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2021 Park Place Blvd, #1305,

Bedford, TX 76021
Cell: (817)-983-8040
Fax: (817)-549-0100
May 23, 2013

Jim Short
Assistant Superintendent
Hurst-Euless-Bedford ISD
1849A Central Drive
Bedford, TX 76022
Dear Jim:
Subject: Needless impact on students welfare and Violation of Civil Rights: Most Recent
incident Tue. May 21, 2013.
I wish to acknowledge and thank you for your help in the past. However, despite your intervention I am
alarmed at the continued actions of some HEB ISD employees. Therefore, I am considering filing a Civil
Rights Complaint(s) with the US Dept. of Education in the required 180 days for the most recent incident
and request a waiver for late filing of additional complaints for prior incidents.
However, I am hopeful that you will note the seriousness of my concerns and address them in a satisfactory
manner so that I do not have to exercise this option. My daughters have attended HEB schools since 2006
and; I am otherwise satisfied with the rest of the experience.
Around Feb 20, 2013 (letter attached for ready reference), I contacted you for help restoring my access and
reinstatement of my access to my own daughters at school. For the third time, I was listed as restricted
from my own daughters resulting for the divorce and the endless series of false allegations against me for
over 3 years. I am well known at Euless and Grand Prairie PD Records departments for a series of false
allegations all subsequently dismissed. You confirmed on that day that my access was restored, yet to my
utter surprise I remained restricted as of Tue. May 21, 2013. On Tue. Harwood Counseling Secretary,
Kathleen Gotcher, informed me that per express instructions of Carla Docken, Dir. Of Counseling, I was to
be restricted despite having provided Harwood court orders on the week of Jan 14, 2013, your instructions
on Feb 20, 2013, and then providing a final court order on Fri, May 17, 2013. As your assistant Linda
Storer stated this is HEB ISD employees personal emotions overpowering the boundaries of their
professional capacities resulting in the potentially serious health jeopardy to my daughter(s). This is also a
classic tactic of Parental Alienation (PA).
Sadly, Lindas common sense is uncommon similar to the Police Records customer reps who have long
ago realized the truth, inquire, and wish me well. I also acknowledge Dr. Toby Givens for extra initiative
for restoring my access the second time at the beginning of the current academic year.
I respectfully submit for your consideration that there is a perhaps the need to educate HED ISD employees
about recognizing, side stepping, and dealing with PA. Fortunately, the worlds foremost expert is locally
based and N. Texas is ground zero for a global grassroots movement to increase knowledge on this
problem. In 2010, Brazil became the first country to enact civil and criminal penalties for alienators.
PA is also now recognized as a severe form of child abuse with serious resultant physiological lifelong
problems. I will forward an email with ample resource links for your perusal. Please realize that ironically
HEB ISD employees are inadvertently enabling PA and the resulting severe child abuse and in this case
additional health neglect.
Linda wisely pointed out that by these actions; the divorce war is spilling into the school aided by
employees who are letting themselves to be drawn in. On Dec 16, 2011 my wife called the Police at

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Wilshire Elementary while I was dropping off my daughter at school after my court granted overnight. I
quietly worked with Carma Shellhorn, Joshua Leonard, Judy Ramos, and Patrick Smith to defuse the
situation quickly and quietly. Euless PD promptly dismissed the complaint as unfounded. Wilshire
principals were initially swept up in the drama as documented in the police report but were open minded
when I subsequently approached them to set the matter straight. In the same spirit, I met with Dr. Toby
Givens and Kathleen Grimes at Harwood at the beginning of this academic year, shared relevant
documents, and obtained consensus to keep my home and the school drama free safe zones for my
daughters. I am disappointed with the Harwood Counseling department for exacerbating the problem and
failing to let my consistent nurturing actions speak for themselves. I had gently communicated my concerns
I felt since 2010 about the counselor to Dr. Givens at the beginning of this academic year.
Also, I apologize that this matter is taking you all away from the primary business of educating the
children.
Since 2010, I have had Wilshire teachers who upheld me as a role model of the caring involved parent for
5 years suddenly turn 180 degrees. I have had others violate my parental trust earned at school by acting as
covert information gatherers disguised as concerned friends outside school.
I also thank you for within 24 hours providing the bulk of the school records with affidavit of authenticity
last week. These records confirm PA. I am listed as an afterthought much later with partial contact
information so as to interfere and delay my involvement in schooling. This pattern repeats in medical care
and almost all aspects of parenting classic PA. The Jan 4, 2013 ex-parte motion, order, and supporting
affidavit (more on this in previous letter attached) were promptly faxed by mom from her work to the
attention of the school counselor. Please note that an ex-parte order is obtained without the other party
present to defend themselves. The horrific embellished complaints readily result in a temporary restraining
order. In this case, the indicated mandatory follow up court date listed (Jan 14, 2013) indicated its expiry to
be superseded by the already submitted orders reinstating my visitation. Yet sadly HEB ISD continued to
enforce an expired, temporary, and superseded ex-parte order from Jan 14, 2013 May 21, 2013 (see
attached for more)!! Although CPS has initially swallowed the red herring, family court astutely and took a
more moderate position. PA tactics involve leaving out such vital information so as to not dilute the
emotional hijack of the target subject. I hope you start to see the convoluted incendiary mess that has
resulted in adult employees perceptions. Now imagine the magnified effect of the same on a childs mind
not mature to cope with such mental tsunamis against their own parent against 50% of the childs own
persona an quantum/exponentially greater knockout blow.
I have patiently absorbed all to this point and our daughters being subjected to this in plain sight by none
other than the HEB counseling department!! I now have to firmly insist on hard boundaries so as to restore
the school as a safe drama free zone where our two daughters welfare is foremost and my civil rights are
no longer blatantly violated by unbounded emotions based on a naive susceptibility to a pattern of clever
manipulations already noted by the family court personnel.
I pray that HEB ISD will be able to address these egregious violations properly so that my older daughter
and I do not have to re-live this at Trinity HS next year. I also hope that other parents in similar
circumstances will experience far better at HEB ISD. Also, since I am always left out of the school to home
information flow, may I request an alternative means to be kept in the loop.
Thanking You,

CC:
1.
2.

Steven Chapman, Superintendent

Carla Docken, Dir. of Counseling

Attachments:
1. Previous Letter on same issue 2/19/2013

Yours Sincerely,

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(VINEET
T.
Parent
Name

MANSUKHANI)

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Bedford, TX 76022
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February 19, 2013

Steve Chapman
Superintendent Hurst Euless Bedford ISD
1849 Central Dr.
Bedford, TX 76022
Dear Mr. Chapman:
Subject: Correction of School Records
On Jan. 25, 2013, I contacted Assistant Superintendent Jim Shorts office to restore my parenting access at
Child2
Harwood Junior High for my daughters Child1
Juhi and Mansi
Mansukhani.
Principal Dr. Givens informed me
LastName
that parenting access could not be restored on the basis of the attached Jan 14, 2013 court order because it
was handwritten. Please note that my access continues to be curtailed without basis by HEB ISD since Jan
14, 2013.
Dr. Givens informed me that my wife had faxed the attached temporary restraining order dated Jan 4, 2013
which restricts me from coming near the school and having access to the children. It also states that is
temporary only until the next hearing scheduled for Jan 14, 2013 when the order restoring my access was
issued. The temporary restraining order was issued ex-parte i.e. without my side represented. Since it was
temporary and not extended it expired on Jan 14, 2013 when the new orders were issued.
Child2
Mansi
is scheduled to be stay after school for Athletics this Thur. Feb 21, 2013 until 4:30 PM, it is my
evening possession immediately after school, and I need to pick her at school. However, per the old
expired order which HEB ISD continues to enforce past its expiry the situation is now reduced to a get
arrested for coming to school to pick up your child in full legal compliance. I hope you can start to see the
truly odd situation created by HEB ISDs position.

I request you reconsider a humane and supporting parental involvement approach.

Further, the Jan 4, 2013 order was issued solely on the basis of the affidavit of the former Childrens
Amicus attorney who was in violation of rules. The attached Jan 11, 2013 motion to Remove or
Disqualify Amicus also heard on Jan 14, 2013 was granted by the court is attached Order on Motion for
Withdrawal of Counsel. So besides HEB ISD continuing to enforce an expired order denying me my
parental rights without basis, HEB ISD is acting on orders that were issued on actions of the Amicus
Attorney that led to her removal/disqualification. I respectfully request HEB ISD act in a manner that is
consistent with its Continuous Improvement and Accountability goals.

Thanking You,
Yours Sincerely,

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(VINEET T. MANSUKHANI)