Module 1 Part 5: Build Your Tribe

Table of Contents

Your Environment
Importance of Your Tribe
The Dos and Donts of
Building your Tribe

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Your Environment

As we jump into the second module of the Unstoppable Confidence for an Unstoppable Career
program, we will begin to transition into outer confidence and how that affects our inner confidence,
how were perceived by others, and how to attract the success we want! However before we
transition into the next topic, we do have one more step left in building the inner confidence.
So far we have talked about reverse engineering, the most important part, where we relearn
ourselves and get back to the root of us, the ability to release past doubts and beliefs so that you
can successfully move forward, and rebuilding our mindset to see the positive through journaling,
words of affirmations, and of course mirror talk.
It is crucial to build our inner self love and confidence before we jump into involving others and the
outer confidence! Remember as a society we are often exposed to the results but very rarely are
we exposed to the journey and mud we need to get through in order to obtain those results! The
results which are happiness, success, confidence, romance, health, and beautiful relationships with
others.
Working through our inner self helps us stomp through the mud in order to build the true definition
of confidence. Once we learn how to control our thoughts and become self motivating, we will
create the clarity needed to move forward and build our dream life! This means building our dream
career, relationships, romance, health and overall;

LIFE
This is realistic! Building your dream life through your confidence and clarity can be done!
Unfortunately the majority of people think its a fantasy. A fantasy to live a life that you 100% enjoy.
But in fact, it is not a fantasy, it is something that can be done if you want it bad enough and are
willing to work towards both inner and outer change!

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CLARIT Y

CONFIDENCE

SUCCESS

CREATE

CAREER
MONEY

HEALTH
RELATIONSHIPS

HAPPINESS
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You are becoming more aware of yourself and understanding who you are! The fastest way to
success is redefining your true needs and wants, and building the confidence to go after them! You
are well on your way and have spent time working on your inner confidence that is between you
and you! The commercial below is the perfect example of that! It symbolizes the concept of you vs.
you and shows that your are the only one that can truly take yourself to the next step, to fight
yourself when youre getting in your own way, and to push yourself beyond limits that you may have
created in you!

Click below

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The Importance of Your Tribe!

Now that you have gotten used to this new idea of inner confidence and self love between yourself,
we can implement the final step to inner confidence! A step that can be difficult as it may feel
indirectly related to you, however it is directly related to you! The final step is your environment and
how to build your surrounding tribe! A tribe of positivity, loyalty, kindness, and progression.
By now it is no secret that many of your doubts and limiting beliefs come from your surrounding
circumstances which includes the people that have come into your life. It has been proven that your
peers, family, and friends can in fact diminish your self esteem and break your confidence. Especially
with your loved ones who mean the most to you. We tend to put more weight in their words and
thoughts and often believe everything they say even when it pertains to us.
Ironically today, as I create this module for you, I had two different coaching sessions with two six
year old boys. Each of them on two different unrelated encounters told me No, they cant do it,
when I asked them to try something.I asked them, Why, and both of them said, because its
hard! Of course I gave them a little confidence power talk but this is a perfect example of how their
surroundings, whether its parenting, others kids, or teachers, have gotten into their little six year old
minds creating limiting beliefs!
Up until you were in your twenties you didnt have much say or choice in your surroundings. You
were probably too young to make a change or understand that the environment that you were in was
in deed affecting your developmental process. You may have been in a surrounding environment that
was hurtful, abusive, or negative. Due to you being younger you had no control who came into your
life, how you were parented, whats friends were around you through your childhood, how teachers
treated you, and what environment you lived in.

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These above factors all had a huge influence on your confidence which is why some people are
naturally more confident than others; because of the environment they were in during their
upbringing. We as adults are a reflection of our past childhood and environment. The fastest way
to understanding someone in their adult years is to talk with them about how they were raised, who
and what they were surrounded by, and what pivotal experiences occurred before they were 18-21
years of age!
You are now at an age were you have the ability to create your environment and pick and choose
who should be a part of your surroundings. Although this is difficult, it is incredibly crucial! As the
great Jim Rohn said, You are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with! Who you
have in your life now affects your confidence, happiness, success, and of course your overall life!
As you get older it is important that you get to know your strengths and weaknesses and build your
tribe accordingly to better fit you. Your tribe should not only make you feel great but it should make
you better! If you are lacking in confidence than you want to surround yourself with confident
people who are going to make you feel great! If youre trying to build a business than you definitely
want to surround yourself with people who have a built a business!
The people you hang out with and the environment you put yourself in is a direct reflection of you
and your success. You will manifest the qualities and characteristics of the people around you if
you dont choose wisely and think about Why they are in your life or Why you put yourself in
certain environments.
It will be hard as mentioned earlier because often times its our closest friends and family that are
doing the most harm. So how do we create that distance without destroying the ties or family
bonds? Or in some cases do we need to break the family ties completely?

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Practice #1 Your Ideal Tribe

With this simple practice I want you to make a list of qualities you need and want in your friends
and tribe. I want you to pretend you are building your ideal friend. What qualities would they have?
How would they act? How would they treat others?
MY IDEAL TRIBE MEMBER IS:

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Dos and Donts of Tribe Building!

Must HAVES When Building Your Tribe

1. Have a strong sense of what it is you need from your tribe. What are you struggling with and who will be
able to balance that struggle for you?
2. People that are honest but compassionate. Meaning people who will tell you the truth but in a kind and
progressive manner!
3. Honesty with purpose. Friends who will tell you the truth so you can genuinely be better and grow from
it. If theres no solution or progression behind their comment its not needed!
4. Positivity! People who will see the bright side of things opposed to focusing on the negative.
5. Continuously Developing- Those who are constantly growing are constantly moving forward! You want to
be around these people!
6. A supportive tribe who will be there for you when youre feeling down or not at your best.
7. A diverse tribe with people who have different skills, views, and ideas on life.
8. People who believe in you and want to see you succeed! (This is always the case)
9. A tribe that doesnt talk poorly about other tribes or people!
10. A tribe who understands the concept of an equal relationship. Both parties give, both parties receive!
Essentially you fill each others buckets!

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Must NOTS When Building Your Tribe

1. People who bring you down and constantly look at the dark side of things!
2. Those that have a hard time being honest with you.
3. Friends who say hurtful things for no reason without any purpose other than to hurt you.
4. Know it alls! A lack of humbleness and stifled growth will stifle you and cause you to settle and lose
motivation.
5. A tribe thats only there when they need you!
6. A group of people who are all the same, all the way around! NO BUENO!
7. People who are jealous of you.
8. Those that get a kick out of laughing and talking about other people.
9. People that have continuous self negative talk! You will manifest that if youre not in a place to overcome
it!

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Tribe Tier
50% of the tribe who are at
the same level, wanting to
grow and need support and
someone to relate to through
the process.

50% of the tribe who are one

step ahead and are where
you want to go!

ONE STEP AHEAD

50%

LIKE MINDED
50%

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Practice #2 Re-evaluate!
This practice may be a bit difficult for you as we are going to currently reexamine your current
tribe.
Take the top 10 people in your life who you spend the most time with. This can be friends,
family, or colleagues.
Write their names down in the far left column and begin to evaluate their role in your life. Do
they make you better? If so write down how or do they bring you down? If so, how? This is
something you truly need to think about so you can begin to build a tribe that is loyal, kind, and
supportive.
After you write down which category each person falls under and why, I want you to rate the
overall relationship between 1-10 (10 being a must have in your tribe, 1 being a dismissal from
your tribe). Consider how much you need them in your life when you rate them. For example is
this person a relative that lives with you or just someone you see occasionally?
After you are done, evaluate your responses for the 10 people. What category carries the
majority of your friends? Whats the average of the tribe scores? (Add them all up and divide
them by 10 for your average).
Refer to practice #2 template

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Practice #2 Re-evaluate!
NAME
For Example: Sam
2.
3.
4.

DO THEY
MAKE YOU BETTER?
Yes, Sam is always
kind and continuously
teaches me about
various business tips
and strategies. He
pushes me to better in
my career.

DO THEY
BRING YOU DOWN?

OVERALL TRIBE
SCORE

N/A

10- Sam is a must in

my tribe!

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