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Source: THE POWER OF SELF-ESTEEM - An Inspiring Look At Our Most Important Psychological Resource
Nathaniel Branden PhD. 1992. Florida: Heath Communications, Inc.
Of all the judgement we make in life, none are more important than the ones we make about
ourselves.
These self-evaluations directly affect the way we act and react the values we choose... the
goals we set and how we meet the challenges that confront us.
The key to meeting these basic challenges and feeling worthy of happiness is having high selfesteem. Self-esteems components:
Self-efficacy
is our ability to think to learn, to choose and to make appropriate decisions.
Self-respect
is confidence in our right to be happy, and confidence that achievement success,
friendship, love and fulfillment are appropriate to us.
BELIEVING IN OURSELVES
Positive self-esteem is a basic human need. It is essential to normal, healthy development. If you
lack positive self-esteem, your psychological growth will be stunned.
Positive self-esteem operates as the immune system of consciousness, providing resistance,
strength and a capacity for regeneration. When our self-esteem is low, our resilience when facing
lifes problems is diminished.
Example: To contemporary women--who are shedding their traditional gender roles, fighting for
emotional and intellectual autonomy, starting their own businesses, invading one formerly male
basin after another and challenging age-old prejudices--self-esteem is indispensable. It is not all
that is needed for success, but without it the battle cannot be won.
Common Traps: When self-esteem is low, negatives have much more power over us than
positives. We are motivated more by the desire to avoid pain than to experience joy. But if we do
not believe in ourselves--in our efficacy or in our goodness and livability-the universe is a
frightening place.
HIGH SELF-ESTEEM
Women and men who have realistic confidence in their self-worth and feel secure within
themselves will most likely respond appropriately to todays challenges and opportunities.
Positive self-esteem empowers, energizes and motivates. It inspires us to achieve and allows us
to take pleasure and pride in our achievements. It also helps us pick ourselves up more quickly
after a fall, leaving us with more energy to begin anew.
The more solid our self-esteem, the better equipped we are to cope with the troubles that arise in
our careers and personal lives. Characteristics of people who have high self-esteem:
Ambitious
- People with high self-esteem tend to be more ambitious in what they hope to experience
in lifeemotionally, romantically, intellectually, creatively and spiritually. They have a
strong drive to express the self, reflecting the sense of richness within.
Goal-oriented
- They seek the challenge and stimulation of worthwhile and demanding goals. Attaining
such goals nurtures good self-esteem.
Communicative
- People with high self-esteem are more capable of having open, honest and appreciate
communications with others. They believe their thoughts have value. As a result they
welcome clarity instead of fearing it. They want to be understood.
Loving
- They form nourishing relationships instead of toxic ones. Vitality and expansiveness in
others are naturally more appealing to persons with good self-esteem than are emptiness
and dependency.
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