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The schooling system serves a large part in the socialization and maturation of
every child. Though there are flaws, it instills essential life lessons and teaches children
experience was far from perfect and based on trends I observed, I developed my own
theories about socialization in such an atmosphere and how the parents come along side
the school to shape self-aware, knowledgeable humans. One main observation would be
the connection between unruly, trouble students and his or her relationship with their
parents; based on what I witnessed, the parents who are less involved in their students
lives tend to have more disruptive students and prove that family is the principal
At my small school, each student knew everyone in his or her class, including a
majority of the homelife of each student. This was probably my least favorite part of my
small school experience because there were few things that could be kept private. With
that in mind, it was not difficult to notice the students that acted out in class or tended to
have lower grades than the majority. An based on my observations, the trend seemed to
be that these students had a more difficult home situation or uninterested parents. Of
course, no extensive investigation was done to confirm this conclusion, but based on
general knowledge of my classmates, this conclusion was supported and a common trend.
As an example, one classmate, who I knew for about six years, lost his mother when he
was in grade school. His father remarried and was very hard on him; my classmate made
it clear he and his father rarely saw eye to eye and often spoke of him very
disrespectfully. This particular classmate had very low grades and was in detention on a
frequent basis- all things he was not ashamed of and jokes about often. The experience of
my classmate is not by any means a rule, and low grades to not automatically result from
a hard family life, but situations like this were not uncommon.
Socialization is quite an interesting process, but the key to the process is the
combination of multiple aspects. Family, school, peers, media, and work all come
together to form an individual and instill values, norms and social practices. From what I
took away from my time in high school, I can confirm it is essential that all of these
facets have an impact on an individual, and when one area lacks, the person may suffer in
being distant or uninvolved could include acting out in school, below average grades, or a
disregard for authority. This would prove that socialization, which starts with the family,
relies heavily on the instilled standards set by parents at home. I could argue that it is not
uncommon for parents to rely too heavily on the school system to develope their children,
but at that point, it would be too late and socialization cannot be complete without the
Throughout maturation, family, school, peers, media and work play crucial roles
in socialization of every human. Family, which is the first and primary agent of
socialization, creates a foundation for all of the other areas of life that mold everyone into
socially skilled citizens. Without an involved and interested family, the school, peers,
media, and work are not enough to fully socialize someone and that person often suffers.
generally as a result of distant or difficult families. This observation directly proves that
not only is the family important in forming a persons social skills and values, but that it
Intentions
The discussion and lecture on the family that was present last
This is a very broad topic, but based on what I have learned this
marriage, the idea that the rise of feminism and the rise of divorce
but the statistics have caused me to connect the dots. And, based on
says that man should be the head of the house, as Christ is the head of
the church. This does not translate to women needing to be under the
rule of her husbands thumb, but woman was give to man to be his
helper. This does play out in marriage and in the roles of a family.
When the wife no longer needs her husband for financial support, it is
under the rug in our culture. It is a norm to want to get ahead in work,
and be the best individual that one can. So, when this pairs with
common.
for men to rule over women. In Genesis, it is clearly stated that God
not have to come in the form of the man being the sole breadmaker,
financially, socially, and in the family, and this can come in the form of
the man being dependent on the woman. There is nothing wrong with
the woman being the main source of income in the family, while the
Easter Sunday
One of the most prominent realizations that I have made since being at college
confusion about the racial uniformity, but something I have become more concerned
about since being home for Easter weekend relates to my churchs outreach methods and
goal. Easter service was flashy and non-confrontational, the sermon had more focus on
making the audience laugh than on the Bible or any message, all things that make me
My church is fairly new, less than ten years old and my family has been attending
for about seven years. The church I attended last weekend has no resemblance to the
church we first attended in 2007. What most attracted my family to Grace Community
Church was the small, close community (a congregation of about 100), encouragement
for fellowship outside of the church, and the controversially honest pastor who was not
afraid to step on toes to preach the Bible. Sermons were based on the word, worship was
simple, and welcoming faces were recognizable every weekend. Now, as the
congregation has expanded to about 1,000 per weekend, there have been many changes.
Small groups are rarely mentioned (Im not even sure if the church provides them),
worship is over the top with flashy lights, fog machines in a dark auditorium, and the
sermons tend to be of the self-help nature with little mention of any scripture. This
Easter weekend was the epitome of this new churchI could not stop asking myself
I am sure that this shallow church is exactly what has increased the congregation,
the flashy, emotional worship attracts a younger generation and the sermons are unifying.
I began to think of my church in comparison to the mega churches, with similarly shallow
services. I cannot help but wonder if these types of churches have a role in Gods
Kingdomis this a type of outreach that is God-glorifying? Yes, it attracts many, but is it
attracting and retaining members to a church. All churches play to some type of appeal,
whether that be the conservative or the modern. My church has always been fairly
modern, with contemporary music but unfortunately, I think that the church is relying on
that aspect and that aspect alone to increase attendance. I have the vague prediction that
the demographic of the church will begin shifting. I cannot help but to assume that as the
church wanes from any traditional or conservative characteristics, the older generations
will transition out. Not to say that older generations never enjoy contemporary worship,
congregation.
I am hoping that my church will find its way back to its roots and become more
like the church we first started to attend. I believe that this church, with its simplicity, was
more God-glorifying, not self-glorifying, and is more capable of reaching the hurting and