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A PEN In The Community
Residency Anthology
i Foreword
1 muriel n. mines
2 Reflections
3 Ha Azinu
5 marilyne holm
6 The Passover Rabbit
7 Chanukah
8 My First Date
15 adela manheimer
16 Day By Day
19 A Letter to All of My Children
21 irene weinstein
22 The Art of Cake Decorating
23 My Favorite Holiday
25 jerry solomon
26 Dear Taco Bell
27 Casting Calls
28 Screaming For Attention
29 hadasa cytrynowicz
30 Dancing For Eleanor Roosevelt
32 Footsteps
35 george epstein
36 Meant to Be
39 eleanor carey
40 Memory Lane
41 Two Spaces Beyond
43 Learning to Fly
45 clara ben
47 Lost and Found
49 barbara hurvitz
50 Here We Sit
51 Dear Computer
WORDS are strong but not quite enough to express the admiration
I have for my students. They came to class, carrying life experience,
humor and open hearts. Louise, with the candy she always shared;
Marilyne with her unmistakable laugh, Hadasawho teaches us
Yiddish; Adela, always bright and peppy; Jerry, full of jokes; ele-
gant Eleanor with her sweet smile; Muriel, who dropped in to drop
poems on us; Irene, who quietly wrote her heart out; George who
graced us with his presence part time; and Barbara, happy to be our
human spellcheck. Clair and Cathy popped in to say hello on the last
day, too.
Sharing the joy of writing is one of the greatest gifts Ive
received in my life. I am honored to play a small part in giving
these stories a home. They will stay with me forever.
I hope that these writers continue to write, because as Saul
Bellow said, Everybody needs his memories. They keep the wolf
of insignificance from the door. Stories matterand so do you.
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muriel n.
mines
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MURIEL N. MINES
Reflections
Nostalgiamemories
every moment its own
special significance.
Life, a learning process
Natures beauty acknowledged
recognized, appreciated.
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MURIEL N. MINES
Ha Azinu
Write for yourselves this poem, and teach them to the children of
Israel, in order that this poem might be thy witness among them.
(Deuteronomy 3:19)
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marilyne
holm
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MARILYNE HOLM
You might ask, why the Passover Rabbit? This animal has nothing
to do with the Passover story! A rabbit is not even kosher. Well, let
me tell you how it came about.
As many other Jewish children, I grew up in a predominantly
gentile community. I had almost no Jewish friends because there
werent many my age (maybe two, plus a couple of cousins). So
when Christmas and Easter came around, there was so much fuss
and so many glittering gifts that it was very hard not to feel left out,
even though I had a handful of Chanukah gelt.
So when I got married and had a child and got divorced (in
that order), here I was with a child and no immediate family, with
gentile holidays all around me. My son saw the children at school
and next door getting presents and candies, then asked me, Have
I been bad? Why dont I get anything?
So along with the matzo ball soup, and the charoset, honey cake
and the other delectable of Passover came the Passover Rabbit,
rivaling the Easter Bunny with his basket of goodies and the sto-
ries of the Exodus for all good Jewish children. And the children
ate and listened to the stories and took pride in the courage and
accomplishments of the Jewish people.
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MARILYNE HOLM
Chanukah
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MARILYNE HOLM
My First Date
I was a freshman in high school, very shy and inhibited, and to make
matters worse I had to wear an eye patch over my right eye because
I had an eye operation for being cross-eyed!
There was a boy in my art classes and he and I got along pretty
well. He was also kind of shy. Richard was an east-sider (in
Sheboygan that was the upper-crust). He lived in a beautiful red
brick house with a curved staircase inside, just like the ones in the
movies. I was one of three Jewish girls in my grade and not too
pretty. But he asked me out.
My mother and I went downtown to get a dress, which was a
very simple and non-sexy onenot the one I picked out, but my
mother said no to mine yes to her choice.
On the night he was picking me up, my mother was very busy
and my father had to help me get dressed. When I came down the
stairs, there was my motherthe former flapperin a very sexy
dress, entertaining my date, who was sitting uncomfortably in the
big chair.
When we finally got away, we were too embarrassed to talk
much and our own dancing was terribly awkward.
We came home early and remained friends through high
school but never dated again.
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louise jaye judy
dorfman
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LOUISE JAYE JUDY DORFMAN
Uniquely My Mother
My mother was very unique. Her mother even created her name
Evlin. She always celebrated two birthdaysthe one that the doctor
who only came to town once a week recorded (September 25) and the
one that actually occurred according to her mother (September 27).
She often laughed, wondering why the tooth fairy decided to
play a joke on her by gifting her with three sets of natural teeth.
My mother and father got married on Thanksgiving Day
November 22nd. Thanksgiving is on the third Thursday of November
and so my parents got to celebrate two complete anniversaries
November 22nd and Thanksgiving Day.
My mother died on June 13th but when the coroner came to our
island home after midnight, he filled out her death certificate using
the date: June 12th. I refused to accept his error, although my father
was willing to, so in a way, my mom had two deaths. That was also
when my father found out she had a middle nameHenrietta. She
had always used her maiden name as her middle name.
My mom had wanted a new garage door installed and it was
finally completed on June 12th, the day before her death, and she
never got to see it but was the first out of it, on a gurney.
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LOUISE JAYE JUDY DORFMAN
I dream of watching
You select those notes
And witnessing those chords and melodies
Transposed
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Well climb up and down those
Difficult octaves together.
Well practice those scales
In any type of weather.
Our problems will be lighter
than a feather.
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LOUISE JAYE JUDY DORFMAN
Now Think!
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LOUISE JAYE JUDY DORFMAN
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adela
manheimer
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ADELA MANHEIMER
Day by Day
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ADELA MANHEIMER
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ADELA MANHEIMER
was so cold and summer so humid. Our son was five years old.
Later we found out my husband had a cousin in Los Angeles and
we came here, which is paradise.
I picked one girl who was down to earth and nice. My friend
Sappora and I shared bread together for years. After the war, I went
to Haifa and she was living in Israel. I found her.
Wolf died in 1984. I got remarried to man who was from the
same city as Wolf and that man died twelve years ago.
Today I have two children, six grandchildren and nine great-
grandchildren. They are doctors, lawyers, engineers, artists.
My father was an orphan and raised by an auntie. He was
orthodox and brought poor men for dinner and sleeping over. He
would collect money to help people get married. He said you can-
not take diamonds, you cannot take money to the grave, but your
name is important, and I want to take my name. I give the credit
to my father because of what he did for the poor. There must be
some reason why I am alive?
I survive now every day. When people tell me next week, this
and this I cannot make appointments. I live day by day.
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ADELA MANHEIMER
Adela Manheimer
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irene
weinstein
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IRENE WEINSTEIN
The first time I tried to use a pastry bag in baking class, I was as
afraid as I had been during the driving test when I had to parallel
park. My body froze when the bakery chef came up behind me sud-
denly. I felt his hand push my pastry bag and his other hand turned
my head toward the practice sheet.
Move in closer! he yelled. You cant do it that way. After
that, I became a professional at writing with a pastry bag, and the
chef made me teach all the new students how to practice writing
with cake icing on wax paper.
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IRENE WEINSTEIN
My Favorite Holiday
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jerry
solomon
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JERRY SOLOMON
About 40 years ago you had a good taco sauce in a square container.
It had that special flavor. And it was discontinued and exchanged for
some bland, almost tasteless sauce.
You also had a ground beef burger that was pretty good.
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JERRY SOLOMON
Casting Calls
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JERRY SOLOMON
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hadasa
cytrynowicz
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HADASA CYTRYNOWICZ
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HADASA CYTRYNOWICZ
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HADASA CYTRYNOWICZ
Footsteps
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HADASA CYTRYNOWICZ
This story previously appeared in the Bnai Brith quarterly magazine Heranca
Judaica, no. 55, December 1983
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george
epstein
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GEORGE EPSTEIN
Meant to Be
Coming from the Gait and Balance class at the Freda Mohr center,
I entered another room as the Stories Matter writing group was
already well underway. The instructor, Shawna, came over to me
and invited me to write a short story. He handed me a composition
book. How about a story about your first date? she asked. I was a
bit taken aback. I thought for a moment.
But I cant remember my first date. I replied. Undaunted, she
made another suggestion.
How about your worst date?
Again, I had no such recollection. I am 90, so I am entitled to
forget things, right? As I was being driven home in the JFS SUV
with the courteous driver Michael at the helm, I became engaged
in conversation with one of the ladies. Arlene is a lovely young
woman who is always pleasant to be around. As we chatted, the
thought occurred to me, I cant remember my first date, but Ill
write a story about how I met my wife thanks to Mrs. Buxbaum.
Arlene was interested. Who is Mrs. Buxbaum? she asked. I
gave her an overview.
After graduating from college at the University of Massachusetts
in June 1948, I was to start graduate school in the fall. Instead
of seeking summer employment, my father, who drove a laundry
truck, suggested I build a laundry route while vacationing at the
summer home in Nantasket Beach, which my family shared with
other relatives. I thought it was a great idea.
With a little planning and much effort, I was soon off and run-
ning. I had some wonderful customers, including a small hotel and
several rooming houses. Mrs. Buxbaum owned one of the rooming
houses. She had taken a liking to me. One day, while delivering
the laundry bundle, Mrs. Buxbaum asked if she could hitch a ride
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GEORGE EPSTEIN
with me to the gas company. She had a bill to settle with them. Of
course, I repliedalthough it was somewhat out of my way.
As we drove along, suddenly Mrs. Buxbaum made me an offer
she would not let me refuse. A little further up the road, there was
a summerhouse where she wanted me to stop so she could intro-
duce me to the owner, for whom Mrs. Buxbaum had once worked.
Maybe Ill get her for you as a customer? she hinted. She would
not accept a no from me.
Standing in the doorway, as Mrs. Buxbaum said her hello and
introduced me to Mrs. Tabrisky, suddenly a door opened on the
second level. Out came a lovely young woman. (Now, as I write
this, I am crying. Through the tears, its hard to see the keys on my
computer keyboard). The moment I saw her and then watched her
walk down the stairs, something deep within me told me thats the
girl for me. I just knew! She was beautiful in every respect. I could
feel the excitement within me.
Mrs. Buxbaum probably saw the expression on my face. Im
sure it wasnt my poker face. Fran, she said to Mrs. Tabrisky,
I would love to see your place here. So the two older ladies left
Irene and me alone with one another. I dont recall our conversa-
tion. It really doesnt matte. I asked Irene for her phone number.
It took me two weeks to muster the courage to call her for
our first date. And our romance beganand never ended until her
untimely death in 1996.
We married on July 4, 1951 in Los Angeles and had two won-
derful children, Sue and David. We shared a wonderful life together.
Ill always remember Irenemy Chaialawith great admiration
and love. And I still thank Mrs. Buxbaum. May she rest in peace. I
hope she is aware of the wonderful mitzvah she did. Mrs. Tabrisky
already had a good laundry service and didnt become my cus-
tomer. Better yet, she was a wonderful mother-in-law.
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eleanor
carey
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ELEANOR CARY
Memory Lane
When I was about three years old, I lived on a farm. My most pre-
cious memory is one of a small colt. I would stand next to it and put
my hand on it. In my memory I can still see the colors and feel his
warm body next to mine.
My next happy time was when I got adopted. A lady from the
orphanage took me to a lovely house with rose bushes and a big
front porch. And the best surprise was the room they showed me,
telling me that was my room to sleep in. It was beautiful. I was only
five years old but I felt very grown up and special.
What I desired most growing up was the feeling of being loved
and giving others smiles and happiness. Writing is like a miracle.
You can actually think up any number of stories, situations and
desires and write them all down. When I write all of this, I smile.
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ELEANOR CARY
At the age of five I would look through the fence of Akron Airport
to watch the planes. It was a little thrill to watch them coming and
going. It didnt take long to notice the blimps, either.
We lived near Wingfoot Lake, where the Goodyear blimps
were kept. Later I drove an old station wagon and my four sons
and I would drive over to Wingfoot to watch the blimps. I am still
fascinated with them.
We adopted a turtle we found near Wingfoot Lake. My two
odlest sons caught this large turtle and put it in the trunk of our
station wagon.
All that outdoor adventure got me interested in the moom. We
spent many evenings watching the moon as it traveled across the
sky.
Then what a wonderful surprise when the Apollo 11 com-
mand module landed on the moon July 20, 1969. Everyone was
thrilledespecially me!
Next home computers became common in the 1980s. Now
almost everything is done on computers. I was fascinated by all the
things you can look up on them. Now its routine.
I also have a fascination with robots. I have had several of them.
One was a King Kong that shook its arms and made jungle noises.
Another robot was programmed to come to me with a drink on a
tray.
After the fun I had with robots came the exciting invention of
drones. Now they are everywhere! I couldnt afford to buy one but
I went to the shopping centers to watch them being demonstrated.
Jupiter is being studied to find out if its core is solid or liquid. I
am not sure what this has to do with us on Earth but we will prob-
ably find out soon.
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ELEANOR CARY
And I happy to say we are going to try and land on Mars again.
That should be very interesting. On August 5, 2014, the Curiosity
rover landed on Mars. Now NASA is planning to land humans
there in the 2030s.
We now know there are multiple universes beyond our world.
Wow! We inhabitants of our planet have much to look forward to.
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ELEANOR CARY
Learning to Fly
The first time I flew I was going to Las Vegas. I was alone and it felt
like I might lose my courage and not be able to go. A male worker at
the airport took me to the appropriate gate and then he left me alone.
When they put me on the plane, they made me sit opposite
the wing and I was right next to the window. As the stewardess
was telling us all about how to prepare for an emergency, I got so
nervous I began to sweat and I was holding on to the armrests for
support.
Then suddenly the plane was going faster and fasterthen I
felt the lift and the wheels left the ground. At first I closed my eyes,
then I felt us flying. I still watch for that feeling of lift.
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clara
ben
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CLARA BEN
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barbara
hurvitz
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BARBARA HURVITZ
Here We Sit
People walked by
I gave a sigh
A mosquito buzzed by
And I got bit.
And here we sit, no longer enjoying it.
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BARBARA HURVITZ
Dear Computer
There you sit on my table, looking shiny, intriguing and cold. When
I open you up, I see my reflection in your screen. You have all these
tantalizing buttons to push, but I dont want to push them, in case I
break you!
Before I got you, I learned how computers functioned, because
I attended a class and someone taught me. Over the last few years
I have worked with your successors. All of you have buttons and
icons, but not all of them function well.
And dear new computer, you sit like a solid rock on my table,
just waiting for me to conquer youand I will, because Im taking
more lessons. Watch out!
Your savvier new owner,
Barbara
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about the authors
CLARA BEN was born in Baghdad, Iraq. She is retired with three
children and four grandchildren. She is a loving, caring person.
ELEANOR CAREY has five children and has lived in California for
28 years. She loves the beach, mountains and lots of movies.
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teaching, Barbara has joined many classes and enjoys participating in
them. She also enjoys volunteering in the library of a local elemen-
tary school where she reads to children and helps them to select
books.
MURIEL N. MINES was born in New York City in 1920 and came
to Los Angeles in 1950. She has published a memoir called A Life
Remembered. Writing is an every day activity for her.
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