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In the real estate field, and arguably in most any sales field, successful
salespeople have an artistic mindset. They are creators or inventors; they are seeing
peoples needs and looking for new ways to fulfill or accommodate those needs with
a product that they have available to them. As they develop a successful track record
with the sales process, salespeople, real estate agents in particular, develop a strong
sense of self-importance. There is a consensus in the industry that many agents feel
that they are the only one who can do what they do the way they do it. This sense of
todays media.
There are many agents, even those in my office, who embrace a hyper-
behaviors that demonstrate an out of control ego and give the impression that these
people believe that the world revolves around them. For a mild example, one of my
agents knocked on my door last week. She was clearly agitated and frustrated, and
she asked if I had time to discuss a transaction she was working on with her. She
then proceeded to work herself up into a rage describing the service of the escrow
company the other agent had chosen for this transaction. She was personally
offended and felt it was her mission to make the escrow officer correct every little
insignificant detail she felt had not been attended to propertly. I sat there politely
listening, as she shouted all the things she had done to avoid the delays her
question, what is the end goal? She looked at me as if I were from another planet. I
quickly followed the question up with, I feel your frustration. I have been there
before with many files. At the end of the day, there are things we can control and
things we cant control. In this case we cant control what kind of service we are
getting from the escrow company, but we can control our clients expectations and to
some degree their experience moving forward. After a long pause, she said, youre
right. I responded, it is not about being right, it is about making sure we provide
the best experience possible for our client. I am proud of how committed you are to
this process, I just want you to focus your energy on the end result and not things
Benjamin Zanders Rule Number Six: Two Prime ministers were sitting in a room
discussing affairs of state. Suddenly a man bursts in, apoplectic with fury, shouting
and stamping and banging his fist on the desk. The resident prime minister
admonishes him: Peter, he says, kindly remember Rule Number 6, whereupon Peter
return to their conversation, only to be interrupted yet again twenty minutes later by
an hysterical woman gesticulating wildly, her hair flying. Again the intruder is greeted
with the words: Marie, please remember Rule Number 6. Complete calm descends
once more, and she too withdraws with a bow and an apology. When the scene is
repeated for a third time, the visiting prime minister addresses his colleague: My dear
friend, Ive seen many things in my life, but never anything as remarkable as
this. Would you be willing to share with me the secret of this Rule Number 6? Very
simple, replies the resident prime minister. Rule Number 6 is Dont take yourself so
damn seriously.' Ah, says his visitor, that is a fine rule. After a moment of
pondering, he inquires, And what, may I ask, are the other rules? There arent
any.
that with passionate artistic personalities, this story needs to be delivered in a way
that causes the listener to hear the meaning and not just the words. I will definitely
need to finesse the delivery. However, if delivered properly, this story could be an
effective vehicle for a paradigm shift of attitude for some of my agents. This story
could remind them, while our work is serious, we dont need to take ourselves so
seriously. This devise could also reinforce the recognition that there are things that
are out of our control, we are fallible, and we need to remember to laugh, even at
ourselves at times.