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wouldve been able to muster in their you can see, and she swiveled the
position. They not only did the tasks monitor so that we were both looking
that were necessary, but they did them at it. She began to explain the symbols
in a way that caused all of us to settle and layout on the screen. Although I
New down a bit. Nothing had changed, couldnt decipher much, that action
yet after talking with an agent, each removed a hierarchical barrier between
person looked a bit less harried and us and shouted that she and I were on
angry. We were there for another 90 the same team.
ALLAN COLLINS
minutes, but the mood in the room 3. The agents maintained their
was amazingly different, even though poise, even when confronted by
there were no planes and our situa- someone who was neither fair nor
tions mostly hadnt changed. The dif- kind to them, responding with the
ference was that most of us had met calmness that we needed to see and
with one of the gate agents. feel. Their actions showed us that they
were doing everything possible and
How Did They Do That? that losing composure wouldnt help
New Like those agents, principals some- the situation.
times end up operating with limited 4. They defined their job in a trans-
information in a situation where much formational way. Although they might
of the problem is out of our control not see any of us again, they invested
JAMES PAUL GEE
and those we serve arent happy. So its time in building rapport. Relationships
worth considering how the gate agents are at the heart of every interaction,
did their job in a way that positively and the ways the agents talked and
changed the group atmosphere. They listened caused us to be more positive
engaged in four leadership behaviors. and forgiving.
1. They listened attentively Inevitably there will be times when
throughout. Im sure that my story youre facing an unhappy individual or
wasnt much different from those of group, and you wont have sufficient
the score of folks who preceded me, information or authority to change the
New but the gate agent listened and didnt situation. But like the gate agents, you
try to hurry me. When she called me can have a positive effect by listening,
Tom, I felt myself exhaling a bit, and personalizing the interactions, and
BRIAN D. SCHULTZ it helped when she said, I know how notexacerbating frustrations. Thats
frustrating this is for you. I knew that leadership. EL
she was doing her job, but those two
not-strictly-required comments made
me feel that she was concerned about Thomas R. Hoerr
my situation. They changed how I felt. (trhoerr@newcityschool.
2. They made it clear that they org) is an education con-
were on our side, willing to do sultant, emeritus head of
New whatever they could to help resolve school at the New City
our problem. At one point, the agent I School, and a teacher at
the University of Missouri-
met with was peering at her computer
St. Louis. He is the author
monitor to find possible alternative of The Formative Five: Fostering Grit,
BETHANY WILINSKI routes, and it seemed to be taking Empathy, and Other Success Skills Every
forever. Becoming impatient, I asked Student Needs (ASCD, 2016). Follow
www.tcpress.com how things looked. Here, she said, him on Twitter @tomhoerr.