Kezias 10 Hook Lead System

The basis of the 10 hook lead system is the idea that there are Low Caliber Hooks and High
Caliber Hooks which at their simplest, may be a single word she says. Kezia states that every
word that comes out of a girls mouth is a hook. The difference between a Low Caliber hook
and a High Caliber one is the amount of information you can take and share about it and the
importance of it to the girl youre speaking to. Obviously a Low Caliber hook is something in
which does hold not much importance for the sake of keeping a conversation going and a High
Caliber yields much more information and helps fuel the conversation.
Ideally is making canned openers you can use on the spot or even for those who like to go
natural, try to shape your opener so that it applies to one of these topics or if not, transition to
one quickly because many openers while they may get a smile or a laugh or whatever from the
girl, can be exhausted quickly without a good topic. Also keep in mind to not dwell on one of
these for twenty minutes, cherry pick and talk about other things so that she stays interested.
The better opener you have, the better Hook Leads you will produce.
Quick guide to the Kezia s 10 Hook Lead System
1. Open Question: Exactly what it sounds like, this is the general conversation fueler in the
seduction community, so you should be able to find a plethora of information on it if its name
wasnt descriptive enough. It is good to follow up with the opener when youre starting out with a
set or even use it as the opener itself. Lets play out this scenario. Youre in a video shop and
you see an HB standing next to you:
YOU: Hey, Im going to watch a movie with my niece. What movie do you think I should get?
HB: How about Dirty Dancing? Ha ha.
YOU: Ha ha, why would you recommend that?
HB: Oh, Im a big fan of ___! I used to watch him growing up as a kid.
As you can see, she dropped some good Hook Leads here, due to you asking an open
question.
2. Fact: This one is also quite self explanatory. You simply state a fact in response to or about a
High Caliber Hook that the TOI gives you. Feel free to have fun with it though, you can make it
up as long as it sounds legitimate.
Oh youre from Mexico? Did you know that 90% of Mexican girls come to America to seduce
an American guy to get married and become a citizen. Then after that they leave him to be with
their Mexican hubby in America legally? (
That was a playful example, but you can even make it sound more legitimate. Lets say that the
only thing you know about her is that shes Romanian. That and she is shy. You can say:
You know, I was reading in the newspaper the other day; they did an interview and it said that
80% of Romanians actually wished they were from Hungary.
This will open up a shy girl, because Hungary and Romania have a bit of rivalry and only a
Romanian or Hungarian would know that. This makes it feel as if youre an insider and it helps
to build conspiracy between you two. This will cause her to open up. Also, she cant get
offended at you for saying it, because you just read it in a newspaper; its not your personal
opinion. This brings us to our next Hook Lead

3. Challenge: A challenge not only is a good Hook Lead, but also shows the girl that youre not a
pushover and it sets the frame that youre dominant. Most guys avoid challenging girls, because
theyre afraid of getting into an argument. Luckily, theres a technique that you can use if you get
close to an argument with a girl. You say something along these lines:
YOU: Stop. Me and you will never agree on this (smile). We can argue for 2 weeks and well
never agree on this. Am I right?
HB: Yes.
YOU: But you know what? I love that. Dont you find that most other people you argue with, just
agree with you and dont have an opinion? Theyre just polite and nod their heads. But you have
an opinion, youre fiery like me. You stick up for what you believe in. I love it.
4. Opinion: This one explains itself as well. It is as simple as stating your opinion positive OR
negative in response to her Hook. Negative is absolutely allowable because girls dont like a guy
who doesnt have a spine and is afraid to argue or simply agrees with everything she says. If
things get out of control, you can just use the Diffusion Technique, Ive listed above.
10 hook lead system
Scenario: You absolutely hate the movie Pineapple Express but it happens to be the girls
favorite movie ever:
Girl: Oh my god Pineapple Express was the best movie ever dont you think!?
WRONG: Yeah I totally loved it! We should watch it together sometime!
YOU: Eh, it really wasnt what I expected. There was so much hype and it didnt end up being
nearly as funny as I expected. Super-Bad was great though!
5. Humor: Figure out what type of humor you have. Its a big part of who you are and its a great
way to screen girls to see if they have the same type. Mine personally is a mix of Sexual,
Playful, and Situational humor. Find yours and look for girls with the same kind. The way that
humor serves as a hook lead is the fact that it makes her more interested & you can use it for
role-play too which is a big part of this.
Example: You crack a joke or two that she just doesnt find funny.
Simply say: I understand that we dont share the same sense of humor.
Then to push it into role-play you can create your own scenario but for the sake of this scenario
its the typical relationship scenario.
Girl: *Not laughing*
WRONG: *awkward pause/doesnt know what to say, maybe even tries to qualify himself
because he feels unconfident*
YOU: Oh my god you didnt find that funny? Thisll never work out, if youre not good tonight
were going to have to talk divorce in the morning! *sexual framing
In this scenario realize that they dont click in terms of humor but makes the best out of it and
leads the conversation to where he wants it to go while the most men trie to make up for their
jokes not sticking.

6. Anecdote: Exactly what it says, youll find a lot of advice on it around the forums but here are
some specific things to make sure the story sticks.
1. Explain the link to the High Caliber Hook. As long as the link is fairly relevant itll fit the
conversation. Example: *she mentions living in Dallas and tells you a little about it, but you have
only been to Houston*
Well I havent been to Dallas, but I have been to Houston. (Goes into story)
2. Take a small story and blow it up into something big.
Now there are 4 elements into making the Story not only more interesting but helpful for
continuing the conversation.
Element 1: Add Detail. (Ever think that girls gossip more than we do? Not really, its just that
guys get to the point while the girl explains what people were wearing, who was there, the
weather, the energy of the place, the environment, names, EVERYTHING. Thats what you want
to do to draw her in.)
Element 2: Timing. (Make dramatic pauses, build tension to make the story more interesting.)
Element 3: Emotion. (Use words that give the story a feel. Instead of saying, it was cold
outside, the people were creepy, and it was really dark, give it life! Use words like magnificent,
powerful, dreadful. Be descriptive with what you say). (Also it says to not be afraid to tell sad
stories or things of the like as it allows the girl to see you as more than a one dimensional guy)
*Put emotion into it, dont be crying or anything like that, but feel the vibe of the story youre
telling.* Another plus of telling a sad story is that you can get a girl to emotionally invest in you.
Element 4: The fourth element that you can use is threads. Briefly stop your story and ask an
open question. For example, if your story involves kids, briefly stop the story and ask if the girl
likes kids. Make sure to not continue that thread until you finish your story or it will appear as if
what she has to say is more important than what you have to say. Do this at least 3 times in
your story and when you finish your story, youll have a lot of High Caliber Hooks to bounce
back to.
Example: Telling a story about going to a concert and what happened.
YOU: Blah blah blah, hey I was crowd surfing which was totally awesome. Let me get back to
the story but well talk about that after.
(Notice it sets room for future conversation even if you or she brings it up 20 minutes later. Its
an IOI if she does it herself)
7. Tasks: (You know how we talk about speaking with diction around here? Telling a girl to do
something instead of asking for it, thats exactly what this is. It conditions her to listen to what
you say and of course keeps the conversation going.) Implementing the Task Hook Lead is
very simple. She talks about something and you get her to tell you more by saying tell me/show
me.
Example: She tells you shes from India and that its awesome
WRONG: What part of India?

YOU: India, really? Tell me 3 things that make it so awesome.

Most men waste a completely good hook and kill chances on getting any more information on it
while the YOU have to tell her in a very alpha way to give more information on it. Also, the 3 or
however many things she tells you are things shes interested in. Why else would she bring
them up? From here on, you can escalate the conversation on three brand new High Caliber
Hook Leads.

8: Validation: Validation is one of the most important Hook Leads. For the validation Hook Lead
to work, you must demonstrate high value and high standards. You will constantly be qualifying
her to see if shes up to your standards. There are two types of validation. There is positive
validation (+) and negative validation (-). Positive validation is approval of one of her
characteristics. Negative validation is disapproval of one of her characteristics.

Example of positive validation:

YOU: What do you do for a living?
HB: Im a teacher.
YOU: *Pause*. Thats kind of cool. Most girls I hang out with are models and actresses (higher
valuue) But I like how you help others. Tell me more.. (stay calm and dont over-react)
Once you validate a girl enough, she may start to get cocky. What you do then is give her
negative validation.
Example of negative validation:
YOU: Where are you going this holiday?
HB: Ibiza to get drunk a little bit.
YOU: pause
HB: Whats wrong?
YOU: Nothing, forget about it.
HB: No, no! What is it?
YOU: Ok, but promise you wont get moody. I hate it when women do that.
Her: Ok, ok! I promise, I promise!
YOU: Ok, when you said you like going to bars and get drunk, I just didnt expect it. You were
saying all these beautiful things and then you said that. Now look, can we change the subject?
By saying this, shell start qualifying herself again. Make sure you act as if you can leave her at
any second to remain being a challenge. Then continue the cycle of positive/negative validation.
9: Assumptions: (Cold reading, palm reading, any kind of psychoanalysis would fit here. Keep in
mind girls do not like vague responses, and so if you give one, will yield a vague response.
Likewise, a detailed read or assumption about her will yield a much warmer response.)

WRONG I feel like youre a really outgoing person.

YOU: Really? Mmhmm, I knew that.
Detailed: From what Ive gotten from talking to you, you seem like a girl
whos really open with people and when you meet a stranger, you dont hesitate to open up to
them with a really warm vibe. (You can go on and
on, the more detailed you are, the more room you have to be wrong.)
What if you read a girl totally wrong?
Simple. Respond with intrigue and say, Really? Tell me about it/why that is, Itll get her to open
up, and sooner than you think, shell forget you were wrong.
(The big point on this one is that girls LOVE to be psychoanalyzed even if youre wrong.)
10. Suggestion: This one is pretty self explanatory. You suggest things to her. This is especially
effective when you want to bounce or set up a date. An example of this can be Oh, youre been
to Japan? Then youll love this Japanese place down the street. The food there is wonderful,
lets go!.