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first glance, he may seem like any regular student, there truly are things about this young man
that would surprise you. Kyle lives with his mother, who truly is a woman of means. Tragically,
the rest of Kyles family has committed suicide, leaving this young sophomore to attend the
funerals of both his father and his brother. While the deaths of his family members has left an
unmistakable mark on his life, Kyle has grown in a smart, strong, resourceful young man.
During his crucial teenage years, Kyle has had to deal with the deaths of all of his male
role models. His brother committed suicide two years ago, and then his father decided to take his
life one year later. This has without a doubt led to Kyle having some trouble as a student, but all
of that will be discussed in the emotional development page. Considering his age, and the
adversities he has faced, Kyle is without a doubt exceeding everyones expectations. Even within
the year of knowing him, Kyle has made great strides with his anger and has become a model
Kyle comes from a family of great means. His father achieved a Bachelors Degree in
accounting, but the family has made ninety percent of their money in the stock market. His
mother graduated high school, but she chose not to further her education after getting her high
school diploma. Because of the wealth acquired before his fathers suicide, Kyles mother does
not need to work. His fathers fortune with the stock market has also led them to have a very
high social standing in their community. They are one of the wealthiest families in their
neighborhood, and they enjoy the many perks and benefits that come along with the wealth and
inches, and he weighs 160 pounds. As a fifteen year old male, Kyle should be close to
completing his physical growth. His voice should be lowering and facial hairs should start to
appear. He may also continue to gain weight and muscle (Palo Alto Medical Foundation, 2015).
Kyle truly is a remarkable physical specimen, in terms of both normal growth and acquired
muscle mass.
exceptionalities, but he is a star athlete at his school. Kyle is the Captain of his schools Varsity
Basketball team, and he is in top physical shape. He truly is an All-American athlete. With his
popularity and his star athlete status, Kyle admits to being very concerned about his body image,
which is to be expected for a young man his age (Mentoring Partnership of Minnesota, 2006).
Kyle seems to be comfortably completing his physical growth. The school he goes to
does not permit his students to have facial hair, so he has to shave every morning. At fifteen
years old his voice is already low, low enough for you to mistaken him for a grown adult if he is
talking to you and you have your back turned. He also continues to gain weight and muscle at a
steady rate as he works out with his coaches and friends. Kyle certainly seems to be on track to
finish his physical growing by the expected ages of 17 or 18 (University of Alabama: Parenting
be said for his emotional developments. Although most adolescents experience emotional
conflicts at some point (Slavin, 2015), Kyle has had to deal with things that most adults are not
able to handle. While the argument can be made that he did not make the best choices after the
suicides of his family members, Kyle is putting himself back on the right track. He has become
the standard bearer for his peers, and a great role model for the younger students. While the
suicide of his father and brother affected him deeply, Kyle, with some help from his coaches and
friends, is back on track to mature into a healthy and emotionally sound adult.
While children in the age group of 15 might feel a lot of sadness or depression, leading to
poor grades, alcohol or drug abuse, unsafe sex, and other problems (Centers for Disease Control
and Prevention, 2015), Kyle having to experience the back to back suicides of family members
has changed his life. The loss of his father and brother effected his grades, his interactions with
his peers, and even his interactions with his teachers. The loss of his family members made his
grades fall dramatically. He went from an average student, to failing in almost all of his classes.
His behaviors with his peers and teachers changed by him becoming a bully. He truly did not
care for any consequences, he would even threaten to attack his teachers.
Kyle has firmly reached the stage of identity achievement. On his own, he has decided
that he wants to go to the University of Oregon and play basketball there. After college, he
aspires to join the NBA and then play basketball until he is financially stable enough to retire.
Even though it is not usually until late adolescence (18 to 22 years of age) that people achieve a
status of identity achievement (Slavin, 2015), it would seem that Kyle knows what he would like
to do with the rest of his life. When asked if this was his decision, and if he thinks he would be
happy playing basketball professionally for the rest of his life, he answered yes to both questions.
Kyle has developed philosophically exactly as he should. Piaget would definitely
describe is definitely describe Kyle as being in the autonomous morality stage. Kohlberg, if
given the chance to interview Kyle, would say that that he is the Universal Ethical Principle
Orientation stage, which is located in Kohlbergs Postconventional Level. One of the major
criticisms of both Piagets and Kohlbergs theory is that young children can often reason about
moral situations in more sophisticated ways than a stage theory would suggest (Slavin, 2015),
and Kyle is no different. After interviewing his mother, I discovered that Kyle was questioning
rules and making decisions based on his self-chosen ethical principles years before he was nine
years old.
During an interview with Kyle, he was asked how he would feel if his mom was in great
pain from a car accident she was in, but the doctors refused to give her pain medication because
they thought she was faking the pain. If he knew his mother was in pain, and the doctor
accidentally left the pain medication in his mothers room after he or she left, what would he do?
Would he listen to the doctor and not give her the drug, or administer the drug to his mother and
alleviate her pain. Without thinking, he replied that he would give his mother the drug. When
asked why, he simply said because it was the right thing to do. This shows that the important idea
that carefully choosing basic principles to follow, such as caring for and respecting every living
thing (North Carolina State University, 2015) has come into Kyles understanding of reality.
Kyle is socially on track. In fact, an effective argument could be raised that he is socially
ahead of all of his peers. While the suicides of his family members caused his to slip backwards
socially, he has built himself not only back up to where he should be, but beyond that. As
expected in later teen years, Kyle has already begun to become comfortable with his identity, and
the importance of his peers opinions is beginning to diminish. He is now just beginning to spend
time going out on one-on-one dates (WebMD, 2014). This is a little ahead of where he should be,
student who is 12-18 years old is typically in Stage V: Identity versus Role Confusion. At his
age, challenging authority can be expected, but it is obvious that threating authority figures is not
to be expected. It can be easily seen that, with the loss of his father and brother, Kyle acted out
because he did not know how to express his feelings appropriately. Luckily Coach Scott, a
mentor to Kyle, was able to get this young man back on track. With the help of the coach, Kyle
now knows his role in life and even what he wants from his life.
After picking himself off of the floor, and apologizing to his peers and teachers, Kyle
quickly sailed through the Identity versus Role Confusion stage. With the help from Coach Scott,
Kyle found out what he is good at, what he wants out of life, and who he wants to be. Since he
knows who he is, Kyle now feels stable enough to try and share his life with someone. While this
may sound a little premature for a 15 year old, he is more than ready to move onto the next stage
of his life. He is ready for the next stage of this life because, as is in the definition of social
development, Kyle is able to identify and understand his own feelings and to regulate his
Kyle has dyslexia, which is a common condition that affects the way the brain processes written
and spoken language. Dyslexia is primarily associated with trouble reading (Lapkin, 2015). Even
with his dyslexia, Kyle is still a straight A student. When interviewed, Kyle said that his dyslexia
is never an excuse for him to have bad grades, he just has to work a little harder.
development. According to Piaget, the formal operational stage brings with it the ability to think
abstractly and to see possibilities beyond the here and now (Slavin, 2015). Kyle shows this and
so much more every day in class. He actually has a really good handle on abstract concepts such
as algebra, creative writing, and even college level mathematics. Kyle has mastered most of
Piagets formal operational tasks, which two-thirds of U.S. high school students do not succeed
in (Slavin, 2015).
which will require him to focus on his studies while he tries to be a collegiate athlete. He
willingly admits that his dyslexia will be an obstacle for him to conquer, but he finds motivation
and sanctuary when he speaks about all of the famous people who have conquered this
exceptionality before him. He specifically seems to find joy in talking about the story of Orlando
Blooms struggles and success with dyslexia. Kyle now thrives in the formal operational stage,
unlike when he was still trying to deal with the death of his father and brother, because he has a
certain amount of empathy and can understand that others have different ideas, but he strongly
Physical Development
I would certainly recommend a close monitoring of Kyles working out and eating habits.
While I have no reason to believe that he is doing anything dangerous, he is very interested in his
physical appearance. He should be watched to make sure he does not begin using steroids or start
any form of unhealthy dieting. Stereotypically, it is expected a male athlete to do steroids, but 25
percent of the individuals with Anorexia and Bulimia Nervosa are male (NEDA, 2015).
Emotional Development
A close monitoring of Kyles emotional development should take place. While he seems
to have made it over the initial hurdle of the suicides in his family, there are still bad days where
he could act out and snap at a student. While he has reached the stage of identity achievement,
the anger that led him to threaten his teachers can still come boiling to the surface.
Philosophical Development
Kyle has made great progress in terms of moral development and reasoning. His parents
and teachers just need to make sure that his values and mindsets do not change as he gets older.
As he ages, he needs to still have strong ethical principles that will help everyone around him.
Social Development
Since Kyle now knows who he is and what he wants out of life, his parents and teachers
should monitor the young ladies he chooses to date. Love has the ability to do great good, but at
the same time, great harm to a young man. He should be watched to ensure he chooses well.
Intellectual Development
Kyles grades are great now, but an eye should be kept on him to make sure they stay that
way. He is reaching an age where he could slip up and his grades could pay the price.
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