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If you feel that you are being a captive of your own negative image of yourself then
then you should start with these four basic steps to improve your self-esteem:
Low self-esteem affects every aspect of ones life adversely. The directives for a
healthy self-esteem come from mental health professionals. These directives boast
self-confidence &, improve relationships as per cognitive behavior therapy. They are
the following:
Think of places &, situations from your personal life which affect your self-
esteem adversely. They can easily include:
After identification has been made of situations, positions &, places which challenge
your self-esteem, the next step is to take a conscious read on your thoughts-self
talk. The analysis can either be from the three mentioned below:
i. Beliefs
ii. Stories
iii. Facts (Rational)
The self-talk of the above can be positive, negative or, neutral. As it can be based
on reality and, facts, similarly, it can also be based on irrational ideas which are
away from reality.
After consistent observation become sure of what way your mind thinks. Once you
are sure of your own incorrect view of situations &, dealings in the public &, private
sphere of your life, then you take on the challenge of changing your world view
dynamically.
A regularity or self check is necessary where our own biases or, long held false
beliefs can cloud our view of reality as they appear more normal and, factual to us.
There are few negative automatic thoughts (NAT) which have a very pervasive
effect on our self-esteem. They are also known as thinking errors and, are as
following:
i. All or nothing thinking: You color the situation in your mind as black &,
white i.e. either negative or, positive and, you fail to bring the picture into
a whole of both. This situation leads to depression in cases as it includes
thinking in absolute terms.
Example: If I am unable to perform a single task in time, I will never be
able to reach the pinnacle of time management.
ii. Negative Mental filtering: The selective evaluation of a situation with
negative elements.i
Example: I have stuttered during a presentation. Now everyone will know
I am less confident public speaker.
iii. Jumping to conclusions: It includes assumptions and, jumping to negative
conclusions by rejecting your positive achievements and, highlighting your
negative experience.
Example: My sister didnt respond to me over my call so she must be
ignoring me.
iv. Negative Self Talk: You downplay on your self worth and, deem yourself to
be less based on for example making a mistake previously.
Example: I am at this treatment centre because I have made a fool of
myself by making mistakes.
There are nine steps for boasting self-esteem and, to silence your inner critic.
Biblography
Bratskeir, Kate. "Negative Self-Talk: 9 Ways To Silence Your Inner Critic." The Huffington Post.
TheHuffingtonPost.com, 06 Apr. 2013. Web. 21 Mar. 2017.
i http://medical-dictionary.thefreedictionary.com/mental+filtering
ii http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/04/06/negative-self-talk-think-
positive_n_3009832.html