effect of worry and enjoy the positive effect of peace of mind once again.
As to frustration, Reassurance treats adeptly the terrible negative effect of
anger and disappointment within the frustrated personality once aspired
goals are out of reach and desired objectives fall short.
It just gives the frustrated personality that awesome positive push of calm
and satisfaction flowing everywhere in life and blazing within that very
personality.
As to resentment, Reassurance heals the infected personality by working
out the bitter experience of negative emotions such as anger or hatred felt
as a result of a real or imagined obstruction or failure.
It just blows the power of hope and trust within the aggrieved personality
so that it would taste the sweetness of life at bitter situations
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(YouOriginality)
Chuck Palahniuk said once that nothing of me is original. I am the

combined effort of everyone I've ever known.
How sorrowful to hear such announcement coming from a member of the
human family about the reality of humanity by considering own self or
personality lacking originality.
Thats the devastating effect of ideality or emotionality when gets detached
from reality and factity.
He probably was unaware that everyone else of the human family is also a
specific personal unique individuality that makes the entirety of humanity
in reality once combined with other unique personalities.
The entire humanity aint but you and me as well as all others with regard
to the reality of humanity prevailing all over the levels of beingness
encompassing the time-space realm undeniably.
The entire human family aint but you, yet specifically and uniquely.
It aint about arithmetic, algebra or geometry by all means.
It aint merely physical...
It aint merely spiritual...
Its actually universally existential encompassing all levels of beingness
including the physical and the spiritual definitely.
However, each and every human unique personality specifying the human
universal reality is genuine absolutely.
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Being genuine i.e. existing in own self not in any other existence or entity,
means that the human unique personality is definitely original i.e. ever-new
and ever-fresh at every moment, degree, state, stage, and level in beingness.
Being original means successively that the human unique personality is
authentic i.e. actual, valid, correct and exact and thus neither a
duplicate/replica nor false/fake.
Hence, the very human specific unique personality is a genuine, original
and authentic reality in factity with regard to realistic monistic standards of
ontosophy i.e. the factual reasonable approach (Sofia) towards being
(Ontos), which differs methodically from ontology, the academic study of
being via already stated conceptions and theories or innovative deduced
ones.
No one is responsible for the being or the reality of anyone.
No one gives anyone anything.
Its only being within everyone that gives everyone anything absolutely.
Everyone however aids and supports everyone via being within both
parties.
Everyones personality is thus everlastingly original at each and every
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(YouCoherence)
Yogi Bhajan said once that when ego is lost, limit is lost. You become
infinite, kind, beautiful.
Most religions and spiritual trends dealt with the ego negatively since it
represents by them the dark side of the human personality.
The ego, from Latin ego (I) was chosen by Freuds translator as a
translation of his use of German Ich as a noun for this concept from the
pronoun Ich (I).
The ego in general indicates the self.
It has different implications with regard to different points of view and
various common usages.
It may refer to somebody's idea of own importance or worth, usually of an
appropriate level.
It may imply an exaggerated sense of self-importance and a feeling of
superiority to other people.
In Freudian psychology, its one of three main divisions of the mind along
with the Id and the Superego.
Since the Id is the part of the psyche that is unconscious and the source of
primitive instinctive impulses and drives, the Superego is the part of the
psyche that acts as a conscience to the ego, developing moral standards and
rules through contact with parents and society, the ego is that part of the
psyche that contains consciousness and memory and involved with control,
planning, and conforming to reality.
In philosophy, its the individual self, as distinct from the outside world and
other selves.
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In Transcendental Realism, anthroposophical approaches, the ego is the
3rd level of the human reality above the psychical level including the mind
(conceptions) and the sentiment (emotions) as well as the physical level
that unifies all psychical and physical aspects in whats so called also the
heart or the essence.
Its below the level of the nous that is connected fully to factity and interacts
with realities proficiently.
Once the ego/self/heart/core/essence gets connected to factity and
interacting with realities it will be the very same nous indeed.
Similarly, when the nous gets connected to its self and interacts with own
aspects of being it will be the very same ego or heart.
Thats the monistic aspect of the human universal realityever unitedever
cohesiveever one, yet in various gradational levels of being including the 4
integrated levels of the human reality.
Knowing, respecting, honoring and taking care of the ego thus is the most
important thing to do with respect to ones own human identity and
individual personality.
Losing the ego will make the human reality suffer from split personality and
severe bitter self-detachment.
Finding the real ego will make the human reality enjoy united personality
and self-coherence.
Know Thyself is ever the motto of PhiloSofia adherents and Alitheia
devotees.
Thats how Realism differs from all idealistic, ideologistic and religionistic
approaches in the history of mankind.

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(YouContentment)
Abraham Lincoln said once that people are just as happy as they make up
their minds to be.
Somebody might criticize me how I come to comment on a politician not a
philosopher for obvious reasons.
Well, with all my respect to such critique I would like to reveal something I
was brought up under my parents supervision at home and so did I to
myself at TPA, and that is to respect anybodys opinion or point of view,
whether I agree on or not, and whomsoever she/he would be.
Anyway, being happy wasnt ever about a mere thought or feeling
I wasnt ever about a mere wishing or craving
It wasnt ever a mere exertion or achievement
It aint about the self precisely
Its definitely neither about the mind nor the sentiment
Its absolutely about the intellect or nous
Its about the reality of you interacting with factity
Only in factity youll find your optimality
Only when you find your optimality in factity youll find happiness of your
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reality
Its YouReality that will bring you to YouOptimality that brings you to
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(YouScientificality)
Bram Stoker said once that it is the fault of our science that it wants to
explain all, and if it explains not, then it says there is nothing to explain.
Such pathetic statement is lacking absolutely the spirit of science and
reality as it obviously talks for itself.
Science is not only about the realistic empirical way of knowledge i.e.
experimental and experiential opposite to doctrinal or conceptional, but
also impartially reasonable i.e. passably unbiased rational and logical.
Science will be thus encompassing all knowledge fields that adopt
empiricism via skepticism and criticism pro realism contra idealism,
ideologism and religionism comprising thereby ontology and particularly
ontosophy that is considered by average academic mentalities as an
abstract field of knowledge.
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For sure, science wants to explain everything in life and existence not only
as a specialized realistic methodical way of knowledge but also due to the
human instinctive tendency to know everything despite possibility or
impossibility.
The logical context in Brams text will be hence as follows:
(Our) Science wants to explain everything
If it could explain something, then its done
If it couldnt, it will admit it couldnt, but itll keep trying
Never had science inclined to say theres nothing to explain when it fails to
explain
Never had science believed in something that aint explained yet
Maybe its scientificism that is analogous to ideologism and religionism that
pretend they have already stipulated predetermined programmed answers
for everything and when not found they just deny existence promptly.
Scientificism including physicalism or physicism doesnt belong
fundamentally to realistic scientific approaches although taking advantage
of scientific discoveries, but belongs merely to abstract idealistic philosophy
that contradicts basically with PhiloSofia i.e. concrete (real) realistic
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(YouIndividuality)
Oscar Wilde said once that "most people are other people. Their thoughts
are someone else's opinions, their lives a mimicry, their passions a
quotation."
Its been regretfully ongoing like so throughout the history of mankind.
Its all about the loss of self-integrity and self-functionality.
Its all about the loss of the human dignity within.
Its all about the loss of the sense of individuality among the massive
collectivity.
Its all about you lost in family, community, patrioticality, nationality,
culturality, religiosity, and so on.
Relationships with other members of the entire human family werent
fundamentally about substituting, confronting, jeopardizing or destroying
your very specificity and uniqueness in humanity and reality.
Relationships are only there for proper and adequate incorporation,
association, cooperation, integration, optimization and satisfaction.
Collectivity is ever pro individuality not vice versa, since the welfare of each
and every individual is the realistic and reasonable foundation of the
welfare of the entire community.
Family, community, religion, party, state, country, and the entire world are
pro each and every individual.
Take care of you and youll take care of all.
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Never become an added number within your collective circle.
Never become an added value to your community.
Be ever a specific, exceptional, indispensable and crucial figure within any
community.
Be ever such a significant and unique individuality within humanity and
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(YouInteraction)
Khalil Gibran said once that work is love made visible.

Its actually the interaction with realities in factity that exposes love nesting
or cocooning in the self or heart via the bonding power of the nous or
intellect with realities.
Work aint but one of the appearances of that interaction with realities in
factity, whether it would be about something or somebody.
Work is one of the actions one carries out in various relationships with
anything or anybody.
Work in itself ain't merely capable of making love visible unless it would
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become a kind of interaction with realities.
Theres other actions else than work that personifies love in the self or heart
towards anything or anybody.
Friendship, partnership, colleagueship, membership, fellowship and so on
are all manifestations of love within own reality towards other realities in
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(YouDynamicity)
C.S. Lewis said once that you are never too old to set another goal or to
dream a new dream.
The genuine original authentic human reality at all its gradational levels of
beingness, especially the higher ones such as intellectuality,
essentiality/centrality and psychicality, wont be dignified, treasured,
honored or valued by time-space effects on the human material physicality.
The ever-changing process the human body endures indicates no
deterioration, decomposition or extermination ontologically, although its
well-known and commonly accepted so by materialists of casual or
specialized mentalities.
The reason for that lies in the realistic understanding of the very nature of
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the human body.
The common trivial superficial understanding of the human body holds the
reality of the human corporality for that of the physical and material
resources of Mother Nature solely, although its factually the body of
Mother Nature specified for this or that human personality.
Such natural body is not actually exact the human body but subsidiarily and
subordinately.
The physical material body is indeed the Mother Natures body borrowed to
the human personality momentarily and conditionally.
The real human body is that one designed, shaped and completed by the
human realitys exclusive characteristics namely awareness, freedom and
will.
Such finalized human body keeps on alive as long as the human reality
keeps on alive via the eternal vitality, factity or existentiality itself that
knows no annihilation, no falsification and no nonexistence.
Thats why the real human body is everlasting and immortal not that
human 4D body borrowed originally from Mother Nature or physicality in
its common sense.
The human reality is thus eternal via the eternality of vitality, factity and
existentiality.
And since this trio undergoes genuinity, originality, authenticity and
dynamicity, the specific human reality enjoys these everlasting qualities
meritoriously.
The human reality is at all its gradational levels of beingness ever-fresh and
ever-new and thus knows no aging, overusage, worn-outedness, decline or
decay.
The human reality at all its levels in being enjoys all required degrees of
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freshness and newness to keep launching fresh new adventurous
approaches, tryouts, procedures, explorations and experiences towards
optimal ambitions, aspirations and objectives.
Its a non-stop process absolutely.
Thats the everlasting dynamicity effect of the eternal existentiality.
-- Transcendental PhiloSofia Jan 2, 2014

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(YouPersonality)
Ralph Waldo Emerson said once that to be yourself in a world that is

constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest
accomplishment.
Its only the human world that is trying to change you into someone else
than you.
Other worlds have nothing to do against you, since everything is concerned
with its own being.
Changing tools are various and hazardous.
Its sometimes your family that wants you to become just a family member
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not you in family.
Its your school or university that wants you to become just a school or
university successful degree not you as a successful personality.
Its your work that wants you to become a money collector and saver not
you earning means for decent living.
Its your employer that wants you to become a sort of good investment not
you fulfilling achievements.
Its your spouse that wants you to become a singing bird in the golden
marriage cage not you in love.
Its your friend that wants you to become some means for lavish
entertainment not you in need for.
Its your country that wants you to become just a law-abiding member of
the society not you as a good citizen.
Its politics that wants you to become an extra vote and committed
aficionado not you as a free-minded self-devoted nonaligned citizen.
Its religions that want you to become gods frenzied servant and religions
welfare sponsor not you as own personality devotee and humanity welfare
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(YouSpecificity)
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Anthon St. Maarten said once that you are a deity in jeans and a t-shirt,
and within you dwells the infinite wisdom of the ages and the sacred
creative force of All that is, will be and ever was.
The striving for the absolute in being at all dimensions was ever a kind of
relentless diligent zealous march since the first blossoming times of human
awareness.
Whether it would come to physical/corporal, psychical/spiritual,
essential/central or intellectual/noetic aspects of the human specific
distinct unique reality i.e. the human personality, its always about
unlimitedness and infiniteness after optimal satisfaction and contentment
for optimal bliss.
Undergoing, enduring or even suffering from different kinds of lack,
shortage or deficiency in terms of any kind of lifes needs, essentials,
requisites or prerequisites led the human cognitive, free and resolute
personality to hope, aspire to and seek fulfillment and gratification.
By time, humans found out that everything around lacked limitless supplies
for limitless needs of limitless needy humans.
They asked and searched for something that enjoys what they longed for.
Whether mentally, emotionally, mystically or religiously, they believed in
the existence of that thing or being that ought to be absolute and gave it
personal name or names originating from or influenced by definite norms,
traditions, cultures and civilizations.
Afterwards, when these monotheistic or polytheistic deities failed to satisfy
human needs, desires and wants, some just didnt dismiss or abandon
godhood or divinity as others did secularly, but applied it on own selves
mystically or spiritually.
Anyway, from the transcendental realistic anthroposophical point of view,
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nothing ever will match the reality of humanity, no matter what some might
consider it for, good or evil, highly or lowly, superior or inferior, significant
or insignificant, praiseworthy or blameworthy, and so on.
In fact, nothing of realities matches anything else by all means.
All realities of any kind, type or specificity are the selfsame general factity of
the universal being.
No beauty of any reality in being will serve ever as proper adequate
alternative for any other beauty of any reality as long as each and every
reality aint but the very same factity after getting specified.
Monism of realism will make sure that each and every reality has own
exclusive status and value in being as a distinct specific factity.
Universalism of realism will make sure that all realities are combined and
unified in one factity so that all realities are mere diverse abundant statuses
and loci of the monisticality of factity in the universality of being.
No sane human being will ever hope or strive for being anything else but
the human reality, whether a virus or god, or a micro or macro cosmos.
Hoping to become something else than your own reality even a dreamy
divine reality exposes some tragic psychopathological disorders that need
urgent conference of specialists in various fields of scientific therapy for
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(YouObjectivity)
Herman Melville said once that all visible objects ... are but as pasteboard
masks.
Thats what idealists, spiritualists and religionists kept handling and
dealing with physical realities throughout the history of mankind.
Misunderstanding realities, misinterpreting factity and misjudging
existence i.e. misidentifying the factual nature of things they deal with
drove such mentalities to demean and condemn the physical world whilst
elevating, boosting and sanctifying the spiritual, mystical, and divine
worlds, the so-called non-physicality.
Such mentalities never found harmony and unity within own selves.
They just visualized the world, life and reality upon their own torn out and
split personalities precisely.
They wont ever feel the sweet touch of life and reality as long as theyre
imprisoned in own hand-made jails of reactions, emotions, opinions,
theories, principles and creeds.
As to realists, especially the transcendentalists, life, reality, factity, or
existence aint but a harmonic, monistic, cohesive unity rich and abundant
in an infinite diversity of beauty and majesty.
As to transcendental objectivists of realism, its all about life or existence
that is ever there at all its gradational longitudinal levels and progressive
latitudinal stations absolutely.
Theres no real physical world detached from any other world in beingness
despite its richness and abundance of existence.
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The physical world aint but the very existence, life or reality in the timespace realm exactly.
Visible objects arent but existents occupying the time-space realm adeptly,
fittingly and adequately.
They arent pasteboard masks of anything else by all means.
Theyre as genuine, original and authentic as any other sort of existents at
any level of beingness.
Diverse specifications and systematic classifications of existents wont harm
the genuinity, originality or authenticity of physical existents or realities
unquestionably.
Monism of realism guarantees the genuinity, originality and authenticity of
each and every existent or reality.
Universalism of realism guarantees the harmonicality, unificationality,
integrationality and monisticality of the entire worlds of beingness.
Finding ones own monistic and universal reality serves absolutely in
finding worlds monistic and universal reality.
Finding real, apt and proper compromise with own self or reality will assure
finding that with the entire worlds of beingness.
Adapting objectively to realities as they are in factity away from subjective
idealism, ideologism, spiritualism and religionism will ensure respecting
and honoring existence all over the worlds of beingness, especially the
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(YouSimplicity)
Confucius said once that life is really simple, but we insist on making it
complicated.
Although Confucius purpose is well caught and digested, still the apparent
contradiction or opposition between simplicity and complexity needs basic
crucial treatment upon realistic ontological approaches away from
conceptual epistemological processing.
Conceptually, simplicity and complexity belong to contradictory or
confrontational set of conceptions where each one holds the negation of the
other.
Thats quite obvious in a world based on strict categorical differentiation
between mental formations.
Thats quite fathomable where the mind needs to analyze and dismantle
general conceptions into specific ones in order to encircle the exact
meanings or realities they point at.
Realistically, simplicity and complexity are two aspects of a monistic reality,
where they both uncover the state that reality is undergoing with respect to
its qualifications or specifications.
In realism, simplicity includes complexity as actual detailed abundance of
simplicity in reality, whereas complexity is unified in simplicity as the stem
root of the details of complexity in reality.
They both are one reality in two aspects or degrees of beingness.
They arent latitudinal - located at the same level of being like
contradictory conceptions that tend to oppose and substitute each other.
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They are actually longitudinal located at gradational levels where they
encircle and embrace each other integrally and monistically.
Hence, simplicity and complexity are both unified and integrated in reality
resembling the diverse aspects of one sole reality that reveal the completion
and perfection of its being.
Thereupon, reality or life enjoys actually simplicity within complexity,
where simplicity means the unity of the multiplicity of complexity and
complexity means the abundant variety of the unified simplicity.
So, life is really simple within being complicated and complicated within
being simple, but never simple in contradiction with being complicated or
complicated in contradiction with being simple.
Such contradiction a lot of people and intelligentsias come to feel aint in
reality and intellectuality but ideality and mentality.
When we make life complicated in opposition with its simplicity in a way or
another, this means we arent sticking anymore to reality but to ideality,
since life in reality is simple and complicated unitedly and integratedly.
The same error we commit when we tend to make life simple in opposition
to being complicated.
Its like dealing with water as a simple element like in ancient chemistry
instead of being one molecule combined of two atoms of hydrogen and one
atom of oxygen in modern chemistry.
When we succeed to deal with things around as numerous details combined
and unified in one reality or as diverse specific realities integrated and
united in one factity, this will reveal the fact that we succeeded previously
to unify all the details of our personality in one cohesive united entity.

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(YouPurpose)
Albert Schweitzer said once that the purpose of human life is to serve, and
to show compassion and the will to help others.
How sweet and moving it is indeed!
Still, sweet words, sweet thoughts or sweet actions wont be really sweet
just by impressing the mind or sentiment.
Real sweetness aint an impressions outcome; impressions got twisted and
faked under certain conditions.
Real sweetness is actually an upshot of the beauty of reality as it is in
factity.
Never accuse the beauty of life by the ugliness of human twisted thoughts
and actions.
Anyway, when we talk about the purpose of anything, were either talking
about the reason for which something exists or for which it has been done
or made, and also about the goal or intended outcome of something.
By that, one could easily figure out in concord with whats going on in
reality related to the human real being away from idealistic, ideological,
spiritual or religious formulated visualizations and fabricated
structuralizations that the purpose of the human life focuses on the reason
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for which the human life exists fundamentally.
Ontologically, each and every being, reality or life exists for optimality
absolutely.
Existence in each and everything tends to find itself as it is in itself
genuinely, originally and authentically to the best possibility undoubtedly.
As to the human life, the human optimality in being circulates around the
main basic features, which are awareness, freedom and will.
Fulfilling the human life means fulfilling these basic essential human
characteristics undeniably.
However, the means to reach that optimality in beingness are
immeasurable and uncountable.
Thus, serving, and showing compassion and the will to help others
exemplifies specific approaches to fulfill the human reality in factity
optimally, but neither the very purpose of it nor all means to reach it.
(YouMeans)
Rich DeVos said once that the only things that stand between a person and
what they want in life are the will to try it and the faith to believe its
possible.
Surely DeVos meant by things standing between you and your goals in life
what you need to do or obtain in order to fulfill your tasks or else you wont
reach your objectives.
Its as if hes trying to say that in order to drink water and feel satisfied all
you need to do is to grab that glass of water and drink or else youll keep
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thirsty.
So far, its understandable and passable quite well.
However, things that stand between someone and his ambitions arent
ones will and awareness by all means.
One's awareness and will arent something external regarding ones own
reality.
They arent some medium of anything wanted or desired for ones own
personality.
What would stand between ones own personality including own basic
characteristics such as awareness, freedom and will as well as own abilities
and capabilities and one's aspired objectives in life should be something
else than ones own reality.
Thats either about positivities such as aiding means and terms, or
negativities such as hindering obstacles and difficulties.
(YouReputation)
Friedrich Schiller said once that I am better than my reputation.
Find Reality within and befriend You.

Find YouReality that would universalize YouPersonality.
Find YouPersonality that would trigger YouIntegrity.
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Find YouIntegrity that would initiate YouConfidence.
Find YouConfidence that would spark YouTrust.
Find YouTrust that would activate YouCompetence.
Find YouCompetence that would generate YouSatisfaction.
Find YouSatisfaction that would optimize YouHappiness.
Find YouHappiness that would fulfill YouRichness.
Find YouRichness that would realize YouPeace.
Find YouPeace that would harmonize YouBeauty.
Find YouBeauty that would treasure YouReputation.
Find YouReputation that would cherish YouReality.
(YouPerseverance)
Dwight L. Moody said once that if I take care of my character, my

reputation will take care of me.
Reputation and perseverance are often in confrontation and conflict
throughout the history of mankind.
Its been ever between what people say and what you say about you in terms
of your personality in general, or specifically about your thoughts,
intuitions, opinions, considerations, mindsets, convictions, judgments,
standards, approaches, or methodology cognitively, your feelings, instincts,
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affections, sympathies, concerns, compassions, impressions, or sentiments
emotionally, and your actions, deeds, activities, performance or conduct
operationally.
Reputation keeps strangling your personality socially and changing your
individual nature collectively.
It keeps tying you with anything you could imagine about chains, shackles,
and cuffs that reduces, restricts, threatens, damages and even terminates
your freedom.
On the opposite side, perseverance keeps releasing you from different kinds
of social organized and methodical imprisonment making you thus feel
youre yourself, defending your factual awareness, safeguarding your
realistic freedom, protecting your free will and saving your human
personality.
Having fair compromise between reputation and perseverance would be
done through controlling social reputation by individual reputation aided
and backed up by your own perseverance.
Let your individual reputation impress and influence shrewdly and
practically your social reputation but never vice versa.
Make sure you keep you in society.
Never let society make another you.
Never let society deform you.
Just let society support you getting improved.
Just let society aid you becoming a better you.
As long as your own individual reputation dominated by your own
perseverance controls and directs your social reputation youre pretty
alrightyoure actually you as you are in reality.
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(YouWisdom)
Alan Alda asked once to be as smart as you can, but remember that it is
always better to be wise than to be smart.
Amazingly and universally expressed indeed!
Being smart means showing intelligence and mental alertness, which is to
show highly developed ability to learn and apply facts keenly and astutely.
Being wise aint merely about showing good sense or good judgment, or
being knowledgeable about many subjects, but basically about showing the
refined ability to get connected to and interact with realities as they are in
factity cognitively and pragmatically.
Thus, getting smart wont be justified and advantageous but through being
wise systematically.
The more one gets connected to realities objectively and finds adequate
ways to interact with adeptly, the more one improves progressively to learn
and apply facts proficiently.
If wiseness is factual knowledge obtained via experience, smartness is
factual knowledgeability obtained via wise methodical tactics.
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(YouOrder)
Albert Einstein said once that out of clutter, find simplicity.
Pretty true and realistic to a great extent!
Existence that comprises beingness exclusively fitting therewith its very
essence and thus is free and pure of nothingness or nonbeingness is
everlastingly in order.
Being in order aint only a mathematical, artistic, architectural, or moral
issue as commonly grasped and dealt with.
Its fundamentally an ontological issue of a clear criticality.
Once disorder in beingness is thought about or hypothesized, nonexistence
occurs, obviously in the conscious imaginary and fabricating mind not in
factual reality absolutely, since theres no nothingness in thingness
unquestionably.
Ontological sensibility thus leads ones awareness realistically and
reasonably towards factual interaction with realities as they are in factity
far away from theoretical allegations and mental conceptualizations of any
kind and source.
Interaction with existence on basis of pure beingness even in cases of
apparent negativities including lacks, deficiencies, shortages,
insufficiencies, and absence related entirely to nonexistence will let ones
reality keep on the track of factity dealing shrewdly and astutely with other
realities rationally, intellectually and factually.
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Thereupon, all kinds of apparent clutter, mess and chaos related fully to
disorder arent but order itself indeed yet in an apt and insufficient way
only with respect to cognitive human standards.
Theres no disorder in reality by all means.
Theres no negativity in factity at all.
Theres no nonexistence in existence absolutely.
Negativities, disorder, and nonexistence are only to be found in the human
conceptual mind with respect to the human cognitive criteria.
Hence, realists by nature or by skill know well how to deal proficiently with
apparent disorder transforming it adeptly and effectively into actual and
aspired order under apposite conditions and appropriate situations.
Once order is obtained, as to human cognition solely, existence shines
bright again in the eyes of human sapienceand thus simplicity of all
apparent complexities will be acquired satisfactorily.
(YouAdaptation)
Charles Darwin said once that it is not the strongest of the species that
survives, or the most intelligent that survives. It is the one that is the most
adaptable to change.
How scientific, sapient and realistic it is indeed!
Thats quite true and impressive especially when it comes from someone
like Darwin who was considered as one of the most influential and critical
figures in the field of biology throughout the history of science especially
with his controversial theory about the evolution of species in his
prominent book On the Origin of Species.
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Darwin was the first to formulate a scientific argument for the theory of
evolution by means of natural selection.
Evolution by natural selection is a process inferred from three facts about
populations: 1) more offspring are produced than can possibly survive, 2)
traits vary among individuals, leading to different rates of survival and
reproduction, and 3) trait differences are heritable.
Thus, when members of a population die they are replaced by the progeny
of parents better adapted to survive and reproduce in the environment in
which natural selection takes place.
This process creates and preserves traits that are seemingly fitted for the
functional roles they perform.
Natural selection is the only known cause of adaptation, but not the only
known cause of evolution.
Other non-adaptive causes of evolution include mutation and genetic drift.
In the early 20th century, genetics was integrated with Darwin's theory of
evolution by natural selection through the discipline of population genetics.
Scientists continue to study various aspects of evolution by forming and
testing hypotheses, constructing scientific theories, using observational
data, and performing experiments in both the field and the laboratory.
Biologists agree that descent with modification is one of the most reliably
established facts in science.
Discoveries in evolutionary biology have made a significant impact not just
within the traditional branches of biology, but also in other academic
disciplines (e.g., anthropology and psychology) and on society at large.
In ontosophy/ontology, any existent inherits in itself the characteristics of
the reality of existence at all levels and degrees of beingness.
Each manifestation of the reality of existence that forms the so-called levels
of existence in ontology is the source or even the very same classified
specific distinctive existence called existent.
Existence thus exists by itself at all its levels aptly and sufficiently forming
the infinite variety of existents particularly, specifically and distinctively.
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Existents are thus classified existentially via the manifestation of the reality
of existence systematically and proficiently where existence itself is to be
found at apt and satisfactory levels forming thus the optimality of each
unique existent precisely.
The well-known biological natural selection has to be called therefore
existential selection ontologically.
Adaptation by existents refers thereby to the very reality of existence that is
gonna be found as each and every individual unique existent at each and
every gradational level of existence in beingness appropriately and
adequately where the very characteristics of the very reality of existence are
gonna be exposed up to these degrees of the intensity of existence at these
gradational systematic levels in beingness.
Survival in existence as each and every existent thus is to be traced
ontologically as a matter of existential adaptation of existents to the levels
of existence in beingness referring essentially to the proper and apt
locations of existence that reveal the very characteristics of existence
comparatively, adequately and satisfactorily.
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(YouNous)
Raise your words, not voice. It is rain that grows flowers, not thunder.
-- Rumi
--------------------It's neither your words nor your voice that would sound...
Its neither your expressions nor your impressions that would rebound...
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Its neither your conceptions nor your sensations that would round...
It was ever your core that would count
It was ever your nous that would mount
It is your reality that improves not your levels
It is nature that grows flowers not rain, sun, wind, or soil
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(YouMetamorphosis)
Jacqueline Novogratz said once that the only way we really create change
is to enter any situation with the humility to listen and to recognize the
world as it is, and then the audacity to dream what it could be.
Thats what I truly call a steady transcendental realistic move indeed.
First, its the realistic outlook on life fundamentally.
Any mere mental figuration of life based principally on sheer
conceptualities will push one further into a horrible world of fictionalities
and illusionaries contradicting essentially with the very reality of
YouHumanity.
Second, its the charming touch of objectivity (the core of humility or selfeffacement as well as realisticity and factuality) one enjoys throughout
ones journey towards apt and sufficient fulfillment in beingness.
Any degree of subjectivity (the basis of arrogance and narcissism as well as
ideality and ideologicality) one suffers from en route towards adequate
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satisfaction will drive one more into the abyss of self-torture and selfnullification.
Third, its the daring trustful and optimistic anticipation of improvement
and enhancement from life, in life and for life within ones own personality
and successively in others personalities as well as in the entire world.
Any kind or sort of cowardly mistrustful and pessimistic expectation of
development and upgrading will leave one paralyzed, inoperative,
ineffectual and worthless.
Keep realistic!
Keep objective!
Keep positive!
-- Transcendental PhiloSofia Feb 6, 2014
(YouUniversality)
Buddha said once that what you are is what you have been. What you'll be
is what you do now."
As a matter of fact, what you've been and what you'll be both are what you
Are now.
What youve been is YouExperience.
What youll be is YouHope.
YouExperience and YouHope both exist in YouReality.
Just introduce YouExperience to YouHope via YouUniversality.
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(YouHappiness)
Bruce Lee said once that some of us might find happiness if we quit
struggling so desperately for it."
A lot of people including intelligentsias confuse happiness with pleasure,
amusement or joyfulness.
Pleasure is a distinct instant emotional state achieved by meeting what one
wants, whether its adequate or not.
Amusement is a prompt shallow feeling of relief about something funny or
entertaining.
Joyfulness is a deep emotional feeling of ease, comfort and cheer.
However, happiness is a basic characteristic of the self or heart at the
essential or central level of the human reality located between the lower
psychical or spiritual level and the highest intellectual or noetic level
reached, earned and deserved by finding apt and adequate fulfillment and
satisfaction of the human personality.
Thus, happiness cant be wanted or traced fundamentally contrary to
pleasure or joyfulness, but can only be earned and merited by realizing
appropriate and satisfactory degrees of beingness via achieving aspired
apposite adequate objectives.
(YouSerenity)
Learn how to be connected to your own self all the time.
Be aware of getting detached from your own self for any reason.
Teach yourself how to have full control over all your personality levels.
Never lose control even temporarily.
If it would happen one time, it will happen any time.
If you lose control once, it will occur any time.
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It will occur out of sudden.
Train your own self to be in full control relentlessly.
Enjoy peace of mind even in windy circumstances.
Just feel the real connection with life.
Feel like an infant in own mom's lap.
Nothing could then disturb you.
Be fond of this feeling and experience it all the time.
You can obtain it if you want.
If you mean...you will.
If you intend...you will.
Keep alert even when numb.
Keep awake even when asleep.
Keep active even while resting.
Unify your personality.
Unite your statuses.
Get active while resting and relaxed while acting.
I know it aint easy to be aware of it.
I know it aint easy to apply it.
I know that youre gonna miss getting united.
It aint restrictedly because of you specifically.
It could be due to external factors.
Circumstances, conditions and situations could distract you.
Kids, spouse, kin, neighbors, work, society, etc. are all involved.
However, this problem is quite minor with regard to getting distracted by
your own self.
The problem will be then doubled.
That's a major problem indeed.
You feel you used to be more aware in the past even when you were facing
enormous problems.
The reason for that is definitely instinctive survival.
No thoughts
No overdo
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No exaggerations
Only purity and simplicity
Once you start spoiling your pure innate ability to survive with imaginary
thoughts, you start weakening.
Thoughts are only to help reviewing experiences, deducing outcomes and
developing plans.
Thoughts are not to interfere in action.
In action, we need to keep sticking to facts not ideas.
We need to start up with reality, go on with reality and arrive to reality.
We just need to flow with reality dynamically and progressively.
(YouPresence)
An Arab sage said once he, who sells his next life for his present life in this
world, loses both of them.
The religious concepts of this life and the hereafter i.e. today and
tomorrow or now and then in realistic approaches or dunya and akhira
in religious approaches, referred fundamentally to certain educational
technique in cultivating people towards apt improvement and satisfaction.
People who endure hardship and agonies in the Now are called religiously
to hope for a better tomorrow.
People who lost fortune and pleasures in dunya are called to bet on those
in akhira.
People who are forced to submit to tyrants and oppressors today are called
to dream of justice and liberty tomorrow.
People who are restricted to certain pressing circumstances and crushing
conditions today are called to believe in soothing circumstances and
comforting conditions tomorrow.
People who fail today are called to wish success tomorrow.
So, its all about creating a kind of trust and confidence in ones self and life.
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However, the illusion of time as grasped in ancient times, when the human
intellect in certain regions of earth was still developing gradually is solved
logically and scientifically via physics, cosmology and ontology as well as
ontosophy based upon realistic approaches.
Today is the Now.
Yesterday i.e. the living past in reality is the Now.
Tomorrow i.e. the living future in reality is the Now.
Bygone yesterday i.e. nonliving past is nothing and nonbeing.
Non-present tomorrow i.e. nonliving future is nothing and nonbeing.
Those who are dreaming of tomorrow arent aware that tomorrow when
reached is gonna be the Now.
Those who keep suffering from yesterday arent aware that yesterday is
actually the Now.
Past events and incidents are mere memories.
Actual events and incidents are in the Now.
Incoming events and incidents i.e. inactualities and unrealities are not in
the Now.
Once they become actual and real, they are no more tomorrow but today.
Hence, those who dream of akhira are called realistically to create it in
dunya.
Those who are betting on better tomorrow are called factually to establish it
today.
Those who are hoping of a better Next are called factually to construct it in
the Now.
Thus, those who sell their Now for Tomorrow are gonna lose both of them.
-- Transcendental PhiloSofia Mar 4, 2014
(YouDecisivity)
Eckhart Tolle said once that life isn't as serious as the mind makes it out to
be.
How could the mind ever make anything serious or not serious?
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How could the mind ever involve in realities?
How could the mind thus identify itself?
How could the mind dare to just take a look at life essentially?
All what could the mind do fundamentally under the effective adequate
supervision of the intellect or nous that interacts exclusively but
proficiently with reality is merely to conceptualize what has been
understood or comprehended by the self of what has been realized,
explored or detected by the intellect or nous in factity.
What could hold life for serious or not should be as real as life, and thats
the very human reality encompassing all its gradational levels in beingness
including both the nous and the mind.
Yet, since the nous is the highest level of the human reality by means of it
interacts with any reality as it is in factity, not only with its own reality via
the self, therefore the nous is exclusively what the human reality decides
with whether something is serious or not.
(YouReasonability)
Albert Einstein said once that two things are infinite: the universe and
human stupidity; and I'm not sure about the universe.
-- Posted by Spiegel Online Mar 14, 2014
--------------------------------I got well Einsteins deep point and thus approve of his caring goodwill
towards humanity.
I would like furthermore to agree with him on the existential permanence
of the universe realistically and reasonably.
However, I find myself not in consent with the idea of the unending state of
the human stupidity.
In fact, I was never in harmony with the idea of stupidity at all.
All what I used to see in factity is the lack of reasonability actually.
In reality, theres nothing called stupidity as long as theres nothing called
nothingness or negativity in factity.
There are apt and adequate degrees of reasonability i.e. positivity in general
or inapt and inadequate ones.
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Inaptness or inadequateness aint about some negativity in factity actually.
Its just a mental classification of the degree of some positivity that is quite
apt and adequate where it is, but needs to be upgraded following the degree
of someones ability and potentiality that could be actualized and realized at
higher levels in existence.
(YouEssentiality)
Leo Babauta said once that simplicity boils down to two steps: Identify the
essential. Eliminate the rest.
-- Published by DailyGood Mar 14, 2014
-----------------------------------------------------------Thats quite realistic and reasonable to a great extent.
Existence is all about essentialities.
Excessivities, avoidablities or extremes arent out there, but only in abstract
and figurative mentalities.
Everything in reality is merely essential and appropriate.
People visualize unessentialities or unnecessarities mentally for own
justified or unjustified reasons.
However, that wont make symbolic mental figurations real undoubtedly.
They were intentionally fabricated for theoretical or comprehensible
reasons restrictedly.
Yet, whats out there in factity will be always mere essential and
appropriate.
Thus, simplicity in factity prevails all over realities.
So, in order to conform positively to realities as they are in factity not in
virtual mentality, one gotta harmonize adequately and proficiently between
mentality and noeticality i.e. the mind and the nous.
Hence simplicity in factity is achieved via two steps: realize the essential
and eliminate the virtual.
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(YouLove)
"People were created to be loved, things were created to be used; the reason
why the world is in chaos right now is because things are being loved, and
people are being used." -- Unknown
-- Posted by Mahdi H Sherry
----------------------------------------How thoughtful and humane it is indeed
However, what would you say if we could manage wisely to generalize the
act of love to encompass and embrace everything in life, since life and all its
appearances are outstanding paintings of beauty and magnificence???!!!
What about trying to interact adeptly with the reality revealing that
everything including humans is there actually to be loved???!!
What about grasping sensibly the truth indicating that love ain't but life's
act towards its entire offspring including humans??!!
What about starting to act towards everything in life with love even those
things we need to use for our own benefits??!!
What a feeling you would have then when things around aren't anymore to
be used but to be loved??!!
Love your car, your laptop, your mobile, your food, your bed, as well as
your buddies, colleagues, fellow citizens, fellow humans, etc....
Give it a try and enjoy the awesome difference
(YouUniversality)
You are not your mind. Mahdi H Sherry
-- Posted in Mar 14, 2014
------------------------------------------Thats quite profound and universal.
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However, if we would mean by that we are our heart or soul instead, that's
spiritualism actually.
In contrast to materialism that focused only on the body and the natural
world, spiritualism reacted oppositely and concentrated on the heart or
soul dedicatedly.
Realists thus should be aware of such narrow limited trends that minimize
the universal human reality into definite levels in beingness along with
religionism, ideologism, etc.
Thats why I prefer rather to say:
I am not only my mind...
Not only my brain...
Not only my heart/soul...
Not only my intellect/nous...
I am all in one...
And all are in me...
I am the entire human reality encompassing all its gradational levels in
existence
Hence, I am my mind for sure as much as I am my brain, my heart and my
nous altogether unitedly and integratedly...
I ought to feel my entirety...
I gotta feel my universality...
Thats exactly my MeReality
(YouNow)
Eckhart Tolle said once that when your attention moves into the now,
there is an alertness it is as if you were waking up from a dream, the dream
of thought, the dream of past and futuresuch as clarity, such as simplicity.
No room for problem making JUST THIS MOMENT AS IT IS.
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As a matter of fact, your very attention ain't but the Now in its natural
dynamicity...
Its actually the attention of the Now living and functioning in you once you
enjoy apt and sufficient awareness
The Now ain't but reality's brilliant live presence manifesting via infinite
unique personalities in beingness including humans and others...
Interacting with the Now is thus the selfsame interacting with reality as it is
in factity far away from ideality and imaginarity...
However, reality ain't opposite to mentality or spirituality or even
corporality by all means...
I can't even say it controls the trio in terms of conquering, suppressing,
subjugating or even demeaning...
Reality loves them all
For, they are all reality itself in its abundant specificities
Reality just embraces its own levels in beingness affectionately and
sympathetically as it embraces own self exactly...
Reality finds itself in the Now absolutely
For, the Now aint but the wonderful reality in the glorious factity
The Now thus finds its own self at each stage of its dynamic
transcendentality and progressivity
Living the Now via free determined awareness not only strengthen ones
positivity, but also purifies it from the negativity of the pains of the past and
worries of the future
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(YouIndividuality)
Brigitte Nicole said once: Dont let people change the loving and caring
person you are. Dont let anyone get you down. Use the love and goodness
inside you to stay strong.
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You are a specific human reality undeniably
You are a unique human individuality unquestionably
You are a universal human life indisputably
Protect your human reality from all kinds of idealistic and ideologistic
dominions, suppressions and degradations
Protect your human individuality from all kinds of human collective and
social dominations, subjugations and humiliations...
Protect your human life from all kinds of dissolutions, cancellations and
terminations...
Protect YouReality...
Protect YouIndividuality...
Protect YouLife...
(YouFactuality)
Rumi* said once that everything in the universe is within you. Ask all from
yourself.
* A 13th-century Persian poet, jurist, theologian, and Sufi mystic
------------------------------------------------Everything in the universe including you is in factity.
You are one of the bountiful infinite realities of factity.
Although you're a universal entity combining within integratedly,
coherently and unitedly the main top characteristics of other entities en
route of general existential evolution, you're still you personally counting
most likely as the best beautiful being ever in factity.
Factity aint but existence itself manifesting through its entire definite
appearances with entire apt effects.
Reality is the selfsame factity yet quantified, identified and specified
distinctly and clearly.
Personality is reality exactly yet distinguished, individualized and
personalized uniquely and exclusively.
Hence, trace existence wherever you go and whatever you seek.
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Stick to factity far away from illusions.
Stand by reality not ideality.
Ask for YouReality as you ask for any other reality from factity.
Ask for YouPersonality as you ask for any other personality from reality.
(YouEternity)
The greatest gift you can give someone is your time. Anonymous
-- Posted by Israa Hmede
-------------------------------------Well, since time is everlastingly on the run and thus keeps vanishing, what's
meant by these compassionate words is all about caring and loving...
Hence: The Greatest Gift You Can Give Someone Is Your Care & Love...
When you give your time, you are giving a portion of your life that you will
never get back...
When you give your love and care both will remain forever
(YouRadiatity)
Plato said once: I shall assume that your silence gives consent.
-------------------------------------------Silence ain't always implying consent...
Sometimes it implies rejection as well as hesitation...
It ain't silence's call...
Its factity's absolutely
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(YouPresence)
Sadhguru said once that you can plan your tomorrow but you cannot live
in your tomorrow.
-- Posted by Rene Francis
-------------------------------Well, sure you can live your tomorrow undeniably...
Your reality is monistic and universal
Your Now encompasses all your experiences and aspirations
Your tomorrow aint but your today, as your yesterday is actually your today
as well
The past indeed is mere memories, but your yesterday is alive in your
today
The future indeed is mere dreams, but your tomorrow is alive in your
today
Others' tomorrow aint your business
Others' yesterday aint your business as well
You can care for others' tomorrow and feel sympathetic for others'
yesterday
By that, your reality is caring for and loving others' realities in factity
Plan for tomorrow as much as you like
But youre going to live your tomorrow as much as you live your today
So, care for your today in the Now for a better tomorrow of yours that will
become your today absolutely
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(YouPeace)
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Papaji* said once that if there is peace in your mind you will find peace
with everybody. If your mind is agitated you will find agitation everywhere.
So first find peace within and you will see this inner peace reflected
everywhere else. You are this peace! You are happiness, find out. Where
else will you find peace if not within you?"
* Hariwansh Lal Poonja known as "Poonjaji" or "Papaji" was a teacher of
Self-enquiry as advocated by Ramana Maharshi
--------------------------------------------Wunderschn tatschlich (beautiful indeed)...
However, peace ain't a private characteristic confidentially as it might be
falsely felt and comprehended, even if its personally undergone
It aint individual restrictedly as it might be deceitfully experienced, even if
it's called spiritually inner peace...
Peace is an existential characteristic absolutely and thus a solid positive
property or state of beingness
Its Mother Lifes quality by all means found by each and every living
being
Its factitys property
Its realitys state of being
Thus, its everythings characteristic
Its found all over the macro and micro cosmos
I can find it in hurricanes not only in calm breezes
I can feel it in tsunamis not only in mild waves
I can grasp it in earthquakes not only in green wild fields
I can sense it in thorns of roses not only in roses petals and leaves
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I can detect it in tears not only in smiles
I can recognize it in delivering babies not only in cuddling them
I can identify it in missing beloved ones not only in meeting them
Peace ain't realistically and positively opposite to war, combat, clash or
conflict as commonly and customarily recognized...
It aint opposite to disturbance, chaos, upheaval or turbulence as
sophistically grasped
It ain't the lack of lack or the negation of negation as the prominent
sophisticated Hegel and successively Marx might grasp (although both are
of opposite rational and theoretical trends)
Peace is actually one of the most influential positive traits of existence
found everywhere, anyhow and by everything
Its actually the solid steady secure state of self-concord and selfreconciliation in beingness
Whether found by individualities or collectivities...
Whether experienced internally or externally...
Precisely, self-peace ain't restrictedly inner peace...
Self-peace includes inner peace as well as outer peace
That's the difference between realism and spiritualism...
Still, realism embraces the factualities in spiritualism and materialism as
well as in ideologism and agnosticism...
Realism follows dedicatedly the traces of reality in factity no matter where
it is found and by whomsoever it is experienced or expressed...
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(YouNoesis)
Plato said once: I would teach children music, physics, and philosophy;
but most importantly music, for the patterns in music and all the arts are
the keys to learning
-- Posted by Chirine Beayni
-----------------------------------------How impressive and inspiring it is indeed...
Thats truly a great testimony of a great philosopher...
Plato let his famous aphorism be engraved in the stone over his academy's
gate: "LET NONE IGNORANT OF GEOMETRY ENTER HERE"...
Music and geometry both act as mind-sentiment influential stimulus
absolutely along with other mathematical and artistic activities
Continuous systematic progressive interaction with realities via scientific
observation and experimentation of shapes and sounds as in case of
geometry and music improves and enhances the human outstanding ability
of perception, rationalization and realization as well as
sentimentalization when dealing with major studies especially concrete
surveys and inquiries as in physics and ontology or more profoundly
ontosophy
Such combination between those two groups of knowledge, the main and
the supplementary or complementary, will support the human cognitive
ability and noetical potentiality for further advantageous actualization and
fulfillment...
This will deal especially for noesis i.e. the intellectualization and
rationalization of universal realities not only dianoia i.e. the perception and
experience of particular realities regarded as lower modes of knowledge...
All that will allow the entire human reality to keep dynamically
transcending towards infinite higher degrees in beingness...
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(YouLogos)
We need to find God, and he cannot be found in noise and restlessness.
God is the friend of silence. See how nature - trees, flowers, grass- grows in
silence; see the stars, the moon and the sun, how they move in silence... We
need silence to be able to touch souls. -- Mother Teresa
Silence is a source of great strength. -- Lao Tzu
The water in a vessel is sparkling; the water in the sea is dark. The small
truth has words which are clear; the great truth has great silence. -Rabindranath Tagore
--------------------------------------------------------------I've heard a lot about such extra imposed or enforced meanings,
abundances and rewards of silence...regretfully, they're mere imaginary
figurations...and moreover, they never caught the essence of silence in
reality...teachings of any kind and source about silence are null if they can't
earn it from reality but only from mere psychical or so-called spiritual
experience...any experience at any human level in beingness, whether it was
that of the brain, the mind, the sentiment, the heart or the nous, if it
werent realistic and factual, its not worth itit will be ever far away from
realityand thus far away from human realitywhat realists grasp of
silence has nothing to do with idealistic opinions, whether artistic, poetic,
religious, spiritual, psychical, etc...what realists cope with silence is its very
reality in factity beyond and above symbolism and aphorism...factually,
there's no silence in reality...speech was ever out there...speech is lifes
aspectexistence is ever speaking in so many ways...those so-called nospeech, no-noise, no-motion, no-activity and no-thingness aren't out there,
but only in the allegory and imagery of mentality...nothing is silent... silence
is no-thingeverything is speakingeven when you don't speak, your
tongues atoms and molecules speak along with each and every single
aspect of your life and being...existence in everything is eternally speaking
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never shut upnever got quietnever got stillnever got voidnot
speaking is a free action you exert in realitynever try to call nothing
somethingnever try to call the positive aspects of reality and beingness
such as quiet, calm, tranquility, meditation, peace, etc. silencethey
arentgive it a try and listen to your tranquility and calmtry to listen to
peace and restlisten to quietnesseven quietness aint silentI know it's
too hard and extremely painful to grasp realities in factity as long as we are
still stuck to preset ideas and solid opinions especially when they are
considered sacred and divine...were not gonna meet reality as long as we
are still under the power of the mindunder preset mental figurations...and
under predetermined conceptual formulations...it's nearly impossible for
minds that are fully saturated with thoughts, opinions, principles and
creeds of any kind and source to interact with realities freely, independently
and sovereignly...I often warned my own self first and my buddies next to
be aware of realism as school of thought opposite to idealism, ideologism
and religionism...I'm only in love with reality and with realism as mere
innate human tendency towards realities as they are in factity...I would like
to agree with Aldous Huxley when he went: After silence, that which
comes nearest to expressing the inexpressible is music.
(YouWellbeing)
Sadhguru said once that when you hold the wellbeing of others above your
own, that is devotion.
Well intended, yet idealistic comprehended
Such visualizations keep continuing among intelligentsias invading human
awareness for a certain degree of self-satisfaction
Neither moms nor teachers could ever do that by all means despite goodnight fairytale stories
Moms serve own selves by serving own kids
Teachers serve own selves by serving own students
Those who serve own selves and neglect serving others are stingy
Those who serve own selves against others wellbeing are brutal
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Those who serve others against their own wellbeing are foolish
Some are aware of this reality, but others arent
Thus far, both interact with this reality either aware or unaware
Being aware of realities you interact with provides you with the highest
pleasure you dream of or aspire to
Nave comprehension assumes its all about donating food, clothes, money,
time and so on
Genuine comprehension knows its all about real adequate self-satisfaction
integrating with universal human-satisfaction
The best kind of self-service and self-satisfaction is to be found within
serving and satisfying others as own self
Hence, when you hold your wellbeing as others wellbeing, or the wellbeing
of others as yours, then thats actually the real satisfactory devotion
-- Transcendental PhiloSofia Apr 1, 2014
(YouLife)
Aristotle said once that those who educate children well are more to be
honored than parents, for these only gave life, those the art of living well.
Well understood and well esteemed
The distribution of the roles of both parties is quite pensive and
sociological
Yet, beyond mere mental opinions and methodological outcomes, reality
speaks differently, scientifically and comprehensively
Everythings outcome bears exact resemblance to that very thing
Energy gives energy
Life gives life
Existence gives existence
Do parents give parents?
Do educators give educators (despite the case when some educated become
optionally educators not engineers or physicians)?
I know that the parents give children customarily
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But who gives life thats gonna be called sociologically children?
Definitely, life does
Life of parents, in parents, as parents or manifested through parents does
Still, not that portion of life like in parents that gives life to other portions
like in children
In fact, its life qua life in everything that does
Life as is that does
Life is one reality that manifests abundantly and infinitely through any
possible thing
Water is water, whether its found in a glass or ocean
Air is air, whether it's found in a room, in scuba or in lungs
Light is light, wherever its found and at any degree of color it manifests
Matter is matter, no matter how many infinite forms it might take
Hence, life gives life to parents and to children
However, parents deal as one of most influential conditions for the
emergence of childrens life
Moreover, life is rich with lifes characteristics among which knowledge
counts significantly
Life via knowledge gives knowledge to things that have the ability to acquire
knowledge
Hence, life educates those who are called educators and those who are
called educated as well
However, educators deal as one of the most influential conditions for the
emergence of knowledge by the educated
Deducibly, parents deal with the beginning and the continuity of life itself
by children, whereas educators deal with the beginning and the continuity
of knowledge of life by children
Thereupon, we can figure out what life gives children via brothers and
sisters at home, kin, schoolmates, neighbors, and so on
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(YouIntegration)
Honest differences are sincere variations and splendid diversities of vivid
similarities and energetic correlations stimulating advantageous integration
and boosting dynamic evolution guided by the genuine tendency towards
faithful unanimity and authentic unity.
(YouTranscendentality)
Apprehension needs Alteration
Alteration needs Regulation
Regulation needs Adaptation
Adaptation needs Aspiration
Aspiration needs AnticipationAnticipation needs Actualization
Actualization needs Experimentation
Experimentation needs Implementation
Implementation needs Determination
Determination needs Motivation
Motivation needs AffirmationAffirmation needs Verification
Verification needs AuthenticationAuthentication needs Genuineness
Genuineness needs Consciousness
Consciousness needs Awareness
Awareness needs RealisticnessRealisticness needs Specificness
Specificness needs UniquenessUniqueness needs Beingness
(YouDynamicity)
Paul Van Slambrouck said once that if you believe in the power of the
pursuit of the truth, no story is ever done.
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No doubt that the pursuit for the truth is as powerful as gaining the truth
itself regarding any reality, since its the very same power but in diverse
formations and is ever on the move as long as reality is ever on the move.
Hence, its indeed the monistic power of the dynamicity of beingness
manifesting in various forms and degrees.
So, no one is going to reach or find the ultimate truth as told in mythologies
of different kinds and sources and under different names and mottos, since
the truth wont be actually but in accord with reality that is ever-developing
and ever-dynamic.
What were exploring in reality is the ever-fresh details of each and every
reality in beingness.
The details of any reality reflected on interrelated truth are in fact infinite
and everlasting due to the infiniteness and everlastingness of beingness.
(YouMelody)
Some might visualize that YouMelody in life should match YouPersonality
or even YouIndividuality on basis of YouHumanity
Theres no doubt about the fact that humanism focuses basically on the
genuineness of individuality contra collectivity of any kind and source such
as families, tribes, sects, parties, communities, ethnicities, races, and so
on
Theres either no doubt about the verity that humanism focuses
fundamentally on the genuineness of personality contra any other
personality of any position or rank such as parents, kin, spouses,
colleagues, friends, and so on
However, realism focuses essentially on the reality of YouIndividuality or
YouPersonality definitely
So, it's not basically and essentially about matching YouMelody for
YouPersonality...
Thats quite unsafe and hazardous...
The horrible impact of YouSubjectivity pro YouIdeality might find place
within YouPersonality...
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Thats pretty anti-realism
Its neither about matching TheyMelody for YouPersonality by all means...
Thats pretty anti-humanism
The only way to protect and respect YouIndividuality and also
YouPersonality is by conforming both with YouReality
Just make sure that YouMelody of YouIndividuality or YouPersonality fits
optimally for the beautifulness and majesticness of YouReality...
Thats the wonderful world of reality not ideality
Thats the wonderful method of factuality not conceptuality...
Thats the wonderful track of PhiloSofia not philosophy...
Thats the wonderful way of Transcendental Realism....
(YouCapability)
Mahatma Gandhi said once that the difference between what we do and
what we are capable of doing would suffice to solve most of the world's
problems.
What we are doing today is what we are actualizing currently of our
available potentialities
What we are going to do tomorrow is what we aspire to actualize next of our
available potentialities
What we aspire to actualize tomorrow of our available potentialities relies
basically on the intensity of our will but also on the appropriate
circumstances and proper conditions
As to the intensity of our will, it aint monistically but our own awareness
yet on the move
Awareness loves mobility
Once mobile, it will be transformed into will
Thereupon, the amount of actual will is determined basically by the amount
of transferred awareness
But the amount of available intensity of will should match the intensity of
aspired goals in order to get achieved
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Hence, the available amount of transferred awareness should be equal to
the adequate amount of needed will to achieve aspired goals
So, its not possible to have the sufficient degree of will to take wise actions
if we have transferred a lesser degree of awareness
Thus, in order to have the compatible degree of will to perform full action
we need to transform the proportional degree of awareness
Thats why some meet success in achieving aspired goals, whereas others
dont
As to appropriate circumstances and proper conditions, they both assure
the actuality of our aware aspirations and thus help to make the amount of
transferred awareness quite sufficient to become the adequate amount of
will to achieve aspired goals successfully
So, realism takes into deep consideration all factors of the realistic
correlation between our reality and any other reality we aspire to meet or
achieve successfully
(YouBeauty)
Dr. Melchor Lim said once that difficult roads often lead to beautiful
destinations.
There're no difficult roads in life actually...
Theres no difficulty in life basically...
Difficulty is all about what we comprehend of things around and how we
deal with them...
Some find things around simple and easy, whereas others see them difficult
and hard...
Some interact with difficulty as simplicity that needs proper understanding
and adequate handling, whereas others interact with it as the opposite of
simplicity...
Some see things around united in one diverse abundant reality, whereas
others see them as opposite dualities or even opposite numerousities
Ontologically, difficulty ain't but simplicity that needs extra awareness, will
and capability for proper realistic matching...
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Choose one of two ways to interact with reality properly
Either you feel simplicity within and then start to feel simplicity around...
Or you feel simplicity around and then start to feel simplicity within...
Just feel realistically simplicity in life and then apply it anywhere
Life is all about naturalness...
Existence is all about simplicity...
Reality is all about easiness...
See things around as they are not as you imagine...
Deal with reality as it is not as you react...
Give reality what it demands not what you visualize...
Be united with reality and feel the greatness of existence...
March with the company of Sofia en route for Alitheia and enjoy the
beautifulness of destinations
(YouGiving)
Saint Francis of Assisi said once: For it is in giving that we receive.
Nicely uttered and positively expressed!!!
At least, it didnt separate giving from receiving primarily and essentially!!!
Thats quite awesome and marvelous!!!
That fits perfectly the glorious authenticity of monism!!!
That originates comprehensively from the genuinity of realism!!!
However, it aint only that we receive in giving not via giving!!!
Its moreover that we improve via giving!!!
Its that we transcend via giving!!!
Its that we be-come via giving!!!
Its that we be via giving!!!
Giving is the power of the dynamicity of existence within!!!
Giving is self-nurtured, self-raised and self-optimized!!!
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(YouRealisticity)
Robert Kaplan said once that travel is like a good, challenging book: it
demands presentness -- the ability to live completely in the moment,
absorbed in the words or vision of reality before you.
Understood well!!
However, travel is indeed a live experience in life full of transcendentalizing
motivations and optimal actualities
Experience qua experience - despite anything else it is related to - demands
actually genuine presence
Genuine presence - as for humans - means definitely cognitive presence
Cognitive presence aint about the virtuality of ideas and thoughts including
opinions and doctrines
Cognitive presence aint also about the primitive responsiveness or
reactiveness of spiritual/psychical feelings
Cognitive presence realistically is all about the universal factual awareness
of the human reality manifested comparatively at all existential degrees of
the human reality including the intellectuality of the nous, the
inspirationality of the self/heart, the emotionality of the sentiment, the
rationality of the mind and the neurality/neuronality of the encephalon
Living in the moment realistically is living reality actually far away from
virtuality of any kind and source
Even interacting knowledgeably with a book demands the genuine cognitive
presence of the human reality specifically via the power of reasonability or
rationality as well as that of advanced emotionality that conforms
amazingly to the touch of beauty in art such as literature or music
Although the reality of thoughts and ideas is called in realistic epistemology
virtual reality, the human reality possesses the influential ability to cope
with the virtuality of ideality via the genuine reality of factual knowledge i.e.
the human reality as being interacted with any other reality
-- Transcendental PhiloSofia May 8, 2014
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(YouTranscendence)
Rhonda Byrne said once that you are free to think thoughts of worry or joy,
and whatever you choose will attract the same kind back to you. Worry
attracts worry. Joy attracts joy.*
Both the theme and the goal of this quote are highly esteemed
However, it still endures the troublesome and confusing effect of duality to
a great extent
Scatter never pays
Harmony does
Realistically and monistically, worry qua worry aint out there in reality
Worry per se aint but a negative aspect in the eyes of reality
Negativities per se arent real
Negations ipso facto are mere mental formations
Only positivities are real
Positiveness or positivity is one of the influential and crucial aspects of
reality
However, positivities encompass an infinite range of systematic and
gradational system of degrees
Varying in degrees comparatively from sufficiency to insufficiency leads the
mind to form conceptually or virtually the so-called negativity contra
positivity, although reality stays positive at all degrees
Worry thus aint but calmness at a certain degree that demands optimal
sufficiency, although calmness at another degree is quite sufficient and thus
wont be labeled mentally as worry
Joy undergoes the same process contra sorrow mentally, although theres
only joy in reality at different gradational degrees
Hence, instead of exposing the human cognitive reality to the awfulness of
duality and its horrible consequences such as scatter and confusion, going
monistically in handling the issue of worry or sorrow requires referring to
calmness or joy at that very insufficient degree by transcending into that
sufficient degree of calmness or joy up to the stream of reality within own
personality and anything else
Thus, instead of fighting and demolishing the so-called negativities for the
sake of opposite positivities, one flows with reality monistically
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transcending a certain degree of certain positivity towards another
blooming degree
Eventually, instead of handling things around as split scattered entities and
then trying virtually to link everything together, one copes primarily and
fundamentally with everything around - whether entities or characteristics
of entities - as infinite diversities of the very genuine monistic dynamic
universal reality of all and in all flourishing and blossoming infinitely and
eternally
(YouMonisticity)
Aristotle said once that educating the mind without educating the heart is
no education at all.
The pedagogical objective is quite understandable
What feeds the heart differs from that what feeds the mind categorically
Thus, educating the mind is totally a different task than that of the heart
Yet, that applies to dualism precisely, even if professional dualists keep
emphasizing the integration within the duo
Anyway, monism tracks another way to deal with the apparent numerosity
of the human characteristics or aspects on basis of Transcendental
Realism
Monism observes proficiently the universal abundant aloneness of reality
everywhere in everything
Thus, it deals with the numerosity and multiplicity of the human
characteristics as mere diversities of the selfsame entity forming thus
diverse aspects and gradational degrees of the genuine unified unique
reality
That should mean were dealing with that very genuine unified unique
reality at any of its gradational degrees in being
Pedagogically, monism educates realistically the entire human reality once
dealing with physiological/neural, mental/conceptual,
emotional/sentimental, essential/central, or intellectual/noetical issues
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As to monism, one cant educate the mind without educating the heart and
vice versa
As to monism, realistic education focuses on the entirety of the human
reality even in the tiniest details of its characteristics, aspects or degrees in
being
As to monism, its not only improper and disadvantageous to educate the
mind or the heart without educating the other, but also educating both the
mind and the heart yet separately, although both kinds of education require
apt specification and proficient specialization
As to monism, one could only educate the human reality exclusively by any
of its aspects, at any of its degrees in being and via any of required
specialized techniques
(YouWisdom)
Plato said once that ignorance, the root and stem of every evil.
Not only ignorance is a controversial term that would lead to different
indications due to different purposes, inclinations or tactics, good and evil
are even more mystifying, perplexing and delusive
As to good and evil, Realism covering epistemology and ontology tends to
use more reasonable, applicable, accurate and clear terms such as positivity
and negativity
Both terms find appropriate and advantageous usage in epistemology and
ontology to a great extent
Thats how Realism by epistemology deals with the term of ignorance
Far away from fabricated or alleged usage of ignorance, realistic
epistemology deals with ignorance professionally and objectively as it is in
itself not as it is intentionally formulated due to certain conceptual
inclinations
The term ignorance is derived from Latin ignorantia, from ignoro, from
ignarus, from in + gnarus (not + aware), where gnarus is derived from
gnosco, from the Proto-Indo-European gneh (I know; I recognize; I am
acquainted with)
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Hence, the term ignorance leads fundamentally and objectively to not
knowing
However, not knowing deals basically as a normal state by the human
cognition that urges one intrinsically to delete the negation not and
confirm the affirmation knowing via the natural search-find process
Thus, ignorance in terms of the positive nature of not knowing will be the
root and stem of all good or positivity in life
Not knowing will thus involve in the human march towards developing
dynamically and transcendentally in being...
Thereby, what would be the root and stem of all evil or negativity should be
ignorance yet in terms of foolishness exclusively...
Foolishness the negative destructive kind of ignorance contrary to the
positive constructive one implies to the foolish that they know the truth
or even nothing but the absolute truth
The foolish lose consequently the natural tendency to experiment, search,
examine, criticize and explore the truth
The foolish lack the ability to be ever-dynamic, ever-searching and everexploring
The foolish of different trends even apparently opposite trends suffer
drastically from immobility and deterioration
Under foolishness one finds an uncountable series of thoughts, opinions,
principles and dogmas of any kind and source that possess the antagonist
ability to confront reality fiercely
Such horrible kind of negative destructive ignorance nourishes itself via
staticness, stubbornness, arrogance and viciousness
(YouKnowledge)
Carl Sagan said once that science is a way of thinking much more than it is
a body of knowledge.
Although Sagan was an American astronomer, astrophysicist, cosmologist
among other influential activities and advocated scientific skeptical inquiry
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and scientific method, he inclined to philosophize science the way he freely
and respectfully chose
Epistemologically, the difference between thinking and knowledge is way
substantial and vast
Thinking is the mental process that surveys, categorizes, analyzes and
synthesizes thoughts
Thoughts are ideas or arrangement of ideas that result from thinking
Ideas are often construed as mental representational images i.e. images of
some object, but in other contexts, ideas are taken to be conceptshowever,
in a popular sense, an idea arises in a reflexive, spontaneous manner even
without thinking or serious reflection e.g. when we talk about the idea of a
person or a place
Concepts are mental abstract representations of realities or facts
fundamentally or other concepts, expressions, narrations, texts, etc. that
mediate between thought, language, and referents
What were talking about until now is a world, realm or field of abstraction
and virtual objects that are located exclusively in the mind as one of the
human psyches capacities besides sentiment, which is the psychical
capacity responsible for the foundation of emotions
However, knowledge is essentially different from thoughts, ideas and
conceptions absolutely
In other words, knowledge aint a world of conceptuality or virtuality
fundamentally
Knowledge is philosophically about the familiarity, awareness or
understanding of facts or realities acquired through experience or
education by observing, discovering, and realizing
Knowledge can refer to a theoretical or practical understanding of a
subject but not thinking or idealizing by all means
Knowledge can be thus implicit as with practical skill or expertise, or
explicit as with the theoretical understanding of something
Knowledge moreover can be more or less formal or systematic i.e.
sophisticated or primitive/unrefined
In philosophy, the study of knowledge is called epistemology
Thereupon, science as familiarity, awareness or understanding of facts or
realities acquired through experience or education by observing,
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discovering, and realizing is a genuine authentic reliable system of
knowledge undoubtedly
Yet, the scientific skeptical critical methodology including scientific
inductive thinking applied while theorizing and equationalizing upon
experiments and discoveries aint science essentially, but mere logical
methodical rational mental means
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(YouEnlightenment)
To lead people walk behind them said Lao Tzu once
Although it might seem odd and bizarre habitually, yet he should have had
a totally different perspective
Walking behind people whilst leading them implies some kind of
considerate and caring attitude towards the followers by backing them up
and looking after them in the shared task of achieving aspired common
objectives but never bossing, kinging or emperoring them
Still, leading people in its positive sense wont be usually and professionally
about ruling or dominating them by all means
Thats kind of conquering people and subjugating them
It happened in the history of mankind quite clearly
Yet, it was considered as an awful deviation from the right track of
leadership
Leading people is positively and expertly about making an exemplar of your
own self for your team by walking in the lead when directing others towards
achieving determined goals
However, theres another way to push forwardly and successfully the march
of co-adventurers and motivate the team of co-explorers pretty differently,
remarkably and advantageously
Instead of the way of commanding or that of leading people theres the way
or art of mentoring others
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Mentoring others i.e. coaching or guiding them is actually about an
influential and proficient team work absolutely
The main and crucial difference between a mentor and her/his mentees is
advanced experience and significant knowledge whilst both parties are
standing on the same theater and dancing in the rain on the same street
A mentor aint thus a teacher, a lecturer, or a professor
She/he aint a holy preacher and definitely not an idol leader
The central point of mentoring is to develop transcendentally the entirety of
a mentee
Thats why the Mentorship techniques are gonna be spacious, precise and
dynamic requiring therefore befriending wisdom for optimal satisfaction
Mentorship by experience includes accompaniment, enhancement,
stimulation, catalysation, enlightenment and fulfilment of all mentees
comparatively
(YouGenuinity)
When your life runs naturally and you run your living harmonically, let
reality develop or keep developing within and out there autonomously and
proficiently...
Never interfere in reality and facts with your opinions or dogmas of any
kind and source...
Keep developing in reality via reality pro reality...
Your thoughts are harmless to your reality as long as they are mere
reflections of reality exactly like mirrors or photography...
Once your mind starts playing around by applying Photoshop techniques
on your thoughts, they will mess with you awfully and harmfully...
They won't show you reality as it is but as you think or idealize...
You are gonna enter a freaky world of pseudo-reality...
Oppositely, there's no harm with "realistic" thoughts and ideas once
running mirror-wise adequately and thus not observed independently and
separately from reality...
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Realistic thoughts and ideas will only show you your reality or any other
reality but never own selves as objects or realities...
Once you focus on thoughts solely pretending they talk about reality you
won't see reality absolutely...
You won't see you...
You won't see YouReality...
You will only see thoughts...
You will see mirrors not as mirrors but as objects...
Mirrors are actually objects or realities like you are...
But they won't function as mirrors once seen as objects...
Transcendental PhiloSofia - May 31, 2014
(YouReflection)
Joseph Conrad said once that words, as is well known, are the great foes of
reality.
---------------------Words are postulated principled sounds for disclosing hidden intentions
and meanings
Theyre expressions once they expose or uncover whats within your
reality
But if words would talk for imaginations, fancies, illusions, lies or
deceptions not facts and reality, theyre gonna be held for foes of reality
Fundamentally, words or expressions are manufactured by the power of
your mind just to talk for reality, extrinsically and intrinsically
Pointing at things and facts in reality, or intentions and feelings in your
reality is the most influential basic cause to invent words and shape
expressions
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They deal substantially as reality indicators,
and therefore are considered reality reflectors
Thats how impressions should be dealt with too
Impressions are natural inner responses to facts in reality basically
So, either they are coped with as they are or they could be manipulated for
certain goals
Conceptions and emotions at the psychical level of the human reality are
included definitely
Conceptions are invented mental items to indicate facts and reality
essentially, exactly like expressions
Emotions are advanced psychical feelings based on understanding
primarily and thus are akin to impressions
This quattro: expressions, impressions, conceptions and emotions are quite
risky if not taken care with via the heart or the nous
So, as long as your heart or nous keeps mothering that quattro, youre safe
and secure
That quattro will be your intimate friend in life
Once that quattro takes control over your heart or nous, youre doomed
It will be your fiercest foe in your life experience...
Keep realistic
Keep sapient
Keep alert
Alles Gute
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(YouFeeling)
Thinking ain't the apt and adequate means to know and comprehend
realities as they are in the being contrary to all idealistic ways of knowledge
of all kinds and sources...
It is only the act of concrete interconnection to, interaction and
intermingling with realities that draws the way of factual realization of the
being allowing the human reality to get transcendental optimally...
Thinking therefore deals as a mere means to organizing conceptions as
codes and symbols in the mind by the human reality at the level of its
psychicality...
That's the simple intrinsic way of factual scientific realism beyond
conceptual virtual idealism and philosophical abstarct realism as well...
Alles Gute...
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(YouLove)
The proper attitude the human reality would adopt is neither to EXIST nor
to LIVE, but to LOVE...
Being is enjoying the BEING as the ONE and ONLY out there...
Existing is enjoying EXISTENCE as the blossom of the BEING...
Living is enjoying LIFE as the blossom of EXISTENCE...
Loving is enjoying LOVE as the blossom of LIFE...
LOVE is getting connected, interacted, integrated, attached and unified
with LIFE in all its formations and transformations...
Be to exist...
Exist to live...
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Live to love...
Love to live...
Live to exist...
Exist to be...
Be to be...
That's genuine upgrading...
That's genuine growth...
That's genuine mobility...
That's genuine dynamicity...
That's genuine transcendentality...
That's genuine metamorphicality...
Besten Wnsche...
(YouKnowledge)
Real knowledge is earned in reality by reality...
Pseudo knowledge ain't knowledge indeed...
Real knowledge is your reality upgraded in reality via realistic reactions in
life's lab...
Realistic reactions in life's lab are life's experiences...
Life's experiences are different kinds of bonding and interaction with
realities in the being that will be reflected naturally on ones own reality...
Reflected realities on one's own reality via connection, interaction and
intermingling are the foundations of real knowledge...
All the so-called knowledge that is inherited from others wont deserve to
be called knowledge at all but casualy and metaphorically...
Collected or/and inherited knowledge are mere info symbolizing others
experience or also others' knowledge..
Having info about love ain't real knowledge and thus ain't love....
Real knowledge about the reality of love demands experiencing love in
reality....
Having info about success wont be called knowledge about success...
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Having knowledge about success requires having experience about success
in reality...
The only knowledge you obtain about any reality is what you experience in
reality not what you collect of info in your cultural and academic life
course...
Knowing thus about something realistically will make you become yourself
that very reality as your reality...
That means your reality is growing in reality via real knowledge about
realities...
Knowing about success, happiness or love in reality will make you become
yourself the very reality of success, happiness or love as you...
Thats why knowledge is one of the basic influential characteristics or
aspects of the human reality...
Its in fact the outcome of awareness, the most essential characteristic of
the human reality...
Thats why knowledge is as real and lively as the human reality is...
Striving for your knowledge hence requires striving for your experience in
life not for your info signifying the experience of others...
Striving for your knowledge is actually striving for you...
You are your knowledge...
You are your experience...
You are your real degree in the university of life that you deserve to earn
and feel proud of...
Virtual degrees of collected info from others indicating the quantity of info
you obtained aren't knowledge in realism and aren't you...
Never bet therefore on virtuality...
Bet ever on reality...
Bet ever on your reality...
Bet ever on your own life book...
Bet on you...
Be you...
Be YouKnowledge...
Besten Wnsche...
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(YouSolution)
Avoiding problems could mean keeping away from things or consequences
that would give you bad times or hardship in life...
Avoiding problems could mean too skipping unsolved problems and hitting
the road forwards leaving all that miserable stuff behind...
A wise realist interacts with problems as inapt and inadequate solutions in
reality...
A wise objectivist faces problems boldly and shrewdly calculating facts
pretty astutely and working them out skilfully to become apposite
solutions...
A wise positivist has the ability to transform problems into apt and
adequate optimal solutions...
That's exactly how a wise skilled farmer uses waste stuff as valuable
beneficial fertilizer in agricultural matters for better crops...
Besten Wnsche...
(YouFreedom)
Genuine freedom of the human reality is the authentic offspring of realistic
awareness...
The more youre aware of factuality beyond ideality, ideologity and
religiosity the more youre free from horrible individual imprisonment and
collective enslavement...
Besten Wnsche
(YouBeauty)
The Human Masterpiece
As long as the mind's conceptions including thoughts and ideas, opinions,
principles and beliefs arent but the reflections of the superior nous that is
fully connected to reality embracing facts, events, conditions, situations and
circumstances, the mental travel in existence will merely take place above
the time-space realm in an endless world of understanding and
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contemplation sculpturing therewith the human entity to become the best
miraculous magnum opus of reality in the outstanding museum of life
where everything there is a fascinating collection of rare unique
masterpieces of beauty and magnificence...
Besten Wnsche...
(YouLove)
Getting connected and attached to somebody or something means
realistically getting a greater, higher, deeper, brighter and keener You...
No bonding could be so delightful, strong, steady and dynamic like love,
since love is factually about full attachment and thorough unification
between two or more distinctive entities forming thereby an amazing
cohesive universality at a higher state or level in existence...
One may call such a trustworthy bonding NetLove or WebLove confidently
and contentedly...
NetLove or WebLove will manage to reveal the splendid reality of YouLove
clearly and resolutely...
Such YouLove has the sufficient power to embrace all beloved realities
within...
The YouLove will be thus quite universal...
Besten Wnsche...
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(YouBeing)
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Knowing what you THINK is Info...

Knowing what you ARE is Knowledge...
Selecting what you LIKE is Choice.
Selecting what you ARE is Freedom
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Liking what you FEEL is Pleasure
Liking what you ARE is Love
Doing what you NEED is Achievement...
Doing what you ARE is Fulfillment...
Reaching what you WANT is Success...
Reaching what you ARE is Happiness...
Beste Wunsche
(YouLife)
Never confront fear...
Never destroy fear...
Just embrace it with wisdom and love...
Transform it into calmness and confidence...
Let your life in you work on you for you...
Alles Gute...
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(YouObjectivity)
Face the taboos of ideologies and religiosities...
Analyze them realistically and reasonably...
Face the idols of traditions and customs...
Dismantle them scientifically and empirically...
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Refer to reality objectively...
Stick to facts positively...
Avoid illusions wisely...
Avoid delusions shrewdly...
Be your reality...
Be your awarness...
Be your freedom...
Be your will...
Be you...
Alles Gute...
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(YouLove)
Never try to challenge your reality by all means...
Just love it as it is in the being...
Then, youll love the entirety of you...
You'll love your nous, your heart, your sentiment, your mind and your
body...
Your factual reality aint as it seems to be limited...
It is mobile, developing and transcendental...
It is hence limitless...
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Alles Gute...
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(YouTranscendence)
Transcend all fancies and fallacies as well as idealities, ideologies and
religiosities...
Keep "Transcendent" of all kinds of negativities qua negativities...
"Transcend" however all lower levels of sensation, cogitation, ratiocination,
cognition and realization toward the optimum of all monistically and the
optimum of you universally...
Keep transcendental with regard to all positivities qua positivities and
negativities qua positivities growing wiser, improving steadier, and
ascending higher...
Beste Wnsche...
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