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Evoking
memories
Fair Lawn native
Eliezer Sobel creates
picture books to engage
his mother and others
with Alzheimers page 22
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Shmuley Boteach
hits the big time
We knew him when he was just
a reality television star, Kosher Sex
guru, Englewood zoning board
plaintiff, Republican congressional
candidate, and columnist for the
Jewish Standard.
More recently, Rabbi Shmuley
Boteach has embraced social media,
with 240,000 followers and 41,000
tweets on his @RabbiShmuley Twitter
account.
He also has embraced the incoming
Trump administration.
Rabbi Boteach recently posted
a picture of himself standing with
incoming White House Chief Strategist Steve Bannon, who previously
boasted of helping turn Breitbarts
website into a platform for the altright white supremacist movement.
CONTENTS
NOSHES ...............................................................4
BRIEFLY LOCAL ..............................................14
COVER STORY ................................................ 22
OPINION ........................................................... 26
DVAR TORAH........................................... 32
ARTS & CULTURE .......................................... 33
CALENDAR ......................................................34
CROSSWORD PUZZLE ................................ 35
OBITUARIES .................................................... 37
CLASSIFIEDS .................................................. 38
GALLERY ..........................................................40
REAL ESTATE...................................................41
Noshes
UMPTEETH AMITYVILLE:
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Mare Winningham
Abraham Pais
Henry Heimlich
on January 1 at 8 p.m.
The second episode will
air Jan. 3 at its normal
time Tuesdays at 8.
Mick stars Katlin Olsson
as Mickey, a middle-aged
hustler always looking
for an easy life. Her
dreams are answered
when she is named
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three children and gets
to live in their palatial
home (her sister and her
billionaire brother-in-law
have fled the country to
escape fraud charges).
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Meet Rabbi Ilan Acoca
New Sephardic rabbi in Fort Lee via Vancouver and Montreal talks about his background
JOANNE PALMER
ost of us know where some of our grandparents came from. Some of us even know
where our great-grandparents came from.
But most of them came from Europe, and
the war destroyed records, uprooted cemeteries, demolished memories.
Rabbi Ilan Acoca of the Sephardic Congregation of Fort
Lee, on the other hand, can trace his ancestry back at least
to 1492, when the Jews were expelled from Spain. Many
of those Jews, including his ancestors, went to Morocco,
married within the community there, and created a thriving society; their descendants stayed until 1967. Israels
Six-Day War was that year, however, and the fallout in
Morocco prompted many Jews, including Rabbi Acocas
parents, to leave.
Meyer and Simy Abecassis Acoca went first to France
and then to Israel; their son, Ilan, was born in Bat Yam
in 1970.
I grew up in a very traditional Sephardic home, Rabbi
Acoca said. It was very traditional but not necessarily 100
percent observant, which was very common in the Sephardic world. Ilan went to elementary school in Israel and
started high school there, but when he was about to enter
ninth grade, the call of the Moroccan diaspora became too
strong for his parents to ignore.
There was and still is a very large Moroccan community in Montreal, and Meyer Acoca had many relatives
siblings, cousins, uncles, and aunts, Rabbi Acoca said
there. So the family moved to Canada.
One reason that the Moroccan Jewish community
in Montreal is so big is that Montreal, like Morocco, is
French-speaking. We spoke mainly French at home,
Rabbi Acoca said. But my grandmother, who had a lot of
influence on me, spoke only Arabic, so I also speak Moroccan Arabic.
He was changed by his new home. I went to a Sephardic high school and lived in Montreal in a big Sephardic
community mainly Moroccan and that opened up the
Sephardic world to me, Rabbi Acoca said; he somehow
understood and was moved by the richness and beauty of
his tradition in ways that he did not and was not in Israel.
He and a bunch of his friends became more observant,
inspired to continue to explore, to look into Jewish texts,
to learn. Eventually, he and his friends left the Sephardic
high school for a more observant Lithuanian-style Ashkenazi yeshiva; Rabbi Acoca continued to study there well
past high school. I even learned how to speak Yiddish,
Who: Rabbi Ilan Acoca
What: Will talk about The Sages of the Past:
Visionaries of the Future
When: On Tuesday, January 3, at 8 p.m.
Where: At Ben Porat Yosef, 243 Frisch Court,
Paramus
Why: To talk about the Sephardic world, its
message, and its messages relevance today
For whom: The community is invited
For more information: Call the school at
(201) 845-5007
congregation west of Toronto. (We should note that Vancouver, British Columbia, is on Canadas west coast, and
Toronto is just about north of Buffalo. There are more
than 2,000 miles between those two Canadian cities.)
Our mission was to make sure that the Sephardic congregation in Vancouver would continue to thrive and
grow, Rabbi Acoca said.
Unlike the Sephardic community in Montreal, which
includes people from all over but is predominantly Moroccan, the Vancouver community was extremely diverse,
Rabbi Acoca said. They came from the four corners of the
world. From Iraq, Algeria, Yemen, Morocco, Tunisia, and
Iran. There were some Askhenazim as well, looking for the
warmth and heimische feeling we had. They felt part of it.
I was exposed to so many rich traditions, and I was
open to listening to all of them, to find out what its all
about.
There are many differences between different parts of
the Sephardic world, he said; in fact, even the definition
of Sephardic is elastic. It generally means all Jews who are
not Askhenazi or Italian (who form their own category).
Although the word Sepharad means Spain, and Sephardic Jews generally trace their ancestry through that
country, the term Sephardic usually includes Jews from
the Edut Mizrach the Middle Eastern communities that
never made it to the Iberian Peninsula in the first place.
There are divisions even between Sephardic Jews in
one country, Rabbi Acoca said. In Morocco, there are
two communities. One is people like me, whose ancestors were expelled from Spain. The other community
was there from before the destruction of the First Temple
in Jerusalem. They are the toshavim, the residents. My
community is called the megorashim. The exiles. There
was not much intermarriage between the two groups, he
added.
In my ketuba, its written that we will have a home
cminyan Castilla. Like the community of Castille. Of
Spain.
One of the most obvious ways that the differences
between different Sephardic traditions are manifest is
in their music, Rabbi Acoca said, and thats extremely
important in our liturgy. And outside the liturgy as well.
If you go to the Middle East, you will find one type of
music the instruments sometimes will be the same, but
the sound will be completely different, he said. North
African Jews were influenced by Andaluca Spains
southernmost province, and its heart during its Muslim
period. And there is some historic proof that Andalucian
music was influenced by Jews, who traveled so much. You
can hear the music of ancient Andalucia in Morocco and
Algeria. But if you go to the Middle East, its an entirely
different influence. You could have the same song and the
same words but it will sound completely different.
Also, obviously, Jews are all about food, and the food is
different. Sometimes the spices can be the same, but the
type of food isnt.
And then there are the customs specific to various
Sephardic communities. One of the main traditions of
Moroccan Jews is the mimouna, at the end of Pesach,
Rabbi Acoca said. We open our homes and let everyone
come in. Its the idea of faith mimouna comes from the
Hebrew word emunah, which means faith. We had faith
in God who took us out of Egypt. We mark that at the
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Rabbi Ilan Acoca greets former Canadian Prime Minister Stephen Harper.
Rabbi Acoca served a Vancouver congregation for 17 years.
beginning of Pesach with the seders, and
we end it with mimouna. More faith.
Another particularly Moroccan custom
is putting lettuce or green herbs on the
table. Thats because were changing seasons, and were going into the summer,
Rabbi Acoca said. We are wishing each
just at Sephardic rabbis would be entering a very small market. Why confine it
to rabbis? Why not write for the whole
Jewish world?
So he did.
He did a great deal of research; given the
constraints of time and space, he couldnt
include every one of the many thousands
of customs there are. Instead, he gives a
general overview.
Still, he said, the most important message hed like to give is that we are one
nation. We can agree to disagree, but at
the end, the bottom line is that we have to
respect each other.
We each have to keep our own traditions, according to our own ancestry, but
it is also important for us to be one nation.
Im writing about these customs not to
define us, but to understand each other
better. Thats what its all about.
And, he added, there is some mixing.
His own children he has six of them; the
oldest is in Israel, the second oldest finishing high school in Vancouver, the next
three at Ben Porat Yosef, the youngest not
quite old enough for it have one Ashkenazi grandparent. On Friday night, we
had matzah ball soup and Moroccan fish,
Rabbi Acoca said.
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Kosher Jazz
Local musician reinterprets familiar melodies with his own riffs
LOIS GOLDRICH
ts not everyone who listens to Dayenu at the seder table and automatically reinvents it as a jazz tune, even,
perhaps, as a jazz mambo. But thats
exactly what happens when Matt Chertkoff
of Hasbrouck Heights hears a catchy tune
at the seder, or in shul, or for that matter
practically anywhere else.
Sometimes I sit there and whatever
music I hear, I hear it in a different way,
said Mr. Chertkoff, who will showcase his
melodies on January 10 at the JCC of Fort
Lee/Congregation Gesher Shalom. Mr.
Chertkoff, who is a member of the congregation, said that he enjoys bringing different musical genres to the synagogue.
A program of the shuls CSI Scholar
Fund, Kosher Jazz a narrated concert
featuring Mr. Chertkoff and a four-piece
combo, including piano, drums, bass, and
guitar will demonstrate how Yiddish
songs, pop tunes that speak to the Jewish
experience, and religious melodies morph
easily into the jazz medium, he said. (The
scholar fund is named for Congregation
Sons of Israel, a synagogue in Leonia that
merged with Gesher Shalom in 2011.)
Ive loved music since I was a kid, Mr.
Chertkoff said. There are so many beautiful melodies in shul, and my parents sang
on family trips. When I hear a melody I
like, I hear it in my head in a more sophisticated, jazz-like version. He always wanted
to be a professional guitarist, he added,
so he studied at the University of Miami,
which, he said, has a particularly good jazz
conservatory. I stayed there and played
Who: Matt Chertkoff and his four-piece
combo will present
What: Kosher Jazz, a narrated
concert
When: On January 10 at 1 p.m.
Where: The JCC of Fort Lee/Congregation Gesher Shalom, 1449 Anderson
Ave., Fort Lee
Cost: Free and open to the public
Information: Call (201) 947-1735
Matt Chertkoff, left, at the Blue Note in Manhattan, with vocalist Dee Dee Bridgewater and tuba player Clark Gaylon.
professionally, and then I moved here.
All music is connected, he continued.
He pointed to Hava Nagila, a melody
whose authorship is unknown and whose
tune is borrowed from another song. All
music is influenced by other music. People
put their own stamp on it. It develops over
time. When he hears a catchy melody, I
start humming it and then reinterpret it
when I get home. Its a natural process.
Mr. Chertkoff said he plays with a lot of
different groups, and even the membership of his own group changes. It makes
it interesting, he said, noting that the
changes necessarily bring different influences. For example, having played a few
times with Joshua Nelson who sings Jewish songs in a gospel style and who Mr.
Chertkoff brought to the Fort Lee synagogue he has adopted aspects of Mr. Nelsons style and may use one of his songs at
the January 10 concert.
That concert, he said, will include songs,
their history, and an explanation of how
were changing them, our approach.
Styles may include mambo, samba, gospel, fast waltz, uptempo, ballad, or a New
Orleans beat. Theyll be based on tunes
people will recognize, he said. Well
explain their origins, who wrote them,
and how theyve done it. Otherwise, he
said, people wont understand the way
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Concentrating on Kook
Rabbis biographer, Yehudah Mirsky, to speak in Teaneck
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for a more immanent religious experience. It enables
a theology of culture, where things like arts and building concrete social political institutions are how God is
working through the world, the working out of a desire
of something greater than oneself.
Its very radical, he said.
Dr. Mirsky believes that a biographical fact key to
understanding Rav Kook is that he was born into what
constituted a mixed marriage among Orthodox Russian
Jews in the 19th century.
His mother was from a family of Chabad chasidim.
His father was from a family of mitnagdim, opponents
of the chasidim. Maintaining that duality, and dualities
in general, is central to his whole life. At every step of
the way he is the person of the holy and the secular,
the structure and the anti-structure, the sage and the
prophet. He has deep sympathy to new currents and is
very traditional in other ways. He develops this complex
dialectical way of looking at the world.
I think he first develops the dialectic as a way to
think about himself, how he is drawn simultaneously to
talmudic legal study and to more mythic and theological
Anger is driving
people more than
ideology and more
than their interests.
Rav Kook is all about
trying to conquer
your anger.
passages. He is helped here by the kabbalah. Kabbalahs
mutifaceted divinity becomes for him the world of differences, a world tied to the deep underlying world of
sefirot, which contend with each other but hold each
other in balance.
So what concrete messages should we take from Rav
Kook right now?
Were living in an age of anger, Dr. Mirsky said.
Anger is driving people more than ideology and more
than their interests. Rav Kook is all about trying to conquer your anger.
Rav Kook said that anger is a sign of emptiness.
Whenever theres a group full of anger, you know that
internally they have nothing.
Theres a difference between a rage against injustice
and anger thats simply a hatred of other groups. I can
understand that someone who has been genuinely victimized is angry, but does he want to take his anger out
on something, or does he try to build something?
Part of whats so powerful about Rav Kook is that he
placed himself in the middle of incredibly stormy controversies, between religionists and secularists, between
right-wing Zionists and left-wing Zionists. I dont know
how he had the courage. The charedim fought him. A lot
of the secular Zionists resented him. But he placed himself
into this. He worked on the assumption that these people
arent evil, that there are things that are motiving them,
and maybe there are ways one can think this through. He
has a lot of faith in God.
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JOANNE PALMER
ason Dov Greenblatt of Teaneck, who
began 2016 as the Trump Organizations chief legal adviser and became
one of two special advisers on the
U.S./Israel relationship for his longtime
boss, Donald J. Trump, this spring, will
enter the new year ready for a new title.
He soon will become the new Trump
administrations special representative
for international negotiations. According to CNN, his primary focuses will be
the Israel-Palestinian peace process, the
American relationship with Cuba, and
trade agreements.
The Trump campaigns other special
adviser on the U.S./Israel relationship was
Daniel Friedman, the controversial lawyer
who Trump has named as the next ambassador to Israel.
Mr. Greenblatt could not talk to the Jewish Standard Im swamped and not
doing interviews, he emailed in response
to a request, suggesting that we try again
later. Thank you for understanding. But
in April, he did talk to us.
As he said in that April 21 interview
with us, Mr. Greenblatt had not known
until Mr. Trump told a press conference
that he was being named as an Israel
adviser. But although he has worked
for the Trump Organization since 1997,
focusing mainly on real estate, he felt
strongly that his lifelong interest in
Israel made him a strong if unconventional choice.
Mr. Greenblatt grew up in Queens; he
went first to an Orthodox elementary
day school and then to MTA, Yeshiva Universitys high school for boys. After high
school, he spent a year in Israel at Yeshivat Har Etzion, then went on to Yeshiva
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He began his career at Fried Frank, tried
his hand as an entrepreneur, and then
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His work experience has been as a lawyer; he does not have much experience
in foreign policy, and most of his deepest knowledge of Israel comes more from
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Presidential
election put
in perspective
Members of the Jewish Federation of Northern New Jerseys
Commerce and Professionals division heard Sam Stein,
senior politics editor at the
Huffington Post, discuss the
extremely unusual presidential election. A question and
Larry Weiss, JFNNJs Commerce and Profesanswer session followed. The
sionals chair, left, with Sam Stein. COURTESY JFNNJ
division is for professionals in
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Zimriyah is live-streamed
The voices of 300 Early Childhood and
Lower School students traversed geographic boundaries through the live
streaming of Solomon Schechter Day
School of Bergen Countys Chanukah
Zimriyah (songfest). More than 400
grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins from Mexico City to Tel Aviv, London
to Los Angeles, viewed the live musical
Nissan Clark and Eli Davidovics will represent Rinats Community Security Service
volunteers when they receive the Sruli
Guttman Service award. Mr. Davidovics,
CSSs co-regional manager for New Jersey,
and Mr. Clark, Rinats CSS team manager,
have been overseeing Rinats CSS group
for five years. The shuls volunteers,
trained by CSS to function as the communitys eyes and ears, maintain a presence
outside the building and in each minyan
on Shabbat mornings and play a crucial
role in Rinats security.
Long-time Rinat members Paula and
Dr. Howard Friedman will receive the
Keter Shem Tov award. Dr. Friedman, a
past president of Maayanot, was Rinats
board vice president and plays a key role
in minyanim and learning opportunities.
He co-founded the 7:30 weekday morning
minyan, started the Thursday night parsha
shiur, and helped expand the offerings in
the beit midrash library. He also coordinated scholar-in-residence programs and
home minyanim for people in need and
serves as gabbai in various minyanim.
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Gap-year students
cheer children
at Sanhedria Home
Recently, a group of 25 students in gap-year yeshiva
Torat Shragas Chesed Leadership program put on
an hour-long show for boys in Sanhedria Childrens
Home in Jerusalem. Sanhedria is a rehabilitation
center for boys, from 6 to 15 years old, who were
removed from their homes due to severe physical
or emotional abuse and neglect in early childhood.
Four of the Torat Shraga students are from Englewood: Michael Klein, Stephan Katz, Eli Best, and Tai
Gerszberg.
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Chanukah
Englewood congregation prepares
Chanukah gifts for Israeli soldiers
More than 40 people from Congregation Kol HaNeshamah of Englewood
gathered to prepare Chanukah care
packages and greeting cards for lone
soldiers of the Israel Defense Forces.
The packages, which included clothing items, supplies, and candy, were the
shuls way of sending comfort and emotional support to the young soldiers stationed throughout Israel.
Tzvi Weisel, an IDF veteran and former lone soldier, spoke to the group,
describing his feelings of homesickness,
especially during holiday times, and how
much he and his brigade appreciated the
cards and care packages from congregations and Jewish agencies.
According to Rabbi Fred Elias of Kol
HaNeshamah, the lone soldier project
has a special significance to many members of the shul community, as almost
every member has a child, friend, or family member who has served or is serving in the IDF. As Israel has come under
attack both domestically and abroad,
the communitys support of those who
are defending Israel from terrorist and
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absent a peace process led to the decision to abstain. In her explanation of the
abstention, Samantha Power, the U.S.
envoy to the United Nations, listed the
considerations that made the administration hesitate to allow the resolution. Chief
among them were the historic anti-Israel
bias at the United Nations and Palestinian intransigence. But she also noted that
since the Oslo Accords, the settler population has increased by 355,000.
It is precisely our commitment to Israels security that makes the United States
believe that we cannot stand in the way
of this resolution as we seek to preserve
a chance of attaining our long-standing
objective: two states living side by side in
peace and security, she said.
As much as the language in the resolution has stirred cries of unprecedented
in Israel and in some pro-Israel precincts
in the United States, it is broadly consistent with resolutions that the United States
allowed from 1967 at least through the end
of Jimmy Carters presidency in January
1981.
Last weeks resolution reaffirmed that
the establishment by Israel of settlements
in the Palestinian territory occupied since
1967, including East Jerusalem, has no legal
validity, and constituted a flagrant violation of international law. Resolution 465,
passed in March 1980 under Carter with
a U.S. vote in favor, determined that all
measures that would change the physical
or demographic character of the occupied
lands, including Jerusalem, have no legal
validity and are a flagrant violation
of the Fourth Geneva Convention. It further called on countries to distinguish
between Israel and the West Bank.
Under the administrations of Ronald Reagan and George H. W. Bush, the council did
not explicitly reject settlements as illegal,
but referred to earlier resolutions that did
so while continuing to assail the occupation as untenable. Resolution 605, passed
under Reagan with a U.S. abstention in 1987,
terrorists, said Morton Klein, the president of the Zionist Organization of America, in his first-ever tweet. He likes his
Jewish friends, not the Jewish people.
Netanyahu, who in the weeks before
was boasting to all comers about Israels
expanding relations with India, China,
Russia, and a host of African countries,
launched steps reminiscent of the you
and me against the world era that predated Oslo. He suspended ties with New
Zealand and Senegal, two of the four
nations that reintroduced the resolution
after Egypt pulled it under pressure from
Netanyahu and President-elect Donald
Trump. He summoned ambassadors from
the United States and other Security Council member states with diplomatic ties to
Israel for rebukes on Christmas. And he
canceled a visit by the prime minister of
Ukraine, which supported the resolution.
His government cut off all but security ties
with the Palestinian Authority.
Netanyahu and his ambassador to
Washington, Ron Dermer, said they were
counting on the Trump administration to
reverse course. Dermer said in many interviews that he had evidence that the Obama
administration did not simply abstain but
colluded in framing the resolution, an
accusation strongly denied by administration officials, and for which he presented
no evidence.
Israel now is looking ahead to a new
American order. At the Chanukah ceremony, Netanyahu spoke of our friends
in the incoming administration David
Friedman, Trumps ambassador designate, is an active supporter of the settlement movement and warned that in
this new era, there will be a much higher
price to be paid for harming Israel, and
it will be exacted not only by the United
States, but by Israel.
Will Trump usher in that era? His pronouncements after the resolution were
relentlessly critical, promising in one
tweet that things will be different at the
U.N. after he assumes the presidency and
lamenting in another that the councils
action will make it much harder to negotiate peace. In a third, he said the United
Nations had become a club for people to
get together, talk and have a good time. So
sad!
In total, the statements appeared to
regret the passage of the resolution but
stopped well short of pledging to reverse
its effects.
Trump said early in his campaign that
he wanted to negotiate a peace deal as a
neutral party and that he did not believe
in coming into negotiations with preconditions. One result of the U.S. abstention last
week is to lay the ground for an incoming
administration to pressure Israel to end
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NEW YORK Emotions are running high
after the Obama administrations decision
to allow the U.N. Security Council to pass a
resolution condemning Israeli settlements.
Here are seven questions aimed at making
sense of what happened, and what it could
mean moving forward.
1. Did Obama just double down on failed
settlements first strategy?
Listening to President Barack Obamas
aides, the decision to allow the U.N. Security Council resolution to pass was a lastgasp move borne out of frustration and
distrust. But in many respects it resembles
the Obama administrations failed opening
maneuver.
Obama took a hot-and-cold approach to
Israel, simultaneously strengthening military and intelligence cooperation while
stepping up criticism of the settlements.
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Jason Greenblatt of Teaneck, the chief legal officer for
the Trump Organization, as his administrations special
representative for international negotiations.
6. If this resolution is good for the two-state solution,
why are Hamas and Islamic Jihad so happy?
Among those cheering the resolution are Hamas and
Islamic Jihad, two terrorist groups opposed to a twostate solution not to mention Israels existence.
7. How strong is Jewish opposition to the resolution?
The criticism isnt coming just from the right. Centrist
groups like the Anti-Defamation League and the American Jewish Committee issued sharp condemnations. The
Israel Policy Forum a staunch advocate of U.S. efforts
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therefore illegal, according to Israeli law.
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the Silence speakers. The ministry has taken disciplinary
action against such principals.
Under the provisions of the bill, Israels education minister will have the authority to ban certain individuals or
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Manya was a
German
Holocaust
refugee who
arrived in New
York in 1939, on
the Bremen, the
last ship that
Hitler permitted
to leave
Germany.
father was 90. He was running the household, caring for mom at home, with a staff
of aides.
It was always scary to watch him go
upstairs. He was always teetering off balance, carrying coffee. We begged him
to hold onto the bannister. One day he
decided to carry groceries. The grapes and
yogurt made it into the kitchen, but he fell
backwards and landed on his head. He had
a near-traumatic brain injury. I spent the
night in the ICU.
And suddenly we had two dementia
patients.
At first, his doctors were sure that Max
was about to die. They told us to say our
goodbyes, Eliezer said. He ended up living another three years, including some
good years. He recovered about 75 percent
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of his mind, and he was able to walk with
a walker and someone holding onto his
waist. But he was a constant fall risk he
got kicked out of rehab because they kept
finding him wandering on his own.
Eliezer is a writer, and Shari, who was
running a research lab at Virginia Commonwealth University Medical Center,
was ready to give up her job, so the couple moved back to Fair Lawn. We ended
up living back in my childhood home, he
said. The bed that I had been in at age 5 I
was back in at age 61.
We lived with them for 10 months,
while we got the systems and the right
aides in place. Then we moved out, but
we never made it home. We have been in
New Jersey ever since. They now live in
Red Bank, in Sharis parents house; her
mother died after suffering from another
form of dementia. Her father, Eliezer
reports, is fine.
Dr. Max Sobel died on November 11.
The book grew out of Eliezers relationship with his mother. He watched her as
she lost her language. My brother, who
is a psychologist, explained that often
people with dementia lose language in
the reverse order that they learned it as
children. Children learn categories. They
classify all things with fur and four legs
as animals; they might call all animals
cats or dogs or cows or lions. And then
they can distinguish a dog from a cat, and
then, at the next level of sophistication,
they can distinguish a collie from a German shepherd.
We noticed that my mother was starting to refer to all mechanical things as
machines. She was able to recognize that
they all were mechanical objects, but she
no longer could differentiate them. And
from there she devolved to word salad,
where it sounded like English, like she had
some thoughts in mind, but it gets out of
kilter about three or four words in.
Shed say something like, Well, I have
the pictures and if someone doesnt come
tomorrow then there is nothing I can do. I
will have to tell someone to fix it and I have
the blue one and the red one.
And she picked up a random piece of
paper from my fathers desk, and she said,
Here it says to call Irv, but I cant really
help these people.
She was still speaking English, and in
phrases, but it didnt have any meaning.
And then the English went, but she still
made sounds. She could speak in gibberish, and I would too, and wed have long
conversations. Wed say, I cant make the
calendalish or Well buy another barospamat or You need to noodle needle the
mendel man and we will bendle bishen.
It was all with a conversational
cadence, and we would go back and forth
as if we understood each other.
And then we assumed that English was
gone.
But then one day I walked into the living room, and she was flipping through the
magazines, looking at the headlines, and
Eliezer Sobel, left, and his brother, Harry, flank their father, Max.
The Sobels had been married nearly 70 years when Max died in November.
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Alzheimers librarian. She was very snooty
at first, and said they had thousands of
books. They were all for caregivers. When
I explained to her what I wanted, she was
silent. I had stumped her.
Eventually he found one book with a similar idea, but the style was cartoonish, and
it was not what he or his mother wanted.
I cant believe that with the epidemic
of Alzheimers, nobodys thought of it yet,
especially since people are struggling to
come up with activities for people with
dementia other than just sitting in front of
TVs in nursing homes. They say they have
activities, but often its people in wheelchairs nodding off while someone else is
standing in front of the room trying desperately to engage them.
So I came up with the idea.
The Jewish book shows a wide range
of people, all busy at identifiable Jewish activities. I was looking for as much
diversity as possible within the Jewish
community, Eliezer said. There are kids,
the elderly, men, women I was definitely
looking for that.
I watched my mother with the first
book. She seemed to zero in on three of
the pictures immediately. One was of an
elderly couple. Shed just stare at it for
minutes, and touch their cheeks.
Now, his mother is farther gone with
Alzheimers. She no longer can decode
photographs enough to gain any meaning from them at all. She no longer can
recognize anything or anyone. But even
as recently as three to six months ago, if I
would stand in front of her long enough,
and look in her eyes, and wave, eventually she would notice that someone was
there, Eliezer said. That moment of
connection was sufficient. But now that
seems to have gone.
Despite the immense sadness of his
mothers long fall into the oblivion of
Blue Sky White Clouds, Eliezers first book for people with Alzheimers, is aimed at a general market.
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he late December attack on an outTrump first used the Trojan Horse refdoor market in Berlin underscores
erence following the November 2015 terror
one of the reasons why Donald J. attacks in Paris. He has used it many times
Trumps virulently anti-refugee
since. The Berlin attack only adds weight to
rhetoric resonated with so many voters. It
his position.
also offers an opportunity to examine the
That brings us to Jewish law. In this case, if
inner workings of halachah, Jewish law.
Jewish law was the governing law, two competing sets of laws would be at work. A deciAnis Amri, the perpetrator of the Berlin
attack, was an asylum-seeker from Tunisia. sion would have to be made about which one
He left Tunisia after the success of the Janu- is operative.
ary 2011 Jasmine Revolution and headed
The first set of laws has to do with how we
for Italy. There, he and several friends
deal with strangers in our midst. Says Leviticus 19:33-34: When a stranger resides with
torched a migrant center in Sicily. He was
you in your land, you shall not
caught, convicted, and sentenced to four years in prison.
wrong him. The stranger who
While in prison, he was transresides with you shall be to you
ferred six times because of his
as one of your citizens; you
violent behavior, and because
shall love him as yourself, for
of his penchant for fomenting
you were strangers in the land
prison revolts.
of Egypt.
When it came time to decide
That there should be one law
whether to grant Amri asylum,
for residents and aliens is found
the Italians sought to deport
in several places, such as ExoRabbi
dus 12:49, Numbers 9:14, and
him, but Tunisia said it did not
Shammai
Numbers 15:15.
want him back.
Engelmayer
Possibly, Deuteronomy 23:16In 2015, therefore, Amri went
17 offers a very telling law of its
to Germany. He applied for asylum this past April, and was turned down In
own: You shall not turn over to his master
June, because German intelligence had cred- a slave who seeks refuge with you from his
ible information that he had become radical- master. He shall live with you in any place he
ized there, and posed an imminent danger. may choose among the settlements in your
Incredibly, though, he was allowed to roam
midst, wherever he pleases; you must not illfree because he had no travel documents at
treat him.
the time, and Tunisia was slow in respondThe verse refers to a runaway slave, but an
ing to a request for a passport. It arrived on
argument can be made that a person fleeing
the same day Germany launched an interna- from a tyrannical regime given to torture and
tional manhunt for him.
other forms of persecution falls under the
This is the kind of situation Trump railed
banner of a runaway slave.
about on the campaign trail, and has
It is hard to argue, then, that doors should
repeated several times since election day. be closed to such a person.
This is especially true of the influx of refuThat Leviticus 19:34 gives as the reason for
gees from Syria and other Muslim nations. its law for you were strangers in the land of
This is going to be potentially a catastrophe
Egypt also has wider implications, because
for our country, Trump said at one point
it is saying we must take our own history into
about the Syrians. Its from within, it could
account in deciding how we deal with others.
be the all-time great Trojan Horse.
Too often in Jewish history, we were forced
from one land after another, often unable
Shammai Engelmayer is the rabbi of
to find refuge anywhere else. How could we,
Congregation Beth Israel of the Palisades in
who were stateless refugees ourselves, deny
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Then again, there were nations that did give Jews
refuge some Muslim countries, for example, after
the expulsion from Spain in 1492. An updated version of the Leviticus verse could end with for you
were strangers in the land of Morocco, for example.
There are other laws, however, that also must be
considered. Uppermost is Exodus 22:1-2: If a thief
is seized while tunneling, and he is beaten to death,
there is no bloodguilt in his case. If the sun has risen
on him, there is bloodguilt in that case.
This law was given at a time when there was no
electricity. The words are sparse, but what they say
is this: If someone broke into a home in the dead
of night and the homeowner killed the intruder, the
homeowner is not guilty of a crime because he could
not know if the intruder had a weapon and was prepared to kill. If the intruder broke in during the daytime, however, killing him is a crime, assuming that
it was clear that he had no weapon.
The bottom line of this law is that if someone is out
to kill you and there is no other way to stop him, he
can be killed before he kills you, if that is the only
If it is not possible to
determine who is a
terrorist and who is a
refugee, better to
keep refugees far
away from you.
way to stop him. By extension, if you are reasonably
certain someone has murderous intent, keep him far
away from you.
A would-be terrorist disguised as a fleeing refugee
fails to qualify here. If it is not possible to determine
who is a terrorist and who is a refugee, better to keep
refugees far away from you.
To determine which set of laws to follow, we must
consider Leviticus 18:5. You shall keep My laws and
My rules, by the pursuit of which man shall live. The
Talmud adds, but not die by them (see the Babylonian Talmud tractate Sanhedrin 74a, for example,
or the Mishnah in BT Makkot 23b). In other words, if
life is threatened, protecting that life trumps almost
everything else.
Protecting the stranger and giving him refuge
could violate this principle.
Deciding which set of laws to follow is not a question that is easily answered. The decision would
depend on how great the threat really is, if that
could be determined with a reasonable degree
of certainty.
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he VUCA world
Educators, policymakers,
businessmen, and politicians
are talking about the fact that
were living in a VUCA world. Thats a
world that is Volatile, Uncertain, Complex,
and Ambiguous.
As 2016 draws to a close, its clear they
couldnt be more correct. The roller
coaster ride of our election season that
ended with Donald Trumps startling win
was only one of a series of events thats
proven nothing is predictable except the
unpredictable: Brexit was another example, as is the sad and devastating fact of
Bashar al-Assads recapture of Aleppo, and
his continued claim to power.
Though Ive been preoccupied by the
news, scrolling through my Facebook feed,
checking various media outlets, and gathering with friends to process the events
roiling the world, the children and adolescents in my life seem blessedly oblivious.
School continues as usual; students are still
learning about exponents, Lexington and
Concord, what an organelle is, and how to
spot an extended metaphor. The normal is
reassuring, and yet I hear the voice of Tony
Wagner, from the Harvard Graduate School
of Education, talking about our VUCA
world and urging educators to change education to prepare our kids for it.
How would we? One way is to organize the content we teach in ways that
challenge students to develop nuanced
answers. You can have students answer
what happened at Lexington and Concord, or you can have them look at rebellions from myriad historical eras in order
to determine why people rise up against
their rulers and what makes them succeed
or fail. The story of the American Revolution now can be set against the failed
uprising in Syria, and students can process
not only what happened in the past, but
whats happening outside their school and
home walls right now.
Another way to empower students not
only to understand current events, but
to take an active role in grappling with
the problems we face, is to have them do
just that. One of the first topics in a world
Systems thinking
In an article How Systems Thinking
Applies to Education, Frank Betts discusses the rapid changes weve undergone
in the world in the past 50 years. He charts
the evolution of humankind and societal
progress, showing, for example, that
hunter-gatherer groups lasted for 500,000
years; agricultural societies for 10,000;
and the industrial society from which
were now emerging, for 500 years. Our
current post-industrial society has been
around only for the past 60 years or so. In
that time, schools have not had the time to
undergo the kind of transformation necessary for a post-industrial world, where the
banking model of education, one in which
teachers deposit information into their
students brains, is no longer ideal.
Betts argues that if were to prepare our
students for the world in which we now
live, we have to design a system that is
more open, organic . . . and complex,
one that interacts with constantly changing environments, and that among other
characteristics, lives and deals creatively
with change and welcomes not just tolerates complex and ambiguous situations.
A key conclusion Betts draws from his
analysis of 20th-century models of both
management and education is that were
moving from dictatorial to participative organizational styles. That is, were
moving from hierarchical structures to
more collaborative ones, and so we need
to shift perspective from a one-to-many
toward a many-to-one orientation. In education, this means moving from a model
where one teacher conveys information
to many students to one in which students realize they have many resources
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Letters
Aakash Dalal apologizes
A day has not passed in the past five years that I have not
thought of the events that unfolded in December 2011
and January 2012 the events that evoked memories of a
sad past for members of the Jewish community in Bergen
County and the events that have forever changed my life
and my way of thinking. Living in solitary confinement in
the Bergen County Jail for these past five years has given
me an opportunity to re-evaluate my short life and the
negative views I held many years ago at the age of 19.
As a teenager, it was wrong of me to think of certain religions and faiths in an unfavorable light. I have grown from
being a childish teenager to an adult and gained a different
perspective and learned to respect, appreciate, and value
the diverse community that we live in especially during
my current incarceration, where I have come to interact
with individuals from many different religions.
The past five years in prison have been a learning experience. I have matured and come to appreciate the value
of human life and freedom. I deeply regret that I face the
prospect of spending the formative years of my life behind
bars and that I may never have the chance to start a family and have children. I realize that I was blessed with the
opportunity to have a higher education and will not have
a chance to complete my college degree and be a working
professional contributing to society.
I also deeply regret that I am no longer in a position to
take care of my parents as they age and as their only child.
They have nobody to depend on after having spent their
life savings to support and defend me.
I have lived m Bergen County my entire life and in 2010
I moved to New Brunswick to attend Rutgers University.
I would return to Lodi, where I grew up, every weekend
to visit my loving mother and father. At Rutgers, I became
friends with numerous members of the Jewish faith,
attended various religious events at the Chabad building
on College Avenue with them, and routinely socialized
with them.
In December 2011 and January 2012, I worked on the
Republican presidential primary campaign of former
U.S. Congressman Ron Paul. I was a student volunteer
for the campaign in New Hampshire. Congressman Ron
Pauls campaign coordinators would make speeches
against Israel and the Jewish faith in an effort to incite
and inflame campaign volunteers, many of who were, like
me, teenagers.
I now understand the rhetoric of Congressman Pauls
staff to be nonsense with no basis in fact.
However, at the age of 19, I was drawn to campaign
because of Congressman Pauls mainstream policies. I
eventually came to learn that anti-Semitism was intertwined with the political positions of Congressman Pauls
campaign. The anti-Semitic and anti-government statements and writings attributed to me in early 2012 were
immature reactions to a politician whose inflammatory
campaign rhetoric would blur the boundaries between
right and wrong. They do not reflect what I hold to be
true today nor do they reflect the values that have been
instilled in me by my family.
This is a sentiment that was relayed to me by an elderly
individual I met in prison. The man was a former attorney and the founder of a Jewish foundation and had
been incarcerated in the same prison unit as me and we
had numerous conversations. He had been aware of the
charges against me and had been following along with
news reports of the case. He explained that his parents
were Holocaust survivors and informed me of the lessons
that he had learned as a result. He also advised me to
reach out to the Jewish community between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur because of his firm belief that the
Jewish people are very reasonable and that they believe in
redemption and forgiveness and to ask for that forgiveness
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Dvar Torah
Miketz: His brothers keeper
he Joseph story,
chapters 37 through
50 of Genesis, is one
of the great short
stories of human literature.
Parashat Miketz is the physical
center of that tale. It is also the
narrative in which we see this
son of Israel transform himself
Rabbi Neal
into a responsible Jew.
Borovitz
This weeks narrative begins
Rabbi emeritus,
with Josephs personal redempTemple Avodat
tion from an Egyptian prison
Shalom, River Edge,
and his rapid rise to power at
Reform
the Egyptian court. The second
half of the parasha recounts
Josephs reconnection with
the brothers who sold him into slavery. Here is where the
story becomes not only interesting, but to me, extremely
relevant to contemporary Jewish life.
The Torah tells us explicitly that Joseph recognized
his brothers, but they did not know him. Joseph, being
a very human Jew, was caught in a real dilemma. He
wasnt yet willing to reveal his identity and welcome
with open arms these brothers who had betrayed him,
but neither was he able to turn them away in their time
of famine. Joseph answers to the exchange between God
and Cain when Cain responds to Gods inquiry as to the
whereabouts of his brother Abel with a question: Am I
my brothers keeper? Here in action rather than words
Joseph answers Cains retort to God in the affirmative:
Yes, he is his brothers keeper! Yes, even though he
doesnt always like their actions and his children will
form a separate tribe from that of his brothers descendants, Joseph and all the children of Israel from his generation onward will be tied to each other by both a common heritage and a common fate.
Joseph is the prototype for the court Jew of medieval
history and, I suggest, for both the American Jewish
Opinion
the intervening decade. Most recently that has been demonstrated by the terror organizations participation in the atrocities that accompanied the conquest of Aleppo in Syria.
Throughout 2006, the global left adopted Hezbollah as a
cause clbre, embracing the group as the advance guard of
the justified resistance against Zionist aggression. In this
imagining, Hezbollah was depicted as a Middle Eastern equivalent of the plucky leftists who courageously fought the fascist
armies of General Francisco Franco during the Spanish Civil
War and not as the anti-Semites, homophobes, misogynists,
and fascists that this collection of storm troopers truly are.
Some readers wont need to be reminded of the character of those demonstrations, but for those who dont recall
that long hot summer, here is a flavor of the protest chants
that echoed through the streets of cities around the world
God of Vengeance
back on the Lower East Side
MIRIAM RINN
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Israeli wine tasting:
Lauren and Greg
Sandler host an Israel
wine tasting for adults,
particularly Temple Beth
Tikvah religious school
parents, at their Wayne
home, 7:30-10:30 p.m.
Tasting led by an expert
from Kedem Winery.
Appetizers and desserts.
Proceeds benefit TBT
religious school and
family programs. Greg,
(201) 704-3768.
In New York
Sunday
JANUARY 1
by National Yiddish
Theatre Folksbiene
at the Museum of
Jewish Heritage
A Living Memorial
to the Holocaust,
2 p.m. 36 Battery Place.
(212) 213-2120 ext. 230 or
www.nytf.org.
Singles
Sunday
JANUARY 8
Zalmen Mlotek
conducting. JODY SOMERS
Yiddish theater songs:
Rediscovered and
restored Yiddish theater
songs by Ellstein,
Goldfaden, Olshanetsky,
Rumshinsky, and
Secundan are featured
in Light Up The Night,
a concert presented
Sunday
JANUARY 8
JAN.
Friday
DECEMBER 30
Chanukah in
Ridgewood: The public
menorah at Memorial
Park in Van Neste Square
is lit, 4 p.m., and Saturday
at 5:30. (201) 444-9320
or www.synagogue.org.
Shabbat in Closter:
Temple Beth El invites
the community to 101
Menorahs, a familyfriendly Shabbat/
Chanukah service led by
Rabbi David S. Widzer
and Cantor Rica Timman,
6:30 p.m. Chinese food at
5:30 p.m. Bring a menorah
and eight candles. Latkes
after the service. 221
Schraalenburgh Road.
(201) 768-5112 or www.
tbenv.org.
Shabbat in Washington
Township: Temple Beth
Or offers its familyfriendly Chanukah Lots
of Lights Shabbat,
7:30 p.m. Families
are invited to bring
menorahs and candles
to light at the start of the
service. 56 Ridgewood
Road, (201) 664-7422 or
templebethornj.org.
Sunday
JANUARY 1
Competitive latke
eating in Teaneck:
Noahs Ark hosts the
annual latke eating
contest sponsored by
Cedar Lane Management
11:30 a.m., at the
restaurant, 493 Cedar
Lane. To register, be
among the first 10 in
either age group
children up to 17, and
adults 18 and older, at
10:45 that morning;
online at staff@
cedarlane.net; or call
(201) 837-8818, ext. 116.
Contestants under 18
need parental consent.
www.cedarlane.net.
Monday
JANUARY 2
Bnai mitzvah class in
Jersey City: Bnai Jacob
holds a bnai mitzvah
class for children, 5 p.m.
176 West Side Ave. www.
bnaijacobjc.com or
rabbiAaron@gmail.com.
Saturday
Monday
JANUARY 7
JANUARY 9
Zumba in Tenafly:
Memory loss:
Calendar
Latke eating contest on Sunday
Noahs Ark hosts the annual latke eating
contest sponsored by Cedar Lane Management on Sunday, January 1, at 11:30
a.m., at the restaurant, 493 Cedar Lane,
Teaneck.
To register, be among the first 10 in
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n 1 The Fair Lawn Jewish Center/CBI held From Stage to Screen, an evening of
Broadway and movie music. Event organizers Andrea and Scott Pass, sitting, joined the
performers and instrumentalists. COURTESY FLJC/CBI
n 2 Temple Beth Tikvah of Waynes Women of Chai group, including Suzanne
Goldensohn, pictured, created needlepoint mezuzahs, donated food to the WIN-Wayne
Interfaith Network, and enjoyed a homemade dessert buffet. COURTESY TBT
n 3 The JCC of Paramus/Congregation Beth Tikvah held its Evening of Fun and
Laughter with comedy headliner Robin Fox at mic. Comedian Doug Adler also
performed. Refreshments included liquors and a pudding bar. COURTESY JCCP/CBT
n 4 Students at the Bergen County High School of Jewish Studies took a trip to the
Funplex in East Hanover for laser tag, arcade games, and go-kart riding. COURTESY BCHSJS
n 5 As part of Temple Beth Or in Washington Townships pre-Chanukah celebration,
teens held a Mitzvah Market to raise funds for organizations including Billys BASEballs,
First Book, Keshet, Midnight Run, New Eyes For The Needy, Ramapo-Bergen Animal
Refuge, and Table to Table. Toddlers made crafts, pictured, in a Holiday Happenings
program, and the sisterhood held a lobby holiday sale to raise funds. COURTESY TBO
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