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    Searls Chapter 9 OEDIPAL LOVE IN THE COUNTERTRANSFERENCE (1959)! ves paper will advance three hypotheses which, at wil be shown, are interrelated: (a) in the eouree of a successil tals! the analyst goes threagh a phase of eactng ty v4 eventually relinquishing, the patient as being his oedipal lovebject;(¢) im normal personality development, the parent reiprovates the child's oedipal love with greater imteniy than we have recognized heretofore; and () in such normal develop- reas the passing ofthe Oediptor compli at lene as important sphase it ego-development asin superegeedevelopmnet, Since 1 began doing prycho-nalysis and intensive peycho- therapy, T hate foun, time after time, that in the course of the ‘work with every one of my patient who bss progrested to, oF ‘ery ir towards, a thoroughgoing analytic cite, Ihave exper enced sand fantasies of Being i, the patient. Such fantasies and emotions have 3 ‘he usally zclavely late in the course of teatne Nave been present act briefly but unvally for a mumber of months, and have subsided only after my having experienced a ret) of felings-frotacion, separation snsiey, grit and 40 sitely akin to thove which attended what f experienced the resoluion of my Ocdipus complex late in my personal \ anal. W'Ks [shall etal aver, withthe fr few patiens towards whom {oun mysel having such feelings I eacted with much ansety, rane ero eet ti Taieceat ace nyt ma shes toca Tanna ago aca eh ieee me ures rte coe See ee oer COUNTERTRANSFERENCE cembarrasiment, and guilt. My taining had been predominandy elingg Othe ular ‘Dbservatlons of colreguc ie Acc uae. eso a rami oe Scotasart seer sere ieitucvee ce apnrtimnc ope Eni sree amet Gaeta omit troas Sorel cameamnensmes) pombeomnt wing achat pee tga aoe a seats unequivoalythae no for of erotic Festian wo a patient bf Weel every vier on the wbject of eountertanserene 5 be ee hee But in relatively recene years, an Increasing numberof writers, such as P. Heimann (1950), M.B. Cohen (1952), and B. Welgert (1952, 3954), have emphasized how much the analyst can learn aout the patene from noticing his own feelings of whatever sort, in the analytic reladonthip. Weigert (1952), defining counter~ transference as emphatic identification with the analysand, has stated that In terminal phases of ana tednirence goes hand in and with the reattin of counters resallion of wansorence Tnsome respects this chapter may be regarded as complementing the paper by Weigert from which T have just quoted. These atonal pasager from her article shove her view of counter= transference, inte epecilsense in which she deBines ita beng an. innate, ineviable ingredient inthe peychosanalytie relationship, and they show, in particular, the flings of os which the analyst ‘experiences withthe termination of the analysia. But T wish to point out thatthe particular variety of countertansference with Sabetnie aerate btlchome at ai cently Adeaice ARENTA AND RELATED SUBJECTS 14 ee, is evidently that of the analyst's ff and protecuve part to the analysand, + se slhuible reasons wy In he Sst phawe i is espaclly 5 seseve snd inn analyte eset, The termination (whlch mates al the renstanens itermarlrence to), fr a Baal “oknon 1) devcebed the terminal Sessa lll selsing the Ondipus cont in whieh the fg pater pognanty expresed ed sy. and wrath of he the pont dig Yo be eyposed to such an vive inna fly sto the tacieperminion that fit ie ana ol ema hi euge from the hardhip of boa stating fo hi, By ataning mishibied, tender attachment to the parece he cam deewmtent the cuales of taneous with the patient and thi & nd of an anal tbe unreveraned withthe Srords maintain acai rranserence at well athe taal: rv of rvhuem. Thnapalaa Sate tert of equa, nes no ionger nessa an “ETE WANT the clade of deuched thatthe pales labour of mouriag fr ‘uachanens meats comple, 1am srting the point shat before am analysican ninate, the analyt rout have experienced a role tranvfeence tothe patent as being a deeply rad tan rig, ine by Toe 286 pee COUNTERTRANSFERENCE, bowed, and dire, gre not oly on hs nf ‘aie: has exphascel vluably, but also on an see Uses Wages paper which heed meTo late he ews ‘Sek Taringa here, might be put with sine hat Ss expen le oa pou at a extend Soa a Ince abe sata Serpe : thins Selig ctonted bikae oft beng Flow ec wo Shopondete ean. Sipe Bp Ester 0 ame amy cloe the) ore vich I tvancehere: Une Weigert eid te tere “untrranferene to howe phenomena hich ae traaernce fine aap open final he more ing, Recor, tare Gs events clacally defined counteretaene 6 tions tothe analy proses 1s is my belief that here are inevitably, naturally, and often sity, many countertranerence developments in every analyse (wm evanescent-some sustained), which are a counterpart of the thtufsence phesonens, Taree oeagsacan) beeen rasan odessa te a fig on at uneonso evety ay Be at ne SEIY ey er ea te tpn af emmiuaraece + ss anequivecaly has so fom fete eatin wm pee to ‘otra, ‘Ths would indice tae temptations ich area ate (ges, tad perhaps cbiqetonn. Tins the Se mere our which, Scie ‘very authors very cera oatmeal postion, Other ‘oumeanlerner’ manibtations are oot routy condemned: “Taare, Tanume that rote eon to seme extn rouble ely (eer analy, This an interesting phenomenon and one that ell ‘Sribenigation. In my experience ually al ping when hey fuineoough confident their tag, report erode flings and Spa tvard the patient mally oso wha god dl of far and cond.» Tour selctina of cana or eainig, we ae ipod to dor een to the Ubldnal ravares St tae aplcay on ae ‘cry nat age amon of vn bdo are neeaay to oleate ‘be heay aco mimber af iensive aalyen At hese ey Ye deride slmor every detectable bidinal investment made bya {Satin a patent svar forms of erate fantasy and erotic ‘Gumterranference phesomena of & fantasy and of tn afte ‘Sancerare nay experience ubigliou and presumably normal. 287 Fhe Geese ooioincie erences ee ee eer Se ee ee SES a mses eae ceeoce ere ae ce eee ara rae ee emit Sate rae Se ee eee ere See ee ea, ane Sree tiacet sides hear ta atta ene ee Seeiioth retried nie ee ae en caer eee eee While I as writing a preininary draft ofthis pape, there was presented at the May 1957 meeting of the American Paychor Analytic Assocation, in’ Chieago, a paper which is highly relevant to this one. That paper, entitled “The Incest Barter’, was written by M.J. Barry, Jr, and A. M. Johnson (1957). The authors kindly provided me with a copy oft for my parposet here, In their paper, they set out to elucidate the nature ofthe incest barier, bath as it exist inthe family and as it exists in the analytic relationship. They present evidence that the barrier | against motheraon ince is Universally and rigorously present, in contrast to che barrier against fatherdaughter incest which i ‘ot universally present in all cultures, and of which che authors were able to find many instances of transgression in our own Culture, whereas in their own material they encountered n0 ine stance of motheron ince Tn diecting especially detailed serutiny, then, 10 this especially rigorous incest barsier~that hhaving to-do with motherson incest~the auchors present a de | COUNTERTRANSFERENCE tailed examination ofthe terminal phaze ofthe analyse of a male patient By a woman, a situation which they regard as being ed to show us the ature of the mother-iom incest barter. ‘eis in ther study of this analytic situation thar Barry and JJohnucn make observations shih are ofcloiet relevance to the ‘prevent paper, Although they do not Enk the analve' feelinge Fesporsc, a8 1 do, to her own Oedipus comples, they describe {ese esponss with a eandour which I consider courageous and badly needed; they leave the clear impresion that the patent™=| experincing of, and eventual elinguishment ef, hi oedipal fivings are met, in the analyst, by deeply fle reciprocal re- sponse. The spirit ofthe paper, as well as is conclusions, are Requately conveyed by the nuthor?” Final paragraph As ofthe emia pte of ants paint an analyst thc opplie expr te nga se are fe (oie ts tn) bar Bre afer anh fcanvaon sony on tc dase sebe metedianly pursed, hee wil i a ceeren to inesons geal flflncay senlve subi and aac eaminaion ef sat Sar inde tte auc sep by oth pare anaes fom the rection that cher no compelling desire DS'Wat the perdpuns orer dn any rantenie, Nari totedin ile pendency There aks frst the esos teary ofthe manience dependency. Real mara and eco sy woos dev Goa etal of ice gal bY hth frotpei enunclion comes abou by recogtion the seprate [Saints of he potsonts and oe Sey fk ackowiedge inert smu ve and eps fr the nda concord From heparan coe reicain of the capacty fr fling ved tht uaboud, The scengation of cnc capt fr being loved ‘henone aot pes Se dependers fre the seching oa nee Sati av objec ule of he Sealy. In presenting now, from my oven work, lineal examples of the caneepts which Y am puting forward here, Y shal be brief, and tot only beeause discretion makes it difficult to go into great deta T thik fee beef examples will be quite soficent for my purpose, ‘Ore of my euler experiences with what I thik of as oedipal love in the counteruansierence occurzed in the course of the analy, several years ago, of a woman in her middle twenties, Invally, she had manifested a poorly established sexual idemtitys 28 | \ SCHIZOPHRENIA AND RELATED SUBJECTS her femininity wae considerably repressed, with an overlay of| hich penis envy. But over the cou of four years of an une tually successful analy, she developed ino a woman whom T found very likeable, warm and sexually atractve. Hound myself Tnving, partclatly during about the lat year of eur work, 0 be married toher, nd fantasies of being het seach of theve clinical instances which T shall re- scan abundance of'eamry over of uch responses on fy part, ino both waking life afier the analytic sesions, and fo tear aswell reacted fo such Eelings with considerable (Guit, and embarrassment; and when the end of the -curred an incident, somewhat amuse fy which sreeed how guarded 1 fle about ‘a in my overt behatseur in the reson. cote of our work, she sly expressed her sense of ade bund husband, As mn statement hich fel sss ant Jos at the prospect of our appreaching separation, T ‘vith a commene nth fle to tty in the making of ity sehich she rescted va as being inappropriate; and ‘1 well know to have been inappropriate: I Taughed see ‘snd indcated to er that I felt, about ad recently een quoted a Raving dy wen the youngest ofthe Seve children a now posing out othe phase a eany infancy, “Te surely wl range nett be waking, forte Set ie eern Yeas | Gr'the thowllock ferding” Although T believe my tone coe ‘eyed ihe sense of genuine lo which had been conveyed in Mis Ire emt he utbandy T noted thet che iooled wacomnably stared and marmoeed someting inking she had become older than that. This incident Helped moe to realize to what a extent T had been contining, longo highlight ec een and deter ad teen, nee Tegimately a. prominent part of her analyst shiltscin oder to avotd fond scing how deseable an alt Thad become, an adit woman who eould never be ‘With her never became, at die relatively ealy stage of my analytic career, a8 free to experience, and openly to allow the patiene co see, such feelings, ar T have become in more eecent COUNTERTRANSTERENCE ‘years. But she was well enough aware chat I ad such responses to her, as she let me know before the close of her analysis, when she Brought me a magazine eartoon vbich served nicely t spon about having such feelings while acting a though T were interested only in intellectual matter. Repeatedly, since then, I have had comparable experiences in the analysis of newcotc patients, whether women or men, and T huve grown succesvely les troubled at finding such responses in ryself les constrained to conceal these from the patent, and Increasingly convinced that they augur well rather than il for the outcome of our relationship, and. that the patient sel ‘ef arousing such responses in his analyst. I have come to believe ‘seem bene rest rom ts esng that he (or she) =r | thot here et eonelaon beter on the one Band, ‘Gee nay with which the ssi experiences ay swarene of wach feclgyvand ofthe uneaably of ch ling a Hef sara the patie, and one ther hand the dpe of Sasration which the pan achieve nthe anal ‘Atl, seems the the anit own fn eee the main hing ere; when one ecomtcatshi og much log the tse of ert pang sch fring 10 the pace, one on flow and shay ound Am aint who yell unde tured a cxperienng mich ngs wl not mae ay perce Point exroning the te pat; ad the patene when he rth has chives ficient ay wo recognie aod Scape te halt are person, wil sae a the tala bas ack ing and thar hel able wo cope fey wth them “The schzoprene patent oth stele poor contact wiih ren, neds etadine othe tel ee ope In any cepeing hs lng, facdng thse which se ffm the parteslar area which Yam descring here, than the toast who i working wih newt pate nes ever be tame. shallnow make afew nae cheratons abou the work schist patients nt er Tor the ps cig yeas {have ote the greater poson of sy tine inte ppchotherpy with pasts afing foe then zope, tn Thar ond at nhs ed of work ir iil be mr portant tbe ae ola Jno one's swaentas uch reponse to he patient a have been Ateribing ans the casei the aaly of seurotc patient, 0 SCHIZOPHRENIA AND RELATED SUBJECTS ‘Thaci i is a Jeat somewhat ess disconcerting o find oneself feeling sosnantially and erotcally responsive to a neurode patient wh Tate im analysis nove, is sealiically a desirable marital partner, than i to Sind oneself feeling thus towards a {izoptenic. patent whom one's felovs might perceive at feing, more than anything ete, gromly fl and anyihing but attractive, But, forat least three easons 1 have found itesendial |) tothe patene’ recoverytharhis (or her) cherapist De susceptible \) to experiencing ouch responacs to Kim, and preferably with 25 Unsle a pomble of accompanying ansery guilt, and embarrase “The Ht eton tat when ite slzopbrene moves, ihe cousae ofa therapy into the pans ofthe Ocdpas contr, he Siig cove and Toman debands open the capi wh t tric, and an ofen ely axonatng cloves of inc {Shoe fod of the real of sown ane herap' le | undo) wish equ om be Seep rte olan, using ober than 2 reprenon af roponive ronan and ‘roe feings snd fanaa whieh one anya in werkng th Ske neuroc paint who ls alas song ego ay bese {fo gr by wie fo nox knowingly peactne ned an caer Spleen et yr of ee Sriour wih any paen, chnophens or steric Gepar the fom hs base alg tle by sxpressine rman ove 8 fetent But Ihave repented fount fe Beas, rather hen cra ine Unerap it ny chdaghseas paint canily ‘alow te ascesba do moses dene ec ys su eng are seminoma ine aclomsldeag Tina ines vac Se apROpHae 1 the Hcraction ofthe ‘nomen aod scknowiedgng itn station whichenves me eat Ermy own may evn perhape ot yet lars the mind thepatent tht Tema he teapi races than becoming te Tatearstover or weul-be wif or husband The bench elt Eflach ack ledgemeats rede inthe merge ing Sith they verse reciscon of what bad Seeome ast typed sma ofthe paents being absorbed x male i Jextuoas appeal t,o demand pons he theron fston | hich bad been towing the mumal inenigicon of Ge | Patents difcule, Some ainovledgements do ot agiallf Sort his esl but they enmate arf te therpesse 202 COUNTERTRANSFERENCE measures which are valuable here. When, on the other hand a {herapst dare not oven seeognize ich re;panses in hirselt-let, none expresing them to the patient the smuation tends all che more to remain stalemated at this eve "The second eeaton wy the Gerapist needs to have much ines ‘teedom in thie regard, a reaton integrally relaced with che first fons i thatthe sehizapbrenic patient» abycmaly low seiPesteem soured by whatever emotional responses, whether romantic, ic or angry or whatever he patent sable wo arouse in bis therapists his elbestenr i #00 low to solerate the degree ofa ontcous denial or repression of fecling which the nevrotic! pllenteaa tolerate onthe par of analyst. And a cir veason Bb that the intensive psychotherapy of schixophenia tend 20 freatly to dive therapie away i cscouragement that 20 bas fbr bis feeling draven to hie work wich che patent, whether an) roti bass of any other, precious and t be welcamed as pro~ Giding « foundationstone for dhe further elaboration of a com Enuctve therapeutic zelationship, ‘One of my frst experiences, ofthe kind under dscusion hete, wih a seiznpheenie paGen:, occurred about the ent of the Second year fray wock with a hebephventevoran in her middle third Inthe eoure of one of the theraprati sessions with cis wines, who was nie and disheveled and wove behaviour was Conspicuousy bizarre, I was extcemely stared c find auysll Saving fantaties of being macried to her, fantasies which sere accompanied by powerful ales of comantic love. For many months thereafer, on innumerable occasions both during and beeen the sesions, I found royel feeling siiasly about her, cemes with serorg ers impulses; and dung this period Tha at lest a dozen tomande-and-erotie dream: about het. 1 lether know, on # number of appropriate occasions, in response to various communication from ber i ou hours that Uhad such Feaings towards her and on at lease two occasions [frankly ad- rmited tha 1 felt jelous in response to her very conspicuously ‘Showing romantie preference for another male therapist on our Mall The subsequent course of her therapy firmly consinced me! {hae my ficedou to experience, and even fo expres to hes, seh feelings was one eseial facto in the relatively succesful oute come of my work with thie woran who had been, at the begin ‘ing of our wor, mutually deeply 03 SCHIZOPHRENIA AND RELATED SUBJECTS Another early experience of this kind with a schizophrenic patient occurred in approximately the evelth month of my werk ‘with a o-year-od,sagle woman who was suflering from tchizoe pPhrenia wath masked depressive featarey Thu far Thad seen her ssa diab, colourless, seraithike individual devoid ofany capacity to arouse romantic oF erote fesings in anyone, Twat therefore fntorsthed upon awakening, one morsing, to remember that T had had asexual deear about her, From now on T began seeing her with new interest and it war not long before I began to di viously unnoticed litle evidences of seductivents on be par In the ensuing several months she progresed tothe plist where the wasa0 attractively feminine a person that it would not {le diticule for any man to think of her in sexual terms, and {sexual conflicts whick had played an integral role in her achizo- [phrenic Sreakdown nove came into the therapeutic invergation, {I found every evidence, subsequendy, that my sexual dream about her had consinsted a movt valuable landmark in a deepens slly succesful, therapeutic relationship, sienced towards @ patent of one's own dex, such Uicely to be pareularly anxiety-prowoking, tny fest two years of work at Chestnut Lodge, Iwas gold ehizophtenic man in his middle thinden a ighly ntlligen, physically handsome man who manie ng improvement over the course of our work. Bat bout eighteen months, I began growing unessy at the inersity of the fond and romantic feelings which Thad come ‘0 experience towards him, and pardculaly alarmed daring oae of ‘our sevtons, while we were sitting i Slenee and a radio aot far say was playing a tenderly romanti song, sehen Tsuddenty felt that this man was dearer 19 ma thas anyone else im the word, including my wife. Within a few month Tucceeded in fing ‘reali reasons why T would not be able to continue indeftely wish hs therapy, an he moved toa diate part of the county. ‘Tobe sure, he sad been Wicing a persitent desire to make this row, all through our work tether; bat Tam certain that twas may ahvety about these recently recognized rexpontct ia melf that eaused me to find, nov, that it somehow made excellent seve for him to leave here. Subtequenty, upon carefully ex soning the derailed aoteeT had Kept concerning bit ese E36" ‘many indications that { had fed from going further, with him, ‘6 er COUNTERTRANSFERENCE Into the exploration ofthe intense fondness which had prevailed, Dehind a screen of mutual rejection, between himself and his ‘mother, For many months Thad endured from him uch sarcasm, seora, and rejection ashe and his mother had characteitically Gireced atone another; but I wat unable to brave che fondest which now came up in the transference ‘At that time Thad not yet worked through fuch feelings in my own anal, Four yeas later, afer the completion of my per- sonal analysis in which ¥ had become relatively at ate aboutauch feelings, inthe course of my work with a paranoid schizophrenic san in his early fortes T'was gratified to Sind myself able to 40 athead constructively ina situation which was much more chal~ lenging i this regard thaa that withthe former man had been, ‘This second patient was much more deeply il chan the st, and by ordinary Randardso unattractive in his physical person and ismode ofdresr shit would teem incredibly embarraaing, and ven frightening, to Rnd onset feeling any sigiicant degree of| berionalataction towards such an individual. Whereas the fst man had been predominantly heteroexually oriented in his fexual story, thir man had been exclasvey, and. very cone spicuously, homaseeually oriented. My work wich him came 9 Involve my exposure toa remarkably intense combination of both potdcaly tender fering and serual feelings (ar wells of coun, omparably intense murderousness). After an inital two-year peviod in which negative feelings seemed cleanly to predominate {the transference and the countertranfereace, I began finding Intequene dreams ofa fond and sexual ature about him. One moraing, as Twas puting on carefully vested neck, T ‘eazed that Twas ating ton for him, more than fo any ofthe ‘vera oer paces T was tose that day Hs ectered to sow in the third and fourth years of our work, 2s being marred, and at other mes exptewed deeply ) ‘Mccve fanaien of our becoming marie. When I took im Gat fora dein yen for one of the semana, Tas amazed at the why dh ry Seige at we were lover on the thresh o “wanes openiag up Defoe us; T had visions of gong upon ‘merle rides with him going tok at farature tgeter, Anis on, When T deove home fom work at the end of the day 205 niyself feling surprisingly fond of him, and to be having not \ } SCHIZOPHRENIA AND RELATED SUBJECTS 1 as filled wih a poignant realzaon of how utteriy and tag ally unzealizable were the dees ofthis man who had been ieipitalized continually, now, fr fourteen years But T lt that dee hag ase af hi what we wre ig ough wa 5 ewential, constructive pat of what his recovery Fequced these nei ois would have tobe experienced ele in however srveaisable a form at fn, so shat they could Become reform Isted, inthe course of our work int channels which would lad to greater pote for gatcaon, And T flea eld vente of posonal sataction that Iwas able, not to go through elinge {periences wih male patient which yeas Bere, ves a much Tester degree than this, would have scared me aa Not only my wock with pasens but also my experiences asa tusband and a parent have convinced tne ofthe Yay of the concepts which {am offering here, Towards my daughte, nor ‘Sght years of age Thave experienced Snnumerable fantasies nd feelings ofa romantclove ind, thoroughly complementary fo the romantically adoring, xeductive behaviour which she has shown towards her futher oftentimes ever ine the was about two or three years of age, I'uied at mes to fel somewhat ‘world when she would play the supremely confident coquete ‘rth me and T would fe enthralled by her charms but then 1 cameo ie cpa ton ne gh ha ch mon of ‘atednest could only be noushing for her develo Sry a well a deighfl co me litle cc eet Zhidcowin the heat ofher tice rons wists hoon terio well ant form Tong, and who i Ged to her by mut Ete, Tresoocd, ten haw can the youngwomsnwho comet Iatgr have any dep confidence in thi power af her womlins? Rod 1 rave Tad every mpretone inlay, Mat ie slip dire of my son, now eleven year of age, have founda simatty ively and wholeheseed fecling-eoponte in my wife; and Tam y equally convinced that their deeply fond) openly evidenced { tual stracton i good fr my sm as wel a crihg 0 my \ ite. ‘To me ik mabe seme that the more « woman lves Bet Tsang he more ew ove sy ke ld oe yt a)| se Societe, the jeune ean Se mem he se rouge mer Freud) in his dseriptions ofthe Ozdipus complex (1900, 192%, 1923), tended largely to give ws a picture of the child as having 2196 COUNTERTRANSFERENCE an fant, slfdderined tendency to experience, under the con- ditions ofa normal home, feelings of passionate love towards the parent ofthe opposite sexi we got lle hing, rom his writings, that in thie regned the child actally enters ato a muda! vlad: ust of passionate love with that parent, relaednes in oehich the paren’ feelings may be of much the same quality and tenuly ae thovein te chil although thirelacednesemure indeed bbe of considerably more importance in the Iie ofthe developing cll than it sin the lie of the mature adult, with his mach tconger, more highly difereniated ego and with his having behind him the experience of a succesfully resolved oedipal experience during his own maturation). ‘But in the very eases of his publications concerning the Freud maker a filer acknowledgement ofthe parent's parc pation inthe ordipal phase of che chle'slife than he does in any of his ater wridage on the subject: stip compl, natcy Th dniprsion of Drone (960), ) child's emul wishes-if in thee embryonic tage they deserve to'be go dexebed-awaten vry early, and 7 gies Ren aBection [or ber father and a boy's Rt chuldsh css are for his mother ‘Accordingly, the father Becomes a disturting rival to the boy and ‘the mother tothe gil ..The parents too gee evidence as = re of eal pore natural predilection ts ses toi thst 9 a teods we spol ile daugrter whe hie thes her sont parts though bok of ther, where thee judgement = mot diturbed by the tnasse ef se, keep vret eye upon theiecildre’seduestion. The hl is very well wate ofthis partiality and tras agaist that one fof his parent who Is opposed to vowing Being lady arse Hows ahanecly tng cid Ue sais af red ical Snsckhat he wil yet wat Re wants tn cer cer rexpet af Se, "Ths he wil bella Br eel net and a¢ ee tise satel en pry fn ie sie preci, on Shae Wie ated ee ee ee aes Sieve eee mrearmencensesrane ‘Slasecy an titwte shar Sd a are ope ees eae 297 OPHRENIA AND RELATED SUBJECTS strength 10 the inclination shown by his parent i his hem alsin wee thels (1990 pp. 25-8). Theodor Rein is accounts fis coming sete something of the depts of pouenveneyjslusy, fry at aly and ansiey athe ce of apending a mel ith regard tol to nveyta mia more adequate pictarcof the emotions ively gup the parent n te oedipal relationship than i'by Freud's sketchy account, given above, Res «lecriiogs occupy «chapter in hs Lng eh 2 ata Gie when Ns daughters were Ses an ih fae fae and a chper i Rs The Ser Sf Teturnine to ther comer ofthe herp’ oediple pons to the to me that there repre: pur diferent oes. fo actual practic the rerpones four tutus are probably so comngled the cleo mpomible aly to ing one another, the importat thing i that he be eaxialy cognition of there feelings in hime, no mater 3t thet origin, fr he wil then be in the best peallon 0 Aiscere, in ofr ai pole, whence they fow and what they Signy sherfore,concerang the curse of the paentt anal aLammongatse fur toutoes may be mentioned the nalts foollngregonses to the patent memntenet=TER Ghent ia progieSe! ae the POH eate lato sm caperieaee ing of copa lve, longing, jelous, ration ad tn vith _ Tegan othe analst ara parent a te tanference the alt { witexperence, to at leat tome deges, reponse reciprocal those of te paleatcseponse, that, ef ar Were pest tion, dang the patients childhood and adolecenc, the parent presumably wae not able %0 fesogmee relatively fely snd actept within hime Some apply the tem ‘countetramirence’ ta such anal © the patent's tranference; but | prefer not do. sis in the cauntertzansrence jn the JagTESTIIS Ta whch hs tern mot often ed: he anahe responsine to she patient in term of tanftrenoetelinge cated ‘toma fire out ofthe analy sown eter Yea Matoat awareness that Bis reponse spring predeminasly fom Bas COUNTERTRANSFERENCE eave source, rats han being based msily upon the ely Gf te pesentsanucpatentrestionshp. Tes thi sooree, of Gas ph wen eet iam, By mean of Bohs " eercontiog ruber (ese seh endeatons hat our work th pnt hs Sie ap agai, fn, unuaaaed enone eidat om out Seepare Fis sorcelo very important inf oo make the rng such paper tthe a omcwhae pecan vente: author mon expect ha some readers wl charge him ih {rag to porayy a atl and nceary othe analyte proces Seoul cern aaitsesponscs whi in acta are prey Erercul ef an unwnkedstsough Oedipnscomple in nell ‘hare danger out pace in sown wok with abn Ind witch have wo place inthe wellanayeed analysts exper epoca Turmise tft aithough dt source may play a rtd ne sian oe the reponse of welctalyed analy who ‘Nconducied a number of anaves trough 0 compledon—to 8 Conplron deep enough tice 9 thoroughgomgresouson site patents Oetipan complexe probaly tbe fond, fone eure, in every analy That ese ome tate ‘re of annie work presents the analy sch a pealaty ove and conical elgeespeence in tis Fepad icing ots depen ove ovat te flow human beng wid ‘tom Ee purécpes in ch prolonged and deply peronal rod and Ssmufanouy, scsting, ad gorou bos agus TBikchiiourlexrenionofany of he roman reat come reat oft love-sto acetate anor ay anal tending {erctnte the depot nents ofthemeonictal kings ois ts scons each at were the despst Intends 9 is Cela striving foward» early beloved nd sims une ‘hinted ngorwalytbooedh parent. 1 Beeve that oor Sme-honsued horror of uch a ee Inbar nly rved to ncaa te inthe alas ase, and T hope that Paper Sulin pardeay te lem csperenced snaysaceoareaier Sates, aod herby dinioaso, of the eouatrrmtrene feng stan have been eed in dealing with ter Kindo Counterraneteencefeting, By sich paper as those writen by P.Hismann (ropa M. Bs Cohen (gar and E. Weiger (ta) 239 SCHIZOPHRENIA AND RELATED SUBJECTS A third source i to be found inthe appeal which che grate 3 Cinly improving patient makes to the narcisistis residue in che Naaalya’s pexonality, che Pygmalion in him, He tends to fallin Tove witt ths beautifully developing patent, regarded at thi atelasti level at his own creation, jst as Pygmalion fel inlove vith the beausf statue of Galatcs which he had 2eulpeured, Tis source lke the second one which have ust mentioned, can evexpecid to hold rately lle sway ia the welsanshyred uractitioner of long experience; but i, 100, is probably never absent, and I think ie is much more poierflly present, even ix salysts of grest experience and proiesinal standing, than we snay like 29 think. Particulanly in arcles and books whick Aescribe the author's new technique or theoredeal concept a an outgrowth ofthe work with one particular patient, ora very few patents, do we ee cis source very prominently present in many “The fours source, bated on the genuine realty ofthe anayet- patieatstuatien, consis in the circumstance that the nearer & uy # | patient comes to the termination of his analysis, the more he | becomes, ere a Hieable, admirable, and basally speaking Lovable, human being from whom the analyst wil sca become separated. If he i not hirwelf = peyciatri, the analyst may very Likely never see him agsing aa ven if tei a proteional (Stlague tv latonsp ih tame bil eater t ‘oes ons opera Tarcaae ae AS Pen Tas real aod enavoidablecumstance ofthe csing naive (ron tndr powerly 0 toste wits the analy lng of sinfllytratated love which deere be compared vite he ings of ungrasfiabe love whieh both child and pare espe nce inthe ovdipel phate ofthe chil’ devanpment. Feng fom this soxren cannot propery be ealed cumertranderne®, for they Bow from the rely ofthe presen ccumsiance Dot they may be diftedt or impose to anguish ly Com tcouertuntornce, "There ether Que mote o ls powerful sources tending 9 promote feelings ef deep love with ToeaNSE snd erotic Orerous, et wit arconpanying fling of enlouy, amiey, rasuston™ age separasoneney, and sit nthe ana hog the patents These lings come thin, ike all ting, witout tag ahowing whence hey have cone, aa ely thes clay se COUNTERTRANSFERENCE ‘open and accepting of theis emergence into his awarencst does Ihe ave a chance set sbaue fading out their osigin and thus their sgncanee in his work with the patient. Tizally, inline with the considerations which I have presented sofa I shall make afew remarks concerning the posing ofthe Gedipus complex in aormal development and in succesful posehovanalve ia The Bo and th 1d (2025) we find italicized a passage in ‘whieh Freud stresses dha che cedipal pace result inthe forme tion of the speregoy ve find that he slzeses the paren! oppos- tion tothe child's oedipal wishes; and, asl, we ee this resultant $upstego fo be predominancly a severe and! forbidding one The rad gal ones f th ral pha dominate by the Ouse pln ay tein Be en eh fomang of rea 0 Smit of they cnet he they ces of he 9 3 teil mpegs ie aS paceat and especialy ie father, were perceived tht cltale te fenllaton af bos Oedipus wishes; so his nfane Se ferided te for the caring out of the rapresion by erecting Te SEPSMS Mihi Salle boroneed ee tength todo ths, fort speal, om the father, and thi loan was sm exaor dinar Romemout act The nuperegy retains the character of the her, dy the more peri the Oedipus ctrope was and the more Teplly i suceantocd to represion (ander the iafence of amborty, ‘eligi tsching, scholing and reading), dhe sescter vel be 0 Gominatisn of the seperego over the equ later ob -in the form of fcucence ap perbape of a uneonscows epic ef ill «125, wae T shall not ener ico the subject of revoedipal origins ofthe oy a subject which has been seale with by Mf Klein {iggy Ea Jacobson (154), and ater My pat here i that, defo that bjs, {regard Prec’ above-quoted deserp. ton as more aplleable othe child who later betomes neuro or pyeloe, than 10 the “normal child, Sie we autume that ‘ere sg adult whois wBolly fee fom a lest some neuro

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