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I was a victim of sexual assault by my cousin. I was 9 years old when my cousin
planned to follow me to the grocery store while wearing my dads jacket and used his
phone to call me and ask where I was. Now that I think about how it all happened it is
very scary that my cousin who was at the moment 14 years old has planned everything so
well and he really intended to do what he did to me. However, I had no memory of what
happened for a very long time. It did not feel like I did not remember something but it
was more like I was just not paying attention to that specific part of my life and
unconsciously avoid to think about it. It was there the whole time in my head but I never
tried to look at it closely. When I was in middle school and high school (I went to girls
schools because in Korea most schools are divided by gender and the government
chooses which school you go to depending on your home address and lottery) I thought
all guys who were my age were gross I look at them as another creature than us females. I
didnt want to necessarily talk to them or spend time with them and didnt have to since I
was in a girls school with enough female friends. The memory was relighted when I
liked a guy for the first time whom I met in exchange student program in USA and that
kind of triggered me through having situations that I need to have physical contact with
him something very simple like sitting next to each other or holding hands made me so
nervous and uncomfortable that it made my hands and feet freezing cold. I felt guilty for
some reason. When I remembered everything I was very upset that my cousin never got
any discipline from it or even disadvantage from what he has done. I remembered more
than what he tried to do to me I realized that my parents even though I told them what
happened right after things happened they never mentioned it to me after that I
understand it is not comfortable for them to make a big problem out of it because my
cousin is the oldest and only male of the family. From my personal experience the reason
why some people suffer post-traumatic stress and some dont is because it is not triggered
by similar situations or environment that they need to remember those time of their life. If
I never had to meet a guy or liked one of them I probably would not have remembered
what has happened. I do think if the patient is already experiencing disadvantages
because of his or her trauma from the past it is Important for them to remember and try to
find out more about it and face the truth. The reason is because if you know you will have
to keep facing this similar situation and that troubles you it wont cure itself without
knowing and solving the root of it. However, if there are no symptoms at all from the
trauma necessity one does not have to force to remember something harsh.
6. Do you believe that very many so-called cases of multiple personalities (Dissociative
Identity Disorder) are faked? Why or why not? Does this disorder seem to be a genuine
possibility to you? Why?
I do not think that it is important to know whether or not the person is faking the
symptom. If we related to another disorder such as conversion disorder, which is a
disorder in which a person has blindness, paralysis, or other nervous system symptoms
that cannot be explained by medical evaluation, it is similarly treated as if the patient is
lying. The patient is a liar only if your definition of illness is only when there is a proof of
physical injury but we are discussing about a mental illness and psychology is a study of
understanding a human mind. Division between fake and real is a wrong approach
because the human mind does not work so crisp and clear as the physical body. If the
patient is experiencing pain or losing control of their identity and believes that another
identity is taking control over their physical body it is a true symptom. We can consider
that it may be the patients own belief but that belief itself is a true symptom.
Understanding ones mind is best achieved when the spectator is believing what the
person believes and looks through their perception of the world and expends the
consensus between them.