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push him around or scold him to get him to do what was considered to be a normal task
for children in his age group. He got accustomed to putting his stuff away when he comes
back from school or just go to the driveway with the hope that he will help me and get his
reward as soon as he sees me pulling up into the driveway. This kind of made me very
happy because when I looked at it from the behaviorists perspective, early responses
are crucial for development because children learn habits that endure. (Berger, 2014, p.
29). This was not the case before, since he would be playing around the house when his
room is all messed up or while I unload the stuff from the car. I was very impressed by
the fact that the rewards (namely the candies which, to me, do not appear to be that
significant), were enough to get him to change his mindset. This went a long way to
demonstrate that the findings of the behaviorists proved to be more practical than
theoretical because, building on the experience I acquired from interacting with my
youngest son, I assumed that if this could work with him, it would probably work with
most children. I was not wrong though: My older children seem to be following the same
trend. As a result, there is much more harmony in my home because the shouting and
scolding have replaced by a softer technique which is actually more beneficial to all of us
in the family, and for two reasons. The first reason being that the rewards spared me the
headache with its lot of pain relievers, the second reason being that my children now feel
more comfortable doing what I am excepting from them and that makes everyone a lot
happier.
References
Berger, K. S. (2014). Invitation to the life span (2nd ed.). New York, NY: Worth
Publishers.