Beruflich Dokumente
Kultur Dokumente
on the cover
—Charles F. Stanley
features J U N E 2 0 1 0
6
Doing God’s Work
God’s Way
by c h a r l e s f. s ta n l e y
12 Saying Yes to
adventure
b y D a v id
early light
Get to know your heavenly Father better
32
with the help of these devotions from
Dr. Stanley’s sermons.
departments
16 solving problems 22 family room
Wanted: A New Kind of Leader Blessed into Exhaustion
b y b i l l p e e l b y a l l e n h a r r i s
You don’t have to be directing an army to fulfill It’s time to give up childish things and let your
the leadership role God has called you to take on. kids enjoy them for a while.
IN TOUCH MINISTRIES® INC., P.O. Box 7900, Atlanta, GA 30357 Dr. Stanley portraits
by David smith.
IN TOUCH MINISTRIES OF CANADA, Box 4900, Markham, Ontario L3R 6G9
NEW ZEALAND OFFICE, Box 33-1260 Takapuna, Auckland 1332 0-800-446868
www.intouch.org
All prices are in U.S. dollars unless otherwise noted. EVANGELICAL
E-mail magazine-related comments to magazine@intouch.org.
PRESS A
SSOCIATION
Visit www.intouch.org
Tonya Stoneman
Sandy Feit
“
SENIOR CO P Y E D ITOR
Erin Gieschen
A c q u i s i t i o n s Ed i t o r
Cameron Lawrence
c o py e d i t o r / W r i t e r
Lisa Dyches
C r e a t i v e D IRECTOR
Jeff Gregory
ART D IRECTOR
Joey Tindell
God,
I acknowledge that I have sinned before You, but I receive
Jesus’ substitutionary death on the cross as payment-in-full the mission of
in touch ministries
for my sin debt. I believe He rose from the dead, and I trust
Him as my Lord and Savior. Thank You for forgiving me, To lead people worldwide
into a growing relationship
for making me a new person, and for including me in Your
with Jesus Christ
family. I pray this in Jesus’ name. Amen.
and to strengthen
We will gladly send you our New Believer’s Kit to help you take the local church
the next step in your walk with God. Contact our customer care
department at 800-789-1473, or visit www.intouch.org.
p
a word from Charles F. Stanley
Cease Striving and
Know God
People live with a lot of stress these days. Whether
our economy is in recession or not, there are a
million reasons to be anxious: pressures in the
workplace or lack of employment, other people’s
criticism or hurtful actions, failing health or
ruined relationships.
Maybe you can’t clearly identify the source
of anxiety in your life, but you strive every day
to pursue your own agenda without God’s bless-
ing—this is the worst stress inducer of them all.
Whatever your situation, Psalm 46 holds the key
to dealing with demanding situations: “God is our
refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear,
“
though the earth should change” (vv. 1-2). The psalm continues, describing
earthquakes, fallen kingdoms, wars, and desolation, but concludes with these
words: “Cease striving and know that I am God” (v. 11).
To rest, you How can you do this when things are falling apart
all around you? To cease striving, you must rest in
must trust Him the Lord. To rest, you must trust Him completely.
completely.” And to trust, you must know Him.
So how do you get to know God? The process
begins when you place faith in Jesus as your personal
Savior. Then develop the relationship as you would with a good friend:
1. First of all, spend time alone with Him. You have to make an effort to
meet with Him regularly.
2. Get to know what He thinks—read the Bible, pray, and listen to sermons.
3. Observe what God does in other people’s lives and also in your own.
4. Tell Him honestly what you are thinking and feeling. It is important to
be open and transparent.
5. Be still and listen to Him. He will speak straight from His Spirit to your
spirit and quiet your troubled heart.
Once you understand that God loves unconditionally and forgives com-
pletely, you will be able to let go of guilt. When you realize that He has a
will and a plan for your life, you can stop worrying about the future. And
when you see how He turns suffering into something good, your fear will be
replaced by a growing confidence and inner joy.
6 | JUNE 2010 In Touch
God’s
way
One of the most amazing privileges
Human strength can never
replace divine power.
By C h arles F. S tanle y
www.intouch.org | 7
had remained unfinished for 15 years. disillusionment. Being sovereign, God
The Lord sent a message to the prophet always accomplishes His plans with or
Zechariah, encouraging Zerubbabel to without us. But by going our own way,
persevere and promising the completion we lose His blessing and the opportunity
of the temple. Although the work that to see Him touch others through us.
God ordains varies with each individual One danger of laboring in our own
and generation, the principle He gave to strength is an attachment to the job
Zechariah thousands of years ago is still rather than to God. Instead of thinking
applicable today: “‘Not by might nor by of ourselves as His servants, we can begin
power, but by My Spirit,’ says the Lord to consider the ministry as our own and
of hosts” (Zech. 4:6). derive our identity from it. In an attempt
In this verse, we find two contrasting to draw self-esteem and purpose in life
methods for completing from a task, we risk
a task. To tackle a job making it an idol.
with might and power Past achievements A believer’s identity
means to depend on can cause us to is in his relationship
our own resources and with Christ, not in
abilities, laboring with become overconfident what he achieves for
self-determination and and to think, the kingdom.
reliance on human under- Zechariah 4:6 tells us
standing and strength. “I can that the other option
At one point in my life, for accomplishing
I discovered the futility handle God’s purposes is “by
of this method. I took on
the burden of ministry
it.” [His] Spirit.” Anything
the Lord calls us to
and carried it till I was do should be done
so exhausted that I had with total reliance
to take three months upon the Holy Spirit,
off to recover. That was not how God who indwells us. Knowing that human
intended for me to do His work. strength was completely inadequate for
We are not called by the Lord to meet the service intended for His disciples,
every need or take on every opportunity Jesus instructed them to wait in Jerusalem
for service that we encounter. There is only until they were “clothed with power from
so much He has allotted for each person on high” (Luke 24:49). How foolish to toil
to do. Does your schedule hold more than in inadequacy and frustration when God’s
you can handle? If so, then it probably gracious provision is readily available
includes tasks that God has not meant for within us.
you. By spreading yourself too thin, the But how can we know if we are relying
assignments He chose for you won’t be on the Spirit? First of all, let me tell you
done well, and He will not be glorified. what this does not mean. Depending on
The Lord does not bless what we do the Lord is not a matter of praying for His
in our own self-determination. In fact, blessing on what we choose to do, abdicat-
He may withdraw His hand, complicate ing responsibility by “letting go and letting
circumstances, withhold the resources, God,” or turning to Him as a last resort
and frustrate our efforts. Self-reliance after exhausting ourselves and running out
results in stress, discouragement, and of options.
www.intouch.org | 9
So often we want to know the Lord Questions for further study
only through the comfort of our salvation God’s Perspective
experience, not through the struggles and 1. Read Psalm 127:1-2. What determines
obstacles of sacrificial service. But the whether your labor is vain or productive
apostle Paul came to know Christ more (v. 1)? What does God say about a
deeply through weakness, shipwreck, workaholic lifestyle (v. 2)?
beatings, and danger (2 Cor. 11:24-30). 2. Read 2 Timothy 2:20-23. What qualities
He faced constant opposition and intense hinder your usefulness to the Master,
suffering, yet considered all of this to be and which ones prepare you for every
“momentary, light affliction” which was good work?
producing “an eternal weight of glory far 3. Read Psalm 62:5-12. In verse 5, what
beyond all comparison” (2 Cor. 4:17). instruction can help you prepare for
Suffering is not a sign that we have a busy day ahead? When difficulties
and opposition arise in your job or
“
somehow gotten off track and failed
to do the work of God. Whenever His ministry, how can you enter God’s
path leads through a time of adversity, stronghold and not be shaken (vv. 6-8)?
the Holy Spirit can empower us with an What do verses 9-10 reveal about the
attitude of expectancy as we watch to see Lord’s perspective of what the world
what He will do. Knowing that the Lord calls success? How can verses 11-12
is laboring for our good enables us to motivate you to let God initiate and
endure the hardship with patience and empower all you do?
joy. If we persevere with faith and hope Our Reward
when difficulty arises, what a witness we 1. Read 1 Corinthians 3:10-15. How does
will be to a lost world! the Lord distinguish worthless effort
My heart’s desire is to do the Lord’s from eternally valuable labor?
work His way—that is true success. 2. Read Galatians 6:7-8. This passage gives
Big, fast, and flashy accomplishments us a further insight about this difference.
may impress people, but God aims for Explain it in your own words.
a deeper and more enduring success.
Our Hope
While human capability and creativity
1. Read Philippians 1:6. What does God
can be very remarkable, if the Lord is not
promise to do for you?
the one empowering the efforts, they will 2. Knowing that the Lord wants to do His
be like a meteor that burns brightly for work through you, pray Colossians 1:9-12,
a time and then passes off the scene into and believe that He will do it.
darkness, never bringing God glory or
accomplishing what He desired.
In contrast, the work that the Lord does
Confused about the
through us continues to shine like a star. Holy Spirit?
Although its success may not be obvious Dr. Stanley explains
from our limited earthly perspective, it why relying on the
will result in eternal rewards in heaven Spirit of God is the
only way to achieve
(1 Cor. 3:9-15). The goal of our labor spiritual victory.
should not be to make a big splash, but Living in the Power of the Holy Spirit
to end well, having done everything that uSmall hardcover | $12 (U.S.)
God entrusted to us—and in a manner See order form or visit www.intouch.org.
that gives Him all the glory and praise.
i
I saia h 4 0 : 1 2 - 3 1
Isaiah portrays the overwhelming nature of God’s power as far beyond human
understanding. Compared to His might, nations are a “drop from a bucket,”
the inhabitants of earth are “like grasshoppers,” and rulers can be dethroned
with the breath of His mouth. Yet the prophet’s impressive description of
divine omnipotence ends with God’s promise to strengthen those who wait
“
for Him. Our Lord loves us enough to use His limitless power to assist us in
our weakness.
But how many times do we struggle with what appears to be His inactivity
in our lives? Knowing that He “is able to do
God often does His far more abundantly beyond all that we ask or
work within rather think” (Eph. 3:20), we pray and wait for Him
than without.” to intervene in our circumstances, rectify
injustices, and rescue us from difficulties. But
the last phrase of that verse says, “according to
the power that works within us” (emphasis added). Sometimes the Lord deliv-
ers us from our afflictions, but many times He does His work within rather
than without. God’s glory and purpose are the factors that determine what He
will do (Eph. 3:21).
Consider how God uses His power to accomplish inner transformation:
uTo conform us to the image of Christ (Rom. 8:28-29)
uTo fill us with joy, peace, and
www.intouch.org | 11
saying
yes
to
adventu
I was working in my home office one summer day, minding my own
business, when my 15-year-old daughter Chera stepped in with a book tucked under
her arm. I knew the book; it was about a mountain climbing adventure that went really,
really bad. She had that dreamy look in her eyes, the kind you get after you travel
to and from faraway lands, vicariously living the adventure bound between the front
and back covers of your book. I was about to
ask her how she liked it when she suddenly
Why responding to our kids’
said something that would change our lives
forever: “Dad, I want to climb a mountain.”
invitations can make all the
I tilted my head to double-check the title difference in the world
on the book’s spine. Yep. That was the story b y D av id P ierce
where lots of people died. “Really?” I asked,
waving a hand at the book. “Even after that?”
Chera was unfazed. “There’s a mountain out in Colorado called Pikes Peak. I found it
on the Internet. There’s a trail the whole way up, and at the top, there’s a souvenir shop
that sells ice cream. Please?”
Ice cream at the top? How hard could that be?
My daughter seemed taller to me as she leaned against the door casing. Had some-
one asked five minutes before that moment, I’d have notched the casing an inch or
two lower. When did that happen? She was looking more like her mom than that little
girl who skipped from my truck to her kindergarten class every day. Had it really been
www.intouch.org | 13
food, a miniature stove, and even some pots draw of a lightning bolt. We followed it
and pans. And a tent with metal stakes. And relentlessly. The closer to the top we got,
a big hammer to drive the stakes into the the more often we had to stop to catch
ground. Like I said, way too heavy. our breath and drink water. My legs ached.
At the trailhead, where numerous wiry, My lungs hurt.
agile people hoisted small packs and started Sometimes I’d catch Chera bent over,
briskly up the hard path, we wriggled into hands on her knees, as if she’d been running
our pack straps and took our first steps. We sprints. I wanted to make it easier for her.
trudged, bent over, like two turtles, keeping But then she’d look up and cast her eyes
to the right on the trail, the slow lane. Despite out over the valleys and survey the length of
the fact that our lungs were adjusting the trail we’d already covered—and smile.
from middle Tennessee’s 600-ft. altitude I imagined God just above us (possibly not
to the 10,000-ft. point where we finally very far above us at all) watching us trudge
pitched camp, we made it seven miles— up this mountain. I guessed He was proba-
the halfway point—just before night. Our bly riffling through all the lessons He could
special camping-type chicken teriyaki was teach me at that moment, tickled by all the
crunchy, and since neither of us knew if it possibilities. He started me with this one:
was supposed to be, we didn’t eat much. The Even if I could have carried my daughter,
tent was the two-man size, which would’ve I wouldn’t have. This was her journey. She
been fine, but then we had to pull our giant was struggling, yes. She was in pain, yes.
packs in when the rain started. Even as we But wait till she gets to the top, I heard God
attempted to sleep, we looked like turtles. tell me. Wait till you see the grin I put on
Early the next morning, we crawled out her face then! And so we pushed on, sharing
of our shells. Chera’s face was swollen but our struggle as best we could, grinding out
I didn’t want to alarm her by saying any- one rocky yard at a time, until the ground
thing. “Whoa, Dad,” she said, studying my leveled out beneath us and suddenly we
face. “You don’t even look like yourself.” stood at the very top.
“Must be the altitude,” I told her. I hugged Chera close, her grin beaming
“What about me?” she asked. through all the layers of sweating fleece
“Um . . . you look a little . . . puffy.” She on my chest. Had someone asked me at
smiled puffily. I think she actually liked that moment about the pain, I would have
the fact that the mountain was working on answered, “What pain?” Then together we
her, on us. slipped into the foretold souvenir shop and
We left most of our gear behind, and shared the best ice cream cones in the world.
then climbed on toward the top. Physically We climbed down that mountain and
speaking, the next few hours were the finished up much as we’d begun: in a
toughest I’d ever spent. But with every cab, only this time heading to the airport,
step I took, I knew that Chera was taking bruised and battered, with Pikes Peak
the same ones. Her bones were younger, growing smaller behind us. Chera turned
yes, but this was our first mountain, and to me. “So, Dad, what do we do next?”
neither of us could have guessed how gru- “We’ll check our packs, get our boarding
eling this would be. We climbed up past passes, maybe grab a bite—”
the tree line, where our heads scraped the “No, no,” she stopped me. “What will
sky and the wind slowed down for nothing. be our next adventure?” There was that
The trail zigzagged across the craggy face grin again.
of Pikes Peak like the picture a child might Was that another invitation I’d just heard?
www.intouch.org | 15
D
solvingproblems
w
__anted:
______
a new
kind of
leader
________
God’s Calling for
Us Regular Guys
b y B ill P eel
www.intouch.org | 17
was putting too much pressure on me.
The next evening, he came into my room,
sat down next to me on my bed, and asked
my forgiveness—then actually cried in
front of me. That was the beginning of a
new relationship with my dad. From that
day on, he began to take responsibility
and prove by action that I was a priority
in his life, and it knit my heart to his. He
Investing in What You regularly spent time with me, making me
Already Have part of his world and himself part of mine.
During the first part of my life, my own He found a way to be at many of my prac-
father was fairly passive, as far as parenting tices and all my games, even when I just
was concerned. Everyone (including me) sat on the bench. Dad became an integral
loved my dad; he was a wonderful man, but component of my life and never quit
he just wasn’t engaged in my life early on. making the effort, because he decided to
take the initiative
to use what he’d
From that day on, [my dad] been given and do
began to take responsibility all he could as a
and prove by action that I father, even if no
was a priority in his life, one had showed
and it knit my heart to his. him how.
As the British
poet George
He’d grown up without a father, so how was Herbert said, “One father is more than
he supposed to know how to father a son? a hundred schoolmasters.” Study after
But then, Dad showed up in spades. The study shows that a family is better off with
crisis came when I was 14. Not only was I a father around. But not just any kind of
dealing with normal adolescent insecurity, father. Wives and children need a leader
but we’d also just moved to a different who understands his stewardship responsi-
city. I was adjusting to a new school and bilities to seek and serve
stressed out with advanced-placement each family member’s
classes. On top of that, I was in the band highest good—and
that semester, plus I was trying to play help each one
football. My day began with band practice become all that
at 6:30 a.m. and ended 12 hours later with God intended.
wind sprints in the Texas heat. When my We exist to serve
grades began to suffer, Dad showed his and sacrifice for
disapproval and applied the pressure. them, Christ’s
Four weeks into the school year, I was self-sacrifice being
toast. I woke up every morning with a the standard for
stomachache that finally got my parents’ our stewardship
attention. After a visit to the doctor— (Eph. 5:25; 6:4).
who found nothing wrong with me—I That involves a lot
blurted out to my mother that I felt Dad more than spending
www.intouch.org | 19
byfaith
B
MAP International fights diseases of poverty around the globe
b y S a n d y F e i t | p h o t o b y M A P I n t e r n a t i o n a l
www.intouch.org | 21
familyroom
A F a t h e r ’s W h i n e
b y A L L E N H A R R I S
I’m busy.
I know, I know. Oh, poor guy. He’s so between their roles as father, husband, son,
tired. He’s got so many important things friend, and provider. Maybe it comes with
going on. I imagine you hear my whine and time and experience. Maybe God sends
want to reach through these pages, grab the gift down like lightning from heaven.
me by the collar, and shout, “Hey, buddy, However it happens—if it ever happens—I
here’s a news-flash: Everybody’s busy!” just know it hasn’t happened to me yet.
Truth be told, I’m a bit ashamed to From my perspective, I’m running a
complain about feeling busy. I’m downright race with a moving finish line and no end
mortified to moan about feeling tired and in sight. My days, weeks, and months are
weary to my wife, the full-time stay-at- melding together like raindrops running
home, do-it-all supermom. down a windshield. Maybe you know
I suppose I’m missing some integral, what I’m talking about. Maybe you, too,
yet closely guarded secret to successful are a father who scratches his head at
fatherhood. I’m sure other fathers have it bedtime every night, wondering where
figured out, striking a magnificent balance the day went.
www.intouch.org | 23
Catching
the blessings
overflowing
from God’s
storehouse is
hard work!
in one hand and a remote control in the apostle Paul meant when he wrote, “When
other.) How foolish! I was a child, I used to speak like a child,
think like a child, reason like a child; when
Goodbye to childish things I became a man, I did away with childish
My life today is radically different than things” (1 Cor. 13:11).
the quiet, orderly one I maintained a little Isn’t it interesting that this gem of wis-
over a year ago. But the truth is, I absolutely dom immediately follows the Bible’s most
love my life now. I could not be more beautiful passage on love? It is as though
excited about my family or more grateful having a child gives us a glimmer of God’s
to God for all of these ridiculous blessings. viewpoint, on a much more personal level.
I suppose that’s what I’ve found so frus- It changes our perspective on the love we
trating over the past year. I never knew that knew, and shows us the love that can be.
it was even possible to be blessed to the “When the perfect comes, the partial will
point of physical exhaustion. Catching be done away” (1 Cor. 13:10). Suddenly,
the blessings overflowing from God’s what we once knew and adored isn’t good
storehouse is hard work! enough anymore. We’ve discovered some-
And because I’m not about to ask God thing better.
to stop sending His goodness my way, I I’m a daddy now. I’ve been a child and
must instead stay my own hand. Now is enjoyed childish things. And I still do
the season when I must learn to say no. fairly often—that’s okay. But the bottom
No, I may not be able to exercise six days line is this: it’s my daughter’s time to be
a week. No, I can’t update my personal a child. And she deserves a father who
blog every day or two. No, I can’t join your will make the time for her to be childish,
new Bible study or take a spontaneous who will provide the kind of home where
getaway trip with my wife. I’ve got to find she can rejoice in her frivolous ways and
the balance between what I want to do and infant bliss.
what I have to do. May God forgive this father’s whine.
Honestly, it’s hard saying no to things I And may He continue to pour out greater
want to do, places I want to go, and things and greater blessings to make me whine
I want to buy. I think that is what the even more.
“
Here’s a brief overview of what you should expect from the nonprofits you
support, and how In Touch strives for the highest standards of stewardship.
uKnow the mission of the ministries
Are the charities and you’re giving to—and whether they are
industries you invest using your gifts to fulfill it. In Touch
in keeping your exists to lead people worldwide into a
information safe?” growing relationship with Jesus Christ and
to strengthen the local church. Because of
this, we spend comparatively little on fundraising or administrative costs. Last
year 90 percent of income went toward fulfilling our mission of proclaiming
the gospel around the world.
uGive to ministries that protect your information. In Touch operates on the
www.intouch.org | 25
grounded
Confessions
of a COUCH
POTATO
You know them. You’ve seen them dashing After watching him compete, I became
through torrential rain, running in weather inspired. Finally, the pain of my day-to-day
so frosty their breath trails behind them like grind hurt more than the pain of change, and
smog from a
diesel truck. How I overcame my aversion to running
They wear
B y R obert
tight-fitting sleeveless shirts with loose, flow- B ruce
ing shorts. They confidently glide by your
house, head high, chest forward, like human God seemed to be saying, “It’s about
Transformers chasing down bad guys. time!” He helped me realize that getting in
Runners. They’re crazy. shape is far more than some two-week diet or
At least, that’s what I thought until I a magic pill. It’s about effort and discipline.
became one. So I got off the couch and started moving.
I used to sit on my couch, entranced by Five months after my friend’s visit, I com-
my 42-inch Panasonic plasma, certain of pleted my first half marathon in 2:02:16.
their mockery as they annoyingly sprinted But progress didn’t come overnight. In my
past my driveway. Lazy dude that lives there, past life, I understood race times and pace
they must have thought smugly. Fat belly. about as well as the technical complexities of
Fat face. Totally trashed body. Bum. ballroom dancing. I just didn’t get it. When
I basked in the glory of my inertia, I initially took up jogging—when my shins
munching Fritos® and pondering fantasy started screaming to stop it already and my
football strategy while they logged another heart beat so hard I was sure passersby could
four miles. At work, I sat at my desk for hear—I understood that getting in shape is
eight hours, exerting no more energy than tough, especially at first.
what it took to click a mouse and—on adven- Every day, running tests my commitment
turous days—exchange the elevator ride for and willpower. It’s 7 a.m. on a Saturday, and
a walk up two flights of stairs. Meanwhile, I’ve got 12 miles of training ahead of me.
they put in 30 minutes on the treadmill The inner dialog goes something like this:
at lunch. In sum, I was the anti-runner. It’s gonna happen anyway. So will you sleep
The transformation started with a visit in and sweat through 80-degree heat, or
from a friend who was participating in get up early and take advantage of the cool
Nashville’s Country Music Marathon. morning weather?
one more mile,” while my heart says I’m God gave us just one of these “temples.”
just getting started. My brain warns that And since we’re made in His image, I don’t
the hill’s too steep, while my heart asks, think He wants us to sit back and let our
“What’s the big deal?” See why the mind hearts fizzle out while we prop up our feet
can’t be trusted? and refuse to sweat a drop.
So maybe those runners weren’t crazy Does this mean that everyone should
after all. Maybe they were on to something. train for marathons? Definitely not. It
If I’m honest, I admit they annoyed me simply means that we all have the respon-
only because I envied them—their fitness, sibility to take care of our body. As with so
their confidence, their willingness to go out many things in life, God will most certainly
and do something. But instead of getting lead us to different ways of accomplishing
off the sofa, I chose to judge all runners as this. He led me down the path of the crazy
a bunch of overachieving, over-the-top fit- runner, and I’m better for embracing it.
ness freaks. Essentially, my criticism was In fact, it’s time for a run now. Care to
nothing more than a twisted form of praise. join me?
They had something I wanted, but I wasn’t
willing to make the sacrifices to reach their
level of conditioning. x VISIT GROUNDED. In Touch’s new
online community helps 18- to 25-year-
olds connect with like-minded young
But the most important thing I’ve learned Christians. Create your own profile,
since starting this journey is that my health start blogs, hear podcasts, and share
and my faith are not part of two separate ideas at www.intouch.org/GROUNDED.
www.intouch.org | 27
stronginspirit
POWER on LOAN
What the rise and fall of kings can teach us
about the world’s most temporary commodity
b y D a n S c h a e f f e r
www.intouch.org | 29
wealth for his nation: “Do you become a Abuse of power leaves lingering bitter
king because you are competing in cedar? memories—unless it’s corrected in time.
Did not your father eat and drink and do God’s prophetic words about King
justice and righteousness? Then it was well Jehoiakim’s demise (22:18-19) finally
with him. He pled the cause of the afflicted came true: he died in disgrace, and when
and needy; then it was well. Is not that what he was gone, no one mourned him—not
it means to know Me?” (vv. 15-16). even his own family. But humbled and
Daniel, in a significant yet lesser position changed by his seven years experiencing
of power, used every bit of his influence to powerlessness, Nebuchadnezzar made
serve. Besides setting a righteous example, a “180.” When the Lord restored his sanity
he interceded for his people and prayed for and his throne, the king used his authority
forgiveness on their behalf (9:1-19). to honor the true God before the entire
Any power we have is entrusted to us for empire and exhorted his subjects to
purposes beyond our own gain or sense of worship the true King. Nebuchadnezzar’s
“
worth. Do we see our positions of leadership change of heart changed how he would
as a God-given opportunity to help those be remembered.
put under our charge—or as an opportunity Others have discovered the value of
to advance and promote ourselves under doing likewise. Consider the Swedish
the guise of helping others? How might we chemist who was startled to open the
use our influence to serve and intercede for paper and read his own death notice,
those with lesser positions? titled “The Merchant of Death Is Dead.”
It read, “The inventor of dynamite, who
Power abused will become power lost. died yesterday, devised a way for more
Jehoiakim’s lack of integrity and compas- people to be killed in a war than ever
sion provoked God’s judgment: “Woe to him before, and he died a very rich man.”
who builds his house without righteousness It was a mistake, of course (his older
and his upper rooms without justice, who brother had died), but this obituary
uses his neighbor’s services without pay and had a profound impact on the inventor.
does not give him his wages, who says, ‘I will He decided he wanted to be known for
build myself a roomy house with spacious something other than developing the
upper rooms’ . . . Your eyes and your heart means to kill more people efficiently and
are intent only upon your own dishonest amassing a fortune in the process. So he
gain, and on shedding innocent blood and initiated a series of awards for scientists,
on practicing oppression and extortion” writers, leaders, and humanitarians whose
(Jer. 22:13-14, 17). Jehoiakim was just taking work fosters the advance of peace in the
advantage of a royal “perk” of the day: using world. We now call this the Nobel Prize,
his status to build palatial homes for himself after the Swedish chemist. Alfred Nobel
while manipulating the people for whom he once wrote, “Every man ought to have the
was supposed to advocate. This was an abuse chance to correct his epitaph in midstream
of power, and God called him on it. and write a new one.”
Might we be guilty of such abuse? Are Even if we’re already at midstream,
we exploiting others’ vulnerabilities and we can still become the kind of people God
failing to consider their needs? Have we can entrust with power—people who use
truly considered that God can at any time the advantage or privilege they’ve been
remove our influence at home, work, or given to serve others and glorify our all-
church when we overstep our authority? powerful God.
i
>> Call to Action
b y L in d a Can u p
It was a slow night at the Village Inn, as Tuesdays usually are at most pan-
cake houses. So the teenage waiters thought it would be funny if they just
ditched the place.
“I knew it was wrong, but I watched as, one by one, all my friends headed
out to the parking lot and drove away,” says Phil Stacey as he remembers his
16-year-old self plus a cook and a host being left to man the restaurant. It’s
“
fine, he reasoned. Nobody’s here.
But they didn’t know an Amway Convention was in town that night. Or that
when the event let out, attendees would suddenly fill the restaurant to capacity.
Phil panicked when he saw the flood of
. . . his father asked, patrons walk through the door. I can’t do
‘Son, do you want to this, he thought, and called his dad to see
be a boy, or do you if he could quit. After a pause, his father
want to be a man?’” asked, “Son, do you want to be a boy, or
do you want to be a man?”
Was this a trick question? “I don’t know,”
Phil replied. “What do you want me to be?” “I want you to fulfill what you com-
mitted yourself to,” his dad answered.
Um, okay.
Encouraged by the conversation, Phil jumped onto the hostess’s desk and
addressed the crowd. “Can I have everybody’s attention? Welcome to Village
Inn! I’m going to take care of you, but I’m the only server here tonight, so you
have to be patient with me.” The crowd was supportive and excited—“like,
‘woo hoo!’” says Phil.
Then just as he rounded the third booth, the front door opened and in
walked his dad. “Son, how can I help?” he asked. His father spent the entire
night there with his son, serving drinks, apple pie, salads, and whatever else
the customers ordered.
Today, Phil is a Naval reservist, the father of two daughters, and, perhaps
most recognizably, a Season Six American Idol finalist. But he’s never forgot-
ten the life lesson of this story: “If you, as a Christian, submit your life to the
will of the Lord, there is no doubt that God is going to give you a job that is
too big for you—but He’s not
To order Phil Stacey’s newest
going to let you do it alone.
album, see the order form or
He doesn’t call you to sit on visit www.intouch.org. Now
the sidelines; He calls you you can
Into the Light listen in our
online
into action.” uCD | $14 (U.S.) bookstore!
www.intouch.org | 31
1
tuesday
The Priority of Life
One Year
the bible in
Es ther 6-10
2 3
wednesday thursday
God’s Amazing Staying on Course
Promise
read | Luke 12:22-32 read | Hebrews 12:1-2
Will you believe God, seek His kingdom, We must remember that the goal isn’t to
and rest in the peace that passes under- focus on the path or to try and find our way;
standing? Or will you doubt Him and live instead, we’re to fix our eyes on Jesus. He is
with the anxiety of not being sure your not only our guide but also our destination.
needs will be met? The promise is given, And He will welcome us home with open
the fulfillment is certain, and now the arms when we finish the race and cross
choice is yours. into eternity.
www.intouch.org | 33
4
friday the weekend
Feelings of Inferiority Healing for
Inferiority
read | Ephesians 2:10 read | Ephesians 3:14-21
34 | J u ne 2 0 1 0 In Touch
7 8
t
monday tuesday
A Cheerful Giver God’s Grace and
Our Finances
read | 2 Corinthians 9:6-12 read | Proverbs 3:9-10
The Lord’s ultimate plan does not include I am not preaching a so-called “prosperity
making all of His children prosperous. His gospel,” wherein godly people are rewarded
purpose is to make every one of us generous with riches. Poverty and tough times are
with all that we have—wealth, compassion, as common to believers as to unbelievers.
knowledge, etc. Cheerful giving is coura- However, the Bible promises that if we live
geous giving because we have to trust that by God’s grace, He will provide amply for
the Lord will provide. whatever we need (2 Cor. 9:8).
www.intouch.org | 35
9 10
wednesday thursday
Open Up to Others Courage in
the Lonely Hour
read | 2 Corinthians 6:11-13 read | 2 Timothy 4:6-18
Relational walls can be hard to recognize. Have your circumstances left you feeling
Unforgiveness, a sense of unworthiness, and lonely? Remember times when God was
fear of rejection are common reasons for evident to you—when He clearly revealed
self-protective barriers. Ask God to reveal His hand in your life. And read His Word so
any ways that you’re shutting someone out. that the truth of His presence can comfort
He will help you demolish all hindrances to and encourage you. As a believer, you are
your relationship with Him and others. truly never alone.
36 | J u ne 2 0 1 0 In Touch
11
friday the weekend
Strength for The Privilege of
the Lonely Knowing God
read | Isaiah 41:9-11 read | Psalm 19:1-6
Remember, even in painful circumstances, Can you recognize evidence of the Almighty
three truths are certain: Jesus stands with in creation and in the “law” written on your
us; He strengthens us for whatever task conscience? Do you seek to know Him bet-
God wants us to accomplish; and He will ter through His Word and the example of
enable us to fulfill God’s purpose till our Christ? The Lord desires a relationship with
final breath. Be comforted and encouraged you and is calling. Answer with a seeking
by these promises of the living Lord. heart, and watch for God to “show up.”
www.intouch.org | 37
14 15
monday tuesday
The Privilege A Clear Conscience
Corrupted
read | Romans 1:21-34 read | Ac t s 2 4 : 1 0 - 1 6
Look around; notice the manifold evidence What would you say has the greatest
that points to a holy, loving God who desires impact on your belief system? Is it the
an intimate friendship with you. Don’t put truth of Scripture? Or do the world’s
off accepting His offer of relationship— standards of right and wrong infect your
the consequences of rejection are far too heart? Almighty God knows what is best
dangerous, and the benefits of saying yes are for you, His child—and He gave you a con-
beyond what you can imagine (Eph. 3:20). science to aid in making wise decisions.
P s al m s 8- 1 6 Ps alms 17-21
38 | J u ne 2 0 1 0 In Touch
16 17
wednesday thursday
Ignoring the God’s Love
Conscience Comforts Us
read | 1 Timothy 1:18-19; 4:1-2 read | Romans 8:38-39
Are your internal signals in good working The Father’s care for us shines brightly
order, or have they become muffled? Don’t through the cross—it was because of love
delay. Scripture warns us that we have a that He sent Jesus to earth to die in our
real Enemy who desires to lure us away place (1 John 4:9-10). Once we accept the
from godliness and into destruction. God gift of salvation through Christ, nothing
uses a clear conscience to guide, protect, can separate us from God’s love. What
and lead us into His light and peace. a comfort that is in times of need.
P s al m s 2 2 - 2 7 Ps alms 28-34
www.intouch.org | 39
18
friday the weekend
The Father’s A Faith Worth
Good Gifts Passing Down
read | Matthew 7:7-11 read | 2 Timothy 1:3-7
When it seems that the Lord isn’t answering Parents should be intentional about passing
your requests, remember that He’s a loving down faith to their sons and daughters. But
Father, and consider what good gifts He is even the childless have opportunity to leave
giving instead. Although it may take years to this godly legacy to the next generation of
gain an adequate perspective, in time you’ll believers. Paul nurtured new Christians as
say, “Lord, You were right. Thank You for a father would his children, and he encour-
giving me exactly what I needed.” ages us to imitate him (1 Cor. 4:14-16).
P s al m s 35 - 3 9 Ps alms 40-46
40 | J u ne 2 0 1 0 In Touch
21
a hymn about
Christian Parents
the influence of monday
God Knows
Our Needs
read | Philippians 4:10-19
Happy the Home
When God Is There T oday’s passage presents an interesting
paradox. Paul promises the Philippians
that God will supply all their needs (v. 19)
Happy the home yet admits that he has experienced times of
when God is there want (v. 12). To reconcile these two state-
ments, let’s consider God’s divine viewpoint.
And love fills everyone
Paul wrote these words from a prison
When with united work cell—a place of great physical discomfort.
and prayer From a human perspective, we would all
The Master’s will is done. agree that God should have provided for
Paul by relieving his suffering. But instead,
Happy the home the Lord taught him contentment in this
difficult situation. Although his physical
where God’s strong love discomfort remained, a greater need for a
Is starting to appear, changed attitude was met.
Where all the children A change of heart toward ongoing suf-
hear His fame fering is a huge challenge. On our own,
And parents hold Him dear. it’s impossible, but the Lord promises to
strengthen us through Christ. By living in
dependence and submission to Him, we
Happy the home gain His power to overcome our negative,
where prayer is heard sinful attitudes and learn contentment in
And praise is everywhere, all kinds of situations.
Where parents love Our problem is not that the Lord won’t
the sacred Word provide for us, but that we so often fail
to understand what our deepest needs are.
And its true wisdom share. God sees from an unlimited perspective
and works for our eternal good, provid-
Lord, let us ing for us according to His good purposes
in our homes agree from the limitless supply of “His riches
This blessed peace to gain; in glory.”
Unite our hearts e a r l y l i g h t
One Year
Used by permission. the bible in
Ps alms 47-51
www.intouch.org | 41
22 Jesus 23
tuesday wednesday
Identifies The Greatness
with Our Needs of God
read | Hebrews 4:14-16 read | Isaiah 40:12-26
Whatever your needs may be, you can Consider the awesome God we serve.
follow Christ’s example and experience the He truly is worthy of our praise. As we
Father’s provision. The Word of God is your grasp even a fraction of His greatness, our
protection, prayer is your strength, and response should be one of humble worship.
submission to the Father is the way to vic- After all, who are we that a God like this
tory over sin. Draw near with confidence, would desire our friendship—so much so
and let the Lord shower you with His grace. that He sent His Son to die for our sins?
P s al m s 52 - 5 9 Ps alms 60-66
42 | J u ne 2 0 1 0 In Touch
24 25
thursday friday
Attributes of God Wants and Needs:
The Difference
read | Psalm 90:1-2 read | Psalm 34:8-10
What a blessing that our holy Lord would The heavenly Father wants to be His chil-
reveal His character to us through the Bible. dren’s greatest delight—the One in whom
And how amazing that He makes it pos- fulfillment and satisfaction are found.
sible for us to have a relationship with Him When that is true in a believer’s life, then
through His Son Jesus. Praise Him for His he or she does not require a lot of “stuff,”
attributes, and continue seeking to know entertainment, or people in order to be
Him better through His Word. happy. Joy is in the Lord.
P s al m s 6 7 - 7 1 Ps alms 72-77
www.intouch.org | 43
28
the weekend monday
The Origin of God Is Present
Unmet Needs in Dark Times
read | Romans 5:6-8 read | Genesis 39:1-23
God desires to be our unlimited emotional When troubles hit, remember what is true
resource. In fact, if our self-worth is based and take heart. The indwelling Holy Spirit
upon anything but Him, then it is unstable. has the resources to provide what we need,
A rock-solid self-image is rooted in the rec- equip us for the journey, and sustain us
ognition of who we are in Christ—beloved, with His presence throughout the dark days.
redeemed, and holy children. Nothing Nothing can stop the purposes of our Lord
changes His opinion. from being carried out (Isa. 14:27).
P s al m s 78 - 7 9 Ps alms 80-85
44 | J u ne 2 0 1 0 In Touch
29 30 Itto IsBeGood
tuesday wednesday
God Is With Us
in Hard Times Afflicted
read | Genesis 41:14-44 read | Psalm 119:71-76
We can see our faith grow by relying on Second Corinthians 2:14 tells us that
our heavenly Father the way Joseph did. believers are a sweet aroma on the earth.
When we give God His rightful place in our Those whom God leads to triumph over
lives as Lord, His presence will strengthen affliction become the fragrance of His
us to resist temptation. Then we, too, will be care to a hurting world. We carry cheer
equipped to do kingdom work and ready to to the discouraged, relief to the hurting,
proclaim His greatness to those around us. and the message of Christ’s love to all.
P s al m s 8 6 - 9 0 Ps alms 91-99
www.intouch.org | 45
Life Principles Series
In His Word, God has given us the promises and
precepts we need to become mature followers of
Jesus Christ. Dr. Stanley’s three-volume set provides
in-depth teaching on the 30 key biblical principles
that have shaped his life and ministry.
Life Principles Series
u6-CD Set, Vol. 1 | $20 (U.S.)
u6-DVD Set, Vol. 1 | $30 (U.S.)
u6-CD Set, Vol. 2 | $20 (U.S.)
u6-DVD Set, Vol. 2 | $30 (U.S.)
u6-CD Set, Vol.3 | $20 (U.S.)
u6-DVD Set, Vol.3 | $30 (U.S.)
To Be Successful, You
Can’t Exclude God
Chasing after the things of this world offers no guarantee
of contentment. Dr. Stanley’s ten-sermon set teaches that
true success can be found only in loving God and obeying
His commands.
Success God’s Way
u10-CD Set | $35 (U.S.)
u10-DVD Set | $40 (U.S.)
our magazine NON-PROFIT ORG.
has always been PO Box 7900 U. S. POSTAGE
PAID
Atlanta, GA 30357 IN TOUCH
MINISTRIES, INC
Free