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If you dont know who you are, someone else will define it
for you, or at least in conjunction with your desired
projection of yourself. If you have a weak idea of who you
are, you will be easily swayed by someone with a strong
reality projecting an identity onto you. With external
projection will come a compromise of state and self
esteem.
Even if you have a fairly strong sense of self, you are still
at the mercy of others projecting onto you. The goal is to
have an internally defined sense of self. Only then will you
achieve the precious game traits of unreactiveness,
centeredness, self esteem, state and very importantly, you
will never have negative state.
If you define yourself in terms of what you naturally are,
as found in the examples of unstifled guys, and in terms of
the behavioural traits that the example guys commonly
possess (presence, positive dominance, and being a man
of action/escalation), you will be perpetually attractive and
always in a good state.
You will conquer natural game.
But, if you make the realisation that the things that you do
are just expressions of your natural male self, then you
never diminish your natural sense of self, your masculinity,
your self esteem or state.
If you see yourself in terms of what you are, combined
with what you do, then everything you do comes from a
place of congruence with your natural self.
You could be a basketball player, a pick up artist, a doctor
or a hippy, but you still retain your natural self, which is
naturally attractive. All the things you do are a function of
you being a man, and nothing more than a celebration and
implementation of what you are.
As a man it is your actions that make you attractive, not
your ego. When you identify with what you are, naturally
as a man, everything you do is coming from the right place
of congruence and masculine strength. You can literally do
anything, or be anything, and still be attractive, as long as
you are tapping into your masculinity and coming from the
right place.
Ryan said, Its not the right action because its the correct
thing to do in the situation, its the correct thing to do
because you are the one doing it. I know what to do
because I am the game.
When you know who you are, you will know what to do.
Conclusion
Who you are is a combination of what you are and what
you do.
I have figured out what you are, and what it means to be a
man, by looking at examples of how men behave when
they are not socially conditioned, and have tested this
theory with hundreds of students, myself and profiling
other instructors over the last two years.
I found that how you behave is what makes you attractive,
and when you behave in congruence with your natural
self, you behave in attractive ways.
I found that knowing who you are is an essential
prerequisite before you can truly satisfy the attraction
formula. If you dont know who you are more than the girls
you interact with, your reality will be weak and reactive.
Contrastingly, when you know who you are, you have a
strong reality, you are higher value and people react to
you.