12

Secrets Of

SUCCESS

The secrets that govern the results you seek.

How do we measure success ?

Not by position. By a feeling of knowing you have done a job well. Not as compared to
others. Compared with what we are capable of doing.

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You will learn lessons.

There are no mistakes only lessons.
A lesson is repeated until it is learned.
If you dont learn easy lessons, they get harder.
Youll know youve learned a lesson when your actions change.

Failure isnt so bad if it does not attack the heart.

Success is all
right,
if too
it does
not
go and
to the
Dont feel
bad with
failure
fail tohead
restart again. Dont feel arrogant
after you succeed.

The Differences Between Fools, Common Man, and

Clever
Those
do notMistakes.
learn from mistakes Fools.
Man who
about
Those who learn from mistakes Common Man.
Those who learn from others mistakes Clever Man.

"If the ladder is not leaning

against the right wall, every
step we take just gets us to the
wrong place faster."
Stephen R.
Covey

What is the main difference between the people who

achieve and people who are average ?
It is their perception of failure and their response to failure.

If you have failed, are you a failure?

- a man who failed in business at the age
21
- defeated in legislative race at the age
22
- failed again in business at 24
- death of his sweet heart at 26
- nervous breakdown at 27
- lost in congressional race at 34
- lost a senatorial race at 45
- failed to become Vice President at 47
- lost a senatorial race at 49
- And was elected president of U.S.A. at
52

This man was Abraham Lincoln.

Would you call him a failure?

If you have failed, are you a failure?

- He faced many rejections
from news paper editors.
- He started Mickey Mouse.

This man was Walt Disney.

Would you call him a failure?

If you have failed, are you a failure?

- only three months of schooling.
- at 67 lost lab in fire.
- three weeks later he invented
phonograph.
- failed 10,000 times while working
on
a Light Bulb.

This man was Thomas Alva Edison

Would you call him a failure?

"It's not what happens to

us, but our response to
what happens to us that
hurts us."

You may lose battles, but you should win a WAR

When life gives you a 100

reasons to cry, show life
that you have 1000 reasons
to smile. Face your past
without regret. Handle
your present with
confidence. Prepare for the
future without fear. Keep
the faith and drop the fear.

Do you think, Winning horse is five or ten times faster?

No. Its not. It may be faster by fraction of a second. But the
rewards
are five or ten times greater.

Qualities that make a man successful.

Desire
Commitment
Responsibility
Hard Work
Character

Positive Believing
Give more than you get
The Power of Persistence
Pride of Performance
Be willing to learn.

What is holding us back ?

Unwilling to take risk

Lack of Persistence
Instant Gratification
Lack of Priorities
Looking for shortcuts

Selfishness & Greed

Lack of Conviction
Lack of understanding of natures laws
Unwilling to Plan and Prepare
Lack of Discipline

Here are 12 Secrets Of Success that Can Help You

Achieve Your Goal.

Secret # 1 : Align Your Values With the Principles

Success occurs when you align your values with the universal and timeless principles
that exist in our world. Stephen R. Covey teaches that values govern peoples behavior,
but principles ultimately determine the consequences.

"We see the world, not as it is,

but as we are - or, as we are
conditioned to see it."

Secret # 2 : Build Your Habits that Determine Your Character.

Our character is basically a composite of our habits. Because they are consistent, often
unconscious patterns, they constantly, daily, express our character.
Watch your habits; your habits will determine your character and your character will
determine your life. You cannot rise any higher than the fortitude of your character. Your
character is the foundation for your life, so if you want to change your life, you must first
change your character.

"To change ourselves

effectively, we first had to
change our perceptions."

Secret # 3 : Schedule Your Life Priorities.

The key is not to prioritize whats on your schedule, but to schedule your
priorities.
Schedule your priorities. If its important, it must be scheduled. What you dont
schedule wont get done. Know your priorities, and center your day on those activities.
Which brings you to your next point.

Secret # 4 : Focus On The Important Things In Your Life.

The main thing is to keep the main thing the main thing.
Never lose sight of the big picture, keep the main thing the main thing. Broken focus is the
number one reason people fail. Its not enough to start off on the right track; you must
successfully avoid the unnecessary distractions and attractions of life which aim to sidetrack
you. Keep the main thing, the main thing!

"Most of us spend too much time on what is urgent

and not enough time on what is important."

Secret # 5 : Imagination Of Your Future Success.

Live out of your imagination, not your history.

Your imagination pre-plays your future! Use your imagination to create the future that you
desire. You cant progress very far looking out of the rear view mirror of life; use your
imagination to look ahead. See your future as bright; if you can see it and believe it, you can
have it. Henry Ford said, Whether you think you can, or whether you think you cant youre
right.

Secret # 6 : Managing Your Life is Better Than Living Your Life.

To be a successful person you must put first things first; you must be able to distinguish
the critical from the insignificant, and you must always place the critical first: First in
order, first in priority, and first in rank. If you place the critical first, and if you give the
critical your focus and your attention, the effectiveness of your life management will
soar.

Secret # 7 : Balance the 3 factors : Change, Choice And

Principles

There are three constants in life change, choice and principles.

Change, choice and principles give you the power to achieve your dreams. You canchange
your life, if you align yourchoiceswith the timelessprinciplesthat produce success. With the
weapons of change, choice and principles, impossibilities become possibilities.

The first choice we make each

and every day is, "Will we act
upon life, or will we merely be
acted upon?

Secret # 8 : You Have To Make The Decision.

We are not animals. We are not a product of what has happened to us in our past. We
have the power of choice. Your decisions will ultimately decide where you go in this
life; youre not limited by the accomplishments of your parents, and youre not confined
to the achievements of your peers. You can achieve whatever you believe you can
achieve, and you can do whatever you believe you can do. The sky is your limit; the
world is your oyster.

While we cannot always

choose what happens to us,
we can choose our responses.

Secret # 9 : Have Commitments To Success.

"Ineffective people live day after day with unused potential."
As we make and keep commitments, even small commitments, we begin to establish
an inner integrity that gives us the awareness of self-control and the courage and
strength to accept more of the responsibility for our own lives. By making and keeping
promises to ourselves and others, little by little, our honor becomes greater than our
moods.

Secret # 10 : Try Your Best

"Trying to do well and trying to beat others are two different things. Excellence and
victory are conceptually different and are experienced differently . To learn and not to
do is really not to learn. To know and not to do is really not to know.To find out what you can
do best and you will simply feel better about yourselves when youre good at something."

Secret # 11 : Treat Failures As Lessons

When life does not go our way or we inadvertently make a mistake, it is so easy to
make excuses, place blame on others, or argue that circumstances were against us. But
we only progress in life to the extent that we take responsibility for our actions and
attitudes, and put forth the initiative necessary to create our own circumstances.

Secret # 12 : Never Give Up & Restart With New Strategies

Success is failure turned inside out. The silver stint of the clouds of doubt, and you never can
tell
how close you are, it may be near, when it seems so far, So stick to the fight when youre
hardest
hit. Its when things seem worst that you mustnt QUIT. Find the new strategies to win the life
war.

If you want to achieve your highest aspirations

and overcome your greatest challenges,
identify and apply these 12 success secrets
that govern the results you seek. How we apply
one of them will vary greatly and will be
determined by our unique strengths, talents,
and creativity, but, ultimately, success in any
endeavor is always derived from acting in
harmony with all of them to which the success
is tied.

In every impossibility,
there is a possibility.
Even the word
'IMPOSSIBLE' says 'I M
POSSIBLE'.

Thank You Very Much

Sompong Yusoontorn