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When Paul Olson returned from a tour in Iraq that assist personnel and families preparing for
where he served as an Army company commander, the stress associated with deployments and post-
his wife, Erin, was interviewed by Ashley Stetter deployment programs to help personnel make a
of the Army News Service about how she coped smooth transition back and overcome the challenges
with their long separation. She said she spent time of reintegration.
wondering where her husband was, what he was To be successful, programs need to help service
doing, and whether he was thinking of her and and family members express their feelings. The
the baby they were expecting. Having witnessed a Survival Guide for Marriage in the Military, used
number of problems that other wives were having, in the Beyond the Yellow Ribbon Program, provides
she noted, “I’ve seen many marriages fall apart due topics that stimulate discussion among married cou-
to the stress that deployments put on Soldiers and ples. This program is highly successful in reducing
their families. Life in the Army is hard, and you relationship problems following deployments. It has
have to be truly committed to the other person and become the national model throughout the military.
the life you’ve built together in order for it to last.”12 Although the military has chaplains and licensed
Licensed counselor and retired Navy chaplain counselors who offer partnership programs that
David A. Thompson works with the Minnesota can strengthen relationships and develop important
National Guard in the Beyond the Yellow Ribbon skills, many people in the military community do
Program, which assists Minnesota National Guard not use these services. For example, when a mar-
and reservists and their families. The program riage enrichment retreat was scheduled for a major
focuses on reintegrating guard personnel and reserv- naval installation that hosts over 100 tenant com-
ists into their civilian and family life after extended mands and employs some 19,000 personnel, only
deployments to Iraq and Afghanistan. After witness- two couples attended the all-expenses paid weekend
ing the dissolution of many marriages following event. Unfortunately, only a very small percent-
12-month deployments or longer, he has no doubts age of married and single service members attend
about how relationships can be harmed or dissolved chaplain-sponsored retreat programs, and many of
because of multiple long-term deployments. He those that avail themselves of counseling services
maintains, “If couples have good communication only do so when their problems have reached a
skills, strong support networks, and skills in being critical and often incurable stage.
resilient, they have a good chance of weathering the
‘storm of deployment.’ If they lack these tools in
their toolbox or don’t know how to use them, they …those that avail themselves
are high risk candidates for marital problems at the of counseling services only do
end of a deployment.” so when their problems have
The Yellow Ribbon Program, conceived by Major reached a critical and often
General Larry Shelito and Chaplain John Morris,
trains personnel and families to deal with deploy-
incurable stage.
ments through—
●● Family prep academies—60 days before
deployment. Proactive Marketing Strategy
●● Family readiness academies for family mem- In an effort to encourage personnel and couples
bers—30-60 days before service members return to make early use of counseling services and sup-
from deployments. port programs, the chiefs of chaplains and family
●● Reintegration training events after deploy- support directors might consider employing a
ments for service personnel and their families. marketing strategy similar to that used to sell
commercial products. For an example, a depart-
Programs to Help ment or grocery store offers shoppers sample
With the accelerated operational tempo following products. Whether it is perfume or a new food
the 2001 terrorist attacks, all of the military services item, if the sample is pleasing, the customer may
have developed both predeployment programs purchase the product. As another example, movie
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