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8.6 Friendship
Aristotle discusses many virtues, both moral and intellectual,
throughout his Nicomachean Ethics. One sort of virtue, or concomitant
of virtue (EN 1155a35), merits special treatment because of its
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could be set aside if, that is, we have formed a perfect friendship
with that person. If we have reason to be virtuous, and friendship
is a virtue, then we have reason to develop perfect friendships.
Having developed such bonds, we will act for the sake of others as
an expression of our friendship towards them. If we are thinking of
their usefulness to us, then we are also thinking of them not in
terms of perfect friendship, but in terms of friendships of utility. It
seems unnecessary to agree that all friendships must be restricted
to mere friendships of utility. Moreover, it seems implausible that a
human being ourishing fully in Aristotelian terms would be disposed
to regard all others all intimate friends, all family members, all
whom we love in such narrowly instrumental terms.
Part of the reason that this seems implausible to Aristotle is that
we are likely to have appreciably dierent sorts of aective responses
to friendships based on utility and friendships based on goodness.
In order to illustrate the sorts of aective responses we can expect
perfect friends to evoke from one another, Aristotle frequently
appeals to the sort of spontaneous tender regard a mother has
for her children (EN 1159a28, 1161b27, 1166a59). It is a commonplace that parents willingly suer and sacrice for their childrens well-being. From the detractors point of view, perhaps the
behaviour of parents is irrational. From Aristotles, it represents the
normal human aective response to an object of love.