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Table of Contents

Why Is The Red Dragon Attraction Technique Going To Put My


Results With Women On Attraction Steroids? ........................... 4
How A 40-Year-Old Creeper Transformed Himself Into A Certified Casanova ......... 5
The Many Benefits Of Using This Technique ................................................................. 8
What is the Red Dragon Attraction Technique? ........................... 11
The Story: How We Came Up With the Red Dragon Attraction Technique ............... 12
A Helpful Perspective on Confidence ............................................ 16
Tell-tale Uncomfortable Or Unhappy Behaviors: ..........................................................17
Tell-tale Behaviors Of Happy And Comfortable Guys .................................................. 18
So why not just act in the confident ways and stop acting in the unhappy ways? ...... 19
The Brain Science Of Why Picking Up Women Can Be Challenging ........................... 21
How to Use the Red Dragon Attraction Technique...................... 22
Step One: Relax............................................................................................................. 22
Step Two: Pick an Attractive Character to Model ........................................................ 23
Step Three: Getting Into Character ........................................................................... 24
Step Four: Training In Your Character ........................................................................ 26
Step Five: Remember to Stay on Course ...................................................................... 27
The Whole Sequence: .................................................................................................... 29
Its Time to Take Action in the Real World .................................. 30
But If I Use Your Technique, Im Not Being Me!! ...................................................... 33
Two Great Examples of RDAT in Action (from students) ............................................ 35
Wrapping It Up ............................................................................. 36

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Why Is The Red Dragon Attraction


Technique Going To Put My
Results With Women On
Attraction Steroids?
Hey there, this is Eric Edgemont here and I want to start off by thanking you
for purchasing this course and investing in your future success with women.

I also want to congratulate you for cracking open this book and getting started
on changing your life with women for the better.

Im going to say something blunt: There are so many people out there who
dont even try. Ive met all sorts of people who are nice people, but they dont
go for what they want and as a result, they dont get what they want.

I respect everyone who goes for what they want (provided that their approach
is respectable and not harmful to others).

The fact that you are taking action by purchasing this course and reading this
book means that you are willing to do what it takes to get what you want. It
means that youre not going to settle for less than you deserve.

And it means that I have your back and will do everything I can to
help you get the woman (or women) youve always wanted. I want
you to succeed.

In fact, I want you to look back on this moment as youre reading this book a
month from now two months from now even a year or two from now and
say, This was the moment where things started to really change for me for the
better.

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So heres the deal: Im going to tell you about the most powerful
technique Ive ever developed. I use it all the time and get great results.
This technique was literally a game-changer for me and many of my students.

How A 40-Year-Old Creeper Transformed


Himself Into A Certified Casanova
I had a student that was in his late 40s roughly a year ago in my live coaching
program. Now, Boston (where I lived at the time) is generally a college town
and we were hitting bars that were heavy in college students and young
professionals.

My student (who Ill call Jim for this story) felt out of place and uncomfortable
in these environments, but he really wanted to pick up younger women.

On the first night we went out, I asked him to just talk to women so I could
just observe him.

Although I couldnt hear everything Jim was saying, I would see him walk
up to girl after girl and see the girl look uncomfortable, then
scared, then get pulled away by her friends.

I could tell that Jims confidence was plummeting each time this happened
and I felt bad for him. All he wanted to do was attract a girl he didnt have
bad intentions or anything.

But it was true that his body language, his voice tone and the things he was
saying were coming across pretty creepy.

And heres the important thing to note: It was because he was


trying to ACT confident when he really was anything BUT
confident.

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On top of that, because he felt that he wasnt capable of picking up hot young
college girls, he came across as having a hidden or sneaky motive. Internally
he felt like he was trying to get something he didnt deserve.

Important point: Trying to fake confidence and having hidden


motives are two of the biggest reasons why guys come across
creepy.

I gave him some pointers to help him and his results improved a bit. But
because he believed he was too old to get girls in their 20s, he was shooting
himself in the foot and extinguishing any chances of having significant success
with women.

So, before the next time we went out I spent 20 minutes with Jim and taught
him the Red Dragon Attraction Technique.

He understood it and began using it immediately.

When we walked into the bar, he started approaching women and groups of
people and talking to them right away.

But now, instead of everyone looking creeped-out, they would first listen to
whatever he asked them and then they would smile or laugh warmly and
start chatting with him.

Nick Richards and I were checking up on him and our other coaching
students. After 20 minutes, Nick says to me, He looks like a totally different
person Were geniuses!! (Kidding.)

Now that Jim had an easy, dependable technique to call up confidence at will
and let go of his limiting beliefs and behaviors, his results began rapidly
improving over the course of that one evening.

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At the end of each evening, we would typically talk with all of our coaching
students about what worked for them, where they were having trouble and
what they want to work on next.

We were all ready to wrap up for the evening when we saw Jim talking to a hot
blonde 20-something. We decided to go to our meeting spot and let Jim catch
up only he never did.

Fifteen minutes later he sent us a text saying he was heading over


to her place to hang out.

Sounds great, right? Miraculous even?

If you told me that the story sounded too good to be true, I would have to
agree with you. But I promise, it happened for him as described and I have
similar stories about several other students from my coaching program with
similarly awesome results.

But I did change his name to protect his identity his name isnt really Jim.

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The Many Benefits Of Using This Technique


Here are some of the benefits of using this technique:

It makes you appear incredibly more attractive and


charismatic to women (which some have described as an aura of
attractiveness)
It eliminates being in a funk at a particular social venue or
occasion.
This technique gives you access to being in the zone with women,
where all the right words and delivery flows naturally from
your lips and the attraction unfolds effortlessly.
It allows the power of your subconscious mind to have you
being your most attractive self in any given moment with
women.
It makes you come across as smooth and charismatic to men, so you
make friends and avoid possibility of conflict.
It guides you to know the right moves and actions, so you can
effectively coach yourself through even when the pressure is
on.
It alleviates feelings of confusion and doubt and replaces them
with cool, effortless confidence
It gives you maximum confidence (not cockiness or arrogance)
without depending on alcohol or any other crutch to get you
loosened up

Now, I could go on and on about this technique and the benefits of it I


honestly feel that the list above doesnt even do justice to the power and
benefits of using this technique.

This is not a trick or technique to manipulate or take advantage of women. In


fact, by using this technique, you basically guarantee that you and her feel
great throughout the entire interaction.

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It works because it automatically uncovers your most attractive


mode, so you effortlessly attract women and dont have to think
about or calculate what youre going to do or say next.

Ive met some guys who have read way too many books and courses on pick
up and seduction. Even though they really wanted to improve, they had so
many tricks up their sleeve that everything they did came off as sleazy,
calculated and creepy.

Again, Ive often said: Theres nothing creepier to a woman than


having hidden motives.

Theres nothing wrong with having attraction to women and a desire to get
physical with them. Thats natural.

However, it is creepy and weird if you believe you need to manipulate or trick
a woman into bed in order to succeed with her at all. That will lead you down
a very bad path

Fortunately, this technique is completely natural, simple to apply


and feels great for women. She wont know what youre doing, but shell
certainly feel and appreciate it!

Sounds great, right?

Well, it is! And you can have all of that (and more), but you need to USE THE
TECHNIQUE. If you read this entire book and use what Im teaching you as
described, youll enjoy great results.

But you NEED to practice it and I would highly encourage you to use it as soon
as possible. And the more you practice, the better and better your results will
get with it.

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So thats the deal Ill give you the knowledge that took me YEARS to
discover, but you must put it into practice to get any kind of result. So by
reading on, you agree that youre going to take action on this knowledge
before forming an opinion on whether or not it will work for you.

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What is the Red Dragon Attraction


Technique?
Originally, Nick Richards and I were going to name this technique the
Character Confidence Method or Character Game, but we thought the Red
Dragon Attraction Technique sounded cooler.

The Red Dragon Attraction Technique (RDAT) is an inner game technique


Nick Richards and I developed so that we could be consistently in the zone
with attracting women.

Inner game is simply your thoughts, beliefs and perspectives in regards to


attracting women. What you think about has a tremendous impact on your
mind and body, but most importantly sets your social behavior.

When your social behavior is attractive, you will attract women.


When your social behavior is unattractive, you will not turn on
women (or worse, youll creep them out and repel them.)

Behavior can be both extremely noticeable and extremely subtle.


For example, what you say can be very clear and apparent. How you say it is a
little more subtle. And changes in your facial expression, timing and eye
contact can be extremely subtle, but make the difference between coming
across as confident and coming across as creepy and unattractive.

This is incredibly important to understand because attraction for


women is almost wholly based on your behavior (including subtle
body language), not your appearance.

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The Story: How We Came Up With the Red


Dragon Attraction Technique
I want you to really get this technique so that you can use it and attract all
the women you want into your life.

To help you do that, I really want you to understand how and why Nick and I
created this technique in the first place:

So, there was this one summer night in Boston. Nick and I went out to our
favorite hotel bar and we were all geared up to meet some nice women.

We were nicely cleaned up, groomed, well-dressed and ready to go but no


women wanted to talk to us.

In fact, it was so bad that night that when I would look towards a woman she
would quickly avert eye contact or make a face as if to say, Ew I dont want
to talk to you.

Now Ive had success with women before and Ive trained myself to have a
thick skin, but to be perfectly honest I was feeling like total crap after
about 30 minutes of this.

Nicks night wasnt going any better and when we were hanging out with each
other, I felt like the problem was just getting worse.

Finally I said to Nick, Hey, Ill be back, and I peeled off for a bit to get my
head straight.

Truth be told, at that moment I really just wanted to leave the venue and
forget about the meeting women for the night.

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But, as a guy who teaches dating tips to guys all over the world, I knew I
needed to step up my game so that I could help out other guys who find
themselves in the same position. (Sometimes thats all that gets me through!)

I said to myself, OK, Im going to try an experiment. I decided that I was


going to just spend the rest of the night as an actor. I wasnt going to lie or
be dishonest or anything. But I was going to be an actor, as in not be
myself, since myself at that moment was a tremendously
unhappy guy (and being unhappy NEVER gets you the girl).

Instead, I decided I was going to act like a movie character that I knew women
found attractive. I think I chose Brad Pitts character from the movie Fight
Club (without the sociopathic ideology, of course).

I decided to just totally invest my thinking in being this character for the
evening as my sole mental focus.

In fact, I actually pretended that I was going to audition for this part and if I
got the role I would be paid millions of dollars and receive wild acclaim, so I
had to do a good job.

(I mean, hey, if were pretending why not?)

So I decided to totally be this character. When I walked, I walked like Brad


Pitt. When I looked around, I looked around how Brad Pitt would. When I
breathed, I breathed like Brad Pitt. And when I thought, I thought like Brad
Pitt would.

After about a couple minutes of walking around and doing this, I was feeling
tremendously better. I was about to go back and talk to Nick when I was
approached by a tall, gorgeous blonde girl.

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Now, I love blonde girls, but for whatever reason I always seemed to do best
with girls who werent blonde. But here she was, saying words to me.

Now this isnt a story about picking girls up at a bar so Ill spare you the
details, but I ended up talking with her for a while, got her number and set up
a date with her.

Nick had eventually joined me, and when the girl left he said, Well you turned
your evening around I see.

So at that point I was happy with the first results from this fledgling
experiment and I told Nick what I had done.

Cool, Nick said, Ill try it.

Amazingly, after a couple minutes Nick came back and looked completely
different. I mean, he still looked like Nick but he had a kind of aura of charm
and good feelings around him.

He was about to tell me something when another gorgeous girl came up


and started talking to Nick!

Very cool stuff. Anyway, I want to keep this focused on the technique and on
attraction, so I wont go into the details about the rest of the story, but I can
tell you that this technique has been a massive success for us from the very
beginning of using it.

In fact, many of our coaching students have described it as their absolute


favorite technique of all time after experiencing excellent results with it.
Wed agree that its our favorite too its just so cool and simple!

Major Hint: When we are just being ourselves, that usually means to
act consistently with our current mood.

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Not bad advice if youre tremendously happy that day, but if youre not in a
spectacular mood or if youre like me and certain social environments make
you anxious and nervous, then it is bad advice.

In the next section, Im going to give you a totally new and original way to
think of confidence, so that you arent forcing yourself to appear
confident, you just naturally come off that way.

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A Helpful Perspective on
Confidence
Now in order to truly understand the power of this technique, you need to
truly understand confidence in a usable way. So before I show you how to do
the technique, Im going to give you a way to look at confidence that will
change your entire perspective on what you think confidence is.

I always HATED when people tried to give me dating advice, saying I just
needed to be confident. My thought was always, Great HOW? What even
IS this confidence behavior Im supposed to be doing so I can attract women
instead of repel them at the speed of light?

Rather than debate what the essence of confidence is, lets talk about what is
going to come across to women as confidence.

See, if I show you how to be and what to do in a way that you can understand,
then being confident will be easy for you. Thats what were aiming at here.

The SECRET to coming across as a confident man: The type of guy


that comes across as confident is the guy that is internally happy and
comfortable and externally happy and comfortable.

Now a lot of people will try to fake being happy and comfortable because on
some level they know that looking unhappy or uncomfortable comes across as
looking not-confident.

Thing is, these people often give themselves away when they open their
mouth.

The following list is some behaviors of people who are unhappy and/or
uncomfortable.

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Tell-tale Uncomfortable Or Unhappy


Behaviors:
They often complain about someone or something
They often criticize other people or things
They often put down other people or things
They verbally attack other people
They frequently try to undermine another persons enjoyment or
happiness
They frequently drop in accomplishments or possessions they want
others to envy them for
They frequently talk about other people or things that make
them unhappy or angry
They often talk about their own struggles and limitations or
why they cant win
They assume that others dont like them
Etc., etc., etc.

You get the picture.

Now, I will be the first to admit that when I was at my worst I did every one of
these destructive behaviors and more.

At the time I felt like I was just being myself, which was supposed to be
attractive, but in fact all of these behaviors were really undermining my ability
to attract women and people into my life.

When I acted this way, I came off as extremely unlikable and unattractive.

Those are all unhappy behaviors and at best theyll come across as
lacking confidence, at worst theyll come across as painfully
insecure.

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The guys who come across as confident (that is, happy and comfortable
internally and externally), just enjoy the moment. Some examples of these
confident (happy and comfortable) guys are in the following list.

Tell-tale Behaviors Of Happy And


Comfortable Guys
Theyre playful.
They laugh a lot and are genuinely amused most of the time.
They have a genuine liking for people.
They have a backbone, but dont have to prove it or bully
others to prove that theyre strong
Theyre pleasant and easy-going.
If they tease, its funny and feels good to the other person.
Theyre forgiving and appreciate the best parts of people.
They assume the other person likes them and is attracted to them.
They enjoy flirting without needing to make it into anything.
They are comfortable leading other people because they know
everyone will appreciate it. (Note: Leading is not controlling or
manipulating people. It is simply being willing to go first and pave
the way for both you and everyone else to have a good time and get what
you all want.)
They look happy and comfortable.
And most importantly, people feel good and comfortable around
them because they make others feel good.

Think about it when youve been truly at your most fulfilled and happiest,
this is how you were with the people around you.

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So why not just act in the confident ways and


stop acting in the unhappy ways?
Actually, thats the advice generally given on confidence and attracting
women: Stop acting in unattractive ways and start acting like the
attractive guy.

This works to an extent, but the second that people stop constantly monitoring
their actions and forcing each and every correct behavior, that approach falls
apart.

The main reason is that we act in accordance to our MOOD. Or better said
we act in accordance to our MODE.

If you are depressed, for example, it will only feel natural to act in accordance
with depressed behaviors. It will feel like the weight of the world is holding
you back in that mode if you attempt to act outside of that MODE.

If you are feeling angry, you will act in accordance with that angry MODE.
Not only will you be more likely to talk about angry things and respond in
angry ways to other people, your entire appearance will change to
project a look of anger.

The changes in your facial expression, tone of voice, rate of speaking, etc.
might be extremely subtle, but they will come across loud and clear to the
woman youre talking to. She will feel your anger and, thus, feel that
you are not confident.

Now for years, my only approach was to force myself to act in the attractive
ways and suppress the unattractive ways, no matter what mood I was in.

Like I said, this worked for a while, but in the long run was very detrimental
to me and my progress. Forcing myself to act a certain way left me

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feeling drained and incredibly unhappy internally, even though I


was successful at picking up women.

Forcing behaviors can be helpful as a last resort, but often times it


is a bad approach.

For example: If youre trying to lose weight, but youre feeling lazy in that
moment, forcing yourself to run is a good thing.

However, if you had a bone fracture, then forcing yourself to run would be
a very bad decision running when you have a bone fraction would make a
small problem into a big problem.

In fact, theres actually a part of the brain specifically geared toward keeping
you in a specific behavior set based on your current mood/mode.

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The Brain Science Of Why Picking Up


Women Can Be Challenging
Part of the prefrontal cortex regulates social behavior and inhibits
violating social norms.

What this means is that if youre around people and you feel a certain way,
your brain will actually prevent you from acting outside of the way
you feel in that situation: about yourself, about other people and about
life in general.

This is one reason why many men drink alcohol for liquid courage: Alcohol
decreases activity in the prefrontal cortex and therefore alleviates
them from feeling the pressure of acting outside of their beliefs
about themselves and their current mood.

This allows a guy to access the mode that gives him internal access
to being able to flirt.

Problem is, alcohol also decreases brain activity in many areas of the brain
and over time can increase feelings of anxiety and insecurity.

Im not against drinking responsibly, but drinking alcohol for courage is a very
bad idea and has significant drawbacks both in the short and long term.

You could say that using alcohol to unlock your attractive self is like
breaking into your own car by smashing the window and tampering with the
ignition. It will work, but its destructive, costly and completely
unnecessary if you have the key.

OK, lets talk about exactly how to use this technique.

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How to Use the Red Dragon


Attraction Technique
Like I said at the beginning: I really want you to get this technique, so Im
going to give you each step of the sequence and then tie it all together at the
end of the section.

Step One: Relax


Its funny, but a lot of times people ignore advice to relax and breathe deeply.
They think of it as some kind of unnecessary new-age nonsense since after all,
were breathing all the time. And what good could relaxing do?

Well, actually a TON of good. Your brain depends on oxygen. Even minor
changes in breathing can have a major impact on your brain. And when your
brain is distressed, your entire experience of life and mind will be poor.

I already covered how it is essential to be happy and comfortable in


order to come across as confident to women. When your brain is in distress
due to a lack of oxygen and poor thinking habits, your mood will crash as well
as any chances you had of looking confident.

On the other hand, when you flood your brain with plenty of fresh oxygen and
exhale all of the carbon dioxide in your system, it has a tremendously positive
effect on your brain. You will actually calm down the centers in
your brain that make you feel alarmed, anxious and unpleasant
and you will activate the parts of your brain that make you feel
focused, at ease and happy.

I live in America where people tend to be shallow breathers. Unless youve


specifically trained yourself to breathe deeply, you are probably not
breathing deeply enough.

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If you find this interesting, I invite you to take a look at any of the numerous
studies that have been done on the positive effects of breathing from
meditation.

Using your mind and breathing to your advantage are essential to make this
technique work for you, so its very, very important that you start out with the
strongest possible base. This is an essential step.

Wherever you find yourself at this moment, stop and take a moment to take
5 long, slow breaths. Take a nice long slow inhale through your nose all the
way so that youve completely filled your lungs with air (but not to an
uncomfortable point) then slowly exhale ALL the air. All of it. Then repeat
4 more times.

As youre breathing, I only want you to have one single thought and focus in
your mind. As youre breathing in, focus and think on the word in. Then on
the exhale focus, only think of the word out.

Dont stress out about doing this right. That would defeat the purpose of this
step. If you think about something else as youre relaxing, thats OK, just
gently bring your mind back to focusing on relaxing and let any other thoughts
or distractions pass without acknowledgement or concern.

Take as much time as you need to feel relaxed but at a minimum, 5 long,
slow breaths.

Step Two: Pick an Attractive Character to


Model
Heres where the fun really begins.

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Think of someone you know that youd consider an attractive personality to


women. Someone who has a personality that you appreciate that also happens
to do exceptionally well with women.

It could be someone from a movie or TV show. It could be someone youre


friends with. It could be someone you know from some area of your life.

Just pick someone who does really well with women who also has a
personality type that you generally admire.

Step Three: Getting Into Character


Time to make the magic happen.

This is something that I had learned from an acting class that I took years ago
from an expert actor.

As it turns out, many performers of today actually used this same kind of
technique as they were learning to perform. One example is Bill Maher of
Politically Incorrect, who modeled himself after Johnny Carson.

(If you watch YouTube videos of Johnny Carson and then immediately watch
Bill Maher afterwards, youll notice many striking resemblances in their style.)

Im going to explain this to you, but then I want you to physically get up and
do it.

I want you to picture that person or character standing in front of


you, a few feet away from you. I want you to look at him and notice
all the details about him that you can.

Keep your eyes open and just pretend hes standing there in front of you.
Dont worry, it doesnt have to be a clear picture just get a sense of him being
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there. And if you really have trouble visualizing, just pretend what it would be
like if you could visualize him standing there and continue.

How is he standing? Whats his facial expression like? Does he look happy?
Content? Playful? Cocky? At peace? Calm? Collected?

Get a sense of how he looks as hes standing there in front of you.

Great. Now I want you to close your eyes. And at the moment that you close
your eyes, I want you to take a deep breath and imagine you are him.

I want you to imagine how it feels to be his body. I want you to imagine that
youre looking out of his eyes and hearing out of his ears. I want you to think
like he would be thinking and respond the way that he would respond in any
given situation.

And I want you to walk around and do everything as your character would do
it.

For example, if you imagined yourself as Don Draper from Mad Men (as one
of my students does), then I want you to look at things like Don Draper would.
If youre going to get a cup of coffee, I want you to get a cup of coffee like Don
Draper would. If youre talking to someone, I want you to talk to them like
Don Draper would.

Now, this is meant as an attraction technique, not an acting lesson. So if you


chose William Wallace from Braveheart as your character (one of my
favorites), dont all of a sudden start speaking to people with a Scottish accent
about medieval battles.

And obviously, if you chose a criminal character like Tony Soprano, dont start
committing crimes because you want to be in character.

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If you do that, you are not only an idiot, but I think youll have a lot of trouble
meeting women in prison.

(I also feel I should restate my disclaimer at this point this book is


information. Dont do anything illegal, unethical, harmful or stupid I am
not responsible for your actions.)

You are taking on the essence of the character, not taking on the plot. Hope
thats clear.

OK, with that out of the way, lets continue.

Step Four: Training In Your Character


Heres something really cool I learned from a friend of mine who is a
neuropsychologist.

He explained at one of our seminars how training in a specific behavior or


learning happens faster and more deeply if the rehearsal is done in a variety of
environments.

In regards to this technique, this means that you should put yourself
into character as often as possible to really train in the character
behaviors.

One of our students loved the results he got from this technique so much that
he ended up practicing his character all day while he was at work.

Funny thing is, before we even went out with him that Friday, he ended up
getting a date with a girl in his office, who literally told him that she, Never
noticed how sexy he was!

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All he was doing was just imagining he was that character! He wasnt doing
anything crazy or over the top he was just committing to acting as that role
in everything he did.

So PRACTICE this it will give you an aura of attractiveness and


boost everything that youre doing with women.

Personally, I have a proactive mindset when it comes to getting the women


that I want, so by no means am I suggesting that you should be lazy and expect
women to just come to you.

It happens, but youll get results and learn a lot quicker if you take action and
talk with women in real life instead of waiting for something to happen.

I am suggesting that you try this technique for the next 2 weeks while you are
actively interacting with women in real life.

Step Five: Remember to Stay on Course


One very important point about this technique is to remember to keep with
the character once youre in the interaction.

Remember, this is a mental exercise to guide you to act attractively. Youre


not doing some kind of random voice impersonation of the character or the
movie plot.

But on the other side, Ive seen guys get into an interaction and then drop the
character either because they became nervous and overwhelmed, they forgot
to stay in character or they thought they were all set since they got into an
interaction with a girl.

Practice BEING this character actively. At first, youll find that you fall out of
character rather often and need to remember to stay in character.

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With practice, youll get good at staying in character and reap the benefits.

And if you practice this for a full 3 weeks as often as you can, you will start
acting in these new attractive ways automatically without having to think
about it.

The formula is simple though the more you do it, the better youll be.

One last thing I want to mention is that practice in real life with a
real woman is 1000 times more effective than practicing by
yourself. The real world doesnt lie and it is the best source for feedback on
your growing level of attractiveness.

Do your best to practice this in the real world in real interactions as often as
you can.

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The Whole Sequence:


1. Relax
2. Pick your attractive "character"
3. Step into your character
4. Practice your character as often as possible in different places
throughout the day
5. Remember to stay in character while you're talking to women

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Its Time to Take Action in the Real


World
All right, so Ive mapped out the steps to do this technique.

Heres the thing that gets me. I have met a lot of guys who have read a ton of
techniques about picking up women and yet take NO ACTION in the real
world.

Hell, I was one of these guys for 3 years before I finally forced myself to get off
my ass and take real world action! So I understand

Thing is, though, these same guys will actually try to debate me about the
effectiveness of this technique without even trying it! Or theyll try it once
half-heartedly, not end up dating a supermodel on their first try and then tell
me it doesnt work.

Listen, I have seen ALL of the coaching students Ive taught this to
succeed wildly with this technique. I know it works.

But I need to make sure that you follow through and actually USE this
technique since Im not actually there with you to coach you through it and
hold you accountable.

So lets talk about how youre going to use this technique and get great results
in YOUR life.

First, I want to urge you to ACT NOW.

Ive known thousands of guys who study this stuff. Some from the internet.
Some who live in my town (Boston). And some who have been coaching
students of mine.
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When it comes to learning a new technique, there really is only one of two
things that happens.

Scenario one: The student reads the technique, says, Cool!! and
immediately goes out and starts using it everywhere and sees great
improvement in his results with women.

Scenario two: The student reads the technique, says, Cool! and then does
NOTHING.

He always has an excuse:

I dont think Im ready to talk to women yet,


I dont know enough about attracting women yet,
This isnt a good time for me to meet women for XYZ reason,
I dont want to embarrass myself,
I dont want to get rejected,
I have approach anxiety so I cant talk to women,
I dont know anyone in the area,
Etc. Etc. Etc.

I dont want to sound mean, but if youre not going to take action on this
technique now, youre most likely not going to.

And I know some of you are saying, No, Eric, Im not like that. I really will
come back and re-read this technique once Im ready. Then Ill do it!

Listen, Ive been in your shoes and Ive worked with tons of guys on this as my
private coaching students.

Heres the problem: Its never a good time. Youre never ready. Youre never
going to feel like you know enough.

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The fact is you are either willing to take action now and handle
whatever comes up or youre not.

You know that you could do this technique easily at any time. You know that
you could go out and meet women right now, some way, somehow.

Like if I said to you that I would pay you one million dollars to use this
technique for two weeks and talk to at least 10 women using it, Im sure you
could very quickly imagine yourself doing it and you would know exactly how
to make it happen.

So really it comes down to this: are you going to be a scenario one guy (and
get great results with women) or a scenario two guy (take no action
and get no results).

The choice is yours but I urge you not to kid yourself. Call your choice what it
is: You are either willing to take action now or youre not.

Im making a big deal about this because I have found that when I allow a guy
to believe hell get around to it, he NEVER does. NEVER.

I know a guy whos still waiting to get around to learning to meet and attract
women, four years later! Every time he sees me he tells me why he cant do it
now, but that hes almost ready to soon.

I know it sounds crazy, but those who dont take action right now simply dont
take action. I really dont want you to be one of those no-action guys.

The good news is the guys that take the action and are determined to
succeed DO SUCCEED! Thats who I want you to be.

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But If I Use Your Technique, Im Not Being


Me!!
Ive had a few students express this as a concern. They say that if theyre
acting as a character, then theyre just pretending to be something theyre
not or not being their real self or that they are faking their personality.

Nothing could be further from the truth. Let me explain.

This is a MENTAL EXERCISE. You are simply using your mind to get better
results with women and to have women find you more attractive.

All youre doing is using a mental tool to help you activate your most attractive
mode.

See, the funny thing about this technique is that its like a mental loophole.
Since youre just playing a game of pretend (like you did as a kid), your mind
gives you permission to act as your most attractive self.

On a deeper level, when you choose an attractive character to model, you are
choosing your impression of someone who reflects your idea of what an
attractive man is. But in order for you to make that choice, you are actually
choosing a reflection of your most attractive self.

Youre seeing the attractive version of yourself in that character


and calling up the attractive version of yourself as a result.

What you do in your own mind is your own business and nobody will ever
know if youre getting inspiration from James Bond or Wolverine. Unless you
told them, which would be a very bad idea since it would likely give you
performance anxiety and ruin the whole technique. Keep it secret!

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What people will see is you only it will be a version of you that is incredibly
charismatic and attractive.

It is still you though its just you being more attractive. And with practice,
youll naturally act and present yourself in those attractive ways
without even thinking about it.

Moreover, this is just a fun experiment. You can always go back to your old
ways of doing things if you want to. Theres absolutely no risk in trying
something that will get you better results than anything youve used before.

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Two Great Examples of RDAT in Action (from


students)
When I use [the RDAT] at the bar, I start imagining that Im [my character]
at the beginning of the night as Im getting ready. I imagine that Im him as
Im getting dressed, as Im listening to music in my car and as I walk into the
bar. And as Im approaching a woman and striking up a conversation with
her, I imagine for a moment that Im looking out from her eyes and seeing [my
character] talking with her. Imagining that shes actually looking at the
character helps me maintain my attractive character.

Greg, Boston, MA

This is funny but I started using [the RDAT] for online dating. When I wrote
my profile and when I write messages to women, I write it in my characters
voice. And when Im writing responses or chatting with them, I imagine how
my character would respond and I write it down. After starting to do this Im
getting 3 times the response rate I used to get and the women are much more
interested in me.

Darren, San Francisco, CA

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Wrapping It Up
OK, so in this book, I explained how the RDAT helps you get significantly
better results with women. I explained why its helpful, what it is, where it
came from, how you can use it in your own life and why you should start using
this information right now to get great results.

I really want you to get the kind of great results Ive been describing in this
book, so I will just remind you one last time that taking action now is the best
possible thing you could do to change your life and get better with women.

I wish you the best of luck. And if you have a question for me or a success
story youd like to share, Id love to hear it.

In fact, if you can think of other areas or sticking points in your dating life that
you think want resolved quickly and for good, you can feel free to ask me.

I remember what it was like to have dating problems and at that time there
really wasnt anyone out there who got where I was coming from and could
give helpful advice that would really work for me.

Now that Im a dating coach, I do my absolute best to meet you where youre
at and help you get to the next level. If you can think of an area where youd
like to rapidly improve or eliminate a nagging problem, send me an e-mail.

I dont always have available slots for private coaching, so if youd like to get
your sticking points handled and get to the next level, I would urge you to e-
mail me right away since my availability fills up quickly.

My waiting list is first come, first served, so at the very least Ill work with you
as soon as I get a free slot.

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One last thing I DO NOT work with guys who are unwilling to take action to
move themselves forward. Talking about picking up women is not the same as
actually doing it in the real world. I have no interest in anyone who only
wants to debate what they think will work without trying anything.

With that said, I understand how tough it can be to deal with dating issues and
as long as youre willing to try and improve, Im willing to work with you.

And seeing as how you read this whole book and youre ready to go out and
use this technique, Im betting you are that kind of guy. And that means I
would love to work with you and get you where you need to be in order to have
the success youve always wanted.

Thank you for reading this book and feel free to e-mail me with questions,
success stories and about private coaching at eric@womendesireyou.com

Get what you really want,

Eric Edgemont
The King of Dating Transformation

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