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Seventh Edition
JOSEPH P. FOLGER
Temple University
Routiedge
Taylor & Francis Group
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CONTENTS
Introduction 1 CHAPTER 2
CASE I.lA The Women's Hoffine Case 2 The Inner Experience of Conflict 40
CASE I.1B The Women's Hotline Case 3
CASE 2.1 The Parking Lot Scuffle 41
I.1 Conflict Defined 4 2.1 The Psychodynamic Perspective 41
I.2 Arenas for Conflict 6 EXHIBIT 2.1 Collusion and Intractable Conflict 44
CASE 2.2 Psychodynamic Theory and the Parking Lot
I.3 Productive and Destructive Conflict
Scuffle 46
Interaction 8
2.2 Emotion and Conflict 46
1.4 Judgments About Conflict Outcomes 10
EXHIBIT 2.2 Verbal Aggressiveness 48
I.5 Plan of the Book 12 CASE 2.3 Emotion in the Parking Lot Scuffle 52
I.6 Surnmary and Review 12 2.3 Social Cognition and Conflict 53
2.3.I Social Knowledge About Conflict and Conflict
Interaction 53
CHAPTER 1 2.3.2 Social Cogntive Processes and Conflict 59
Communication and Conflict 14 CASE 2.4 Social Knowledge About Conflict and the
Parking Lot Scuffle 59
1.1 A Model of Effective Conflict
CASE 2.5 Expectancy Violations and the Parking Lot
Management 14 Scuffle 6I
I.1.I Moving 7hrough Differentatio.n and CASE 2.6 The Role of Attributions in the Parking Lot
Integration I5 Scuffle 64
I.1.2 Taking the Middle Path: Moving Toward
Integration 19 2.4 The Interaction of Psychodynamics, Emotion,
I.1.3 Recognizing Destructive Cycles 21 and Socia Cognition in Conflict 66
1.I.4 Tacking Against the Wind 22 EXHIBIT 2.3 Trained Incapacites and Conflict
Interaction 68
1.2 Properties of Conflict Interaction 23
I.2.I Property 1: Conflict Is Constituted and 2.5 Summary and Review 70
Sustained by Moves and Countermoves During 2.6 Conclusion 72
Interaction 25
1.2.2 Property 2: Patterns of Behavior in Conflicts
Tend to Perpetuate Themselves 27 CHAPTER 3
1.2.3 Property 3: Conflict Interaction Is Influenced Conflict Interaction 74
by and in Turn Affects Relationships 29
EXHIBIT 1.1 Confrontation Episodes Theory 30 3.1 Stages of Conflict 75
1.2.4 Property 4: Conflict Interaction Is Influenced 3.1.I Rummel's Five-Stage Model 76
by the Context in Which It Occurs 34 3.1.2 Pondy's Model 77
CASE 1.1 The Columnist's Brown Bag 35 3.I.3 Stage Models of Negotiation 77
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3.1.4 Insights of Stage Models of Conflict 77 4.6 Shifting Styles During Conflict
3.1.5 Multiple Sequences in Conflict 79 Episodes 124
EXHIBIT 3.1 Chartng a Conflict 80 CASE 4.2 College Roommates 125
3.1.6 Final Thoughts About Stage Models 4.7 Selecting Conflict Styles 127
of Conflict 80 EXHIBIT 4.1 A Procedure for Selecting Conflict
3.2 Interdependence 80 Styles 128
CASE 3.1 Stage Models and the Parking Lot Scuffle 81 4.8 Cultural and Gender Influences on Conflict
CASE 3.2 Interdependence and the Parking Lot Scuffle 83 Styles 131
3.3 Reciprocity and Compensation 83 4.8.1 Culturallnfluences 131
EXHIBIT 3.2 Can Conflict Competence Be 4.8.2 Gender Influences 133
Assessed? 85
4.9 Styles and Tactics in Practice 134
CASE 3.3 Reciprocity and Compensation in the Parking
CASE 4.3 The Would-Be Borrower 135
Lot Scuffle 87
EXHIBIT 3.3 The Tit-for-Tat Strategy 88 4.10 Summary and Review 136
3.4 Framing Issues in Conflict Interaction 89 4.11 Conclusion 138
CASE 3.4 Issue Framing and the Parking
Lot Scuffle 90
CHAPTER 5
3.5 Social Context and the Coordination
Power: The Architecture of Conflict 139
of Meaning 92
5.1 Power and the Emergence of Conflict 139
3.6 Social Identity and Intergroup CASE 5.1A A Raid on the Student Activity Fees
Conflict 95 Fund 140
CASE 3.5 Intergroup Conflict Oynamics and the Parking CASE 5.1B A Raid on the Student Activity Fees
Lot Scuffle 101 Fund 141
ExHIBIT 3.4 Counteracting the Negative Impacts
5.2 A Relational View of Power 143
of Social Identity and Intergroup
Conflict 102 5.2.1 Social Categorization 144
CASE 5.2 The Eccentric Professor 145
3.7 Summary and Review 103
5.2.2 The Mystique of Power 147
3.8 Conclusion 105 5.2.3 Interaction I48
5.2.4 Legitimacy 148
CHAPTER 4 5.2.5 Implications of Endorsement for Power 149
Conflict Styles and Strategic Conflict 5.3 Power and Conflict Interaction 149
Interaction 108 CASE 5.3 The Creativity Development Committee 151
4.1 Origins of Conflict Styles 109 5.4 The Use of Power in Conflict Tactics. 154
CASE 4.1 Conflict Styles in the Parking Lot 5.4.I Threats and Promises 155
Scuffle 110 5.4.2 Relational Control 156
4.2 What Is a Conflict Style? 111 5.4.3 Issue Control 158
4.3 An Expanded View of Conflict Styles 113 5.5 The Balance of Power in Conflict 160
4.3.1 Competing 115 5.5.1 The Dilemmas of Strength 161
4.3.2 Avoiding 116 CASE 5.4 The Copywriter's Committee 162
4.3.3 Accommodating 118 CASE 5.5 Unbaianced tntimacy 163
4.3.4 Compromsing 119 CASE 5.6 Job Resignation ata Social Service
4.3.5 Collaborating I20 Agency 164
5.5.2 The Dangers of Weakness 165
4.4 Determining the Styles of Others 122
5.5.3 Cultural Differences in Values Concerning
4.5 Pairings of Conflict Styles 123 Power 167
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5.6 Working with Power 168 EXHIBIT 7.1 Identifyng Climates 2I6
5.6.1 Diagnosing the Role of Power in 7.1.3 Working with Climate 218
Conflict I68 CASE 7.2 Breakup at the Bakery 219
5.6.2 Fostering Shared Power in Conflicts I69 EXHIBIT 7.2 Climate and Predicting What
5.7 Summary and Review 173 Marriages Survve 221
CASE 7.3 The Expanding Printing Company 222
5.8 Conclusion 175
7.1.4 Working with Climate 223
CASE 7.4 The Start -Up 225
CHAPTER 6
7.2 Summary and Review 226
Face-Saving 176
7.3 Conclusion 228
6.1 The Dimensions of Face 177
6.2 Face Loss as It Relates to
Face-Saving 178 CHAPTER 8
6.3 A Threat to Flexbility in Conflict Managing Conflict 229
Interaction 179 8.1 Review of the Normative Model
CASE 6.1 The Professor's Decision I80
for Conflict Management 229
CASE 6.2 The Outspoken Member 180
CASE 6.3 The Controversia) Team Member 181 8.2 Navigating Differentiation 230
8.2.1 Framing Problems or Issues 231
6.4 Conflict Interaction as a Face-Saving 8.2.2 Rethinking How Problems are
Arena 185 Defined 233
6.5 Face-Saving Frames in Conflict CASE 8.1 The Psychological Evaluation Unit 236
Interaction 190 8.2.3 Cultivating a Collaborative Attitude 238
6.5.1 Resisting Unjust Intimidation 190 8.2.4 Moving from Differentiation
to Integration 239
6.5.2 Refusing to Give on a Position I92
6.5.3 Suppressing Conflict Issues I93 8.3 A Procedure for Managing Conflicts 241
EXHIBIT 8.1 A Procedure for Moving
6.6 Face-Saving in Other Cultures 194
Through Differentiation and
6.7 Face-Giving Strategies 194 Integration 241
EXHIBIT 6.1 Why do Meteorologists Never 8.4 Addressing Severe Challenges to Conflict
Apologize? 195
Integration 243
EXHIBIT 6.2 Disagreeing Agreeably 198
8.4.I Challenging Belief Systems That Escalate
6.8 Working with Face-Saving Issues 200 Conflict Responses 243
EXHIBIT 6.3 When Honor Can Kill 202 8.4.2 Moving Beyond Deep Transgressions Through
CASE 6.4 The Productivity and Performance Report 204 Forgiveness 245
EXHIBIT 8.2 Diagnosing the Public Expression
6.9 Summary and Review 205 of Forgiveness 247
6.10 Conclusion 206 8.5 Dispute Systems: Managing Conflicts
within Organzations 247
CHAPTER 7 EXHIB!T 8.3 What Type of a Dispute Resolution
System Does an Organization
Climate and Conflict Interaction 207 Have? 248
7.1 Climate and Conflict 208 8.5.1 Working with Organizational Dispute
Resolution Systems 249
CASE 7.1 Riverdate Halfway House 2II
7.1.1 More Precisely Defining Climate 212 8.6 Summary and Review 250
7.1.2 Climate and Conflict Interaction 214 8.7 Conclusion 252
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1.14 The Women's Hotline Case 2 5.1B A Raid on the Student Activity Fees
Fund 141
I.1B The Women's Hotline Case 3
5.2 The Eccentric Professor 145
1.1 The Columnist's Brown Bag 35
5.3 The Creativity Development Committee 151
2.1 The Parking Lot Scuffle 41
5.4 The Copywriters' Committee 162
2.2 Psychodynamic Theory and the Parking Lot
Scuffle 46 5.5 Unbalanced Intimacy 163
2.3 Emotion in the Parking Lot Scuffle 52 5.6 Job Resignation at a Social Service
Agency 164
2.4 Social Knowledge About Conflict and the
Parking Lot Scuffle 59 6.1 The Professor's Decision 180
2.5 Expectancy Violations and the Parking Lot 6.2 The Outspoken Member 180
Scuffle 61 6.3 The Controversia) Team Member 181
2.6 The Role of Attributions in the Parking Lot 6.4 The Productivity and Performance
Scuffle 64 Report 204
3.1 Stage Models and the Parking Lot 7.1 Riverdale Halfway House 211
Scuffle 81
7.2 Breakup at the Bakery 219
3.2 Interdependence and the Parking Lot 7.3 The Expanding Printing Company 222
Scuffle 83
7.4 The Start-Up 225
3.3 Reciprocity and Compensation in the Parking
Lot Scuffle 87 8.1 The Psychological Evaluation Unit 236
3.4 Issue Framing in the Parking Lot Scuffle 90 9.1 Organizational Co-Heads 261
3.5 Intergroup Conflict Dynamics and the Parking 9.2 The Family Conflict 262
Lot Scuffle 101 9.3 Mediator Pressure and the Intransigent
4.1 Conflict Styles in the Parking Lot Negotiator 265
Scuffle 110 9.4 Party Process Control 267
4.2 College Roommates 125 9.5 Neighbor Noise Problems 270
4.3 The Would-Be Borrower 135
5.1A A Raid on the Student Activity Fees
Fund 140
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and organizations. It is a primer for those who might want to pursue professional work in
the conflict management field as mediators, ombudspersons, facilitators, or conciliators.
It can also help build a strong intuition in those who deal with cnflict daily in work and
professional settings and in those who want to have an impact on conflicts in their
personal lives within families, romantic relationships, marriages, and friendships.
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
We thank Montana Rozmus for help with research and background work for the seventh
edition. Once again, we owe our greatest debt to our colleagues at the Center for Conflict
Resolution in Madison, Wisconsin. We are very grateful to Lonnie Weiss for her insight
and help with our analyses. We also th.ank Syd Bernard, Jim Carrilon, Jay Herman, Jan
Shubert, Rick Sloan, Dennis Smith, and Kathy Zoppi for their responses to parts or all of
the manuscript. In additon, we turned. to Betsy Densmore, Robert Everett, and Tommy
Vines for an evaluation of the manuscript from a managerial perspective. We also thank
Linda Klug, Jean Kebis, and Wayne Beach for supplying the transcript of interaction in
Chapter 6.
The excellent editorial and production staff at Pearson including Megan Sweeney,
Stephanie Chaisson Anne Ricigliano, Lisa Sussman, Jeanne Zalesky, Karon Bowers, and
Liz Napolitano have greatly assisted with the production of this volume.
JOSEPH P. FOLGER