The Horny Guys Guide To How Women Tick

By Kelly Rose
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About the Author

Kelly Rose is an Australian dating and seduction coach. As an attractive, slim blonde with a vivacious personality, Kelly is experienced
when it comes to being approached by and dating men. She wrote this book after noticing that she and many of her girlfriends all complained
of the same mistakes that men were making, both inside and outside the bedroom, which made them less appealing. The men she saw in her
coaching practice were also committing a lot of these dating offences, and wondering why they were unsuccessful with women.
Kelly has many male friends who, after using the same advice she offers in this book, significantly increased their success with women. She
wrote this book so that the wonderful male readers can get the love and happiness that they truly deserve.

What to Expect
Well hello there sexy. I am glad you could make it. I am delighted to offer you insider knowledge into a womans mind and body that until
now we have kept to ourselves. Well how far is that getting us really? We women are not getting our needs met so we start to get bored by
the idea of sex. You guys arent mind-readers. M y goal with this book is to teach you how to get us interested and how to really turn us on
in the bedroom.
Our culture raises us with the idea that women who love sex are sluts and are cheap or dirty. So women often repress their sexual feelings
or at least feel awkward talking openly about what they want in bed. Some men are frustrated because their partner doesnt seem
interested in sex. They dont want to cheat but they are going mad without sex. They are wondering how to fix things.
I know single men who are sick of being friended by women and never making it past first base. How can they get these women to want to
take it further? If they do get to the stage where they are having sex with a new lady, they may find for no apparent reason the women loses
interest in the relationship. Why could this be? The woman seemed like she was enjoying herself. What went wrong?
Ahhh we are complicated creatures at times arent we. Read on my friend and I will take you on a journey into our minds and deep into our
pleasure zones. By the time you have read this book you will have a much better grasp on how to seduce a woman, how to really get her off
in the bedroom and how to keep her coming back for more.

Chapter 1
25 Mistakes that Men Make When They are Dating Women and How You Can Fix Them.
1. Being too desperate.
While it is very important to let the lady know you think she is special and attractive, and treat her really well there is a line in the sand that
you shouldnt cross. Dont flip out too much over her- it will make you seem less sexy.
You dont want to portray the image that you are unable to get a woman and that being with her is a once in a lifetime experience. It will
make you seem desperate and dateless.
DO NOT ask to take pictures of her on the first few dates to send to your friends- you are acting like a crazed fan- not an equal.
2. Asking if she likes you (cringe).
Do not ask the girl if she likes you or if she finds you attractive. That is such a turnoff.
If she doesnt like you then you will find out pretty quickly anyhow, and asking something like that is the quickest way to get her not to
like you.
Do you really want to know the answer to your question?
3. S howing off your fish.
If you choose to post your picture on a dating website do not make the major picture a fish.
While many women love to fish and think that it is a great hobby for you to have, they want to kiss you- not a fish. Fish are NOT sexy.
They are cold, scaly and slimy. If the main focus of your picture is a fish this can be quite off-putting. STEP AWAY FROM THE FISH!

4. Having unhealthy habits.

As much as you may hate exercise, you need to accept that if you want to meet your ideal lady, whatever size or shape she is, it improves
your chances if you are be toned and fit. This means getting your butt to the gym or starting another physical activity. It will also give you a
much better sex life. M ake sure you get your doctor's approval first before starting any new exercise program. You may need to see a
personal trainer.
5. Being negative.
Try to see the glass as half full. Nobody wants to be around a doomsayer or a whinger. We also like to see you have a bit of drive and
ambition. Find your inner go-getter and go get her.
This also includes talking negatively about your ex. We dont want to hear about your anger or your bitterness- at least not when we first
meet you. This could get us thinking that maybe your ex knows something about you that we dont.
6. Being insecure.
You know looks really are overrated. I am not saying that they do not matter- but it is amazing how attractive somebody can seem if they
feel good about themselves. This doesnt mean being arrogant, self-centered or cocky, but being self-assured and assertive is very sexy.
Dont point out your faults. While it is not good to brag about yourself, putting yourself down can be just as bad- especially if you do it a
lot. It is ok to make a bit of a joke about your belly or your bald head, but dont overdo it and dont do it if you are not making a joke of it.
Women like confidence (not cockiness), and we can be really put off by a guy who is insecure. If he isnt happy with himself then we are
likely to share that opinion.
7. Letting her pay.
Call me old fashioned but I believe the man should definitely pay. Unless you are dating a woman who has strong opinions about this being
antifeminist (which I dont feel it is), or is offended by your offer to pay, please insist on paying for dinner and drinks. There is nothing
more of a turn off than a cheapskate who expects you to go halves on a date- or worse still lets you pay for him! The woman will see you at
worst as a loser, at best as a man-child who she doesnt respect. M ind you, if this really is your nature it is probably best you reveal this at
the start. This could save heartache down the track.
If you are concerned she is a gostartld digger start off small. M eet her for coffee and cake. I think the woman should offer to pay but the
man should at least make a damn good effort to try to foot the bill. If she keeps expecting you to do this and never offers to pay or
appreciates it then she may well be taking advantage of you.
8. Coming on too strong.

Be different from other guys. Every other guy she has dated has made a beeline to get into her knickers. When you first go out with her,
treat her really well, but dont physically come on to her. Let her come to you.
If by the end of the night she has not made any move or given any indication that she is physically attracted to you (e.g. Leaning towards
you, brushing her legs or body up against you, being giggly or very flirty, mentioning your physical appearance), the you may want to test
the waters with a kiss on the cheek at the end of the night or a hug. See how mechanical she is about it. Does she go for a big hug as well?
Does she push her pelvis near yours or is her pelvis miles away?
9. Objectifying her.
If she has nice boobs or a great butt dont tell her this on the first date. If a woman is attractive she can be used to being treated like an
object. Be different. Tell her you are impressed by her strength or intelligence. Show interest in her goals and achievements. These are true,
and enduring sources of a ladies self-esteem- not her abs or her glutes.
It is still a good idea to tell her she is attractive but dont objectify her by specifying which particular body parts you like.
10. Being a girly-man.
I have heard plenty of men lamenting the way ladies seem to be uninterested in the nice guys and only want the bad boys. There is a grain of
truth to this.
M any ladies do like our men with a bit of mystery- not too squeaky clean. We like a man who is assertive and who can take us in the
bedroom. We dont want soft bodies, and soft voices. We want somebody who will stand up for us if need be.
It can be a turnoff if a guy tries too hard to please us by being overly accommodating and not having any of his own opinions. For example:
Lady: So where do you want to go tonight?
M an: Where ever you want to go
Wrong answer! We want you to suggest a great seafood restaurant, or cocktail lounge etc.. Have some opinions on things! She may say No
I dont like seafood and you can adjust your plans accordingly, but at least have a mind of your own. You dont have to be argumentative,
or disagree for the sake of it, just dont be afraid to say what you think or feel.
If you get accused of being too nice this doesnt really mean the problem is being nice. We all want to be treated well. It really translates
as You are weak minded and not assertive enough. You may also be too feminine and not blokey enough for us. Still, if this is who you are
dont try to change too much for her. There will be a woman out there who will love you exactly how you are.
I have found that most women are attracted to a strong man with a strong sense of self who knows his own mind. Dont expect her to have
to make all the decisions. She wants a partner, not a dependent child.
11. Being a slob.
Speaking of children that leads me to the next
point - we ain't your mamma.
A modern lady does not take too kindly to a
man expecting her to pick up or clean up after
him. These days a great way to impress a
woman is to show you are house trained and
you can cook. If you cant cook - start learning.
12. Tardiness.

If you say you will meet her somewhere for a date- dont be late. This is not a good look. If you are running late - let her know in advance
and apologise.
13. Getting drunk.
Dont get drunk to give you confidence. Intoxication is not sexy. Bourbon and beer breath is disgusting. Alcohol also impairs your sexual
performance and generally makes you come across as a dickhead. A few drinks is fine, but if you need to get tanked to give you confidence
in her presence - I would concentrate on finding natural ways to calm your nerves before you enter the dating scene.
14. Bad hygiene.
Hygiene is so important. This cannot be overstated. You can be the hottest guy in the world but if you stink you have no chance. Brush

your teeth, floss, use mouthwash and breath mints before a date. Good breath is crucial. Please dont kid yourself that she wants to smell
your man smell. It may smell good to you - but she is not sharing the love. At the same time she doesnt want you smothered in aftershave.
Just a subtle deodorant or a hint of aftershave on a clean, well soaped body is adequate. M ake sure you dont forget your old fella in case
you get lucky. You mustnt have more products than us or take longer in the bathroom than us. Dont over groom. That is not sexy.
15. Having no life.
Have a life. Dont expect to be an enticing, alluring catch if you do not have a life. This will make you seem dull and dependent. She wants
to add to your life, not create it for you.
16. Being a workaholic.
Find a job you enjoy and have work life balance. If you are a workaholic or stuck in a job you dont enjoy this will show. She may not want
to get involved if she knows she will play second fiddle to your job all the time.
17. Pointing out her flaws.
Do I have to explain this one? If you say anything negative about her body you may as well cozy up to M rs. Palmer right now buddy.
18. Bragging too much.
Dont just talk about yourself, big note yourself or name drop. Also dont talk about how much money you have unless you are actually
prepared to spend some on her while you brag. If you carry on about how rich you are, the celebrities you know and the car you drive she
will think you are a tool. Especially if you are being a bit of a cheap skate while you go on about your wealth.
Dont make her come and look at the car you drive. It is much sexier that she subtly finds out when you take her out to dinner. You wont
even get that far if you shoot your mouth off about how cool you are. You can at least pretend to be interested or impressed with her
achievements. You know this will get you ten times as far.
Dont tell her how many girls are after you. If she thinks you are a catch she will assume that anyhow. Telling her will make her think you
are a player or a knob.
19. S tomach churning fashion.
Get some advice on how to dress. Unless you know for sure you have fashion sense ask a lady friend to help you dress. Some good looking
guys kill it with shocking fashion sense. M ake sure your pants fit well- not too loose and not too tight. As far as undies go you dont need
to buy expensive undies as that looks like you try too hard. For heavens sake though, dont borrow your Granddaddys undies. I have seen
some shockers. OM G! Big skin coloured boxers are not sexy! Hawaiian, floral, or overly patterned collared shirts are also a bad choice.
20. Calling her pet names when you barely know her.
Dont call her babe too soon. She may not want to be your babe just yet. It may freak her out.
21. Jealousy.
Dont display jealousy, especially when she has just met you. Keep it to yourself.
22. S mothering her with attention.
Dont call/ message her too often or too little. There is nothing wrong with sending her texts to let her know you are thinking of her but have
common sense with it. If you have just met her then a message/ call every 2 3 days is good. Give her a bit of breathing space. Once you get
to know her a bit better then you can up it to daily texts or calls. Just dont suffocate her from the get go. She may run. Then again if you
hardly contact her at all she may forget all about you.
The trick here is to wait long enough to call her so that she is just starting to miss you and worry why you havent called, then you relieve
her worry by making that call. The relief she feels once she hears your voice means she will associate positive emotions with hearing from
you. If you dont give her the chance to even miss you for a second she wont get that feeling. As I have said dont leave this too long (e.g. 5
days or more) or she may lose interest.
23. Taking calls.
Dont take calls or play with your phone while you are out on a date with her. This is a big no-no. You can even turn your phone off or put
it on silent mode in front of her so she knows that your value and prioritise her company.
24. Being blas.
You need to show her you are interested and have a bit of passion there. If you dont show interest someone else will. You just need to not
overdo it. This means show her you are into her but give her enough breathing space while you are pursuing your busy life.
25. Bad kissing technique.
M ake sure you have a good kissing technique because if you stuff it up you can undo any progress you might have made. Still, dont
overthink itit has to be relaxed and natural. I will talk more about kissing techniques soon.

If you recognize yourself in any of the above 25 deadly sins, dont despair. The good news is we dont always write you off for just one of
these bad behaviors. Better still, not they dont bother every woman- just the majority of us.
Now you have a bit of insight into why you never got the second date with that sexy brunette you met last month you may stand a better
chance of wowing the next one with your incredible charm.
Whats that you say? You now know what not to do but are still clueless about how to literally impress the pants off her? Relax- I have
devoted the next chapter to helping you out with this.

Chapter 2
How to Seduce the Women You Want
Here are some ideas on how to make yourself more desirable: 1. Wear musky scented cologne as it mimics testosterone (1))
2. Do romantic gestures like bring her chocolates and flowers, and tell her she looks beautiful.
3. Teach a class to women about something you specialise in. For example if you are a mechanic, why not get a certificate to allow you to
teach mechanical knowledge to ladies. Be sure to do your research on any legal/ issues involved with this and ensure that you are fully
insured.
If you are a painter, teach painting, a musician, teach music. If you are teaching a group of women you automatically lift your status in their
eyes. You become the centre of their attention, they are all competing for your attention. You will exude an aura of being knowledgeable and
a specialist. What a great way to get laid whilst making money!
4. The number one tip I can give you on how to seduce a woman comes from a 68 year old man that I met once at a function. He told me
that on his bucket list was to sleep with 1000 women and he had nearly achieved his goal.
I asked him what his advice was on how to seduce a woman and his answer was very clever. He said Do a massage course. What a
fantastic idea! It doesnt have to be a long or elaborate one. It may only take a weekend or a week or two. Not only will you be learning with
lot of women who will probably practice on you, but whenever you meet a woman you are interested in you can offer to give her a nonsexual massage.
You dont have to do this overtly. You can just drop into the conversation at an appropriate point about how Yeah when I was doing my
massage course. So if you get chatting at the gym and you talk about building muscle and training etc. you can conveniently make
reference to your fabulous qualification.
Once you have got as far as the massage, if she hasnt made any moves on you then make the first massage completely non sexual, but very
relaxing. This will be a great way for you to break the ice with her, get used to reading her body language and building trust.
With the next massage, again try to read her body language. Test the water by touching an erroneous zone that is not too risqu like the
inside of her thigh. Is she tensing up or responding well? If she seems to be enjoying it concentrate on all of her erogenous zones without
actually touching her pussy. She will associate you with pleasure and voila! If you only take one piece of advice from this whole book and
you are a single man-please remember- make time to do the massage course.
5. If you are yet to meet a woman you like why not join an aerobics, Pilates or a yoga class. Some men say No waythat is for girls!
Exactly, it is for girls, who are often sexy and fit too. Guess who will be the only guy in the roomyou! They will all respect you for having
the courage and being open minded enough to do the class and they will be drawn to you. Not to mention the incredible perve potential there
guys. Come on, arent you secure enough in your masculinity to try it? You may even like it and get fit. This goes for any traditionally
female dominant classes or pastimes. Works like a dream.

6. Take it slowly. Dont try to sleep with her too soon. Start by just kissing her. Control yourself or you may lose her. If you show an
interest in her and let her confide in you she will start to feel emotionally intimate with you. If she thinks you are attractive, the physical
intimacy will follow.
7. Once you do get intimate with her, start off by massaging and caressing her erogenous zones. If you work on these zones instead of diving
straight for her pussy you will have her begging for it. So what are her erogenous zones? Well you are in luck! I have compiled a list:
Ears: Personally I hate my ears being licked or kissed, but some women do find this a turn on. Best to test the waters before diving in to
give her a wet willy with your tongue. It could be a bit scary if she is not into it.
Lips: Kissing can be a huge turn on or turn off. I like it when we are both in sync with each other. Not too much tongue- just enough. The
worst kiss I have had was where the guy stuck his tongue down my throat and didnt move his mouth at all. I felt like I was orally impaled
on him with no way out. He had no sensitivity to what I wanted out of the kiss. It is best to kiss her lightly to start with and work up to
more tongue. Just dont thrust your tongue down her throat, and dont keep it rigid in one spot. Try to keep the drool to a minimum too.
We dont want to be dribbled on. M ost of all make sure your breath is super sweet. I am talking brush, floss, mouthwash and mints. You
cant be too minty. Stinky breath is such a turn off.

 Behind the knee

Inner thigh
Lower pelvis: Lightly stroke her lower pelvis, just above her bikini line. Neck- Kissing the neck softly can be a turn on
Back: M assaging her back either firmly or gently (ask which she prefers) can get her in the mood.
Buttocks
Feet: Give her a foot massage with warm gel. Warming up a womans feet make her 30% more likely to have an orgasm. Of course if she is
warm she is also more likely to get naked. The areas for feet and genitals are next to each other in the brain so stimulating one area can
stimulate the other (1)
Breasts: Be gentle with our nipples unless we specifically ask you to be rough with them. I have had sexual partners who grab at them or
who chew/ suck so hard I am worried they may swallow them. Sucking our nipples can feel great, but dont do it too hard. They are
sensitive.
Clitoris: This little baby is discussed in the next chapter.

How to Please Her in Bed

First what NOT to do: I asked my friends what are the most irritating things that guys do during sex. Here is an edited version of what they
said. The unedited may be offend some sensitive viewers:
Overdone aftershave trying to compensate for poor hygiene. Unclean penises (please wash well under your foreskin)
M en who try to copy porno videos (those women are being paid a lot of money to look like they are enjoying themselves).
Digging your finger/ thumb into her clitoris while she is on top. Sticking fingers up there before we are aroused.
Playing with our anus and then using the same finger to play with our vagina (this is risk of infection).
Stopping and starting during sex (without keeping us aroused). Hula hoop shagging. We dont need round and round.
Being too rough with, or twisting our nipples. To paraphrase one lady Some men twist my nipples like they are trying to tune into kiss
FM .
The clitoris (I will call it by its nickname clit) is the Holy Grail. M ost women can bring themselves to orgasm just by playing with their
clit (yes my clit and I have had some wonderful times together). This area is very sensitive too. M ost men dont understand quite how
sensitive it really is.
The clitoris is covered by the prepuce, or the clitoral hood. You dont have to hammer her on it to get her excited. Just a gentle touch is fine.
You dont even need to take your finger off. Just move your finger in little circles around her clitoral hood. If you do this while giving her
oral or while you are inside her she will be more likely to cum. This spot is so important if you want to make your lady have a great
experience. Please dont forget it, whatever you do.
Do not pressure her to have an orgasm. The more she or you chases the orgasm, the further it will run. If you keep asking her if she is going
to cum or expect her to do it she may not get there. You can also try using flat of your hand to gently rub her pussy. This way you can
stimulate her labia (they are so underrated as an erogenous zone).
Once she is wet or you have applied lubrication you can softly massage just inside her vagina, or if her g-spot is a little further up you can
go a bit further up. Do not start sticking your fingers all the way up there right away. You only want to be doing this when she is really wet,
and you dont need to go really deep with your fingers at all.
Try using two fingers inside her and wiggling them alternately. What feels good can vary from woman to woman so it is important to keep a
close eye on how she is responding. Dont keep asking her if she likes it, just notice if she has changed her response (e.g. gone from moaning
to quiet, tensing up or moving away). If you get her really worked up with skilled foreplay, she will enjoy the sex a lot more.
There has been a lot of discussion by various authors and specialists about how there are several different types of orgasms women can
have. Who really gives a rats about learning all these different types? All we care about is that it feels good. You just need to know how to
achieve this. As long as you are stimulating our clitoris, or the g-spots inside our love tunnel you are on the right track.
So where is this g-spot of ours? This is usually not far from the entrance to our vagina. You may be able to feel a rough area on the front of
our vaginal wall. Some women also have a g-spot a bit higher up near their cervix. This is where big penises can come in handy. Penis size
will be discussed in the next chapter.

Sexual Positions (and Anal Sex)

There are hundreds of different sexual positions but some of the most common ones are missionary (her on the bottom, you on top), cowgirl
(her on top of you facing you as you lie down), reverse cowgirl (her on top of you facing away from

you as you lie down), doggy style (you kneeling down or standing and entering her from behind while she kneels in front of you), or
spooning sex, where you are both lying down and you enter her from behind.
All of these positions have their advantages and disadvantages with regard to how much they stimulate her mind and her g-spots. Try to
make sure that you are stimulating her clit while you shag her unless it is messing up your technique/rhythm. If you are in cowgirl position
what feels best for her is usually more of a grinding action, rather than just an in and out movement because this gives her whole vagina
stimulation.
As far as anal sex is concerned, some girls dont like the idea of it or the feel of it, some girls love it and cant orgasm without it. The
important thing here is to go gently at first and to see how hard she likes it. You guys often think that harder is better because you watch
too many pornos. Being shagged hard can be great but it doesnt apply to every situation. Remember to notice body language. Tensing uppushing you away, sounding like it is hurting means STOP what you are doing. Dont forget a bit of dirty talk like telling her how deep
inside her you are. This can be a turn on (it doesnt work for everyone).

How to Get Her to Go Along With Your Fantasies

The secret to getting her to agree to anything sexual is to make her experience enjoyable. You may want to be tied to the bed and teased but
what is she going to get out of it? M ake sure you give her what she likes too. She may like a massage or for you to give her oral first to get
her in the mood. Dont expect her to meet your needs if you are not willing to meet hers.
You could introduce her to the idea by giving her some info on it (e.g. an online article) and then explain that you would like to try it. Let her
know how it will benefit her or what you are willing to do for her so she will try it.

How to Break Out of Boring, Routine Sex in a Relationship

Couples often fall into the trap of having cornflakes sex. This is my name for sex that is so routine it becomes mechanical and boring as bat
shit. No excitement or mystery. It becomes just another thing on your to do list. Here are a few ideas to spice things up. Tread carefully
with this list though and use your own judgment on how open your partner is to trying new things. I absolve myself of any responsibility
for slaps in the head after making these suggestions:
Buy her some sexy lingerie
Start talking dirty to her (talk about your hard cock being deep inside her, that you are going to blow etc.)
Role play. M eet her at a bar and pretend to not know each other. Chat her up. She may pretend to resist your advances at first.
Look at her intensely and when she asks what you are looking at say passionately You! You look so freakin hot today! Remember the
key to making her want sex is to make her feel sexy. The formula is sexy=sex. Please learn that fellas.
Work out and look sexy. Then go out and pretend not to notice all the women checking you out. Women love seeing other women
checking out their man when their man only has eyes for them.
Buy some sex toys (like a vibrating cock ring or a vibrator for her)
Talk to each other about trying fantasies (e.g. bondage)
People are most attracted to their partners when they are either not with them (when they have been separated from them for a while) or
when that partner is the object of other peoples attention or admiration.
So the secret to injecting the spark into your love life is to create any one of these factors. If you are getting under each others skin and the
romance has died why not have a weekend away with your girl/ guy friends. Or take a holiday by yourself to a retreat. Tell her you will
miss the pants off her but you are doing it to get in touch with your inner self, and you need some solitude to achieve this. Or whatever cod
shit you need to spin. Just dont tell her you need to get some space from her. Otherwise she may give you more space than you had
anticipated.
It is so important to have a good amount of independence. By this I mean having your own life as well as being a part of hers. If your life is
her life, and her life is your life you have a recipe for claustrophobia and tedious sex. You need to have a bit of mystery in order to have that
sexual fire between you. Spending every waking moment with each other and cleaning up after your partner can kill passion. Everybody
seems to assume that living together is an inevitable stage as the relationship progresses. I would like to challenge that. Is it not possible to
have a wonderful relationship while still having separate homes? I think that sometimes cohabitating can dampen the fire.
If you want to become the object of other peoples attention or admiration this doesnt mean you should walk into a pub with your shirt off

and start to do a coyote ugly on the bar. This will not impress her. She will think you are a tool if you actively try to flirt with other
women to get their attention.
You are better off doing it by holding a talk or teaching a class about something you are good at. Or performing on stage in a band, or
anything like that which makes you the focus of attention without you behaving like a dickhead to achieve it.
Human beings are naturally competitive creatures. This is how we managed to survive as a species. Our less competitive ancestors died of
starvation. The idea is to fire up her competitive spirit without actually flirting or cheating on her. You do it by acting in a way that
commands respect or admiration.
Do not over do your devotion to your partner. It is good to treat her really well and tell her how much you love her, but dont make her
your whole life. She will no doubt feel suffocated and lose interest pretty quickly.

Great Oral
If you want to be great at oral please remember her clitoris. Stimulate all around her clitoral hood with your tongue, paying particular
attention to the 10 o'clock and 2 o'clock spots (1). You can then gently touch under the hood with your tongue (1). Please understand how
sensitive underneath this hood is. Dont over stimulate it. If you repeat this action for a while you will have her begging for it!
Once she is really wet use your fingers inside her vagina to stimulate her gspot, or just go in and out with one or two fingers (three can be
overkill). As long as you read her body language and check that you are not using too many fingers, or hurting her with your fingernails this
should feel really good.
Every woman is different. Some love oral, and some dont. Some ladies are selfconscious while receiving oral because they worry that it
smells or tastes bad. We may find our vaginas unattractive. It is important to reassure us that we smell/ taste and look great. Unless we
dont- then best give oral a miss!
It is a good idea to pay close attention to her body language. If you ask her if she is enjoying it she will probably lie to you. Every guy I
know thinks he is the best oral artist in the world. Women dont always tell you the truth- we sometimes tell you what you want to hear.

Penis Size, Penis Technique, Premature Ejaculation

As far as penises are concerned, what men think women want, and what women actually do want are not necessarily the same. Big dicks can
be good because they can hit all our g-spots more easily. Some women find them too painful to enjoy. I have known some men with big
dicks who have been rejected because of their size.
The most important factor in pleasing a woman with your schlong, is not actually the size but the strength of the erection. A lady can have
much better sex with a man with a small to medium very erect penis than with a man with a large, semi erect penis.
M en with smaller penises tend to be a bit better at foreplay than men with large dicks. If you are on the smaller side then foreplay is
essential. You can still give her a great time with your dick too as most women have a g-spot just inside their vagina. If you play with her
clitoris with your finger tip at the same time you will maximise her pleasure.
If you learn how to move your dick with your pelvic floor or abdominal muscles you can give her extra stimulation. If you are small you can
still be a fantastic lover. You just have to really get your technique right and focus on all her erogenous zones. This can make sex with you
much better than with the big dicked man who just shoves it in there, thinking because he is big that he will blow your mind.
If you find that your love making is over before it has started then there are some things you can do to make things last longer. Some men
find that if when they get close they withdraw for a bit they can make it last longer. You have to make sure you keep your woman aroused
while you are having your little break. You may want to keep playing with her clitoris or even use a vibrator.
If you tend to cum quickly, make sure that before you even start you get her really warmed up with foreplay first (see chapters 2, 3 & 7). If
you get her to the point where she is about to or has already had an orgasm, or is at least really wet before you penetrate her then she will
not be so disappointed if you cum quickly.
There may be underlying medical issues that are affecting your sexual performance so it is a good idea to talk to your GP about it. She/ he
may be able to recommend something to help. There is no need to be embarrassed to chat to them. It is more common than you think.

How to Get Your Partner to Want Sex More Frequently

Great sex is one of the biggest natural highs. Yet sometimes in long term relationships sex can become as tedious as
washing the dishes and mopping floors. Want to know why?
We are all motivated strongly by pleasure and pain. We are driven to seek pleasure and to avoid pain. If you have sex with your lady in a
way where it is all about you and she is not getting any major pleasure out it she will eventually see it as a chore and try to avoid it.
She is probably a busy lady and concerned about the consequences (the pain) of choosing to spend her time pleasuring you when she could

be achieving something that would benefit or lighten her load (instead of yours). For example she may have a big project at work, or other
work that needs doing, or she may just want to spend her free time by herself. So she is faced
with a decision of minimal pleasure vs. the pain of not doing what she needs to get done. You lose buddy.

I know you are thinking No way but I am great in bed! She moans and carries on like anything! I have news for you. She is probably
faking. I am not saying you are bad in the sack but you do need to make a few important changes.
Firstly you have to up her pleasure significantly and decrease her pain. Has she got a lot of work to do? M aybe you could help her with her
project or do the housework while she works so she has more time for sex.
As for the pleasure. Forget about the sex for a minute. Think of that as dessert. Give her a fantastic massage for a while. Not just a few
minutes before you go straight for her vagina. Spend about 15 minutes or longer massaging her (after all you have done a massage course so
you are good at it by now). After the 15 minutes you can start to touch her erogenous zones and slowly work up to her clitoris.
If your partner is really avoiding sex it is important to try to connect with her emotionally. Not just about sex but about other things as
well. Ask her how she is feeling and how you can help her. M ost importantly tell her she is beautiful. A lot of women go off sex because
they do not feel sexy. They can be selfconscious about their bodies. We have to feel sexy to feel horny. So let us know how attractive you
find us. Do not say it mechanically, say it with passion like you really mean it. You should not point out our flaws unless you enjoy
celibacy.
If she feels emotionally connected to you she will be more likely to want to be physically intimate with you too. If she is a tough nut to
crack offer to give her a non-sexual massage. Promise her that you will not require sex from her and that you just want to do it to make her
feel good. Stick to that promise. Do not touch her in a sexual way. This way you will get a second shot at it. This time you can go for her
erogenous zones but do not touch her vagina. Let her respond to you and encourage you before you go there.
There may be deeper, underlying issues that your partner is not discussing with you about sex. She may not be able to tell you that what
you are doing is not working or she may have bigger issues. Let her know that she can share with you and you wont be offended. Stick to
this promise. Dont make her regret her critique.
Women are actually very sexual and sensual beings. We are just turned on in different ways to you sometimes. Our number one erogenous
zone is our mind. If you make her sexual encounter with you be so full of good feelings (through massage, compliments and other benefits)
she will start to enjoy it a lot more.
You could tell her that you would like to, for the next few weeks enjoy some regular, sensual time with her, but you promise that there will
not be any penetration. This gives you both the chance to spend some time pleasuring each other without her feeling pressured. You both
get most of your needs met this way. She will learn to relax and enjoy the pleasant feelings associated with foreplay. It is important to
follow through with your agreement. Do not try to go all the way no matter how tempting. This is all about learning (or relearning) how to
enjoy each others bodies.
If your partner refuses to have sex, or at least talk to you about it, try alternatives to sex or get counselling then it may be time to look at
other options such as open relationships. This can only work with great communication, some ground rules and emotional maturity.

Ultimately the secret to attracting a woman is to look after her needs, while also asserting yourself and caring for your own needs as well. I
have given you a lot of tips on how to, and how not to act to make yourself more appealing. If any of these ideas seem completely unnatural
to you, or are incongruent with your personality it is best to avoid them. You dont want to play bait and switch where you pretend to be
someone you are not so she falls for you. This will only lead to heartbreak for both of you. It is not fair on her to completely mislead her. I
just want to give you the best shot at wowing this lady with your awesomeness. After all, you deserve great sex and relationships. Happy
love making fellas!
References

1. http://au.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_400/420_4-tricks-to-make-herorgasm.html)
2. http://myeroticcoaching.com.au