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whether you want to be tied up,
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our nod to Fifty Shades of Grey.
RELATIONSHIP RESOLUTIONS
I try to take ladies on dates before
introducing them to my group.
Theyre tough about bringing
people around. And I can get
more creative. Its easy to go to
dinner, but I could try to whip up
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Australia where no good weed
goes unpunished. Is it finally time to
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THE LINES
This means decriminalising
THING THAT PIQUED MY federal government announced marijuana isnt going to be a
INTEREST THIS MONTH it was going to loosen laws simple matter. We wont just
I just spent a big ol chunk of surrounding the supply of THE LEAFY PLANT HAS
tick a box on a ballot and get
time in the US of A. And as medicinal marijuana so patients BECOME A SYMBOL OF lit that afternoon. Even once
often happens when youre a would have quicker access to A CHILLAXED LIFE. the issue gets some air time
tourist in a strange land, those it basically, making it legal in Parliament House, there will
Americans had questions. Only to grow it in our own back- around a quarter of the entire be a bunch of other regulations
these days its gone from Do yard instead of importing it US population. Over there, to also be considered under the
you guys really ride kangaroos from overseas. Even then, most these issues are voted for and umbrella law, covering things
to school? to Are you guys people take it as oil cancer changed on a state level. The like transport, storage, tax,
really not allowed to smoke patients arent smoking joints problem we have Down Under advertising the list goes on.
weed? Yep, its a thing. And on the hotel balcony. But its is that these sort of things are The best way to expedite the
when were less progressive a start. Of course, what you largely a national decision. process? Use the bureaucracy
on the matter than a country really want to know is: When And anything that has to go thats getting in the way. Look
that still enforces the death can we smoke it for fun?! through the federal system into the work of the Help End
penalty, I think we may have inevitably takes longer and is Marijuana Prohibition Party
a problem. Just sayin! THE SHORT ANSWER IS much harder to green light. or become a member of the
The current prediction is that Aussie states and territories Australian Drug Law Reform
BUT WERE MAKING well have recreational cannabis could go it on their own but Foundation. The best way to
PROGRESS, RIGHT? within five years. But well the laws would be limited to hash brownies is getting your
Sort of. Only last year our have to jump through a lot of how you are sentenced for voice heard. Play your cards
government, in its eternal hoops to get there. In the US, getting caught with the stuff. right and youll be vaping at
wisdom, made it legal for its legal in Alaska, California, Even then, there are a bunch your gay best friends wedding
those with chronic medical Colorado, Oregon, Maine, of federal laws like driving in no time. Democracy: its also
conditions to use marijuana Massachusetts, Nevada and under the influence of drugs a thing. Not even the haters
at all. Back in February, the Washington representing that would remain in force. can disagree with that. #
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JUNGLE MUST
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confessions COSMO READERS
REVEAL
THEIR MOST
EMBARRASSING,
RIDICULOUS,
WHAT-WAS-
I-THINKING
MOMENTS
1a night
The morning after
of clubbing, my
boyfriend was dropping
me off at home. But then
he remembered he had
an appointment at his car
dealership, and he was late.
He turned around and sped
there. I had makeup smeared
all over my face and was
still in my clothes from the
night before a mini-dress
and heels. He told me to
take off my heels so it would
look less like a walk of shame.
I put my shoes in a plastic
bag and sat in the lobby bare-
foot. The manager came
over and said, Looks like
you two had a late night.
Then he said to my BF,
Where did you pick up
this gem? I was so
embarrassed. PAIGE, 20
4 EARLY IN MY
clothes. Determined
woman. BIANCA, 25
MARRIAGE, I BEGAN
6
EXPERIMENTING WITH I was helping my mum
TOYS WITH MY HUSBAND. set up her iPhone and
she didnt have an iTunes
8
I BOUGHT SOME BEN WA account so I told her she I have a blog, and
could use mine. I totally
BALLS AND INSERTED THEM. forgot about it and a few
when I shoot my
content, I take pics
I CANT REMEMBER WHO weeks later this guy
was sending me some of more than one look at
a time, which sometimes
UNEXPECTEDLY SHOWED UP kinky messages but I
couldnt reply because means changing in the car.
AT OUR DOOR THAT NIGHT, I was at work. All of a One time, after making
sudden there were sure no one was around,
BUT I DO REMEMBER HOW messages popping up I began to take off all my
from my name saying
ONE OF THOSE BALLS Who is this? I think
clothes. Turns out, there
were men on the roof of
ROLLED OUT ONTO THE you have the wrong
number. I realised it a building nearby doing
CARPET FROM THE LEG OF was my mum! She was
getting the messages
construction. They caught
the whole show. I had no-
MY SHORTS. JULIE, 30 too! KERYN, 25 where to hide! NATALIA, 27
We know you have confessions to share email the dirty details to cosmoconfessions@bauer-media.com.au.
COSMOPOLITAN DECEMBER 2017 27
the buzz
HS
ONT
THIS M
WORST DATES Turns out a lobster dinner
isnt always as romantic
as it may seem
I met a guy and went My date shamed me for This guy asked me to This dude picked me
to his house to Netflix ordering a sweet cocktail go hiking, followed by up on his moped and
and chill. He said, We because he was drinking dinner. We went to a took me back to his
should try something straight tequila. Then he local trail, and on our place. His idea of a
different, so I agreed. asked if I wanted to get way down, I chose a romantic date was to
Then he poured candle food, so we went outside steep shortcut. He was watch a documentary
wax on me, saying, Its and he tried to kiss me. nervous, but I insisted about marijuana, then
kind of like lube. Its not, I pulled away and told since it would be faster. tell me how hes on
though. I left and never him we werent there yet. I tripped and rolled down probation for smoking
talked to him again. So He asked if I still wanted the side of the mountain! weed. I made out with
odd! MADDIE, 21 to get food, and for some I hit bushes and rocks him later, and he gave
reason, I said yes. All of the whole way, finally me these gross purple
a sudden, he blurted, Oh, landing in a big bush. He hickies. What a weirdo.
JUST
CLUELESS I got a text. I have to go. was staring down at me ARI, 20
The guy didnt have his with his hands over his
UM, NO phone on him. SARAH, 29 mouth. Are you OK?!
DOUCHE-O-METER
he yelled. I looked at my
BILL,
PLEASE! bleeding knees and yelled
back that I was good. I
SO sat there bleeding as he
OFFENSIVE
made his slow way down.
EPIC FAIL He had to carry me to
the restaurant, where
LITERALLY he asked the waiter for
DERANGED
Band-Aids. ADDI, 21
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I went to dinner with a man I had just met. All during the meal, he talked about how much
money he makes, how wealthy his family is, and how hes apparently so good with girls. He
ordered the cheapest glass of wine for me and got himself one of the most expensive cocktails.
He then ordered steak and lobster for himself and a side salad for me. So rude. LAUREN, 21
28 COSMOPOLITAN DECEMBER 2017
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Cosmos beauty &
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f spring racing fashion for you
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tong and wrap small
5 Run your fingers
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Lets be frank
work out how much money you
can reasonably ask for. Research
the standard industry salary for
your role, and note any shortfall
here were
in your salary compared to the
industry standard, says Greaves.
Sites like Payscale.com and Hays.
working harder
com.au can give you a rough
idea, or you can check out the
website of your union.
miserable story.
you have solved, explains Faye
Hollands, director and careers
coach at Outshine Consulting
(Outshineconsulting.com).
When you can highlight how
We should all be a little more card bill and deleted the third youve not just gone through the
like Lisa Wilkinson. After 10 email from your landlord for the motions and done your day-to-
years of hosting the Today show week, your personal freak-out day job, but actually added true
on Channel Nine the exact same period isnt necessarily the best value to your team or business,
job as her male counterpart Karl time to chat with your boss about you become a more important
Stefanovic she walked out, cashing in. Work out when is asset and are therefore worth
reportedly because they refused going to be best for the company. more, making it much easier to
to pay her the same wage. Talk Some organisations align get a pay rise, Greaves explains.
about taking a stand! And we all salary reviews to the annual The problem many people have
need to do the same if we want to performance review system, is that they havent spent time
close the gap. Were not saying to while others work to financial thinking about where theyve
leave your job, but you can start year-end dates, or other specific added true value, and instead
with making sure youre getting times of the year, says Robyn base the reasons for wanting a
the money you actually deserve. Greaves, career transition coach pay rise on how long theyve been
Weve got the skinny on when at The 3rd Chapter (The3rd at the company, for example, or
to ask for a pay rise, convincing chapter.com). Thats not to say because they think theyre worth
your boss, and how to handle a the rest of the year doesnt count, more without backing it up with
rejection in the face of a no. though make a note of times quantifiable, real results.
youve exceeded expectations
TIMING IS EVERYTHING throughout the year, so you can WHAT NOT TO SAY
While your need for a pay rise present these. Speak with HR to It can be frustrating when we see
may be most obvious when youve find the best time to broach the new employees getting paid more
just paid (or not paid) your credit subject with management. than we are, or when Jenny from
Remain
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positive
and
marketing is bragging about her such conversation starters can that you can feasibly revisit the upbeat,
second pay rise for the year, while
youre eating two-minute noodles
undermine your campaign for a
pay rise, and may trigger your
conversation regarding salary. If
management has highlighted that
and take
for the third day running because boss to stand their ground and youve fallen short in some areas, notes
youre struggling to make ends deny your request, she explains. ask for new, clearly defined goals
meet. That said, the temptation Rather, open the dialogue with that can be measured and scored
to highlight the negatives should lines such as, I am committed to within a set period of time. If your
be avoided. Remember to remain the future of this organisation or boss has been positive, but says
professional and positive at all I believe my results demonstrate pay rises arent on the table for
times throughout the negotiation, Im deserving of a pay rise. now, consider your negotiation
says Greaves. Its best to avoid power. You could ask for more
starting the conversation with IF THE ANSWER IS NO flexible working arrangements,
phrases such as, I havent had a Remain positive and upbeat. Ask extra paid holiday time or to go
pay rise since or If I dont get for reasons why, and take notes. part-time so you can pursue other
a pay rise, Im leaving. Using Agree with your boss on a date interests, says Greaves. >
FOR
have parity with them.
And thats something
of sexual
and fair. EMMA STONE
harassment
An explosive Hollywood
scandal has alarmed us
EQUALITY
EVEN HOLLYWOOD
all, says Morgan Reardon STARS HAVE TO BATTLE
THE GENDER PAY GAP
HERES WHAT THEY
Hollywood heavyweight and
HAVE TO SAY ON THE
producer Harvey Weinsteins
DIVISIVE TOPIC
alleged sexual harassment of
actresses and female staff
members has ignited a debate
about abuse of power not only in
Hollywood, but in all workplaces. Men have to
demand that their
Its got the Cosmo office talking. Its never
wives, daughters,
Just what is sexual harassment? mothers and overreacting to
In short, any unwelcome conduct sisters earn more ask for what you
of a sexual nature including commensurate want and need.
suggestive comments or jokes, with their AMY POEHLER
intrusive questions about your qualifications and
private life or your appearance, not their gender.
inappropriate staring, unwelcome Equality will be
physical contact and sexually achieved when
explicit texts, emails, images or men and women
phone calls. are granted equal
Think youre immune to the pay and equal
misogyny seen in Hollywood? respect.
Youre not. One in five women BEYONC
experience sexual harassment
in the workplace in Australia*.
Lani** never expected it to
happen to her. I was in a meeting I think it is
discussing beauty treatments for right that as
a story when I mentioned there a woman I am
was a product that had semen as paid the same
an ingredient. My male boss turned as my male
to me, said, Want a free facial?, counterparts.
and laughed. I never brought it up I think it is right
with anyone more senior than him that I should be
because I didnt want to be seen able to make
as someone who couldnt take a decisions
joke. But I can take a joke, and about my own
this wasnt one. body I think
While cases like Weinsteins it is right that
might seem far away in La La socially I am
Land, they arent. Its happening afforded the Women deserve better,
in our backyard and the only way same respect families deserve better.
to fight it is to speak up. If you feel as men. Dont stop talking about
EMMA WATSON this until people of any sex
like youve been a victim and
want to report it, check out or any race are treated
Humanrights.gov.au. with fairness and equality.
JENNIFER LAWRENCE
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ROBYN LAWLEY
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anyone
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ONE. SHE TALKS TO
else
COSMOS MORGAN
REARDON ABOUT
CRUSADING FOR
'REAL GIRLS' AND
HITTING THE BEACH
LIKE YOU OWN IT
thinks?
obyn Lawley is a force to be her gorgeous two-and- on: Its total bollocks. Some
reckoned with. The Aussie a-half-year-old daughter, of my curviest friends are
model has been flying the Ripley, and the screenplay the fittest I know, whereas
body-love flag since long shes currently working on, there are skinny girls who
before the Kardashians were our conversation naturally smoke and starve themselves
a brand. Shes used her celeb turns to body image and whats healthy about that?
status to promote healthy the struggles women face I go to agree but Robyns on
curves on the runway, in in a world where size six a roll. Women want to see
fashion campaigns and on reigns supreme. When I themselves represented in
the covers of glossy mags bring up recent comments the media and in fashion.
around the world. But surely by medical professionals, If they dont, it has a direct
tirelessly campaigning for who say that curvy models result on their self-esteem.
real bodies to be recognised promote obesity, she scoffs, Her no-BS take on the
as just that real gets old Oh, thats infuriating. Her fashion industry makes the
after a while? Turns out, Aussie twang (she was born 28-year-old stand out in an
when youre that passionate and raised in Sydney) still image-obsessed world and
about something, it doesnt. very much intact despite her is quite frankly why were
Amongst chinwagging living in LA and New York so obsessed with her. Shes
about the regular stuff like since she was 18, she goes a fierce crusader for real
the equivalent of a medicine Does social media ever make a bit too but theres nothing
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sad or angry, Ill do some- Im guilty of getting sucked just got to embrace it.
thing that I know Im good in for sure. Those videos that
at that has does nothing to play automatically always Are there words you avoid
do with my body, like DJing get me. I end up watching using around your daughter
or writing. Ive made a deal clips of female bodybuilders in terms of body image?
with myself that if I think and feel inadequate, thinking, Im definitely conscious of
negative thoughts, I have
to write 100 words on my
I cant do any of that. Thats
when I stop, log off and focus
Looks only not putting myself down in
front of her. I hate princessy
screenplay. Its about turning
a negative into a positive.
on something else. matter to things, so she doesnt have
Barbie dolls. I try to use
I
filtered pictures on Instagram.
m not going to lie, I really
struggled writing this feature. Image problem My wabi-sabi self
I wrote three different intros Now more than ever, women are It sounds simple enough so Ive
but, being the perfectionist under pressure to work harder decided to sprinkle a little wabi-
that I am, I didnt think any and look better, Gruhn says. I sabi on my own life. Since moving
of them were good enough. have more and more young women back to Australia after two years
And quite frankly, this one coming into my practice who are living abroad, Ive found myself
probably isnt much better, getting everything from breast trying to play catch-up with all
but Ive decided Im OK with that, implants to labiaplasty at such a my gal pals, who, in the time Ive
because Im embracing wabi-sabi. young age because they want to been gone, have gotten engaged,
Its not a side order for your sushi, be perfect, but it doesnt always promoted, started companies and
its an ancient Japanese philosophy equal happiness. The idea of wabi- bought houses. Rather than feel
that embraces all things imperfect sabi is that were born imperfect. disappointed in myself about the
and encourages you to find delight Your hair colour, your wrinkles, fact that the most expensive item
in the simpler things like peanut theyre all reflections of your life. to my name is a leather jacket,
butter on sourdough instead of A large part of unhappiness comes wabi-sabi tells me to abandon my
fancy unicorn toast. from not accepting who we are. pursuit of perfection and, instead
Wabi-sabi is modest and Shes right! Whats so great of dwelling on what I think Im
humble. Its well-worn jeans, about being perfect carbon copies lacking, be grateful for what I do
weathered wood or an unrestored of each other? Who doesnt have have. In the two years I was in the
antique chest, says Leonard Koren, a soft spot for imperfectly-perfect UK, I may not have saved enough
author of Wabi-Sabi: for Artists, gals like Lena Dunham or Jennifer money for a house deposit, but I
Designers, Poets & Philosophers *. Lawrence? Theyre the kind of made some amazing new friends,
But before you dash out to your people you can imagine having snorkelled between tectonic plates
local Vinnies to grab some cracked a wine (or 10) with because they in Iceland (#humblebrag) and
plates and pre-loved clothing, it openly admit they dont have their learnt a ton of new skills working
goes deeper than just how you shit together. Admitting youre there. For that, Im grateful.
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decorate your home. not perfect is actually incredibly Next I took a long, hard look
Wabi-
endearing and embracing it can in the mirror because wabi-sabi
The wabi-sabi life be really fulfilling. When we see says we need to appreciate our
In an age when were all so
concerned about gaining more
celebrities who are willing to be
a bit of a goof, it really speaks to
sabi is natural selves more. As hard as it
is to not cringe at the sight of the
possessions and getting ahead in us, says Gruhn. Its actually very modest new fine lines around my eyes, I
life, wabi-sabi is about taking a
step back and going with the flow,
freeing to just accept who you are.
So how do we incorporate it
and remind myself theyre a result of
all the laughing-til-I-cried pub
says Amanda Gruhn, a Gestalt into our everyday lives? Change humble sessions with friends. The freckles
psychotherapist at Therapy Duo the motivation behind the things are from spending all day in the
(Therapyduo.com). you do, says Gruhn. So instead pool with my nieces and nephews,
Gruhn might be onto some- of working out because you want and that extra squish around my
thing. According to a study from to achieve a perfect bod like Gigi tummy is from drinking copious
the University of Kansas, women Hadid, hit the gym purely because amounts of Prosecco in Italy. And
of our generation are burning its good for your health and well- when I think of it like that, I have
out faster than men because we being. And rather than catching nothing to be disappointed about.
are striving for perfection in our up with pals because you feel like Oh my God, I totally just wabi-
careers and all other aspects of you need to appear popular and sabied myself. Still not convinced?
our lives. Can you blame us? With upload the perfect brunch pic to Jessica Alba is a fan. If its good
phrases like girlboss and every- your Instagram, go because you enough for Jess, its good enough
one being encouraged to lean in, genuinely enjoy their company for me (errr, not that Im making
were constantly comparing our- (assuming you do, that is!). comparisons or anything). #
breaths, hun. you love their shoes and ended Award winner.
with an unbreakable bond.
THE MEGAPHONE DRUNK THE OPRAH DRUNK
Youve definitely got a set of THE KYLIE JENNER DRUNK A few drinks and in and you get
lungs on you! Due to your larger- The minute those mojitos kick a drink, and you get a drink, and
than-life chops, youve probably in, youre begging your girlfriend lets get a bottle! Youre buying
already let everyone in the bar to take a million photos of you, everyone drinks like your phone
know your PIN number and your because youve suddenly realised bill isnt overdue and youre not
favourite sex position. youre a bombshell. Moving club eating tinned tuna for lunch. #
furniture, lying on the staircase
whatever it takes to get that shot!
OUR RELIGION?
It seems more and more of us are turning our backs on religion, swapping
church for brunch and finding alternative means to enlightenment. Why is it
so, and what does it mean for our souls, asks Mel Evans
Its a lot to take on, but as
a born-again Christian in her
I
teens, Melissa, now 31, found
ve been to mass exactly one church life addictive: I became families who [are] religiously
time. I was 17 and, after hooked on the community stuff observant families end up not
finding zero sense in what everyone was so supportive. much more religiously observant
was being said and a walk Soon she was attending than their Australian-born peers.
of shame back from the altar services three times a weekend,
after being rejected by the home group, worship practice A NEW GENERATION
priest (something about not being and youth group. But after 10 The influence of technology,
the right religion to get crackers years, she realised being a part travel just living in 2017 has
or something, I dont know), I of the church was stopping her opened us up to more spiritual
decided I wouldnt be returning. from doing the things she was influences, counterarguments
Look, I appreciate that others craving. I wanted to drink, go and options than one singular
are hot for a God and accept that out, date and be, well, twenty- being to follow, giving us Gen
many others think its baloney. something, she says. While Y-ers a pick n mix approach to
I sit somewhere near the baloney those things werent banned SCIENCE spirituality. We can believe in
side, but stop short of all-out
renouncement on the off chance
per se, I felt pressure not to
do any of them and I ended
MAKES IT whatever we want whether it
is fronted by a god or deity or
Heaven actually exists. It sounds up leaving the church. Now, HARD FOR ME a flying spaghetti monster, and
kind of cushy. she has a spiritual feeling that theres nothing wrong with any
theres something bigger than TO BELIEVE choice whatsoever.
GENERATION GOD humanity, but wonders if were
THERE IS A We read our horoscopes
It turns out Im not alone in my all just worshipping the same with the same gusto with which
meh-ness towards religion. The
2016 Australian Census found
god in different ways. HIGHER, we consume our smashed avo,
choosing to believe the words
that fewer people are identifying GENERATION WHY? SPIRITUAL of someone whos not necessarily
with religion than ever before. Jane, 27, is more on the atheist trained in the wise workings of
The number of those who have end of the spectrum. I know its POWER the universe to tell us how our
no religion was 29.6 per cent, such a staunch position to take, life is going to pan out. Sort of
compared with 15.5 per cent in she says, but science makes it the same as believing in a set of
2001. It makes up the largest hard for me to believe there is scriptures that have been written
proportion of the population, a higher, spiritual power. by someone in another time, no?
taking into account atheists (who Even though she was never Perhaps we arent so much
dont believe in gods), secularists baptised, Jane went to a Christian losing our religion as building
(neutral on the matter of religion) school and attended church now our own belief system for a new
and agnostics (who believe there and again. I was exposed to a age. Preach. #
isnt enough info to form a belief). lot of religion, she says. But I
What might seem to us as found it consumed peoples lives.
groundbreaking as florals for With one particular friend, it
spring is a stark contrast to how was clear that everyone in the
our parents and grandparents family came second to Jesus. It
generations viewed religion only made me sad. My friends mum
a few decades ago. would literally say, Jesus comes
People would attend church first above everything? Above
twice on Sunday, and also youth your family?
activities on Friday nights and We cant deny the difference
Saturdays, says Professor Marion in attitude towards organised
Maddox, author and academic religion between us and our
in the Macquarie University parents. Gen Y are the children
Department of Modern History, of the generations who started
Politics and International moving away from organised
Relations. Plus regular concerts, religion, says Maddox. Even
camps, variety nights, sport Gen Y members of migrant
families; my parents were high- just for us and restaurants would prostitutes and strippers. Sadly,
school sweethearts who instilled open up after-hours just for our theres such poverty in Mexico
morals in me and worked hard husbands and their associates, that these women dream of being
to send me to private schools. whod spend tens of thousands married to a narco. They think
But I was always attracted to of dollars in one night. There its the only way for them to
the bad boys. My first husband was a room next to our bedroom escape poverty, and narcos take
was sent to jail for an extended with $2-3 million cash piled up advantage of them. Our husbands
period of time for selling drugs, in bundles. That sort of lifestyle were so different from everyone
and my second husband was was really addictive. else in that world. >
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Newsflash: Every body is a bikini body.
Cosmo asked 500 of you to answer some
very intimate questions about your bodies
and the results show we need to add
some confidence to our step and embrace
what our mamas gave us >
NYARAI, 23
67%
I HAVE ECZEMA
AND IVE NEVER
FELT CONFIDENT
IN A BIKINI, BUT
I REALISED I
CANT LIVE MY
LIFE WORRYING
ONLY 1 IN 10 OF YOU DO
NOT ENVY ANYTHING
ABOUT OTHER WOMEN
SOPHIE, 28
Im proud of the fact Im a
curvy girl, and its got me to
where I am today. I havent
had to be a certain shape or
size to do what I want to do
model. I love that the female
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WITH MY BODY,
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%
MY MUM
SUGGESTED
TAKING UP
BELLY DANCING.
IVE NEVER
LOOKED BACK.
ITS MADE ME
of millennials would NEVER REALISE HOW
AMAZING OUR
get nude in front of BODIES ARE.
strangers at the gym IVE LEARNT TO
EMBRACE MY
BELLY AND ALL
OTHER SHAPES
50% OF &
AND SIZES.
NOTHING
YOU HATE ONLY 2% OF
MAKES ME FEEL
30 arent
%
comfortable
having sex
with the lights
on, no matter
who its with
GOOD TO KNOW
HALF OF YOU ARE
KATE WEARS BRAS N THINGS (BRASNTHINGS.COM). BRONTEY WEARS WACOAL (WACOALLINGERIE.COM)
HAPPY TO GO
MAKEUP FREE ALL
DAY EVERY DAY
BRONTEY, 23
I love my smile and my bum,
Im really proud of it! I love
chilling on the beach with my
friends; being around them is
an instant pick-me-up if Im
having a down day, which
we all have sometimes
were human.
Good news is
47
of you love
%
3 IN 5 SAY YOUR your boobs
FAVOURITE or legs (as
FACIAL FEATURE you damn
IS YOUR EYES well should!)
118 COSMOPOLITAN DECEMBER 2017
body
59
of you work
%
out at least
once a week
NATASHA, 23
SOME WOMEN HAVE
WIDER HIPS THAN THE MAIN
MO T I VAT ION
OTHERS, SOME HAVE FOR YOU?
THICKER LEGS AND
SMALLER WAISTS, SOME TO IMPROVE
ARE PETITE, SOME ARE YOUR FITNESS
CURVY, AND THATS (58%) AND BUILD
A BEAUTIFUL THING. MUSCLE (32%)
WE ARE ALL SO DAMN
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BUT STILL 1 IN 3
22% OF YOU HAVE HAD OR OF YOU HIT THE
GYM TO LOSE 10
WOULD LIKE TO HAVE BOTOX KILOS OR MORE
45% of millennials arent cool with being naked
(GET COMFORTABLE. YOU ONLY HAVE ONE BOD)
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HALF OF
YOU
WOULD
CHOOSE
TO BE FIT
OVER
SKINNY*
*YAS KWEENS!
33% of
you feel
your body
is most
like Hilary
Duffs
strong bod
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body
88
of you
% DEB, 30
I POWERLIFT AND
THAT MEANS I
CAN MAKE MY
think BODY LOOK AS
STRONG AND AS
your BUILT AS I WANT
DIGITAL EDITION
What he
really thinks
about your
On thigh gaps:
We see the world
through two eyes,
cellulite
not thighs, so
who even cares?
MICHAEL, 28
On big bums:
I love big bums
and I cannot lie.
We try all sorts of wizardry to look good No, I actually do.
naked but why do we bother?! Cosmo hit OLLIE, 24
the streets to ask some men what goes
through their heads when they see us
naked. Hint: its 99.9% Hell yeah!
relationships
7 THINGS ALL
CONFIDENT
WOMEN
DO IN BED
E S S S T O R IE S
IR L T IN D E R S U C C
PHOTOGRAPHY BY CHRIS CLINTON
Stop comparing
unflattering position might yourself to the ex
be on top or doggie if you A confident woman knows her
enjoy it but avoid it because worth, so take a leaf out of
WORDS BY MORGAN REARDON. PHOTOGRAPHY BY CHRIS CLINTON
WE HAVE
A TINDER TOT
Four years after swiping right, Jade, 29, and Lachlan,
little thing and has turned
our world upside down! We
know how babies are made so
it wasnt exactly a shock,
32, are engaged and have become parents to son Spencer
but we certainly didnt expect
to be having a baby before
Why did you go on Tinder? Lachlan, what was your first our wedding!
JADE: My housemates were impression of Jade?
on it and it looked like fun. L: That she was the perfect What do you love most about
LACHLAN: To meet the girl for me. your partner?
right girl. Its much faster L: Shes beautiful, intelligent,
chatting to 10 girls over text Did you kiss on the first date? caring and the best mum that
than going on 10 dates, not L: Yes, I clumsily asked for Spencer could hope for.
to mention cheaper. a kiss goodbye. J: Hes kind, generous, caring
J: He was a gentleman! and ambitious. Hes also a huge
What attracted you to their family man, and a wonderful
profile? When did you go on your dad. Watching him with our
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J: He was cute but I thought second date? son makes my heart explode.
he was too good looking and L: The following Saturday.
would probably be a player. J: We ended up having three Do you tell people that you
L: She was the hottest girl dates in a week and I bought met on Tinder?
on there. him a watch on date three. J: Yep! Were proud that
Did someone say stage five we #swipedright. In fact,
So, who made the first move? clinger?! a girlfriend of mine joined
L: I did, but Im not sure what Tinder after seeing how
I said. I dont think it was very When did you become happy Lachlan and I were.
convincing because I didnt get official? Shes now married to her
a response for a while. L: About two weeks in, Tinder date too.
J: We chatted for a month or I emailed asking her to be I REMEMBER
so before I finally gave in, but my girlfriend. What is your advice to
then I cancelled our first date. THINKING IT someone looking for love
Luckily, he was persistent and
rescheduled before I had the
What was the moment you
realised they were The One?
WAS CUTE HE on Tinder?
J: Have zero expectations
chance to back out again! J: Instantly! We moved in WAS GOING you may be pleasantly
together within six weeks surprised.
Where was your first date? when you know, you know. TO SO MUCH
J: We shared tapas and drank L: End of the first date when Where do you see yourselves
far too much red wine at a we kissed goodbye. EFFORT next year?
bar. I remember thinking it J: Married! Were making
was cute that he was going Tell us about your son, Spencer. Spencer legitimate in March.
to such an effort trying to J: Spencer arrived in March L: Driving through Italy and
impress me. this year. Hes the funniest Paris on our honeymoon. >
I MADE THE
FIRST MOVE
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Candi, 28, Super Liked Andy, 30, and had him at hello.
They now live together after dating for nearly two years
him
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LOVE
ADVICE FROM
OUR GUY
GURU, LOGAN
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I wish I had a nice
wallet Chance the
Q: I SLEPT WITH
THIS GUY AFTER A
FEW GREAT DATES,
THEN OUR NEXT
MEET-UP FELT LIKE
A BOOTY CALL.
CAN I GET HIM TO
PURSUE ME MORE
SERIOUSLY AGAIN?
date that cant be
confused with a last-
minute sex request,
when he shops for
himself. But all the Rapper is coming to A: If he doesnt like meeting before
town, but the tickets want anything deep, the sun goes down
gifts he picks out for
are so expensive at some place other
me are hideous. How you cant force him
You know whats
do I tell him? to get real. And than a bar. Then be
steer him towards underrated? Gift
A: You dont. Hate to better choices. In the cards. Nobody ever
trying is usually just blunt about what
say it, but the thought lead-up to holidays gets me gift cards a big waste of time. youre after: I know
does count and he is and birthdays, drop anymore Unless However, you can be were just getting to
trying so criticising obvious hints like hes totally oblivious clear about your own know each other, but
his unfortunate taste giant breadcrumbs (be warned, he may expectations. Next Im looking for more
will just come across he can pick up as he very well be), he should time you talk to him, than a casual hook-
as ungrateful. Instead, hunts for presents: get the message. propose a proper up. Are you?
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getting my life groove back.
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26-year-old
I worked with well call him
Retail Boy. After months of
dancing around each other, we
finally hooked up one night,
virgin:
went back to his place, started
WHEN I became a born- to get naked and I blurted
again Christian at age 15, out that I hadnt had sex.
what
sex was the last thing I was Wait, so youre a virgin?
thinking about. Id developed Arent you 26? he said in the
an interest in boys, but it was kind of shocked tone you dont
more in that unrequited love, want to hear in the bedroom.
daydreaming about kissing Uh yeah, I replied,
behind the demountables at and gave him a bullet-point
its
school kind of way. My friends version of my story. We made
and I were still too scared to out a bit more, and I went
tell each other when we had home assuming all was fine
crushes, let alone had the kind because OBVIOUSLY if a guy
of confidence to take any- wants to lock lips with you
thing further than a flirty after that confession, he is
really
look and a shy smile. totally into you.
I got my first boyfriend Wrong. The next day at
at 20, and had two years of work, he told me he couldnt
frustrating make-out sessions do the virgin thing. HOLY
that never got beyond a boob HELL JUST RIP OUT MY
grab. And then, at 24, some- HEART, ITD HURT LESS.
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belief system didnt feel like rejected by my one true love,
mine anymore. After my it dug deep into my soul and
first trip to Europe (and the brought up a sneaky little fear
only three months I hadnt Id been hiding. A fear that
attended church since I had said, No one will want you,
started), I drifted away from because youre still a virgin.
this lifestyle Id been in for I was stuck. I wanted to
all my formative years. have sex, absolutely, but I also
Kate Couttas felt like a weird, To say getting into the
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at 26, her V-card was still in play is putting it mildly. Id been my beliefs from church behind,
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Playing catch-ups when did. Given all my new, non-
it came to long, drunken party church friends were doing it,
nights was easy. But the one talking about it and taking
area I couldnt throw myself a drink for every question
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who hadnt even seen a penis felt like this weird, defective
IRL yet, that was pretty damn twentysomething.
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are close together in the town, and definitely the highlight of the trip! eggs (I was easily convinced). I
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locals are super friendly. Josh, the something you dont see every Bonus points for Josh: the cafe is
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took me on a sneaky 4WD tour been made into a magical garden.
around Robe where I really got Factor in time pre-flight to have Drink: Karatta Wines
to know everything about this a look over the side into the hole, (Karattawines.com.au). Im a
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hire cars a 4WD so you can cruise case through to the garden. so I had to stop by and do a wine
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surfing events on the beach so Stay: Caledonian Inn 12 bottles of wine sorry, liver!
you should get out and explore. (Caledonianinnrobe.com.au).
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ISLAND, SA
sand beaches, azure waters
and wave-surng dolphins
to roaming echidnas and
dusty outback tracks, the
Kelsey Garlick wanted to be place is frickin magical.
alone. Very alone. With naught but With a huge array of
kangaroos and wine for company fresh local produce, the
foodie options were end- special the local pod seeks
less, and the sheer number it out to surf the waves in
of wineries and breweries its wake. Ask your captain,
made my heart sing. Ah, Andrew, to set up a good
take me back! shot for you hell give you
a dolphin on demand.
Stay: LifeTime Private
Retreats (Life-time.com.au). Play: KI Outdoor Action
Its all well and good to have (Kioutdooraction.com.au).
sandy feet and salty skin I couldnt pass up the quad
as you explore, but when I bikes, and it was about as
want to relax, I want a little much fun as youd expect
luxury. Boy, did the Settlers it to be (its quad biking!).
Homestead deliver! Lying I may not have gone above
on the couch, overlooking 20km/h (safety rst, and Im
lush green lawns with a wuss) but I still felt the
kangaroos and wallabies thrill of the ride through
come sunset, you get an the Aussie bushland.
uninterrupted view of the
beach a stones throw away. Eat: The Enchanted Fig
Tree (Hannafordandsachs.
Experience: com.au). Dine by candlelight
KI Marine Adventures under the boughs of an
(Kimarineadventures. enormous Fig Tree. It looks
The Spicy Mojito
from KI Spirits will com.au). Ive seen dolphins like a fairy tale. It tastes like
burn your buds so before but the way they pork thats slow-roasted for
good! Snooze it interact with this boat is so days. It feels a little bit like
off back at the a wedding proposal
Homestead (left).
Relax: Table 88
(Table88ki.com). It has
a deck youll have to be
forcibly removed from
to play
relaxed I cant move. >
NOOSA, QLD
for the sunshine stay
for the burgers! This is
the place that Instagram
burger dreams are made
of! #burgersonstagram
drink up!
After getting the DL on I spent the afternoon and a generally lovely
all things beach safety, relaxing and soaking up atmosphere. After about
I headed out into the the sun on my balcony. 45 mins of walking and
water for the real deal. Before I knew it, it asking for directions, I I love, love, love a spritz (I mean, dont
I dont think I have ever was time for dinner at nally found the pools we all?) and some of the best Ive ever
laughed so much in my Boardwalk Bistro (Board (pictured above)! They. had are happily located in Noosa! Try
life! Theres something walkbistro.com.au), a Were. Heavenly. Thank
magical about letting go beautiful spot for couples God for husbands of The Boardwalk Bistro and El Capitano
because you wont stop at one!
STAY
On The Beach Noosa (Onthebeachnoosa.com.au).
If your holiday KPIs include high levels of maxo-relaxo, food, sun and sea, this is the place for you. Located right
in the middle of Hastings Street, you get the best of all Noosa has to offer, including amazing places to eat, cute
HERE boutiques to browse, the National Park boardwalk and, of course, beautiful Main Beach at your ngertips. The
accommodation itself is so lush they really think of everything to make your stay incredible.
HERON
DOES IT GET
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view from every lookout
Third stop:
TAS
along the way is super
incredible, the water is Darlington Vineyard
crystal clear and youre (Darlingtonvineyard.
surrounded by so many com.au). This cute little
Why stop at one beach when you wineries. After a two-hour vineyard is just off the main
can roadtrip via all of them? Hannah ight to Hobart I had a car highway, where I tried some
beautiful pinot noirs.
Lidbury took in the coast by car to drive up the coast to
Freycinet, stopping at lots
of spots along the way Fourth stop:
a four-hour trip with oyster Freycinet Marine
breaks, but only two hours Farm (Freycinet
without stopping. marinefarm.com). We
HAD to stop for oysters
again after all, Tasmania
First stop: The
is known for its oysters!
Museum of Old and New
The Kilpatrick was to die
cold c
is located on Honeymoon
Second stop: Barilla
Bay and has stunning views
Bay oyster farm (Barilla
from the rooms. The bath-
bay.com.au). I had the most
tub looks over the bay
delicious oysters paired
perfect for a picturesque
with a shallot vinaigrette
glass of bubbles.
a great introduction to
If youre feeling a bit
Tassies fab food!
adventurous, there are
MONA WAS SUCH walking tracks all around
AN IMPRESSIVE Take a drive to Bay for exploring, where youll
PLACE TO VISIT. of Fires. The colour see lots of wildlife (dont
of the water looks get scared like I did the
unreal against the wallabies are friendly and
dramatic red rocks.
super cute!). The bar within
the lodge has some great
local gin and wines, so I
obviously spent a lot of time
relaxing in the bar looking
out at the view. #
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Friendship brings you all the You have mad social skills, and Time to get shit done. Prioritise both big turn-ons for him. An
good feels, so throw a bash for theyll be on display after the 1st, your to-do list by the 9th, when outdoorsy date with some
friendly competition leaves
the whole gang. And dont be when your calendar bursts with your energy kicks into overdrive. him wanting more.
worried about any drama. On all the soirees youre invited to. Also in excess this month? Dolla
the 19th, any family tension will After the 18th, you may decide to bills, yall! Your wallet woes will
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in for a silent night or not. deserve to be on top. between the sheets.
THE BREAKDOWN
Mostly As
BURNT OUT
Current status:
system overload.
From social
obligations to
work duties, you
are totally spent.
And thanks to
technology, theres
no escape. Get
outta town! A
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will let you reset
so you can handle
lifes obstacles like
a champ.
Mostly Bs
RUNNING ON
ALMOST EMPTY
Do you need a
Youre always
helping people
find Zen but
routinely ignoring
yourself. Put
others problems
on hold and
evaluate your
wellbeing. Some
me-time will
reveal that youve
been neglecting
your own issues.
Tackle those and
Are you overflowing with energy or overdosing on coffee? youll be an even
better friend.
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a. Hitting the of bread (its only a laptop: 10 minutes? off on the couch, that you never
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b. Pestering the needs to unload b. Checking in of every single
period cramps. of The Wiggles.
staff to spritz the at happy hour, so on your friends opportunity.
b. When your b. Hard to say Invest all your
towels with rose youll figure some- roomie needs a Does being on hold Instagram passion
extra energy in
oil. That weight- thing out after. brunch rec. Youre with tech support projects.
a specific area
rack crew seems c. The latest a Zomato wizard. for Grandmas new c. Closing the of your life (your
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c. A brisk walk gourmet meal Haters say its c. This morning! door and silencing job, your side
on the treadmill service. You dont antiquated to stay You hacked your your phone. Your hustle), and dont
exactly what you do dishes. offline but guess computer so it lair turns into a forget to keep
need to unwind. who still has 20/20 goes into sleep safe room every planning time
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