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Professor Karen
Psychology 1100
lives together.(John Gottman). John M. Gottman a professor of psychology, known for his work
on marital stability and relationship analysis was the inspiration for my signature assignment. I
wanted to represent his several principles for making marriage work through a collage of pictures
that correspond with each one of his concepts. The first concept is making love maps; a love map
is having relevant information about ones spouse such as their worries and goals in life. These
love maps are not set in stone and can change. To represent this in my collage I got different
colored maps and wrote things one would know about their partner as street names.
The second principle is nurturing admiration and respect. This involves thinking of the
reasons you cherish your partner and letting them know. To represent this I included personal
reasons as to why I admire my partner in the map as well. The Third concept is turning towards
each other. This means connecting with ones spouse. Making sure to be there for the things that
are important to them. I represented this with a picture of a man and woman hugging. The fourth
is accepting influence, which means being able to take their opinion and feelings into account. I
corresponded this with a picture of two heads with a main focus on the brain. The fifth principle
is solving solvable problems this involves being able to result problems face to face without
necessarily arguing. I represented this with two figures sting at a table talking. The Sixth is
overcoming gridlock, in this principle the couple must be able to willingly explore the hidden
issues that are really causing the problem. I expressed this with an image of a couple crossed
Finally, his last concept is creating shared meaning. To show this in my collage I have a
couple holding hands in the shape of a heart. I chose this particular subject because it really
captured my attention in class. In fact, my parents recently divorced this year so perhaps that is
why this topic stood out a little more for me. I intend to use these principles in my current
relationship and hope to see good results. Overall, I found this topic to be very insightful and
intriguing.
Work cited
Gottman, J. M., & Silver, N. (1999). The seven principles for making marriage work. New York: