ElementsofOrgasmControltraining

FrommyownexperienceandthoseIhavemetandcorrespondedwiththere
seemtobealimitednumberofelementsthatareusedinorgasmtraining.Any
giventrainermayusehis/herowncombinationofthem.

1.Puttingthesubjectinhighlysuggestiblestatesisoftenused.Thiscanmean
hypnotism,butitcanalsomeanjustmakingsuggestionstoawomaninbetween
orgasms,oritcanmeanthesubjectusingasuitablemantram,affirmingthe
control,duringmeditation.

2.Conditioning.Pavlov'sdog.Alwaysgivethesamesignalbeforeshecomesso
thatthesignalbecomesassociatedwithapleasurableoutcomethenbreakthe
connectionbetweeneroticstimuliandorgasmsothatthesignalbecomes
necessaryfororgasm.

3.Highlyarousedstates.Havingahighlyarousedsubjectlowersthebarriersto
respondingtoasignal.Thisisespeciallyimportantinearlystagesoftraining.

4.Consistencyoffocusonthetrainingisneededoveraperiodoftime.The
exceptiontothismaybetheuseofhypnotism.

5.Intenseconnectionoveraperiodoftime.Whilenotanabsoluterequirement,
asdescribedbythoseIhavemet,itseemsthatthegreatestdevelopmentof
orgasmcontrolistobefoundinthosepractitionerswithlongterm,committed
relationships.

Somethingwhichisnotneededisthesubject'sbeliefthatshecanbetrainedto
comeoncommand.Almostnowomanbelievesthisaboutherselfbefore
experiencingit.Shedoesneedtobewillingtocooperateandnotresistthe
training.Itisalsoveryhelpfulifthewomanisreadilymultiorgasmic(Thereare
vanillatrainingprogramsforthisifsheisnot.).

Theelementsabovecanbecombinedorsometimesusedalone.Ihaveseen
othersusehypnosisandposthypnoticsuggestionstoestablishorgasmcontrol
veryquicklywithoutusinganyoftheotherelements.Ihavealsohaddescribedto
methatthemansimplyhadthesubjectmasturbateintenselyeverydayfora
monthwithoutcoming.Shethencameimmediatelyonhiscommand.Another
singleelementcase.Mypersonalpreferenceisforslowerprocessesusing
conditioning.

ThemethodwhichIhaveusedtogaincontroloforgasmsisprimarilybasedon
conditioningwithsuggestionandhigheroticchargebeingimportantcomponents.
AlthoughIhavetriedwithseveralwomenandbeensuccessfulwithtwo,the
perfectionofmymethodshasbeendevelopedwithmyslave/wifeslavegirl
whichisdescribedbelow.

Istartedbytellingthesubjectwhileshewasveryturnedon,whilef*ckingor
such,thatshewouldreachapointwhereshewouldcomewhenIcommanded
withoutfurtherstimulationandwouldbeunabletocomewithoutmycommand.I
emphasizedthatthiswouldrequirenoeffortonherpartbutwouldbeadeeply
embeddedtrigger.Thiswasrepeatedmanytimesaswewentalongduringand
aftertheinitialtraining.

TobeginIaskedhertoalwaysaskforpermissionbeforecoming.InitiallyIgave
herpermissionimmediatelywhensheasked.ThenIstartedgauginghowlongshe
couldholditoffandwithheldpermissionuntilIthoughtshewasabouttofail.I
madesurethatsheneverfailedatthis.ThenIincorporatedstoppingstimulation
whensheaskedforpermissionandwithholdingpermissionforashortperiod
beforegivingpermission.Eventuallyextendingthistoaminuteorso.Ialsothen
startedgaugingwhenshewascloseandcommandinghertocomebeforeshe
askedandbeforeshehitherpeakexcitation.Ifshefailedtocomeoncommandor
camewhenIhadnotcommanded,rareoccurrences,Itookresponsibilityforit

andemphasizedthatshewasnottotryanddoanything.TellingherIhadjust
madeamistakeliketryingtomakeherjumpfurtherthanshecouldnow,butthat
withfurthertrainingshewouldsucceedinthis.Ipraisedherwhethershecameor
not.Ifshefailedtohaveanorgasmitwasforshowingmehertrueresponsesso
thatIcouldtrainher.Thisisveryimportantsothatshewouldntbetrainedtojust
trytopleaseme.

(Ishouldsaythatoneshouldbeveryfamiliarwiththesubjectsorgasmsbefore
doingthis.Watchherorgasmsindetail.Watchhermasturbatetoorgasm.Learn
thesignsofarealorgasm.Oneofthedangershereisthatthesubjectmaydeeply
desiretopleasethetrainerandthiscaninterferewiththetraining.Iattemptto
getaroundthisbyknowingherresponsesindetailandbyalwayspraisingher.)

ThefirsttimeshecameoncommandwasataclubinLA.Wehadplayedandthen
watchedanothercoupleplay.ThenItiedheronherbackwithherpussyelevated
soherwetthongwasveryvisible.Shewasveryturnedon.TheothermasterandI
thendiscussedhowturnedonshewas,etcwhilestandingoneithersideofher.
Whenitwasclearthatshewasveryturnedon,Icommandedhertocomewithno
physicalcontact.Sheimmediatelyhadamodestorgasm.Duringtherestofthe
eveningIhadhercomeoncommandseveralmoretimesandthesebecame
stronger.

AfterthateveningIstartedgivingherorgasmsoncommandjustwithslight
pleasurablecontact.Suchthingsashuggingherforafewsecondsandthengiving
thecommand,orbrieflystrokingherbreastsorbutt.Thisisstillthewaytoget
thestrongest,quickestresponseandIstilluseittoreinforcehertraining.ThenI
movedtosurprisingherinnonsexualsituations.Thistypicallyworksverywell
especiallyifshedoesntseeitcomingatall.Shedescribesfeelingaflowofenergy
intohercrotchwhichthenexpandsintoanorgasm.

Theseorgasmshavethetypicalsignsofreddeningofupperchestandfaceaswell
aserectionofnipplesandviolentuncontrolledbodycontractionswhichcould
causehertofallifIdidntsupporther.


Havingachievedthis,Iemphasizedhernotbeingabletocomewithoutmy
command.Atfirstshecontrolledthisbyholdingherbreathandtensingup.We
hadmanysessionsinwhichIwouldtakehertoveryhighlevelsofexcitementand
thencoachherinbreathingoruseothermethodstogethertorelax.Eventually
shegottowhereshecouldgopastwhereshewouldnormallycome,reaching
higherlevelsofexcitementwithoutcoming.Afterabout4yoftrainingI
commandedherthatshecouldnotcomebuttoldhershewastotrytocomeby
stimulatingherselfaseffectivelyasshecould.Shebecameveryexcitedandacted
likeacrazedanimaltryingtogetherselftocome.Whenshewasunsuccessfulshe
startedcryingbecauseitscaredher.

Intheyearorsosincethiswasachievedshecameonceinadreamwhenshe
dreamedthatIhadcommandedhertocome.AcoupleofothertimeswhenIhad
herveryexcitedandgaveherintensepaintoherclitorvaginashecame.
Recently,however,withcontinuedtraininginthissituationshenolongercomes
evenwiththatcombinationwithoutmycommand.

Iwanttoemphasizethatthisisnotorgasmdenial.Beforethistrainingshewas
essentiallyinfinitelyorgasmic,abletohavebacktobackorgasmsformorethan2
h.Withthetrainingshehasfewerorgasms,usuallyonlyafewaday.Sometimes
asmanyas20orsoifweplay.Herorgasmsareentirelyatmywhimand,asItell
herandsherepeats,theyhaveonlytwofunctions.Igiveherorgasmsonlyformy
pleasureortodeepenherslavery,neverjustforherpleasure.Sowhathas
changedisthatshenolongerhasanycontrolofwhenshewillcomeor
knowledgeofwhenIwillcommandit.Ialwaystrytoleaveherlessthansatiated.

Arousalstatesbeyondtheorgasmic

Attemptingtoopenadiscussiononhigherlevelsofarousalthatrequireorgasm
control:

Forme,orgasmcontrol,whichasdefinedinthisgroupmeansconditionedcontrol
oftheabilityofacontrolholdertoelicitorgasmsfromasubjectwithouther
consciousinvolvement,hasneverbeenanendbutjustonebeginningstepinthe
dominationofmyslavegirl.Ihavewrittenhereaboutusingthistotrainfor
increasedmasochismandvariousotherthingsaswellasherinabilitytocome
withoutmycommand.IhavealsoemphasizedthatOdenialcanbea
counterproductiveplacetostartforsuchtraining.WiththiscontextIofferthis
descriptionofourcurrentexplorationsoferoticstatesthatmayonlybereached
withorgasmcontrol.

Ihavelongrealizedthatprolongededgingcanbeaverypowerfulandpleasurable
stateandhavehypothesizedthatifonecouldwithholdorgasmbutcontinue
stimulationitshouldbepossibletoreachhigherlevelsofexcitementthan
orgasmiconesandthattheycouldbeprolongedaslongasthestaminaofthe
subjectpermitted.TheexperimentswhichIhaveconductedoverseveralyears
withmyslavegirlhavebornethisout.Thatis,whenIwithholdorgasm,remember
shecannotcomewithoutmycommand,andgiveheroverwhelmingerotic
stimulationshereachesplaceswhichshedescribesasbeingmuchmorearoused
thanorgasmandofcoursemuchmoreprolonged(thesearenotsubspaceasshe
isfullypresent).Sheprefersthemtoorgasm,thoughinitiallysheoftenwas
intenselyfrustratedanddesirousoforgasms.

Mostrecently,associatedwithmyuseofhypnotictrancewithherontopofher
conditioning,ithasbeenpossibletotakethesethingsmuchfurther.Although
trancehasgreatlyfacilitatedthis,Idontbelievethatmostoftheeffectsachieved
requiretrance,thoughsurelytheyhappenedalotfasterbecauseofit.Ishould
alsosaythatthetranceusedfirstoccurredspontaneouslyduringaheavysession
andIexploiteditandcontinuetodoso.Isuspectthattranceoftenoccursin
heavysessionsandthatthedeeperformsofthisarehighlysuggestiblestates
whichwithalittleknowledgeonthepartofthedomcouldreadilybeexploited.
(Ifyouareinterestedinthisyoumightwanttolookattheerotichypnosisgroup
andinformyourselfabouthypnosis.)

Whathasbeenachievedthroughconditioningandsuggestionaswellas
conversationwithhersubconscious(whichisprofoundlysurrenderedtome,I
believeasaresultoftheyearsofconditioning.)isthatbrutalwhippingofherclit
tomcat,stinger,elkflogger,etc.resultsinherreachingwhattheconsciousand
unconsciousagreearethehighestlevelsoferoticarousalandthehighestlevelsof
painthatshehaseverexperienced.(Somuchsothatshesometimespassesout.)
Allthiswithnodesirefororgasmatallandnotinsubspacebutfullypresent.
Wheninthisstateshejustdesperatelywantstobewhippedharder,andlongerto
takeherhigherinarousalandkeephertherewithoutthoughtoforgasm.She
nowsaysthatwhenshemasturbatesorfantasizesshenolongereventhinks
aboutcoming,theobjectiveisalwayssevereerotictorturewithitshigherstates
ofprolongedarousal.InthefutureIwilltrytotakehertohigherlevelsofmental
arousalbyusingtrancetosomewhatdisconnectherphysicalresponsestotorture
fromthementalonessothatherphysicalresponsesarereduced.

Imputtingthisoutasanexampleofwhereonecangowithdetermination,time
andcommitment.

BeforeIstartedwithfistf*ckingin1993Inearlycouldn'tgetanorgasmifI
workedhardonithappenedmaybe5%ofthetime,theother95%wasfilled
withfrustration.Thefirstexperiencewithfistf*ckwasabouttomakemeorgasm
whilegettingalotofsensationsfromwhereIveryeasilygetassorgasm.Iwent
intototalpanickyandtriedtopushouthishand.Luckyformehewas
experiencedanddiditslowly.Forthenext4550minutesIdideverythingI
possiblycouldnottoorgasm,takingacoldshoweretc.Feltmostofthetimeit
wouldjusthappenwithoutmorestimuliifIdidnttrytoavoidit.

Ifinallysucceededincontrollingit,buttheenergydidntgoaway,nowitcouldnt
getanoutletfrommybodyasanorgasm,itmoveditswaythroughmybodyand
openedsomeofmyhigherchakras.ThefollowingdaysIwentaroundthecamp
lookinglikeamonkinNirvana.MyonlyregretwasthatIcouldntengageinsex(I
lookedforwardtothatweekallyearandnowIwasteddaysbybeingcontent),

butifIshouldhavetriedtohavesex,Iwouldhavehadtotrytobuildupsome
kindoftensiontobeabletoneedtherelishforit.AndIcouldntandwouldnt
eventry,becauseIhadneverbeforefeltsogoodaboutmyselfandfeltharmony.

Iwasluckyheinvitedmetovisithim3monthslater,andIusedthistimeto
inducesomeofthesamefeelingandlearntobeabletodealwithitandtryto
findout,whyitfeltsofrighteningforme.Ivisitedhimfor10daysandIknewin
beforehandItrustedhimsomuch;Iwasreadytolethimkillmethatswhatmy
fearfromthefirstexperiencefeltlike.

Thefourthdaywehadsex,mywillingtoopenmyselfforhimandallowhimto
pushmyfearandpain,didntbringmethefearedorgasm,butIcameintoastate
ofenlightenment.ImsorryIcouldntmanagetostayinthatstate,Istillwasnt
evolvedenoughasapersontobeabletohandletheinsightIgotIhurtpeople
whenIwantedtotellthem,whattheyshouldchangetosolvetheirdeepest
problems,butIdiditwithouttheunderstandingthatwhattheyneededmostalso
givesthemthemostpain.

Overthenext2yearIlearnedtoget9differentkindsoforgasms(Isawalist
with8differentkindsoforgasm,andIcouldsayIcouldgetthemallandone
thatwasnotmentionedandevenmorepowerfulthantherest).Inthetimein
betweenhisandmymeetings,IfoundouthowIcouldbuildupmesexualenergy
throughmyeatingandhowIcouldusethesexualenergyforworkpurposes.ButI
couldntpostponetheneedtoletitoutasanorgasmmorethan30hours.

LaterIgotmarriedwithamanwithevenmoreorgasmicpossibilitiesthanIhave.I
likedtoexplorethedepts.ofhissexualitylikeyouexploreyourslavegirls,andI
learnedhowtogivehimthesamekindsoforgasmsasIcan+wediscoveredtwo
more,Ienviedhim.

Hecontinuedtoenjoybeingforcedtogetoneorgasmaftertheother57with
semenand3040otherkindsoforgasms,wejustcalledthemassorgasm,
becausetheydontnecessaryleadtoaejaculation.HecouldntunderstandI

didntdothesame,whenIwasinthereceivingend.ButIhadtriedtofeelso
exhaustedfromgettingorgasmsInearlycouldntrebuildmybodyenergythe
followingdays,soIwouldratherfeeltheenergyinmybodyandhowitinfluenced
mymindthanjustgettingoutletforalltheenergythroughorgasms.

Ihaventbeenthinkingsomuchaboutthedifferentkindsoforgasm,soIwould
needcommunicationtobeabletogetintouchwithallIfoundoutbackthen,but
ifyoushouldwantto,Idliketogiveyoufeedbackonsomeofyourthoughts
abouthigherlevelsofexcitementbeyondorgasm.FrommyexperienceIcansay
thatwhentheenergyishigh,someoftheorgasmsdoesnttakesomuchofthe
totalenergy,buttheycanbeawaytotorturesomeone,becausethebody
becomesmoreandmoresensitivefromthem,soifthestimuluscontinues,itcan
feelveryhardinagoodwaybecausethebodystillhaveenoughenergytogo
throughwhathappenstoit.

Differenttypesoforgasm

Ibelieveitshouldactuallybesomethingwhichyoucansimplyassociateand
thereforetriggereffectively.Ithastobedone,asarepeatedassociation,while
achievingclitoralorgasmthroughstimulation,withyourverbal'cum'
trigger/command.

Topreventtaintingtheresults,whileassociativelyembedding,avoidanyvaginal
stimulation,otherthanwhatisrequiredforachievinganedgeoforgasmstate.In
otherwords,it'sokaytostiminthesenseofsaying'throb'orsomethinginyour
eartobringtomindyourpussycontractingandcausingit,toupthesensations,
butonceyouareedged,someclitstimshouldbeapplied,verbaltriggersusedfor
yourclitonly,thecommandtocumissued.Youshouldhave,asemi
physical/semiverbalclitstimorgasm...

Dialthisback.Uselessandlessphysicalclitoralstim,andreducetonothingthe
amountofvaginalstimulationyoureceiveverbally.Focusentirelyonyourclitoral

sensationsthroughverbage,notphysicaltouch.Reachedge,receivethecum
command,whileassociating(keepingtopofmind)theedgebuildingsensationsto
thecommandtocumitselfandkeepingyourmindnotonyourjuicybox,butyour
sensitivelil'nub.Youshouldbegin,overtimetobeassociatingalledging
associationswithyourcumcommand,anditshouldbefocusedonyourclitoral
sensations,nothingelse.Atthispoint,startdialingbackanyedgingverbageand
useonlythecumcommandtofacilitateedgingandorgasmthroughtheclitoris.

TheconcernImighthave,isthatifyoudoitthisway,youmayoverridetheability
tohaveasolidvaginalorgasmbycommand.Anotherwaytodoitcouldbeto
interlinkthevaginalandclitoralbywayofaslightlydifferentcumcommand.Say,
'Cum,HARD'beingsaid,insteadofsimply'Cum'.Thiscouldbesomethingthat
allowsforthenonstimulatedclittobestimulated(throughassociationsand
edgingmindyou,ofcourse,followingthesameprocessesabove)bythevaginal
contractionsandorgasmsyouhaveandtofollow,supportandintensifyyour
orgasmingeneral,throughasimplecommand,soyoumightstillgetavaginal
orgasm,butyoucanalsohavetheadditionofaclitoralorgasmsimultaneously...

Differenttypesoforgasm2

Thereareanynumberofwaystoanchorthedifferentstates(clitoralorvaginal
orgasm)youcanusekinetic,verbal,orvisual.Isuggestanonverbalanchorto
startwithsinceyoualreadyhaveoneorgasmtypeanchoredverbally.Ifyouusea
kinesteticanchorthenuseonethatisunlikelytobetriggeredrandomly.Ifyou
bumpyourelbowonbusridesthenthatcouldposeaproblemsotrystroking
yourankleorpullingyourearlobe.Betteryet,useahypnoticsuggestionthatthis
worksonlyiftriggeredbyyourtrainer.

Thismaybetooadvancedandit'sbesttokeeptheanchorsimple.

Ifyouuseaverbalanchoranditisdonebysomeonewithsomeexperiencedin
controllingtheirtonalityandyouareabletoeasilymakethedistinctionsbetween

yourcurrentcommandfororgasmandthenewonethenverbalwillworkfine.If
notoneitheraccountthenchooseanothermodalityaltogethersuchasI
suggestedabove.

Youcanhavegoodresultseitherway.

Yes,ifyouwantyourclitoralandvaginalorgasm'storemaindistincttheyou
shoulddefinitelybecarefulnottoconfusetheanchors.ifyouwantsomeother
typesoforgasmthenyoumighttryexperimentingwithcombinations.

Eitherway,thebiggergoaloffullbodyorgasmsoncommandmightbeworth
spendingsometimeon.

Ihavetrainedseveralwomentoorgasmoncommand.

Here'show:

First,shemustlearntoorgasmreadily.Iuseavibratorforthis.Inourinitial
sessions,Irepeatedlyvibratehertoorgasm.

Inthesecondphase,shelearnstonotorgasmwithoutpermission.Ivibrateher,
makingherwaitlongerandlonger,beforegivingpermissiontoorgasm.Imay
brieflyremovethevibrator,thenputitback,inordertodrawoutthetimebefore
herorgasm.Permissionisalwaysgivenintheformofthecommand"Cum!"
precededbyintenseeyecontactwhichtellsherthecommandisabouttofollow.
(Withonewoman,Iwouldalsoseizethehaironthebackofherhead.)

Inthethirdphase,shehasherfirstorgasmswhilenotreceivingphysical
stimulation.Asinthesecondphase,Ivibrateherwithbriefperiodsduringwhich
thevibratorisnotincontactwithher.Whensheisbarelyabletoholdback,I
establisheyecontact,removethevibrator,andgivethecommand.Iftimedright,
sheissoexcitedfrombeingvibratedamomentbeforethatshestartstoorgasm.

Whethersuccessfulornot,Iimmediatelyputthevibratorbackonherclit.This
ensuresagoodorgasmwhetheritstartedwhilethevibratorwasremovedornot.
Thisprocedureisrepeatedmanytimeswithlongerandlongerperiodsofthe
vibratorwithdrawnbeforethecommandisgivenandlongerandlongerperiods
afterthecommandbeforethevibratorisreturned.

Thethirdphaseeventuallymorphsintothefourthphasewherethevibrator
doesn'tneedtobepresentatall.Istartbyturningthevibratoroffandsettingit
downduringtheperiodsofremoval.Imayturnitbackonandjustbringitnear
hertopumpupherlevelofexcitement.Imovefromtheretojusttalkingabout
thevibrator,tellinghertothinkaboutit,imagineitonherclit,beforeIestablish
theeyecontactandgivethecommand.Tohelpestablishthefantasyvibrator,I
mightbrieflytouchtherealvibratortoherclitwhiletellinghertoimagineit.

(Ihadonegirlwhodevelopedtheneedtocrossherlegs,tryingtoholdback
orgasm,wheneversheencounteredsomethingmakingabuzzingsound.I'dhave
herlieonthefloor,spreadeagle,andletherthrashinorgasmwhenIseta
vibrator/electrictoothbrush/etc.onthefloornearher.)

Bythistime,thewomenItrainedneededonlythethoughtofthevibratorand
haddevelopedanassociationbetweenthatandtheintenseeyecontact.Iwould
typicallysaytheoneword"Slave",togethertolookatme.We'dmakeeye
contactandshe'dseetheexpressiononmyface,knowingwhatthatmeant.She'd
feelthenonexistentvibratoronherclitandbeholdingbackorgasmbythetimeI
said"Cum!".

Orgasmcontrolasatoolforextendingeroticresponses

Onceonehasawomantrainedforverbalcontroloforgasms,endlesspossibilities
openforusingthistotrainhertoresponderoticallytootherstimuli.Thisfurther
trainingisdonejustbygivingherthestimulusinassociationwiththecommandto
comeoreventellingherthatshewillcomewhenshereceivesagivenstimulus.

Thiscanbeusedtobroadenaslavessexualresponsestothepointwhereshe
respondseroticallyandorgasmicallytoawidevarietyofstimuli.Notnecessarily
onesthatnormallyhaveeroticconnections.Thiscanofcoursebeusedinvery
humiliatingwaystotrainaslavesothatshenotonlyhasnocontrolofher
orgasmsbutthattheycanbemadetohappenbypainfulorhumiliatingstimuli.
Psychologicallythisfurtherdriveshomeherslavery.

Ihaveusedthissortofmethod,forexample,toeroticizemyslave'sbreastsand
nipples.Originallyshehadverylittleeroticconnectionwiththem.Butaftertelling
herthattheywouldrivalherclitinsensitivityandthenforaperiodjustgivingher
orgasmsoncommandwhilestimulatinghernipplesandbreasts,theyarenow
highlyeroticallysensitive.Ihaveheardfromotherswhohavesuccessfullyused
pleasantstimulialloverthesubject'sbodywiththegoaloferoticizingtheentire
bodysurface.

Ihavealsousedthissortoftrainingtoextendresponsesintermsoftrainingfor
eroticresponsestopain.Mystateddesire,asItoldmyslavefromthebeginning,
wastotrainhersothatherprimaryeroticstimuliwouldbeassociatedwithpain
and/orhumiliation.Whileshefearedthisitalsoappealedtoherbecausesheis
alsoamasochistandknewthathermostintenseandsatisfyingorgasmscomein
contextswithpainandorhumiliation.

Thesimplestwaytouseorgasmcontrolinthiswayisjusttorepeatedlycommand
hertocomeduringpainfulstimulation.Sayrepeatedlyduringawhipping.Done
overtimethisbuildsaconnectionwhichgetsherexcitedwhenexposedtothese
stimuliandcancarryhertoverydeepresponseswhenIcommandhertocome
withthesestimuli.Thiscanbeusedtoeroticizeallkindsoftortures.Among
othersIveusedthiswithareicewaterenemas,playpiercing,andtitnailingto
excellenteffectsothatthingswhichshefearedinadvancesheisnoweagerto
repeat.AsIseeitthisisbetterthanjustwhippingawomanandthengivingher
sexualpleasureafterwardsasitblendspainandpleasureintoanaddictive,
ecstaticsoup.Thiscanalsobeusedtocreateaneroticconnectionwitheveryday
items.Forexample,Ioftenmakehersitonastoolwithatrailerhitchballonits

topandthencommandhertocome.Shenowhasaneroticresponsetoseeing
trailerhitchballswhensheisoutintheworld.

However,amoredirectrouteistousethepainfulstimulusasthecommand.That
is,togiveherthecommandthatwhensomethingisdonetohershewillcomein
response.

IMPRINTING

Thisiswhenatriggerinthepsycheissetbyjusttherightstimulustopermanently
implantaresponseinasingleevent.Iwasnotlookingforthisbutapositive
imprintingappearstohavemanifestedwithmyslavegirl.Fromourexperience
withthis,itismuchdeeperandmorepotentthantrainingwithconditioning.
Therealsoseemstobenowaytomakeithappenreliablyandtheseimprintings
canalsobenegative.Everyoneisfamiliarwithtriggersofhighlynegative
responsestostimuliassociatedwithtraumaticevents,butthisistheflipside.

InanycaseIwillbrieflydescribewhathappenedwithoutthedetails.ForyearsI
havebeentrainingslavegirlinamythwhichexplainsherstatusasslaveandwhy
shemustbepunished.Thishasincludedrepetitionofphrasessupportingthis
mythorstructure.Onthedaywhentheimprintinghappened,slavegirlwas
securedtoourframe(seeprofilepics)andtorturedalmostcontinuouslyfor
severalhourswithonlyafeworgasms.Attheendshewasgivenverysevere
electricalpaintohernippleswithnoorgasms,thoughshecouldhavecomeeasily
ifallowed.Herstateduringthiswholetimewasfloatinginseverepainand
excitationbeyondthelevelneededfororgasm.Duringtheseseveralhoursshe
oftenrepeatedthephraseslinkingtothemythofwhyshemustbepunished.

WhenIdecidedtoendthingsIleftherontheframewiththevibratorwhileItook
thingsapart.Shewasinarelaxedbutarousedstate.WhenIfinishedItookherin
myarmsandgaveheraverydeep,passionatekiss.Sheimmediatelybecame
intolerablyturnedonwrithingandshaking.Igaveheranorgasmandafterit

subsidedkissedheragain.Thesamethinghappenedinstantly.Shetoldme
afterwardsthatshehadbeenlyingtheredeeplydesiringmetoholdherandkiss
herbeforeIdidso.

Threemonthshavenowpassedandherresponsetothestimulusofmygivingher
adeepkisshascontinuedessentiallyunchanged.Thisisanimmediateandvery
powerfulresponse.Itdiffersfromconditionedorgasmtraininginthatitfeelsvery
differenttoslavegirl.Shesaysthatwiththeconditionedtrainingshefeelsherself
focusing,drawingenergyintohercenterbeforecoming.Withtheimprinted
responseshesaysthatshefeelsameltingfeelingallover,hermusclesfeelweak
andshecanbarelystand,sheisdriventospreadherarmsandlegswideandpush
herpussyforwardinuncontrolledlust,andshecravesmassivestimulus,painor
orgasm.IfIdontgiveherreleaseherentirebodyisextremelysensitivetomy
touch.Thelightesttouchdrivingherevencrazierwithhungerforrelease.

Thisisalsodifferentfromaconditionedresponseinthatitisevenfasterthan
conditionedcontrol,ismuchmoretotallydisabling,andfinallyisnearlyfreeof
context,thatisshecanbetired,crankyorwhatever,itmakeslittledifference
withtheimprintedstimulus,unlikewithconditionedresponses.Fromour
conversationssofaritappearsthat,toatleastsomeextent,shehasincorporated
themythasherpsychologicalrealitysothatnowmyexpressionofloveandcaring
forherthroughkissinghermakesaconnectionreleasinganysexualinhibitions
andbringsintoplaythatthepriceofthatisherbeingtortured.ThisiswhereI
alwayswantedtogobutdidntknowwecouldgetthereasareality.Andyes,she
wasinitiallyscaredbythisbutisnowcomingtoseeitasthegiftfromthegods
thatitis.

Mypointinpostingthisistosaythatthereappeartobestatesofcontrolbeyond
thoseachievedwithconditioning.Statesthatareevenmoreinvoluntary,much
morepersistent,,andmuchmoredeeplymanipulativeofthepsychologyofthe
subject.Andthatthesecanbehighlypositive,desirablestatesatleastforsome.

Itisalsopossiblethatonecanatleastpreparethewayforsuchaneventthrough
persistentfocusedeffortdevotedtoconditioningandusingalteredstates.

Incorrespondingwithafemalememberofthisgroupacoupleofmonthsagoshe
relatedtomeanotherinstanceofpositiveimprinting.Inhercaseshelivedina
highlyrepressiveenvironmentasateenagerandfantasizedaboutamalevoice
thattoldhertostimulateherselfinvariousways.Afterdoingthisoveraperiodof
timethevoicecommandedhertohaveanorgasm.Sheimmediatelydidso,was
frightenedbythewholeexperience,andneverusedthevoiceagain.Yearslatera
dominantthatshewaswithhitonthesamephrasethatthevoicehadusedand
shecameimmediately.Thissoundslikeimprintingtomebecauseitwassetina
singlerepetitionandpersistedforyearswithoutreinforcement.

Orgasmbringstears

ThefirstimmediateanswerwouldhavetobeyesasIhavebeenbroughttotears
intwodifferentanduniquewayswhileorderedtoandallowedtoorgasm.

Thefirstwasduringanextraordinarilylongsessionofcontinuousmultiple
orgasms.Hecontrolledthestrengthandbroughttheintensitytoalevelthat
mademewhimperandgaspexperiencingpleasureatalevelwhereitwasjoined
bymuscularpainsimultaneouslythroughoutmybody.

Theintensitywasatsuchalevelthattimeseemedtoslowdownandeverything
movedinslowmotion.Whenheallowedtheorgasmstosubsideslowlyhe
orderedmetorestwhereIwasanduntilIwasrestoredonceagain.

Iwokeuparound3:00am,myfacewetfromthetearsandtheplacewheremy
headlaywasalsowetfromthosesametearsaswell.

ThenexttimewaswhenhesoughttoteachmealessonandIlearneditwell.We
hadendedanorgasmicsessionofpleasureandstartedaconversationwhenhe

suddenlyorderedanimmediatestrongorgasm.Justasquicklyasheordereditto
startheorderedmetostopimmediately.
Icannotdescribetheintensecombinationofpainthatwasstilltingedwith
backgroundpleasurethatitbroughtwithitcopioustears.

Thelessonwastoshowmepunishmentscouldbeaccomplishedinsurprising
waysandquiteefficientlyaswellamajorouchfactorandlessonnotedand
learned.

OrgasmonCommandadifferentperspective

Someofthis,Ihavesaidbeforeandtootherswhohavebeenskepticalofmyjoy
inparticipatinginorgasmoncommandandaswelltothosewhohaveshowna
genuineinterestinlearningofitforthemselves.

ImustfirstsaythatIamasubmissivewithaverystrongpersonalityandwill.I
foundthiswayoflifejust10shortmonthsagoandmyjourneyhasbeenan
adventureoflearningtoletgoandplacemytrustandcontrolinanothersvery
capablehands.ThatIwouldhavetosaywasprobablythemostdifficultthingI
havehadtodosofar.IhaveconfidenceinmyMasterandinmychoicetodoso
andIactuallyfeltliberatedwhenIdid.

Everysubmissivewoman'sjourneywillbedifferentasthedemandsandskillsof
herMasterdiffer,theuniquenessofmystoryisdueinparttothenatureofmy
relationshipwithmyMaster:IliveintheUSAandhelivesintheUKandyet
throughhisskillsasateacherhehastakenmetoorgasmsoncommandofover
anhourinlength.HeisMyMasterandhiscommandofmeisinlargepart,
becauseofhisuseoforgasmcontrol.

Ihavespoketooneortwoothersubmissivesinthepastwhohaveconvinced
themselvesthattheworkloadinthisappliedtechniqueisonthesubmissiveas
theymustprovidetheorgasms.AsIhavegiventhismuchthoughtandhaveread

andrereadmyhistoryonmessengerandemails,theactualresponsibilityfalls
mostlytotheDominant/Masterashemustfirstbeabletocreatetheheadspace
intowhichallwillfallintoplace.Ifoundforus,Hisknowledge,andskillsin
trainingme,alongwithtrustandhonestywerethemostimportantingredients
forthistohaveworkedsowell.IwilltellyouallthatIwasveryskepticalatthe
veryideathatsomeonecouldbetrainedtoorgasmoncommandafterahistoryof
limitedornoorgasmswhateverthesexualoremotionalsituation.Ittookaround
fiveweeksbeforehehadmeexperiencingmyfirstorgasmbyhisorderonly.

AsIlookbackoverourhistoryIcanactuallysee,howhe,onmanyoccasions
succeededevenwhenrunningblindjustusingintuitionandhisskillsasan
excellentteachertoguidemetomypositionasHisslave.

WeoriginallymetthoughFetLifewhileIwasperusingthemanydifferentgroups.
AsIreadthroughsomeofthepostedresponsestoaquestionpostedandhis
responsecaughtmyattentionsoIwentontoreadhisprofileandthenfoundhis
writings.Ifoundhiswritingstobecaptivatinginthereoriginality,withagood
doseofhorrificsensualeventsthatkeptmereadingtotheverylastwordand
thenaskinghispermissiontocopythemformyownprivateuse.ThethingImost
enjoyedabouthiswritingswasthatIwasabletoputmyselfinplaceofanyofthe
charactersIchoseandlivevicariouslythroughthem.Icouldbethevictim,the
sadist,oranyofthemIchoseandwitheachchoiceIwasabletoreachdifferent
typesofarousals.

Wefoundourfirstcommongroundinthiswayandcontinuedcommunications
whiletherelationshiptooktheformofhisDominantnaturetomy
submissiveness.HewouldposequestionsandIwouldanswerwithhonestyand
visaversa.Aswelearnedofeachothertherelationshipdevelopedasdidmy
attractiontohim.

Manythingsneedtocometogethertoproducesuccessinorgasmoncommand
andheprovidedthemallbrilliantlyashissuccesseswithmehaveattestedover
thelast10months.


IfIhadtodescribewhatisgainedtosomeonenotfamiliarwithorgasmson
command,Iwouldsaybesidesthepleasure,itwaslearningagreatdealaboutme
andofhowIcouldgiveupcontrolandmyworlddidnotcometoanend.Thisis
paramount,thegivingoverofcommand...

IlearnedwhatitmeanttobeagoodsubmissivetoanevenbetterDominant.In
allthistimewithmyvacillationsandinsecuritieshehasalwaysbeensteadyand
consistentwithmeandguidingmebacktowhereIneedtobe.NotoncewasI
coerced,trickedorliedtoaboutanything.Ichosehowfarandwhentotakethe
nextstepandhewasalwaystheretoguidemeinmychoicetogotowardsmy
trueselfandtoplacemyselfinhistotalcare.Itellyouthesethingsastheyall
havetodowithbeingsuccessfulatorgasmsoncommand.WhenIletgothelast
ofmyresistance,hewasabletostarttoextendtheorgasmstolongerandlonger
durationslastingoveranhourandonehalfinduration.

Ashiscontrolistotalformeinorgasmoncommand,wehadamishapwhen
whilstinorgasmMasterdidnotorderitsendanditcontinuedfortherestofthe
nightandintothemorninglastingover13plushoursintotaltimeuntilMaster
reestablishedcontactandendeditfinally.Thepleasureendedeventhoughthe
orgasmcontinuedwhenheloggedoffandIwasalonewiththisorgasmwithout
end.

Orgasmconditioningwithscents

Ihadaclosefriendtellmethatforaperiodofseveralmonthswhentheydidn't
haveapartner,theyexperimentedonconditioningthemself.Theywoulddothe
thingstheyalwayshaddonetomasturbate,butrightbeforetheycamethey
wouldopenupavialcontainingaveryspecific(andprettyrare)scent.Theyfound
thatafter3040times,smellingthescentearlierintheprocesswouldgreatly
speedthingsupandalsomaketheresultdeeper.

Thisallmakessense(punintended)."Thesenseofsmellistheonlyoneofour
sensesthatiswireddirectlyintothebrainsothattheresultisimmediate.The
brainmustinterprettheothersensesbeforetheycanbecomprehended.The
olfactorynerveshavebeendescribedas"braincellsoutsidethebrain."
Sosmellsgointothebrainquickestandmostdirect.

Afterenjoyingthebenefitsofthisforseveralmonths,theystartedanew
relationshipandstoppedusingthescent.Evenafterseveralyears,iftheyhappen
tocomeacrossthatsamesmellwalkingthoughthemall,theywouldstillhavea
(milder)response.

IsuspectthatsmellwouldbetheMOSTeffectiveoftriggers,butinmyown
experiencesconditioningmysubs,it'sprettyinconvenientandIhavegoodresults
usingtactileandvoicetriggersinstead.

OrgasmControlnotfortheimmature

AfterreadingthroughthesethreadsIrealizedthereisnowarningonorgasm
controlandIreallyfeltthereshouldbe.

Iwantedtoshareoneofmyownfailingsinhopesofpreventingsomeoneelse
fromdoingthesamethingoraslave/subfromallowingsomeoneimmature,
inexperiencedorsomeonetheydon'ttrust100%totraintheminorgasmcontrol.

IwasnotveryexperiencedatthetimeandperhapsnotasmatureasI'dhave
likedtobelieve.IhadtakenthetimetostudyeverythingIcouldonorgasm
controlandsowasdeterminedtoseemyslavetrainedandcumoncommand.
ThefirstslaveItaughtorgasmcontroltotookabout8weekstoproperlytrain.
SheknewfromsquareonewhatmygoalwasandshedideverythingIasked.Idid
everytechniqueI'dreadaboutandaddedwhatfeltrightwouldberighttoadd
alongtheway.Theendresultwasbeautifulshecouldorgasmwithasingle

word,evenoverthephone.Iwasexceptionallyproudnotonlyofmyselfbuther
aswell.

Now,thereasonIsaythisisnotsomethingaslaveshouldlearnfromsomeone
theydon'ttrust100%orfromsomeonetheyfeelisinexperiencedorimmature:
Iwasquitecockyandproudofmyaccomplishment.Veryproud.Iwantedtoplay
withitandseetojustwhatextentthatcontrolwentandwhatwouldhappenifI
pushedherandpushedher.Yes,weplayedonenightscenedandplayedsome
more.Shehadorgasmedafewtimesthroughtheevening.Wehadbothgrowna
littletiredandI'mnotsureifitwasmyowncockinessthatledtothelackof
judgment,beingtired,orwhatbutIdecidedtotakeherscreamingandmoaning
rightovertheedge.

RepeatedlyIcommandedhertoorgasmandshecompliedwithnowilltostopit.
Sheshookharderandharder,herbreathcomingingulpsandraggedraspsuntil
sheliterallypassedout.Yespassedout.WhenshelostconsciousnessIwas
obviouslyconcernedandasIreachedtocheckherpulseshebegantoshake,
droolandmumbleincoherently.

Yes,that'saboutthetimepanicwantstosetin.Everyonealwayssaystheywant
todiehavingsexnoonewantstobetheonethatactuallykillssomeonehaving
sex.

Longstoryshortno,Ididn'tcallthemedics.Iwrappedherinablanketandheld
herandtalkedtoher.Sheslowlycameoutofitandregainedconsciousnessover
thefollowing5minutesorsoyetremaineddeepinsubspaceforalongtime
thereafter.Ihaveneverseensomeonestayinsubspace,totallyunabletospeak
orreacttoanything,forsolong.

Theexperiencescaredthehelloutofme.

Ilearnedthehardwaynottotakeawomanbeyondacertainpoint.Orgasm
controlisbyfarthemosttangibleandbeautifulsignsofcompleteandtotal

submissionyoucanhopetoachieve.Itisnotatoy.Itisnotforimmatureor
inexperiencedmen.

Beresponsible.

Usinggesturesfororgasmcontrol

Ihavehadtheexperienceofhavingtrainedasubtorespondtomyinstructionto
approachclimax,ortoreachclimax,or,alternatively,tostopanyprogressionto
climax,usingverysimplehandgestures.Thegestureswerequitenuanced,and
thuseasilyusedinpublic.AsIknowisoftenthecase,thetraining/conditioning
itselfwasagradualandslowprocessovermanymonths,butthetimerequired
was,Ibelieve,notafunctionoftheuseofnonverbalcues,butratherthe
inherentchallengeofthistypeofconditioning.

Whenthegoalswerereached,therewassomethingparticularlyeroticaboutthe
instructionbeinggiven,andobeyed,withoutasinglewordspoken.

Usinggesturesfororgasmcontrol2

Ithinktheuseofaclear,graduatedtrainingprotocol,alongwithagooddoseof
patience,isthemostimportantaspectofagesturebasedorgasmcontrol
approach.Butthereareasomeaspectsofthegestures,aswellasacoupleof
specificgesturesyoumightfindofinterest.

Adifferentapproachistakeninpublic,vs.whenweareinbed,ofcourse.In
public,thegesturesareverysubtle,andthesubisexpectedtobewatchingfor
them.WhenIwishhertobecomearoused,Isimplyraisebendmyleftwrist
upwardandtowardsher,almostlikeasubtleflickofthewristtowardsher.IfI
wishhertostopherarousalatanypoint,Imovemyrighthand,atthewrist,from
lefttoright.

If,withabitofsqueezingandsquirmingandfantasy,sheisabletoreachclimax,
sheistosubtlyraiseherhand,evenbyaninch,moreofasubtlewristbend
actually,andkeepthatpositionuntilshe'sfinished.Ifsheisunabletocome
sufficientlyrapidlytomeetmyexpectation,Isimplynodtoherandsheisto
excuseherselfandgototheladiesroom,makeherselfclimaxasquicklyas
possible,andreturn.

OneothercircumstanceinwhichIusegestures,isinconjunctionwiththeuseofa
remotecontrolvibrator.Shefairlyconsistentlyreachesclimaxwithin3060
secondsafterIturnitonusingthecontrolinmypocket.Ireallyenjoywatching
hertrynottoshowherarousaltowhomevershemaybespeakingwith,orata
barordinnertablewith,whenIturnthevibrationon,and,evenmore
excruciatinglydifficult,toclimaxwithoutshowingit.Sometimes,Iwillinstruct
her,byusingtherighthandbackandforthgesturedescribedabove,nottocome.
Thisisalmostimpossibleforherinthefaceoffairlyintensevibratorstimulation,
butIenjoywatchinghertry.Whenshedoesclimaxfromthevibrator,sheis
alwaystoraiseherhandslightly,asdescribedabove.

Inanintimatesetting,Iwillsimplytugonherleftnipple,andsheistoclimax.Easy
enough,giventhathernipplesarequitesensitive.Morechallenging,ifItug/play
withherrightnipple,sheisnottoclimaxuntilIallowherto.Thisis,asyoumight
imagine,wasabitdissonant/confusingatfirst,buthasledtoanaltered,
conditioned,differentialresponse,inwhichsheseesthetwonipplesvery
differentlyand,mostinterestingly,herleftnipplegenerallycontinuestogetvery
erectinresponsetostimuli,whileherleftonerarelydoes.

Orgasmmanagementthoughts

OrgasmManagement?

byMasterfulJalmost5yearsago

ThisisatopicthatIhavebeenactivelytryingtofigureoutforquiteawhile.Istill
dontthinkthatIhaveitwellsortedoutandamseekinginputhere.

Thesituationisthattheslavegirlistrainedsothatshecomesatmycommandand
cannotcomewithoutit.WiththistotalcontrolIdeterminethenumberand
timingofherorgasms.Myobjectiveistokeepherhornyatalltimes.The
questionthenishowtobestmanageherorgasmstokeepherinthisstate.

Thepossibilitiesinvolvevariationsintimebetweenorgasmsrangingfromlong
termdeprivationtomanydaily.Anotherimportantvariableisstimulationwithout
allowingorgasms.Yetanothervariableistheuseofbrokenorgasmsinwhichshe
iscommandedtostop,anddoes,inthemiddleofanorgasm.Anothervariableis
thatsomeorgasmsresultinaveryhighlevelofsatiationsothatsheissexually
inertforafewdays.(Thecharacteristicswhichsetapartthesesatiatingorgasms
arenotveryapparentatthispointbutingeneralIwouldchoosetoavoidthem
whenpossible.)

LongertermdeprivationisnotthebestmethodIMHOforavarietyofreasons.For
myslavegirl,deprivationbeyondafewdaysusuallyresultsinacounterproductive
dampingofherdesire.However,deprivationoveradayorsowithstimulationis
veryeffectiveatkeepingherveryexcited.

Frequentorgasmsactuallycanacttokeepherhorny.Thenumber3seems
especiallyeffective.Thatistogiveher3orgasmsoncommandinthemorningwill
usuallykeepherturnedonalldaylong.Fewerthanthatdoesntgethertothe
pointwhereshejustwantstocomemore,andmoretendtoreducethedesire
slightly.

However,manyorgasmssheisgiven,breakingthelastoneortwoisusuallyan
effectivewaytokeepheratahighlevelofarousalfortherestofthedayatleast.

Whatisclearlycounterproductivetothisgoal,thoughitisdesirableinotherways,
istogiveherseriesofpowerfulprolongedorgasmsusuallywithvaginal

penetrationandotherintensestimsuchasestim,whipping,clitoralstim.These
orgasmsusuallyresultinsatiation.Incontrast,equallyintenseandprolonged
orgasmsproducedwithlivemusicdrivingvaginalestimtypicallyresultin
immediateexhaustionbutelevatedhornynessforaweekorso.

Anotheraspectofthismanagementisthepredictabilityofwhenslavegirlisgiven
orgasms.Ingeneral,Itrytoavoidbeingtoopredictablesothatsheknowsthat
shecanbemadetocomeatanytimewhichalsotendstokeepherinamore
excitedstate.

Slavegirlherselfthinksthatwhatismosteffectiveistobegivenextendedhigh
levelsofstimulationfrequently,buttobeallowedtocomeonlyrarely.Sheoften
findsthisfrustratingatthetimebutalsoisoftenabletoenterstatesthatare
deeplysatisfying.Iamconcernedthatthiskindofmanagementwillreduceher
easeofcomingthroughteachinghernottocomewithhighstimulation.Thereis
alsothematterthatIliketoseehercomesotheidealsituationwouldbeto
manageherorgasmssothatshehaslotsbutalwayswantsmore.

Thebasicproblemasstatedaboveishowtomanagecommandedorgasmsto
maintainthesubjectinarelativelyhighstateofarousaltoasgreatanextentas
possible.

Theoneareaofprogressinthisregardhastodowithtrainingtheslavegirlto,
whencommandedtodoso,bringherselftoorgasmbywhippingherclit.She
startsoutwithpaced,moderatestrokesandataround20strokesgoesinto
extremeexcitementandstartshittingveryhardandfast.Orgasmarrivesafter10
to20strokesofthis.Theseareviolent,brutalorgasmswhichIstopafterone
orgasm.Interestinglytheydon'tseemtobesatiatingfortheslavegirl.Infactafter
asessionofsuchselfflagellationtoorgasmanumberoftimessheisstill
unsatiatedandvariousotherformsofstimulationandmanymoreorgasmsdon't
satiateher,thoughtheymayexhausthertowhereshecan'teasilycome.

However,shestillwantstoandwantstobestimulated.SoI'mincorporatingsuch
scenesintomostofourplaywhichactstoincreasehergenerallevelofarousal.

Iamthinkingthattheirritation,minorbruisingoftheclitandvulvabythe
whippingsomehowacttokeephersomewhataroused.Theitchthatneedstobe
scratched.

Anothertrickthatseemsto"keepheronhertoes"hasbeentohaveherstimulate
herselfbypinchinghernipples(shehasbeentrainedtothepointwherethis
quicklybringshertothevergeoforgasm)whilesheissittingbyherselfinthehot
tubatherexerciseclub.Sheiseithertoldjusttopinchherselftoacountof70
withoutcomingortocomeafteracountof70.Thisisasemipubliclocationso
thereisalwaysthepossibilityofdiscoverybutitiswithinthewomen'sroom.She
oncehadawomancomeinafterherorgasmandcommentthatthewatermust
beveryhot,herfacewassored.Shefindstheseveryexcitingexperiencesbutnot
satiating,apparentlybecauseoftheneedtomaintainawareness.

Ihavecometoamanagementschemethatseemstoworksatisfactorily.Iassume
thatbyprogressintechniques,youarereferringtomyextensiveuseoftrance
andcontrollingmyslavegirlbytalkingwithhersubconsciousaswellasan
emphasisonstimulatingherwithmachinef*ckingofherurethrawithlarge
soundscombinedwithpainfulestimonthesound.

Forthepurposesofthisdiscussion,Iwouldjustsaythatthemanagementscheme
thatI'vehitoninvolvesalotofdenialwithregularvibratorusebyslavegirl.Thisis
enhancedbyusingtheconditionedandhypnoticallysetcontrolstoregulateher
arousalandabilitytocomeinsession.Aspartofthisshehasbeenconditionedto
reachhigharousalandeventuallytocomefromdeeporalkissingbyme.Sheis
alsoverysensitivetomytouch,againamatterofconditioning,whichquickly
arousesherandcanbringhertoorgasmwithouttouchingofgenitals,thoughI
moreoftenuseittojustaddtoherarousal.

Ifsheisgivenasinglestrongorgasm,shecanstillbearousedthenextdayand
reachesmaximalexcitabilitytheseconddayaftercoming.Ifsheisgivenforced
orgasmstonearexhaustion,ittakesaboutaweektorecovertofullexcitability.I
amstillnotclearhowmuchofthedropafterorgasmistrulyphysiologicaland
howmuchisduetoherbeliefsandthoseofhersubconsciousaboutthe
downtimeafterorgasm.Inanycaseherpreferredstateisdenial.

SheisveryaddictedtowhatI'vetermed"statesbeyondorgasm".Theseare
prolongedstatesofextremearousalfarhigherthatwhatwouldelicitanorgasmif
shewerenotconditionedtobeunabletocomewithoutmycommand.These
statescanlastforupto3horsothoughatthehighestlevelsofarousalsheis
verytiredafter90minutesandwipedoutafter2.5h.DuringthesestatesIcan
manipulateherdegreeofconsciousness,abilitytothink,sensations,levelof
arousal,andemotionalstatesbytalkingwithhersubconscious.Thesubconscious
preventsherfromhearingourconversations.Whensheisinthese"statesabove
orgasm"sheisverysusceptibletoconditioning(connectingpainortouchto
arousalforexample)andcaneroticallyprocessveryhighlevelsofpain.Theseare
alsohighlysuggestiblestatesinwhichmentalworkcanbedoneonherconscious.

Ialsogiveherbrokenorgasms(twocontractionswiththeusualsensationsof
orgasmandthenthecontractionscontinuewithoutreleaseorpleasure)rather
frequentlytokeepherarousalup.Theseareveryfrustrating,painfulandarousing
forherandincreaseherarousal.InitiallyIjustimplementedthembytellingherto
stopattheappropriatetimewhenshestartedtocome,butinthelastyearIhave
usedthesubconscioustosetherresponsessothatanormalcommandforherto
comewillelicitabrokenorgasm.OnlyifIspecifyafullorgasmwillshehavean
actualorgasm.

Allthishasbroughtthemanagementofherarousalandorgasmstoasatisfactory
stateasfarasI'mconcerned.Ithasalsoverysignificantlyincreasedherinternal
surrender/enslavementtomewhichhasbeenthemainpointoftheentire
exercise.


THECHAINTRICK

IcameacrossthedescriptionforChainTrickawhileback,foundithighly
intriguing,andthenreadthecommentsinthethreadbelowthedescription
posting,whichwereabunchofpeopleexclaiminghowinsanelyfantasticthiswas,
andtheirdisbeliefofhowgooditfeltandhowmuchtheysquirted.AndsoIran
out,boughtsomestainlesssteelchainandtriedit.Diditwork?HOLYF*CKdidit
ever!!!Isquirtedwithmoreintensityandvolumethaneverbefore,andever
since.Itactuallystartledmeinthemoment.Myanatomy/bonestructuremakesit
suchthatIcan'treallybefisted(trustmeonthisone,veryeagerpeoplehave
tried),sothisexperienceisanamazingwaytofeelthatfullness...plusIlikechaina
tonforanumberofreasonsanyhow.Likeanyplay,therearesomesafety
concernsassociatedwiththis,sopleasereadthoroughlytoprotectallinvolved.
Evenifthisdoesnotworktomakeyousquirt,itisanamazinglyfunscenetohave
andfeelssoamazing.
Equipment:

Alengthofchromeplatedprooforstainlesssteelcoilchain
Rubbingalcohol
Dishsoap
Lube

Caution:Ifyouusechromeplatedchain,besureitischromeplatedandnot
galvanizedandisnew;donotuseoldchain.Donotusenickelplatedoranything
otherthanchromeplatedornonplatedstainlesssteel.Runyourfingersover
eachlinkandlookforweldsthatarenotsmooth.Rejectanylengthwithflaws.
Rinseofftheresidueofthemanufacturersoilwithdishsoap.Sterilizewithalcohol
butrinseitoffbeforeitcomesintocontactwithherdelicatemembranes

Preparelengthofchain:Washitindishsoapandrinsingitinalcohol.Washoff
thealcoholinwarmwater.Youwantitcleanandsterile.Youalsowantitwarmso

itisntshockingtothebodybutnothotsoastoburnthedelicateskin.Wrapitin
atowelyoullneedthetowellater.Setthewrappedchainaside.

Warmupyourpartner.Lickherclit,ticklehergspot(itsgoingtobereallytickled
later.)Kissherandteaseher.Getherwet.Ifshesmultiorgasmic(luckyyou!)let
hercumafewtimes.Littleorgasmsatthispointareperfect.

Nowtimetoinsertthechain.Uselube.Usemorelube.Spreadherlegsopen,
kneesup,anklesathersides,lyingonherback.Placeapillowunderherifithelps
makeheropenupmore.Uselube.

Slowlyinsertthechainlinkbylink.Didwementiontouselube?Caution:youcan
pinchdelicatefoldsbetweenthelinksifyouarenotcareful.Factofthematter
isyouprobablywill.Ifyougoslowitwillbeatinypinch.Toavoidpinchinguse
lotsoflubeandslipeachlinkintotheonethatprecededit(itwillbecomeobvious
quicklyhowthatsdone.).Havefunwithit.Insertthefirstfewlinksasfarasyou
caneasilyreachwithonefinger.Theywillmovebackasthelatterlinksfollow.
Thechainslowlyfillsandstretcheshervagina.Therearefewnervesendinginthe
muscularwallsofthevagina.Thesearerarelystimulatedevenduringsex.This
stretchingintroducesnewsensationswhichcanbequitepowerful.

USELUBE.Liberally.(Thatswhyyoubroughtthechaininatowel.Usethetowel
underher.Somelubesstainespeciallyonsatin.Dontask;trustmeonthis.)

Thesensationsyouarecreatingareverymuchlikethoseinducedbyfisting.The
advantageofthechainisthatyoudonthavetopassalargefistthroughthe
vaginalopening.Therearesomeotheradvantages;shecanmovearoundmore.
Thatcanbefuntoo.Trydifferentpositionswhenthechainisinsideher.Lether
rollonhersideorontohertummy.Shemaybeabletowalkwiththechaininside
her;thatsveryinteresting!

Noteonhowmuchchaintouse.Youwontknowinadvancehowmuchshecan
take.Buyacoupleofdifferentlengths;2,3and4.Theyrecheap(about

$1.50/foot)andyoullfindlotsofwaystoplaywiththedifferentlengths.Some
womencanttakemorethan2feet.Somecan.Afourfootchainmakesan
interestingtoyfortwowomentoshare.

Beplayful.Lickherclitasyoureinsertingthechain.Rubhergspotasthelink
goesin.Stopeverynowandthenandinsertyourfingeralongsidethechain.
Interestingisntit?Tighttoo!Rubhergspotagain.Andagain.Lick,rub,insert
findyourownrhythm.Shewillwanttocum.Dontlether.Tellhertowait.Itgets
better.Muchbetter.

Whenyouvegotallthechainthatfeelscomfortabletoyoubothfoldedand
moldedinsideherbegintobringherclosertothepeak.Dontrushit.Takeyour
time.Enjoyit.Shewill.Letherfallbackfromtheedge.Andhelpherclimbup
again.Lethersqueezedownagainstthechain.Lickherandplaywithhergspot
untilyoubelievethatshecannotstanditanymore(hopefullyshewillindicatethat
sheisabouttocum.)

PULLTHECHAINOUT.Doitinonecontinuousandrapidmotion.Bepreparedfor
hertosquirt.(Towelunderherisimportant.)

Laythechainonhertummywhereshecanfeeltheweightagainstheruterus.
(Isntitastonishinghowhotitis?!)

Moveimmediatelytowhereyoucanholdher.Holdherthroughtheshakingafter
quakes.(Dontworryifshewonttalkforawhile;somewomenfaint.)Keep
cuddlingherforabout10minutes.Ifyoutouchherclitshemayexplode.Wait.
Unlessofcourseyouhereherexclaim,HurryupandF*ckME!Dontcuddleher
afterwards.F*ckher.