The

Keys To
Seducing
Latin Women

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Devoted to the power and right that we all have within us to find
the woman we want and be happy. To the people that are
beginning to discover that life is too short to pass up submission to
conformity of common existence.

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 Table Of Content

Foreword by Nick Rogue....7

Preface...8

The Initial Status Of A Gringo.............9

I. S. L. C (Instant Latina Sexual Chemistry)...13

The First Approach....................................................17

Learning Spanish - Portuguese to Pick Up Latinas?.....................................19

Night Game..............21

How To Recognize Her Interest....22

Projecting High Value In Latin Night Clubs.....23

How To Meet Latin Women In Night Clubs........24

Strategy #1..........26

Strategy #2...27

Strategy #3......28

Strategy #4......29

Strategy #5..30

How To Approach A Latina If Shes With Other Guys..31

Indirect Ways To Start Conversations With Latinas.32

Meeting Latin Women At The Gym.....34

How to get her interested.............34

Inviting Them Out...36

The First Date......38

The Proper Mind Set..41

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Conversation Topics To Use.................................................................42

The Way To Treat Them................................................................45

How To Kiss With A Latina...........................................................................48

Latin Culture...53

Who pays the bill?.....53

Is Latin Culture Chauvinistic?............................................................53

Origins Of Latin Culture....55

How the culture is romantically involved....55

How Sexually Open Minded They Are....56

Is It Worth To Have A Relationship With A Latina?......................................57

Where To Find The Hot Ones Depending By Country........57

Meeting Latin Girls When Travelling How To

Make A Good Impression..59

Woo The In Style...60

Latin Women Online.....61

The Pictures...61

Description Lines......63

How To Deal With Latinas....64

Facts About Latin Women And Their Culture...........69

The Gravitational Law Of Attraction70

Attracting Latin Women....72

Sex With Latin Women.....75

The place for sex....75

Seduction In The Apartment.....77

How they behave sexually............78

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 How to make sex happen......79

Sexual performance....79

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 Foreword by Nick Rogue

"If you want a proper margarita, don't go to an Irish pub"

This bit of bar wisdom has applications that extend far beyond the
bar. It even extends into the realm of seduction.

Listen, if you want to know what it takes to seduce a Latina, sure

you could come to me and I could give you the principles that are
cross-cultural when it comes to getting sexy women into bed
and you'll get results.

But wouldn't it be so much better to go straight to the source and

learn from Esteban Lara, a guy who has been seducing Latin
women for his entire adult life?

Wouldn't you much rather know the exact things you should do to
seduce a Latina that might not be as effective on the typical
American (or wherever you're from) girl? And more importantly,
isn't it time you understand the cultural differences so that you can
stop doing the things that repel Latinas (even if those same things
get girls from your culture fired up and ready to go to bed with
you)?

That is exactly what Esteban reveals in this guide. You are going
to know exactly how to seduce Latin women straight from a guy
who KNOWS Latin women.

So if you're ready to seduce that sexy girl, let's call her "Margarita",
it's time you get out of that proverbial "Irish Pub" and put your
confidence in the words of Esteban Lara. Read on...

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 Preface

Every man dies, not every man really lives. -William Wallace

A wise quote, indeed.

So many men these days are unhappily married to a woman they

chose by mistake. Worse yet, some of these men settle for a sub-
par marriage because they believe that being with a woman they
dont love is a normal thing.

They trick themselves into thinking that having a curvy, pretty girl
in their arms is unattainable.

So where can a man find the woman of his dreams?

Theres no need to look further than South America, a group of

nations with an unusually high concentration of attractive women.

The only problem is that, stereotypically, the sensual vivacity and

tenderness of Latin women is difficult to harness because of their
equally stereotypical flakiness.

Getting to know them can be difficult for most men. I was born and
raised in Colombia, a country with some of the sexiest women in
the world.

I know the Latina mind set. So trust me, my advice on Latinas is

spot on. Im here to reveal my secrets, so you can also get the
Latin woman of your dreams.

Over the past years Ive refined my technique, and made all of the
mistakes you wont have to make (if you follow my advice
carefully). Ive been where you are, and I am where youre going to
be. I wish you the best of luck on your journey to mastering the art
of seducing Latin women.

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 The Initial Status Of A Gringo
If you visit a country in South America youll be labeled as a
Gringo.

Before deciding you want a Latin girl, you must understand that
millions of Gringos have been trying to seduce them with few
positive results (Im talking about the 8s, 9s and 10s).

Most Gringos achieve some success with 5s and 6s.

I'm sure you like quality, theres no reason to go for the

unattractive women.

In order to find a pretty Latina and make her your girlfriend you
need to consider these 2 options:

1. Finding her in your country by going to a Latin club. They are

always there looking for Gringos.

2. Meeting her in random activities by coincidence.

3. Traveling to South America.

In all cases you should be prepared to take the right steps in order
to start the romance successfully and make her understand that
you are The man.

Many guys get lost in the process of seduding Latin women.

One of the biggest mistakes is looking too desperate for sex.

The first thing the majority of them are looking for is for a provider,
so they can focus on spending their money in looking pretty and
buying clothes.

So, be ready to be asked a lot about what you do and how you do
it, because its a question they will ask you.

Yes, the culture is very chauvinistic and the man has to be the one

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who puts the effort, but dont worry, youll be rewarded later.

A Latina would feel natural attraction for these different types of

seducers:

- The bad boy.

- The daddy.
- The charmer.
- The natural.

The bad boy is probably the most successful man in South

America. The whole continent is full of romantic type men who put
women on a pedestal. Being the bad boy who doesnt follow that
path youll asure a good status.

The daddy kind is successful in South America while not so

successful in Russia or Eastern Europe. This type of man never
worries for girls, they all love him.

To play this role successfully all you have to do is act dominant

and make her feel secure and protected.

The charmer is very successful in South America, since being

spontaneous goes very well with the culture.

While women are becoming more independent in developed

countries, Latin women still have not changed their perspective
about what they want in a man.

They still care about what the man does, what projections he has
in life, how prepared he is to succeed and how smart he is.

This isnt necessary bad news for you; its actually the greatest
news. Because, being an American, a European or an Australian
will project you as a man who wouldnt let her live in scarcity.

Therefore you have the potential to be the kind of guy she wants.

However, there are some mistakes most guys make while trying to
seduce a Latina:

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Mistake #1

Allowing her to pay the bill. This is a huge turn off in South
America. While its a huge turn off in the US and Europe, Latin
women would feel very dissapointed if the man doesnt take care
of it.

Mistake #2

Wearing sandals on the street. Sandals show no class in South

America.

Most foreigners fall in this mistake. I recommend you start by

wearing close toed shoes unless it is a Sunday. I dont know why
Latin women complain so much about this, they just hate how a
guy looks in the street with sandals.

Mistake #3

Wearing dirty clothes and no cologne.

There was a time in the US when people used cologne. South

America is going through that time right now. So be prepared to
pay more attention to your clothes and the way you smell if you
want to get their attention.

One day I was talking to a friend, she was telling me about this
date she had with an interesting man. I was surprised when she
told me that she didnt allow him to kiss her just because he didnt
smell of anything. He didnt even smell badly, he just didnt smell
particularly nice! Of course not all Latin women are so crazy about
this, but youll be likely to meet a lot of cases like this. They really
care about good smell.

Mistake #4

Looking desperate for sex.

The best way to get their attention is by showing no sexual

interest, at least at the beginning.

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Latin women feel like theyre always on a pedestal. This is thanks
to the submissive behavior of men towards them. The whole
ambience is designed to make women feel like queens. If you
dont believe me take a look of the lyrics of Latin songs, they are
all about asking for forgiveness and pleasing women.

Latin America is a very chauvinistic place, which means that men

are supposed to provide and women are supposed to take care of
domestic things.

Men are very gentlemanly at an extreme level with courtship. They

think that the more they provide chocolates, flowers and gifts the
more women will like them. They try so hard to be gentlemen that
they become wussies and start doing everything the girls say.

Set yourself apart by not being a sycophant to her every whim.

Be a little disinterested at first and youll see how she begins to

show interest. Wait until she earns your attention.

Also, be prepared for a lot of psychological tests; Latin women will

give you more than any girl of any part of the world.

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 How To Create I. L. S. C
(Instant Latina Sexual Chemistry)
In this section, youll discover my favorite shortcut technique for
making Latinas feel fast sexual attraction towards you.

It will make you look like the charming prince theyve always
dreamed of.

I.S.L.C is a simple method you can use in two situations:

- Right after you meet her.

- On the first date.

The method consists of following these three steps:

1. Isolate her by bringing her to a different or unexpected place.

2. Lay back, display confidence, and give her the chance to show
her interest.

3. Give her an insinuating kiss on her cheek.

- After you meet her:

If you are in a bar, isolating her from her friends may sound a bit
hard to do. However, theres always a way to make it seem
natural.

The best way to do it is, after you gain some trust during the initial
conversation (using the Keys youll find throughout this book), say
something like: Hey, I want your help with something. The bar
across the street has amazing cocktails and I want to try one of
them. Maybe you can help me choose one, and drink one with
me.

Isolating a Latina is the best option you have. These women are
under too much social pressure. The culture is very closed, and
people are concerned about what others might think. You want to

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get her away from her friends, so that she doesnt feel
uncomfortable about talking to you.

When you achieve that isolation, youll see how different her
behavior becomes.

- On a first date:

Latin women are very open to dates. But the fact that you scored a
date with a Latina doesn't mean you have her yet. There's still
work to do.

I've travelled around the world. I know how different it is with

European women, for example. Once she accepts going out on a
date, it means she's usually open to at least giving you a kiss at
the end of the night. When they accept going out with you, you
can assume it means they feel some attraction towards you.

Latin women, however, are different. Theyll often go on dates just

to feel exposed to the world, and to be seen by other guys (and
girls).

So you have to be careful on the first date with a Latina, because

honestly there's a big chance she'll reject you and keep you as a
friend if you don't do things the right way.

Before we start thinking of the isolation, I'd like to mention the

importance of dressing well.

Latin women care about it.

Theres also one more mistake I urge you to avoid: leaving it up to

her to decide where to go on the date.

Never do that. This is an automatic attraction killer. Latinas are

attracted to masculine men, and one of the key traits of a real
man is that he demonstrates leadership. So take the lead, and
choose the location of the date.

This way you will be able to isolate her, since you will have more
control over the environment.

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Take her to a place you are already familiar with, which you know
will be comfortable and appropriate.

Take her (unexpectedly) to a very simple place.

Maybe a tacky little bar that looks like crap, but you just like a
strange cocktail they sell.

Tell her you want do a first stop there just to show her your favorite
cocktail before going somewhere else.

Do not take her to the fancy bar as a first choice. The fact you are
taking her to that simple unsophisticated place will give her some
strong unconscious signals:

You are not eager to impress her (Like most other guys, who try
way too hard).

You follow your natural instincts. You picked this place because
they serve a drink you like. Youre not overly concerned with what
other people think.

There won't be a lot of other attractive, well-dressed guys in this

place, which will make you unique. You will shine in comparison to
them.

Next, lay back and give her the chance to show her interest.

This will give her the chance to work for you.

The strong signal you are sending while taking her to that
nonromantic,
unexpected place should be accompanied by a relaxed attitude.
Trust me, she will start working hard to get your attention.

It's that simple.

A Latina would never understand why a man is laying back and

relaxed while being in an isolated place. This is something that

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would make her work hard to get your attention again.

It will make her wonder if theres something wrong with her, which
will make her show her sensuality to the maximum level to regain
your attention.

This laidback attitude should not last long. It should be only for the
beginning of the interaction.

After you see that shes showing interest and shes tried a bit to
make you attracted, its time to go for the 3rd step. It will make her
choose you as a potential lover.

Try the insinuating kiss on her cheek.

Be careful not to make the same silly mistake all other foreigners
make: Verbalizing sex.

Theres nothing more horrible for a Latina than a man who speaks
about the sexual act that hasnt occurred yet.

If you do this, her interest in you will immediately diminish. This

mistake is as bad as bragging about money or material things.

(Latin women strongly dislike this type of behavior as well.)

So in this third step, youre going to kiss her on the cheek while
teasing her. This will let her know you wont be just a friend,
without pushing too much for sex.

The way to do it is while you speak. You can be talking about any
subject. It doesnt have to be a sexual topic. Just make sure you
identify some signals of interest before you do it.

Following these three simple steps will put you in the romantic
zone of her brain right from the start of the date.

Leave the first date location and take her somewhere else
(another bar, or to go eat), the rest of the seduction should be
much easier.

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She will be more open and ready for you.

The first approach

When you approach a group of girls make sure your first question
is Do you speak English?

Chances are one of them will, and it will be much easier this way.

A mistake most guys make is talking to a girl without making sure

she understands what hes talking about.

After finding out who understands your language, you can follow
by asking something about their country. Try this: Whats the most
beautiful place of your country that I should visit one day?.

If you can keep things going in English youll be making her or

them invest in the interaction and therefore feel more interested
since the beginning.

If your Spanish is not fluent enough I strongly suggest keeping

things in English, since youll keep your value and wont bore them
with your limited words.

Ill give you more strategies to start conversations in the next

chapter.

Being selective is key in South America. Do not try to seduce

every girl just to show that you are a seducer.

A man of value doesnt chase every woman he sees.

If you dont really like a girl just move on. There will be plenty of
options.

Do not try being outlandish with strange questions just to impress

a Latina. Its very probable that she wouldnt understand your

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sense of humor at the beginning, which is very different from
american humor.

It is useful to develop a look and energy that shows class and

status.

No matter where you are from, I recommend that you pay attention
to this if you want to have the opportunity to meet high class
women and enter social circles that demand a stricter protocol
than youre used to.

If you look well put together, you will have more luck when you try
to attract women.

Latin girls pay specific attention to the condition of the mens teeth
and shoes to determine their status.

Although these are basic things, I feel they are noteworthy

because the look is one of the few things that a Latin woman can
use to judge a man in an initial meeting anywhere.
There's something youll notice in Latin nightclubs and bars. Guys
still use awful strategies and look needy. It makes women raise
their shields to protect themselves from them.

Here are some of the things most guys do in Latin night clubs that
you should never do:

Taking a woman to dance when she has shown no interest in

dancing with you. This one is a classic. Its the #1 strategy of
frustrated Latin Guys. Youll see, when theres a cute Latina in a
club, approximately 20 different guys will ask her to dance even
when shes not showing any interest.

Sending a woman drinks from across the bar.

Sending a note with the waiter.

Complimenting her when she hasnt done anything to deserve it.

Looking desperate.

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 Staring at every cute girl that walks to the bathroom.

Looking drunk.

All the behaviors above are made by the majority of guys in Latin
America, and Latin women can smell the desperation off them
from a mile away, and these men make our work more
complicated because women use automatic defenses, shields, to
get rid of them.

Learning Spanish - Portuguese to Pick Up

Latinas?
One day, I was having a good conversation with my friend from
Florida. He went to Brazil for quite a number of months. Before he
went to Brazil, he took Portuguese lessons because the people
there speak Portuguese.

But even if he learned the language, still he was not really fluent.

When he arrived to Brazil, he was fascinated with the many

beautiful Latinas that are walking almost everywhere. He then
started approaching some women and talking to them in
Portuguese.

The first few minutes were fine but then something interesting
happened. These women were becoming bitchy and so he asked
me what happened.

The answer is pretty straightforward. When speaking in their

language, the entire time you give them the power. Unless you
are a fluent speaker of Portuguese or Spanish, you should not be
using more than few sentences of the language.

You probably have talked to someone, perhaps a foreigner and his

English is not straight for fluent. You notice your interaction
becomes uninteresting after few minutes. Thats the same thing
that happens with Latinas. There is nothing wrong in learning
Portuguese or Spanish but when approaching a girl, you should

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avoid using more than a few words. Here is what you should do.

Approach them with a very simple question: Do you speak

English?

If the lady knows how to speak English or a little bit, then thats
what you need to keep going. Without any effort, you will lead or
dominate the interaction. If the woman you approached does not
speak English at all, it is best to try your slow Spanish or just look
for another girl.

If you decide to try your Spanish or Portuguese and its not very
fluent its better if you go more direct instead of trying hard to keep
your conversation going and flowing smooth.

What I mean by going direct is getting her number fast. Dont be

afraid of showing some interest in this case. Heres an example of
being direct and showing some interest in Spanish:

You: Hey, do you speak English?

Her: No

You: ok, me encantara conocerte, me daras tu nmero de

telfono?

It means I would like to get to know you, would you give me your
number?

But if the girl knows to speak a little English, make sure to talk to
her as if you are talking to a baby, in a slow manner.

Learning Spanish is difficult but possible. Although you will be

faced with many challenges while learning this, at the end of the
lesson, you will realize the time and effort you spend are well
worth it.

One of the most difficult parts in learning the language is

conjugating hundreds of regular and irregular verbs in their several
tenses.

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Making the conjunctions is even tougher as you have to
understand the subject or reflexive pronounced being used in the
sentence. There are some rules to be used to make the
conjugation process a lot easier and this is something you can
learn if you take classes.

There are many ways you can learn the language quickly. You can
always take a lesson or use software designed to enhance your
Spanish accent and vocabulary. You can also start with the basic
Spanish words and conversational Spanish.

Anyway, the conclusion is that you dont need to learn Spanish or

Portuguese to seduce Latin women. And if you learn the language,
dont use it much at the beginning.

Night Game
Latin nightclubs are extremely loud, it gets hard to communicate
with words.

You may have a good phrase to initiate a conversation, but if you

do not project social value, you wont accomplish anything.

The high volume of the music makes conversations very difficult,

so you have to show value in other ways.

In fact, the high volume of the music in clubs can be good for you if
you do not speak Spanish very well because you wont have to
talk so much.

In these places you should only approach women after you see
the signals.

Latinas are very display very obvious signals when theyre

interested in a man, they will maintain eye contact and smile.

Approach women when you can identify this signals.

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Do not talk much when you approach, you dont even have to ask
her any hard question, ask her something simple and find a way to
isolate her from her friends as we discussed previously.

When a Latina is interested in a man she would really show her

unconscious interest and would never be able to hide it.

How To Recognize Her Interest

A Latina would show interest in a club as follows:

She keeps eye contact for more than a few seconds (dont look
away, keep eye contact until she breaks it).

After she breaks eye contact, do not keep staring at her; just
ignore it and keep doing whatever you were doing.

Later, she will look at you again. This time hold eye contact again
and give her a little smile.

She looks at you and smiles slightly from the beginning. Smile
back and keep talking to your friends while ignoring her. Later well
discuss how to approach her.

Her body language is open to you, and she keeps brushing her
hair.

She walks near your side several times and looks at you.
There are more universal unconscious ways to show interest, but
these ones are the only ones you should look for before
approaching a Latina in a night club.

Now well discuss how to become the charming prince I was telling
you about. To project the value to make women see you as an
important man.

To project a high value in Latin nightclubs to the point where

women begin to show interest, you can do the following:

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 Projecting High Value In Latin Night Clubs
Always go to Latin clubs accompanied by women or just by
yourself. If you go to a Latin club with only guys, your value will be
low.

If you go to a club with 3 guys and 2 girls, its fine. It is just

important to have women in your group. It doesnt matter if they
are just friends.

Hanging out with friends who have a high social value is

something that projects value, and it makes it far easier to meet
other women.

Do not keep your hands in your pockets. Its a basic thing, but so
many guys do it.

Say hello to the bouncers at the entrance and the waiters once
inside. This will give you value because it shows you as someone
who dominates your environment.

Smile. A good smile shows that you're enjoying the moment, which
will make women curious about you.

They love men who smile naturally.

Talk to the people around you and involve them in your

interactions. Sometimes simple questions can make people laugh.
You can use a topic you are already talking about in
your circle.

If you can dance, dance with the friends you are with. Do not stay
seated or standing in bad mood. Make the women around you
happy. Latin women love to dance. It's good to
tell one of your girl friends to go with you to a nightclub where
there are women you like, so you can dance near them. This way
you will make the girls you like be aware that you exist before
approaching them.

Do not hold a glass with your hand up. If you need to have a drink,

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keep it low, so it wont be an obstacle between you and the people
you interact with.

Do not walk around the club with just guys. Women notice this
instantly; it makes you seem like youre desperately looking for
girls. But if you have a girl with you, its good to
go to other parts of the club to meet other women.

Do not ask a Latina to dance until you determine shes showing

some interest.

The best places to get cute Latin girls at first arent necessarily the
clubs. The best places to pick them up at night time are the bars,
where you dont have to pay covers at the entrance and where you
can determine if there are enough women before you spend
money to get in.

And here you can pick women up even though you dont have
women with you. Later Ill discuss good places and ways to pick up
cute women. That way youll have friends to invite to clubs so you
can project the value you need to get more women when you go
there.

For now, all these fundamentals will give you value and you will
notice how, every time you practice, you will be getting women
show more and more interest.

Strategies To Meet Latin Women In Night

Clubs
One of the best places to meet gorgeous Latinas is in a Latin club.

Dance is a very important element of the culture and you will

definitely meet a whole lot of attractive ladies here. More
importantly, these ladies are eager to meet guys and have a great
time.

Also, differences in language will no longer be a problem in a

club everybody will be here to dance and there will be very little

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opportunity for conversation. You just need to know exactly how to
approach them.

You need to be well groomed or else you will not be able to make
a good impression.

Remember that Latin men are sharp dressers and youll need to
be able to hold your own in the face of competition. This is
certainly not the place for scruffy vacation wear. This aplies as well
for being in a Latin club in your country or if you are in South
America.

Once you have entered the club you should check out the scene
and identify a likely group of Latinas to approach. Make sure that
you look friendly and approachable but not desperate. In fact, if
you look relatively laid back and seem to be enjoying the night with
your friends then they will go out of their way to attract your
attention. Youll notice that Latinas flirt a lot while being on clubs.

Just by the fact that you look exotic youll be able to attract their
interest. So keep eye contact with the girls who are looking at you
and focus on projecting a good vibe with your friends.

The simplest way to get them to start talking after you find out who
speaks English is to ask them simple questions while dancing. So
take the opportunity to approach while dancing once the DJ is
playing an easy-dancing song (Reggaetton music is a perfect
example of music that anyone could dance, you just need to move
a little bit).

Ask them about their country or city (in case you are travelling). If
you are in your country you can start the conversation guessing
where they are from, they will be happy to hear what you think of
them.

When it comes to bars in Latin America youll notice they prefer to

sit at tables instead of moving around. You are sure to see groups
of cute girls sitting at a table. Pull up a chair and sit there,
seriously. If you have a relaxed look and at least one of them
speaks English then there is no reason why they wont invite you
to stay.

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However, the key to make this work is to keep the conversation
flowing and letting them know that you wont stay there all night
(you have friends somewhere else and you are
having fun with them too).

Latin American women are not eager to have one night stands (at
least not openly). What they really want is to have a relationship.
They dont like to waste time on guys who dont want the same
thing.

As I mentioned before, the culture is very conservative. So, dont

try too hard the first night unless shes showing interest in so.

Strategy #1

Approach her smoothly (with body language that shows you might
leave at any moment) and make a friendly comment about your
facts.

Ex: Hey, is it true that Latin women love the way gringos dance?

Make sure to be aware of the way you start. Its more important to
deliver the opener smoothly than to have the perfect question.

Remember, your attitude and body language must be playful and

relaxed.

After the question, go back where your friends are and keep
talking with them.

This way youll make her feel like she lost something, and she will
wonder if you are going to give her the opportunity to talk again.

If you're doing it well, the girl you approached will show interest.

When you manage to collect her interest, go back to her table,

take her hand, and ask her to go to your table. Tell her it's just for
a minute because you want to show her something.

This way youll manage to isolate her from her friends and keep

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escalating.

Strategy #2

Hold eye contact with all the women that make eye contact with
you. Eye contact is a universal indicator of interest. Many Latin
women say its a turn on when a guy approaches with something
direct after keeping eye contact with them.

Get used to looking directly into the eyes of people that are
already looking at you: it shows confidence.

When eye contact is established with Latina, its best to give her a
small smile and make some signs that call her over to your table.
Most likely, she will not come over, but dont worry, thats all part of
the game.

She may however give you signs to approach her.

If she does not give signs to approach hereven though she was
the first to make eye contactapproach her anyway with a gentle
but confidant attitude. Try saying something like, Hey, I saw you
from there and decided that I wanted to meet you and see if you
were cool.

Attractive women often get invited to dance upwards of fifteen

times when she is in a club, and if shes not already on the dance
floor, she has no interest in dancing. After she hears the line,
would you like to dance, enough times, it becomes very easy for
her to say no, usually with excuses like, my ankle hurts, lets
dance another time, or Im tired. That is exactly why I dont
recommend you approach anyone with an invite to dance unless
shes already shown interest in you.

By differentiating your approach you ask her to dance without

asking, and if she shows
no interest, you havent been shot down. Also, I would say its
much better to ask for a dance when the following genres are
playing: reggaeton, electronic, and reggae.

This kind of music is simple to dance to, unlike salsa, which

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requires a degree of expertise.

By comparison, this makes you look like a better dancer, which

makes for a higher success rate.

However, its still a good idea to get good at salsa dancing. Just as
differentiating your approach is important, being an exceptional
dancer sets you apart from the pack.

Its important to handle these situations with self-confidence and

security. Especially in Latin American countries women notice
needy-looking men and distaste is their natural reaction.

By acting needy, you put yourself out of the running from the get-
go. Better yet, treating women with slight disinterest is an indicator
of higher social value, which most women find appetizing.

By approaching a woman, you show clear interest, so acting

disinterest seems paradoxical. Still, if you learn to at least speak to
women the way you would speak to your friends, youll get better
results.

Although you probably dont speak Spanish very well, do not rely
on the standard questions of, "Whats your name?", "How old are
you?", or "What do you do for a living?" Once again, these do
nothing to differentiate you from other men, nor do they contribute
much to further interaction. This advice applies not just to Latinas,
but to girls from any part of the world.

Conversations based on Latin culture are usually sure-fire, and

you can continue talking while you dance. Try to make her do most
of the talking, as shell (again, paradoxically) feel shes getting to
know you.

Strategy #3

Now that weve covered the lazier strategies that most guys will
use, we can do something requiring a little more finesse.

When you see a cute Latina being approached repeatedly by guys

who ask her to dance, get close to her (by asking the bartender for

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a fresh drink) and say something about it. For
example: I bet you are so tired of needy guys inviting you to
dance, it must be hard to be a girl.

Then smile slightly and keep talking about how funny the situation
looked when she was rejecting those needy guys.

Its a great strategy and allows you to enter her mind and get
rapport easily since you are speaking about a shared experience.

Strategy #4

Approach and make a comment about what you think her

profession is. When you approach, do not introduce yourself or
say How are you, or Excuse me; courtesy is not effective here.

A good example is: "The way you act makes me think you are a
lawyer / psychologist / designer / singer.

I highly recommend this strategy for meeting Latin women. It

always creates a fun topic of conversation which will help you get
acclimated to their group. You dont have to guess correctly, you
just have to give it a try.

This will usually get a laugh from her, and she will ask "Why?"
Make up reasons to support your claim, and show tranquil body
language, without expecting to get anything from her. Its just a
way to start, but youll still have a lot of work to do to earn her
interest. Maybe she will correct you by telling you her real
profession, which can become a topic of conversation.

This strategy has the following alternative that you can use:

Approach with the aforementioned line, and when she asks what
made you think that, say Ill tell you later, and then return to your
table. This creates intrigue, and I can assure you that if you do it
with enough cool and courage, shes going to show some interest.

Later, return to her and give reasons why you made your earlier
statement. This is a powerful strategy with Latin women. This line
can also be used on the entire group. When her friends start

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asking you what you think they do, invent a job or even an entire
story for each of them.

This shows a quick wit and spontaneity. And because your target
is now the entire group,
rather than one woman, youve cast a wider net: at least one of
them is bound to get caught.

Each of these strategies can be used for the first meeting. You can
even mix them!

However, its best not to stay at their group after your talk to them.
Its more effective to
make your approach, laugh a minute with them, and then return to
your table for a while. After a few minutes, come back and keep
talking. Continue escalating until you get a kiss, or at least a phone
number to make a date for another day.

Strategy 5

Remember how I talked about leaving the girls to return to your

friends between conversations?

Well, its best to have that group of friends contain a few women. I
dont recommend you go to a Latin night club with a bunch of
guys, but still, sometimes the situation arises. If thats the case, tell
one of your buddies to go with you and stay near the ladies
bathroom, it may help a lot, since it provides many opportunities to
speak with women.

Just stay for a few minutes and start talking to some girls on their
way out. Do not stay the whole night, as most people would
perceive that sort of behavior as creepy. Just stay a short while
and ask unthreatening questions

This should be obvious, but its important not to approach when

they are heading to the bathroom but when they are out of it going
back to their group.

The main advice is not to stay in the middle of the club drinking
with all the guys. It makes the entire group look desperate. And no

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woman wants a desperate guy. Just try to approach the women
who are milling about.

How To Approach A Latina When Shes

With Other Guys
Its very common to find Latinas accompanied by Latin guys. This
can be a tough nut to crack, because these men are either
protecting them, or are competing against you for their favour
(sometimes both).

Wait until she stands up from the table to go to the bathroom

(shell go with a friend most of the times). From the moment she
stands up and starts walking, count three full minutes and then
begin to walk towards the bathroom; meet them while they are on
their way back to their group.

The moment you come cross them say something that makes
them laugh. For example, Is it true that Latin women use the
bathroom to talk about men? Make sure you are talking to the girl
you are interested in and the friend(s) accompanying her. This
comes across as less threatening, and is more likely to garner a
friendly reaction. Try to keep up conversation and stay in the
moment for the best results.

Another way to approach is to go direct, when she is

unaccompanied by her friends on the way to go to the bathroom.

This time wait for two minutes, she wont take as long as she
would take when going accompanied. Say something like, Hey, I
just wanted to get to know you. You seem cool. Do you speak
English?

Do not go away without requesting the phone number of the girl

you like, so you can meet up later. Practice this until you can do it
naturally.

If a group is composed of two women and one man, I highly

recommend that you approach it. When approaching, make sure

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to talk to the man at the table you approach.

You must speak to him and make him participate of the interaction.
It is very probable that he is the fianc of one of the two, and that
the other girl is available. Make sure to determine which is the
available one, as hitting on an engaged Latina is embarrassing at
best.

Indirect Ways To Start Conversations With

Latinas
At Night

Hey, I wanted to ask you something. Is it true that Latin women

like bad boys?

Hey, I just want to know something about this [Latin] culture.

What do you prefer: a handsome guy who is also stupid, or an ugly
man who is interesting?

I am going to ask you a question that intrigues me a lot. How do

men normally approach women in this country?

If a Latin woman feels attracted by somebody, what would she do

to make him approach her so she can meet him?

These types of phrases allow you to enter below the radar.

If you find out that one or some of them speak English just keep
the conversation in English, dont try too hard to impress with your
Spanish.

Its best if what youre saying is connected with the situation you
and the woman are in.

Again, the more natural-sounding the conversation, the better your

chances are. I can assure you that if you use a question that you
dont really find interesting, it will seem unnatural, and women are
going to notice it. Dont use the questions above if you dont feel

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they have anything to do with the situations you find yourself in.
The purpose of an question isnt to direct the conversation, but to
get one started and see where it leads.

In my experience, the best way to uncork a conversation is

through humour. To accuse a girl of something funny and then to
smile is perfect.

You must communicate that you are confident in yourself (and in

the quality of your jokes).

Body language is not something that Ill talk about much in this
book, but my advice is to do some quick research on the internet
regarding ways to develop good body language.

During the day

During the day things are easier. Women do not have to be as

onguard as they are in night clubs, and they are usually dressed
down. And when calling back a woman you met in a bar, she may
not be certain who she gave her phone number to, and it is likely
that youll be confused with other men.

Instead, if you approach a Latin girl in a library, supermarket,

university, or fast food restaurant you seem a bit classier, and
women are more likely to remember you. It makes it easier to
obtain the connection needed to get her phone number (and make
calling her back that much less confusing).

These locations all have their own specific purpose, which you can
spin the conversation towards. In a bookstore, you can make a
comment about the book that she has; in a fast food restaurant
you can make a comment about the food that she orders; in a
bank you can make a comment about how boring it is to be in the
line to the teller, and so on.

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 Meeting Latin Women In The GYM
If you are going to stay in Latin America for more than a month, I
highly recommend you sign up for a gym. In these places you will
find attractive and approachable women. Gyms are places where
pretty women always enjoy spending time.

I urge you to consider not using that ugly t-shirt or those old shorts
when you go to the gym. Opt for comfortable but good-looking gym
attire and clean shoes.

There are many ways to initiate conversation at a gym. You can

begin with something direct like: I see that you are very athletic. I
assume you have been coming here for a long time This is a
phrase that shows a direct interest. I know it seems like a dumb
way to open, but, in conjunction with assertive body language,
youll see that something so flat will work in a gym with a Latina.

You can also use an indirect method. Say youre at the machine
next to her: while doing some exercise, you could try the line, You
look like you are from South America, I want to know something
and use that as a conversation starter.

Just remember, a gym isnt just to do exercise, its a place to meet

women too. Get used to it, because it can be a truly fertile ground
for picking up women.

How To Get Her Interested

Send her some funny texts the same day/night you meet her. If
you get her answering shell be more excited by the prospect of
getting a call from you.

The best day to invite her out is Thursday, because shes more
likely to be available. If you call her on Friday or Saturday its very
probable that shell have plans with her friends.

Do not tell her to meet you, just pick her up: this will reflect

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positively on you. Many Latinas, when told to meet up for a date,
simply never show up. By picking her up, she no longer has the
option of ditching you.

Thats one of the big differences between Latin women and

women from other cultures.

Talk to her in the phone for a few minutes to generate comfort.

Be playful. If she responds well, invite her out.

Never talk about your personal accomplishments, material

possessions, or travels. She is more than capable of digging these
things up later, if shes interested. Wait for her to probe the topics,
or else it comes off as braggadocio.

Believe her when she says she has to go home early. Although
western women often use this as an excuse, many Latinas live
with their parents until they are married. As a result, these women
often have a curfew.

Be humble. Theres a clear difference between confident and

cocky. If you get a phone number, but she doesnt answer (or
answers in a rude way), keep your value as a man. Do not tolerate
this sort of behaviour, but dont take it personally either. Many
Latinas give their phone numbers and never answer calls.

Remember, its a game. The more you try the better chances you
have of finding the cute Latina you want.

Inviting Her Out

Make agree to a date from the beginning. Then call her half an
hour before the date to tell her you are leaving your place to pick
her up. This way shell be ready and wont make you wait too
much down there.

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 The First Date
Where to take her if your Spanish isnt good.

If you are with a Latina in a place where the only option is having a
conversation, things could get a little complicated.

With girls of your home country it works different obviously due to

the fact that you speak the same language. There, you can take a
woman on the first date to a place where the conversation allows
you to generate attraction and end up in a seductive location.

You need to start by choosing a place for the first date very
carefully. Its a terrible idea to take her to a party where everybody
knows you and she is a complete stranger. She will feel terribly out
of place here and this will spell doom for the evening. Its an
equally bad idea to take her to the theatre because of the
language issues. The same would be if you take her for dinner, the
awkward silences will appear and your first date will sink.

If you are with a Latina and you dont speak Spanish so well, you
are going to have to demonstrate your value to her with fewer
words. The unique way to do this is by taking her to a place where
you dont have to talk so much. So there are three options:

1. Taking her to a hotel to have sex.

2. Taking her to your house to have sex.
3. Taking her to a Night club.

I know how weird it sounds to take her to a hotel on a first date

without taking her out first.

The same thing happens if you want to take her home. So the best
option is to take her to a night club first, and if you still like her
enough later, end up in one of the first two locations.

I can assure you that, if you hurry things up, and try taking a hot
Latina home without giving her the time to feel some attraction,
shell get scared. And of course, you can find a woman from your

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social circle thats so interested in you already and would be ready
to have sex, but the average cute Latina would make things a little
harder than women from other places.

This is why I recommend you to take Latin women to a night club

first.

Its actually the only place where you can communicate with her
without using so many words. Just by maintaining a good body
language and being confident and fun youll keep her attracted.

Therell be a lot more dancing than talking and the date will be
great fun. You dont need to be a great Salsa dancer, all you need
is have a playful attitude and be willing to dance any other kind of
music (i.e. Reggaeton, Electronic).

However, you should be careful not to make the mistake of staying

at the table all night without dancing. If you are in a club with a
Latina you must dance or at least try. Shell be very frustrated if
you dont.

If you dont know to dance salsa, merengue, or other latino music,

dont worry. You can always ask her to teach you. Tell her that you
are very curious about it and that you are very interested in
learning about the Latin culture. Most women will love teaching
you how to dance. And if you already know how to dance, even
better!

Now you have a way to demonstrate something of value. Most

Latin women find foreigners who dance very intriguing. Also, by
being in a nightclub you can show value by being social, showing
a sense of humor, and projecting a good vibe.

If you dont have a good level of Spanish, you will be more

successful on a first date by taking a girl to a club.

Remember dont stay in the same place all night. This way youll
keep her on her toes and it will add to the excitement of the night.

Just take her to a different club near the one you are already in.
Make all arrangements for the evening. If you wait for cues from

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her you might not get any. Always keep in mind that she comes
from a culture where men are expected to take charge of things.

In fact, she will think that it is decidedly odd if you keep looking to
her for suggestions regarding where to go and what to do.

In case your Spanish level is good...

Take her to a lounge bar where theres a couch and the music
volume is low. This way you can escalate until you kiss her and
continue the process. Do not stay in the same bar all night though.

You can visit more than 3 bars which will make you have a more
dynamic date, and this way you are not going to run the risk of
running out of conversation subjects, which is a very common
situation when a couple remains in the same place for hours.
Staying in the same place for too long is a mistake that Latin guys
make a lot.

You are going to notice that when you take her to several sites in
the same night, shell begin to open herself up by being more
friendly and demonstrating more interest in you.

Generally, in the second or third bar if you do things properly and

escalate smoothly in Kino, she will be ready for the kiss.

Dont be surprised if she refuses to give you a kiss on the first

date. Some Latin women think that giving a kiss on a first date is
slutty behavior. They even are proud of themselves for not doing it
sometimes.

Latin guys have tolerated this for so many years, thinking that the
normal thing to do is date the woman for some days and waiting
for whatever it takes for her to decide if she can give a little kiss.

I dont agree with, Ill get the first kiss on the first date most of the
time if I like the woman enough, but still its normal to find some
Latin women with some resistance to it.

In case it happens to you, my advice is to let it be, do not get

pissed, at least give it a try again so she doesnt think youll be just

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a friend.

When a Latina likes the man and refuses to kiss him, she will at
least give him some signals to keep him hooked, like holding
hands or a little kiss near the mouth when saying goodbye.

The Proper Mind Set

Right before you go out with her, you need to get your mind ready
to make yourself stay calm.

One of the biggest mistakes the average guy makes is to look

desperate and try too hard to seduce the girl no matter what. They
try to seduce every girl with whom they go out, which is a terrible
mistake. Latin women love challenges. They get really crazy when
they feel that they can lose the man.

At the same time youll have so many dates with Latin girls that
you would need to keep some of them just as friends and not
trying to seducing them.

So the proper mind set is to wait until you really like the girl. What I
mean by that is that, when you are going to date her, you dont
know if you really like her, so you will give her the chance to show
you that shes the one for you.

She can be cute and have a nice body, but still you dont know
what things about her turn you off or you dont like. So, let her earn
your interest too.

Latin women are very tired of men showing their romantic interest
from the beginning. And the more beautiful she is the more it
happens.

The situation when they go on a date with a Latin guy is like this:
The man picks her up; he compliments her for how beautiful she
looks. Then he takes her to a dinner. Right in the middle of it he
starts saying that he only likes serious relationships. Then he
starts talking about some serious and interesting stuff:

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economics, social problems, investments. So she gets really tired.
Latin guys are really needy and romantic at the same time.

The good news is that the few ones that arent as needy really get
them all.

Thats why I recommend you to get the right mind set: Giving her
the opportunity to demonstrate shes the one for you. Great
conversation topics to use Latin women always complain about
gringos who ask the same boring questions and make the same
boring comments.

Flat questions like: Where do you live? How old are you? Where
do you study? What do you do for a living? etc., are questions that
do not excite any emotion in a woman. In addition, those questions
are so common and are repeated by everyone that women get
bored when theyre asked them again and again.

Ask questions that allow the waking up of some feelings or

memories in her and at the same time allows the conversation to
flow easily.

Questions like the ones listed above could be asked, but dont let
them be the ones that make up your conversation.

Conversation Topics To Use

Here are some questions adapted for the first date that work great:

Have you ever fallen in love?

Make her go into the moment when she was in love and make her
describe that feeling. This will make her remember good memories
of love, and having you right in front of her will make her
unconscious mind have no other option but to attach that
same sensation of love with you.

If you could go on a trip to anywhere in the world, where would you

go?

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This is another good question. Make her describe how itd be to be
in the place of her dreams until she feels like shes there. Her mind
will be in a happy state now. Generally this subject gives a good
theme for your conversation and gives it a good vibe too.

Have you ever had a summer love?

Its a silly question if you ask it in the US or in Europe. But Latin

women are still dreaming about the charming prince theyve
always wanted. Its actually a good question with a Latina. It will
cause strong emotions in her mind.

A good memory of a special romance takes her mind to a positive

place where it feels happy and the best part is that you are right in
front of her. This way she has no other option but to connect you
with the moment at which she had this summer of love. They
normally attach the summer love thing with a beach, they usually
go there on vacations and sometimes find a romantic summer
love.

So make her describe how it was, the beaches, the stars, the
ocean, dont be afraid to
do so, its a good thing to do with a Latin girl.

Have you had jealous boyfriends?

This one is a great question because it is going to give very

valuable information to you about how to act in order to create
attraction. If the majority of her boyfriends have been jealous, it is
because she enjoys this attitude. Women deny it sometimes, but
the truth is that they tend to choose their boyfriends based on this
behavior. So, if you find out that most of her boyfriends have been
jealous, you can act more possessive. Anyway, I can assure you
that most Latin women enjoy this behavior, so pretend to be
jealous sometimes, theyre OK with it.

Who is the actor that you think is the most handsome?

This question puts her in a very convenient mood because it

brings to her mind the image of somebody who is really attractive

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to her. Most Latin women love famous actors and artists. Its a
topic of conversation that they enjoy. And, having you in front of
her is really good for you because her mind is going to relate the
attractiveness that she feels at the moment with the image of you.

What are the things you cannot resist?

This could be chocolate, strawberries, vanilla ice cream, etc.

Making her describe these things takes her to a mental state of
desire, which is just what you want.

How would you describe the man of your dreams?

This is a very good question because it brings a positive emotional

state and generates an interesting conversation topic for the
woman. She is going to ask you the same question and this way
you can describe several qualities that you would like to find in a
woman. This way she can begin to qualify herself when she says
she has some of those qualities.

As well as these questions, there are many others that you can
ask. Just remember that the best thing you can do is to wake up
positive emotions in her. Never ask in the initial stage: Are you
bored? Why did you break up with your ex? Why did you get fired
from that job? Why did your parents get divorced?

These negative questions cause the process of attraction to stop

and prevent further escalation. Everything has to be done at the
right moment.

When you two are more involved in a relationship, itll be the right
time to talk about negative things and to share her difficult
moments.

Funny topics of conversation are great to achieve a good vibe and

facilitate the attraction flow. Humor takes women to a happy state
and thats why it makes it easier to generate attraction.

I know that guys sometimes feel the need to speak about cars and
motorcycles. The V6 motor or the 5,000cc motor of such and such
car, etc. But, to women, these subjects are not fun. Avoid them

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when you are with women. Do not talk about computers, electric
home appliances, the powerful stereo in your car, technology, cell
phones, etc. Subjects like: fame, music, psychology, anecdotes
that demonstrate your active lifestyle, trips, places of the world,
love; these are subjects that are going to help to you to generate a
natural connection with her.

The Way To Treat Them

The way to treat Latinas differs from treating women from other
nationalities. In Latin America its well seen to be a gentleman. I
know its a little weird, if you have good manners an American
woman would think you are dump. Its not like that for Latin
women, its a plus.

So the best way to be a gentleman is to be it from a position of

power, having good manners without looking submissive.

It is actually good to open the door for her, move the chair for her
to sit, and offer your hand to cross the street. Its like a fairy tale; it
is part of the Latin culture. So dont be afraid to do it, it will make
you seem like a Gringo that understands the culture and she
would see you as more familiar.

Do not think that you are losing your value for doing so, instead,
do it without looking in love, do it from a position of power. You can
do a lot of things from that position without losing your value.

For example, you can say something like you are pretty using
some gestures and body language that make you look as
someone who isnt so romantically interested in her; thats what I
mean with the position of power.

The same you can do while being a gentleman, remembering

always to touch her smoothly, grabbing her hand, identifying her
interest every time more, growing the sexual tension at the same
time.

Latin women love sex, as all women from any country do, the

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difference is that they hide that appetite more during the courtship.
For example, its OK to say some dirty words to an American girl
you just met and she would feel good with it. On the other hand its
not OK to say dirty words to a Latina if you havent slept with her
yet, she would be likely to be offended.

Unless you do it when you are just about to have sex with her and
you both are in the seductive location.

So, resuming it; be a gentleman from a position of power.

Good Spanish Phrases To Know, And When

To Use Them
Here are some phrases you should learn in Spanish. Some of
them may sound stupid while translating to English, but in Spanish
they sound really nice and help to reach an objective:

Tienes una sonrisa maliciosa, eso me parece sexy.

Translation: You have a naughty smile, thats sexy.

How to use it: You can use it at any time to make her feel sexy,
even when you just met her, or during a date.

Objective: Reward her and stimulate her to become sexy with you.

Me encanta eso que hiciste.

Translation: Im so charmed by what you just did.

How to use it: The word Me encanta is very powerful in Spanish,

it helps to make them realize that they are sexy.

You can use that word in many situations to compensate her for
doing a thing you liked. It could be after she bites her lips, or after
she smiles with a naughty attitude, or after she licks her finger, or
after she tells a good joke. Its also a good way to make her see
you as a potential lover while you whisper that word at her ear.

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Objective: Reward her for being nice and make her want to charm
you.

Eres demasiado sexy

Translation: You are too sexy.

How to use it: The word too in Spanish doesnt have the same
negative connotation it has in English. That word is sometimes
used to describe something that is extremely great or extremely
bad.

You can say that phrase to reward her for something she did fine.
For example, if she dresses the way you told her to dress, or after
she gives you a naughty kiss. Nevertheless you should only use
something like this once you are already dating her, after you have
already at least made out with her, or after you already have had
sex with her.

Objective: Reward her for being awesome with you and keep her
behaving sexually.

Pinta un bosque y pirdete en l.

Translation: Draw a forest and get lost in it.

How to use it: Its a funny phrase and it implies that she said
something silly. Say it playfully when she tells you a joke. Its a
phrase that little Latin kids say very much to their moms when they
want to stay alone.

Objective: Tease her and make her feel she has to work hard to
make you smile for her jokes.

Multiplcate por 0

Translation: Multiply by 0.

How to use it: As the one of the forest its a playful way to say that
something wasnt funny to you. So, say it only when she tries to be

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funny but doesnt succeed.

Objective: Tease her for being such a bad humorist.

Sbete al Titanic y hndete

Translation: Get on the Titanic and sink with it.

How to use it: Its another funny phrase to use after she says a
bad joke.
Objective: Tease her for her bad sense of humor.

Te aprovechas de mi nobleza.

Translation: You take advantage of my nobility.

How to use it: Its a really funny phrase to use only when shes
making fun of you for something. That phrase is originally from a
very popular comedy show from Mexico
called El Chapuln Colorado. That show was the most popular in
all Latin countries for decades. That phrase makes you seem
innocent in a funny way.

Objective: Make her feel she can make fun of you without
upsetting you.

How To Kiss With A Latina

Initial attraction is directly related to the confidence, the power and
the status that you seem to have. That attraction must be
maintained at all times.

Theres something you must know now: Latin women care a lot
about kissing. They really love it, and its something that they are
going to care about much more than many girls from other parts of
the world. Thats why youll find out that, for many of them, its
such a big deal!

The status you have so far is going to help to you to generate

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enough attraction with Latin women. Surely now you ask yourself
But when shes showing interest, what do I do? Now its time to
escalate in Kino, which is to start touching her every time more.

Its not about touching her ass or breasts; its about touching her
shoulders, knees, hugging her, etc.

Latin women are more used to the physical contacts. Most of them
love to be hugged and grabbed. Escalating in Kino gradually is
going to allow you to make her more comfortable with you and
thus the kiss is going to be easier.

So, the first step to start Kino escalating is to bring her close to
you.

An easy way to bring her closer is by showing her a video you

have on your cell phone or some pictures from your camera. Its
important that you are not the one who makes the move to get
closer.

Make her be the one who moves next to you so she can see what
you are about to show her. Then you start Kino escalating slowly.

Do not ever say to a Latin girl something like Do you want me to

kiss you? or May I kiss you? It will kill the attraction, besides its
something that many Latin guys do, so it wont help to differentiate
you from the others.

Latin women hate it when a guy asks for a kiss instead of going for
it.

Theres something that I highly recommend with Latin women:

start with a kiss in the cheek without explanation. Trust me; this is
going to be really helpful for you. I call it The sudden innocent
kiss.

Its extremely useful because it will help you do five things at the
same time:

1. Kino escalating.
2. Let her know you wont be just a friend.

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3. Make guys around you know that shes with you.
4. Make sure shes interested in you.
5. Notice if shes ready for the first kiss.

The sudden innocent kiss should be made right when her

conscious mind is concentrated on something that you are talking
about. It doesnt have to be a romantic topic. A good way to do it is
by just telling a story.

It could be a funny story or just something that happened to you a

few days ago. It could be anything. The important thing is to give
her a kiss without explanation while you tell the story. It doesnt
matter if its the beginning of it or the end. Just give her one or
even a few kisses on the cheek while you tell the story and then
keep telling the story without stopping.

Giving her this Sudden Innocent kiss will help you determine how
much she likes you. You can analyze her reaction right after doing
this. If she seems uncomfortable, it means shes not ready yet.

Sometimes shes going to give you a psychological test after you

do this, saying something like Why did you do that? and its a
psychological test that you can bypass showing some humor
saying something like You had something on your cheek and I
wanted to get it with my mouth =) Then, keep telling the story as if
nothing happened.

Relax and keep showing value with your style, your humor,
confidence and topics of conversation.

Later, when you identify shes more interested, you repeat the
process. Keep escalating in Kino, touch her hair and give her a
small kiss, this time on the mouth.

When you give her the kiss do not hurry to introduce your tongue
in her mouth. First feel her lips and let it be a natural and short
kiss. One day I was speaking with Nick Rogue, a Master PUA from
the U.S. about his method, which is one of the most advanced
seduction methods that exists in the world. It consists of seducing
women the same night the man meets her.

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One of the recommendations that he gives is not to give very
enthusiastic kisses in public to a girl that you have just met. This
recommendation is very valid because taking a woman to a sexual
state in a public place makes her uncomfortable (since she wont
feel free to express her passion to the point of having sex in
public), which is something that blocks attraction and makes it
difficult for her to decide whether or not to go to the seduction
location.

If a Latin woman doesnt want to give you a kiss, it could be

because, although she was interested in you at the beginning,
there was something you did that she didnt like and therefore she
lost interest in you. Some of the things that could make her lose
the interest are:

1. She didnt like the way you live your life.

2. She didnt like the people that surround you.

3. She felt that you were unconfident and that you lack character.

4. She found out that what you say isnt true.

5. You were bragging and trying so hard to impress her, and she
got bored.

6. She didnt feel protected by you.

7. She thinks you lack a sense of humor.

8. She doesnt like the fact that you are always trying hard to
please her.

9. She felt you were too predictable.

10. She didnt like the way you dress.

11. Your mouth smelled bad.

12. She was taught by her parents not to kiss a guy on the first
date even though she wants it (on the second date she will).

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This one is easy to identify. She will show interest sometimes
accompanied with a little kiss near the mouth when saying good
bye. Youll see some Latin women that are like this.

They think twice before giving the first kiss. When you come
across a girl like this, dont get discouraged.

Its part of the culture. Girls that behave this way are just too
scared of being labeled as whores and think that you will value the
fact that shes making you wait.

At the same time she will fear the fact that you may not call her
again. Thats why she gives you a small demonstration of interest
by giving you a small kiss near your mouth when saying goodbye.

Heres another recommendation I want to give you. If you are on a

first date and you try to kiss your date but she moves and doesnt
allow you to do so even though she was showing interest in you,
do not look bothered, act as if nothing happened and when you
see some interest later try again. Trust me, many Latin women
enjoy making the guys work hard, and they give a lot of
psychological tests to see if a guy has enough courage. If she
does not respond to anything and she does not demonstrate any
interest in being with you, let her be.

Do not give her more of your attention. From this moment you are
a man with a high value in Latin America with dreams and great
aspirations.

Your positive attitude is going to help you succeed in life and the
woman that doesnt take an opportunity to be with you is not going
to bother you. There are many women who are going to want to be
with you.

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 Latin Culture
Who pays the bill?

In the US and many countries in Europe, liberallyminded women

generally offer to pay for their part of the tab.

Latin America is completely different; women almost never offer to

pay. Sometimes Latin women dont even bring money with them
when they go out with a man. It can be attributed to Latin culture,
which thrives on machismo. While this may have one been
considered chivalrous, Latin women have gotten used to this
arrangement, and so they count on men to pay the bills.

In Latin America you may notice that most of the women look very
attractive, whereas few men invest heavily in their looks. This is
partially because these men have to spend so much of their
income courting women.

Paying for everything while on a date with a western girl can be a

turn-off. In Latin America, nothing could be further from the truth.

Having money demonstrates security and protection, while a

woman may be very put off if you dont have enough dough to pay
the bill. I have made many embarrassing mistakes in this vein, and
trust me, theres no getting around it. Always come with enough
money, and expect to pay for everything. Its a simple cultural
difference, and its worth the extra investment if your aim is to get
with Latin women.

Is Latin culture chauvinistic?

The Latin culture is completely chauvinistic. Because many Latin

countries experience financial hardship, strength and wealth are
valued qualities. Socially, these countries are more conservative,
so women largely depend on men. This dependency causes
women to feel attraction towards (or at least tolerate) typically
manly behaviour, so its a good attitude to adopt if you hope to
attract women from these countries.

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It was once said, behind every great man, theres a great
woman. Although Latinas do not have the same career
opportunities as men, they are often exceptionally shrewd
behindthe-scenes business advisors to men.

Knowing that the outside world belongs to men in Latin countries,

these women are very
controlling of what goes on within the home.

As an aside, while chauvinistic humour is usually offensive to

westerners (and western women particularly), many Latinas will
laugh at these sorts of jokes. Some even tell them! Obviously,
decide what limits are acceptable on a case-by-case basis.

Needless to say, being very male does not mean that you have to
act boorishly. You do have to have impeccable manners in order
to make a good impression on a lady. In fact, she is more likely to
want to go out with you if you can make a great impression on her.

Take the following advice:

- Always keep the upper hand. Dont be afraid to let her know that
youre the boss. She will love it if you take charge of the date and
order food and drinks for her. Be sure to ask her preferences and
be the one who talks to the waiter and orders the drinks. Shell just
love being taken care of.

- Be possessive, if necessary. If you are already dating her and the

romance is going properly tell her that you are not afraid of
competition but that you are not interested in it.

That is sure to grab her attention and she will go all out to please
you.

- Flirt with her to show her you notice her femininity. The more
feminine she feels, the more masculine she will think you are. She
will respond very strongly to this. Teasing is a big part of Latin
culture and it will not be out of place to do this.

You will have a great deal of success with your Latina lady friend if

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you behave in a typically macho manner. This is something that
she has grown up with and she will respond in the right way to
you.

Origins Of Latin Culture

The ancient cultures of Latin America were initially inhabited by

cultures that didnt give much importance to technological
development. Instead, they valued coexisting within the natural
order. They were, however, quite advanced in astronomy.

Problematically, they also possessed massive quantities of gold.

When the Spanish entered these territories and discovered how

much gold there was, they took it and brought it back to Spain.

Although much of the native culture was destroyed, some of the

things that survived the journey to independence are a good sense
of humour and a love for dancing.

These cultural qualities carry over into seduction: Women from

South america love men who make them laugh. Being able to
carry yourself effortless and bring a smile to a womans face are
practically requirements of Latin life.

How The Culture Is Romantically Involved

The rampant chauvinism of Latin America is balanced out by how

romantic the people of these countries are. Its just a cultural facet
ingrained in Latin music. If you analyze the lyrics of salsa music,
youll find out that most of it deal with courtship, asking for
forgiveness, or declaring love for a special woman. And these
subjects are not limited to salsa: the bolero, merengue, bachata,
vallenato, and most other common kinds of Latin music recycle
these romantic tropes.

Strangely, many Latin songs feature men in a very submissive

position, whether theyre begging for forgiveness or dedicating a
song to a woman they love. Heres an example of a very famous

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Salsa song that practically every Latin woman knows called
Forgive me by

Gilberto Santa Rosa:

I ask forgiveness for this war

I wish I could get back my weapons
Stop with this hostility
That doesnt take me any where
Ill propose you a deal
I give you a call to your consciousness
Because mine is killing me
The one whos talking to you has surrendered
I lost all of my strength
Now I came to supplicate
And ask you for forgiveness
Please forgive me
Ay Forgive me
Do not make me cry
I do not know what to say
Please forgive me
Ay forgive me
What do I have to do?
If you want I can surrender at your feet

Latin men are so used to serenading women during courtship.

The logic seems to run counter to everything I mentioned about

their male-dominated, chauvinistic society. However, even in
putting these women on pedestals, these men choose to relinquish
power to these women. In effect, women are given the role of the
choosing sex only because, in these songs, the men allow them to
have it.

How Important It Is To Be Descrete

Remaining discrete reflects positively not just on yourself, but on

your group of friends. The opposite holds true: a Latina may be

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angry or offended if your behaviour is inappropriate, because it
makes her look bad for associating with you.

Is It Worth To Have A Relationship With A

Latina?
Though the learning curve of seducing Latin American women can
be more difficult, you will find that they are warm, tender,
affectionate, sweet, possessive, fiery, and attentive.

If you get into a relationship with a Latin girl, youll have a great
experience, and shell make your importance to her known.

Where To Find The Hot Ones Depending By

Country
If youre reading this book, you may want to know where are the
pretty ones:

Mexico: Mexico D.F has many pretty women in the wealthiest

social circles. Guadalajara, Monterrey, and some cities in the
North seem to be good cities to have higher chances of finding
what you are looking for.

Colombia: There are many cities in Colombia with stunning

women, but the one city that will take your breath away is
Medelln.

Women there have flawless style, nice bodies, and pretty faces.
The weather is comfortable year-round, so they are always
dressed sexy. Good looking women can be found in
Bucaramanga, Manizales, Pereira and, Cali.

Bogot, however, is usually too cold and it makes women dress

less sexy.

Panama: Panama City is full of pretty women most of whom are of

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mixed descent from natives and American soldiers. There are also
a number of protocol models from Colombia living there.

Panama has lots of diversity.

Venezuela: The women of Caracas are very beautiful and quite

tall. Some men are rather handsome too, meaning you have to be
on youre a-game. Venezuela is none too friendly with America
though.

Chile: Via del Mar and La Serena are nice cities to visit, and
women there are beautiful.

Bolivia: Youll find pretty women if you go to Santa Cruz de la

Sierra, its the only city with high quality. La Paz has some
attractive women, but most come from wealthy families, which
means they are not so many.

Peru: Cusco has a lot of cute foreign girls. The natives, however,
are not much too look at.

Arequipa is the only city where youll have a chance to find cute
natives. Chiclayo, Trujillo and Lima have some nice native women,
but not many.

Ecuador: In general, Ecuador should be avoided if youre looking

hook-ups. If you find yourself there, Guayaquil is your best bet.

Argentina: The women of Buenos Aires and Santa Fe are very

beautiful. Crdoba is another popular city to find stunning women,
and many of them are students. Argentinean women arent very
tan, so keep that in mind if skin tone is an integral part of the Latin
experience for you. Also, Argentinean women have gained a
reputation of being overly emotional.

Brazil: This country is famous for its women. The city with the
cutest ones is Santa Maria (Ro Grande del Sur), which is full of
students. Cascavel and Blumenau are good options too, as is the
capital of Brasilia.

Blonde Latinas can be found in Porto Alegre and Santa Catarina;

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brunettes in Rio de Janeiro y Minas Gerais. Keep in mind that
Brazilians speak Portuguese, not Spanish, so
make sure to translate any of the pick-up lines you plan on trying.

Uruguay: The best destination for pretty women is Punta Del Este.

Puerto Rico: Across the island you will find typical Latinas: tanned
skin, brown hair, sensual behavior, and a love for dancing. Im
sure youll like them.

Meeting Latin Girls When Travelling How

To Make A Good Impression
If you travel a lot to South and Central America you are sure to
meet a lot of fantastic people. Latina women, in particular, are
bound to attract your attention; they are gorgeous and well
groomed and more importantly, they are very warm and friendly.

However, you need to ask yourself whether you are able to make
a good impression on them. Youll definitely need to work on your
image in order to meet the right kind of women and go out with
them.

The first thing you need to be sure of is whether you are dressed
right. If you turn up on a date wearing shorts or flip flops then you
are certainly not going to impress Latina ladies.

They are going to think that you are just not serious enough about
them to dress appropriately. Whats more, they will also think that
you are only interested in a one night stand and not in a
relationship. Dont forget that these ladies come from a culture that
places great importance on family values and romance.

As a foreigner you have a great advantage over other men, you

look different and exotic.
But in their eyes therere two kinds of foreigners: the backpackers
and the charming princes.

You should consider projecting the image of the second one. And

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that has a lot to do with the clothes you are wearing, all the time.

So, if you travel to a Latin country, youd be better if you forget

about wearing those flip flops once you step out of the hotel.

Dress up well and youll see how easy it is to attract women

everywhere.

Woo Them in Style

Latin women love to be swept off their feet and they have no
reservations about receiving chivalrous attention. Stand up when
they walk in and hold car doors open for them. This is what they
have grown up to expect and they value these behaviors highly.

You will be pleasantly surprised that they love to reciprocate with

generous gestures.

Latinas take romance very seriously and this is an important part

of their appeal. They will go to great lengths to be agreeable if they
feel that you are there to stay and are not just looking for a good
time for a day or two. Therefore, make sure that you follow these
tips in order to create a favorable impression on the lady of your
choice. Youll never regret it since you will soon meet a lovely lady
who will be eager to go out with you.

Latin Women online

Have you heard about mail-order brides?

Its a huge business, and an alternative that many guys from the
US take when they feel lonely and want to get a Latin wife. Most of
these women come from Colombia.

There are a great deal of problems with mail-ordering a wife,

rather than dating. Most of the men who buy these women do not
understand Spanish, and by extension, cannot speak with their
new wives. As well, these women usually enter into scenarios like
mail-order marriage out of financial desperation; the resulting

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marriage is loveless and based solely on money.

Obviously, the best way to decide if you want to keep a Latina is

by meeting her in person and giving her the opportunity to
demonstrate that shes the right girl for you. And now that you
have this book you can start being picky and get the girls that you
really like. However, seeking Latinas on the internet can be a good
idea in tandem with meeting them in person. If youre planning a
visit to a Latin country, find a few girls online beforehand so that
theyll be waiting for you when you arrive. A good website for
meeting Latinas is: www.badoo.com

When creating an online dating profile, youll want to make

yourself appear as attractive as possible. Here are some tricks to
setting yourself apart, without relying on conversation or body
language.

Pictures

The objective of a profile picture is to make you appear as the

charming prince theyve always dreamed of. For that to work, you
need to avoid first the following mistakes:

-Taking shirtless pictures to show off your muscles.

-Taking pictures of your cars and bikes.

-Taking a picture yourself in the mirror.

-Using your webcam to take a picture of yourself.

-Appearing in a picture alone without anything going on around

you.

-Appearing in the picture with an ugly woman.

-Using a profile picture of you when you were a baby.

Examples of pictures you can use are ones where:

-You have cute female friends.

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-You are displaying a skill or hobby.

-Theres great view.

-You have an animal with you.

-You have kids with you.

-Youre engaged in a sport.

-You display a sense of adventure, or a good aspect of your

personality.

Pick five to ten interesting pictures you have and upload them. In
case you dont have interesting pictures, take some and upload
them, but do not upload anything if you dont have the right ones
its about quality not quantity.

Description Lines

The description lines must let women know that you have sense of
humor. Likewise, there needs to be something she can use to
tease you. Humor, as I have stressed, is a great way to get women
comfortable around you.

Here are some Spanish lines (with translation) that you can use in
your profiles. Just copy and paste:

- Cuando era pequeo, las nias abusaban de mi. Pero no voy a

dejar que eso vuelva a suceder.

When I was a kid, girls abused me. But I wont let that happen
again.

- Yo no me creo la mayor cosa pero por favor no me sigan

confundiendo con Brad Pitt, me molesta mucho.

I dont believe Im so great, but please dont keep confusing me

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with Brad Pitt, it bothers me so much.

- Yo me distingo por tener dos cualidades principales: soy

humilde y perfecto!

Im distinguished by my two principal qualities: Im humble and

perfect!

Badoo or Tinder are such great tools because you can use them
before you go to any city, this way youll have some women
waiting for you willing to introduce you to their friends.

Also, if you dont have a Facebook profile I recommend you create

one. Its a good tool to keep your girls in contact and grab their
interest somehow.

For example, if you screwed things up with some girl in the past
you may just get another chance with her if your profile grabs her
attention, send her a message and get her on another date.

Here are some messages you can send to some girls you lost
contact somehow (use the Spanish translation):

- By chance do you like the music and strawberry coctails?"

Por casualidad te gusta la msica y los cocteles de fresa?

- "I was on my friends farm and I saw a squirrel and I thought of

you :p what are you doing?"

Estaba en la finca de unos amigos y vi una ardilla y me acord de

ti... que andas haciendo?

- I was invited to something you would never guess, where are

you now?

Me acaban de invitar a algo que no te imaginas... dnde ests

ahora?

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 How To Deal With Latinas
Now you need to know some behaviours and ways to interact with
Latin women. I got it all covered for you in this chapter.

Latin psychological Tests

Latin women dream about finding their charming prince and having
a fairy tale life with him. As a result, they (over) analyse mens
behaviour to determine if he lives up to their expectations, and
they do this by givingwhat is colloquially known asshit tests.

The shit test consists of a question (usually with no right answer)

that reveals the weakest points of a mans personality, and then
passing a character judgement based on the answer they receive.

When a man doesnt pass the test, hes loses value in the
womans eyes. If he fails enough times, she loses interest. All
women give these tests, even if they dont know theyre doing it.

But Latin women will give you more of these tests than any other
girl.

A common test for a Latina is to accuse a manon the first date

of being a womanizer. The majority of men respond with, No, I am
not a womanizer. I am a very serious man. While this is obvious
and sometimes truthful answer, it is also a weak one. It
demonstrates that the man was affected by the question and is
trying to impress his date. Treat these tests like a politician by
never answering directly.

Instead, sidestep the issue by focusing the conversation away

from yourself, or by distracting with humor. For example, answer
the above question by saying, Womanizer?
Me? But I am very faithful to all seven of my girlfriends!

Here are several examples of common tests that most Latin

women employ, along with a proper answer that will help you pass
the test successfully while showing confidence and
projecting value:

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Her: I can see that you are not a gentleman.
You: Yes, I know, butdo you like presents?
Her: Well, Yes!
You: And why havent you given me any? You are not a
gentlewoman either.

Her: Have you been with many women?

You: No, Im a virgin. Im even thinking of saving my lip virginity
until I get married.

Her: I can see that you like all girls.

You: Not all, just the cute ones. And the problem is that there
arent many of them. Ive only seen 5,000 today.

Her: Ill bet you use these lines on all the women.
You: No, almost none. Ive only told them to 78 girls today.
You are number 79.

Her: Are you trying to kiss me?

You: Me? Never! I was just trying to lick your cheek. You had
something in there and I wanted to get it with my tongue.

What a man needs to know if he gets into a serious relationship

with a Latina

Most of the guys really get lost once theyre in a relationship. After
a month they start thinking that Latin women are crazy and
impossible to get along with. Well, they are crazy, but there are still
ways to deal with them.

It takes time to understand why they start complaining for no

reason. Im about to explain some things you should know so you
dont get crazy too.

1. It important that you meet her parents.

If she invites you to a party with her family, do not refuse. Be polite
and accept: it means shes ready to see you as a boyfriend and
wants a serious relationship.

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2. Latin women are very warm, and love being hugged and
kissed a lot.

If she starts feeling that you are too cold, shell start often complain
about something unrelated.

3. Be a gentleman.

Latin women see when the man opens the door, moves the chair
in a restaurant so she seats, offers a hand to cross the street, etc.
Make her feel special without being submissive.

4. Remember the day you started being her boyfriend, and

celebrate your anniversary every month.

A good celebration could involve taking her to a nice restaurant,

having some wine, and afterwards taking her to a place you can
have sex with her. If she buys you a gift and you
forget that special day, she might feel like youre uncaring.
5. Shell love it when you tell her how sexy and cute she
looks.

Make her be proud of herself, and reward her with a kiss.

6. Dont wear sandal when you go out.

Latin women hate it.

7. If she brings a girlfriend when going out, invite them both

and pay for everything.

Do not let her or her friend pay.

Likewise, make sure her friend has a good time. Latin women talk
a lot amongst themselves, so if you impress your girlfriends group,
shell hear about it and feel proud to
be dating you.

8. Advice on first date etiquette still applies.

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Dont tell her to meet you in places. You should still be picking her
up most of the time. If for some reason you cant pick her up, tell
her youll for a cab (and actually do it).

9. Dont get mad if she makes you wait for several minutes
when picking her up.

You may find yourself waiting at the gate for upwards of fifteen
minutes. Its simply a fact of life.

10. Call her the next day after having sex.

Otherwise she will be disappointed. All you have to do is call her

and talk about any random stuff, but it means a lot.

11. Expect her to cook breakfast for you.

It should be noted that most Latin women are excellent cooks.

12.Dont get mad when she doesnt want to have sex.

13.If you start a relationship with a Latina, consider learning

some dancing.

She will like that youre getting to know her culture.

14.Play some games with her.

Latin women love challenges.

So learn or invent some games. This is something Scot McKay

does very well with his half-Latin wife, and they have a great
relationship. You can check out his program here:
http://tinyurl.com/3kfroez

What to expect of a Latina according to her age Latin American

women are, by nature, not impulsive.

They live in (and help to promote) a conservative society with

strictly-defined gender roles. However, even within these roles, the
behavior of Latinas varies greatly by what age group they fall into:

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18 to 25

The age is the most desirable. They arent desperate about getting
married, so most just want to have fun. But dont be surprised if
the girl has a curfew though: Latin women tend to live with their
parents until they get married.

26 to 32

Women of in around this age are generally looking for marriage.

While this can make them more eager to please, it also means
theyre more attentive to your income, as theyre seeking financial
stability. If you have a relationship with a girl of this age for more
than six months and dont marry her, she may feel as though her
time has been wasted.

33 +

Like young Latinas, these women are usually just looking for a
good time. Most are either no longer worried about marriage, or
have already gone through divorce. Additionally, many older
Latinas are open to the idea of splitting the cost of things with the
men they date.

Facts About Latin Women And Their Culture

- Theyre not worried about gender equality.

- Theyre dependant on men.

- They tend to go to bars with female friends when seeking male

attention.

- It isn't so common to get a one night stand, since they tend to be

more reliant on the man.

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- A Latina never pays the bill unless you are her boyfriend and
have been with her for a long time. And even then, infrequently.

- They like to dance.

- They tend to continue living in their parents house until they get
married or they find a man to provide things.
- They worry about their appearance even to go to a supermarket.

- Out well past 3 or 4 a.m. If you go to a Latin country the only

thing youll find after 3am is
drunken guys.

- They care a lot about what people think of them. They are always
scared of leaving a bad
impression.

- Theyre very affectionate.

The Gravitational Law Of Attraction

The Mayan culture was advances enough in astronomy to
understand that the larger a celestial body is, the more objects it
tends to attract into its orbit. In applying this to seduction, its clear
to see that it has less to do with size than looks and poise.

The result: many attractive Latinas becomes the stars of the bar,
and countless men act as their satellites. Being stuck in orbit
around a beautiful woman is comparable to being friend zoned or
getting stuck in a relationship of submission. In order to master
seduction,
you must be the one who holds her in your orbit, and heres how.

How to get them around you (satellites)

Satellites were not born around each one of the planets; instead,
they are obtained over time. While the timeframe well be working

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system, its good to understand how this attraction functions.

There are several ways to generate satellites. A good way to make

people feel comfortable in your orbit is letting them know that you
notice the qualities that they have. One of them is being a famous
singer, while another one is making everyone around you to feel
comfortable and motivated; Latinas love good compliments. These
remarks dont have to be related to her looks; Latin women love it
when someone can see more than physical
aspects and can notice good things about them.

Making constructive but disinterested compliments is a good way

to start gathering satellites.

Constructive compliments

These are some of the compliments that Latin women love. Say
them often enough to make her feel special, and not only with your
targets but with your Latin friends too.

- I can see that you are someone who knows what to expect from
life, I admire that.
- You really take care of people. Im sure that someday youll be a
great mother.
- Youve got a good energy.
- I can see you are the leader of your friends.
- Its nice having conversations with you.
- I can see you have class, and I like it.
- You have a nice personality.

- You express yourself very well.

- I can see that you dont worry about the future. I like that.

- I like the fact that you are a dreamer.

- You have a good sense of how to live life.

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- I can tell that you are going to be successful in life.

- You are very analytical; I like it.

- I can see that you surround yourself with very interesting people.

- You are a trustworthy person.

Make her qualify herself

This strategy will help you release the bad girl thats inside most
Latin women. It works to generate trust and escalates physical
contact. Basically, tell her what youd like to see in a woman. That
way shell be able to qualify herself to whatever you are saying,
like so:

I find it sexy when a girl behaves naughty. Do you enjoy being

naughty sometimes? (the more details you can get her to divulge,
the better).

Theres nothing more important to me than a woman that knows

how to be evil sometimes. You know, being with a nice girl is good
but, sometimes, its good to feel
something different.

I find women with a sense of humor really attractive. Do you have

sense of humor?

Attracting Latin Women

How does attraction work inside Latinas minds?

The first thing to do to start the seduction process is to create

intrigue in the woman. That initial intrigue causes attraction.

Generate intrigue through confidence, demonstration of social

value, and projecting power. The first minutes are crucial because
theyre the time when you start to create enough attraction to carry

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In order to create that intrigue in the initial encounter you can only
depend on things like body language, good conversation topics,
and your look.

According to psychoanalytic studies in Latin America, when a

woman is interested in a man, she assumes that he already knows
all the things required to make her feel happy. This means that at
first shes going to imagine unconsciously that the man is what she
wants. But, when a man begins to make mistakes, it lets her know
that her assumption was incorrect. The woman will lose interest
and its almost impossible to get it back.

Some of the terrible questions that will kill the attraction when you
have sex with a Latin woman are:

Do you prefer me to do it fast or slowly?

Do you want more?
What excites you sexually?

Questions like those in the beginning of a sexual relationship make

a woman feel like the man does not understand her and doesnt
know how to make her enjoy sex.

My recommendation is to become more perceptive and determine

what she enjoys through trial and error. By analyzing her
reactions, you are going to notice what she likes or doesnt like.

As a prince charming, you must possess certain characteristics.

Some of them are:

Be unpredictable: Latin women always analyze a mans actions.

In fact, women are much better than men at reading the subtleties
body language. Women can unconsciously gauge your level of
interest. But when a man is unpredictable and not always making
attempts to seduce a woman, her abilities of pattern recognition
will not function as well. This forces her to consider your actions
more, and show physical interest in order to figure out what the
man may be thinking. For this reason, dont work too hard to

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impress her on the first date.

Let her try to earn your interest. Its good to make her wonder
Does he really like me or not?

Remember that this doubt must only exist early on in the courtship.
Do not continue this behavior when you have a romantic
relationship because it will be uncomfortable for her.

Project some mystery: Mystery attracts. Human beings feel

naturally compelled towards the unknown. Do not open yourself
completely. If youd like her to leave wanting more, its necessary
to keep some things hidden.

Have a sense of humor: Humor will help you create a more

comfortable atmosphere. Latin women let the attraction flow easily
when a man makes them laugh. It helps them enjoy the moment.

Humor can be learned. If you dont have a good sense of humor,

analyze the behavior of one of your funnier friends, or watch
stand-up comedians.

Be confident: Unconfident men dont cause attraction for obvious

reasons. Latinas seek protection, and confidence implies your
capabilities to do so.

Do not try to impress her all the time: Bragging is unbecoming to a

man. Women can usually tell when a man is doing it to impress
her. It the man seem cocky, but more importantly, its predictable
behavior.

Have goals in life: Latin women think a lot about future. They ask
questions to themselves like, Does he have the potential to make
me happy many years from now? Thats why having goals and
big aspirations becomes an important factor for a man to qualify
early on, even if his is already financially stable.

Be active: Sports, hobbies, and skills will help you build

confidence, and have interesting topics of conversation. Whether
the woman is western or Latina, she will get bored quickly if the
man doesnt do anything different than working every day.

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Be dominant: Latin girls really appreciate men that have a strong
confidence and are leaders; men who defend what they want and
know how to give orders. This doesnt mean you should be
abusive.

Why kind of dancing you should learn.

Dancing is a very important part of Latin culture. Women dont

even consciously know why they love it so much. The truth is that
it give women an environment to be noticed in, and it
demonstrates a skill.

Popular dances are salsa, merengue, bachata, vallenato, balada,

bolero, rock, reggae, reggaeton, and hip hop.

If you dont know how to dance salsa dont worry, you can move a
bit while dancing to reggae, hip hop, or reggaeton, so dont stay in
your chair. A Latina likes to be grabbed from the waist while
dancing.

Its a good way to prelude to sexual contact. Do not grab her

anywhere else though.

Having a Latin girlfriend is a great opportunity to learn how to

dance. Tell her to teach you merengue, vallenato (this is the
easiest of all dances), or bachata first, because those are
somewhat easier. Even if you were born with two left feet, you can
still work your way up to salsa.

Sex With Latin Women

The place for sex

If you have an apartment it will make things really easy. Simply

propose going back to your apartment for a while to show her
something that you have there: a collection of music, a game, an
itemanything. You can even ask her up for a bit to eat. The most
important thing is to make sure your apartment is clean and

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organized. Its such a big deal for Latin women, if your apartment
is a mess she will be likely to be turned off.

But what do you do when you dont have an apartment.

One good option is to take her to a friends apartment. Always ask

him if you can use it ahead of time.
Tell her youd like to introduce her to a good friend of yours. When
you are in the apartment, have him leave (the pretense can be as
simple as buying something at the corner). From there, escalate
physically.

If you arent in your native country or dont have any willing friends
in the area, youll have to find a motel. These are small hotels
where couples have sex and then leave. They are generally cheap
and you can stay between four and eight hours.

However, asking her to go to a motel lacks the subtlety of going to

an apartment, so your intentions are known immediately. In fact,
you shouldnt say the words hotel or motel when you propose
going to one.

The right way to take a woman to a hotel is by saying that you

want to go someplace quiet. She will assume you two are going to
a hotel, but will act like if she didnt know where you were going.

The key difference benefit of having an apartment is that you dont

have to arouse a woman before you get to your place. When trying
to convince a woman to go to a motel, you must arouse her before
going there, so that she will accept going with you.

A good way to make her feel horny is by dancing with her. There
are a lot of songs that will make it easy to dance really close to
her. It doesnt have to be salsa or meringue; it can be any of the
easy dances that are meant to be danced closely and sexually.

If you dont have a car and need to take a taxi to a motel, write the
phrase Take us to the nearest hotel on a piece of paper
beforehand. The Spanish translation is Llvanos al motel ms
cercano.

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Give the paper to the taxi driver as you are getting into it. Do this
without letting her notice it.

When you two get inside the gate of the hotel/motel, she may ask
why you are going there (a standard shit test). Dont let her
intimidate you, and instead rebuff her question with humor. Say
something like, We arent doing anything. I just want to sleep and
watch TV, okay? Im not letting you touch me.

Be calm, turn on the TV, lay on the bed or tell her to give you a
massage. Dont rush. Then start kissing her slowly. Women take
more time than men to get aroused, so give her time: a long kiss
without a lot of touching will give her time the time she needs.

After you can see that her breathing change (or if she starts to
grab your arms and your chest), it will be time to start grabbing her
too and begin to take her clothes off.

Latin women are generally accepting when it comes to using

hotels for sex, so dont be afraid of making a Latina feel like a
whore for inviting her to a hotel. Shell understand if you dont have
an apartment (and if you invite her properly).

The following is a true story of an error that a man made when

trying to seduce a Latin woman. It will help you to understand how
Latinas minds work in heat of sex.

Seduction In The Apartment

Dave met a cute Latin woman who was 30 years old. In the initial
encounter, they flirted a lot. He called her later and invited her to
his house. She accepted.

He cooked for her, and they had dinner at his house. Afterwards
he proposed that they go into his room to watch TV. There, in the
bed, he hugged her and watched TV for a while.

Then she closed her eyes. A bit later he began to touch her. First
her neck, then her arms and finally he put his hands on her
breasts. When he began to touch her breasts, she suddenly
opened her eyes, moved away and said, What are you doing?

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advantage of me because I am sleeping?

Dave, who was surprised by this reaction, said, Im sorry, I didnt

mean to do it. It was a misunderstanding.

She left his apartment, never to be heard from again.

Analysis:

When a Latin woman goes to a mans house, she knows that

anything can happen. This means that she is prepared to have
sex. Obviously, how far things escalate depends on the level of
attraction and how aroused she feels once shes inside.

During dinner things were going well, but when Dave invited her
to watch TV in his bedroom, he forgot something: its necessary to
escalate physical contact before taking a woman back into your
bedroom. By taking her to his bedroom before escalating
physically outside of the bedroom, Daves sudden physical moves
seemed unnatural.

For Latin women, a first kiss is very important. She feigned being
asleep in expectation of this kiss, and when it did not arrive in
became a pretext for not wanting to have sex. When he started to
hug her, he made an even worse mistake: he touched her breasts
without arousing her first.

The perfect seduction must be done step by step. In order to begin

to touch her intimate parts, it is important to manage a kiss first
and escalate from there.

So how can we learn from Daves mistakes?

During dinner he should have kept built attraction through light

physical escalation and engaging conversation. It would have also
helped for them to have drank some wine or other alcoholic
beverages. The escalation should have progressed, and after
some drinks he should have obtained a kiss while still in the living
room.

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He could have allowed things to progress in the living room. An
invitation to the bedroom works the same way as an invitation to a
motel: theres no subtly in it. Just let things progress naturally.

Hopefully, youll learn something from Daves mistakes.

How They Behave Sexually

Latin women hide their sexual appetite much more that Americans
or Europeans. Unlikely American women, Latinas are so worried
about the image they project that fear keeps them from doing sexy
things that women from other cultures would feel comfortable with.

For example, two American women would agree to kiss each other
in front of some guys in order to make men feel desire. A Latina,
concerned that outsiders would assume she was
a lesbian, would probably not take part in this behavior
(homosexuality is still frowned upon in many Latin cultures).

Latin women also criticize other women a lot. These women all
compete to get married to a good man, and they compete not just
by trying to impress men, but by defaming each other. Fear of
social retribution from their friends keeps them from having one
night stands. It doesnt mean that its impossible to get a one night
stand with a Latina, but its definitely more difficult than having it
with an American girl.

Since Latin women tend to live with their parents until marriage,
very few of them consume pornography. They do, however, still
have sexual fantasies which become repressed (which might
explains why theyre so passionate, since they are unable to fulfill
these fantasies until specific relationship criteria are met).

The main conclusion is that they are open-minded once they are in
bed, but outside they just pretend to be saints.

How To Make Sex Happen

One of the mistakes that the majority of guys make is to verbally

request sex from a Latin woman long before obtaining the
sufficient attraction. They might say, I want to be with you in bed,

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Do you want to come to my house to sleep with me? or Would
you like to have sex with me tonight? It not only puts the man in a
submissive role, but it generates a tense atmosphere. The perfect
courtship occurs when things seem not to be planned.

For that reason, a good strategy is to take her to a place that is not
specifically related to sex, but where sex can occur anyway.

Sexual Performance

The most important piece of advice is to allow her to do her job,

while you do the same. It is important not to forget foreplaythe
longer it goes on the better. However, it gives her the opportunity
to keep intercourse from happening. If she chooses not to have
sex at the last minute, show disinterest and try again later as if
nothing had happened.

Women sometimes offer certain resistances before the first sexual

encounter. Its a normal reaction from women around the world.
Sometimes, no matter how good you are, youll find Latin women
that will make you wait for the sexual encounter more than any
other girls.

After continuing to escalate sexually, take off her clothes slowly,

while you do the same, beginning with shirts. Do not have sex with
your socks on. Some Latin women would complain if you keep
them on.

Make her wait a little before you penetrate her. This way shell be
more likely to be lubricated. Rub your penis around her vagina
without penetrating, thus making her wait.

After you youre in, stimulate the G spot with your penis. It is
located approximately three centimetres inside of the upper part of
the vagina.

Oral sex is very important to some women: it stimulates a girl

before penetration and allows her to become more aroused. Try
performing oral sex for a long time, using your tongue with circular
movements around her clitoris.

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Sometimes women dont feel secure with the smell or the shape of
their vagina, and thats why its very important that you make her
feel comfortable by saying how much you like it and complimenting
her smell and shape when having oral sex. Only say these things if
theyre true; if not, dont do oral sex.

When she sees that you are enjoying performing oral sex on her,
she will feel more connected and itll be easier to make her
achieve orgasm. After doing it for several minutes, her vaginal
muscles will begin to contract, and an orgasm is on the way.

So pay attention, and at that moment, introduce your finger to

stimulate the G spot. You will give her an orgasm that will make
her remember you for the rest of her life.

I wish you luck using the strategies that I shared with you, and I
would appreciate if you shared the progress that you have made
by using them.

For me, theres nothing better than to contribute good things to the
world. Now you have a knowledge that few have about Latin
women.

Remember to give us some testimony once you have a Latin girl in

your arms!

Remember that

Every man dies, not every man really lives William Wallace

Sincerely,

Your friend,

Esteban Lara

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