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OVERNIGHT

SEDUCTION
SYSTEM
HOW TO INSTANTLY
ATTRACT ANY WOMAN
IN LESS THAN A MINUTE

By Ben Baker
2016, All Rights Reserved
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Table of Contents
1. Introduction 12
1.1. Who am I and how this book will give you superpowers with women? 12
1.2. This stuff actually works! 12
1.3. How to read this book? 20
1.4. Its an intimate war 21
1.5. Its tough, get used to it! 22
1.6. Why do you have to learn this? 24
1.7. This is a hybrid method 26
1.8. Techniques sit on top of your beliefs 28
1.9. Drop your logics and what should make sense to you 28
1.10. Women already know this 31
1.11. Is this manipulative? 32
1.12. On seduction 34
1.13. Is it too late or too soon for you to date? 36
1.14. The truth about women and dating 37
1.15. How money affects your results 39
1.16. You will have to go against your emotions. 40
1.17. No ones above the process. 41
1.18. Your looks will not save the day 42
1.19. You dont need to impress her to fuck her 42
1.20. What do women want? 44
1.21. Stay away from your friends women 45
1.22. How long does it take till you get results? 47
1.23. Every interaction finds balance in a matter of seconds! 48
1.24. Kick her off the pedestal! You cant be intimated by her looks 50
1.25. 90% of your communication with her will be indirect 53
1.26. Filters filters filters 55
1.27. Your attitude: 57
1.28. Unapproachable, sad, bitter and angry ones 58
1.29. There is no formula that works on every woman! 59
1.30. Know your story well. Make it an adventure 60
1.31. Its a numbers game 61
1.32. The results are dynamic! 62
1.33. No masturbation diet 63

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1.34. Everything is an excuse. 64


1.35. Be outcome detached 65
1.36. Erase your assumptions and old beliefs 66
1.37. Women like sex more than us guys 67
1.38. Be full hearted! Own what you do and stand your ground! 68
1.39. Be congruent 69
1.40. Your emotional state is recognizable! She knows what youre feeling 70
1.41. Nothing is a big deal! 70
1.42. Fail faster. 70
2. The fundamentals: This determines if you get her or not 71
2.1. What happens when you meet a woman? 71
2.2. What determines if you end up with her or not? 73
2.2.1. Motivation and drive 77
2.2.2. Vision 77
2.2.3. Your belief about you, your values and women 78
2.2.4. Understanding the concepts 78
2.2.5. Your skills 79
2.2.6. Your frame of reference 81
2.2.7. Confidence 81
2.2.8. Frame control 82
3. On tests 83
3.1. What is it and why should you learn it? 83
3.2. How do women test you? 84
3.3. When does she test you? 86
3.4. Women dont learn to test! Its hard-wired in their head 86
3.5. How to pass her tests? The solution! 87
3.5.1. Never ever never take it seriously 87
3.5.2. Ignore her comment/question 88
3.5.3. Youre trying too hard! 88
3.5.4. Never ever qualify yourself! Put it back at her! 89
3.5.5. A couple notes on tests 89
4. Cold Approach 90
4.1. How do guys take cold approach when they hear about it first? 92
4.2. Why should you master cold approach? 93
4.3. The Shields (layers) model 97
4.3.1. Social shield 99

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4.3.2. Friend zone shield 101


4.3.3. Sexual shield 1 102
4.3.4. Sexual shield 2 103
4.3.5. Obsession shield 103
5. Steps of cold approach, The How-To 105
5.1. Attention 105
5.2. Pre approach 109
5.3. Approach 110
5.3.1. Common excuses for not approaching: 112
5.3.2. How to motivate yourself to approach 113
5.3.3. It was an accident 116
5.4. Open 116
5.5. False Time Constraint 121
5.6. Bridge 124
5.7. Transition 125
5.8. Micro isolate 128
5.9. The set 129
6. Attraction 130
6.1. Attraction is dynamic 130
6.2. Attraction is beyond her logic 131
6.3. The signs that shes attracted: 133
6.4. Attraction triggers 136
6.4.1. Fun 136
6.4.2. Care free 138
6.4.3. Social Dominance 140
6.4.4. Drive and purpose 141
6.4.5. Confidence 142
6.4.6. Presence 143
6.4.7. Adaptability and social intelligence 144
6.4.8. Frame control 146
6.4.9. Emotional expressiveness 147
6.4.10. Authority 148
6.4.11. Conviction and decisiveness 148
6.4.12. Outcome detachment/ willingness to walk away 149
6.4.13. Humor 151
6.4.14. Entitlement 152

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6.4.15. Open tension loops 153


6.4.16. Status, social proof and pre-selection 154
7. Conversation martial arts: 155
7.1. Conversation toolbox 156
7.2. Disqualification 157
7.2.1. What happens when you disqualify? 165
7.3. Qualification 169
7.3.1. When she qualifies herself to you 172
7.3.2. How to get her to qualify herself to you 173
7.3.3. Force qualifiers 175
7.3.4. How to build qualifier questions? 175
7.3.5. Sexual qualification 177
7.4. Push and pull the nuclear bomb of attraction 183
7.4.1. The formula 184
7.5. The ignore dynamite 185
8. Rapport 186
8.1. How to measure rapport 188
8.2. What to do when there is no rapport? 190
8.3. Rapport manipulation 190
8.4. Rapport through your words! 191
8.5. Examples of rapport building conversational topics 192
8.6. Recognize her effort 193
8.7. What to do when there is enough rapport? 194
9. Seduction and sex 194
9.1. Pre seduction techniques 195
9.1.1. Whisper 195
9.1.2. The kiss test 196
9.1.3. Flirtease 197
9.2. How to turn her on, sexual triggers 198
9.2.1. Sexual comments 198
9.2.2. Get physical 198
9.2.3. Take care of the ambiance 199
9.2.4. Porn 199
9.2.5. Talk about romantic memories 199
10. Sexual escalation Ladder 200
10.1. On being physical 200

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10.1.1. Touch naturally with conviction 201


10.2. How to go for a touch 202
10.2.1. Tattoos 202
10.2.2. Earrings 203
10.2.3. Scars 203
10.2.4. Rings on her finger 204
10.2.5. Palm reading 204
10.3. Get physical as soon as you can 205
10.4. Why should you be physical? 206
10.5. Cross escalation technique 206
10.6. Eye contact 208
10.6.1. Why should you hold eye contact? 208
10.6.2. What happens with your eyes when talking to her? 209
10.6.3. What is the right eye contact? 210
10.6.4. How can you improve your eye contact? 211
10.7. Smell 212
10.7.1. Why smell is important 212
10.7.2. How to use her smell to turn her on 213
10.7.3. Recommend perfumes and scents 215
10.8. Questions and comments that turn her on 216
10.9. Use Ironic Processing Theory 220
10.10. Your voice 221
10.11. Pause! Quickly check! 222
11. Sex 222
11.1. Quick tips 224
11.1.1. Save 4 bottles of classy wine at home 224
11.1.2. Make a playlist! 225
11.1.3. Get nice smelling candles 225
11.2. Foreplay 225
11.2.1. Disqualify as you escalate 226
11.2.2. Triple the amount of foreplay! 226
11.2.3. Massage is the bridge 226
11.2.4. Kiss 228
11.2.5. Use both hands and multi-task 230
11.2.6. Moaning and dirty talk 231
11.2.7. Slowly undress her 233

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11.2.8. Her boobs 233


11.3. Oral sex 234
11.3.1. Ask her what she wants 234
11.3.2. How to go down on her 235
11.3.3. What to do if she smells bad down there 236
11.4. Intercourse 237
11.4.1. Make sure shes ready 237
11.4.2. Cant get it up? Premature orgasm? 238
11.4.3. strict no masturbation diet! 238
11.4.4. Dont plan sex 239
11.4.5. Wrap it! 239
11.4.6. Viagra and Cialis 240
11.4.7. The point of no return 241
11.4.8. Its ok to stop and take a break! 242
11.4.9. Another magic pill 242
11.4.10. Dont orgasm inside of her 243
12. Conversation flow! How to never run out of things to say 243
13. Dating 249
13.1. Going on a date? Check the quick guide 249
13.2. About first dates 249
13.2.1. Youre already half way in! 249
13.2.2. Focus less On attraction and more on comfort 250
13.2.3. Youre on a mission and you have a task to complete 251
13.3. Learn some bad ass-effective routines 251
13.3.1. Trim your nose and ear hair 253
13.3.2. Clean up, dress well and simple 253
13.3.3. Carry a backup Viagra 254
13.4. To do + not to do 254
13.4.1. Get physical from the second you see her 254
13.4.2. Then create gap 255
13.4.3. Move a little slower than usual 255
13.4.4. Smile 256
13.4.5. Dont ever pick your nose 256
13.4.6. Stack your stories 257
13.4.7. Disqualify and beware of the lag (delay) 257
13.4.8. Bounce her 258

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13.4.9. Outcome detached! Slapped in the face? 258


13.4.10. Be nice to waiters 259
13.4.11. Throw conditional complements 259
13.4.12. Be extra present! Study her pupil when she talks 260
13.4.13. Dont sit face to face 260
13.4.14. Dont drink much 261
13.4.15. 1 inch at a time 261
13.4.16. Dont show too much interest until after sex 262
13.4.17. Dont talk about how cool you are 263
14. Online dating 264
14.1. Why online dating? 264
14.1.1. Fast results 265
14.1.2. Abundance 265
14.1.3. You dont need to be confident to meet women online 266
14.1.4. Copy paste solution done for you 266
14.1.5. Very attractive women go on line looking for love 266
14.1.6. You can take risk 267
14.1.7. Its real world 267
14.2. Quick tips 267
14.2.1. Use a new email address 267
14.2.2. Previous guides apply 268
14.2.3. Spend limited time 268
14.2.4. Meet her as soon as you can 268
14.2.5. How other men do it 269
14.2.6. Keep it short 269
14.2.7. Crazy women 270
14.2.8. Get her photo first 270
14.2.9. Photos 271
14.3. Your profile content 274
14.3.1. About Me & Who Im Looking For 275
14.3.2. Occupation 276
14.3.3. For Fun 276
14.3.4. Favorite Hot Spots 276
14.3.5. Favorite Things 277
14.3.6. Sports & Exercise 277
14.3.7. Faith 277

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14.4. Online escalation! 278


14.4.1. Get her to qualify herself before anything else! 279
14.4.2. Build some rapport 280
14.4.3. Cut it 280
15. How to be confident 284
15.1. Why do you need to be confident? 284
15.2. The truth about people 285
15.3. What is confidence? 286
15.4. Situational confidence is not real confidence 288
15.5. Real confidence 289
15.6. We are not born confident 290
15.7. Most people have self doubt 291
15.8. *Confidence cheat sheet 292
15.8.1. How to carry yourself. What to do and what not to do 292
15.8.2. Head up, chest up, point finger under your chin 293
15.8.3. Smile 293
15.8.4. Take 2 deep breaths every minute 294
15.8.5. Dont hunch your back 294
15.8.6. Master the eye contact 295
15.8.7. Speak loud and clear 297
15.8.8. Handshake 298
15.8.9. OWN it even if you suck 298
15.8.10. Dont drink too much 298
15.8.11. Move slower than usual 299
16. Movies to watch 299
17. Lines: 300
18. Quick reminders 303

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******NOTE TO YOU MY BROTHER******

This isnt literature or a classy novel! My goal is


not to impress you with superb grammar or fancy words!
My goal is to get you laid fast, show you how to rapidly find
quality passionate sex, get you to bed extraordinary
women and experience short or long term romance with
them!

This is practical street-wise knowledge you could


master with a little bit of attention!

What you are about to read is not intended to be


skimmed or skipped through. Please take your time and
read EVER SINGLE word very carefully!

Make love with passion

Ben!

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1. Introduction

1.1. Who am I and how this book will give


you superpowers with women?

Hey! Im Ben! I am about to change your life! Its a


big claim I know! But its true! Once you finish reading this
and watch the videos that come with it, youre gonna do
things youve never thought possible! Things youve never
done before! Like having sex with a beautiful woman
within an hour of meeting her!

Now, before we get personal, Ive gotta ask for your


permission to be open with you like a brother. I want to set
the stage by telling you who I am and how exactly Im
gonna make a difference in your love life!

1.2. This stuff actually works!

This is my before picture! Dissatisfied, frustrated,


sad, lonely and a powerful masturbation machine! Back
then I thought I was gonna stay like that forever!

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But all that dissatisfaction, frustration and anger


motivated me to make the biggest transformation in my
life!

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I went from a complete leper with women and a


hopeless geek, all the way to dating multiple hot women at
the same time! The things I learned throughout my
journey transformed my life dramatically! I did things
most men never will and I am gonna get you to experience

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the same! I want you to feel all these amazing emotions


that are available to you!

At one point I realized that my life is not going to


change unless I change it! If I keep doing what Ive always
done Im only gonna live a boring life until I get old and
my penis falls off; or my balls shrink to the size of raisons.

One day I said Fuck it! No one seems to be


responsible for my love life! Enough porn! Enough
fantasizing! Ive gotta take action!

And so it began! I stopped caring about what they


thought about me and I started living and doing all the
things they told me not to do!

I explored! I lived and meditated with Monks in the


mountains, learned dark persuasion techniques and
attended dating seminars!

I toughed engineering at college and got fired for


sleeping with students. I played music in dark night clubs
and set the record for 12 one-night-stands with hot, blond
with blue eyes girls in a week! I spent the second half of my
20s in relationships with some of the wonderful women I
used to jerk off to!

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Ive been with over 80 nationalities of women; from


18-year-old Brazilian backpackers, to German surf
teachers, musicians and even a grandma who was the CEO
of a million-dollar company in Wall Street!

Why does my past matter to you?

I want you to get inspired and believe this


transformation is fast and possible for you as well!

Im going to share the best of the best of my


knowledge with you here in this program and Im not
gonna hold back! I am going to teach you the things that
took me years and years of struggling to figure out by
myself so you dont have to!

This book and the videos that are in front of you, are
what made all the difference in my relationships with
women! This content has made thousands of guys like you
and I change and become successful with women.

And Im telling you my friend, some of these


experiences were expensive! I got slapped in front of 500
people because I was inappropriate!

I got rejected in front of 100s of men and women


who were important to me! I put myself in strange social

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situations most men never will until one day I became


fearless! I learned what works and what doesnt!

AND today I am a BEAST! There is no place in


society I feel uncomfortable! I know secrets about social
dynamics that makes me bulletproof and now all those
secrets are yours too!

Im no longer a masturbation machine! I am a sex


machine now and you are going to become one too!

Youre gonna become fearless and social dynamite!


There wont be a place where you feel uncomfortable or
awkward anymore! I am going to take you to this
wonderful world where you can meet any woman you want
and get your share of love, sex and cuddles!

My Background

I come from one of the most restricted cultures


on the planet! When I was a teenager growing up in my
home town; walking with any woman on the street who
wasnt a blood relative was illegal!

We had to carry marriage certificates (or some form


of proof that we were blood related) in our pockets so we

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didnt get into trouble! Women even had to cover their hair
and body in public!

Having sex with a woman before marriage


(regardless of their age) was harder than any mission
James Bond has ever been on! If he lived where I used to
live, hed die alone and depressed, masturbating to his
tears.

But my unashamed appetite for women forced me to


become creative and come up with systems that not only
bypassed her defenses, skepticisms and every single one
of her religious and cultural beliefs in order to convince
her that fucking me is the right thing to do; I also had to
find ways to bypass the system, my family, her
family, and every other kind of restriction there was just
to go on a single date and have a good time with her!

We didnt have any sex education at school either! I


couldnt help but wonder what the hell was going on under
that berka. I just knew she had something good there! I
could sense it like Yoda could sense the force!

The tough environment gave me thick rhinoceros


skin and an unfair advantage to men who were born in
western cultures. When I moved to Australia, my
desperation, frustration, hunger for intimacy and quality

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blow jobs, mixed with a few bad experiences, pushed me


over the edge and got me to learn things most men never
will.

And finally, when I mastered these life changing


skills, I started passing it on to other men! Since 2008,
through my online courses and seminars, I have coached
thousands of men who werent happy with their sex/love
lives or relationships!

Ive helped everyone from 18-year-old virgins, to 30-


year-old single dads whove had their hearts smashed to
pieces; all the way up to 75-year-old rusty grandpas who
desperately wanted to feel young again!

Im proud and pleased to say, guys who go through


my program get results! You are gonna be the same!

After being coached by some of the worlds most


famous dating coaches and known psychologists plus years
of hard work and thousands of hours of trial and error, Ive
cracked the code and built the formula. The things I
learned from women (and some heartless bitches) are the
very core of this system and Im about to share it all with
you.

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I claim it as one of the most powerful, idiot proof


seduction formulas anyone has ever come up with!

You may have read books on seduction before,


maybe youve even done training with famous coaches,
however there is something very different about this
program!

1.3. How to read this book?

Firstly, I recommend getting access to the videos in


this program as well in order to have everything make
more sense for you.

In the first section, I am gonna talk to you about


some core beliefs! Crucial things you need to know in
order to make it happen! We wont do any theory just yet!
Please take your time and read this section
carefully! It takes only a few hours if youre a slow

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reader! In the chapters following that, well get into the


theory and the How-To parts!

Ive made each section as short as humanly possible.

1.4. Its an IntImate war

If you wanna bed a quality woman, if you wanna get


a nice girlfriend or if you wanna marry, you have to create
attraction first! In order to create attraction, you will have
to enter an intimate, flirtatious, stimulating verbal war,
where persuasion techniques and rapport manipulation
formulas are your weapons.

She is instinctively armed with what she needs! You


guys, arent!

You are gonna have to invite her to this mating


dance and she will thank you for creating that unique
experience for her! At the end of the day, she wants what
you want. Love, intimacy, sex, cuddles, good company and
a great conversation with a friend she can trust!

Attraction, comfort and trust are not there by


default! As a man, its your responsibility to design this
stimulating interaction and paint a picture for her and take

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her on a quick journey that ends in passionate seduction


that shell remember for the rest of her life.

1.5. Its tough, get used to It!

Our world is a beautiful place however, at one point I


realized NO ONE cares if I have an amazing sex life, or if
every night I go home alone, masturbate to my heart ache
thinking about my ex or some imaginary girl till I fall
asleep! Guess what! Its the same for you as well!

Having romance, a girlfriend, a wife or any other


woman related experience in your life is totally your
responsibility! No one will ever put your hand in the hands
of a gorgeous 10 and wish you a great love life! If anything,
most other guys push you down and kick you out of the
game.

The dating world, is like the wild! Jungle rules


apply! Some of the most wonderful experiences of your life
happen here! You meet that special someone and fall in
love! Youll experience a lot. Its great. And also youll get
heart broken. People break up, people move on, and some
people even cheat!

Not everyone survives! Hot women get hit on all the


time and they love the attention they get from us!

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Bottom line: To survive, you gotta be strong and


skillful! You gotta learn how to get a quality woman to fall
for you and protect your relationship once you bed her!

Most men give up. Drop their standards and go with


someone who was not their first choice because the first
choice was just too hard to get and/or maintain!

I wont let that happen to you! I am gonna show you


step by step how to own it like a beast. Youll get to a
point where other men wont understand why women like
you! It will appear as though youre speaking a different
language that only you and women understand!

And it doesnt really matter what you want! One-


night stand? Girlfriend? Wife? Regardless of what you
want, you have to have these skills and if you dont
know how to do that, you will be brutally filtered out.

So starting right now, take this responsibility! Head


up, chest up, be strong, learn what I have here for you and
go get your share of love because this is your world,
your jungle and you are gonna be the king of it! I
promise to look after you and teach you everything youll
ever need to get what you want!

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This program is your Bazooka! Your survival kit in


the dating world! The most powerful weapon you need to
get results with quality women! No more rejections! Its
time you get the power back! Read it like its your bible and
start right now! Keep in touch with me, let me coach you
along the way and ask all your questions and share your
stories with me.

Everything you need to know in order to get the


women of your dreams is here, right in front of you!

1.6. Why do you have to learn this?

Let me ask you something! Would you ever have sex


with an ugly woman you dont find attractive? How about a
super gorgeous woman, who might have HIV?

The answer is NO! And the reason is:

Without attraction, without trust and without


comfort, there is no seduction!

And its exactly the same for women too. If shes not
attracted to you, if you dont pull the attraction triggers
several times within your interaction with her, if she
doesnt trust you or feel comfortable around you, you

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wont be able to enter seduction mode no matter who you


are, how much money you have or what you look like!

That is absolutely great news for you because


through this program youre gonna learn how to build
attraction with powerful strategies and a proven do this,
then do that system.

Once you master the art of attraction, Ill show you


how to create trust and comfort so you can escalate to
seduction mode in no time!

This, is pure psychology! No one is above the


process!

LOOK! Women have been conditioned by our


environment to follow certain social cues and be attracted
to certain things!

And you should know that by learning this, youll be


in the 1% population since 99% of men will never ever get
their hands on what you have in front of you!

You may not be able to change your height or


financial situation in a week, but you can change your
social skills in a matter of days and honestly, that is the
main thing you need to work on before you get results!

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1.7. This is a hybrid method

Let me tell you what were gonna work on here.

Some of the best seduction techniques were gonna


discuss are over 2000 years old. You can read about them
in history books or watch old classic movies! Amazingly
powerful seduction techniques that still work and will
forever!

Seduction stories about Adam and Eve, Cleopatra


and Julius Caesar!

The method were gonna use is a combination of


routine based game + stated based game!

Whats a routine? A sequence of actions regularly


followed. Ill give you very simple formulas! How to say
specific things, line after line to create attraction, build
trust and seduce!

The beauty of this system is that you can use these


formulas and build your own routines! I encourage you to
do it!

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These techniques and strategies are proven and work


well! Dont worry about the details just yet, well go
through them soon!

The second style of seduction, is what we call state


based! This is the real bomb!

What do I mean by state based?

See Your emotional state (the way you feel) directly


determines how your interactions with women go!

I am gonna show you how to change your emotional


state in your favor, dominate her emotional state with a
positive, sexual and fun vibe so you create attraction faster
than you could ever imagine! Literally faster than any
other guy can do!

As youve noticed, there are different versions of you:

1. Your best self. Highest state! When you feel


great! Motivated to do anything and you do it
well!

2. Your average self. When you feel ok but not


that good or motivated!

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3. Your worst self. When you are in no shape or


condition to do anything significant!

Ill show you how to change your state with sneaky


but ethical methods!

1.8. Techniques sit on top of your beliefs

This system is a series of techniques, sitting on top


of a set of beliefs! The basement (the foundation) is the
beliefs and mindset, the techniques and strategies sit on
top!

A building with a soft or weak foundation will


collapse! We gotta make sure your beliefs are solid! I have
assigned a few chapters to work on your beliefs
and rewire your brain!

1.9. Drop your logics and what should


make sense to you

This is something that most men have a hard time


understanding. To be honest the 50% divorce rate in the
US today (2015) is because of the same issue! Men and
women feel, act, speak and communicate differently!

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The legendary John Gray named his famous book


Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus! for a
good reason!

I want you to let go of your logic and dont try to


make sense of everything she says or does! Us guys want to
make sense of everything women say and be logical about
it.

It doesnt really work that way! A lot of things


women say dont mean anything! Its just loads of
emotions! Yes, thats right: Most of the times, nothing she
says means anything logically! Its the emotions behind her
words that carries the meaning and most men are terrible
at reading those!

She acts based on her emotions and her emotional


state is VERY dynamic! I hear guys in my Breakup
program all the time telling me: OMG BEN She said its
over!

They freak out and call, beg and plead!

She can tell you something now and do something


completely different 10 minutes later!

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This is key to understand! When you meet her first,


shes not gonna tell you, hey take me home and fuck me
hard now! Shell say it in her secret language by just
standing there and not leaving!

Almost every woman Ive ever slept with, at first told


me, she will never ever, fuckin never, oh no NEVER
ever sleep with me. Most guys give up right there, not
knowing thats just what most women do before they
blissfully fuck your brains out!

That kind of verbal rejection is almost always a green


light! She wouldnt say it if she wasnt thinking about it!

So drop the logic and move your frame of reference


inside! Dont try to make sense of everything she says or
does!

Dont get turned off or give up just because she made


a negative comment about something!

Let me show you an example:

She wont usually say yes! Shell either say no, maybe
or she wont say anything at all!

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Give her reasons and excuses for her to do what she


emotionally wants to do and dont rely on her response.
Dont worry Im gonna open this up and go through
everything there is to know and do in situations like this!

For example, if she tells you:

I am not going home with you!

You just say: Ok

Dont get affected, change the subject and continue


with the interaction!

And remember: If she says that, it means shes


already thinking about it!

Keep the conversation going and work on building


rapport! Were gonna cover all that soon!

For now, just remember: she goes through countless


emotional sparks while youre talking to her!

1.10. Women already know this

Women know most of this intuitively!

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Most of them dont know what they know when it


comes to social dynamics! Yes, by default, she has an
unfair advantage over you!

1.11. Is this manipulative?

Some guys wonder if this stuff is manipulative! Ive


gotta tell you a few things about men, women and
seduction!

Us men and women, we all want the same thing:


Love, good company, cuddles, friendship and amazing sex.
However, since the beginning of time, we have never been
100% fully connected to each other.

Men who cant get women think women are mean.


Women who cant get a guy to commit think men are
selfish, users or manipulative!

Think about it for a second! Women wear makeup!


Isnt that manipulative? Blond hair dyed brunet, 3lbs of
foundation on her face, eye-liner on her eyes, short skirt to
get guys to notice her and tons of other things that gets you
to give her the attention she desperately craves!

Does it make her a bad person to hide under all that


makeup? Of course not! But the question remains: Is it

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manipulative of her to change her looks to get your


attention?

Look! I admire women who look after themselves, do


their best to look good and fresh, act energetic and social
and put an effort to get us guys to give them our attention!
Some of them are dumb and act like social retards but still,
they make an effort! That is the most you can expect the
average woman to do!

Take that as her invitation to get to know you and


remember that the majority of women do not approach
you!

So yes, it is 100% your job to make the approach and


build the bridge between you and her! What you are about
to learn here is your contribution to your love story with
them! Or fuck story! Its up to you! Be proud of yourself for
putting the time and energy in to learning and developing
these skills!

As a man, it is your responsibility to read her signals,


respond to her efforts by approaching her, attracting her,
building trust with her and finally, fuckin the shit out of
her like no man ever has! If you like each other, great!
Then stay together but never ever drop your standards and
settle for someone you dont like!

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Ill show you how to build rapport and make


connections fast, while getting rid of the skepticism or
negative thoughts she might have about men, without
doing anything unethical or telling her any lies!

So never forget this: Men and women want the same


things!

1.12. On seduction

See, seduction is simply an art! Its the art of


charming her to engage in a romantic relationship with
you! Maybe for a few hours, maybe for a lifetime!

This is the art of building attraction by reducing her


doubt, fear and uncertainties about you and interacting
with you. By systematically creating and releasing sexual
tension and becoming irresistible to her! Its the from
strangers to lovers process.

Unfortunately, most people are conditioned by


society to think that speaking to strangers is bad! If you
have more than 1 sexual partners, you are a slut and
many more nonsensical labels like that!

The idea of monogamy has been force-fed to people


for thousands of years! The secret mindset of I am not

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enough and the fear of ending up alone, stops people


from exploring their options before settling down! The
majority of people marry the wrong partner and live a life
they dont really want! This is another reason why the
divorce rate in the US is almost 50% within the first 2
years of marriage (2015).

Its mostly because of conflicting beliefs! Part of her


wants the security and to do what the society expects her
to do: Settling down, starting a family and having kids
before its too late!

Another part of her wants to explore. Travel. See the


world. Experience Italian and Spanish romance and live
more dangerously!

Same with men! Countless men are scared of ending


up alone! I used to be one of them! What if I end up 60 and
alone? But I also want to be with all women I find sexy!
What a conflict!

Making decisions out of fear and confusion will not


end well!

There are countless men and women who are


divorced or living unhappy lives because they started

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families they never wanted. They were told thats what


you should do, so they did it and now theyre stuck!

If youre single or a divorced guy, there is absolutely


nothing wrong with exploring. Meeting 100s of women
and sharing experiences with each and every one of them
Is a beautiful thing to do! And it feels great too!

As long as youre aware of potential dangers such as


STDs, unwanted babies and crazy ones, youll be fine!

There are countless reasons YOU need to learn how


to seduce women!

Seduction is about knowing who you are well, and


systematically letting her experience you and your
emotions through interacting with you!

1.13. Is it too late or too soon for you


to date?

Some men wonder: Is it too early or too late for me?


The answer is: Its never too late or too early! Regardless
of your past, your experience, financial situation or how
ugly you are; as long as youre single, over 18 and you have
a penis, you are good to go!

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1.14. The truth about women and


dating

Most men sleep with less than 10 women throughout


their entire life. Why?

Because its easier that way! If you choose that route


and follow whats socially accepted, you wont really need
any special skills, you dont need to put any effort into this
department and its accepted by everyone around you to be
that way!

Is it the right thing to do? Well its different for


everyone! For me it was impossible! Still is! Maybe when I
am older it will change (doubt it). Every woman I was with
was a lesson and a unique experience for me! I learned
something new about myself through each relationship!
Thats why I encourage you to go out with as many women
as you can before you settle down!

Most of the time I was happy but never fully


satisfied! Deep down I knew I could do better! I didnt
believe in monogamy! I knew there was more to life than
settling down with 1 soul!

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If you are not sure what works best for you, I


encourage you not to settle down just yet! Dont take the
easy route! Getting married is easy. Anyone can do it!

But let me ask you something:

Would you still settle down if you knew you had the
power to meet anyone you wanted and youd never be
alone? If you could get anyones attention anytime and
anywhere?

There is so much for you out there! So much to


experience, enjoy and explore!

The number one reason people marry is the fear of


ending up alone! That is not a good reason to make such a
big decision!

Making decisions out of fear might give you


temporary peace, but it will guarantee you long term pain
and dick failure (a sexless marriage for example)!

I recommend you give yourself a couple years of


knowing this before settling down. Master what I have for
you here, experience this abundance and then if you decide
to settle down, do it with someone who is your

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number one choice! Dont drop your standards because


its hard to meet hot chicks!

1.15. How money affects your results

Yes, its a lie! You dont need money to get attractive


women! It makes it easier only because you may feel more
confident; however, it never closes the deal.

I know this because I have seen it hundreds of times!


I have seen enough rich people who happened to be
desperate to meet gorgeous women! I have coached guys
who pay 30K a night (yes 30 thousand a night) to high end
prostitutes and still were unsatisfied!

You could be completely broke and still land a 9 or


10 every night simply because youve got good game and
you understand social dynamics, how women think, what
they want, and what they respond to!

The only way you can be affected by your bad


financial situation is when you think it matters and you let
it mess with your head. As a result of that, your
performance drops and your confidence diminishes. Again
I am guilty of being that guy as well!

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To most women, your financial situation doesnt


matter. At least until way after sex! I used to be making $8
an hour. Even back then I was getting results some rich
men never will.

1.16. You will have to go against your


emotions.

We are designed to fail in this! Yes! The nature of


human beings is lazy! We prefer to have things given to us!
Instinctively we dont want to do the job! We want hot
women fall on our lap from the sky!

The thing is, it wont happen that way and your best
shot would be to do what I did! Go against your emotions!
Your default emotions wont get you laid! They keep you at
home on the coach! They make you fat and fail!

Be aware of your default settings and remember: You


want to be inside a hot womans body and you want to do it
fast! Its crucial you have discipline and push yourself to do
whats necessary!

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1.17. no ones above the process.

I am not a fan of rules and regulations! However,


there are certain things that work and certain things that
dont! The fact -> No one is beyond the process! If youre
hungry, you eat! If you are thirsty, you drink! If you want
to get quality women, you approach and tell her certain
things!

I had a client who was loaded. He made over a


million a year. We couldnt work together because he
didnt want to do the job!

He used to say: I dont want to persuade her! Do you


know who I am? Doesnt she know how much money I
have? How much money I donate every month? I am
better than her. I make more money in a day than she
makes in a year!

The thing is: If there is no attraction from her side, it


doesnt matter who you are! You wont bed her! We all
should follow certain rules to get results.

This applies to all of us guys. You and I included!


Learn the process, milk it!

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1.18. Your looks will not save the day

Same thing with your looks! Your looks get your foot
in the door but it wont save the day! You can look like
Johnny Depp and still be a virgin till you get old and your
penis shrinks to the size of a dried grape! Ive had
countless attractive students who couldnt get women until
they went through the program!

Think about it! If you dont know what to say, if you


dont know how to be around women, if you get nervous
and feel uncomfortable under your skin, things can get
awkward before you even say your name regardless of your
big blue beautiful Brad Pitt like eyes!

On the other hand, if you are skillful and you know


what to do when youre around women, if you know how to
dominate her reality by your own fun, extraordinary,
loving and passionate mindset, everything just works fine!

1.19. You dont need to Impress her to


fuck her

WOMEN DONT LOOK AT THAT SUPERFICIAL


LAYER AS MUCH AS YOU THINK THEY ARE. THEY
LOOK AT THE BEHAVIOUR BEHIND IT.

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You dont need to tell her about your


accomplishments or how cool you are! That actually makes
it harder for you to have sex with her. The more you
qualify yourself, the less chance youll have with her!

I am a lawyer, I am successful, I own a Ferrari, I


am rich, heres my card By bringing any of this stuff up,
youll only attract gold diggers and shoot yourself in the
balls!

There is no correlation between buying her drinks


and her liking you! In fact, 90% of the time, buying her a
drink reduces your chances of having sex with her because
she subconsciously assumes youre a low value guy who
wants to buy her time by getting her a drink!

Remember! A beautiful woman has orbiters!


She has guys who buy her things all the time! You
dont want to be one of those guys! She wont have sex with
you because you bought her a drink, a purse or a car!
Orbiters dont close. Orbiters buy her things, drop her back
to her place, drive home and take a Jergens shower!

When youre at a bar with her, instead of buying the


drink just because you might be nervous and not sure what
to say, tell her:

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You get the first round! Ill get the next. Or, Ill get
the first round you get the next!

Well get into lines and techniques later!

1.20. What do women want?

Most women want a carefree, fun, easy going real


guy who has a purpose in his life! Its crucial you
understand what I mean by real!

See, she doesnt want you to change the way


you talk and act when youre around her! She
doesnt want you to follow her everywhere she goes! She
doesnt want you to become someone you are not just to
please or impress her! There is a list of attraction builders
were gonna go through in later chapters. Basically women
search for a man who is:

Fun

Carefree

Adaptable and socially intelligent

Able to understand frame control and acts like


a leader

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Emotionally expressive

An authority

Decisive and has conviction

Outcome detached and has willingness to walk


away with no drama

High social value

Funny, or has sense of humor

Entitled

We will go through each of these 1 by 1 in the


attraction section. So dont worry if some of this stuff
doesn't make sense to you right now!

1.21. staY awaY from Your frIends


women

Just a quick note here: You will be in situations


where you can start something with your buddys
girlfriend, wife or female friend he once had something
with!

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Here before we even start I want you to make this


rule and place it on top of everything else!

2 words

Stay away!

Avoid flirting or creating sexual tension with your


buddys girlfriend, wife or any female friend he had
something with! There are literally billions of women on
the planet. Your friendship with your friend or relative is
worth more than sex. This has been causing a lot of issues
in the past! I have seen long term friendships and
brotherhoods destroyed over sex! So be very careful with
this one!

And it can be very tempting sometimes and you


should really not make a move even if your friend is ok
with it.

Same rule applies to exs. If your friend has history


with a woman, she is off the list! She is not an option even
if everyone says theyre fine with it. The hurt and damage it
could cause is not worth it!

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1.22. How long does it take till you get


results?

Just to quickly answer this one! I know you might be


wondering how long till you get results! Well its totally up
to you! There are some guys who fly it the first time, and
there are other guys who take a bit longer!

How fast youll get results depends on a few things:

How well you understand the concepts when


you read the book and watch the videos!

How fast and how often you practice it!

How much you pay attention when youre


applying things you learn when youre
interacting with her

Think about it like learning how to play the piano,


but easier! At first it might look impossible! But then it
gets easier and easier until you do Beethoven effortlessly!

So make sure you use this program as a reference


and PLEASE avoid making this most common mistake in
the history of mistakes and think... I know it already!

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I realized I knew it when I was getting consistent


results with 9s and 10s and the same applies with with
you! So keep reading and doing things you learn here until
masturbating becomes your second best choice!

1.23. Every interaction finds balance


in a matter of seconds!

There will always be a balance in your interactions.


You either buy or sell! Its either you who tries to sell
himself, or her who does all the work!

Think about a car salesman. You walk in the store to


buy a car! As you walk in to look at the cars, he walks to
you! He tries to tell you about the features of each car!
Trying to impress you and get you to buy something!

What happens instantly? You subconsciously realize


that you have higher value in the interaction and without
even trying your defenses go up! This is not something you
guys talk about; it happens subconsciously!

In the car salesman example, you make all the calls.


You have something that he needs and he is trying to get it
from you. You have the higher value!

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Thats exactly what happens in your interaction with


women! 99% of men act as the car salesman and before
even starting the interaction they put her on the pedestal
and she instantly senses it! They try so hard to sell
themselves! So lets never be that guy again, ok? I made
that promise to myself years ago and my life was never the
same!

The common male mindset is: OMG! You are


beautiful! I am willing to put up with all your shit. Just
please, like me!

Through this program youll learn how to be the


exact opposite and get her to sell herself instead of you
reacting to her and seeking her approval!

Just remember for now: Getting 9s and 10s is a value


based process! The more value you have, the better results
youll get! Value is willingness to happily walk away! Value
is being non-reactive, socially savvy, non-needy, fun and
purposeful, plus happy on your own!

Ill open all these up in the next chapters and break it


down to small pieces so youll learn everything there is to
know about value and attraction. This chapter is just the
intro!

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1.24. Kick her off the pedestal! You


cant be IntImated bY her looks

First thing: Watch this:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YYYktOfCT6Y

From this moment onward, I want you to detach


value from her looks! I want you to NEVER EVER be
intimated by her physical appearance! You dont change
who you are or the way you act around her, just
because shes pretty!

The more you get affected by how she looks, the less
chance youll have with her!

You determine the balance! Ill show you later in the


program when and how to use powerful lines like:

Why should I like you?

Youre special because? ...

You know youre beautiful, but most women here


are! What is 1 quality you have that makes you stand out
from other women?

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I think youre a great woman but Ill never date


you!

You genuinely have to ask yourself! Why should I


like her beside her looks? Would I still like her as a person
if she was ugly?

Shell determine quickly if youre the buyer or the


seller! The less you try to sell yourself, the better results
youll get!

Several times in this book I speak about Not giving


your power away! Us guys tend to give our power away
FAST in a few different ways!

So let me make it more clear by asking you a


question:

Do you get nervous talking to another guy? Do you


get nervous talking to your 6-year-old niece or nephew? I
am pretty sure the answer is Of course not! Now think
about it! Why not? Why dont you get nervous talking to
them but attractive women intimidate you?

Is there anyone telling you: Hey its your niece, dont


get nervous! Or, its a hot woman, get nervous!

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The answer is still NO! The reason you get nervous


around a 9 or a 10 is just because youve been programmed
to put her on a pedestal only because she is hot by your
measures! You give her value while she hasnt earned it
yet!

Most guys dont know how to act around 9s and 10s


because they assume these women have higher value than
others. Yes, shes pretty so what? There is absolutely no
reason to put up with her attitude or give her special
treatments just because shes hot!

Next time you see a 9 or 10, stop! Picture her has a 3.


Even picture her as a guy! Then ask yourself: Would I be
nervous if this was a guy?

I want you to never ever never be intimidated


by any womans looks ever again because by doing
that, youll get nervous and she can sense it. She sees you
change the way you behave when you subconsciously seek
her approval and start qualifying yourself, hoping that she
likes you!

Always remember this: Most women are lonely and


looking for someone to be close to. It doesnt look like it at
first but when you meet more and more women, you start
to notice that almost none of them are fully satisfied with

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what theyve got! What she gets plenty of, is the


attention of guys who wanna fucker her and that is
not what she seeks!

She is not as high value as you think she is! I want


you to watch the sex and the city TV show. Seriously!
Watch 1 episode a day as a part of this training! Get the
whole series and start with season one. You will learn so
much about women and when you realize what they really
think about us men and how much they need us; youll be
blown away! That TV show will give you tons of material to
talk to women about as well!

1.25. 90% of your communication with


her will be indirect

When we get into the communication section in the


next chapters, Ill open this up in details! For now, I want
you to know about a big difference in communication
between men and women!

See, us guys like formulas! We want things to make


sense logically! We all wish it was this easy:

You: Hey hot woman! I am horny! Do you wanna


fornicate?

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Hot woman: Of course yes! Dick me up.

Unfortunately, its not like that! With women, youve


gotta communicate indirectly!

It really is all about how you make her feel and when
you think about it you realize: getting her to feel a
certain way through logic and reasoning would be
very difficult!

Thats why I am gonna show you rapport building


techniques using stories and specific phrases, statements
and very specific open questions! How you make her feel
determines the level of attraction!

Check this out. The male and female version of the


same thing:

Female version: I want to softly cuddle you and


fall asleep with you wrapped around me.

Male version: I wanna fuck your face and watch


you pass out shivering in my cum shower!

Same thing, different languages!

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1.26. Filters filters filters

I came up with the concept of filters when I was


writing the script for my Breakup Program. Its simple
and VERY effective! Basically, when you interact with a
woman, I want you to avoid any of these things below.

These are award winning attraction killers:

Any negative comments on anything! Food,


weather, people, life:

o Its too cold I hate it!

o Its too far, I dont like it

Bitching and complaining about something


someone did:

o I cant believe he said this.

o I cant believe you did that!

Jealousy

o Who was that guy?

o Are you seeing someone else?

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o How many guys are you talking to?

o Why dont you just go ahead and fuck


him?

Arguments

o Youre wrong and you have to think how


I think otherwise things wont work out!

Neediness

o Please let me know you like me!

o Will you ever need me?

o Please call me more?

o Why didnt you pick up the phone when I


called you a million times last night!

Sadness, depression

o I cant get over my ex. She was so special.


I am sad/depressed all the time. I need
you to make me happy.

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Emotions are addictive. By talking about them, not


only do you feel them even more than before, but also you
indirectly get her to associates negative emotions to your
presence!

Remember! Women have enough problems in their


life, they dont need more!

So avoid negativity and filter out all the above!

1.27. Your attitude:

You need to know exactly what the right attitude to


have is when youre around women!

You should sub communicating that:

I have a great life, it will be even greater with you and


your life will be better with me in it.

Your life is already great! Things are good and you


dont have a lack of love or attention! She is not going to
fill the gaps in your life! Even if she is, you dont mention
it!

She is gonna blend into your world and adapt to your


rhythm! You lead all the interactions and create an

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amazing loving, passionate, positive and fun environment


for the both of you!

1.28. Unapproachable, sad, bitter and


angry ones

Dont take it personal! Just like men, women can be


bitter, and unapproachable too! When we get into the cold
approach section, youre going to make approaches to total
strangers and start interacting with them! Youll notice
that theres gonna be some risk involved!

Most of the time its good! You meet nice, friendly


and approachable women! However, when you increase
the number of your approaches, you may run into bitter,
angry, sad or man hating women!

Its not that these women are bad people, its just
theyve had bad experiences with men. Its a shame for
them! Because these women are usually the ones that one
day were madly in love with a man, or loved a man very
much! Failure changed them!

They are like customers without money! They wanna


buy but no matter how much you wanna sell, they just
cant afford it. Some people have a small, limited reality
and an uncool character. They are stuck in-between!

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Hating men, while at the same time being unable to be


without one!

Its important you dont take this personally and


understand, thats just how it is! Move on and dont waste
your time with this type!

1.29. There is no formula that works


on every woman!

There is no universal formula that works on


everyone and it makes sense too! One is happy, one is sad,
one is going through things, one just broke up and wants
to get it out of her system! What we know for sure, is that
there are billions of women on the planet and there are
always women who are ready to meet you!

Your job here is to learn these techniques and


become the best version of yourself so when you run into
that specific style of woman that you like, youll have all
the tools to bed her and get her to fall for you!

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1.30. Know your story well. Make it an


adventure

When I see guys crash and burn while interacting


with women, there is almost always one element present:
Boring! A guy not knowing anything interesting about
himself! A default guy! Some stereotype with nothing
interesting about him!

One of the first questions I ask anyone new I meet


(regardless of gender) is: Whats your story!

The response says A LOT about that person!

See everyone has a story! The way you talk about


your life and your stories, things that happened in your
life, your adventures, experiences and affairs, places youve
been, food you tasted and women youve been with, all that
makes you an interesting person!

I want you to go through your life and think about all


that! Build routines over that! Knowing your story and
how to say it plays a huge role in getting women!

She will experience you through your stories! Shell


analyze your past and looks for excuses to like you for your
stories! Even if you think you had a boring life, there are

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moments you can remember and use in as stories in your


interactions!

1.31. Its a numbers game

Next crucial thing to always remember: Its a


numbers game. The more women you interact with; the
more women youll get. If you approach 10 women, you
obviously have a much better chance than approaching
only 1. So dont be shy and approach as many as you can.
There are complete instructions on how to do it in the
Cold Approach section!

And every morning remind yourself: There are


always women who want to meet a guy like you. I
sometimes make this comment in my seminars:

There is always someone sad enough to fuck you! It


sounds like a joke however, its true!

Just like us men, women go through phases in their


lives too. You are going to run into women who are at the
time of their life to meet a guy like you! Meeting these
women is fun! This is something you should constantly
have in the back of your mind! Every woman you meet,
might be ready to meet, get to know you or sit on your
face!

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The opposite is true as well. Some women are just


not an option! Some are married. There are ways to
manipulate her and inject doubt into her mind! But why?
We stay away from them!

Some are madly in love with their boyfriends and


have a child on the way! So dont take it personally if
someone says no! Just move to the next one!

1.32. The results are dynamic!

You can say the exact same thing to different women


and get completely different results. Some guys (newbies)
learn a technique, go out try it and if they dont get good
results, discard it and blame the technique!

Remember! If something you did, didnt work as


expected, try it again! Do it 10 times and try it in different
scenarios with different types of women to find out if the
problem is the way you are applying it!

Then come back and read about it, watch the related
videos and try again! You can always contact me and
discuss!

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1.33. No masturbation diet

Masturbation can be healthy for countless reasons!


But when it comes to pickup, it kills your drive! It makes
sex less enjoyable!

If youre determined to go get women, youve gotta


be hungry! We cannot not take advantage of this powerful
energy source.

The interesting thing is that most women feel it too!


If you dont masturbate for 3 weeks, you will be the only
guy at the bar with a fully loaded gun (trust me on that)!
For some strange reason, women sense that! It has a lot to
do with your energy!

I want you to try it. Get your calendar out and mark
3-weeks from today and dont touch yourself till that date!
Youll be amazed by how much your energy changes!

On top of that, I want you to get motivated! I want


you to watch the music video for Ocean Drive by Duke
Dumont on YouTube twice a day! Get hungry!

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1.34. Everything is an excuse.

You might be tall, short, fat, skinny, young or old!


Everyone can have an excuse for not getting results!

No excuses. Nothing is gonna stop you from getting


results! In fact, the only thing that can stop you from
getting results isyou!

So do what I did when I first started! I realized I have


to drop it all! No BS! When your mind comes up with
excuses not to approach her or not to do something that
youre supposed to do, I want you to shut that voice down
in your mind. Remind yourself that your brain is gonna
play games with you and justify why a certain scenario is
not suitable!

Next time you see an attractive woman, it doesnt


matter if youre not shaved, dressed up, in a bad mood,
hungry or the only guy in the room; do what needs to be
done! You have a mission and that is to approach women
you find attractive and apply things youll learn in this
program!

95% of men avoid approaching women!

Its unusual to approach!

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Be unusual! What is common is usually wrong! You


are going to be different! I promised you an amazing sex
life and in order to get that you gotta be different! This is
an emotional process! Drop the logic!

When we go through Cold Approach videos, well


open this up in detail!

1.35. Be outcome detached

One major reason men fuck it up with women is by


being outcome attached! Thinking about future
results and what if I dont close this one, creates anxiety;
anxiety creates fear and fear creates doubt and mistakes
followed by that. Nervousness is caused by outcome
attachment! What if this doesnt work!

The default for most of us is to continuously think


about what could go wrong and what if I dont close!

I want you to practice being completely outcome


detached! If you mess it up with this woman, its totally
fine! Youll move to the next one! No woman is special
before you get to know her! There is always the next one
waiting for you! Be outcome detached and enjoy the
process!

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1.36. Erase your assumptions and old


beliefs

Its a common mistake to make false assumptions! I


have seen too many men not making a move in specific
situations because they falsely assumed its gonna go a
certain way!

Remember! Past does not equal the future! If you


tried something 100 times and you failed every single time,
then its time to change your approach!

Its dangerous to hold on to old beliefs. You might


have tried something when you were 17 and now 30 years
later, you still live based on what happened back then!

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I want you to erase all your old assumptions and


beliefs and refresh your system! Youll notice so many
more opportunities around you!

1.37. Women like sex more than us guys

Next time you see a beautiful woman; I want you to


remind yourself:

She loves sex more than I do!

Watch any porn and youll see it for yourself. Women


enjoy sex way more than us guys do!

So remember: She is not doing you a favor by


having sex with you!. Its something that she enjoys
more than you do!

You dont owe her anything just because you had sex.
The pleasure is mutual and more hers! Every time you
have sex, she owes you a big thank you.

So when it comes to sex, dont put her on a pedestal


just because shes a woman! Be nice to her and remember:
most men wrongfully feel bad for wanting to have sex!

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1.38. Be full hearted! Own what you do


and stand your ground!

Do you know why so many people followed Donald


Trump for the elections? Because he has conviction! Even
when he makes the most stupid comments, he owns it!
Once people see you have conviction, you dont doubt what
you say, they believe you. They follow you and they respect
you. This is one of the main characteristics of leaders and
of course men who land 9s and 10s.

Never doubt yourself or what you do! No external


event should have control on how you feel. Having
conviction must be a part of your character! If you read the
test chapter of the book, youll notice having conviction
is the key to passing her tests!

Example:

You: Things Id do to you if we were together


(playful tone)

Her: Wtf does it mean?

You the wrong answer: Oh I am sorry I


didnt mean to offend you!

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You the right answer: I mean very


inappropriate things youd love. But you may
not deserve my punishment yet, because you
havent earned it!

Of course make sure you gauge (calibrate) before you


make statements like that. Once you know its safe, you can
say almost anything! Watch the complimentary videos of
the program and see real life examples on video!
Conviction tips can only really be explained in videos!

1.39. Be congruent

Be congruent! When youre congruent, how you


feel and what you do are in alignment. Its neither
easy nor necessary to lie or to fake it when you talk to
women! Congruence, is an absolutely crucial element of
seduction!

You can fake congruence when you become a Jedi


master! No more comments on this!

This is one of the reasons this process becomes


confronting! At some point youll realize you have to
genuinely be positive, outgoing, fun and interesting! If
youre not, you cant pretend that you are!

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It took me years to realize women see through my


eyes and my voice! My emotional state is recognizable!
Most of the work for me was there! Changing who I am
and how I feel, rather than what I do or say with women!

1.40. Your emotional state is


recognIzable! she knows what Youre
feeling

So chill! Relax. Shoulders down, stay calm and take a


deep breath. She can tell whats in your mind just by
looking at your eyes. Your eyes are the window to your
thoughts!

1.41. Nothing is a big deal!

This is another massive element! Nothing is a big


deal! Whatever happens, no mater how big of a mistake
you might make, no matter how bad it went, its
completely fine! Nothing is a big deal and if you are cool
with it, she will be too!

1.42. Fail faster.

When you learn something, go out and try it as


quickly as you can! Some guys hold back to make their

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game perfect! Perfection is the enemy! Perfection happens


after youve applied it! Yes, go out, try, fail faster! Then
come back, read more, watch more videos, fine tune and
go try again! You and I, we cannot be afraid of failure
because it is a great, great, great part of development and
its inevitable! Those who avoid failure, wont get results!

The faster you fail, the faster you learn what works
and what doesnt work for you! As a result, you can change
your approach and get results faster!

2. The fundamentals: This determines if


you get her or not

2.1. What happens when you meet a


woman?

So what happens when you first meet a woman?


What determines if you ever go home with her or not?
What determines if you guys will be intimate or not? Will
she ever sit on your face or not?

Lets say you meet her in Starbucks, yoga class or


your office. One of these scenarios will happen:

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You dont approach, walk away and get


frustrated (95% of men)

You approach but crash and burn (2% of men)

You approach, hold a short conversation and


get rejected (or excuse yourself) (1% of men)

You approach, create attraction, cant push it


over a certain point, get stuck in the friend-
zone. (1% of men)

You approach, maybe you exchange numbers


but it doesnt go the way you want it to. (Less
than 1% of men)

You approach, create attraction, things go the


way YOU want them to go, exchange solid
number, or you leave together. (Less than 1%
of men)

The question is: What determines which scenario


happens?

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2.2. What determines if you end up with


her or not?

(Read this 10 times, this is prime information)

See The moment she sees you for the first time, a
flow begins. Think about it like a river. A river has a
direction! It has a flow. It either goes north, south, east,
west or...those other directions!

Your interaction with her is the same. See, if you


dont take control of the flow of the interaction, if you dont
take that interaction to a direction that you want it to go,
she will. And if you let it happen the way she wants to, you
almost always get filtered out just like the guy before you
who tried to meet her!

Let me tell you more about this flow:

Imagine two big massive bubbles! One is your


reality, how you think and how your world is, and the
other bubble is, hers!

Once you meet in a bar, caf, yoga studio or


university, a battle of realities begins (Not in a violent
way)! Shell try to suck you into her bubble! Her fun is to

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force her reality and playfully reject you (99% of


women)!

Within the first few minutes, she is going to makes a


decision! Am I gonna give this guy a chance? Is he worth
my time? Could he be the one? Or is he a weak, needy, low
value loser guy?

If she sucks you into her reality, if she can easily get
you to react to her emotionally and you just stand there
and watch her run the show, youre done! Game over! See
you later!

Most women dont know how and why they reject


men (Funny but true)! They do it subconsciously and by
nature, they are very good at identifying a low value,
needy, insecure guy who never gets women! So they make
the assumption that you are exactly the same!

And dont get me wrong, you could be the nicest guy


with the best intentions, but at this point, before you bed
her, your intentions dont matter!

You, must dominate her reality! You have to burst


her bubble, and bring her to your bubble! You have to
show her that your reality is more fun than hers! She can

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have a better time hanging out with you than without you
or with any other guy!

You do it by saying and doing specific things during


the interaction. By knowing what you want, and playfully
feeding the idea to her! Were still not discussing the
How-To part!

When you meet total strangers, you buy time for that
interaction by saying and doing specific things! Youve
probably noticed it. If you have a weak reality, if youre not
sure about who you are or what you want, if you
subconsciously put her on a pedestal, if you dont have the
right beliefs about sex, women and social dynamics or if
you want to excuse yourself, youll be unable to take the
interaction to a place you want! You keep getting rejected
aka: you will be sucked to her bubble!

If thats your reality right now, dont worry even a


bit! Its like that for all of us by default! Youre gonna learn
how to dominate her reality like never before! I have lined
up all tools you need here! In these sections I just want to
you to get familiar with the problem!

When meeting a total stranger, you only get 1


shot! Thats why phrases like You can never have a
second first impression are common!

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Ive noticed that once a woman categorizes me as a


non-sex-worthy guy, the game is over! She will have to
have sex to figure me out! Decision made! The opposite is
true as well, if she feels the attraction for you and youll do
the seduction process step by step, shell have no choice
but to feel the attraction and have sex with you!

So let me go through this one more time.

Your life and your relationship so far, are the result


of your reality control: How well you understand what
goes on between you and her.

You might be wondering:

Can I even do it? Am I good enough? Ive never had a


perfect woman. Is it even gonna work for me? What if my
reality is weak? I dont know much about realities. This is
all new to me!

The good news is, even if your reality is weak, you


can work on it and it doesnt take that long at all to build a
strong one!

Your results are determined by these attributes:

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2.2.1. Motivation and drive

Do you even approach her? 95% of guys dont even


approach, or when they approach they reject themselves
out of the interaction due to the tension they create. I call
it the I dont wanna invade syndrome!

Do you ever approach? Do you have the energy to


start the interaction? I show you in other sections how to
motivate yourself and make the approach. For most men
approaching women is the hardest part of the process!

2.2.2. Vision

Can you imagine? My friend Weso says: You gotta


imagine it first! Can you picture yourself with someone
like her? If your vision is limited; if you cant picture you
and her together; if you cant see a short or long term
future together, you wont succeed.

You gotta be able to vividly picture you two together!

A significant reason men fail in getting women, is


lack of a clear vision about what they want!

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I want you to write down your vision! Everything


there is to know about her. Dont hold back! Write it all
down! The clearer your vision is, the faster youll succeed.

Most men are just happy with whatever comes their


way and thats why the get random results!

Bottom line: If you dont know where youre going,


youll never get there!

2.2.3. Your belief about you, your


values and women

How do you see yourself? Do you think youre


worthy of her love, sex, attention and company? Some men
believe they deserve it all, some guys believe they dont
even deserve a blow up doll!

When you think about it, whats your worth? Really!


Email me your answer!

2.2.4. Understanding the concepts

How things work. Knowledge! How does attraction


work! How well you learn the concepts in this program!

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What can you do and what should you do to create


attraction! Do you understand attraction triggers? Do you
know how badly she wants to meet you? Do you know the
fact that women enjoy sex much more than us guys do?

2.2.5. Your skills

How you can turn your knowledge about attraction,


into practical skills. Can you apply what you learn here
in this program? What should you say, and when? How
and when should I qualify or disqualify; build or break
rapport?

ATTENTION! Knowing the path is different


from walking the path! Once you learn the How-To
part, youve gotta take action and apply what youve
learned! Turn your knowledge to skills.

The majority of men fail to get get results because


they are a victim of the I know it already condition! Its a
very dangerous way to live. I dont want you to become a
theory junkie! You can read and understand the system,
but putting it into action is another story! So make sure
you go out and do what you learn here. Fail faster until you
have your heram!

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Just like a food recipe. Can you randomly mix


ingredients and end up with a nice delicious cheesecake?
Not really! You gotta mix the right proportion of the
ingredients with each other to end up with that yum cake!

If you notice, there are men who constantly get great


results with women (and most of them are not rich)! They
have just found a formula and keep doing it!

A broke bartender for example! I used to be one! I


didnt have any money! I owed 20k on my credit cart at
one point! Regardless of that, there were nights where I
went home with 9s and 10s! I had just learned a system: a
sequence of things that works! What to say, how to
say it and what to do in each specific situation!

There are certain behaviors that trigger attraction!


There are literally hundreds of characteristics that build
attraction and tons that kill the attraction. Ill go through
them later and explain how to use them, but for now I just
want you to know that building attraction is not a random
process! You WILL master the step by step process of
attraction building through this program.

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2.2.6. Your frame of reference

Basically, this is how experienced you are.


Sometimes she may say fuck off but what she actually
means is try harder fuckerman. Experience is priceless!

Knowing when to eject and when to stay in! When


we do the cold approach training in this program, Ill
show you some real footage of approaches and how frame
of reference is a game changer!

Each time you make an approach, you gather new


reference! The more experience you have, the better
results youll get because youve seen it before and you
know what works and what doesnt work in the situation
youre in.

2.2.7. Confidence

Believe in your ability and have trust that you can do


it. Standing your ground!

The majority of men are paralyzed by self doubt,


limiting beliefs and low self esteem! Ive put together a
whole chapter on confidence so you can beat this paralysis.

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2.2.8. Frame control

I wanna quickly tell you about frame control and


how it affects your results!

Remember the bubbles I talked to you about just


before? Your reality vs her reality?

You feel different emotions as you speak to different


people. When you speak to a beggar in street, you dont
really care about how he thinks of you! Even if he yells at
you, you just walk away! But when you speak to your boss
or your girlfriend, you do care! Especially if they yell!

When you speak to a woman, frame control is


crucial. Youve gotta be able to have that strong reality and
hold on to it. She will try to break it down several times in
the interaction at specific points. The stronger you hold
your frame; the better results youll get!

A good frame to have is the classic father daughter


frame! How do you feel talking to your little 7-year-old
daughter? Do you feel nervous by the thought of her
rejecting you? Of course not! Because you know for a fact
that you have higher value than she does!

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I want you to have a similar frame when you speak to


attractive women! The stronger you hold your frame; the
better results youll get! By using simple techniques like
lazer eye contact, you can channel the tension back on
her rather than you putting all the pressure on yourself!

Your ability to hold on to your frame determines if


you get her or not!

The majority of the male population, never get to be


fully satisfied with their dating life and rarely experience a
partner they truly want because they dont understand this
concept.

Watch the complimentary videos of the program to


see how I control the frame in my interactions! Remember,
father daughter frame!

3. On tests

3.1. What is it and why should you learn


it?

Tests are a womans fake detection system! A


womans biggest investment is sex when you guys first
meet! She knows when you bed her, shell give all the
power away! So she has to make sure youre worth her

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investment! She also has to make sure that if you


impregnate her, the kids are gonna be emotionally and
mentally healthy and not weak! Of course women do most
of that evaluation subconsciously!

By testing men, she can identify needy, reaction


seeking, emotionally weak and insecure men! Testing is a
strategy women use to filter low value, incongruent, needy
or weak guys!

You should learn to identify and past her tests,


otherwise, you wont bed her! If you fail her tests, youll be
rejected, filtered or painfully friend-zoned like a bitch.

3.2. How do women test you?

The easiest way to understand tests is to look at them


as the equivalent of teasing! Shell open fire at you! All sort
of comments on your looks (height, hair, body),
nationality, personality and anything that could get you to
react to her! These comments feel like shes teasing you or
disqualifying you as a man! Shed be curious to know if she
can get some a reaction out of you or not!

Here are a few examples:

Classic test

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Youre too skinny/fat/ugly/pretty/young/old


for me

Give me your number maybe Ill call you

You Indian? You got that Curry thing going on?


Sorry deal breaker for me!

So youre Asian? I heared you guys got small


dicks! Deal breaker for me! Bye!

Her: Is that the best you can do?

You: Hang on let me thinkYes.

Her: Are you gay?

You: Depends on the day of the week / 70% /


Oh stop it (say it with feminine sound)

Her: Give me your number Ill call you!

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You: I dont trust you just yet

This is also where she gets you to qualify yourself to


her:

So Tom, are you rich/confident/friendly?

So Ben, do you go to gym a lot? How much do


you lift?

3.3. When does she test you?

More at first when she doesnt know you! However,


expect them at all times because tests can come randomly!

The better you game her and the more she senses
youre the potential to be her man (fuck buddy, future-
husband, anything), the faster and stronger shell test you.

3.4. women dont learn to test! Its


hard-wired in their head

All women instinctively test you! They come with


this feature installed in them. Theyre born with it! Even
the most introvert woman who knows nothing about men
or dating, knows how to test you!

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I have been tested by 18-year-old virgin, nave,


simple woman in villages of Tehran, hot New Yorker super
model, and surfer girl in Australia. The amazing thing is,
they all test the same way!

The point: You are going to be sized up no matter


what type/nationality of woman you wanna pin to your
bed!

3.5. How to pass her tests? The solution!

As a rule of thumb, remain emotionally unreactive.


Respond, but dont react! And when you respond,
remember, you dont have to make much sense. The less
serious you take it, the better! The less she can change the
way you feel, the better! Here are a few tips:

3.5.1. Never ever never take it


seriously

To put it really simple: If your emotional state


changes because of her test, youre owned! Finished
in your town! Just go! Leave! Its over! Youll have better
chance of bedding Jessica Alba! So make sure you dont get
emotionally affected no matter what she says!

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3.5.2. Ignore her comment/question

This is a super solution to pass a test: If she


comments on your nationality, looks, character or basically
anything, regardless of the intensity of her comment, you
can simply ignore her and just start a new thread!

Ignoring someone like that does magic. First of all,


she sees youre not in reactive mode! This is really
powerful! The more you react to her, the faster the
attraction dies! The opposite is true as well! The less you
react, the more attraction is built! It gets her to try harder
until she surrenders!

And second, you push her button! Who want to be


ignored? Now she tries to get some attention from you!

3.5.3. Youre trYIng too hard!

You can put it back at her by saying:

Look! Youre trying too hard! Dont doubt yourself!


Youre cool and I almost like you a little! And start a new
threat! Remember! If you say anything with conviction,
youll fly that plane!

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3.5.4. Never ever qualify yourself! Put


it back at her!

There are some sneaky ones when she tries to get


you to qualify yourself.

Get her comment, redirect it back at her!

Her: So are you rich/confident/friendly?

You: Not really! How about you? Are you


rich/confident/friendly? You look like you might be! Tell
me everything!

3.5.5. A couple notes on tests

Note: Stay on the same team as her. Dont get into


arguments. Its a rookie mistake to start arguing with her.
Yes, that would be emotionally reacting to her! Drop it and
move on from it as soon as you can!

Also remember that its not personal! There are


millions of bullshit guys out there and 9s and 10s have to
filter them out somehow! How else can she know if
youre man enough for her or not?

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Are going to crumble like a little bitch? It gives her a


sense of power, plus it helps her decide whether youre the
kind of guy she want to sleep with or chuck in the friend
zone.

This is really a congruence test. Are you really


who youre representing? Or youre just faking it Tests
are good! They are an opportunity for you to show her you
are worthy. An opportunity to turn her on. Remember: If
shes not attracted to you, she wont test you!

4. Cold Approach

Its absolutely crucial that you watch the


complementary videos of the book in order to see these
concepts in action!

Cold approach means approaching a total stranger,


someone youve never met before and systematically
engaging in a conversation with her that eventually ends in
a one-night stand, one-day stand, long term sexual
encounter or a serious relationship.

Once you master the cold approach, you wont need


to rely on luck or anyone else for your love or sex life! Plus,
the beauty is: it can be done anytime and anywhere,
regardless of your age!

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At your local gym, at the mall, at the doctors waiting


room, at Starbucks when youre waiting in line for your
coffee, at the supermarket, at night or during the day! As
long as you live on earth, you can meet tons of women with
the cold approach!

Good news! Its the skill less than 1% of men have!

When I first started this, my coach used to tell me it


takes at least 4 hours to go from open to close. A couple
years later I realized that time is irrelevant! The whole
process can happen extremely fast (within an hour)
depending on your skills, the woman, and the scenario!

The majority of guys cant imagine the possibilities


and the doors that cold approaches open to them! 3 of my
long term relationships started with a cold approach!

90% of the time that I meet someone new, is because


of a cold approach! I have several students who married
their wives they met through cold approach!

The techniques you learn in this program, are exactly


what you need in order to master the art of the cold
approach! In this section I am going to break down the
structure of a cold approach and show you step by step
how to go from total strangers to bed time friends!

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4.1. How do guys take cold approach when


they hear about it first?

At first when guys hear about the cold approach they


panic! The common reaction is:

Look! I am a doctor/ lawyer/ engineer/ 70-year-old


man, 19-year-old short dude; I am not gonna approach
someone I dont know and put myself at the risk of
rejection!

The response to that is: Yes! Cold approach can be


intimidating. It can be terrifying at times. THATS WHY IT
WORKS BECAUSE GUYS ARE TOO AFRAID TO DO IT!

When every cell in your body tells you to go home


and jerk off or call the girl you dont really like (and youre
stuck with); when your brain comes up with a million
reasons why you should not approach; when you worry
about your ex seeing you getting rejected; when you worry
about your kids seeing you; when you worry about
everyone in a caf or in line witnessing you crash and
burn Youre going to feel like youre putting your entire
self-worth into somebody elses hands.

ITS WORTH IT!

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My job here is to teach you how to master these


techniques and be in the 1%! My promise to you is that if
you follow the things I have for you; if you learn these
techniques and turn them into skills; if you watch the
videos and go out try what I give you; your life will change
forever!

There are millions of women out there who have the


potential to be with you! If you dont approach them,
someone else will and he will bed that gorgeous woman
who could be sitting on your face tonight!

4.2. Why should you master cold


approach?

These are the many reasons you should master cold


approach! Here are a few:

Its fast and can be done anywhere! You dont


have to go to a dark loud night club, drink lots
of alcohol and do it! You can do it wherever
you feel the most comfortable. Yes, it can
really be done anywhere, anytime!

Actually RIGHT NOW! You dont have to wait


till the weekend to do it!

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During the day is much easier! Since this is a


unique skill and a relatively newer way of doing
it, most women are not exposed to it and so
they dont have their guards up during the day!

Picking up women at nights in nightclubs has


been around since the 1500s when working
class used to come together and dance to
Vivaldi!

You dont have to rely on luck or your friends


to meet someone! Youll take charge of your
sex life and relationships with women!

Its a life changing skill! You are essentially


approaching a total stranger and convince her
that she would be interested in pursuing a
relationship with you in a matter of hours. It is
like Jedi powers and most men dont even
know this is available to them! When I first
started getting laid here and there, I used to
think I was the only guy on the planet who can
do this!

Yes it changes your life dramatically! If you

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dont approach, youll miss out on


opportunities! Ill share with you my personal
experience:

Ive had several long term relationships (over 2


years) with women I met through cold
approach!

Just think about this: What if I hadnt


approached them? My life would have
been different! I probably wouldnt be
writing this book right now! Maybe Id
have been unhappily married for 10
years to a wife I wouldnt love while
wondering if there is more to life!

Let me tell you something that might make you


even a bit angry! Do you know how many times
you could have something amazing with a
woman but simply because you didnt
approach her and now she ended up with some
dickhead instead. The perfect 10 who could
have taken you to heaven!

Answer: More than you can imagine!

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It affects all areas of your life. In other words,


its not all about sex or dating! Being able to
build relationships with strangers is a critical
part of networking in general and a deadly
serious skill!

Its an anti-depressant! Doing cold approaches


keeps you alive, sharp and in the champion
mode! In order to be a cold approacher,
youve gotta be full of life and keep yourself in
good mental, emotional and physical shape!
Youll get used to being alert and ready to hunt
like a lion! Its fuckin exciting man!

Your confidence will sky rocket! When you


manage to make cold approaches, put yourself
on the line and successfully close, there is
almost no other task that could be a challenge
for you!

By learning cold approach, you become


outcome detached. You turn into social
dynamite and become smarter! Youll to get rid
of tons of your bad habits! Youll learn how to
adapt to environment and read social cues!

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You learn how to apply things you learn in this


program and turn them to life lasting skills!

It can change introverts to extraverts! I have


seen extremely shy students change from being
super shy, to super talkative, social savvy guys!
You can enjoy life more that ever!

4.3. The Shields (layers) model

All right my man! Let the magic begin. Lets dive in a


bit deeper! I wanna make sure you understand everything!
I want you to get extraordinary results and I know you can!

Things youll learn here will be by your side for the


rest of your life! Every time youll interact with a woman,
youll have this in your mind.

Take a look at this layering model (or shields


model)! See When you interact with attractive women,
its very easy to get lost in the interaction and wonder what
is going on?

Am I making progress? Is she interested? What is


going on between us? What should I do next? What should
I say next?

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Thats what happens to most guys! Especially


beginners, or rusty men who have been out of the game for
a long time!

This model makes it easier for you to know where


you are in your interaction with her and what you should
do in order to escalate and take things to the next level!

Basically if you want to sleep with her, youll have to


penetrate 4 layers (shields) one by one! (You thought there
is only 1 thing you penetrate didnt you?)

Think about your interaction like a computer game!


You kill the beast and go to the next level. Here, the beast
is her skepticism, insecurities, lack of rapport (trust,
comfort), doubts and tests she throws at you!

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Just like you kill the beast in the computer game!


When you interact with her, youll reach checkpoints
where theres a shift in her mind! Thats when you
penetrate a shield and move to the next layer!

In order to go through these shields, youll have to


use techniques and strategies such as qualification,
disqualification, physical and verbal escalation and a few
more that you learn in this program! We will go through
them all one by one! For now, lets just take a better look at
the shields model!

4.3.1. Social shield

This is the first shield you have to penetrate when


you meet a woman you dont know!

When you say hello to a stranger in Starbucks as


youre waiting for your coffee!

Think about it like the level 1 of the computer game!


She accepts to give you the time of the day to have an
interaction with her.

This doesnt mean youll be friends, nor is a fuck


guaranteed. This just means you are in her orbit now and

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you can systematically escalate both verbally and


physically to move forward and build attraction!

At this point, youll be doing more of the talking.


Between 70 to 95% depending on the girl!

For most people this is the hardest part of the


interaction because they dont want to intrude! This is
because theyve been told talking to strangers is rude!

Ill show you techniques to overcome that in the later


chapters!

Once you start the interaction and a dialog begins,


its time for you to lead, ask, interrupt, command, build
rapport, break rapport. Open fire here. Give all you have.
Disqualify and qualify like its the last few seconds of a
basketball game where you have to give it all youve got.
Well go through these techniques one by one in the next
chapters along with the videos! So dont worry about the
How-To part still!

Think about it like landing a plane! I love this


analogy! I learned it from Louann: the author of the
Female Brain!

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For the first few seconds of your interaction, youre


gonna experience turbulence till it slowly, slowly calms!
Just the same way an airplane does when it lands!

I strongly recommend you to watch the


complimentary videos of this in the program to see real life
examples of penetrating these shields.

4.3.2. Friend zone shield

Once you start a conversation with her and she


accepts you as a normal social guy, its time for you to
penetrate the second shield and escalate to the next layer!

At this point there is some level of attraction,


however; there is still not enough trust and comfort for her
to sit on your face!

This happens when theres another shift in her mind


and she accepts you have qualities she seeks. You managed
to build some level of rapport, however; she still doesnt
see you as option to for sex just yet!

The next shield youll have to go through is the


friend zone shield! She accepts you as just a friend!

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4.3.3. Sexual shield 1

The next shield requires a major shift in her mind! If


you manage to pass this shield, shell consider you as a
sexual partner. She still needs more to justify being
sexually attracted to you, however, when you arrive to this
point, youll be very close to finish the job!

To make a transition to the next layer, you keep


talking with the same rhythm. If you managed to build
attraction properly, from this point on, most of the work
youll be doing will be on building rapport!

Write this on a piece of paper and stick it to your


laptop:

You allow her to experience you by getting her to


emotionally react to you!

Emotional stories about your passionate romantic


experiences in the past (and how you can talk about them),
play a significant role here. You paint a picture for her
about what could happen between the 2 of you!

You let her experience you by telling her stories


about yourself! When you tell them about your adventures
with your ex, she becomes interested in listening to you!

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Remember! Women LOVE stories! Especially dramatic


ones!

4.3.4. Sexual shield 2

By the time you make it here, she is already


convinced that shes gonna have sex with you.

You managed to create attraction, build trust and


create comfort; now its time to seduce!

In order to get to this point, youre gonna need to get


her to sexually qualify herself to you. In the qualification
section, Ill show you how to sexually qualify her and get
her to qualify herself!

4.3.5. Obsession shield

And finally the obsession shield! Most men never


experience this! This is where she falls deeply in love with
you!

This usually happens after multiple times of sleeping


together! If youre a beast in bed, you can do this
eventually! Beast mode is when you have a good hard,
orgasm after she does (multiple times); you are a good
kisser and understand her rhythm and you know how to

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passionately make love to her. Ill have a separate section


further to show you how to turn on the beast mode and
open fire to her burning heart!

One thing to note here: if a woman sleeps with you


more than twice (yes twice), it means shes decided to keep
sleeping with you for at least a few months!

So if you get a one-night stand, it doesnt really mean


shes gonna continue doing it. However, if you guys hook
up a few times, then you have a good chance to get her to
be your girlfriend, fuck buddy or long term consort!

Usually you have about 3 months before her


expectations rise and shell want you to commit to her and
give her your body, mind, soul and everything else you
have!

Whats next?

The simple model we just went through gives you an


idea of how the progress is made in your interactions as
well as a visual preview of how it works!

In the next chapters, well get into the How-To


Part. What to say, when to say it and how to say it! Lots of
goodies coming your way! And look, I know Ive said it a

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few times so far but I really want you to watch the videos
as well to get this to make sense for you because once you
see this in action, youll be able to make a lot more sense of
it!

5. Steps of cold approach, the how-To

This is exactly, 100% like playing a game of chess!

Cold approach pickup is a systematic approach and


has different steps! If you want to get consistent results
with your approaches, I recommend you follow these
steps.

I am going to break it down to a few simple, easy to


understand steps! Remember: There are many
different ways of doing this! This is just one of the
ways! I broke it down into tiny, manageable sections so
you can learn and apply easily!

5.1. Attention

This is important! The first step of a cold approach is


getting their attention! In other words, her, noticing
you! Before you even approach or say anything, she has to
notice you!

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This is important for a few reasons: First of all, most


people dont expect a total stranger approaching them! If
you approach her without her noticing you first, you could
scare her and create negative tension right off the bat! That
happens quite often when you first start cold approach!

I have seen this several times (and I have made this


mistake myself a lot before). Approaching her from
behind, or approaching her while shes lying down at the
beach for example!

She could jump shit scared and say what the fuck!
So make sure she notices you before you
approach!

How can you get attention?

I call it the stealth effect! This is a ninja move that


increases your success rate by 10 folds. So this is how I
want you to think about it:

She does not notice you noticing her first! She


doesnt know you have already noticed her! She does not
know, that you know she exists!

In her mind she saw you first!

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You can of course ignore this, but that drops your


close rate!

She wants to be able to think:

Us meeting was a total accident! We didnt plan it!


It just happened like in romantic movies!

She does not want to think:

He targeted me and approached me systematically


by the techniques he learned in Bens book, and used a
proven step by step method to make love to me!

I have personally tested this specific attribute


(attention) literally thousands of time and learned by
experience that women dont like planned love!

They like romantic stories where things happen


magically and spontaneously! She craves that first second
of He noticed me and Ill always remember itOh My
God! He was so cute!.

It means nothing to us guys but to most women its


important!

Now how can you be noticed?

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Use your phone. At the beach or in the line


waiting for your coffee, make a quick call to a
friend and have a 10 second conversation:

Hey, how are you? Just checking in making


sure all is good at your end! Maybe catch up
for a drink later this weekend! See you man.

Make sure when you call, she sees you but


dont look at her to see if she saw you!
You can tell if she noticed you or not!

Again, in the Starbucks line, small talk with


someone else. Preferably a dude! By doing this
she sees youre a just a social guy and you just
talk to anyone; not only women!

Attention is ridiculously simple and based on my


experience its increases the conversations and makes the
opening natural! To get a better feel of this, please watch
the complementary videos that come with the book!

A GREAT, GREAT example of this, is Brad Pitts


Coffee Shop Scene in his movie Meet Joe Black. You do
the same thing but much quicker!

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5.2. Pre approach

This is one very powerful technique you should take


advantage of! Once she notices you, you can make quick
eye contact and smile! Hold the eye contact until she looks
away, then you look away! There are many reason you
should do this!

Mainly because you can build what I call, instant


connection!

Youll be amazed by how many women are actually


interested in you at first sight! But since youre not
present or aware of whats going on around and you
dont look at her, she gets turned off!

Presence is an important element of attraction!


Women absolutely LOVE men who are present in the
moment!

So always do a quick scan for those who are available


in the room and find women who are looking for someone
like you!

So basically this is how it happens so far:

1. She notices you

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2. You notice her

3. You make the eye contact and smile

4. You dont break the eye contact! Let her break


it first.

*Note: Dont mix this eye contact with value


scanning! Value scanning is bad! Its when you walk into a
venue and boringly, you just scan the room looking for
entertainment, looking for whatever is there to approach
just because you feel uncomfortable on your own and
you are bored! Thats social suicide!

5.3. Approach

A main step of the process! Its so important, that Its


what inspired the whole process to be called, Cold
Approach! If you dont approach, you wont get any
cookies! Anyone youve ever had sex with, either you
approached her, or she approached you first!

I have coached, millionaires, Brad Pitt looking guys,


Lawyers and doctors who couldnt approach a woman they
didnt know! Not because its a hard thing to do, but
because it needs a different mindset and
understanding of people!

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Approaching is simply starting the interaction! You


could walk to her, or if shes sitting close to you, you can
just turn your head and start the conversation!

This is not about what you say (just yet)! This is just
about how you physically wipe the physical distance
between you and initiate contact!

What happens when you approach? Depending on


your approach, a few things could happen:

Bad approach: Youll instantly be rejected!

Average approach: She may give you some


time to see what youre about!

Good approach: Creates instant attraction,


excitement and curiosity for her! Shed happily
accept you and hopes you stay and magically
say things and get her to fall in love with you!

99% of the problems men have when it comes to


getting women is in the approach! Guys reject themselves
before initiating the interaction! They go in their head,
start they think too much and develop anxiety! Most of the
time they just dont approach! They subconsciously
convince themselves not to do it!

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I want you to know its normal to not want to


approach! We are designed to not approach! Thats just
whats been hard-wired into men from thousands of years
ago!

Same thing with success! We are by default lazy!


There is nothing we can do to change how we come into
this world! Its thousands of years of evolution!

The only thing we can do is to override the fucked


up habits that reduce our success rate!

When you dont approach, youre not thinking long


term! If you see the end results (you between her legs), you
approach easier! This is also a good place to measure the
levels your confidence!

5.3.1. Common excuses for not


approaching:

I dont wanna invade! She is in the middle of


something!

I am not dressed properly! I am not shaved or


looking my best!

I am not sure what to say.

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There is a guy there with her!

Ive never done it. I dont know what to expect!

I dont know what to say!

The thing is, you miss 100% of shots you dont take!
You really have to approach!

5.3.2. How to motivate yourself to


approach

Lower the time of reaction! Approach then


think. Shoot, then aim! Whats wrong and what
could go wrong is always available to you and
will be presented to you by the fuckin
subconscious! So dont give yourself the time to
scan through the list and see what could go
wrong! You see her, you go in! Period.

PREPARE RIGHT NOW so when you go out


and see that hot woman, you wont have the
excuse I dont know what to say!. Seriously!
Dont be lazy! Do your homework because
when she will appear in front of you, you dont
have time to think! You have to open fire!

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When you see her, as you approach her, think


about this: She is going to be with a guy
anyways! Why not you? She is going to be
with a man and I want YOU to be that guy!
Think about it this way: Shes single right now,
but she wont be for long! Shes horny and
wants to meet a guy! This is your chance to be
that guy! Those who hesitate masterbate!

I want you to become angry and get


leverage! Let me ask you something: How
many more years do you want to have
masturbation as your first choice? Think about
it! I dont know who you are or where you live
but I know for a fact that you have masturbated
enough times already and you havent been
with perfect 10s enough! Its time to make that
a choice!

Go on a no masturbation diet! Stop it for 3


weeks! When you shoot it out, you also shoot
out your drive! You lose your motivation! Your
subconscious takes control! Why should I
bother approaching? I just go home and make
love to my hand at least its not covered in
rubber!

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NO! Say no and stay firm! We need your drive!

There is always an element of risk involved!


Remember! Good things (especially hot
women) come to those who take risks!
Conservative fucks get nothing in life! You and
I are not one of those!

Be optimistic because it could go fantastically


amazing! What if it goes really well and you 2
hit it hard? Remind yourself your past does
not equal your future!

Approach women left and right! Talk to them


as much as you can! Each approach makes the
next one easier.

Go through the confidence section of the


program! The more confident you are the
easier itll be to approach!

When you approach, imagine youve know


her for 6 years! Comfort plays a huge role in
the game! Just assume shes a good friend and
there is enough trust and comfort for you to be
fully comfortable!

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5.3.3. It was an accident

As I mentioned previously, most women want


romance to happen spontaneously! Most of the time you
have the choice to make your approach either straight and
direct, or indirect, as if it just as it happened!

In my experience having a clear intention is a must;


at the same time, youve gotta be smart and approach as
oopsit just happened spontaneously! You just
happened to be there at the same venue, in the same line
for coffee! You would have talked to anyone, its just she
happened to be there, at that time!

Now 5% of the time, there are situations where youll


have to go in directly because you cant really make an
indirect approach! There are several examples of my
approach videos! Make sure you watch them all one by
one! Real footage makes a big difference!

5.4. Open

I STRONGLY RECOMMEND YOU TO READ THE


FUNDAMETALS IN THE PREVIOUS CHAPTER IN
ORDER TO UNDERSTAND THIS FULLY!

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Here is where the show begins! The hardest part for


most men is saying the first word properly! Remember the
plane analogy? When it starts to land theres going to be
some turbulence at first and soon, after about a minute or
so, things get calm!

Now the big question for most men is: What am I


gonna say when I meet a woman for the first time?

The answer: IT DOESNT MATTER MUCH WHAT


YOU SAY!

Here are the only lines to get fantastic results!

1. Hey!

2. Hey! Come here for a sec!

3. Hey! Whats that?

4. Jeez! Is that 50 shades of grey? (If shes


reading a book)

5. Hey can I ask you something?

6. Hey, I am Ben! Who are you?

7. American?

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8. Please tell me youre American!

Less than 5% of her reaction depends what you say


and 95% depends on your energy and how you say it!
Of course you cant start with: Hey bitch! I am Ben! Who
the fuck are you?

Ask yourself: When you talk to her, what energy do


you bring with yourself? God this is SO important I dont
know how to emphasize how important it is when I write
it!

Are you comfortable or nervous? Look! Whatever


you feel, she is gonna feel too!

How do you ask for an address from a guy? Do you


get rejected? No! Do you know why not? Because you are
normal and authentic when you talk to him! Guess what!
Its exactly the same with women! If you be normal, she
accepts you!

In the fundamentals I briefly spoke to you about


reality domination and how she will almost always try to
dominate your reality! So HANG IN THERE because
Persistence is the KEY.

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No matter how cold, bitchy, bitter or sad she is, hang


in there for a bit (at least)!

Watch the scene from the movie New York I Love


You where Ethan Hawke starts the conversation with the
woman outside the restaurant! How, I am here with my
husband turns into I am a hooker after 5 minutes! That
happens in real life as well. More than you know!

Anyways, beside those simple openers I suggested


above, here is a good line you can use in many scenarios:
Its the first time opener. I came up with this a few
years ago and the reason I LOVE it, is because it works in
almost ANY situation!

In the line to get into a restaurant, at the yoga class


before the class begins, at the bar, at the gym! You just say:

Hey! First time here (With a soft smile)?

Its normal, its believable, it makes sense and it gives


her an opportunity to ask you the same question! Even if
shes socially retarded, shell still be able to tag along!

Most of the time shell respond by asking you the


same question! It also opens the door for you to ask other

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things! Its actually my second time, I kinda like it blah


blah

The common Situational openers are another good


way of starting the conversation! Please watch the
complimentary videos of the program to see these in
action!

There are a few elements that determine how shell


react to you!

1. The tone of your voice!


How is your tone? People pleaser? Needy?
Demanding? Begging for her attention?
Apologetically wanting her to give you her
time? Or do you own it? You know its your
right to speak to her! Do you know that she
subconsciously wants you to talk to her? Do
you know your value as a guy?

2. Your eyes!
Where are you looking when you say hi? Away?
Are you breaking the eye contact or are you
doing the parallelogram formula (Its in The
Eye Contact section)? Women see through
your eyes! She can literally read your mind just

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by looking at your eyes and she does it in a few


short seconds!

3. Your body!
Are you facing her fully! Are you investing all
your body in the interaction? Its almost always
a great idea to not face her 100% unless she
does it! Face her on at least a 45 degree angle.
A great way to do this right is to mirror her
body! Is shes facing you fully, you do it too! If
shes not moving her body and only turns her
neck, you do the same!

Here is a good trick: At first when you talk to


her, turn your head instead of facing her
completely!

4. What you say


You can say just about anything! I mentioned a
few simple openers just before! They are good
enough to get your foot in the door!

5.5. False Time Constraint

When you first start doing cold approaches, there is a


relatively higher risk of rejection involved! As you get more

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and more experience, the risk diminishes dramatically!


You gather a frame of reference and quickly get a hold of
what works and how she feels when you do initiate the
interaction!

There reason there is some risk involved is because


as a beginner, its much harder to read her! I used to crash
and burn a lot at first! I was uncalibrated! Doing things
without gauging! You see, interaction is a multi-player
thing! Its requires teamwork and if you dont
communicate properly and read each others signals, youll
easily make mistakes!

As I got more and more experienced, I learned how


to gauge more accurately and act more dynamically
while interacting!

Now think about it! What is the reason for all


rejections? Simple answer: Her objections!

Most of the time there are 2 common objections


youve gotta overcome fast when you first meet a woman.
Basically 2 questions going on in her head!

1. How long is this guy gonna stay?

2. Is he trying to pick me up!?

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To over come the first one, it would be a great idea to


throw out a false time constraint (FTC). Marketers use this
all the time in TV ads.

In the next 10 seconds a I am gonna show you how


to lose 5 pounds in 2 weeks!

You use the same technique here.

FTC's are basically any statement saying youre not


gonna stay there talking to her for very long! So right after
you Open, throw in the FTC. Here are a few examples:

1. Ive actually gotta go, I left my drink over


there!

2. Ive actually gotta go; my mums picking me up


(Also funny! Well discuss humor later)

3. Ive actually gotta go; my brother is waiting for


me!

*Note

As you throw in the FTC, you physically, pretend that


youre walking away, but you actually stay. There is a clear
presentation of this in the complementary videos of the
program!

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After FTCs youll instantly use a bridge to transition


over to the next step! Please note that FTCs are not a
must, however they do have a surprisingly high impact on
increasing your success rate since she wont be able to
raise certain objections anymore!

5.6. Bridge

Right after the FTC youll use a bridge and make the
transition! A bridge links 2 sections of your integration
together! Here are some nice working bridges:

Before I go, Ive gotta tell you this

You: What was your name again? (Say it fast)


Her: Julie
You: It was nice to almost meet you Julie,
before I go I gotta tell you something quickly

Ah that reminds me of

Um, get this

You get the idea! That 1 example above is all you


need! Think about it and build your own bridges!
Memorize these so you wont have to think about it when
you do it!

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5.7. Transition

The transition is where you leave the opener and


basically throw out the hook of the conversation!

A common mistake is to just throw the opener and


keep riffing on it! Ive seen too many guys start the
interaction and never transition!

The sooner you get off the opener, the better!

So far the formula is:

Attention -> Approach -> Pre-open -> Open -> FTC -


> Bridge -> Transition

Im breaking this down into tiny little bits youll


understand and be able to do easily with zero, literally zero
chance of making a mistake

There are seriously countless options for


transitioning! The more attraction there is, the more
options you have for transitioning and the more you can
push! How can you build more attraction with only a few
sentences? Easy! Really! Look at the attraction builders in
the Attraction chapter! Here are a few examples:

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1. Instant tease transition (Advanced):

You: Youre actually like that actress, whats


her name? Shes not that hot but shes got good
style! You know the one! Shes a little crazy!

Look at the underlined sections above.


Statements like this push so many of her
buttons and if you deliver properly, youll get
her hooked in a stimulating interaction! If you
do it the way I show you in the videos
(definitely watch the videos), she will laugh
and instantly ask you:

Her: Not that hot? Crazy? Excuse me?

You: Yeah, you are actually like her a lot ;). I


mean, do you want me to lie? Do you wanna
ruin everything? Start with lies? Ok you are
10/10 please love me, marry me, I love you
but seriously, I am sure there is more to you
than your looks! Is there?

OMG! You look like Lady Gaga is another


killer! Its a polite insult! Theres a lot to it and
I discuss this in the videos! REMEMEBR!

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When you say it, own it! Mean it so you dont


look like a wuss!

2. Whats your story

This is one of the best transitional statements


Ive ever come up with! Ive tested and failed
transitions countless times and after a while I
noticed that this one is one of those lines that
just works really well! All you have to do is
simply ask: So whats your story? How did you
end up sitting here?

You open a door to her life! Countless


conversational threads come out of this one!

3. Situational transition

When youre there be there. Look at her!


There are literally 100 things to comment on!
Her hair, her glasses, her drink, her clothes,
her friends, her phone; basically anything you
can see around! So throw Can I ask you
something? followed by any of these:

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a. (Point to her drink and say): What is


THAT? Seriously, what are you
drinking?

b. How do you guys know each other?

c. Whats your perfume? Then whatever she


says, then say: Umm, smells kinda funky!
I mean its not bad, its just different!

d. Is that Gucci? (her purse)

5.8. Micro isolate

Now if shes with a few people, you make the focus


on her and here you have to be a little bit of a bad ass!
There are different things you can do based on your
situation!

Here you slightly move back (even less than a step,


or again turn your body as if youre leaving), so there is
less pressure on her! She will get more focused on you and
the conversation when she sees you might leave! When her
friends see youre a normal guy, they dont mind and let
you talk! If shes on her own, then you dont have this
problem!

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5.9. The set

The set is where the mating dance happens!

By this point shes already hooked and now its time


to use your conversation toolbox! We are now gonna talk
about techniques: qualifiers, disqualifiers, rhythm
breakers and push and pull!

This is all about building attraction, trust and


comfort!

Remember the shields section? At this stage youve


gotta penetrate the 2nd and 3rd shield; build and break
rapport; and create attraction.

At this stage, 90% of the work is on attraction and


10% on rapport!

Lead, lead, lead! Take control of interaction and


show all the qualities that create attraction. Lets open up
attraction! Im gonna show you how you can build
attraction faster than you could ever imagine!

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6. Attraction

Your results are attraction based! When you talk to


her, it doesnt matter what your intentions are! Whatever
youre looking for: a girlfriend, a wife or a one-night stand,
you must create attraction first. If you dont know how to
do that, you will be filtered out and simply rejected! So
lets riff on attraction here:

A couple reminders:

6.1. Attraction is dynamic

Attraction is a very dynamic emotion. It fluctuates


during the interaction! Its not the same for women as it is
for us guys. You may tell her 1 line that makes her fall for
you. You may tell her 1 wrong thing and kill all the
attraction! Below I show you with graph how attraction
fluctuates!

Attraction is more about who you are and less about


what you do!

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6.2. Attraction is beyond her logic

She cant choose who shes attracted to! Even


if youre the wrong guy for her, you do certain things that
trigger the attraction, she will get attracted to you!

For us men, attraction is like a switch. You see her,


you like her! We sense the attraction mostly by visual cues!
Sexy face, boobs, nice legs, big blue eyes or tanned skin.

As for women its more like a volume knob!


Women typically need more time to feel the attraction! As
much as women enjoy Johnny Depp looking men, they
dont usually take a guy home based on his looks!

Thats why I mentioned before your looks will not


save the day!

For women its about behavioral cues, NOT visual


cues. This is subconsciously communicated through your
words, your vibe and body language! In other words:

You cant logically convince her to like you! You have


to make her feel certain things about you while interacting
with you!

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You got to emotionally convince her to want you!


What she says she wants, is not what she emotionally
responds to!

Look at the chart above. The horizontal line is the


time of the interaction and the vertical bar is the attraction
level. While the interaction is going on, youll be throwing
in comments and questions in a particular way. Everything
you do and dont do makes her feel a certain way and
indirectly updates her attraction level for you!

Point A is where you drop an attraction killer; Acting


incongruent, saying something without conviction, making
an un-calibrated comment (or sticking your finger in your
nose).

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As you continue interacting, youll throw out


attraction builders (disqualify, lead) and at point B, her
attraction level for you will start to increase!

When you reach a certain level of attraction, shell


starts showing you signs. Once you see the signs of
attraction, you can move on to the rapport building
section!

6.3. the sIgns that shes attracted:

She gives you complements

She whispers in your ears or talks quietly,


wanting you to come closer to her

She gets nervous around you

She asks questions

She exposes her neck

She plays with her hair

She feeds the conversation when it slows down

She looks in your eyes

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Her pupils get dilated

She touches you

She asks you personal questions

She speaks with passion

She smiles or laughs

The point of this graph is to demonstrate that


attraction is not static for women! Its important that you
distinguish the difference between how you feel the
attraction and how a woman experiences it!

Now lets take a look at another graph.

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Look at line A. Thats what happens when a


woman starts interacting with a guy she is physically
attracted to, but doesnt understand attraction triggers or
how to run an interaction!

As you can see, there is attraction at first, but since


the guy keeps saying and doing the wrong thing and
doesnt understand her language, her attraction level
drops!

Now look at line B. Thats how attraction is built


when an average looking guy interacts with her on her
frequency! If youre an average looking guy (or below
average), you usually start with zero attraction. Thats
almost always the case for me!

But since you say the right things, you show youre
willingness to walk away, youre not needy and you show
the behavioral cues she craves: you create attraction!

And finally line C. A newbie with average game or


no experience. He manages to create some attraction but,
eventually he drops it!

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6.4. Attraction triggers

Lets quickly discuss what creates the


attraction: why a woman feels attraction for one man,
and not for the others! There are variety of elements that
trigger the attraction.

6.4.1. Fun

Fun can override EVERYTHING! If you can get a


woman to feel good about herself while interacting with
you, nothing else matters. How you make her feel
determines whether she goes home with you or not;
whether she marries you or not; whether she becomes the
mother of your kids or not! Youve gotta be able to create
fun/joyful moments for her!

Think about an attractive woman in her late 20s. (5%


of them dont have an easy life! Most women have to work
hard just to keep up.

Its a bit sad but believe it or not, the majority of


women are lonely and bored with their life. On top of that
women dont have the freedom that us guys do! The clock

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is ticking for them! Most women are looking for a man to


either settle with or have a good time and party!

It may not look like its this simple, but if you are
fun; if you can get her away from her reality for a few
hours (even for half an hour); if you can get her to come
out of her everyday bubble: she will feel the attraction for
you, no matter how old or unattractive you are.

Create experiences for her! Make her feel good!


Things shes never felt before! Its not hard at all! Be
different! I take women for a walk on a bridge and we
watch the sunset together! Does it sound too romantic?
Well, women love it. It never fails!

Get her to dream! Get her to fantasize about an


amazing life she secretly wants to have! Check the rapport
building questions! Create your own and dont hold back!

The opposite is true as well! Complaining, bitching


or whining, destroys the attraction with the speed of light!

So avoid complaining! Avoid bitchin about life,


your work or things you dont like about your life!
Remember: she has enough problems in her life already:
she doesnt need anymore! So never complain!

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If you hate rain and its raining, just say God I


LOVE when it rains. I dont mean in a sarcastic way!
Think about it: Nothing good ever comes out of
complaining! Replace it with something that creates a
good vibe!

6.4.2. Care free

Be blunt. Ask questions like kids do! Dont worry


about what she thinks of you! Laugh! Dont suppress how
you feel! As long as you dont bring her energy down,
youre good to go!

Look at kids! They are care free and they dont give a
shit what anyone thinks about them, and guess what! That
creates attraction! Women LOVE to see a carefree guy
who doesnt filter his emotions! So dont filter your
positive emotions: express them!

Tell her about your dreams and be passionate when


you talk about it! Assume the best is gonna happen.
Assume she already likes you! Yes, assume the attraction!

Tell her how you messed things up in your previous


relationship and its ok because you learned and youre
happy you learned things and played a hand. Show your
vulnerabilities and be happy about it! Let her see, let her

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know that you are ok being a man who has feelings. Most
men are dead inside! Its a turn off!

Take it easy, shes not a special snowflake no matter


how hot she is! Think about Madonna, Angelina Jolie,
Jennifer Aniston or any hot woman you wanna bed (or
date).

You know what they all have in common? Once or


twice a day, they all go to the toilet and dump brownish
colored poop from their bottoms. They all have
uncertainties and they wonder about their lives and whats
coming their way. They worry about things too! They all
crave more certainty in their life. They all have
insecurities. Almost always about money or health!

Everyone is wearing a mask (especially on a first


date) and when you think about it, you realize: were all
like kids whove learned how to not be care free. Rewind,
be care free like a fuckin kid.

Sometimes when Im talking to a girl, I can see it in


her eyes that shes wondering, Is this guy really that
simple? Maybe hes retarded for talking to me this
bluntly! I want her to feel that way because being care
free triggers brutal honesty and enormous attraction!

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Ill show you more in the videos of this section. Make


sure you watch them!

6.4.3. Social Dominance

Study after study has demonstrated the erotic appeal


of male dominance. Women prefer the voices of dominant
men, the movement and gait of dominant men, and the
facial features of dominant men

This is also the case according to Ogi Ogas best


selling book: A Billion Wicked Thoughts.

The men who achieve the greatest rank among their


peers may then display that dominance as a powerful
advantage in attracting women for sex.

With social dominance, you can playfully lead and


run the show!

What is social dominance? Are you socially


dominant? Here is how you can tell:

When youre out, do you let others (or her) cut you
off when you talk; laugh at you; break the way youre
leading the interaction and turn you into just a listener

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without it being your choice? When you walk, do they


follow you, or do you follow them?

She will test to see if youre really dominant or not! A


real dominant man holds the eye contact and smiles. He
speaks slowly, never runs out of things to say and he has
boss tonality. He is kind, has conviction and doesnt doubt
himself! He doesnt laugh at his own jokes and he is at the
top of the group hierarchy. He doesnt follow. He is not
needy and he has social value! There is direct correlation
between dominance, confidence and leadership!

6.4.4. Drive and purpose

Women are strongly attracted to guys who have a


purpose and know where theyre going! Do you have a life
plan? Where are you going? Are you just wandering
around, waiting for something good to happen and change
your life? Or are you passionately working on something
you love!

It doesnt matter what it is: you could be so engaged


and passionately involved in an accounting book youre
writing; you can be deeply connected to something you
believe is gonna change the world! It really doesnt
matter what it is!

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Whatever it is, you got to have a purpose and be on


that path, you check this box!

How expressively can you share it with the world?


Do you know how to talk about your biggest passion?

Talk about it and let her see and feel that youre not
just a nobody! You have a purpose, you have a goal and
you are moving towards it!

If you dont have a purpose or you dont know what it


is that you need to go for, here is a way you can figure this
out:

Its something you love doing, it helps other people


and it makes you money! For me its always been coaching!
I have 2 postgrad engineering degrees, but it wasnt
fulfilling! That wasnt rewarding enough for me! So I
switched to coaching! Its a killer for me! Love it to death!
Find yours!

6.4.5. Confidence

Confidence is one of that main pillars of attraction!


Insecure men with low self-esteem never get attractive

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women and if they accidentally get one, theyll lose her


fast!

Confidence is so key to your success that I wrote a


separate chapter specifically for it. Make sure you read that
and also watch the complimentary videos that come with
this!

6.4.6. Presence

When youre there, BE THERE! That interaction is


everything! There is nothing more important than doing
what youre doing right now! Look at everything as if you
were seeing it for the first and last time. Stop thinking
about what to do next, what could happen, what happened
yesterday or what you should do tomorrow!

When youre present, you automatically become a


good listener. Youll ask good questions and shell sense a
connection between herself and you! So pay good attention
to her! Laser focus on her pupils when she talks and pay
attention to her gestures! Recognize the tone of her voice!
Heres a big ass claim: If you are fully present, youll never
run out of things to say! You only run out of things to say
when you go in your head and think about anything but
now.

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6.4.7. Adaptability and social


intelligence

Im talking about your ability to vibe with her, read


her and get on her frequency. Men with higher IQ have
better adaptability. The better you can read her and vibe
on her frequency, the more she senses the attraction for
you!

Here are some examples: Some guys can only talk


about their job.

An engineer who only talk about computers

A doctor who only talks about his patients

A gym trainer who just talks about


supplements

An artist who only talks about music or his


paintings

Look, these are all good conversational threads,


however; youve gotta be able to mix it up. Be the clever
person who is good at many different things and can have
great conversations! Leonardo da Vinci was a painter,
engineer and a mathematician! Imagine how much he

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could talk about! Imagine the women he fucked because of


his diverse mind!

Here are some proven topics women like to talk


about:

1. Relationships and dating

2. Fashion

3. What you have a lot of passion for <-- Read


Drive and Purpose section above

4. Cooking

5. Travelling

6. Pets

7. Movies

8. Sex and the city TV show

9. Spirituality (most women)

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6.4.8. Frame control

Make sure you read the fundamentals section to


understand this well.

There are a few ways to describe this frame idea.


The easiest way to understand frames is through examples.
Here are some different frames:

Father and daughter

Car salesman and customer

Teacher and student

Husband and wife

When you set the frame of your interaction in a way


where you are the leader, youre gonna have to hold on to
it! A woman experiences you by reacting to you. By you
holding on to your dominant frame, you give her a chance
to feel you!

The more she reacts to you, the more she gets an idea
of who you are. You set the frame of the interaction and
you hold on to it. You dont need her permission. Lead,
physically and verbally!

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For a nice presentation of this concept, please watch


the complimentary videos that come with the program.

6.4.9. Emotional expressiveness

Most men have a hard time expressing how they feel.


It appears as theyre all dead inside! I used to be like that!
They dont know how to openly speak about things.
Women LOVE it when they meet a guy who can emote!

Your ability to express how you feel is a powerful tool


you can use and build attraction with!

I almost always riff on love. How I love love and I


think its an amazing adventure. Yeah yeah, I know I
know, its not that manly of a topic but women love it and
when they see that you can emote: they feel the attraction!

So when you talk, show emotions. Dont let her think


youre dead inside.

Some men try to be non-reactive, instead they end


up looking like a social robot.

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6.4.10. Authority

I nicely get what I want when I want and I am not


sorry about it!

Do you give yourself the permission to do and say


what YOU think is the right thing to do? Or do you
constantly ask for her permission in order to do what you
want? You run the show the way you want it; you dont fall
for her frame! She adapts to your rhythm, not the other
way around!

6.4.11. Conviction and decisiveness

Have zero self doubt in action or personality trait! Be


full hearted! Conviction and decisiveness is a must when
you are interacting with a woman you like! There is
nothing as unattractive as a guy who cant decide what to
do!

So dont ask for permission. She wants you to make


the calls and be 100% sure of yourself!

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6.4.12. Outcome detachment/ willingness


to walk away

If she senses youre gonna stay around no matter


what, and youre gonna put up with all her drama, that
instantly gives your power away to her! Youve gotta
always remind yourself that attraction is a value based
process!

This attitude is a winner: Its great that youre here,


but if you wanna go, its cool, no worries! Either way, fun is
gonna be here! With or without you!

Outcome detachment and willingness to walk is one


of the very few cards women have by default. Let me
explain this in another way:

Remember when I told you about how attraction is


static for us guys but for women its more dynamic like a
volume knob? Thats very much related to willingness to
walk!

See, when you first see a woman you desire, the one
that drops you jaw; you instinctively want to bed her:
decision made!

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And that makes perfect sense! Thats how most of us


men are like. The thing is, women are the same, if she
senses the attraction, then she will have to mate with you!

BUT the problem here is men feel the attraction


much faster that women do! Almost every time you fail
successfully bedding her, its because of your inability to
create attraction + the lack of the willingness to walk away!

I want you to do the hard thing! Show her


youre willing to walk away even if youre not! You
with me so far? Its against your nature: thats why its
ridiculously powerful when you manage to do it!

99% of men are very much attached to the outcome


of the interaction! They wanna get something out of her as
soon as they see her! Either sex, company or something
else. There is nothing wrong with that, but that puts you in
a weaker position because youre the one who needs
something!

Youve gotta have the willingness to walk without


having any emotions attached, no matter how much you
like her. At least for now, until you become closer to her
and haveing sex multiple times! Once shes in your orbit
and youre continuously have sex shell be hooked and she

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wont be willing to walk away anymore because now shes


invested in a relationship with you!

6.4.13. Humor

Humor is power! Women are attracted to funny


guys! Not clown funny; but smart funny! If you can get her
to laugh, if you can come up with funny comments when
youre interacting with her, you can build attraction fast!

This is one powerful, funny formula:

Give her a complement, followed by an unexpected


comment!

Let me give you a few examples:

Example 1:

You: You have a beautiful nose. Its good for a face

Her: Thanks?

You: Its also good for 2 faces.

Example 2:

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You: I LOVEEEEE your hair

Her: Really?

You: No

OR

You: Yes of course. Its the rest of you I am not sure


about!

Make sure you make these jokes playfully at the right


time of the interaction, when shes contributing too!

6.4.14. Entitlement

This is kinda another way to describe authority! You


ARE entitled! You are not sorry! Your confidence is not
situational either! You get what you want because you
dont doubt yourself! You are not invading! Shes not
important! You are!

You dont need to fall for societys bullshit


conditioning! 99% of guys get paralyzed by this!

If you wanna approach, then do it! Always


remember:

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You are not invading!

6.4.15. Open tension loops

One of the most powerful marketing strategies that


makes billions of dollars every year, is to keep the prospect
interested by opening loops and not closing them! The
equivalent of that in seduction is what I call tension
loops! Create tension and dont resolve it! For example:

If youre in your early 20s:

I am not too crazy about your shoes, theyre kinda


weird looking! Whatever, have you seen Woody Allens
new movie? Its so cool, its about a guy.

If youre 30+:

You know, I really, like the way you see the world,
but to be 100% honest, its a deal breaker for me! We see
things totally differently! Let me tell you what I mean! Ah
before I tell you. have you seen Woody Allens new
movie? Its so cool, its about a guy.

Keep opening loops and dont close them. Stack


them on top of each other! The point here is to not give her
what she wants straight away! Is this manipulative?

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Weve been over it several times ;) Until you bed her,


youre in an intimate flirtatious war with her and these
techniques are your weapons. If you dont use these, she
wont feel the attraction! Remember: on the surface level,
us human beings are emotional driven machines! We
make decisions emotionally and justify them logically! Use
that in your favor when building attraction!

6.4.16. Status, social proof and pre-


selection

Ive tried this hundreds of times! When I walk into a


bar or yoga class alone, stepped out, and then walk back in
with an attractive woman, the difference is ridiculous!

Yes, human beings are cover judgers! Women are


attracted to men who are pre-selected! It makes sense too!

When you are with a woman, it means: you are


trusted by women. There should be some value to you
since other women are around you. Youre also more of a
challenge and a mystery because 1: You might be taken and
2: Why is another woman interested in you?

Increase the size of your social circle! Make female


friends and go out with them! Be seen with women!

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Make 5 new female friends and dont get sexual with


them.

Just be friends and tell them you dont really want


anything but friendship! Its amazing how it affects your
dating life! If nothing else, you can network through them!
Theyll introduce you to their other friends!

7. Conversation martial arts:

All right, lets get into some techniques you can use
and trigger the attraction! The How-To part.

When you learn these techniques, you also learn how


to never run out of things to say and how to have
stimulating conversations by using powerful techniques
which penetrate her shields 1 by 1 and lead the
interaction to where you wanna take it: Between her legs,
inside her heart and on her mind!

Your conversation (interaction) should be a


combination of predictable, sexual, outrages, rapport
building and rapport breaking comments, statements and
questions. Using these techniques, youll be creating and
releasing tension which builds attraction fast!

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Think about your interaction like the graph below.


You see, making calibrated sexual comments or questions
creates a spark in the interaction while breaking rapport
creates negative down sparks. Both are crucial for a
stimulating conversation and building attraction! Take a
moment and check this out:

7.1. Conversation toolbox

If having sex with her is like painting, then these


techniques are your brush and colors. Without them, its
almost impossible to get her attracted, build trust, create
comfort or seduce her!

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So here I am gonna introduce you to your powerful


seduction weapons! This is the How-To part! The tools
youre gonna use to build attraction, trust and comfort!

Techniques used by worlds most famous seducers


like Casanova!

Please note that in order for these to be effective,


youve gotta work on the delivery! Its absolutely
crucial to deliver these phrases properly! You have
to be genuine and believable! For a better understanding
of these, please watch the related videos!

7.2. Disqualification

The BEAST of all beasts! Lack of this single


technique in your interactions can give you a dry spell for
the rest of your life! So learn it, master it and use it wisely!

Build attraction by using the power of saying NO!


Arent you tired of chasing women and getting rejected left,
right and center? Dont you wanna be chased instead and
being the one who makes the calls? Then disqualify like a
boss!

This can make or break the conversation with the girl


of your dreams!

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First things first: There are several reasons you need


to master the art of disqualification!

1. You stand out from every other guy! If you


wanna land 9s and 10s, youve gotta be
different! Perfect 10s only get with
different!

2. Youll create instant curiosity! Curiosity is


one of the main pillars of attraction! Its the
flavor of any interaction.

3. You do what she doesnt expect you to do!


Remember: Predictability is the enemy! If you
keep saying things she expects you to say,
youll bore her and shell leave eventually!

4. You become a challenge for her! This one is a


KILLER! Women are addicted to getting your
approval! Once you avoid approving her, shell
follow you up mountains just for you to give it
to her!

5. You build noticeable comfort! Shell be


disarmed since she notices youre not willing to
have sex with her!

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Wealth creates high value! People want what they


cant have! Why do most people LOVE a red, bad ass
Ferrari? Because they cant afford it! Its hard to get! They
cant just go ahead and buy one! So when you see it on the
street, your eyes get locked!

Attraction is exactly the same. Hard to get has


value! Hard to get, wins!

Notes:

Disqualification should be done playfully and


never too seriously!

You dont disqualify to get a reaction! You do it


because youre willing to walk away!

You disqualify yourself for her, and her to you!

Before I show you how to disqualify properly, let me


tell you about a common mistake most men make.

See, the biggest enemy of getting 9s and 10s is being


a stereotype: telling her what she expects you to say!
Being predictable like every other guy!

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So, instead of being like every other guy who tries to


sell himself and get her approval, you genuinely disqualify
yourself as a potential lover!

As long as you make sense, you can literally say


anything you want!

Some common examples are:

Jenny, you are a wonderful woman but honestly Id


never date a woman like you.

I usually like women your type, but you and I will


never work.

You know what? I cant talk to you right now! (Say it


playfully turn your head and pretend youre walking
away).

I think youre absolutely gorgeous, but I dont date


Australians.

And when she asks you: Why? You give her a reason!
Yes! Just a reason!

Youre too nice.

Well because were too similar.

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Because we are so different you and I.

Because you are not my type exactly.

Remember to be playful!

Now 1 common question is: When should I


disqualify? Early in the conversation? In the middle? At
the end? Where?

The thing is, this is VERY dynamic! Generally, its


good to do it as fast as you can. The sooner you do it; the
sooner youll disarm her! Remember FTC in the previous
chapter?

Sometimes the first thing you tell her is a


disqualifier! You can see me in the video section walk up to
a woman and straight up tell her:

If I wasnt gay, Id totally hit on you! Hi I am Ben,


who are you?

You see, by doing this Im telling her, Im not here


to hit on you, Im here to meet you just as a friend!

Or sometimes in bar where there is a group of


unapproachable women standing there, I just walk and
say:

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OMG! Just tell me youre gay friendly!

I am not good for you!

That instantly disarms them!

I cant stress enough how important the tone of your


voice is when you disqualify! Use the right tonality by
using what you learn in voice tonality section!

So, by disqualifying her (or yourself), she (or they)


drops her defenses because she sees youre not hitting on
her like every other guy! And dont you for 1 second worry
about Oh how am I gonna tell her I am not gay! That
part is easy. Later in the interaction when you make
friends with her and you gain some trust, you can just say:

You know I have actually been with women before


and I kinda like you too. I had to make sure you were
cool enough and not just like every other woman trying to
take advantage of my situation. Now that I see youre cool
and friendly, I can be comfortable with you and I think I
trust you a bit. You see the conditions I put there?

Disqualification is your most powerful weapon! 99%


of time with 9s and 10s, youve gotta disqualify before she
even starts talking to you!

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Of course dont do it too hard! If you say things like:

Hey I am married and have 3 kids and I fuckin hate


you bitch now fuck off.

It would be hard to come back from that!

Next, remember: The emotions behind your words


and the level of your conviction gives your words their
power! If you dont do this playfully, youll end up
sounding like a dick!

One more thing here, most men are afraid to


disqualify! They wonder: What if I tell her shes not my
type and she walks away?

She wont! You see in the next section that you mix
this with a pull and use push n pull rocket to glue her!

This is the smartest way to get closer to her and pass


her shields. You are a good guy and you are not
going to take advantage of her! She needs to see that
youre different!

Here are a few more funny playful disqualifiers:

Im way out of your league

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I dont see a future with us

You: I would never go out with you and I have


good reasons!
Her: Why not?
You: Youre one of those girls who never
washes the dishes.
Or
You: Youre too innocent!
Or
You: Youre too nice!

If I wasnt gay, Id totally hit on you! (Use as


opener)

I am not too crazy about the blonde (say this if


shes blond)

I am not too crazy about brunets (say this if


shes brunets)

You: You and I would never get a long!


Her: And why is that?
You: Look at you! Youre prettybut look at
meperfection! This works well if youre a
relatively unattractive guy!

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There is A LOT to disqualification! I strongly


recommend that you watch the complimentary videos of
the program in order to see real life examples!

7.2.1. What happens when you


disqualify?

Now, when you disqualify, depending on how well


you do it, one of these 4 things could happen:

1. She tries to prove you wrong:


This is the most common reaction!

Example:

You: You and I would never work!


Her: Why is that?
You: Youre one of those needy girls! Youll
text terrorize me!
Her: No I wont I am not needy. She
qualifies herself to you!
You: Really? Thats awesome. Can I trust you?
****Can I trust you is another qualifier. Most
women fall for it and say of course. Each time
she qualifies herself to you, you make progress

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in creating attraction!

2. Shell believe you and give up on you:


This happens if you disqualify too hard or if
shes insecure! So when this happens, you help
her qualify herself:

You: You and I would never work!


Her: Oh really? (She genuinely gets sad and
looks down) Help her get back by distracting
her:
You: Yeah, I think were very different, but
tell me this: Where would you go if you could
go anywhere on the globe? Europe? Asia?
South America?..
Her: Europe.
You: Let me tell you something; I LOVE
Europe! What I love most about it, is the fact
that its close to everything, people are nicer
bla bla. Who knows maybe one day we go
there together as friends. (Keep talking and
build rapport. Let her know its great that you 2
have that in common)

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3. When she calls you on it!


This means shes either a player and shes been
around, or your delivery sucked and she
noticed youre running game on her.

If this happens and she completely ignores


your comment, you dont push it. Instead,
change the subject without making a big deal
out of it and disqualify again when there is
more attraction!

Example:

You: You and I would never work!


Her: Ok whatever!
You: Hey! What was the name of that Thai
restaurant in Balina? (Change the subject fast)

Look I want you read the examples above and come


up with your own examples. If you observe, you can always
notice deal breaker characteristics and use them!

I want you to pay attention while youre talking to


her and listen to her very carefully. You can use anything
to disqualify her! Even nationality!

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In this example I use Germans as an example. No


offence to you if youre German. This is just an example

Oh! I dont date Germans! Most Germans Ive met


are not passionate about anything! My ex was German!
Wonderful woman, beautiful too! But she was dead
inside.

Disqualification alone takes you halfway to the


bedroom! I want you to take your time and come up with
you own disqualifiers.

A good way to practice this is to watch a scene from a


movie (or an interview) where an attractive woman is
talking! Look for qualities in her you can use and
disqualify her.

And before we move away from disqualification, I


wanna put one more thing out there!

Look, the fact is, when you rich to a point that you
realize you have options and you can actually choose who
you hang out with, you genuinely have to start
filtering! Getting rid of those you dont truly want!

Not everyone has what it takes to be what you want!


There are women who cant match with you!

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You can use the real power of disqualification and


filter women who are not your type!

THIS IS THE REAL FLIRTATION! THIS IS WHAT


MAKES HER HOT FOR YOU! YOU CANT SKIP THIS
AND GET INTO SEXUAL FLIRTATION! YOU HAVE GOT
TO FIND THE SWEET SPOT AND GET HER TO REACT
TO YOUR DISQUALIFERS!

7.3. Qualification

The next tool that takes you to the promise land is


the qualification! I could write thousands of pages on it
and honestly, if I didnt know how to qualify, Id probably
still be a virgin jerkin off to Silvia Saint!

Qualification is the other side of disqualification and


works in parallel to it! Give me your full attention so we
can nail this one!

This is one of the oldest persuasion tricks invented


by mankind! Qualification is another attribute that
determines if you and her will ever get together or not!

It happens in one of these 2 directions:

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When you qualify yourself to her

When you tell her about a quality, positive


characteristic or one of your accomplishments in order to
gain her approval!

You should never, ever qualify yourself to someone


you wanna have sex with (unless its a very special scenario
and its absolutely necessary)!

If you are cool, fun, successful, easy going, and


socially savvy, she will sense it herself. There is no need for
you to brag!

Most men (common in 40+ guys) try hard to impress


women!

This is the opposite of what you should do! This is


the number 1 biggest mistake men make with women they
find attractive! This must be seriously avoided.

You trying to prove yourself to a woman you just met


(qualifying yourself), is the biggest turn off for her!

Let me give you a few examples. Before knowing


much about her, telling her these:

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I am a successful lawyer. Heres my card, call


me sometimes.

Can I buy you a drink? You are so stunning.

Let me pay for that. You dont have to!

I am romantic, adventures, fun, out going, love


the gym, love nature, enjoy the beach (and then
looking at her seeing her reaction).

I have a 15-inch dick, wanna see it?

To an attractive woman, that means nothing! All that


is just noise noise noise!

She has heard that thousands of times before by guys


much more bad ass than you and I! Especially if shes
attractive!

If you do that, to her youre just a boy trapped in a


mans body! You scream: I never get women like you,
please pick me!.

What happens next? Youll be the next provider guy


and shell never fuck you! Ever!

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So: Never ever qualify yourself to a woman you


wanna have sex with! It will KILL the attraction fast! It
only attracts the gold diggers!

Most of the time when women ask me what I do, I


say things like I am a hacker or I am a thief, I steal
candy and bubble gum or I am a pirate. If youre an ugly
dude, you can say I am a super model.

The point here is: by not responding to her seriously,


you show her that you dont really care what she thinks of
you! That triggers attraction. You dont care if she likes you
or not!

Women have found this weak point in guys! If she


sees you care about what she thinks of you, then shes
gonna play with you and get you to keep qualifying
yourself to her! Thats her fun to see you try! DONT GIVE
YOUR POWER AWAY!

7.3.1. When she qualifies herself to


you

This is one of the goals of your interaction with


women you like! The more she qualifies herself to you, the
better results youll get, and the faster youll bed her.

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By her qualifying herself to you, shes starts chasing


you! What she is doing basically is proving herself to you!

So every time you hear a woman telling you about


her achievements and how good of a person she is, how
good of a kisser she is, whenever you find her trying to
impress you, recognize that ITS WORKING AND
YOURE DOING SOMETHING RIGHT!

You have made progress in that interaction and if


you keep doing what youre doing and lightly use the
rapport builders I give you in the next chapters, you WILL
close.

I want you to install qualification detectors in your


head and dont miss it when she qualifies herself to you
because its a green light! Now the question is:

7.3.2. How to get her to qualify


herself to you

This is where you can have some serious fun with


women! Basically you help her qualify herself to you by
asking qualifier questions. Qualifier questions are
simple and under the radar! Here are a few examples:

Are you friendly?

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Do you consider yourself a spontaneous


woman?

Can I trust you?

Youre not needy, are you?

Why should I like you?

By asking her personal questions about her, she will


start qualifying herself to you and by doing that she starts
seeking your approval.

This is where the table turns and you, instead of


being the one who tries to sell himself, become the non-
needy side of the interaction! The one who has the higher
value. The guy who has standards and doesnt settle for
just anything that comes his way!

An Important Note:

These qualifier questions must be asked genuinely


and with tons of conviction. The delivery is extremely
important! You cant fake these! I strongly recommend
that you watch the complimentary videos of the program
to see these live in action!

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7.3.3. Force qualifiers

Sometimes you dont even need her to qualify


herself! You do it for her! Basically what youll be doing is
forcing her to be who you want her to be! Here are some
examples:

You look friendly! I like that!

You know what I like about you? Youre open-


minded.

Look! Its super rare that someone says: No I am not


friendly!

You basically qualify her on any qualities you want


her to have.

7.3.4. How to build qualifier


questions?

Easy! You just think about qualities you want in her!


For example, if youre talking to her in a bar and you are
not sure how to change her mind to take her home, you
start qualifying her on 3 qualities she needs to have in
order to go home with you!

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1. On being spontaneous

2. On being open-minded

3. On being adventurous

So you can simply ask her:

Hey can I ask you something? Do you consider


yourself as a spontaneous person?

99% of women say yes to that. Women enjoy having


certain qualities! Spontaneity is one of them!

And once she said yes, then you change the subjects
and continue with your normal conversation.

A few minutes later, youll get her to qualify herself


on being adventures or open minded!

Remember! You can almost always get her to qualify


herself on any characteristics or qualities you want to see
in her!

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7.3.5. Sexual qualification

There are different types of qualification! One that


youve gotta master (and is absolutely crucial to learn), is
sexual qualification!

If you wanna have sex with a woman, youre gonna


have to sexually qualify her first! If you dont, youll have to
spend hours and hours beating around the bush, pushing
hard, hoping it will happen!

Sexual qualification makes interactions with women


fun and full of emotions. Once you master sexual
qualification, bedding her becomes 10x easier!

Its best to throw light sexual qualifiers in after


youve established some level of rapport! The better you
can read her, the better qualifiers youll be able to come up
with!

One reason of these qualifiers is to put ideas in her


head and let her subconscious work on it as you guys
interact!

Here are some great sexual qualifiers that work:

Lights on or off?

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Are you a good kisser? (Light sexual qualifier)

This does few things:

- First of all, you paint a picture in her mind!


You and her kissing. Yes, women think like
that! You give her a vision of what could
happen between the two of you!

- Secondly, you can gauge and see where she


is emotionally! If shes not shocked and only
feels a little shy, then it means you can
escalate! If she gets shocked and reacts
negatively, then you can easily back off!

Examples:

You: Hey! Can I ask you something?


Her: Yes.
You: Are you a good kisser?

Possible reactions:

#1
Her: I dont know
You: Oh no(make sure you pause). Youre

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not good. (Say it playfully as youre teasing


her). I knew it!

#2
Her: Of course I am
You: How do you know? Have you kissed
yourself before? Jeez, some people! Are you a
princess as well? You know what? I hate you!
No, I love you! (Say it playfully as youre
teasing her)

#3
Her: Its too personal
You: Ah its ok? I guess its a culture difference
thing (I use this since I am international you
find your own reason). Hey tell me about the
restaurant you were talking about. (Change
the subject fast)

These are a bit more aggressive ones. Once you


get a positive response from a Kiss qualifier,
you can escalate using these below:

Where else do you wanna be kissed


beside your lips?
When you say this one, look at the side of her

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neck for a coupe seconds, then look at her lips,


then her eyes! By doing that you give her an
ideas of whats going on!

Whats good sex to you?


If she complies but shes not sure how to
answer, shell say:

What do you mean?

In that case, you make it easier for her:

I mean how do you like it? Passionate with


someone you love? One-night stand? Angry
intimacy with your ex? In a sweaty bed? Lots
of foreplayI dunno you tell me!

Say this one VERY slowly:

Youre shy, arent you?

Whatever she replies, cut her: Ssshhh

This means: Youre either a terrible lover you

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know? Bad in intimacy non passionate &


boring! Or youre a great one! (Pause Pause
Pause) . You dont have to tell me which one
you are. your eyes are already telling me!
Lights on or off?

Be creative and make your own qualifiers. I


recommend that you watch the complimentary videos of
the program in order to make these as clear as possible!

Video 4: Rhythm breakers, pattern interrupts

Rhythm breakers are sneaky but ethical tools that


create attraction FAST! You can use them at any stage of
your interaction, however; they are most useful for
building the attraction.

Take a look at this model:

Attraction-> Rapport ->Seduction

Let me show you how to use them! The formula is


pretty simple!

You get her to talk about something, as soon as she


gets into it and wants to tell you more, you interrupt her
with another question or (a slightly sexual comment)!

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Let me give you an example:

You: So, youre really Canadian? You dont sound


like it!

Her: Yes; I am actually. My family moved to Toronto


when I was.

You: Wait! (Pause for 3 seconds, stare in her eye,


make a curious face) What color are your eyes? (Say it as
you stare in her eyes).

Her: Brown?

You: Ummm... interesting. Ok Continue! Your


family?

This is a good pattern interrupt! It creates sparks


and you basically telegraph to her a few characteristics she
finds attractive.

1. Youre the authority. If you wanna interrupt


her, you do it!

2. You can lead! Youre not scared of what could


go wrong and youre not afraid of breaking her
pattern! Women fall for leaders hard!

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3. You stand out! Most men cant do this! They


worry about coming off as rude! You instantly
stand out! You dont kiss ass!

4. Youre confident and dominant.

5. Youre present! Youre in the moment! You


can observe and pay attention to little things
most men cant!

I highly recommend that you watch the


complimentary videos of the program in order to see this
in action!

7.4. Push and pull the nuclear bomb of


attraction

Please make sure you have read and understood


qualification and disqualification. If you havent, please go
back and read those before you get into this!

Push and pull is beyond anything else youll ever


learn in the seduction/persuasion department! Its a life
style! Its the nuclear bomb of attraction! Its
manipulative, sneaky and limitless! You can take it as far
as your creativity allows you to! 1 step backwards, 2 steps
forward.

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Create attraction by sending multiple mixed signals!

This is huge when it comes to seducing women. The


type of women you want gets approached by men all the
time! She has a very short attention span! You cant afford
to bore her or tell her the same things shes heard a million
times before! Push and pull gives you the power to excite
and keep her interested in talking only to you and no other
guy!

7.4.1. The formula

Qualify her (conditional complement) + disqualify


yourself:

I gotta tell you something! I can see you have


put effort into your style, the whole dress,
shoes and necklace. I think it almost works
perfectly for you. Punch word: perfectly.

You look beautiful! But honestly, I am not too


crazy about your hair.

You know what? Youre actually a really cool


girl! I know the perfect guy for you! Ill hook
you up! And honestly, you gotta be happy,

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because between us, he can do better but were


not gonna tell him that!

OMG this is SO weird! I LOVE your dress.


Youre the 3rd girl Ive seen tonight wearing the
same outfit!

You: Jane, promise me we will never get


sexual you and I, ok?
Her: Ok sure.

Then pinky promise, hug her and as you hug


her playfully tell her: God you smell so good, I
hate you, then softly push her away and say:
Oh right, tell me about your biggest dream.

By doing this you send multiple mixed signals! Push


her, then pull her, then push and pull her again! Sending
mixed signals is ridiculously powerful!

7.5. The ignore dynamite

This one is a dynamite! Look! Tattoo this on your


arm: YOU DONT NEED TO ANSWER ALL HER
QUESTIONS! It is EXTREMLY important that you bring
this to your game! I dont want you to be a dick, but at the
same time remember: You dont have to answer all her

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questions! So when she asks you a question, there are 2


effective things you can do:

1. Simply ignore the questions

2. Answer her by asking an unrelated question.


Example:
Her: So, you just say whatever comes to your
mind?
You: Have you been to New York before? You
know you fit in there!

8. Rapport

With rapport, comes comfort and trust, 2 crucial


prerequisites of seduction!

If there is no rapport, there is no trust! If there is no


trust, there is no comfort and without comfort, there is no
sex! At that stage, physical and verbal escalation as well as
getting her to comply to you becomes extremely difficult
(or impossible)!

Remember we discussed: Attract, once shes


attracted, then there is an opportunity to build comfort
and trust and when there is trust, you can escalate to
seduction mode.

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Here in this section Im gonna talk to you about


rapport building and how you can escalate to seduction
after there is rapport.

Rapport is when there is trust and mutual


understanding in an effortless interaction.

A lot of the time, the challenge comes in the form of


"I don't even know you" objections. This can be solved
with time and rapport building.

Take the time and allow her to 'get to know you' by


building TRUST and COMFORT. Think about it! She
wouldnt be talking to you if she wasnt already
ATTRACTED.

See if shes standing there, or sitting next to you, it


means shes decided to stay while she could get up and
leave! Either there is attraction, or she is curious!

When there is rapport your conversation will bounce


around and you will be receptive to each other. You
establish trust and general acceptance of suggestions.

Look at 2 friends talking, your close cousin or best


friend. When you talk its effortless. The conversation just
flows. There is trust and there are usually no filters.

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Now think about 2 businessmen negotiating on a


deal! There is very little trust! You see the difference?

By default, there is no rapport when you meet


someone! Every single time YOU have to build it! The good
news: Its easy!

8.1. How to measure rapport

First you gotta measure the rapport in order to build


more! You can measure it by 3 factors:

Body Language (Physiology (80%))

Tonality (10%)

Words (10%)

When there is no rapport, she looks uncomfortable!


Some classic signs are:

1. She crosses her arms

2. She avoids eye contact

3. She keeps checking her phone

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4. She doesnt smile

5. She wont face you

6. She looks uncomfortable

7. The tone of her voice is cold and uninterested

8. She acts shy

Of course, if there is rapport, all the above just get


reversed.

1. She sits, or stands comfortably facing you

2. She keeps the eye contact

3. She keeps talking about what she likes

4. She ignores her phone or whats going on in


the room

5. She looks like she wants to stay

6. She contributes to conversation. Shes is


curious about you

7. She smiles and laughs at your jokes

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8. Shes at ease

9. The tone of her voice is warm and interested

8.2. What to do when there is no rapport?

Think about it! The reason there is no rapport is


simply because she doesnt know you well enough to trust
you! You and I dont trust someone we dont know well!
Shes not comfortable and there is good chance she doesnt
trust you (just yet)!

To build rapport, you need to give her bigger samples


of your personality and let her experience you!

8.3. Rapport manipulation

Rapport can be manipulated easily! So if there is


no rapport, its fine! You dont need to force her to trust
you! Instead, start by mirroring her while youre making
small talk! Mirror her body language, her tonality and
eventually her words!

There are specific rapport building questions you can


use which well go through in a moment but first, lets talk
about her body!

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If she crosses her arms, then do the same! Cross your


arms. If the tone of her voice is boring and cold, you do the
same. Speak with boring and cold tonality! If she doesnt
smile, you stop smiling as well! Mirror her completely!

1. Mirror her body posture. How is she sitting?


Sit the same. What is she doing with her arms?
You do the same!

2. Is she an eye looker? Yes? The you do the


same!

3. Blink with the same frequency as her.

4. Speak with the same speed and volume as


she does!

8.4. Rapport through your words!

This is a powerful way to build rapport! As I


mentioned before, a lack of rapport (comfort and trust) is
usually caused by a lack of familiarity! Fortunately there
are a few powerful things you can do about this:

1. Ask her specific question about her and get her


to talk about her passion!

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2. Listen carefully when she talks and ask her


questions about things she gives you. Let her
do most of the work!

3. Make it a conversation. Tell her about what


you think about her passion and let her do
most of the work! If you dont do this, youll
enter the interview mode and soon enough she
gets bored! So make sure you contribute to the
conversation as well!

4. If you met online and you are meeting for the


first time, go all the way about her day. Ask her
about her day, what she did and how it was!

8.5. Examples of rapport building


conversational topics

1. What would you do if you knew you were


gonna succeed!

2. Whats your most favorite thing to do in the


whole world if you knew youre not gonna fail?

3. Where would you be if you could be anywhere


on the entire planet! Europe? The cold, snowy

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mountains in Switzerland? A hot beach in


Brazil? Swimming in the ocean in Australia?

4. Ask for her opinion (or help) about something


youd like to know! Women have powerful
nurturing characteristics they cant help!
Make sure you push that button as well!
Something like:

I really want a female opinion on something!


Do you mind if I ask you?

When you talk about these, make sure you show your
emotions! Let her experience you and see, that you are
genuinely talking to her about something you find
interesting as well!

8.6. Recognize her effort

Again, if you met online and its your first time


seeing each other, let her know that you understand how
she feels. This one needs an example:

Look, I just wanna say 1 thing and its super


important that I bring this up! What youre doing, is just
absolutely incredible! Coming out on a date with someone
you barely know and putting the effort into getting to know

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me, wow, really! Only if all women around had your


courage!

Once you show recognition for her effort, she feels


much more comfort! This is very ninja! Only a mature,
high value guy understands (and can do) this! Most men
are too much in their head thinking about how they feel!

8.7. What to do when there is enough


rapport?

If there is rapport and she is showing the signs that


she trusts you enough (see the signs of rapport above) and
if youre already confident that she is attracted to you (if
youre not sure, read the attraction section), then its time
to enter seduction mode! Seduction is the final
destination! You can read all about it in the seduction
section!

9. Seduction and sex

You can build attraction, create trust, build comfort


(rapport) and turn her on, but if youre not good at
seduction, you wont be able to have sex with her! So here
in this section Ill give you a few effective tips on how to

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turn her on, how to use seduction and finally, how you can
escalate the interaction to having sex.

So here are the stages one more time:

Attraction - > Rapport (trust, comfort) - > Seduction


- > Sex

9.1. Pre seduction techniques

9.1.1. Whisper

Whispering is great.

First of all, its an excuse to get physically closer to


her!

Second: Women like it and find it seductive when


you whisper something rather than just saying it out loud!

Third: You can create curiosity and excite her


omg, I gotta tell you something crazy (then whisper).

Forth: Now you and her, have a secret! You separate


the 2 of you from the crowd!

So just lower your volume, get a little closer to her


and say it in her ear! If you do it wrongly or un-calibrated,

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she just leans back and tells you Youre coming to close!
Which is fine, remember! Nothing is a big deal. Proceed
with the conversation!

9.1.2. The kiss test

This is a good test for 2 reasons: 1 You can tell if


shes ready to be kissed or not. 2 If you get positive
reaction, you can enter the seduction phase.

Once there is enough rapport, you can ask her


something about her earing (covered in getting physical
section further), as you look at the earing and slowly (not
like a creep) touch the earing.

Wow, your earrings is so


interesting/shiny/big/pretty Are they real/from here?

If you do it right at the right time of interaction when


there is some rapport, shell comply and be completely ok
with it!

If there is no rapport and shes not ready to get closer


to you, shell tell you to back off!

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I specifically added a video where I start the


conversation by talking and (touching) her earing so you
see if you have conviction in what you do, you can
do whatever you want! People just go with it!

9.1.3. Flirtease

Flirtease is not even a word! I call this flirtease


because its flirting and teasing at the same time. Its pretty
simple. Its when you get closer to her to do something else
(for example getting your glass of wine), but its indirectly
sexual towards her.

For example: Leave your drink a little further than


yourself and slightly closer to her. As you talk, lean to get
your drink and you enter her orbit (personal space); but
since youre just leaning in to get your drink, she wont
object!

You can use this to gauge and see how she feels. If
she moves away, it means you have more work to do. If she
doesnt move back when you get closer, it means shes ok
with you going for the kiss!

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9.2. How to turn her on, sexual triggers

Heres where you turn her on and systematically


persuade her to have sex with you!

9.2.1. Sexual comments

The reason for making these comments is to paint a


picture in her head before you actually get sexual with her!
Doing this increases your success rate dramatically!

She processes every word she hears! Use it in your


favor!

I love how you smell.

The things Id do to you.

Plus, sexual qualification in your bazooka! There is


no limit to it! It goes as far as your creativity allows you to!

9.2.2. Get physical

Below on sexual escalation ladder (on being physical


section) I show you several ways you can go for the touch
without getting rejected! Each of them will help you in a
specific situation!

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9.2.3. Take care of the ambiance

Always have nice candles at your place and look after


the sound! Buy some Buddha Bar music and set the
lighting as well.

9.2.4. Porn

Some women are into porn and others claim to hate


it. Test her! Talk to her about it. Use the qualification
techniques you learned before and see if shes complies or
not! When I see the timing is right and there is enough
rapport, I ask things like: You ever watch erotic movies?

They usually respond by saying: Do you mean porn?


You can reply: No I meant movies like 50 shades of grey!
Do you mean porn? Have you even been in one? Or do you
just watch? 90% say I just watch. This conversation turns
her on fast.

9.2.5. Talk about romantic memories

Talk to her about her past romantic experiences and


tell her about your previous love stories. How you and
this special woman (who is now married with 4 kids)

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used to hike up mountains together and kiss passionately


for hours in nature!

10. Sexual escalation Ladder

10.1. On being physical

If you have the tightest verbal game, but you dont


physically escalate, you wont bed her, PERIOD.

Proper touching builds rapport and comfort, turns


her on and is really the main element of seduction!

You should first socially touch her if you wanna have


sex with her! Smartly, calibrated and at the right place!
The fact is that human beings touch; its a great part of our
interactions. She accepts and enjoys it and its not a big
deal to her if it is not a big deal to you!

If you touch her properly as youre in the middle of a


stimulating conversation, you can turn her on really fast!
Note that touching (like many other things), is very
different for women!

Most guys think women dont like to be touched!


MYTH!

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Normal women enjoy touching a lot more than us


guys do. Ask any woman you like. Do you like cuddles?

They do and they also love the attention that comes


with it! What they dont like, is half drunk guys at the bar
squeezing them without considering their emotional state
or what she wants! They also dont like you to doubt
yourself when youre touching her!

Touching conveys confidence! Insecure guys excuse


themselves and dont make any physical contact!

10.1.1. Touch naturally with conviction

Touching should just, happen as its just a part of


the interaction! Its not something you planned in
advance. Its just like everything else in an interaction! Let
me make it super clear for you!

Think about a couple whove been together for a few


years. They touch each other without hesitating! Or you
shaking hands with your guy friend!

It should be exactly the same when youre interacting


with a woman youve just met! You dont go for the kiss
straight away but you can socially touch!

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You touch because you want to and you know


she wants it as well! Its accepted and you dont doubt
yourself when you do it!

I spoke to you about this before: no matter what you


do, if you do it half hearted, it just wont work! So do it full
hearted with conviction!

Watch the complimentary videos of the program in


order to see how I get physical with women Ive JUST met!

10.2. How to go for a touch

There are a few ways you can initiate the touch! Here
is a list of some of the ways I like to do it!

10.2.1. Tattoos

Always a great excuse to get physical. Ask her


something about her tattoos as you softly and slowly touch
it. Remember: while you touch her, keep talking or
ask her something about the tattoo!

This is nice, when did you get it?, or, where did
you get it from?

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10.2.2. Earrings

This is a bit more intimate! Do it very slowly as you


make a comment about the earrings this time! There is a
video in this one that I start the conversation with a
beautiful woman by giving a comment on her earrings.
Make sure you watch that so it makes sense.

10.2.3. Scars

Also, this is a great excuse for touching and it shows


empathy too. A few weeks ago me and my buddy were
sitting in the grass with 2 women we just met in a Sunday
night Brazilian bongo party. During the interaction I
noticed one of them has a light scar on her ankle all the up
to her knee! I said:

Omg, what happened there? Does it hurt?

As I said it, I slowly put my fingers on it and moved


them up from her ankle to her knee. She loved it! She told
me the story behind it and couldnt stop smiling!

Another point here: at first, make the touches under


3 seconds to test the waters! This way she doesnt get a
chance to reject it in case youve miscalibrated the
situation!

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If the emotion behind your words in strong enough,


she wont even notice you touching her. She just
subconsciously feels close and more intimate with you!

10.2.4. Rings on her finger

Another excellent excuse for hand touching. The


same way as tattoos or scars! Just make sure to focus on
what youre saying and ask about the story behind the ring
youre checking.

Wow this so pretty! Is it:

Real?

Hand made?

From India/Italy?

For a special reason?

On the wrong finger?

10.2.5. Palm reading

Google Tips on how to palm read. Learn a few


things and read her palm. Most women love that stuff!

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I am not gonna write more on this now. I m sure you


see how everything can be an excuse for touch! Get
creative and add your own!

10.3. Get physical as soon as you can

Most guys wait too long before getting physical! If


you wait too long, lets say half an hour and then got for
the touch, it becomes awkward! She will wonder what
happened? Why is he suddenly touching me? So do it as
soon as you meet. Hug, hi 5, hand shake, it doesnt really
matter! Touch builds rapport!

You can do it from the first moment of the


interaction! Remember: women dont like drunk strangers
at the bar squeezing them, but they sure dont mind (and
actually enjoy) an appropriate friendly guys touch even
right at the beginning of the interaction!

So get physical as soon as you can because the longer


you wait, the harder and more awkward it becomes! Think
about it. If you meet and you dont make any contact at all
(no hug, hand shake, nothing), it would be very difficult to
switch to touch mode after an hour or 2!

So be the touchy guy from the moment you meet


her. Even if youve never been like that, its time. And yes

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your age is absolutely irrelevant. If you have


conviction you can do whatever you like.

10.4. Why should you be physical?

There are many reasons to be physical! First of all, it


feels good for you and her. You want to touch her and
she wants to be touched! If she didnt wanna be touched,
shed stay home; she certainly wouldnt be talking with
you! Why not drop the bullshit and do what you both
wanna do?

And finally, by unapologetically touching her, you


show her that youre a leader and a confident guy and that
is attractive!

I went on a a few Tinder dates weeks ago and I


noticed when I hug them right off the bat, there is a great
tension released! They feel much more at ease!

So make a habit of touching!

10.5. Cross escalation technique

One very powerful technique which helps to make it


easier for her to feel close to you is the cross escalation

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technique. Its basically escalating physically while verbally


breaking the rapport!

Simple example: You use any disqualifier comments


(Read disqualification section):

You know what Sara I think its best if we just be


friends. You know? I like how we are, I feel close to you
and I dont really want us to mess up our friendship! If we
get intimate things could change! I can see how we already
have good chemistry! Ive made that mistake before and
got too close to my friend, and I dont want to do that with
you!

At the same time play with her ring or softy scan


through the tattoo on her wrist with your index finger.
Keep the focus on the verbal rapport breaking.
Even keep strong eye contact and avoid looking at where
youre touching her!

Why does it work? REMEMBER: more than 80% of


the communication is non-verbal! What you say matters
but what you do matters even more!

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10.6. Eye contact

There are 4 main elements women check before


fucking the shit out of your brains! Your eye contact is one
of them! You can say all the right things, but just
because you have the wrong eye contact, she loses
interest!

A crossed-eye guy who knows how to hold eye


contact is sexier than a Brad Pitt looking guy who keeps
looking away!

10.6.1. Why should you hold eye


contact?

There is a direct correlation between confidence


and attraction! The more confident you are, the longer
you can hold the eye contact! Thats why its crucial you
work on your eye contact!

When I take students out and we all talk to women, I


observe how women lose interest in a matter of seconds
just because he subconsciously breaks the eye contact
when he shouldnt!

Your eyes and how you hold the eye contact, is the
fastest way for her to literally read your mind and find out

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whats going on inside your head (plus what kind of guy


you are)! Yes, even what kind of guy you are! Women come
with this wuss detection system installed in them that
enables them to see through you! Us guy dont have it
built in!

Most men get rejected when trying to attract women


only because they neglect this or they dont know how to
do it right!

Always remember: your eyes are the window to your


thoughts! They give away a lot about how youre feeling!
Women can tell what kind of guy you are and what youre
thinking just by your eye contact! If youre happy, sad,
friendly, fun, confident, insecure and of course a man or
a boy!

10.6.2. What happens with your eyes


when talking to her?

Most men subconsciously avoid eye contact when


they speak to attractive women! Because there is pressure!
Eye contact creates tension! Thats why its not very easy to
hold the eye contact. It needs practice and confidence!
The person who breaks the eye contact first, has

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lower social value! So make sure she looks away before


you take a break!

10.6.3. What is the right eye contact?

There is a great way to maintain the eye, contact and


connect to her on a totally different level without looking
creepy!

Lock your eyes to one of her eyes when shes talking


to you! Smile and every 5 seconds, change from one of her
eyes to the other, then look at her mouth for a couple
seconds, and then look away for 2 seconds. Then back to
the first eye! When you look away, dont turn your head or
body! Just turn your eyes! Keep rotating!

The reason for looking away for 2 seconds is to take


some pressure off her in case she is not very confident!

This way she sees that you are listening to her and
more importantly she sees that you are present!

Most men are in their head when they speak to


women! They are either day dreaming or thinking about
what to say next! So make sure when she is talking to you,
you lock your eyes with her and do the parallelogram
formula!

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10.6.4. How can you improve your eye


contact?

Eye contact is directly driven by your confidence


level! The more confident you are, the easier it is for you to
hold eye contact! I recommend you read the chapter on
confidence. It really helps you boost your confidence and
not have to worry about doing this right only on the
surface level!

Remember: Just like everything else, this needs


practice! Practice with your friend or colleagues! Strike a
conversation (ask a question), and when he/she is talking,
lock your eyes to his/her eyes, smile, do the parallelogram
formula and listen! You will be amazed by how effective it
is!

And when you speak to an attractive woman, I want


you to catch yourself breaking the eye contact too soon!
Recognize the tension and be ok with it! Remember: it gets
better every time!

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10.7. Smell

10.7.1. Why smell is important

Smell can invoke the strongest emotional responses!


Its a powerful sexual stimulator and it creates attraction.

I heard Doug McGuff (a Tony Robins events speaker)


saying women chose their sexual partners based on smell
more than anything else!

I have seen some strange smell related things


happen in the bedroom! Most women have strong positive
reactions to certain smells!

When it comes to seduction, smell is one of the least


exposed tools you can secretly use and get insane results
with!

See, she cares a great deal about both your, and her
smell! Its a fantastic tool which creates sexual tension
while letting her know you like her more than just a friend!
Fortunately, most men find it uncomfortable and dont
know how to take advantage of this!

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10.7.2. How to use her smell to turn her


on

When there is a flow in the conversation (about 10


minutes or so in), after you have made the transition out of
opening; while shes talking about something, you can
interrupt her by saying:

Hey hang on for a sec, move slightly closer to her


and say:

You smell good! Whats your perfume? And the


lean back again, a bit further than where you were before!

Whatever she says, then you say

Hmmm, I dont think its your perfume! I think its,


your skin you know? Anyways

Then say: Sorry for interrupting! Continue! What


were you saying? Ah the restaurant

Please make sure you watch the complementary


videos of the program in order to see these live. Remember
these lines need to be delivered properly and with
convictio!

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Now there is a secret Ive gotta tell you! Women


subconsciously respond to the routine above, but they
dont really know why!

I have heard this quite often (as she curiously


smiles):

Her: Did you just sniff me? Thats weird? Youre


weird Ben!

Very playfully I respond: Hey! Its not my fault you


smell good! I almost like how you smell a lot to be
brutally honest!

And usually after a couple minutes she says:

Really? Do I really smell good?

And when she does, you reply: Nah I was just


kidding!

Remember what I told you about conviction and how


she follows as long as you lead like a man! So dont doubt
yourself and bring this to your game!

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10.7.3. Recommend perfumes and scents

Ive gotta tell you a bit about what perfume Ive


found works the best for us guys!

Tea tree oil scent! It drives women insane! I always


carry a small amount in my car so I can spray some on my
arm whenever Im about to go out in public. I like the smell
too! I am sure you do too!

Most guys dont know about this! I accidentally


discovered the power of the tea tree smell when I was
doing yoga back in 2007. The studio I used to go to back
then had 95% women 5% men! After class, most women
stayed longer to just hang out! They loved how the place
smelled and would all say that it was one the reason why
they didnt wanna leave! The smell made it cozy! So I got
some and started wearing it! It is insane!

Here are some other scents Ive field tested and had
good results with:

Davidoff Cool Water.

Dark Obsession

Fahrenheit

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Mont Blanc

Contradiction CK

Bvulgari Aqua

10.8. Questions and comments that


turn her on

We discussed this briefly before but here as


promised, I am gonna show you how to use specific
questions to turn her on and make the seduction process
more smooth and hassle free than ever possible!

Look! The point here is to paint a picture in her


mind; plant the seed and let her think about What if me
and this guy have sex?.

Do you remember when we discussed the sexual


qualifiers in the qualification section?

Here Ill show you more in depth ways of how you


can use your own questions based on the situation:

The key to ask proper yet effective sexual qualifiers is


to master gauging aka calibration! If you see enough

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attraction and rapport, start with the formula below:

1. Start with the massage talk! For example:

You know what I love the most about


Thailand? Massage! Its important in their
culture! To be very honest, I think, after sex, a
massage is the best feeling in the world.

Of course not when a guy gives it to me! I


prefer a female masseuse. You know? You
know how you prefer male masseuse? I mean I
hope you do, unless you like women! Do you?
You dont? I had a feeling youre not straight
(Deliver playfully)!

Then see her reaction and help her talk about


massage. You also tease her a bit! Show her its

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not a big deal to you and its ok if she talks


about it too!

2. Once you successfully talk about massage and


she fully complied, then change the subject for
a few minutes, talk about food in Italy (you
know what I mean) and then get into
relationship talk. You and your ex (who is not
available anymore because shes married with
4 kids and none of them are yours).

The example below covers verbal escalation


from massage to cuddles and kissing:

You know what I miss the most about being in


a relationship? Cuddles! You know? Thats the
thing about cuddles! Not just with anyone!
Someone that youre comfortable with
together! I mean, being single is great but
nothing beats cuddles with someone you trust.

Same with kissing! Believe me, bad kissers are


EVERYWHERE! They look just like us, live
among us! You could be one of them!

You get the idea? The point here is to speak

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with tons of conviction and just not stop! Tease


as well! Go through the paragraph above and
see how I link different sections to each other.
It flows effortlessly!

3. The sex talk requires a bit more attentions and


a higher level of compliance. You can use the
same technique as above. Your previous
experiences with other women you were in love
with (preferably your ex) is always a great
bridge you can use to sexually escalate! I give
you a frame work below! Read it and make
your own:

You know what I miss the most about


relationships? Safe, but unprotected sex (or
you can just say: sex without a condom)! I
mean its cool to meet someone and have a
good time, but the condom puts a million miles
between us! At lease when you touch yourself,
its skin on skin isnt it ha ha.

It all depends how much conviction you have


when you talk and how much rapport there is!
If you own what you say and calibrate before
you say it, she wont object. If you doubt

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yourself, shell complain about you being


inappropriate! Watch the complimentary
videos of the program to see the examples in
video!

10.9. Use Ironic Processing Theory

I want you to close your eyes and NOT think about a


pink elephant! So go on! For a few seconds, just close your
eyes and dont think about that elephant!

The chances are that right now you are thinking


about a big, fat, pink elephant even though I asked you not
to! Our brain processes everything we receive with the 5
senses (hearing, sight, touch, smell, and taste).

You can use this and make comments about anything


you want her to think about! You can easily put ideas in
her head that she has no choice but to think about and
eventually consider! Make sure you say these playfully!

All these comments pre-load the idea of sex into her


head!

You and I should never have sex and I mean


never!

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You should never have sex with someone like


me! I am bad for you.

I am bad for you! Youre too innocent!

I am like a mistake women make and regret


Also a good disqualifier

We should never kiss! Both of us can do better!


To be very honest, me more!

I am not in love with you. Thats why we


shouldnt sleep together!

Youre pretty but I dont sleep with women like


you! Have a good comeback ready

For comebacks and how to continue from here, make


sure you watch the conversation flow section.

10.10. Your voice

Generally speaking, a deeper voice is more attractive


that higher pitched voice! You can change the tone of your
voice by up to 25% right now. Check out how I do it in the
video and try it for yourself! I see the difference clearly in
my everyday interactions with women.

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And just a quick tip on your volume! Before


there is attraction and rapport, speak slightly louder than
usual! As you move forward and build attraction, lower
your volume! This is how you shift to whispering in her ear
whenever you get a chance!

10.11. Pause! Quickly check!

Introduce pauses! Its ok to get her to wait a few


seconds before you say the next thing! Men are afraid of
silence! 3 - 4 second gaps are great! They creates some
tension and it makes her notices the she has to contribute
more to the interaction as well and you dont carry all the
weight!

Also when you pause, you create a subtle


disconnect which is absolutely necessary to keep her
attention!

11. Sex

IMPORTANT NOTE:

Here were gonna open up sex! Before we get into it,


I am gonna have to add an important disclaimer:

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IF AT ANY STEP OF YOUR INTERACTION WITH A


WOMAN, SHE TELLS YOU TO STOP, JUST STOP!
THERE IS A CLEAR DIFFERENCE BETWEEN
SOMEONE PLAYFULLY TELLING TO STOP AND
ACTUALLY WANTING YOU TO STOP!

Intimacy, sex, cuddles and touching, its all very


dynamic! Youve gotta master calibration and do it FAST,
especially if youre an aggressive guy like me! This is where
you should be a leader and make it easier for her to enjoy
this interaction, free of guilt or any pressure that society
puts on her!

Sex is important! Its the last station before love. Its


amazing! Knowing how to do it well is one skill youve
gotta master! Getting her home is one thing, bedding her
well in a way that you both experience an amazing
adventure is something else!

In my early 20s I remember countless soul crushing


moments where I took super sexy Norwegian, Brazilian
university friends home, and I failed to satisfy them. Came
too soon, didnt get it up or didnt enjoy cause of anxiety!

I got leverage and one reason I have a haram today,


is the drive I got from those failures! I want you to
experience the same thing! So here I am gonna give you

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some tips you can learn easily and enjoy sex more than
ever!

11.1. Quick tips

Let her experience with all her 5 senses! The ambient


is extremely important! Check out these simple yet
effective things you can do to set the stage and create an
incredible experience for her:

11.1.1. Save 4 bottles of classy wine at


home

Always have 4 bottles of classy wine at home! 2 red


and 2 white. Wine makes the heart wonder! It makes it
easier for her to get physical with you without feeling
guilty! When she drinks, she wont resist as much! Plus, it
makes sex more enjoyable for you and her!

When she comes over just leave one of the bottles


where she can see it! When the time is right, she will bring
it up herself and you can offer the other option! Red or
white?

If you can afford it, make a nice small and classy


mini bar at home!

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11.1.2. Make a playlist!

Look it doesnt matter how old you are! I recommend


you buy a Buddha bar lounge playlist and keep it playing
in the background. The right ambience is crucial! Think
about it like a symphony! Women care about the ambience
a lot more than us guys! Take advantage of all these little
things! Make sure the playlist is on a loop so you dont
have to stop the action and press play again!

11.1.3. Get nice smelling candles

Remember how we talked about the importance of


smell in the previous sections? well the same thing goes
for your place!

Buy some nice Woodburn candles and buddy, dont


go cheap on these! Spend $100 and get some good ones!
Let it burn for a few hours before you she comes to your
place. All these little things make a big difference together!

11.2. Foreplay

I cant stress enough how important foreplay is! This


is crucial! its the first stage of sex! Some women orgasm
during the foreplay alone!

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In general, foreplay determines if shes gonna have a


good orgasm or not! Most men miss out on this! They just
wanna skip it and put it in there!

Here is what I want you to do: Start very slowly! Get


her to wait for it! The more you keep her waiting, the more
she wants it!

11.2.1. Disqualify as you escalate

Remember the cross escalation technique? I want


you to disqualify verbally as you escalate physically! Make
comments like this as you escalate:

We shouldnt be doing this! We should stop!

11.2.2. Triple the amount of foreplay!

At least 15 min! Remember: the more foreplay


there is, the more shell enjoy the sex! If you do it too long
though, your dick could fall asleep! Between 15-30 minutes
is great!

11.2.3. Massage is the bridge

Look! Initiating sex could be difficult if youre new or


shy! The best way to indirectly start it is by giving her

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massage! Get a couple massage books on your coffee table


and build a few routines around it! When she comes to
your place and youre talking about unicorns, shes gonna
notice the massage books and ask you questions! Make
sure you have other books too so it doesnt look like youre
just a massage freak!

When she notices the book; you talk about how some
of those moves feel great. Especially the ones around the
neck area! This is the open sesame phrase:

Actually let me show you something I learned from


this book!

As you say it, guide her to sit in front of you and you
slowly give her very soft neck massage! Remember:
conviction conviction conviction! If you doubt yourself or
anything you do, she wont let you! Dont wait for her!
Physically guide her as you talk!

As you massage her neck from behind, you can


slowly whisper something in her ears. Talk to her about
how massage is relaxing and its good to keep the tension
of the day away bla bla.

You know how it goes. The point is to whisper in her


ears. She enjoys this very much and it turns her on!

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Here you should continuously calibrate! 1 inch at a


time. Go lower and see if she is ok with you going on her
upper chest or not!

If she objects, pushes your hand away or says no, be


ok with it and dont make a big deal out of it. Dont fight it
and move back up slowly. This means shes not ready just
yet! Remember! Shes already at your place sitting
in front of you with your hands on her body, no
means not just yet! So be patient and keep
massaging!

As you escalate here, you lead her to put her chin


down as you massage her upper neck! Tell her: Relax your
neck, chin down!

From here you can slowly go for the kiss on her


cheek as you whisper, hmmmm... your neck feels so
tense in her ear!

11.2.4. Kiss

Kissing is one of the most important parts of the


seduction! There are right and wrong ways of doing it!

If you have initiated the massage and you have


already kissed her chick and shes ok with it, you can

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slowly, slowly get closer to her lips! Just remember! One


step backward, two steps forward!

Here might be a good place to throw in a sexual


qualifier! Very quietly whisper in her ear:

Hey can I ask you something? Are you a good kisser?

When you kiss her make sure you keep your tongue
in your mouth for the first minute! Just softly move your
chin down to place her upper lip in between your lips, very
softly, let the tip of your tongue touch her upper lip and
from here, let her do the job!

She takes it from here and from this point on


MIRROR EXACTLY WHAT SHE DOES! Thats the best
advice I can give you here! Most women know how to do
this very well!

If shes very young (18-25), you might have some


work to do! Some younger women are terrible kissers! It
feels better to kiss Hannibal Lector than to kiss some
women! They bite or your face with their tongue too hard!
At times like that, slightly place your hand on her upper
chest, smile and tell her: Easy easyits ok. shhhhh.
Shell get it.

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Kiss her at least 5 minutes before you move lower.


And remember: youve gotta multitask.

When kissing gets hot and she moans, walk her very,
very slowly to the bedroom or the coach without stopping
the kissing! Her walking backward and as you hold both
her arms, softly and slowly guiding her.

11.2.5. Use both hands and multi-task

One secret to good, satisfying sex is slow


multitasking! Here are some good tips:

1. Move very slowly! Take your time with


everything you do! If youre rubbing her neck
and kissing her, make sure you dont move
your hands too fast! The slower the better! You
gotta make her restless! Most guys make this
silly mistake and rush it just to dick her up
faster! Dont make that mistake! Give her time
to warm up and feel everything!

2. Be soft and tender at first! Its a turn on! Like


touching her back with the tip of your fingers
without really touching her!

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3. Use both your hands! One hand softly touching


her neck, the other on her legs while youre
kissing her! So almost at all times youll be
multitasking! This should be the case both for
foreplay and sex!

4. Reduce rejection by staying far from sensitive


areas when you first begin! If this is the first
time youre doing it with her, she wont be
comfortable if you go for her vagina straight
away (90% of women)!

Some are, but most arent! So pick less


sensitive areas like her wrist or knee! Keep
these areas as the base and do 2 step forward, 1
step backward! Remember: go slow!

11.2.6. Moaning and dirty talk

Moaning is good! Start quietly! Always calibrate and


mirror! See how she responds! Remember this whole
process is extremely dynamic! There are different types of
women and some are less confident than others!

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Introduce little things like moaning as you make


progress. These are like the salt and pepper you put on the
main meal!

Remember:

EVERY WOMAN IS THAT TYPE OF WOMAN! IF


SHE COMES TO YOUR PLACE AND DRINKS YOUR
WINE, THEN SHE LOVES SEX TOO! SO DONT ASSUME
SHES TOO INNOCENT TO LIKE YOUR TOUCH OR
DOESNT LIKE SEX! SHE IS GONNA FIND A MAN WHO
DOES THIS WITH HER! YOU OR SOMEONE ELSE! AS
LONG AS YOU DONT FORCE HER TO DO IT, YOULL
BE FINE!

So slowly hummm in here ear and neck as you kiss


her! Remember: there is a side of her that most men dont
know how to bring out! Its your job to be cool and relax,
slowly, slowly allow her to come out! Its like your holding
her hand, teaching her how to walk!

Throw things like:

I love how you smell,

I love how you do that,

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Your skin is soft and smooth

You make me really hard,

If you hesitate and youre not sure about being a bit


kinky, just think about this:

There are bad ass guys who do that and if you dont,
shell find someone else! I want you to be perfect and check
all the boxes!

11.2.7. Slowly undress her

Eventually you should both undress. This one I dont


really worry about because it almost always happens
automatically!

The most natural trick is to use massage oil as an


excuse! As youre working her neck, fold her shirt (or
dress) down and tell her: I dont wanna make your shirt
oily! You know what, you can take it off if you want. You
dont have to if you dont feel comfortable!

11.2.8. Her boobs

You can move to boobs with your hands or lips. If


you do what I said above, take your time and move slowly,

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she will have no problem with you touching or kissing her


boobs.

When you arrive at the boob station, make sure you


dont get straight to nipples! Play with one of them as you
keep kissing her neck and let the other boob get jealous!

Spend 2 to 3 minutes here around the nipple, then


lick or softly touch the nipple! This is important to take
your time and dont rush it when youre on her boobs!

11.3. Oral sex

11.3.1. Ask her what she wants

Communicate with her! Ask her how she likes you to


do it! There is nothing wrong and if you own it as you do it,
shes gonna LOVE you for that! Because only a
comfortable, confident man can take lead and do it!
Honestly 99% of men dont do it!

Note: Dont ask her how she likes it until youre


going down on her!

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11.3.2. How to go down on her

When you go down on her, if youre a newbie or not


used to doing it, you have got to ask her how she likes it!

Its easy! Here are some ninja tricks Yoda used to use
on Princes Leia in Star Wars:

1. As youre playing with her boobs with your


hands, start kissing her belly button area and
slowly go down. Tease, tease, tease, tease,
tease, tease, tease! Let your chin softly
touch the top of her vagina as you kiss her
belly! After about 2 minutes of doing her
stomach, softly touch the top of her vagina with
your tongue and move up again!

2. Next station: Her clit! Its easy to locate but


some guys still miss it! So to make sure youre
not one of those guys, start by softly licking her
from 1 inch from the top of her vagina to the
top! Slowly, slowly! If you do that, youll notice
her clit somewhere there as well! Do this for a
minute! Google How to locate her clit.

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3. Then start doing the alphabet! Do the small


letter i with the dot. So draw a line with your
tongue from bottom to top, and then dot it. Its
like licking the ice cream! Except this is not an
ice-cream, this is a vagina! Do it slow, then
speed it up.

As youre down there, simply ask her only


once: Tell me how you like it!

Mix it up! When you hear her responding to


you by moaning, take that as youre doing
something right! So keep doing what youre
doing! And of course when youre down there,
you cant not take advantage of your right
hands middle finger! I cant get very graphic
here (more than this), but this is an insanely
powerful and simple move.

11.3.3. What to do if she smells bad down


there

Some women smell like heaven down there, while


some others smell like a mix of rotten egg with bad fish
and underground conduit carrying off drainage water and

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waste! If thats the case, breath through your mouth! That


way you wont smell her sewer!

11.4. Intercourse

Remember! Sex is like a food buffet! You gotta mix


things up! The end goal is not for you to orgasm fast! The
point is to orgasm after she does, or orgasm together with
her!

11.4.1. make sure shes readY

You might be able to rush rapport and attraction, but


there are a few places you should never ever rush things!
Foreplay and intercourse for example! If you try to do it
when shes not ready (shes not wet), you could hurt her
and yourself! So make sure you spend enough time on
foreplay until shes wet and ready!

Here is your checklist before you go inside:

15-20 min foreplay

Condoms on

Shes fully relaxed, wet and not fidgeting

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You have a good hard on

Music is set

PLEASE NOTE: THIS SECTION IS NOT


MEDICAL ADVICE! THIS IS ONLY PERSONAL
EXPERIENCE AND I DONT TAKE ANY
RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE SIDE EFFECTS! MAKE
SURE YOU CHECK WITH YOUR GP BEFORE YOU TAKE
THIS ADVICE ON! ENJOY.

11.4.2. cant get It up? Premature


orgasm?

In order to get the best hard on and fix premature


ejaculation problems, I recommend that you try these
solutions:

11.4.3. strict no masturbation diet!

I want you to take this one seriously! Masturbating is


fun and probably healthy however, it kills the hype and
sexual tension! The excitement fades and subconsciously
you wont have the drive to even go out and meet women
anymore! It also affects sex. In my experience it drops the
quality of your erection!

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I do recommend to only masturbate after sex. For


example, dont touch yourself for 2 weeks, then have sex. If
you REALLY want to masturbate, then do it a couple hours
after sex. Look if you get into the habit of masturbating,
you may get stuck there like the 95% of men are!

11.4.4. dont plan sex

Relax: It could be stressful to plan sex when you go


on a date! Thinking about sex could make you emotionally,
mentally and physically tired and frustrated! Again these
things are very relative but I recommend you to take it
easy on yourself and when youre out, dont think about
sex.

11.4.5. Wrap it!

Who are we kidding? Condoms suck! Still, I want you


to remember this:

YOUR LIFE IS ON THE LINE HERE, SO WRAP IT!

No arguments here ok? You gotta wear that nasty


condom! At least at first until you get to know each other

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and you make sure shes on pills and neither of you have
any STDs!

One of the downsides of a condom is that it can affect


the quality of your erection! Not always but sometimes it
does! So I recommend you carry a Cialis or Viagra in your
back pocket in case you see things are looking up and
youre heading to the promise land! You may not even
need it ok? Just carry it in your pocket and it does the job
for you .Believe it or not most of the effect is mental!

11.4.6. Viagra and Cialis

I am not gonna take any space here and tell your


about Cialis and Viagra! I just wanna quickly mention that
Cialis works faster and gets out of your system faster! It
also doesnt matter if you take it on empty or full stomach!
As for Viagra, it works a bit slower!

The other benefit of Cialis and Viagra is that you can


keep going for a while! If you take it about 1.5 hours before
sex, even if you orgasm too quickly, you can take a break
and go for round 2 or 3, or even until she gets numb! The
downside is that it might give you headache and block your
nose!

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I mentioned above to make sure you check with your


GP before you take any of these! I dont want you to have a
heart attack because of my advice!

11.4.7. The point of no return

This is another trick that requires some time and a


lot of courage to master. The good thing is that you can
practice this at home without a partner! You know the
point just before you orgasm? 10 seconds before the shot?

You can get to that point but instead of finishing the


job, you just stop! Let go of your penis and dont cum! Its
super difficult! But if you can get to that point and just
before you orgasm you stop, you can delay your orgasm up
to 1 hour!

Do the same thing when shes in bed with you! You


can keep going and when you feel like your about to cum,
just pull out slowly. Keep kissing her because kissing keeps
her going! Kiss her for 1 minute and even if she keeps
begging you to continue, you dont!

Look If you prematurely orgasm, youre finished!


Done! Gone! Over! Done in this town!

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So keep kissing her and after 1 one minute try again.


Fuck for another 30 seconds but this time slowly! YOU
LEAD! Its your dick, you use it at the speed that you want!
Dont worry about pleasing her like this because if you
orgasm before she does, its done!

11.4.8. Its ok to stop and take a break!

As I mentioned above, its like a food buffet! You


have an appetizer, then a drink, then some main meal,
then another break, then more main mean and finally
desert!

I want you to take breaks in between! If you


understand this concept, there will be so much you can do.
Remember: GOOD SEX DOESNT MEAN FUCK HER
FAST AND ONLY HARD!

Good sex means finding her rhythm, being creative,


take your time and mix things up!

11.4.9. Another magic pill

Some anti-depressant pills like Lexapro delay


ejaculation! As I mentioned before this is not medical
advice and I dont take any responsibility for the side
effects! Just letting you know that these are the options for

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solving premature ejaculation issues and work for most


people!

11.4.10. dont orgasm InsIde of her

I couldnt possibly get any more personal with you,


but its my obligation to bring this up!

At that moment when youre holding her hot, sexy


sweaty body in your arms, cumming inside of her feels like
the best decision youve ever made in your entire life! The
next morning the nightmare begins and it lasts until she
gets her next period!

Look man, its not worth it! 10 seconds of joy for a


lifetime of misery! Even if youre wearing a condom, pull it
out before you orgasm! Thats just my personal advice!

12. Conversation flow! How to never run


out of things to say

Throwing 1 liners, teaser statements or super


qualifiers is great! However, your conversation is a mix of
these that fade into each other smoothly without you
looking rehearsed! Its crucial for you to be able to link
from one section to the other and keep the flow!

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There are a few things you should do to master this


and make sure your conversations are smooth and you
wont hit an awkward silence or a glass wall!

1. Master the techniques you learned


above. Qualifiers, disqualifiers, rhythm
breakers and push and pull!
How do you know youve mastered it? Well, if I
ask you to come on stage with me and explain
qualification to 500 men, youve gotta be able
to talk about it for 30 minute! Same with any
other techniques.

2. Prepare!
I am not too crazy about lines but THE MOST
EFFECTIVE LINES are created when youre
out talking to women improvising! Remember
how much I emphasize on being in the
moment?

So when you test something and you see it


works, instantly write it down (in your phone
note app) before you forget it! Most men who
have success with bedding women fast, come
with a collection of lines, routines, questions
and statements that they know how to use!

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For years I used to record my conversations on


my iPhone and listen to them later to find out
things that worked and things that didnt!

3. When youre there, be there!


This is a tough one when youre new! I want
you to observe EVERYTHING she says and
does. When you talk and you transition from
the opening (if youre not sure what this is
read, the opening section of the cold approach
chapter), she feeds the conversation and you
can talk to her as if your conversation is a game
of tennis (or chess).

4. Listen and ask good, open questions


Ask open questions! We went through a few of
them in rapport building section!
Yes-No questions like Do you like to
travel?, are not that good. It doesnt give her
much to work with, so if shes not savvy, she
wont be able to play!

Instead, ask open questions! For example, if


shes a writer, ask her: How do you feel when
you write? Or Why did you pick writing over

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everything else? Or What makes a piece of


writing better than others?

5. Encourage her to talk more


Let her know shes doing well. Use terms like
Interesting! Tell me more. Or, What do you
mean exactly? These simple words do magic!

6. Have a point of view!


When you have a point of view, you naturally
and genuinely agree and disagree! Dont agree
all the time, at the same time, dont turn into a
negative person who disagrees with everything!
Be genuine! No one likes a people pleasers or a
negative minded man!

7. Learn a few good stories from


experiences
Have stories to tell. Anything exciting that
happened in your life! Practice telling them to
your friends. Have at least 10, 5 minute stories
ready to tell! Learn to tell them passionately!

8. Read the Alchemist


Books like The Alchemist give you great

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conversation ideas! Its a book about travelling,


finding your purpose in life, love and other cool
things that women also like to talk about! So
get that book and read it. Write down the
things you like in it!

9. Stack multiple threads


Talk about different things. Get a story to the
hook point where shes interested and curious
to know what happens next, then start another
one! Yes, prepare, prepare, prepare and work
on transitioning faster. If you watch the videos
of the program, youll notice I do this a lot!

10. Hey by the way, have you seen


Mitty?
Watch Ben Stillers movie called Mitty! Its
the story of an awkward guy with nothing
exciting in his life who suddenly gets to travel
and do crazy things. This is an awesome movie
to talk about since it involves travelling and
adventure! Remember before I told you about
how women LOVE travelling? So here is how
you can do this:

If you hit an awkward silence, just ask her: By

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the way, what do you think about Ben Stillers


Mitty? Have you seen it?

If she has seen it, then great! You can discuss


it. If she hasnt seen it, even better! Then you
can tell her about it! When you talk, you give
her a chance to experience you!

11. Never criticize, condemn, bitch or complain


EVER!

12.Be cool, at ease and relax! Remember when I


said nothing is a big deal? If its not a big deal
to you, its not a big deal to her! If you run out
of things to say, you can even say: Damn I ran
out of things to say! Awkward since! Then you
both laugh

13. This is a life time resource to what women


want to talk about! Sex and the city TV show!
Dude! Get the series and start watching! That
TV show changed my sex life! I learned so
much about women that you cant imagine!
Watch a couple episodes a day! Youll be
amazed by how much you learn!

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13. Dating

Youve already got access to some powerful tools in


the previous sections of the program.

I strongly recommend that you read the previous


chapters of this program first. Youve gotta know what
weve covered so far for this to makes sense to you.

Now its time to get into dating and how to actually


be and act around her when you are on a date with her
or spending time with her!

13.1. Going on a date? Check the quick


guide

13.2. About first dates

13.2.1. Youre alreadY half waY In!

The most important thing youve gotta remember


when youre on a date is that, shes already there with
you! This means there is at least some level of attraction
and most of the time its more than what you think. So,
however you got this date, good work! Youve got what it
takes.

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Shes been thinking about you and its very possible


that she has already considered sleeping with you too
(otherwise she wouldnt go out with you)! Women are
smart! She knows there is the potential to end up in bed!

If you feel uncomfortable, secretly insecure or a bit


nervous, just remind yourself:

She chose to be with me while she could be anywhere


else!

So dont stress even a bit! Youve already got what it


takes to attract her. Even if its a blind date, it means she
craves a mans company! Youre in a good position either
way!

13.2.2. Focus less On attraction and


more on comfort

The rule number one of first dates is comfort!


Act as if you are with your cousin or brother. Each time
you find yourself feeling nervous or awkward, smile and
take a deep breath. Remember: whoever changes the most
in an interaction has lower social value!

This is the main difference between the cold


approach interactions and dates. What Ive noticed is

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that, unlike the cold approach, when youre on a date,


youll get faster results when you put less energy and time
on attraction and more on rapport (trust and
comfort).

Make sure you go through the attraction builders we


discussed in the attraction section and keep reminding
yourself: She is already out with me! She said yes
when she could have said no! So use rapport building
statements and questions!

13.2.3. Youre on a mIssIon and You have a


task to complete

Yes, you are on a mission! Your job is to have a good


time and create an experience for her! This is not as hard
as rocket science but you gotta make the date fun for the
both of you! Below I have a list of things for you to do to
make this as fun as possible!

13.3. Learn some bad ass-effective


routines

Look at routines as stories! We went through this


previously! A routine is a sequence of stories, phrases,
statement and questions you ask in a specific order! If you

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dont go on many dates and you dont have routines


stacked on your mind, youve gotta prepare!

Learn a few cool, exciting stories to tell. Previously


I told you about the Alchemist by Paolo Coelho!
That book gives you countless conversational topics to talk
about. Its basically all about travel, love and romance,
food, adventure and other things women desperately
crave!

Watch the Sex and the city TV show and write


down some of the hot conversational topics and talk to her
about them! Sex and the city is the bomb! Its insanely
accurate! Its written for women and they love to talk about
those topics!

So write down specific open topics like travel, food,


fashion and if youre a ninja, sex and dating threads never
fail! Watch the complementary videos of this section and
see how I make maneuvers from one topic to the next!
The point is to stack the stories when you chat!

As you go, stack these threads and stories on top of


each other. Open loops as I showed you in the
conversation section!

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13.3.1. Trim your nose and ear hair

Getting personal here. This one is disgusting but Ive


gotta tell you about it man! As you might have noticed,
when us guys hit the age of about 35, our ears and noses
start to get hairy! Most women dont like it!

So get a trimmer and get rid of the hair there. Also


clean your ears! That one is also easy to miss! There is
good chance she wont fuck you if she sees the yellow stuff
in your ear! Before you meet her, go in front of a mirror
and scan your face to make sure you dont have anything
stuck in your nose. Check both holes.

13.3.2. Clean up, dress well and simple

Before you go, take a shower, wear a little bit of


perfume and definitely use deodorant! Wear something
nice and keep it simple! Dont show up in a stained shirt!
Wear nice cloths and keep things as simple as possible!
And remember: women care a great deal about shoes!
Florsheim is a good brand for shoes!

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13.3.3. Carry a backup Viagra

We went over this in the sex chapter. Check with


your doctor to make sure that you dont have a special
medical situation and if you dont, keep a Viagra or Cialis
in your wallet (Make sure she doesnt see it)! Its common
not to be able to get it up the first time you bed her!
Performance anxiety is a bitch, but its easily stoppable!
Just knowing you have a backup pill in your pocket does
the job for you!

13.4. To do + not to do

13.4.1. Get physical from the second you


see her

Dont wait even a little! The moment you see her,


hug her and kiss her on her chick. Here is where you
should lead like a boss!

So dont hesitate getting physical and remember she


is gonna follow you. Full hearted. No doubts! As you spend
time together, it gets easier and easier. If there is any
tension present, it will fade eventually!

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13.4.2. Then create gap

Once you hug and kiss, create some physical gap


between the 2 of you. Let her see youre not desperate to be
physically close to her! After about 15 minutes in, use the
escalation techniques and get closer to her. The point here
is not to stick to her from the moment you see her. So, hug,
create a gap and then slowly get closer again!

13.4.3. Move a little slower than usual

Its common to get nervous and clumsy on dates! I


get emails from guys who accidentally spilled the wine or
pushed the door instead of pulling and everything went
wrong after that!

See it doesnt have top be like that. Things can go


wrong quite often but the point is Nothing is a big deal!

So relax, move a little slower than usual, even blink


slower and every minute take a deep breath (Not too deep
as it looks like youre doing something weird!)

Even when she asks you something, wait a couple


seconds, then reply! That tiny delay gives you some time to
process what she said, and makes her listen better to what
you have to say!

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13.4.4. Smile

This is a big one! Have fun and if youre not at first,


pretend youre having fun! For a woman, there is nothing
worse than being on a date with a guy who doesnt smile!

So make sure you smile! It shows youre confident


and subconsciously creates more attraction! Guys who are
uncomfortable and insecure dont smile on dates!

13.4.5. dont ever pIck Your nose

As blissful as it may feel to finger your nose, your


finger doesnt belong to your nose holes! It may fit in
pretty well but thats not a good enough reason to put it
there. Many things fit in many places, it doesnt mean we
should put them there.

If you get caught picking your nose, no one can save


you! She will never ever consider you as her guy no matter
what! Can you imagine a girl workin her nose? What a turn
off would that be! Its time to drop bad habits like this.

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13.4.6. Stack your stories

Stack them like a bitch. I have +100 routines, stories


and phrases! Remember: your date should be fun and
interesting!

13.4.7. Disqualify and beware of the lag


(delay)

We talked about disqualification in the conversation


section and I wanna remind you here again! You have to
disqualify first. If you are not familiar with this, please
read the disqualification section.

It doesnt have to be that strong because there is


already attraction and shes on a date with you! But its
almost always beneficial and effective since it creates a
challenge for her. Mask it and make sure its as indirect as
possible! For example, when you see her, hug her, then
step back a little, smile and tell her:

You look different! Not exactly like your photos!

Then shes ask you Is that bad? OR Worse?

And you just say: Different. Smile and change the


subject.

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And remember! When you disqualify, you dont see


the effect instantly! It takes a few minutes because it
engages her subconscious!

13.4.8. Bounce her

This is huge! Move her. Meet for coffee or a drink in


a lounge bar, then after about 15-20 minutes go for a walk
at the beach. Then stop for a slice of pizza and go check out
an art gallery!

Remember: the more you bounce her, the closer she


feels to you. The closer she feels to you; the easier sex
becomes for her! So make sure you dont spend all your
time in 1 venue.

13.4.9. Outcome detached! Slapped in the


face?

When youre out there sitting with her you only have
1 job! Have good time with her! You dont worry about
what happens next, if you guys are gonna have sex or not
or what could happen! Look! Youve already won! You
have a beautiful woman in front of you! If you enjoy your
time with her and focus on making that interaction as fun

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as possible, the rest will happen automatically (as long as


you escalate)!

13.4.10. Be nice to waiters

When youre out, be nice to waiters and people


serving you! She looks at you and she wants you to be a
nice guy in public! Being nice to other people shows her
that you are a caring person and not a dick! She may even
leave in the middle of the date just because you act like a
douche bag or youre rude to the waitress. So be nice to
others!

13.4.11. Throw conditional complements

Another rocket! Give complements with room to


improve! Here are some examples:

I like what youve done to your eyebrows but I think


it looks better with darker lipstick!

If you wanna intensify, exaggerate both ends. Both


the high and low:

Oh my God! I absolutely LOVE what youve done to


your eyebrows wow. But your lipstick is just not going
well with it!

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13.4.12. Be extra present! Study her pupil


when she talks

Weve been through this one as well. When youre


there, BE THERE! No day dreaming or going in your head
worrying and wondering what if? So pay attention, be
present, observe, listen to her carefully and remember the
joy is in the moment! Once you learn to connect to the
moment and not worry about anything that is not there,
you start to enjoy everything 100 folds.

13.4.13. dont sIt face to face

When youre out with her, avoid sitting face to face!


By sitting face to face, you put pressure on her and on
yourself! So sit next to her. It also makes it easier to
accidentally touch her. Remember we discussed elbow
rubbing?

Even when you walk to the venue and you see that
the chairs are set in front of each other, just move it next to
her. These 5 seconds discomfort make the entire date go
smoother and end with better results!

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13.4.14. dont drInk much

I recommend you to be 100% sober! If you really


have to drink, stick to 1 or 2 drinks max! I dont mean 2
bottles; I mean 2 glasses! Especially on a first date! More
than that you lose control and do/say inappropriate
things!

Most women drink on a first date! If she does, make


sure you do too. Drink it slowly so you dont exceed 2
glasses!

13.4.15. 1 inch at a time

There are 2 simple mindsets that dramatically


change your results! A lot of guys complain: she came out
with me and said no to sex. Its so common that they even
came up with terms for it in pickup community!

So to bust that you need to remember:

When you meet first, you never ever never say Hey
were gonna have sex.

Remember: its like slowly boiling water! First its


cold, then it warms up slowly! 1 inch at a time. Dont bring
up sex right off the bat! Instead talk about traveling! Then

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use the sexual escalation techniques you learned in the


previous chapters and link traveling to holidays in Bali and
the massage that comes with it.

So dont worry if she doesnt talk about sex straight


away! Shes very possibly thinking about it!

13.4.16. dont show too much Interest


until after sex

Youre gonna find yourself on dates with women way


out of your league! It feels so good to tell her how beautiful
she is and how excited you are that she is there!

Well you really shouldnt show that much interest


unless you see mutual attraction! Let me tell you why!

See, the moment you put her on a pedestal before


shes shown you any interest, she realizes youre desperate!
Challenge over, game over! You give all the value away as
well!

So make sure you bed her first or you get enough


attraction from her end before you pedestal her! Once
youve had sex, then you can tell her whatever nice words
you want!

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13.4.17. dont talk about how cool you


are

This is a rookie mistake professionals make! I have


seen so many women getting turned off when a guy talks
about his money or other girls he has slept with!

That is the best way to attract gold diggers and repel


quality women! We dont want to attract gold diggers; we
want to keep quality women around! So make it about her.
If you wanna talk about success and achievements, let it be
her who does the talking.

A few nights ago I was out with a friend who happens


to be a successful lawyer who cant get laid! I know why
now!

When we sat to order food, there was a pretty


Brazilian waitress this guy liked a lot! They started talking
and she was keen at first, but suddenly, he took his card
out of his pocket and said I am a lawyer, if you have any
property work you call me, ok? I mean ANY type of
work.

She was talking about surfing in Costa Rica while


this guy cut her thread with his business card! I saw the

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attraction evaporated right in front of my eyes! Plus, a


backpacker serving coffee doesnt need a lawyer!

He didnt try to help her in any way! He just tried to


get her approval and show her how successful he was and
guess what? She noticed and left! Beware! Us guys do it
strangely!

Keep your success to yourself at the beginning (until


after sex)! Make her the hero and admire her for having
goals, dreams or achievements in her life!

As a rule of thumb, the less you talk about your


achievements in materialistic form, and the more you talk
about her plans for future, the better results you get!

14. Online dating

14.1. Why online dating?

I know most men hesitate! Oh, online dating is not


good! I dont feel comfortable! Its not me! Ive never done
it and other valid reasons why they shouldnt do it.

You know, youre right! It is kind of weird to meet


people online, especially at first! However; there are some
good reasons why you should do it.

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14.1.1. Fast results

Have you ever used Tinder? My jaw dropped the first


time I had sex with a girl I met in Tinder! Its just
unbelievable how fast you can meet hot women around
you and have sex with them!

You dont have to wait till the weekend to go out!


Right now as youre reading this, there are 100s or even
1000s of women in your neighborhood online whod kill to
have sex with someone like you, tie you to bed and ride you
like a king and I am not even kidding! Its just not smart
not to take advantage of it!

14.1.2. Abundance

Abundance is another reason! Everyday over 3


billion people go online! Do you know how big 3 billion is?
Thats 3 thousand million! You only want to meet 1 today!
You do the math! The chances are not good, theyre
GREAT! Once you get active online, youll see for yourself.
A world opens up for you!

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14.1.3. You dont need to be confIdent to


meet women online

Theres no pressure! Most men have a hard time


initiating contact face to face! Well, its understandable
and the good news is you dont need to worry about that
when you go online! Even if youre shy, you can start a
conversation with 100s of women! Half the battles already
done.

14.1.4. Copy paste solution done for you

You can contact anyone, anywhere, anytime, from


your bedroom, in your pajamas with pre done messages!
Yes! You can just copy and paste the things I have tried
that have worked for me 100s of times! I have added real
life examples of my interactions on Tinder so you can see
how the techniques you learn in this book come in handy
online as well! You can replicate the results using the exact
same thing!

14.1.5. Very attractive women go on


line looking for love

Some guys think you cant find hot women online!


Well its a myth! I could get into trouble if I show you

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photos of women Ive met online but I want you to know


that online, you could meet some of the most beautiful
women you ever bed!

14.1.6. You can take risk

Most guys dont want to put themselves out there


and say outrages things because it may not go well in
public! Again this is not a problem online! You can take
risk and try outrageous comments or questions. Even if
youre way off, the cost wont be huge!

14.1.7. Its real world

14.2. Quick tips

14.2.1. Use a new email address

Easy! Open a new email address with another name!


Just in case (for any reasons) things go south and you
wont be able to use that email again! You dont want to
lose your main email address! Just open a gmail account
and use that one for on line dating!

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14.2.2. Previous guides apply

Everything else we talked about in this program also


applies to online dating! All the conversational tools work
in the same way, with little difference. Qualification,
disqualification, rapport builders Use them. The only
difference is that everything is more brief, and things
happen a bit faster!

14.2.3. Spend limited time

Always remember, the real world is out there! A


good way to spend your time is to spend 20% of the time
you spend on dating, online, and use 80% of the time, out
with women on real dates, face to face (or ass to face).

Its easy to get addicted to going online and spending


all your time there! What I am saying is that the internet or
Tinder app, should not replace the reality!

14.2.4. Meet her as soon as you can

Avoid becoming her cyber friend! It can be fun to


become online friends! Its fun but not good! Always
remember: the escalation should be as quick as possible!

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Dont wait too long before meeting her! Ill tell you about
the online escalation ladder a bit later on in this chapter.

14.2.5. How other men do it

Open a female account in a dating site, add a photo


of an attractive woman as your profile photo, wait 48
hours and read the messages you received from other men!

Youll notice that 95% of the guys try to sell


themselves to you! I am nice, fun, confident, rich!
Remember the qualification section? Avoid qualifying
yourself to her!

By reading what other men write, you instantly


realize what not to do to stand out! Also get a female
friend to sit next to you and read male profiles together.
Ask her which ones she likes; which ones shed contact if
she was looking for a guy. Get the best parts of each
account and build your own!

14.2.6. Keep it short

As a general rule, dont write overly long messages!


Keep it short and useful! The less you give her, the more
curious shell get and the more youll have to talk about
when you meet! Some men write essays when they text!

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Remember: your words are like tokens! They have value!


The shorter your message, the more valuable they are!

14.2.7. Crazy women

I gotta add this here as well! Just like men, women


could be crazy too! I have had clients who ended up getting
robbed by some women they met online! One poor guy
woke up the next day with his Rolex gone, his money gone,
and even his passport gone!

The same thing applies for the obsessive ones! There


are some women out there who will obsess over you and
wont leave you alone once you have sex! So make sure you
spend enough time with her to find out if shes normal
before you go home together!

14.2.8. Get her photo first

Never ever go on a date without seeing her photo


first! Even if youve spoken on the phone. If you havent
seen a real and recent photo of her, its not a deal!

Remember: she may sound like an angel but


looks like a beast. If youre willing to take the risk, then
go for it! I dont recommend it!

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14.2.9. Photos

Some quick yet very effective tips on your photos:

Most women love pet photos. Plus; it shows


that youre a real human with emotions and
because of that they subconsciously trust you
more! Here is the one I use. PS, your dog is like
your secret weapon! They especially like small
dogs!

The smaller your dog, the faster you fuck!

Add one photo with an older lady! Your mum,


auntie, some random older woman! It shows
youre not a pervert and older women approve
you too! I get many comments on my photos
with older women. Here is the one I use:

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I blurred her face, in case she changed her


mind about being in this book! Shes a lovely
woman and we talk once every few weeks.
Shes so old we always have the same
conversation.

When other women see this photo, they realize


this guy is normal.

Add photos with other women! Not many, only


a couple! Again here is what I use:

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Its simple, not sexual, happy and they always


ask me questions: Who is the girl in the photo?

*BONUS PHOTOS (not necessary)


If you got a good body, add 1 photo where
youre smiling and you could see your body as
well! Remember NOT to have a serious face!
Youre smiling and approachable! I get a lot of
comments on this one.

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These kind of photos work well if you


neutralize the player inside of you with a I
am a nice guy smile. It sends different signals!
Most 6packed tattooed guys make a serious
face and stereotype themselves.

Also make sure your main profile photo


is simple. No sunglasses, hat or masks.

14.3. Your profile content

I recommend you know your audience first! Who are


you writing to and what is it for? Are you after 20-year-
olds or 40-year-olds?

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Are you looking for a girlfriend or just looking for


sex? Here are a couple templates you can use and re-write
the content of your profile.

14.3.1. about me & who Im lookIng for

I love beautiful, confident, and sexy women that are


completely comfortable being feminine. Are you healthy,
secure, optimistic, sexually open, bendy, giving, intelligent,
honest, outgoing (a social butterfly), fun, great
communicator (my life is a drama-free zone), understands
men, affectionate, and very feminine?

My ideal woman is between 5-0 and 5-9 tall,


slender, and in great shape with a great body, long and
straight brown, black, red, or auburn hair, dark eyes, and
clear tan skin. Heath, exercise and a good diet are a big
part of her life.

I love to laugh, tease, and have fun. I want a woman


who is used to the same. What ever you do for a living, its
something you absolutely LOVE! A great sense of humor is
to die for!

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14.3.2. Occupation

I am a yoga teacher. I love helping people heal! I


want a woman who is just as concerned about the welfare
of others as I am and who will support me in my
mission to make the world a better place and make people
healthier!

14.3.3. For Fun

My life is about helping people live their lives to the


fullest. To wake up everyday and give a little more and be a
little better than I was the day before. My life is about
learning, growing and helping others to do the same.

My business is not work to me. I do it because I love


it. For playtime I love being on the water. Jet skis, boats,
etc. I love to snow ski, snow mobile, exercise, run and
anything that allows me to enjoy the beauty of nature.

14.3.4. Favorite Hot Spots

I love to travel and see the world. Paris, Germany,


Jamaica, Bahamas, Sanibel Island, Costa Rica, Orlando,
Delray Beach, The Florida Keys, Tampa-Rocky Point, etc. I
have friends that live all over the world and just love

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spending my time with people who have the same care and
concern for making the world a little better than they
found it.

14.3.5. Favorite Things

I love to eat healthy and exercise sometimes. My


health comes first. Having great health enables me to live,
love, contribute, grow, and give you multiple orgasms in
bed. YOU deserve it! I love cooking good healthy meals for
friends and family!

14.3.6. Sports & Exercise

Yoga, Aerobics, Basketball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling,


Cycling, Football, Golf, Inline skating, Running, Skiing,
Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking,
Weights / Machines, water sports, etc.

14.3.7. Faith

I not a religious person. You wont find me in a


church unless its on a historical tour. Im not into
organized religion. The Lord dwells in our hearts. I can
read the bible and any other holy book and make up my
own mind. Im not interested in listening to dogma from

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unenlightened people trying to tell me how to be


enlightened.

Im looking for a spiritual woman who looks at all


spiritual traditions with respect and without judgment.
Shes a big LOVER. She lights the room up with her calm
and peaceful presence.

14.4. Online escalation!

I have tried literally 100 different styles of


messaging! There is a formula that gets the best results:

Escalate fast! In my experience 3 days is enough to


do the whole thing and go from open to close:

1. Messaging or chatting online

2. Texting on phone

3. Talking on the phone

4. Meet in person on a date

5. Sex

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14.4.1. Get her to qualify herself


before anything else!

Tinder example:

When you get an Its a match alert on Tinder (or


you get a message or a reply from a dating site), if you
notice her name is Swedish, this is usually an approach
you could take:

You: Swedish?
Her: Yes
You: This means youre either super boring or super fun!
Her: Excuse me?
You: My ex was Swedish! She was super fun but her sister
was so so boring : )
Her: I am fun.

This is a classic example of how it should go! 3


messages and she qualifies herself! Done!

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14.4.2. Build some rapport

Next, tell her a bit about about yourself and ask her
about her life! Avoid getting into the interview mode!
Exchange 5-10 messages here.

14.4.3. Cut it

Once she gets used to texting you and there is some


trust, cut it for a day! Give her few hours to miss you!

Then you can exchange phone numbers. Some resist


some dont! There are few ways to get her number even if
she resists!

What I found is a great way to get her number


through Tinder is photos! When there is some trust and
she is complying, I use the food excuse!

OMG I am cooking the best pasta! You gotta see this!


How can you send photos on Tinder?

The thing is, you cant send photos with Tinder! So


shes gonna bring it up!

Her: I dont think you can send photos on Tinder! I


think its time to text?

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Ive had that several times! Women brought it up like


that! It looks like its their game! Its like a dance, you
make a move, then she does! You both want the same thing
and it eventually happens if you take these simple steps!

Read these carefully and see what I do:

I gave her a comment on the photo on her


food.
She is testing to see if she can frame the
interaction the way she wants it! She is
trying to qualify me!

Look at the frame she is trying to set:


You lucky boy!
You just ticked my box!

At this point, my response to her


comments determines what she does!

Whats the best thing to do here? Easy:


Push and pull!

Id LOVE to cook for you, but you gotta


earn it first!

Set a challenge for her, while agreeing with


her: You gotta earn it first!

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She tried to bribe by offering one of her


photos. Again I dont give up. Create
another challenge for her:

Duck face gets you 5 points. You need 15


for garlic prawn!

See what happens next! She suddenly talks


about her boobs out of nowhere! This is
what I mean by NOT GIVING YOUR
POWER AWAY!

To give her a prize & encourage her to keep


offering me value, I give her another 5
points but not for her boobs, but for being
funny n cute! This means I dont give you
value for your boobs. If I give her point on
her boobs, she wont give it easily!

In the next part (its cut from this screen


shot) I tell her:

You may get 5 more points for your D cup


but conditions apply! Are your boobs real?

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Its done! Game over! Tests passed. She


has determined shes gonna escalate and
meet up plus, its gonna be sexual.
I keep leading by asking her What are we
gonna do with those points. And of course
she is my prey now and I am the anaconda.

I want you to recognize these signals. Most


men miss and dont close.

Shes talking about us in the kitchen,


drinking.

Men in the kitchen are so damn sexy!

Look! It took only a few messages to get


here! The point: This is all the formula we
discussed in the book!

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From this point on is easy! In the previous section we


did a crash course on dating. It doesnt matter how you
met! Online or offline. The dating rules are exactly the
same! Now get online and go get them!

15. How to be confident

15.1. Why do you need to be confident?

Its simple why you should be confident! You wont


live a life you deserve if you are not confident! You wont
get the women you deserve and you wont get to live the
way you are supposed to. People walk all over you and take
away whats yours! That includes your women too! And
more importantly:

If youre not confident, you can go your entire life


reaching only a fraction of your potential!

The lack of confidence creates fear and fear paralyses


people mentally, physically and emotionally!

In seduction and meeting attractive women,


confidence is plays a huge role! It stops you from
approaching her! It stops you from getting her phone
number, the kiss and escalating sexually!

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So its absolutely crucial you read, learn, understand


and apply the things I have for you here because this will
directly affect EVERTHING ELSE youve learned in this
book!

If youre confident, you wont be scared to take risks!


Youll go ahead and do things most men dont do! Cool
things!

15.2. The truth about people

Before we get into this one I wanna tell you some


secrets about people! Some people have more confidence
than others but every human being alive experiences fear,
self-doubt and moments of uncertainty! Everyone!

Youll be amazed at how well people hide this one!


You may look at your boss or a famous celebrity and think
to yourself There is no way he/she ever doubts
himself/herself!

The fact is that he/she does! Human beings do!


Thats just in our nature!

Next time when you enter a venue and you feel


uncomfortable or a bit insecure about what youre wearing
or how you look, I want you to remember this one!

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That nasty feeling is more common than you think!


The difference is, some learn how to mask it, some learn
how to get rid of completely and some ignore it and avoid
living the life they deserve!

Drinking is a good example: one major reason people


drink is to kill the intellect so they can indirectly boost
their confidence (this is such a bad way way of getting
confidence)!

Bottom line: If you feel insecure, youre not alone!


Self doubt is universal!

15.3. What is confidence?

There are many ways to explain confidence. One way


to describe it is to break it down to 2 types:

Confidence in what you do: Its the feeling


that you can rely on yourself for doing
something well! Whatever the task is, you
just know that you are good enough to do it
well. You dont care if you dont succeed! You
just know, whatever you do, you are good
enough and have already succeeded!

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Its in everything you do! The way you walk,


talk, communicate, sit and stand!

Confidence in who you are: Its the feeling


that you can rely on who you are, how
you think and the decisions you make!
You trust what you do is the right thing to do
and the way you think is right! You dont have
second thoughts!

The more confidence you have, the more decisive


you become.

More conviction = less doubts!

Once you have conviction and you are full hearted,


people start following you! Both men and women! People
want to listen to someone who sure of themselves! They
will listen to you and follow you.

You become a leader. Your social value increases


and you feel better about yourself, your surroundings and
what you do! You start liking people more!

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15.4. Situational confidence is not


real confidence

Ill tell you a secret. I am very social and meet people


all the time! One thing I noticed is that its rare to meet
truly confident people! Let me explain. The most common
type of confidence is situational confidence.

These are some examples of situational confidence.


Of course this is not about 100% of the population, but its
very common!

A bartender behind the bar! He is cool,


friendly, fun and confident! Talks to everyone
and hes a social butterfly! Take him away from
that bar and hell be quiet, shy and not much
fun at all! Unless he has real confidence!

A lawyer behind his desk. He knows it all, hes


powerful and seems to be the only person in
the room who knows what the right thing to do
is! Take him away from his office, put him in a
circle of basketball players who dont care
about his job and see what happens. Hell be
less talkative, less confident and less sure

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about his identity! Unless he has real


confidence!

A DJ! This is a big one and the easiest to


understand! A DJ has a lot of social value in a
club. Hes the cool guy who knows everyone
and gets most girls. Take him out of a club to a
gathering where no one knows him. He wont
be able to be himself and be as comfortable as
he is in a club! Unless he has real
confidence!

A McDonalds staff manager! He gets all the


attention because hes in charge of employees
jobs and rosters! He knows in that specific
situation he has power and control. Take him
away from his branch, put him in an
environment where no one knows him and he
will not be able to perform! Unless he has
real confidence!

15.5. Real confidence

Real confidence is where youre the same guy, with


the same level of comfort and conviction wherever you are,
regardless of your situation and surroundings. You walk

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and talk the same and youre nice to people. The tone of
your voice doesnt change to people pleaser when youre
in public! You dont tense up in different venues and youre
at ease!

You feel good about being anywhere. You are care-


free! You smile by default and most of the times you have a
good time regardless! You dont change because your
environment is different. Wherever you are, you have no
problems talking to women, getting sexual with them and
doing what you want to do.

When I talk about situational confidence, I see it


makes most men angry! Because its confronting! If you
wonder about your confidence and whether its situational
or not, stop!

Its ok either way, because here I am gonna walk you


through the main pillars of confidence and youll see for
yourself that you can easily become confident regardless of
your situation, location and your past!

15.6. We are not born confident

An average ordinary person (like me, and probably


you as well) is not born confident! I used to be the least
confident guy in the room! I used to think I wasnt good

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enough for anything! I hated my body and face! Now I


know for a fact, even if I am in the same room with Johnny
Depp for more than half an hour, if not more, Id get the
same amount of attention from women and have more
women interested in me just by being there! I know! Crazy!
It is like super powers!

Thats a provocative comment I just made above, but


I want you to know! Once you realize women dont want
money, beauty or fame and they just want the feelings they
get from those things Once you understand this by heart,
you will be able to get them to feel whatever they crave!
This is probably the most powerful and difficult thing to
explain!

Also Confidence is something you build as you go


through life. As children, most of us have the same level of
confidence (which is usually miniscule)! Then based on
our environment, family and how we grow up, we develop
confidence!

15.7. Most people have self doubt

Remember before when I said most people doubt


themselves and their lives! Well its true, its a curse and a
blessing that you and I live in a such a society!

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Why is it a blessing for you? Because you can


easily stand out! You can work on yourself and become
better than most people! When I was 16 I wet my pants in
front of the classroom. I was too shy to speak in public.
Now I do talks for more than 500 people in the room and I
have a BLAST! Being on stage is my home! What do you
think happened? Why do you think this happened?

We can manipulate confidence!

15.8. *Confidence cheat sheet

There are several ways to go around this and become


more confident! Internally and externally. Lets go
through some of them:

15.8.1. How to carry yourself. What to


do and what not to do

These little tricks are simple and extremely


important! It makes you feel different and also get a
completely different type of attention from people! Get a
small piece of paper and write these down! Promise me
youll carry it in your wallet and check it out everyday
before you sleep!

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15.8.2. Head up, chest up, point finger


under your chin

This is easy and effective! Look at your right hand,


point your finger and make the loser sign and place your
point finger under your chin and stick your thumb to your
throat! This gives your neck a 90-degree angle and stops
you from dropping your chin! Keeping your head up as this
gets a lot of attention!

The reason is obvious: Insecure, shy guys who dont


have much to offer, look down and hunch their back!
Proud, secure and confident people hold their head and
chest up! Easy? Yes!

15.8.3. Smile

Look man this is so ridiculously easy and effective


you wont even believe it! Women subconsciously know, a
guy who doesnt smile, probably:

Doesnt get laid either

Is insecure as well

Isnt fun to be with because he is not enjoying


his own company

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Is not approachable

Has many more negative qualities

So smile, keep it simple and dont over do it! Just


google Jude Law Smile Photo and look at a few of his
shots. He is the master of all masters when it comes to
seduction and womanizing. Develop a smile, practice it,
own it and wear it all the time! Even when you take a
shower!

15.8.4. Take 2 deep breaths every minute

This is also an effective one! Every couple of minutes


take 2 deep breaths! It calms you down and makes you
relax a bit! As you go through your day, you accumulate
tension! By taking deep breaths you release some of that
tension!

15.8.5. dont hunch Your back

Your posture is extremely important! Make sure you


avoid hunching your back! Bad posture goes way, way
back! Usually from childhood. That back! Its really back!

Thats one reason I want you to carry that piece of


paper as the reminder and constantly remind yourself of

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these things because the bitch about this stuff is that


theyre really easy to forget them and end up back in your
old habits! Some of these changes might take some time!

15.8.6. Master the eye contact

If not the most, this is one of the most important


elements of your success with women and dating!
Previously in the seduction section we discussed this in
details! Here are a few reminders:

Women can read your mind through your eyes!


She can tell what youre thinking!

People who dont make eye contact are not


present and dont usually listen well! Presence
and being there is an important attribute that
creates attraction! Remember we talked about
it before in the attraction section?

By keeping the eye contact and smiling you


come off dominant, confident, warm
approachable, likable and emotionally stable!

When you are interacting with anyone, hold


your eye contact and use the parallelogram
formula you learned in the eye contact part of

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the seduction section! 5 second right eye, 5


seconds left, 5 seconds her lips and 2 seconds
away!

To disarm and lessen the potential pressure


that your eye contact could create, SMILE!

It creates an intimate bond most men cant


create!

You can use eye contact and create a great deal


of sexual tension! It creates intimate moment
between the 2 of you and it can happen really
quickly too! You can talk for hours and build
rapport and sexual tension, or you can use your
eye contact and do the same in a matter of
minutes! Eye contact creates intense sexual
tension!

When you enter a venue, make eye contact


with everyone as you do something else! For
example, you talk to your friend and smile as
youre walking in, at the same time gesture and
make eye contact!

Its important you dont scan for value! Some


guys just desperately look around for

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entertainment! Remember you are the show!


You are fun! You are the part of the room
where everyone wants to be!

Please rewind and read the eye contact in the


seduction section as a reminder!

Talk to everyone! While youre waiting for your


drink at the bar and you make eye contact with
a woman, DONT LOOK AWAY! Just say:
Hey I am Ben/Jack/Andy/Josh/Gay

15.8.7. Speak loud and clear

About 10 years ago, I used to wonder How come


most people dont even say hi back to me when I say hello
to them?.

It took me a while to realize I was speaking too


quietly! When I increased the volume, the results were
insane! Instant! More attention, a much better reaction
and a lot more instant attraction at first sight!

Remember, confident, secure men speak


dynamically! Loud and clear in public, whispering
exotically when 1 on 1 and intimate with her!

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15.8.8. Handshake

Make strong handshakes! Dont squeeze too hard,


just make sure youre aware and you own it! If you shake
hand with guys, lightly tap him on his left arm with your
left arm as you shake his right hand!

15.8.9. OWN it even if you suck

In the attraction section I discussed this in detail!


Whatever you do, do it full hearted and own it! Conviction,
conviction, conviction! You can get away with doing
and saying almost anything if you own it! Look at
Donald Trump right now: hes running for president while
saying the most outrages things! And millions love him!

15.8.10. dont drInk too much

Discipline affects the level of your confidence! The


more disciplined you are, the more confident youll be! If
you wanna drink, dont over do it! Have a coupe and keep
it under control! We went through this in the dating
section!

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15.8.11. Move slower than usual

Walk, talk, and even blink a bit slower than usual!


Cool, confident people are chilled and relaxed. They dont
rush! They do things calmly and with no stress!

16. Movies to watch

I want you to watch these movies (scenes from these


movies). Seeing bad ass guys like Brad Pitt in action,
makes it easier to understand what youve learned!

Meet Joe Black (Coffee shop scene)

Roger Dodger (The whole movie)

Vicky Christina Barcelona (The whole movie)

I love you New York (Ethan Hawke pickup


scene)

Swingers (The whole movie)

Indecent Proposal (Robert Redford the scene


when he proposed money to fuck the other
guys wife)

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17. Lines:

Here are some of the lines we went through! All in


one place. Since we did it before, here I am not gonna
explain the technique or the formula behind them, this is
just a quick reference! If you wanna see the the formula,
please read the conversation toolbox section!

These should be delivered playfully (and most of the


time with a smile and dynamic facial expressions):

Casual disqualifiers

You and I should never have sex, and I mean


never!

You should never have sex with someone like


me! I am bad for you.

I am bad for you! Youre innocent! Stop trying


to be bad!

We should never kiss! Both of us can do better!


To be very honest, me more!

I am not in love with you. Thats why we


shouldnt sleep together!

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Look! Youre pretty but I dont sleep with


women like you!

Jenny, you are a wonderful woman but


honestly Id never date a woman like you.

I usually like women your type but you and I


will never work.

You know what? I cant talk to you right now!

I think youre absolutely gorgeous, but I dont


date Australians.

Tell me something about you that make me


wanna know you better. Are you trustworthy?

How much do you weight? (Use this only if


shes not fat)

You: OMG you should be a model!


Her: Really?
You: No! Im kidding! Jeez youre confident
arent you?

You: OMG you should be a model! Wait how


tall are you?

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Her: 160
You: Oh no you shouldnt be a model!

When she messes up, very playfully tell her:


Are you retarded?

Her (in a defensive way): I have a boyfriend.


You: Wow, Im sorry, you must have thought
that I was hitting on you. I was actually just
being nice

This will make her feel guilty and she will more
than likely apologize to you.

Being upfront and transparent makes


everything easier and more meaningful! So
reveal the truth about yourself!

You look shy! This means: Youre either a


terrible lover, you know? Bad with intimacy
non passionate & boring! Or youre a great one!
(Pause Pause Pause) . You dont have to tell
me which one you are. your eyes are already
telling me! Lights on or off?

You: Genuinely hurt and upset. Hold her


hand and say: Why do you smoke baby girl?

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And hold her hand and say I ask the universe


to give you power to quit

Eye contact: Lets synclike you sync your


phone with itunes. Im the phone and youre
itunes. Go!

Look me in the eye and tell me that.

Look me in the eye, now mean it and tell me


that

You get 1 point for being trustworthy! When


you get to 15 points, you may get a kiss! If you
get 20 points, youll get a kiss on the bridge!

18. Quick reminders

She only gives it to you if she sees you dont


need it.

Review your interactions, find your sticking


points and then work on them.

Shes energy driven. If the energy gets tensed


up, youre fucked! Remember: nothing is a big

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deal. She feels what you feel! So keep calm and


be fully relaxed!

Use a condom so you can keep smiling.

The joy is in the moment! Be present!


Remember we discussed it in the attraction
section? When youre there talking to her, give
her your 100% attention!

From attention to close. Give her reasons so


she can rationalize everything you want her to
do.

Qualify, qualify, qualify!

Make your transitions from each stage to the


next, smooth.

Get her to qualify herself every 10 minutes


until you have sex

Bounce her. The more you move her, the more


she trusts you

Remember 1 inch at a time?

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Going for the number (Give her a good reason).


Tell her she should come try yoga with you one
day and when you got for the number, tell,
dont ask! Put your number in my phone!

In every interaction, there is always 1 person


who reacts less to the other person. The
interaction goes the way The Less Reactive
Person wants it to! Show as few reactions as
possible! SLOW motion. Not rushed! Always
remember the father daughter frame! Or buyer
seller. THE ONE WITH LESS VALUE REACTS
MORE

Your actions set the interaction, not her


reactions! So dont wait for her reactions! You
are the cause not the effect!

Your frame! Whats a good frame and how do


you hold it? Dont be her friend. Hold your
frame till she accepts it. You are a sexual being
and she wants you to be sure of it, sure of
yourself and sure of everything that you do!

Do not seek approval, EVER!

Act as if shes already your girlfriend.

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Not everyone is gonna like you! Its fine. No


one closes 100% of the time. If you met people
who say no, its fine! Just move on to the next
one!

Change her mood not her mind. She is energy


and emotion driven!

Tease as you disqualify: Tension creates


attraction. (You must say these with a playful
tone!)

o Id probably make out with you if you


were a little nicer.

o How old are you? Aaaaa thats old. Im


kidding!

o Hey dont doubt yourself.

o Youre almost so beautiful

o You have questionable qualities

o Make out and afterwards tell her Youre


a good kisser, but it needs some work!

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Push and pull. Be ambiguous and


unpredictable! Boring sucks!

Have the willingness to walk away!

You dont have to answer all her questions.


Smile and ignore once in a while!

Have a point of view! Dont fully agree or


disagree all the time.

If you get rejected. Make it funny/awkward


OMG I am gonna die alone! Its my hair isnt
it?

Do not adapt to her rhythm. Instead break her


rhythm and let her adapt to yours.

Yes, sometimes youve gotta break her pattern.


The more aggressive she is, the more
frequently youll have to do this. There are
several ways to do this. The most powerful and
effective technique used by Casanova is one
thats written a bit above, simply ignore her
question. Thats right! Just dont answer! If she
asks you some cheeky sarcastic question,
simply ignore and make a statement about

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something else!
Example:

Her: Do you know why I never hook you up


with any of my friends?
You: (Pause for a few seconds, look away and
say): I think I am going to Bali next year! I
always wanted to check out the beaches there!

This is related to frame control which we


discussed before. Make sure you read that
section as well. So remember, you dont have to
answer all her questions! You dont have to
make comments on every single thing she says!
You are not a people pleaser.

This is kind of a disqualifier which we go


through in details in that section!

When youre there, be there!


Pay attention to her signals. Verbal, non-verbal
and physical. Is she in a hurry!

Dont qualify yourself! EVER!


Its such a turn off!

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Let her say I like you first, or wait till after


sex

Put up conditions. Dont give your power away!


Never tell her 100% clearly that you like her
until after the sex!

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