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influenced others, helped resolve disputes, or contributed to group efforts over time.
What dictates a leader? What dictates a good or bad leader? The answer to these questions is the
same, a leader is one for the people, and with the people. I have not gotten the opportunity to demonstrate
my leadership abilities to its fullest potential, but I take every opportunity I get to its fullest. One of my
proudest leadership role would have to be the Youth Group I attend as a leader at my local Mosque. The
Mosque I attend has many programs involving children, which I am highly involved in. The reason that I
bring this up is because Im very proud of the things I can and have accomplished participating in the child
programs.
I first got into the helping children when a Syrian refugee family moved next door from my house.
They were completely lost and spoke very little English. Naturally, I went over and introduced myself and
asked if they needed any help, hoping they will say yes. They did. I introduced them to our local Mosque
and explained to them the differences between the US and Syria, what they can and cant do, and the
freedom of expression.
Several days passed by and one of the Syrian children got into a violent argument with another child
of a different religious belief. It looked like it was going to end in I stepped in and tried to explain to the
Syrian boy that this was not okay to do. That people are allowed to practice different beliefs, he understood
it and calmed down. The real problem was with the other boy, who refused to calm down. He was spouting
offensive nonsense to try and rile us up, but we refused to budge. Thirty minutes went by of me trying to
convince him that we are not that different and that we should not be fighting.
I broke. I felt the tension build, knowing I was about to say something I will regret. To counteract
what I was about I bit my tongue so hard that it started to bleed. The boy finally calmed down, and Ive
gotten to know him quite well since then.
Describe the most significant challenge you have faced and the steps you have taken
to overcome this challenge. How has this challenge affected your academic
achievement?
As a child I had Glossophobia or speech anxiety, and that really affected how I behaved
during school and outside of school. This phobia was the hardest thing for me to conquer because
there is no easy way out of it. I could not ask for help when I needed it and could not talk to
people. The thought of a crowd would drive me insane with anxiety. It took me years to get over it
and the road was long and tortuous. This particular anxiety was highly affecting the way I
performed in school, I did not and could not do any project or assignment where I had to interact
with a group of people.
I took many approaches to this certain bump in the road, but the technique that helped me
the most was the hardest. It was a sort of exposure therapy, I forced myself every day to talk to
more and more people at the same time. I started with three people, my previous max that would
not trigger the anxiety, and moved on from there. This was not an add more people every day
thing, because I remember getting to seven people and completely freezing and then running out of
the room. This happened more and more as the number of people I was interacting with increased.
My Glossophobia was finally treated with a lot of practice and forcing myself to do what I
had in my mind. Getting rid of the anxiety has tremandacly helped out my academic career. With
the anxiety I would never have taken advanced classes, and surely never have taken college
courses. I am now known to be quite good at debates and very talkative according my teachers.
This only proves that if you really put in the time and effort, eventually you will succeed.
. Describe your favorite academic subject and explain how it has influenced you.