Beruflich Dokumente
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Discipleship Ministries
by
Javier Melendez
The call to follow Christ is one filled with growth and change, and is a process which is
completely different for each and every person who decides that they would like to live their life
or their lives for Christ. In the book, Disciple Shift, by Jim Putman and Bobby Harrington, the
reader is provided with a five-step approach to the believer and his or her walk with Christ.1 This
detailed process allows each and every disciple with an opportunity to self-access where they
currently are spiritually, and will allow them to better understand why other fellow believers may
say or do certain things that he or she may not completely comprehend. Putman and Harrington
go as far as to create a visual diagram for the reader to further understand the five different stages
of discipleship.
The first stage that they start with is dead, then infant, child, adolescent, and lastly parent.
It may sound contradictory to start with dead, but they started with dead because of the belief
that prior to accepting Christ as Lord and Savior, each and every person is spiritually dead. It is
not to say that at this stage, there is no believe in a God, however, there is not necessarily in
inherent belief of existence of a specific God, or belief in moral absolutes. At this stage, there is
no need for relationship with God or commitment in any way to God. People in this stage are the
prime ones that those in the more advanced stages are looking to reach and share the gospel with,
in hopes of having them accept Jesus as their Savior and allowing them to enter the second stage,
infancy.
1Putman, Jim, Bobby Harrington, and Robert E. Coleman. DiscipleShift: Five Steps That Help
Your Church to Make Disciples Who Make Disciples. Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 2013
Stage Two: Infant
The second stage is the infancy. During this stage, everything is new to this believer and
they have just excepted Jesus as their Lord and Savior. During this stage the new believer has a
lot of questions that they are looking for direction and that they are hoping to find answers to.
Putman and Harrington had a verbal selection of describing the stage as infancy, which is one
that really helps the reader understand how delicate a stage this is in the life of the new believer.
During infancy, the believer will need a lot of help to grow and develop, and will have a lot of
questions which will require guidance from believers in more advanced stages. In 1 Peter 2:2-32
the writer even goes as far as describing how the believer requires spiritual milk to grow in their
salvation. Anyone who has had children can understand this at a deeper level as an infant
requires frequent feedings, and not able to consume large amounts all at once. In order to be
satisfied and for their bodies to be nourished, they must receive frequent feedings in small
amounts, which is much like the believer in this stage of development. The new believer is
overwhelmed by too much all at once, and benefits from multiple opportunities to eat and
grow and develop. They require mentoring provided by a spiritual parent, and will be able to
come to a more advanced stage through their constant feeding and being poured into throughout
this stage.
The third stage is the child stage. Something markedly different about this stage is the
simple fact that at this stage, many are unable to progress beyond it. Putman and Harrington
explain that the believer at this stage may have only been a believer for a short time, or that they
may have been a believer for 60 years. This stage is clearly exemplified in Matthew 7:19-20,
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Unless otherwise stated all biblical references are in the New King James Version
Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire. Therefore, by their
fruits you will know them. In order for the believer to advance beyond this stage, it is important
that they have grown beyond just thinking of themselves, and their wants and desires, and that
they are able to pour into others and their development and growth in Christ. During this stage
the believer lives as a believer, but they are their own primary focus. They can be easily offended
by change in routine or can be unhappy with a sermon or worship song selection. Often, those in
stage three are less flexible in their way of thinking and are quicker to judge others or situations
due to their own views and opinions being their primary focus. In order to develop beyond this
stage the believer must be able to sow a seed into the lives of others, and not see their
involvement in the church body as something done for appreciation or recognition, but rather as
The fourth stage is the adolescent stage. During this stage the believer is at a place where
they are involved in ministries within their church, and are involved to some extent in the
discipling of others. The adolescent believer is at a place in their walk with God where they
know that God has plans for their life, and desire to follow the plan of God for their lives.
Believers at this stage are actively involved within the church body, and are excited to see and
promote growth within the church. Unlike the child stage, they are not bothered by changes
taking place within the dynamic of their church or congregation, but rather are driven to help
others develop and grow, not just thinking of themselves and what makes them feel most
comfortable, but rather, thinking of what benefits the entire church body.
Stage Five: Parent
The fifth and final stage is the parent stage. During the parent stage the believer is firm in
their faith walk and are pouring into others from that parent role constantly. At this stage the
believer is God dependent and is not simply thinking of their own needs during their prayer time
with God, but are lifting up the petitions and needs of others, asking God to help them encourage
and help others that He has placed in their path. One of the most significant things seen in this
stage is being able to make oneself accessible to those who one is discipling, and also being able
to exhort and enable growth with Godly wisdom in every interaction with the younger
believer. During the parent stage, those in this stage are often overseeing different aspects of
ministries which open doors of opportunity for them to minister to those infant, children, and
adolescent Christians, which also sharing the Bible with those who are dead spiritually, helping
them come to know who Christ is and allowing them to accept Him as their Lord and Savior.
I am currently in the midst of stage five. I have had the opportunity to lead others to
Christ on quite a few occasions, exhorting and encouraging their growth in Christ constantly, so
much so for one of my former coworkers, that he is currently married to my sister in law after
developing his own walk with Christ and then getting to know one another in church. I also felt
led by the Holy Spirit to lead a class on a few different occasions for the youth in our church on
sexual purity and the connection between the choices the youth might be making that couple
positively or negatively impact their ability to achieve the plan of God for their life, through the
study of the life of Joseph. It was powerful to be able to teach them how through his faith in God,
and his constant, unwavering commitment to him, Joseph was able to be used greatly by God,
even when the enemy tried to make it seem as if God had abandoned Joseph, he never lost his
faith and always kept his eyes on God. I have also had the opportunity to use my knowledge of
technology to help advance the use of it within my church, helping to facilitate online Sunday
sermons, video announcements, and development of the use of social media as a tool to help
grow and reach younger generations such as millennials who are so dependent on these sources
for information and choices in their lives. I have been able to use social media myself to
encourage others in their walk, and have had others reach out to me with questions or asking for
prayer on a consistent basis. Second Timothy 2 verse 1 it states: You therefore, my son, be
strong in the grace that is in Christ Jesus. I rely on this verse in my family and church life as a
reminder that God will always guide my steps and strengthen me to accomplish what he desires
and has laid out in his plans for my life and walk with Him.
importance of the centrality of Christ in all one does. He reminds readers that, each day, with its
temptations by the flesh and the world, brings Jesus Christs suffering anew to his disciples.
This is exemplified through the visual created by Putman and Harrington of the four spheres of
life. At the center of the life of each believer, there must be a relationship with Christ as a
primary focus regardless of the circumstances of their individual life, family, community or
career. All spheres are interconnected; however, Christ must always be at the center of it all.
Conclusion
In order to submit to Christ one must follow the word of Paul in Romans chapter 12 verse
2 which states: And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of
your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God. The
3 Bonhoeffer, Dietrich. Dietrich Bonhoeffer Works, Volume 4. Minneapolis: First Fortress Press,
2003.
believer must submit and commit himself or herself wholly to development of plans which are
not their own, but those that are centered around winning souls for Christ and following His plan
and will regardless of where it may lead. When the believer is able to do this to the best of their
ability, he or she is able to truly fulfill the commission of God for their life.
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Bonhoeffer, Dietrich. Dietrich Bonhoeffer Works, Volume 4. Minneapolis: First Fortress Press,
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Earley, Dave, and Rod Dempsey. Disciple Making Is: How to Live the Great Commission with
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