For my capstone, I am undertaking a character development program within the extended
day program. My primary population of focus is pre-k and kindergarten students. In beginning my capstone project, I first have to note some of the interactions between students that need to be addressed. By observing these interactions, I am able to discern which character traits need to be used in the program. Some of the scenarios I observed are not all unlike adult conversations and social interactions. There are bullies, gossips, the mentally unstable, those who are shy, or prejudiced, and any other social group a person can find in an adult cooperative. One of the most noteworthy of these student scenarios were the antagonistic groups. There are two drastically different types of these negative coalitions. Their methods of antagonizing the other children are at times different, especially when the genders of the groups are different, but the dynamics of the groups they for are remarkably similar. In more masculine groups, one can typically expect there to be some form of heckling and violence. For example, if a particular student is being hassled by a male group, the leader of the male group typically takes the majority of the hassling for himself. This could be physical or verbal, as more masculine groups tend to be violent, but this is not always the case. I have seen students choosing to play football together, and one of the boys makes a mistake. The antagonistic group will approach him, the leader hurling either punches or insults, and the rest of his posse joining in a more supportive fashion. This will continue until the victim stands up against them, which could lead to a more severe altercation, or a teacher intervenes. Yet, female groups can be just cruel at times. In a female group, the members will often surround the victim, hurling insults or shunning her in solidarity. Often these altercations happen between the group members themselves. These conflicts can at times be more severe than those created by male groups. This can be attributed to turning the girls allies against her, whereas in a male situation, there is hope that his friends will stand up against the antagonists. In both groups, you can expect the selected victim to be weaker than the antagonists, whether that is socially, physically, and at times mentally, as students in those situations are far easier targets. Unfortunately, at such a young age, teacher intervention is usually necessary either because of the cruelty, or because the other children do not know how to address the situation, so they make no effort to stop or prevent it. This makes a character education program more essential to an school environment. Oftentimes these students, whether they are being antagonized or not, are very focused on self preservation. They are more concerned with what will help them in the short term rather than doing the right thing. At times, I have even seen students approach their leaders with a problem, for example, when a student once gave me an account of being bitten, when in reality, they bit themselves and wanted to seek revenge on some other student for an unrelated problem. This type of behavior almost makes character seem like a novelty of the past. Thus, educators must prioritize the development of these traits during a childs formative years so we can ensure they endure within our society. During my brief observation period, I discerned eight important traits to cultivate in our students. Honesty, because without honesty, there is no possible means of justice. Without the truth, discipline cannot be properly applied, and students cannot learn right from wrong. Second, respect, because without respect for authority, no matter what we as educators try to instil in our students, we cannot make progress if the students will not listen to our council. Third, responsibility, because if a child will not take responsibility for their actions, then there can be no resolution to any disagreements. Those monitoring our children cannot see every altercation between every set of students, and as a result, when students are taking responsibility for their actions, an educator knows who needs to be punished, and who does not. Fourth is trustworthiness, because if a teacher or monitor cannot trust their students, they cannot administer praise or justice accurately, as they are never certain of the truth. Fifth is generosity, because if students are not willing to help and give where they can, then selfish becomes the priority, and all interactions are governed in the best interests of few, not the majority. Sixth is forgiveness, because if students cannot move past their differences, nothing can ever be accomplished. Seventh is patience, because waiting to get to the bottom of a situation, and waiting for whoever is in authority to make decisions allows things to run much more smoothly and efficiently. Finally, and most importantly is compassion, because without empathy and regard for others, there can be no justice, there will be no empowerment, there will be no solidarity, and the wonderful aspects of human nature could be lost forever. These traits, and the reasonings behind them, were then selected for the study and have been applied to the character development program. Once the program began, I immediately noticed improvements in the students behavior. Following the week on honesty, I noticed more of the students catching themselves lying, and trying to avoid it. In one scenario, a student walked up to me and told me another student had hit him in the face for no reason. As I was calling the other student to get to the bottom of the situation, the child stopped himself, and decided to tell me the truth. The reason the other child hit him was because he had pushed that child off of a swing and then kicked him because he was bored. Although both types of behavior in themselves were unacceptable, the fact that the child was willing to be honest and take accountability after only a few hours of instruction is astonishing. During the next week when we discussed responsibility, I realized that the results of my instruction, though effective, were not as widespread as I had anticipated, so it became necessary to supplement the program with more individualized instruction. Thus, I decided to also incorporate the character development instruction into disciplinary discussions. During the week on responsibility, a student was refusing to pick up his trash after throwing it on the ground. He and I had a conversation about responsibility, and I explained that if he doesnt take responsibility for his own actions, what is to keep everyone else from doing the same. He didnt see the problem with that. So I showed him that if no one took responsibility for their trash, the playground would never be clean, unless one person did all of the cleaning. I asked him if he would like to play on a dirty playground, or to be that person who has to clean all the trash. He said no to both, and after finally using that logic, said that he understood my point. He had to do his part so it didnt all fall on someone else, and so he could reap the benefits of a clean playground. By using the logical question and answer method of explanation, the children were able to see the value in the character traits, and were more apt to apply them. Using this methodology throughout the remainder of the character development program, I was able to see the importance of communication and understanding when working with children. An educator has to not only teach the character traits, but also develop an appreciation and understanding of the principles behind the traits because only then will the programs be effective. Doing this however, requires one on one attention with the students that educators cannot always provide. This shows the importance of home training or the instruction students should receive from their parents at home. Without that pillar of authority backing character development programs, none of the lessons being taught at school can take root. Thus, showing the importance of interplay between the educational system and the home environment as a child grows and develops. As I concluded this study, I realized how many important elements it provided me as an aspiring educator. It showed me different teaching methods I could use in my career. It showed me how important consistency and one on one attention is in teaching the next generation. But most importantly, it showed me how difficult it is to be an educator, because no matter how much time and effort you put into teaching the lessons, unless the child wants to learn, and has the home environment conducive to that learning, there is only a certain level of effectiveness you can expect. I feel that these lessons were of the utmost importance to me as a student and future teacher, because they show me the reality of life in education, and give me a realistic view of some of the challenges I may face in my future endeavors.