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Introduction:
The elderly population in India is continuously increasing and also the problems faced by these
people are increasing simultaneously. The number of people in old age homes is constantly
increasing and also most of the parents are now deciding to live in old age homes rather than
living with their children. Nowadays these people are facing the problems like lack of care,
emotional support and economic support from the family etc. Our culture recognizes the status of
the parents as that of God. A moral duty is put on the children to take care of their parents. But
nowadays what we are observing in our society is that the children are not willing to take care of
are forgetting that their parents, they do not want to spend money on them, they are treating their
parents as aliens, they do not want to share an emotional bond with parents. These children
foundation of their life is built up by the parents. They are forgetting their moral and ethical
duties towards their parents. This is because of fast life, industrialization, money oriented minds,
inflation etc. Children have no time to look after their parents because of their busy schedule and
as a consequence of this situation the elders are getting neglected. At this age almost all the
people need some kind of support.
Some laws are enacted to solve this problem. According to the mentality of people here, they do
not bother to follow moral duties but they have to follow legal duties because of fear of
punishment. The maintenance of parents is included in section 125 of CrPC, The Hindu
Adoption and Maintenance Act 1956. But the procedures under these laws are time consuming
and expensive. Under these acts parents can claim maintenance from their children. National Old
Age Pension Scheme (NOAP) was introduced by the Indian government to provide Rupees 200
per month to the old and destitute people. But money cant take place of emotional support, care
etc. In 2007, The Maintenance and Welfare of Parents and senior Citizen Act (Senior Citizen
Act) is enacted to provide some speedy and inexpensive remedy to get maintenance. The bill
provides for
a) Appropriate mechanism to be set-up to provide need-based maintenance to the parents and
senior citizens
b) Providing better medical facilities to them
c) For institutionalization of a suitable, mechanism for protection of life and property of older
persons
d) Setting-up of old age homes in every district
Family life is very necessary for senior citizens and for parents to lead a life of security, care and
dignity. So the act will really help senior citizens, and they will be able to live a normal life. This
will be a great relief to the parents and senior citizens. This act is also made applicable to senior
citizens who are childless. The High Court of Delhi in one case appreciated the efforts of
Parliament in enacting the Maintenance and Welfare of Parents and Senior Citizens Act, 2007.
So if you are a senior citizen and want to live with family go ahead. Also there is need of
creating awareness among the people regarding this act and the rights which are given to senior
citizens under this act.
Consider this, out of every 10 elderly couples in India; more than 6 are forced by their children
to leave their homes. With no place to go and all hopes lost, the elderly have to resort to old age
homes, which do not guarantee first class treatment. In India, unlike USA, parents do not leave
their children on their own after they turn 18, but children find it hard to accept the fact that there
are times when parents want to feel the love that they once shared with them. There are times
when parents just want to relax and want their children to reciprocate their care. Every
parent wants to see their child grow and be successful but no parent wants their child to treat
them like an unnecessary load on their responsibilities.
Every other day, we see news of parents being beaten up by their children, parents and in-laws
being forced to do the household chores, being made to live in small dungeon-like rooms, their
property being forcefully taken over by over ambitious children.
There are 81million older people in India-11 lakh in Delhi itself. According to an estimate,
nearly 40% of senior citizens living with their families are reportedly facing abuse of one kind or
another, but only 1 in 6 cases actually comes to light. Although the President has given her
assent to the Maintenance and Welfare of Parents and Senior Citizens Act which punishes
children who abandon parents with a prison term of three months or a fine, situation is grim for
elderly people in India.
According to NGOs incidences of elderly couples being forced to sell their houses are very high.
Some elderly people have also complained that in case of a property dispute they feel more
helpless when their wives side with their children. Many of them suffer in silence as they fear
humiliation or are too scared to speak up. According to them a phenomenon called grand
dumping is becoming common in urban areas these days as children are being increasingly
intolerant of their parents health problems.
After a certain age health problems begin to crop up leading to losing control over ones body,
even not recognizing own family owing to Alzheimer are common in old age. It is then children
began to see their parents as burden. It is these parents who at times wander out of their homes or
are thrown out. Some dump their old parents or grandparents in old-age homes and dont even
come to visit them anymore. Delhi has nearly 11 lakh senior citizens but there are only 4
governments run homes for them and 31 by NGOs, private agencies and charitable trusts. The
facilities are lacking in government run homes.
Forget the rights that the elderly enjoy in India. Just forget about the action that they can take.
Think on moral grounds. Why do we tend to forget that the reason we are in this world is our
parents, the reason we studied is our parents, the reason we were alive all this while is our
parents, the reason we survived all the diseases is our mothers care. The hands who made us
walk is our parents. When we were kids we never thought of it but we knew that no matter
what, our parents will be by our side. But when our time came to show our respect, to reciprocate
the love, to show our gratitude, we back out.
But the truth is that even when they are counting their last breath, they are still thinking of us!
Is the youth too insensitive to the elder? Passing comments at an old man walking slowly on the
road and disturbing the flow of the traffic are our ethics? Come on youth, stand up against such
injustice. DO NOT TREAT YOUR PARENTS LIKE BURDEN ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY
NEED YOU.
International scenario:
Elders are treated in following ways in foreign countries:
It just goes to show that old age does not have to be a bad thing. In other societies the elderly are
respected and admired for their wisdom, rather than put down for their physical attributes. Some
laws may be quite harsh and overbearing, but if some cultures can celebrate old age, why cant
all?
Methodology:
For the study both primary and secondary data has been used. The primary source of data was
collected by means of interactions with the aged people in the society.
Secondary data were collected from other published sources like journals, periodicals, brochures
& websites.
Conclusion:
Due to socio-economic changes in the wake of urbanization and increase in the proportion of the aged
in the population, the problems of the elderly have become formidable. The ultimate responsibility for
supporting the aged is shifting from the family to secondary institutions. In these circumstances, it is
essential for setting up a large number of Old Age Homes with adequate amenities for those who have
no close relatives to look after them. But the coming generation realize that Old Age Homes are not a
dumping place for the elderly. Finally, the elderly should be considered as a valuable cultural resource
and role models for the younger generation. Therefore, governmental and non-governmental
organizations should come forward to motivate and create awareness among the youth to take care of
the elderly in the family. The Old Age Homes are no substitute for families. The researcher became more
enthusiastic and concerned about the issues of the aged in the society as a result of this course work.
The services rendered by the senior citizens of the Archdiocese of Changanacherry have been more and
more appreciated as the research progressed. More research is needed on the issues of the senior
citizens so that the coming generation may be more functional in finding ways of helping the seniors of
the society.