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Month 3: Presence

Perfecting Your Voice Tone

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Table of Contents
How to Learn Voice Tone.................................................................................................3
General Tips.......................................................................................................................4
Different Types of Voices.................................................................................................6
For Special Problems.......................................................................................................8
Extra Help...........................................................................................................................8
Real Pickup Audio.............................................................................................................8
If you only do ONE THING..............................................................................................10

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How to Learn Voice Tone

For most guys, it's a good idea to focus on voice for the about a month, make it a habit, then forget about it so it doesn't become a
distraction. Form the right habits and let them guide you.
In the beginning, you will have to focus on your voice. You will lose some of your ability to focus on conversations during this
time period, but don't sweat it too much. It's all part of the learning process. Build good vocal habits now, and you'll be able to
focus on listening and responding to women in conversations later.
This month, it's more important for you to learn the proper technique than to get any one woman in particular. So view your
approaches and interactions as practice. You are practicing your intangibles: voice tone and body language.

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General Tips
Lose the accent- Unless women are specifically telling you they love your accent, it's probably hurting you. In America, for
example, women are attracted to American and European accents. Most other accents will be a turn off. Why? Because nonEuropean accents are associated with 3rd world countries and people of lower social and economic status. Stereotyping plays a
huge role in your success with women when you do cold approaches. I'm not saying it's right or it's fair, I'm just trying to tell you
what's going to get you the best results. If you have a heavy accent it will stop many other parts of your game from improving.
Handle this ASAP so it doesn't stunt your development.
Slow it down- This is one of the simplest ways to improve the sound of your voice. Speaking slowly makes it much easier for
people to understand you, and it shows that you are relaxed and in control.
Listen to any powerful person speak and you will notice that they speak more slowly than people who are less powerful. For
example, in an office setting, the bosses usually speak slowly and relax while they speak. The lower workers speak quickly and
franticly. They're not sure if people are going to be willing to take the time to hear them out. Don't make that mistake yourself.
Make a melody- There's more to conversation than just words and sentences. Every sentence you say is like a miniature song.
There's actually melody to the way people talk. Women respond to melody in your speech patterns, so be sure you're making a
melody.
Be expressive- Vary your tone. Vary your melody. Vary the pace and timing. Exaggerate the emotions in your voice at times.
When you first meet people sometimes you have to make the emotions obvious. Don't be afraid to really spell it out.
Calibrate your volume- Sure, it sounds obvious, but there are plenty of guys who don't get the right volume for the setting they're
in. If you're in a book store, keep it down and use a more intimate tone. If you're in a bar or club you'll have to talk loud.
REALLY LOUD. One common voice mistake is to underestimate the volume needed in bars and clubs.
Enunciate- If women can't understand what you're saying, they'll usually just reject you immediately and there's not much that can
be done to change this. So enunciation is very important. Be sure that the consonants in your words can be heard and it's not just a
series of vowels. Slow the pace a bit if necessary.
Pay particular attention the the "final consonants." That's the consonant sound that is at the end of a word. GeT iT? FinaL
consonanT.

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In loud situations, people can't always hear every sound you make with your voice, so they put together contextual clues with the
parts they can hear. Your final consonant is often the big clue that helps someone put together the pieces.
Be Familiar- Talk to everyone you meet as if you've known them for years. If you do this, you'll feel more comfortable, they'll
feel more comfortable, and things will be easier.

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Different Types of Voices

Your voice is a powerful tool when relating to women. You should try to master a few different types of voice tones in order to be
ready for all situations. Here's a few different voice tones you should use when speaking with women.
The authoritative voice- This is the slow, low, and powerful voice. Did you listen to my live seminar CDs last month? That's a
good example of this voice. Everything is clear and enunciated. Take another listen so you can emulate that voice tone.
The baby talk voice- This voice is something you might use when first approaching in order to prevent the woman from getting
startled or feeling threatened by the presence of a stranger. It's similar to the way you might talk when speaking to a small child.
Higher in pitch, more melodic and musical. It doesn't have to be perfect, you can even mix in "like" and "you know" here and
there. This keeps things informal and relaxed. It also makes the woman feel like she's a little girl again, and this makes her more
likely to feel intense infatuation and attraction.
For an example of this voice tone, listen to my "Live Approaches" CD.
The stage voice- This is the voice you should use in a loud environment. The idea here is to have the same volume you would
have when shouting, but use the melody, tone, or pattern of you speaking voice. Everything is the same as if you were speaking,
except it's really loud.
It's called a "stage voice" because it's the kind of voice an actor with no microphone uses on stage during a live theater
performance. Have you ever been to a small theater performance? The actors have no microphones but they are able to project
incredibly loud volumes without changing their tonality much. This is the kind of voice technique you can use in a loud bar or
dance club.
Also, keep in mind that when in a loud venue, you can get closer to the listener by leaning in from the side. Leaning in from the
front will be creepy to women, but leaning in from the side won't. Look around at people who know each other next time you're
out somewhere loud. See how they stand side by side and sometimes lean in sideways? That's how it's done.
The bedroom voice- You can use a sexy voice when speaking with women even when you've first met them. Keep it really low,
really slow, and add more breathy sound to your voice. It's almost like a phone sex voice. Don't be afraid to use it. Women love
phone sex and they love dirty talk. Once a woman is attracted to you, you can use a very sexy voice and she will start getting
turned on.

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If you use a bedroom voice in normal situations, it will create sexual innuendos and make women start thinking about sex. This is
always good to do. You can make any sentence sound sexual if you say it a certain way, even something very mundane.
Try this one:
First, say it normally: "Look at that hot open turkey sandwich."
Now, say it in a sexy way: "Look at that ...hoootttt......open....turkey sandwich."
You may notice that in the "Live Approaches" CD, Glenn and I are sometimes talking about things that are completely pointless.
Other times we say things that make no sense or sound a bit silly. However, we're using attractive voice tone, so the women get
attracted even though we're talking a lot of nonsense. The women are more focused on our voice and our presence than they are on
the actual words.
A woman will only remember the best 10% of what you said, and the worst 10%, so there's plenty of room in between for filler
and fluff in between. She's paying more attention to your "vibe" than your words. That vibe comes from your voice, your body
langauge, your clothing, your positive outlook, your good energy, and your playful mood.

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For Special Problems

If you have a specific problem with your voice, this can often be solved by acting classes. Most acting classes focus on using and
projecting your voice. Acting classes can fix the following problems:
Poor enunciation
Lack of volume
Lack of control
Heavy accent
Monotone voice

Extra Help
Since you're a member of my Metamorphosis Method Coaching Program, you can also upload some video or audio of your voice
to the internet and have one of the coaches give you help. Use your digital camera, or a small computer microphone. You can use a
program called Garage Band on a mac, and Windows has something called "Sound Recorder" in the accessories section.

Real Pickup Audio

Some notes on the "Real Pickup Audio" CDs: The first few tracks are just openers, and the later tracks get into email closes,
number closes, full on conversations, etc. We tried for more night game audio, but it was too hard to hear the conversation in the
recording, so most of the approaches are from daytime in this recording.
Track 1- Brad demonstrates "Horsegirl"
This approach was done in a bookstore, so it's pretty easy to hear what's going on. The girl was sitting on the floor reading a book
on astrology, so I did a standard Horsegirl opener with the usual contingencies. Listen closely, as the first sentence "Do you like
horses?" is obscured by a scratching sound on the microphone. It's one of the hazards of using a hidden microphone.
Track 2- Another bookstore approach
Another approach in the bookstore. This girl was sitting with a guy, but he didn't get involved in the conversation, he just sort of
sat there quietly. Credit to Geoff for the Bubbles6969 opener.

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Track 3- Quality Control Opener
2 Russian girls in a cafe at night. This was a tough one because they didn't speak much English, but they were really hot so I
decided to keep working them anyway.
Track 4- Oprah Opener
This girl was throwing curveballs right from the beginning, saying she'd never heard of Oprah and she "has no take on this." But
she warmed up after a few mintues and became very flirtatious.
Track 5- Text War
Approaching a girl who is on the phone talking or texting can be difficult but Glenn makes it seem easy in this one. Glenn's voice
is loud and bold. Another opener we sometimes use for girls on phones is "Are you blogging?" Credit to a workshop student for
the "Blogging Opener."
Track 6- Glenn in the Supermarket
Glenn assumes rapport and the girl plays along with his role-playing situation opener. Notice how quickly Glenn goes into a
sexual voice tone.

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If you only do ONE THING...

The best exercise you can do to train your voice is to make a video tape of yourself talking. I know it sounds weird, but it will
allow you to hear yourself the way others hear you. When you listen to yourself talk throughout your normal day, part of what you
are hearing is the the tones reverberating in your own head. That's why so many people say "Wow I sound so much different when
recorded." The tape doesn't lie. That's what you really sound like. Once you know what your voice really sounds like, you can
make a few adjustments that will help you sound even better.
Have a friend hold the camera and ask you random questions. Or video tape yourself on a normal phone call. This exercise is
enlightening to most people who are working on their voice tone. You don't need a long winded book or CD set to learn voice
tone, recording yourself once a week will get you much further.
Do this right now. Don't be one of those guys who buys a bunch of books and then skips the exercises. You will get NOTHING
out of this if you don't do the exercises. This is the end of the book, there's no more reading for you to do today. So go get your
camera or use your phone if it has video, and make this video right away. If you do it now, all the things you just read will be fresh
in your mind.

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