What is love? Love is a complex perplexity that has been defined by countless people; yet, no one has ever been close in grasping its true nature. One may turn to his/her dictionary to look for the meaning; however, even the dictionary cannot define this exactly. We then ask, how will we know if were already in love if we, ourselves, cannot even identify it? It is an intricate question; indeed, we often confuse love with various feelings like lust and infatuation. Nowadays, we had our own crushes and immediately thought that it was love; hence, the catchphrase I am in love with you and the ever-popular love at first sight. (but I dont believe with those) People carry the belief until they grow up. They are being blinded by this sad thing. What we dont know is that its not love; in fact, it is called Infatuation.( Before we start what is infatuation . Infatuation is an intense but short-lived passion or admiration for someone or something example he had developed an infatuation with the girl. Or in tagalog infatuation is pinapangarap or hibang) .We know its infatuation since Infatuation is distinguished by a lack of trust, loyalty, commitment, and reciprocity; in addition, there is the presence of the obsessor and the apple of the eye, which of course may or may not be attainable. For Us (kid), theres infatuation; however, for young adults and adults alike, there is lust. Lust, also known as lechery (Horny or in tagalog is Libog), is an impure act that involves ones desire of the flesh of another. Lust is prevalent in teenagers and adults alike. Whenever they see an attractive person, they feel infatuated and afterward, think of unclean thoughts involving them and the concerned person. What is sad about this is that once their desires have been met, they grow tired and eventually leave their partners.
What is really love then?
What really is love then? Is it safe to say that love is anything that doesnt fall under infatuation and lust? Love is definitely a deeper feeling; on the contrary, infatuation and lust are simply feelings that are too shallow. Love is simply too complex to be talked out; subsequently, many people still end up being perplexed by love. This makes love a very special feeling; uniquely, it gives one an experience that no other feeling could give and that includes lust and infatuation. When everything is said and done, we can all say that love is indeed a wonderful feeling which can be talked about for a very long time. For us nowadays dont mind love but I am not saying that dont infatuate with someone but do it with limits. Im just saying that dont mind love because love can affect our future life for example if we fall with someone of course we get feeling with someone but that feeling can cause your future destroy. So for me is study well then follow first your ambitions or deams in life before you get love with someone thats all. Thank you
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