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The author would like to thank Dr. David Smith, Dr. Xiaosui Xiao, Dr. Bernard Anderson, and
Dr. John Powers from Hong Kong Baptist University for their critical comments on the draft of
this article. She is also indebted to Di Long and Xiaoya Lu from the Youth Hotline, China Youth
Daily, for their insights and encouragement. Correspondence concerning this article should be
addressed to Yihong Gao, English Department, Peking University, Beijing, 100871, Peoples
Republic of China; e-mail: gaoyihon@public.bta.net.cn.
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potentials he or she may use for problem solution. By showing empathy and
unconditional positive regard, the counselor facilitates such a process. In
directive counseling, in contrast, the focus is on solutions to immediate prob-
lems, and the counselor gives direct advice pertaining to what the client
should do on a particular issue.
Counselor: Mr. Ai, I want to tell you, everything in this world, no matter work or
play, or love for someone, especially our . . . em . . . society and education, we
have to perform our own responsibility. When you are married, you will have to
be loyal to your spouse. If you have failed in this respect, its already not quite
right. Besides, if you dont think there will be a good result, that is to say, if
[you] know there are tigers in the mountain, why should [you] still head for that
mountain? Is it because you want to be bitten by tigers?
Client: (Laughs)
Counselor: Right?
Client: Yes.
Counselor: If you know for sure the result wont be good, why should [you] do it?
Isnt that doing harm to yourself, doing harm to that friend of yours, and doing
harm to your family? I believe that for a person, the most important thing is to
be responsible for himself, for his friends, relatives, and family members. If
you dont feel your action is responsible for all, then youll not be happy after
doing it.
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Base of the mental health pyramid. In big cities such as Beijing, Shanghai,
and Guangzhou, psychotherapy and counseling are practiced at three levels.
The first is therapy in psychiatric hospitals and departments of mental health
in general hospitals. The practitioners are mostly doctors with medical train-
ing. The second level is face-to-face therapy and counseling in certain institu-
tions, typically colleges. The practitioners are combinations of professionals
with psychological or medical backgrounds and paraprofessionals such as
professors.
Hotline telephone counseling constitutes the third level. It is considered
the base of the mental health pyramid (Editor, China Youth Daily, 1996)
because its function is to a large extent preventive. Like face-to-face counsel-
ing, telephone counseling is also on a confidential, one-to-one basis. The
counselor is usually a volunteer paraprofessional who has received some
short-term training. The anonymous client is an individual having certain
psychological problems, for example, marriage and adaptation to new work
environment. These problems vary in degree of seriousness, from mild frus-
tration to suicide attempt (for a case of suicide intervention, see Gao & Gu,
1997). Services are free for most lines and charged for some, and most calls
are single-shot business.
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Traditions
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ples Daily did, it would typically carry stories of revolutionary heroes and
models for youths to learn from. Message transmission in such a tightly
woven network, therefore, was a one-way process.
Psychologically, individuals were tightly bound to the social network.
Although such a network might be said to constrain freedom and intrude on
privacy, its meaning to the Chinese people was not purely negative. This is
because the network provided a support system for individuals. In case of a
family crisis, for example, the couple might go to either the party branches at
working units or to the Neighborhood Committee or both. The party branches
and the Neighborhood Committee might also cooperate with each other; they
might mediate the family crisis jointly by asking the husband and the wife to
make self-criticism respectively and, as a result, make peace. Usually, a
divorce was not possible unless granted by the Neighborhood Committee. In
such a tightly woven social network, therefore, problems were solved collec-
tively, and the support system consisted of those who knew the individual
under concern very well.
While providing abundant help, the tight-knit, centralized social network
has limited individuals independence and institutionalized a directive orien-
tation in helping.
Personality type: Belonging. For a long period of time, the ideal life of
Chinese farmers, 80% of the entire population, was thirty acres of land and a
cow; a wife, several children, and warm beds. That is to say, a harmonious
family life is the central meaning of life for the Chinese. According to Xu
(1988), such personality is belonging in type, because the dominant con-
cern of the person is belonging needs, as defined by A. Maslow (1957). For
Xu, the majority of personality types in a culture correspond to the stage of
social development in the Marxist sense. Thus, the belonging personality
corresponds to a feudalist society or feudalist tradition, whereas the esteem
personality corresponds to a capitalist society or tradition.
Similar ideas are also expressed by other scholars. Francis Hsus Galilean
model defines the self as consisting of concentric circles, from the individ-
uals subconsciousness and consciousness to different levels of social rela-
tions (Marsella, DeVos, & Hsu, 1985). In this model, the Chinese self is dis-
tinguished for the importance of the personal society and culture, a level to
which the individual has great feeling attachment. This personal society and
culture for the Chinese consists mainly of family members and relatives and
is very stable throughout the individuals life. In contrast, the personal soci-
ety and culture of a Westerner may consist of other elements and may change
frequently. For the Chinese, therefore, mutual belonging between the indi-
vidual and his or her family, relatives, and close friends is essential.
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Transitions
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Take, for example, the direct call program on the radio, with which I have
had some direct experience. The basic form is that the host, hostess, or hon-
ored guest raises a question, and then the audience calls in by phone to give
an answer. Or the audience calls in to raise questions for the other side to
answer. The program is broadcast live rather than previously recorded, cut,
and pasted. The content covers a wide range of areas, such as entertainment,
public health, financial investment, education, daily life skills, psychological
problems, and social-cultural issues. The specific issue can be as light as
identify the singer for a segment of a pop song or as serious as What is a
healthy personality? Usually there is a call director who works as a gate-
keeper to filter out undesirable calls by asking the callers what they intend to
say. However, once the line is connected, there is practically no control over
the message transmitted to the public audience.
The counseling hotline is also such a form of two-way message transmis-
sion system. The professional ethics determine that the client is free from
accusations, moral or ideological. The technical channel further secures the
freedom of anonymity. For the Youth Hotline, there is an additional commu-
nication channel, namely, the special page in newspaper. Many letters are
received for the Miss Clever & Mr. Muddle-headed column, which dis-
cusses the problems raised in the letters and provides suggestions.
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Zhang from a Beijing factory said that she enjoys a completely independent
and free circle of communication, which her husband never interferes with.
These findings are sharply contrasted with the traditional family model as
described by Hsu (1971), which had close and exclusive in-group ties.
The transition from belonging to esteem personality brings about a special
need to reestablish social psychological balance: keeping a distance from
the personal society and culturefamily members, relatives, and close
friendsand relating to people in outer circles while exploring ones own
inner world. The communication pattern of telephone hotlines, that is, talk-
ing with an intimate stranger, is particularly suitable for the gratification of
such needs.
The counselor: Wanting to learn and wanting to teach. If for the client
there is a paradox between getting rid of and holding on to an external author-
ity, then for the volunteer counselor, there is a contradiction between wanting
to learn and wanting to teach. When asked about their motivations for coun-
seling, many counselors will say to learn new things, make new friends,
and thus pursue self-growth (Y. Chen, 1996; Tan, 1996). When criticized
for being too directive, a common response from counselors is What can I
offer otherwise? or I think that can give him some actual help. To many,
counseling is rewarding in that it makes one feel needed; to be helpful means
to give direct advice.
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The paradoxical expectations indicate that, on one hand, the current Chi-
nese society is open and flexible enough for the previously tight-knit inter-
personal network to be broken and new relational systems to be formed based
on individual choices. On the other hand, it is not yet egalitarian enough for
the newly established relations to be free from the vertical, directing versus
directed pattern.
Such cultural relativism should no doubt be admired for its awareness and
respect of differences, given the culturally unaware or ethnocentric context in
and against which it is proposed. However, several points need to be kept in
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mind. First, the cultural difference model sees a culture as static and homo-
geneous and ignores its dimensions of dynamic change and intragroup diver-
sity. Such a model fails to deal with the complexity embedded in cultures
under rapid transitions, in which traditional and transitional values and com-
munication patterns coexist. Moreover, although apparently fair and liberal,
relativism can well serve as a pretext for cultural conservatism and resistance
to changes that are ultimately beneficial to individual clients and the culture
in general. Empirical work has also shown that some of the stereotypical cul-
tural characteristics are not relevant to counseling-related behavior or attitude.
For example, Leong, Wagner, and Kim (1995) did not find the hypothesized
correlation between loss of face and negative attitude toward group coun-
seling among Asian Americans. Furthermore, views of cultural relativism
may not be free from a cultural center. As Ho (1995) challenged, the cultur-
ally different (p. 17) leads to a conceptual conundrum: different from
whom? In my personal opinion, the cultural difference model of counseling
based on relativism might inherently contradict its very basis. Taking a posi-
tive line of thinking, if the virtue of cultural relativism is to respect emic per-
spectives, then the crucial point is not to preserve whatever differences in
their current, superficial form but to make in-depth investigation of what is
beneficial to the native culture in the long run, from their own perspectives.
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Future Directions
CONCLUSION
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