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Melissa Corduan
literally just short of starvation for most women. (4) She recalls a
conversation with a young female client who said to her, In this society you
have to be pretty first, then you can think about having character, being
smart, and achieving things. If you aren't pretty, nothing else matters. (2)
young women around America. How are they going to find their identity and
support groups for junior high and high school students will help bring them
food from entering the medical feeding tube that was inserted into her
stomach. She was about five foot six and less than ninety pounds. Her eyes
held a blank stare, and her apparent lack of energy was noticeable as she
went about her daily routine. She had a pretty smile, though it was obviously
forced. On many occasions, she was caught purging food from the very tube
that was keeping her alive. This girl was literally starving to death, but could
not handle the possibility of gaining weight. Day after day, she dressed
herself in pretty clothes, applied makeup, and curled her hair so that she
would look beautiful. About once per week, she was rushed to the hospital
in critical condition. She cared more about being thin than she did about her
life.
This problem with eating disorders is serious and continuing to grow. Social
media and peer pressure amplify the insecurity felt by these girls about the
way they look and lead them to take drastic measures in an attempt to be
thin.
Physical appearance is top priority for many girls and young women. The
drive towards perfection prevents them from ever being content with the
way they are. In an article titled Women Are Judged on Their Appearance
Rather than on Their Competence , Natasha Walter shares that The
group of female college students, she stated I was constantly struck by the
way that they were aware of how their boyfriends' expectations of sex would
culture. Though they were succeeding in college, these girls did not feel
that they were enough without looking perfect and being willing to act out
sexual fantasies for the men they were with. In an article in Muse Feminist
acceptable form of behaviour. There lies the struggle for women in America.
While these girls trudge on through this uphill battle towards finding
For many of these teens striving to find their place in the world, entering
junior high and high school increases the difficulty. They are faced with
gossip, name calling, bullying, peer pressure, and even sexual harassment.
In recent years, the sexting epidemic creates even more potential for
disaster. Many teens who sext, are pressured into sending nude photos by
a boy they like who in turn sends the photos to others throughout the school,
ruining the reputation and confidence of the girl who sent them. Reporter
shares Hope Witsell, a teenager and middle school student, killed herself
after an image of her topless, sent to one boy only, was forwarded to many
others, exposing her to nasty bullying and harassment in school. Hope was
thirteen years old and a successful student. She had no idea that the photo
Another problem these girls face is the role models they see on
sexual promiscuity, and the exploitation of the female body for attention.
When asked for advice by a fan, Katy Perry attributes her success to selling
her soul to the devil. Lindsay Lohan holds on to her fame through continuous
divorced, uneducated, and has not worked a day in her life. Rihannas
primarily twelve to thirteen year old fans are listening to songs such as
S&M which contain the lyrics: Cause I may be bad. But I'm perfectly good
at it. Sex in the air. I don't care. I love the smell of it. Sticks and stones may
break my bones, but chains and whips excite me. These are the women
drives my desire to help. My teen years were incredibly difficult, and school
was a painful experience. I dealt with being called names, bullied, sexually
harassed, and humiliated. Entering a private school after being
was excited and optimistic about making friends and meeting boys.
However, I was not like the other girls. My previous group of friends, which
participate in it. I did not understand that lying was expected to make
another girl feel better about a bad haircut or ugly outfit. When something
seemed wrong to me, I spoke my mind and others did not want to hear it. I
would earn me the title of slut that would stick with me through the rest of
my school years. I was lost and confused during these years and for the most
self-respect, and self-identity. Too many of these girls focus their lives on
trying to be who they think they should be rather than accepting themselves
for who they are. By implementing a female support group into the class
schedules of junior high and high school students, these girls could get to
know one another, find their strengths, discuss their concerns, and get help.
Many schools have begun to implement a program called Girl Talk. This
program was created to provide older female mentors for the younger
A program like this could work for any age level. Junior high students can
mentor elementary students, high school students can mentor junior high
students, and school alumni and local college students can mentor high
school students.
Left without help, many of todays female youth will continue down a
hopeless path.
Millions of girls will face depression, self-hatred and insecurity. They will
strive to live up
to impossible expectations, and they will fail. They will resort to eating
disorders, sexual
promiscuity, alcohol or drugs. Thousands of American teens will decide that
suicide is their
only way out. During this pivotal time in their lives, a group that provides
support,
encouragement, and the opportunity to find friends could be a life changing
experience.