How to build happiness

Often people attempt to live their lives backwards; they try to have more things, or more
money, in order to do more of what they want, so they will be happier. The way it
actually works is the reverse. You must first be who you really are, then do what you
need to do, in order to have what you want.
Margaret Young

We admit from the outset that we do not believe we are specialists in gaining happiness in personal life.
We dont have any achieved professional experience not at theoretical nor at practical level, nor we dont
have too big victories in this realm, unlike precious knowledge and skills that we have gained in the field
of money multiplication. But because there is no way to get down to priorities and personal financial
goals and to formulate them without examining the broader ways of achieving the milestones of general
human life we will exhibit in this scientific paper a summary of recommendations from those who may be
authoritative "guru" in the field.
So, in a very simplified form, the recipe to achieve happiness in life represents something like in the
figure below.

Figure 1.1 How to build happiness

Source: created by author
Firstly, you must set clear goals and post your personal values and priorities and individual particularities
that derivate from your image, the experience of your life and mentality of your formats. In order to
achieve previously mentioned is necessary to focus deeply and for a long term period, leaving aside all
the problems that dont really matter; analyze your life to understand, what satisfies you the most and
why; to be absolutely honest to yourself; relax and give full freedom of imagination without limiting it in
any way, without worrying about how accessible is the purpose and how will you achieve it; believe
strongly that any fixed goals you set, they will be accomplished.
Following such a "self-acquaintance" will help you understand articulated goals, values and priorities of
life. If you want to become, figuratively speaking, a Pavarotti, Che Guevara, Rockefeller, Einstein,
Casanova, Putin, Steven Seagal, Bill Gates, hero-astronaut, Cleopatra, Madonna, Mother Theresa, Julia
Roberts, a happy mother with many children, and so on, then you must be aware of the proportion of your
aim. Once established, goals and priorities necessarily have to be written down and reviewed again and
again.
Must necessarily is to formulate detailed goals and see them in your mind as clear as possible, i.e. to
"view". For example, if you want to have a big happy family - you determine how many children you
want and how you imagine them. If you want to have a luxurious home - imagine, what land will be, how

many rooms and floors will be, as well as how the furniture will look like etc. Future Casanova should
probably have to plan the number and type of women that he intends to satisfy; future Madonna - how
many gold discs will be launched and what style of music you prefer etc.
Subsequently it is necessary to "send", "launch" these purposes in your subconscious and to force yourself
to handle intensive searches for ways of achieving them. For that purpose we have developed special
techniques: you should daily say and record 'magic' statements in the present tense (as desired events have
happened) in a simple statement: "With every day I am becoming healthier and healthier "," I deserve
respect "," my wealth is becoming greater and greater", " I am a millionaire ", etc.. In this way, your
subconscious will search 24 hours a day ways to achieve operational "shipped" targets, because you
probably know that the brain never sleeps. Your personality and mentality will transform aligned with
these goals. Thomas Stanley said: To become a millionaire, you need to act like one.
They must constantly develop, analyze their performance and update (especially in writing form) plans to
achieve your goals: long term (decades, until his death), medium term (e. g. two or three years, five
years), annual, quarterly, monthly, weekly, daily. Every day (every month, every year and lifetime) is
recommended to work assiduously and be very focused on achieving the plans that have been drawn,
starting with the most important points, and move daily to fulfill one point only when you have done
everything you could for achieving highest priority to the previous point (the 80/20 rule - where 20% of
the facts provides 80 % of success).
The last but not least, you should also develop an ongoing basis of consistent and persevering capabilities
required to set goals: to train the body and the intellect; change your mind set to remove any denial
attitudes and change it with positive thinking; to assimilate the technique of personal mutual relations.
You have to take the full responsibility for building your own life happy and unrepeatable; to process the
mountains of specialized literature; to learn in educational institutions, listen to audio recordings and
watch special television programs; to learn about remarkable examples from people who have success in
your chosen field; to look for mentors and retrieve knowledge and skills. To sum up, you have to train
with perseverance every minute you have in your lifetime.
It is important also to overcome innate laziness, bad habits based on laziness, melancholy and apathy,
indecision and inaction, irresponsibility and parasitism. Immediately stop your sympathy, get off the
couch and start to act! Hard work made people uncover all the very best in them. Never forget that
humanity as a whole cannot withstand parasites and drones, and that all social revolutions with extremely
bloody consequences occur when these parasites number exceeded the maximum level of affordability.
You know very well how people struggle with bedbugs, lice and other parasites - they burn, poison them
with kerosene etc. So you better cut off your own helplessness, laziness and parasitism!
The will of doing can be lead only by a higher purpose, fervently desired, a lofty dream. People, by
nature, are quite lazy beings. Most of them live their life simply out of inertia, "by chance" and that gray
existence becomes for them a comfort zone. Leaving the comfort zone (even in a beneficial direction,
toward a better fate, to a more high society and in own eyes) not only requires serious effort, but it is
causing human and psychological distress. A great goal can only urge you to become a Columbus,
Einstein, Napoleon or Leonardo da Vinci, instead of leading your life monotonous, dull, besieged,
deprived of emotions and facts. Dream, ask yourself forward for adventurous, and they necessarily will
transform into life!
However, one of the basic goals that we set must be in achieving financial well-being. It's because this
purpose is the foundation to achieve any other goal of the soul: even Che Guevara, mother Teresa and a
brilliant musician need large sums to finance revolutions, material aid for the poor, to purchase musical

instruments you should pay a lot and also for video-audio studios etc. Want to become an outstanding
chess player, a happy housewife with many children, a sporting performance or whatever - however you
will need large sums to live dignified, both you and your loved ones, and to be successful in the business
and professional choice. Mark Twain has a wise saying: "The lack of money is the root of all evil.
If, however, your dream is to become a very good teacher of literature in your peaceful, picturesque and
comfortable, locality respected by all then perhaps your family will get to a long and happy life just with
a lousy million bucks. But even in this case you must fully appropriate money multiplication technology
and submit all such efforts to achieve your financial goal as a future billionaire. And it's hard to predict
which of you will reach his or her first financial order and who will take part in the final of a happier life
taking into account all criteria.
Only in the context delineated by life goals and priorities chosen correctly you can estimate the money
that you plan as a final goal. If your wealth is to end itself or a main priority in life (for my part - no, nor
do I recommend you specifically formulated values of life, but you have every right and such an option),
then order your final will probably be expressed in billions of dollars. Well 4-6 billionaires - born in
Moldova (my home country) - we have already given the world, so just dare!