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Devemos ser muito cuidadosos com este tipo de frase, pois os filhos podem
carregar o peso delas por toda a vida! Por isso, antes de dizeres qualquer coisa
ao teu filho, pensa bem. Poucos adultos so conscientes do que dizem.
Experimenta gravar o que dizes enquanto ests em companhia dos teus filhos,
depois ouve e presta ateno s palavras. Tenho a certeza de que com isso
vais descobrir muitas coisas, algumas das quais podem ser um pouco
desagradveis.
This translates as: You ruined my life, I want you to disappear. You shouldnt
exist. Naturally, a child can end up with a deep sense of guilt if this kind of thing
is said to them; he or she may think that they are the reason that their parents
are not happy.
So, you have to think very carefully before you say something to your child. All
of these phrases could have profound consequences for a persons life; they
might end up carrying the painful burden of something said to them without
thought for the rest of their days. It might be a good idea to have someone
observe what you say for a while, if you cant manage it yourself you might
find room for improvement, in a way which could immensely improve your childs
life.