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Community Dialogue > Letters
the a priori assumption that the I see the potential for some
Reparative Therapy Lawsuits? patient should change his/her significant legal lawsuits with
It’s time to stop reparative therapy! homosexual orientation.”
When I think of lawsuits
huge rewards as a way to stop
“reparative therapy” abuse of
A week ago, I met another younger against those running “repara- our GLBT community. I chal-
man who went through gay “repara- tive therapy,” I first think of a
huge reward for pain and suffer-
lenge our community (includ-
ing straight allies) to figure out
tive therapy.” This wonderful man in ing. Then, I think of recouping how to get this done.
the cost of “reparative therapy,”
his mid-20s had horrid stories about and recouping the cost of real
JEROME HAGER
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Community Dialogue > Queer As Folks
Emperor XIX (left), Steven Yorek, and Empress XIX, Roxie Hart. Lynx Coach Cheryl Reeve (left) and Guard Lindsay Whalen.
Photo by George Holdgrafer Photo by Sophia Hantzes
2012 Gay Softball World Series. The event, its decision. It felt that the response from
which runs August 13-18, 2012, will draw the community, mainly a low number of
to the Twin Cities an estimated 180 teams, registrations for riders and crew, was not
including 2,600 athletes and 1,000 fans. sufficient to ensure safety. The trek had been
TCGSL previously hosted the event in 1996. held annually since 1986.
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> Cover Feature
August 27-September 9, 2010
complishment was when the Matthew the nation’s hospitals on a set of baseline
Shepherd and James Byrd Jr. Hate Crimes standards of patient care for LGBT Ameri- The American Foundation for Equal
Prevention Act was signed into law by Pres- cans; participating in the first-ever Con- Rights (AFER) has done a stellar job fight-
ident Obama in 2009 after 11 years of hard gressional hearing exclusively on the issue ing Prop 8 in court. Few moments have
advocacy work. I’ll never forget being with of workplace discrimination against trans- been as exciting as the moment when we
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heard what we’ve known all along—that de- months since the Supreme Court decided position that Target and Best Buy must
nying marriage equality is unconstitutional. the Citizens United case. Corporations can correct the harm they caused by making a
As the nation’s largest LGBT civil rights now give unlimited amounts of shareholder like contribution to a group that supports
organization, we will lend our voice and cash to certain political committees. While proequality candidates or causes.
our resources to support AFER, as LGBT the ramifications of Citizens United remain
Americans continue on the path to full mar- to be seen, many believe that its impact on Has Target or Best Buy, or its foun-
riage equality. While we ultimately expect social justice movements—ours included— dations or executives, contributed di-
to win this battle, we understand there are will not be good. rectly to HRC? If so, how much?
many hurdles ahead, and our work as is far The CEI is at a crossroads. Should it fac- Both companies have sponsored HRC’s
from over. We will keep our members and tor in political contributions, and if so, how Twin Cities Gala Dinner through their LGBT
supporters engaged in the fight, and we will in an objective way that does not ignore the employee resource groups. Target donated
support AFER in every way we can. reality that corporations give to candidates of $15,000 and Best Buy donated $5,000 in 2009.
both political parties for business purposes?
Target Corporation and Best Buy re- That’s the question that we are studying. What is HRC doing to overturn the
ceived a 100 percent rating on the most It’s important to point out that corporate military’s Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell (DADT)
recent HRC Corporate Equality Index America has largely led the way on poli- policy?
(CIE). How does HRC determine these cies for LGBT people over the past decade. Our work on the ground across the coun-
ratings? While we still don’t have a federal workplace try, and our partnerships with other LGBT
The CEI measures the workplace prac- nondiscrimination law, 84 percent of the For- and veterans’ organizations, have gotten us
tices of corporate America. HRC rates tune 500 have nondiscrimination policies in far. The US House of Representatives and
companies on a scale from 0 to 100, based place that include sexual orientation, and 42 the Senate Armed Services Committee have
I THINK THE SINGLE MOST IMPORTANT ACCOMPLISHMENT WAS WHEN THE MATTHEW
SHEPHERD AND JAMES BYRD JR. HATE CRIMES PREVENTION ACT WAS SIGNED INTO
LAW BY PRESIDENT OBAMA IN 2009 AFTER 11 YEARS OF HARD ADVOCACY WORK.
on several criteria that include the status percent include sexual orientation and gender both voted to repeal DADT. Now, it’s up to
of nondiscrimination policies, transgender identity. And while most states do not yet le- the full Senate.
protections, employee benefits, and diver- gally recognize our relationships, 57 percent We have an exciting new campaign un-
sity training, among others. The rating also of the Fortune 500 offer domestic-partner- der way in partnership with Servicemem-
evaluates a company’s external engagement ship benefits to same-sex couples. bers Legal Defense Network called Count-
with the LGBT community in the form of down 2010. We are focused on 10 states
advertising and philanthropy, for example. What is HRC’s position on the current with key lawmakers whose votes on DADT
HRC also investigates ongoing litigation or controversy regarding the Target and repeal are critical.
shareholder actions that impact its policies, Best Buy donations to MN Forward? We are mobilizing grassroots supporters
as well as any donations to organizations We are extremely disappointed in both of equality across the country through in-
whose primary mission is antiequality. Target and Best Buy. Both companies, and district meetings, as well as a call-in and e-
Target and Best Buy have historically specifically Target, market themselves ag- mail campaign. I encourage everyone to go
had model workplace policies for LGBT gressively to the LGBT community. Same- to <countdown2010.hrc.org> to participate.
employees. That’s why they have received sex couples in Minnesota are denied the
100 percent for the past few years. equality given to other couples in marriage, As HRC marks its 30th anniversary
and state leaders are poised to right that in- this year, what is the future direction of
Given the HRC 100 percent ratings equity very soon. Because the next Gover- the organization?
of Target and Best Buy, and the contro- nor will likely have the opportunity to either We will keep working to achieve full
versy regarding their donations to MN sign or veto marriage-equality legislation in equality for LGBT Americans in all aspects
Forward, does a possible flaw exist in the North Star State, this election is critical. of their lives to include their relationships,
HRC’s rating system? Is HRC working The fact that both companies contributed to their workplaces, and communities. In ad-
to resolve this possible flaw? an organization that supports a vehemently dition to changing the laws of our nation,
The CEI measures the workplace prac- antigay candidate closely associated with a it’s equally important to change hearts and
tices of corporate America. Target and Best Christian rock band that advocates death minds. In the coming years, our work will
Buy have traditionally had model employ- and violence to gay people is unacceptable. continue to empower people of faith to
ment policies for LGBT people. So, from speak out, press for transgender health cov-
that perspective, both Target and Best Buy HRC has advocated that Target and erage in corporate America, and ensure that
have deserved their 100 percent rating. Best Buy donate to a proequality orga- LGBT people have the freedom to parent
August 27-September 9, 2010
The simple facts that make this case nization an amount comparable to what if they so choose. We have a big agenda in
unique are that these contributions were they gave to MN Forward. Is this the front of us full of opportunities.
enormous, the Minnesota Governor’s race best policy, or will it alienate another
is key to marriage equality, and both compa- segment of Target and Best Buy’s em- Twin Cities HRC Gala Dinner
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nies aggressively markets themselves to the ployee and customer base? The Minneapolis Depot
LGBT community. The vast majority of Americans are 225 3rd Ave. S., Mpls.
The American political landscape has fair-minded, and will understand that we <http://twincities.hrc.org>
changed considerably over the past eight are merely asking for parity. It’s been our
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> Fall Getaways
DOOR COUNTY
Cana Island Lighthouse. Orchard Country Winery & Market. Lake Michigan Beach Chairs.
Photos Courtesy of DoorCounty.com/Door County Visitor Bureau
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cumulated in the pot. The boil is topped off Sturgeon Bay’s gay-owned and -operated
unfailingly with a huge slice of cherry pie. Chanticleer Guest House—<www.chanti-
While dozens of fine accommodations cleerguesthouse.com>.
are available, two are of particular interests As owners Bryon Groesch and Darrin
to GLBT visitors. Day found, “Most of our guests come from
High-school sweethearts Steve and urban areas, and have stressful jobs, as well
Sue Sherman met when they were 16, “al- as stressful lives. We promote the fact that
though,” they admit, “it took us more than we provide a romantic setting where couples
20 years before we could fulfill our dream can relax, and reconnect with each other.
of living in Door County. We are now in “Many people have the idea that you
our 15th year as owners/innkeepers at the have to mingle with other couples at a
Fish Boil at White Gull Inn. Village Green Lodge.” bed-and-breakfast. We serve breakfast to
This establishment in Ephraim caters to each suite and cabin, and respect people’s
regions in the country, is known worldwide adults only (no children under 16)—which, privacy. If couples want to socialize, they
for that fruit, as well as freshly-caught Lake the owners explain, “makes for a peaceful, are welcome to, but we try to provide an
Michigan whitefish. relaxing getaway for our guests. Some of atmosphere where couples can hide away
Cherry DeLite—<www.countryovens. our very best customers are gay, and they and not be bothered.
com>—specializes in all things cerise: juices, have been coming for years.” “Our clientele is mostly straight, but we
syrups, cherry mustard, salsa, and beyond. While the 17-room lodge is run as a at the Chanticleer take great pride in mak-
Satisfy a craving for both cherries and bed-and-breakfast, the Shermans empha- ing our GLBT guests feel comfortable and
whitefish at a traditional Fish Boil, a sta- size that it has “the privacy of a small ho- welcome.”
ple at many restaurants. The finale of this tel—all the rooms have private entrances Check out <www.DoorCounty.com> for
lumberjack and fisherman’s tradition is the and private bathrooms.” a visitor’s guide, fact sheets, and videos.
“boil over,” a huge fireball boiling off any Go to <www.villagegreenguesthouse.com>.
fish oils or other items that may have ac- Privacy is definitely the keyword at
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> Fall Getaways
MACKINAC ISLAND
Morning along Main Street. Photos by E.B. Boatner White Shoal Light. On the Ferry.
History, Horses, we open our eyes a bit more, and learn from the peo-
ple who come to visit. We are exposed to people from
all walks of life and all over the world, so there is a
Hospitality—and certain wisdom that comes with the territory. There
is a motto here with the year-round folks: If your head
Fudge and your heart aren’t connected, and you aren’t who
you are, then you won’t make it here emotionally. I
think it’s a great motto for life.”
[ by E.B. Boatner ] Bart Berkshire, a young man assisting Slevin,
shares, “This is my first season on the island, and it’s
When I was 8, visiting New York with my parents, been a great experience. I’m an openly gay man, and
I first heard the unmistakable sound of horse’s hooves I have not had any problems with the tourists or the
on a cobbled street. I listened to that “clop” recent- workers. I made a lot of friends quickly, and I feel very
ly on an island in Lake Huron. Michigan’s unique welcome. The island is a very romantic place to come
Mackinac Island heightens the senses: Sounds, smells, to for gay and straight couples.”
tastes, and textures remain with you. The land area Visitors will find an activity for every energy level:
totals 3.8 square miles. kayaking, fishing, sailing, biking, horseback riding,
Since automobiles were banned on Mackinac a and golf.
century ago, everything—except ambulances and fire I highly recommend the island carriage tour, which
engines—travels by horse-drawn vehicle, bicycles, or stops along the way at Wings of Mackinac, Butterfly
shank’s mare. Conservatory, and Arch Rock (falling sheer to white sand
Not as onerous as it sounds. Most restaurants and and water below). The sound of hooves, the smell of veg-
accommodations are within a mile of the city Visitor’s etation (and horses), and the up-close views of Lady Slip-
Center on Main Street, where historic Fort Mackinac pers and Trillium as you amble by linger long after.
looms, just steps above it all. Steep steps to be sure, Horse note: A herd of more than 600 is stabled over
but island services have made every effort to make the
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ger over a delightful luncheon on the ter- Best of all, Mackinac Island is fun. Even
race of Fort Mackinac Tea Room, gazing when it rains, you’re snug in a carriage,
out over the harbor. listening to the clip-clop of hooves and
That view is a spur to join Captain Bruce the patter of water on the roof. No stalled
Fink on his 40-foot catamaran, the Mackinaw traffic, no honking horns—just the patient
Breeze. He’ll guide you on a 90-minute voy- horses walking their rounds.
age, with a glorious view of the shoreline, as For more information, visit <www.
well as Round and Bois Blanc Islands. mackinacisland.org>.
Another afternoon, sign on for the Light-
house Cruise, during which you will pass un-
der the five-mile long Mackinac Bridge, and
View of Marina from the Pink Pony. around some of the noted lighthouses that
kept the lake sea trade on course.
Visitors can watch costumed inhabitants, and Having built up an appetite, you’ll find
enjoy reenactments of daily life. numerous delightful establishments to as-
Mackinac Island’s lively history in great suage it. Dinner at Grand Hotel (jackets and
part stemmed from its fur trading activities ties for gentlemen, dresses for ladies) is a spe-
that continued into the 1830s. It’s proud to cial treat. At Mission Point Resort’s Goodfel-
encompass Michigan’s only original Revolu- lows Grill, the braised lamb shank was the
tionary War fort, whose compound includes most tender and flavorful I ever have eaten.
14 buildings. Today, soldiers in 1880s uni- Fudge is a community staple, with a
forms interact with visitors, demonstrating constellation of candy shops offering varied
skills with US Army Springfield 45-70 rifles flavors of that ambrosial treat.
and cannon salutes over the harbor. Off-island forays may include the Museum
A few steps down the bluff, you can lin- of Ojibwe Culture in St. Ignace, Michigan. Approaching Grand Hotel.
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Big Gay News >
[ Written & Compiled by Bradley Traynor ]
NATIONAL
IOWA GROUP HOPES TO OUST
PRO-GAY-MARRIAGE JUSTICES
The Des Moines Register reports that
Iowa conservative activist Bob Vander
Plaats, who failed to receive the Repub-
lican gubernatorial nomination in June,
has announced he’s starting a group called
Iowa for Freedom. It aims to oust three
of the Iowa Supreme Court justices who
were part of the unanimous 2009 ruling
that led to the legalization of same-sex
marriage in the state. The trio will be on
the ballot in November. Vander Plaats
told reporters, “They clearly legislated
from the bench by saying Iowa will be a
same-sex marriage state.” He added that
the ultimate goal of the organization is to
“preserve liberty, and protect our rights.”
CALIFORNIA SAME-SEX
COUPLES MUST WAIT TO WED
DURING PROP 8 APPEAL
According to the Associated Press, a
three-judge panel of the 9th US Circuit
Court of Appeals has imposed an emer-
gency stay on Chief US District Court
Judge Vaughn Walker’s ruling that Cali-
fornia’s Prop 8, banning same-sex mar-
riage, was unconstitutional. He had or-
dered state officials to stop enforcing Prop
8. The stay effectively means no same-sex
marriages will take place in California
until the appellate court has had a chance
to rule in the case. It agreed to fast-track
consideration of the case, scheduling oral
arguments for the week of December 6. A
ruling isn’t likely until early next year.
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tional, former Hollywood, Florida, police
officer Mike Verdugo, who lost his job af-
ter it came to light that he starred in a gay
adult film, will be able to keep his police
certification. Although the Hollywood
Police Department sought to have his
certification revoked, the Florida Depart-
ment of Law Enforcement voted unani-
mously to let him keep it.
WORLD
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> News & Politics
Stonewalling
and the Stonewall Legacy
Target and Twin Cities Pride Keep Mum on Sponsorship
[ by John Townsend ]
A
fter Mark Dayton won the Democratic stler said the organization deemed Johnson
“was not supportive. He comes off that way
gubernatorial primary on August 10, initially. He really engages people in conver-
his Republican opponent, Tom Emmer, sation. He’s really nice, and then all of a sud-
den, he gives people a free Bible, and tells
swiftly launched hyperbolic ads warn- them they’re going to hell, because they are
ing that Dayton and Independence Party sinners—homosexuality is a sin. He kind of
candidate Tom Horner want to “impose” has this bait-and-switch thing. It undermines
the festival’s message of inclusivity.”
same-sex marriage on Minnesotans. When asked about the difference be-
tween excluding Johnson and not exclud-
Target Corporation recently donated of an appearance of a double standard. ing Target, Belstler replied, “Right. No.
$150,000 to MN Forward, a political ac- After applying for a booth at this year’s I understand. Target has a very different
tion committee that backs antigay Emmer. Twin Cities Pride Festival, Wisconsin evan- message. They don’t bait and switch onsite.
Ironically, Target is known for its inclusion gelist Brian Johnson was rejected, because They are very family-oriented.”
of GLBT employees. he proselytized at past festivals. When Belstler was referring to Target’s spon-
The Twin Cities Pride (TCP) mission TCP told him he could not pass out Bibles soring TCP’s popular kids-friendly family
statement proclaims: “It is the mission of at this year’s festival in Minneapolis’s Lor- section that offers a variety of activities.
Twin Cities Pride to commemorate and ing Park—a public space—he exercised his Indeed, it is a positive for the many pro-
celebrate our diverse heritage, inspire the First Amendment right in court. US Dis- gressive yet traditional families who at-
achievement of equality and challenge dis- trict Court Judge John Tunheim ruled that tend Pride, but may not feel they have the
crimination.” Johnson had a right to evangelize there, as
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ed. Johnson is honest about his homophobia agreement, or is it Twin Cities Pride’s nization, which, like other 501(c)(3) groups,
and heterosexism, but is excluded. agreement?” is beholden to generosity, a problem enough
The Minneapolis Park and Recreation Carlson replied, “That information is in good times, and much more so in the
Board’s openly gay President, John Erwin, proprietary.” present aftermath of economic meltdown.
weighed in on its website on June 22: “Ask- I asked Carlson, “Is there a clause about On August 16, I attended TCP’s Annual
ing the Minneapolis Park Board to exclude confidentiality about the donation?” Meeting.
someone from a public space because they Carlson replied, “I don’t know. I would I asked what amount Target donated to
have a differing view is a dangerous prec- not be able to share specifics.” TCP. Belstler responded that TCP’s con-
edent. I happen to wholeheartedly agree Enhancing the cloak of secrecy was Tar- tract with Target contained a confidential-
with the message of Twin Cities Pride. I’m get’s GLBT workplace group. I simply want- ity clause, just as every TCP sponsorship
gay myself. But I also believe in every per- ed to know its general reactions and possible contract does.
son’s right to free speech and expression.” action plans in light of the donation. When I asked Belstler if TCP would
Let’s put Johnson’s case in perspective. I played phone tag with Diversity Con- join the GLBT community it serves in con-
The first Gay Pride marches were poten- sultant Bradley Wagner to set up a time to demning Target for contributing $150,000
tially perilous for participants, because of converse. His voicemails were rote: “Thank to MN Forward, Scallen stated that TCP
homophobic onlookers. The Stonewall you again for reaching out. I did talk to my could not take a position without jeopardiz-
Riot of 1969 is remembered for the gay colleagues here, and really, for any inquiries ing its 501(c)(3) status.
community’s defiance of New York City of this nature, we’re really going through When I asked Belstler if TCP would
cops in league with the Mafia. The first the Target media hotline.” join the boycott against Target, Scallen
Gay Pride took place a year later, a direct Daniel Duty, Target Director of Strate- stated that it could not, because it would
outgrowth of Stonewall. gic Partnerships and Vendor Negotiations, violate the organization’s 501(c)(3) status.
In contrast, according to Belstler, TC also gave me the impersonal touch when I In sum, TCP, like any number of GLBT
Pride has “a safety and security mix of hired left a voicemail for him with his assistant, organizations, is at the mercy of corporate
police officers, private [Avalon] security, and e-mailed him. He e-mailed me back caprice.
and volunteers.” succinctly: “Thanks for your note. Some- A partial solution for TCP and oth-
Belstler states that the amount paid for one from our Communications Team will ers might be 501(c)(4) status—like that of
the foregoing will be posted on the TCP be reaching out to you.” OutFront Minnesota—which would allow
website in December. Curiously, Carlson e-mailed me: “Dan- them to take firmer political stands.
To delve into the relationship between iel Duty shared your request for an inter- However, in the wake of January’s Citi-
Target and Pride, I attempted to contact view with me. We are not able to grant your zens United decision by the US Supreme
Target CEO Gregg Steinhafel—which is request, as we are not providing team mem- Court, it would not circumvent the problem
like trying to get an audience with the Wiz- ber interviews.” Note that “providing” is of corporations giving tremendous sums to
ard of Oz at the Emerald City. Steinhafel’s the word she used, instead of “permitting.” special interests on the far right that mili-
assistant, Denise May, handed me off to I wonder: Are Steinhafel’s robotic wom- tate against the GLBT community.
Jessica Carlson, the spokesperson for Tar- en and gay men the crucial, useful cogs of We must ask: Are we seeing the begin-
get spokesperson Lena Michaud. Carlson the new corporate patriarchy? ning of the privatization of GLBT rights,
told me I was to attribute her comments Communicating with TC Pride was at so that corporations can seize control of
to Michaud, even though I never actually least a more human experience than at- discourse on it, while giving the false im-
talked to Michaud. I felt like I had woken tempting to do so with Target. pression of being progressive—and then,
up inside the movie Michael Clayton. Belstler, of course, does not have the byz- turning around, and feeding the enemy
I asked Carlson, “Are you giving cash to antine infrastructure that Steinhafel com- propaganda that stirs its ignorant reaction-
Twin Cities Pride, or are you giving trade mands. She is TCP’s only paid employee, ary politics and homophobia?
to Twin Cities Pride, or is there a combina- at $75,000 (from which she must obtain her This seems to be the real issue that TCP
tion—for the Silver Sponsorship level?” own health care, disability, and retirement must tackle. Forget the street evangelist.
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Carlson replied, “I cannot provide spe- benefits). Unlike Steinhafel’s handlers, she Clearly, both Target and TCP—an or-
cifics.” answered me directly and personally. ganization that purports to celebrate the
I asked Carlson, “Regarding your agree- Clearly, Target is a fortressed monolith, Stonewall legacy—are engaging in a lot of
ment with Twin Cities Pride, is it your and TC Pride is a primarily volunteer orga- stonewalling about their relationship.
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New & Politics > Lavender Lens [ Photos by Sophia Hantzes ]
TARGET PROTESTS
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Arts & Entertainment > On the Townsend [ by John Townsend ]
Just because a woman gets older doesn’t (952) 474-5951 women—some better than others for sure—
mean sexuality and sensuality must recede. <www.oldlog.com> but the playwrights have written ‘truth.’
Goodman’s nude and partially nude Women Certainly, it’s funny. Certainly, it has its
in Jars series attests to that with wondrous Lynn Musgrave was named 2008 The- sitcom moments. But the arc of these five
surrealist flair. ater Artist of the Year and Sally Ann Wright women’s lives touches nearly everyone who
Across the room, Searle’s dynamic Not- was named 2008 Best Nonmusical Actress sees it. And we’re discovering that women
So-Shy Angel emanates a feral quality, with in this column. They’re now in one of the are coming back for the second and third
breasts protruding, and long hair stream- best-kept-secret hit shows in Twin Cit- times. Nearly every night, on the way to the
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parking lot, we’re stopped by audience Brown muses, “One of the many productions, surely owing to Natalie
members who say, ‘You’re my friend, things that the Vietnam War was: a dis- Daradich as “good witch” Glinda and
Jane,’ or ‘You’re my sister, Kate.’” traction from the Civil Rights Movement, Vicki Noon as “bad witch” Elphaba.
Wright calls it “a wonderful opportuni- the cause for social justice in America that They clearly treasure their roles for all
ty to work with other talented women in a the status quo claimed to be bringing to they’re worth. These young women are
woman-focused piece. Although my char- the people of South Vietnam. We must mind-blowing.
acter is the ‘loser,’ I love her to pieces, be- remember that in 1968, both Martin Lu- Wicked overturns The Wizard of Oz’s
cause nothing gets her down! Vernadette’s ther King Jr. and Robert Kennedy were notion of who the villain really was.
hope and common sense keep her going, both assassinated merely two months Green-skinned Elphaba is misunder-
even in crisis. And I think she may be the apart. There was a war going on right stood, and strives for ideals. White-
funniest woman I’ve ever portrayed.” here in America. As the character is trying skinned Glinda, a grandiose narcissist,
to get a deferment as a ‘manic-depressive strives for fame. It becomes a remark-
THERAPY AND RESISTANCE schizophrenic with paranoid tendencies,’ able examination of a female friendship’s
Sept. 2-19
Dreamland Arts the story is also about the proclivities of complexly-layered bonds.
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<www.dreamlandarts.com>
reason and will, the capacity for decision, erald City into a surveillance state. The
and the ability to choose.” Wizard, played pitch perfectly by Don
Carlyle Brown is a brilliant drama-
Amedolia, is both monstrous and conge-
tist historian. His Are You Now or Have WICKED nial, as he would have Elphaba docilely
You Ever Been? searingly views Langston Through Sept. 19
Orpheum Theatre surrender her ideals to espionage in ser-
Hughes’s victimization in the McCarthy
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Era. Brown’s latest, Therapy and Resistance (800) 859-SHOW Act II, in which this conflict plays out,
a solo play in which he plays a draftee in <www.HennepinTheatreTrust.org>
never has been as powerful as in this tour.
the decade following McCarthyism, has
Act I, as usual, is glorious. The two acts
an atypical perspective to a period that has In its third local run, Wicked is more
together utterly defy gravity.
become rote in how it’s marketed. vivid and crisp than the two previous
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Arts & Entertainment > On the Record [ by Ed Huyck ]
Here’s a bit of cool electronic While Cloud Cult’s latest Polarizing and controversial, Montreal’s Arcade Fire
pop for the final hot days of won’t hit the streets in physi- M.I.A. is, at the very least, nev- continues to follow a path
summer. School of Seven cal form until September, er boring. On her third album, laid out by many artists in
Bells—a trio made up of it is available now on their the Sri Lankan firebrand con- the past: breakout debut with
Benjamin Curtis (formerly of website at <cloudcult.com>, tinues the personal revolution critical plaudits; difficult
Secret Machines), and twins and believe me, it’s worth an that fueled Arular and Kala. follow-up and resulting back-
Alejandra and Claudia Deheza early listen. The Minnesota As is often the case with third lash; and now, a “we don’t
(drawn from the wonderfully band always have dealt with albums, Maya sprawls quite care what you think” third
named On! Air! Library!)— expansive sounds and deep a bit, sometimes threatening release. After all, The Suburbs
make music that is loaded feelings, but it all comes into to lose control completely. is a concept album (the sub-
with space and mood, but also sharp focus on their latest Still, that only helps the ject is right there in the title),
has a real musical drive. If epic, Light Chasers. Fueled music here—even the by-the- and a double album to boot.
you were around in the early by lush arrangements and numbers tracks are driven by a You know what? It doesn’t
1990s, think Curve, but with subtle-but-driving songcraft, sense of danger and imminent matter what has happened
Elizabeth Fraser of the Coc- leader Craig Minowa takes disaster. At its best, Maya before in rock history or to
teau Twins as the vocalist. On listeners on a pretty amazing stands with the finest music of the band. Taken on its own,
their second album, School journey that is serious in tone 2010. Cool kiss-off “XXXO” The Suburbs is just a great,
of Seven Bells unleash 10 of without ever being somber. and the incendiary “Born great release. Conceived as a
their signature tunes, from the Give a lot of credit for that to Free” drive the first half of the missive from those oft-reviled
appropriately swirling “Dust the arrangements and playing, album, but don’t miss out on communities (several band
Devil” to “Joviann.” Lots of where decidedly nonrock- the punk vibe of “Meds and members spent their youth in
acts draw on the superficial ing horn and string sections Feds” or the throbbing electro a Houston suburb), the album
sounds of the past, but School help craft an elegant musical of “Teqkilla.” M.I.A. chooses is soaked in atmosphere, from
of Seven Bells embraces these backdrop. It’s the kind of to sing more here than on past the ennui of life far from the
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influences as just part of their album that can get away with albums, though when pressed, excitement to the moments
sound. Even a cut like “Car- subtitling two songs as part of she’ll return to her signature of excitement occasionally
marilla,” which brings to mind an “Invocation” and five more half-rapped/half-shouted style, punctuating the land. Above
genre godfathers Kraftwerk, as the “Journey to the Light.” all with some mixed results. all, it’s a platform for one of
also clearly is a song from In fact, this album deserves Still, it always has been about the best modern bands to
2010. Toss in the pure joy of more thought than I can give the full aural tapestry, and on unleash more than an hour of
opener “Windstorm,” and you it here. Just buy it, and hear it “Maya,” that has become even prime, vibrant, and thrilling
get plenty of musical pleasure. for yourself. more complex than the past. music.
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(612) 871-5553 (612) 354-3846
Shoot pool or play darts at your neighborhood bar------ <www.ticklesbar.com>
▼
the Twin Cities’s oldest GLBT establishment. Live Piano Music. Full-Service Menu, Happy Hour, DAVID
Sports on 10 Flat-Panel TVs, Pool, Darts.
02 BRASS RAIL
422 Hennepin. Ave., Mpls.
(612) 332-RAIL (7245) 09 TOWN HOUSE
<www.thebrassraillounge.com> 1415 University Ave. W., St. Paul
Completely remodeled elegant lounge featuring variety
(651) 646-7087 WHO
<www.townshousebar.com>
of entertainment: live piano, karaoke, male dancers. David
Fun neighborhood bar with a great mix of men and
women. Karaoke. Drag shows.
03 COALE'S WHAT
719 N. Dale St.
St. Paul, MN (651) 487-5829 Recipe: Mint Sweet Tart
Areanna Coale, proprietor. Now open. 1 oz. Bacardi Rum
An eclectic enigma filled with joy and happiness. 1 oz. Bacardi Limón
Everyone welcome!
04 FUSION
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Superior 1 oz. Absolut Citron
1 oz. Triple Sec
2919 Hennepin Ave., Mpls 1/2 oz. Crème de Menthe
(612) 824-6300
<www.fusionmpls.com>
Somerset• Wisconsin Splash of Rose’s Lime Juice
Splash of Grenadine
Daily Happy Hour 4-6 PM. 1/2 price beer, sushi, Shake
spring rolls. $4 signature martinis. Bottomless glasses
of wine!
Serve on the rocks or as a shot
05 GAY 90’S
408 Hennepin Ave., Mpls.
(612) 333-7755
WHEN
Thu., Fri., Every Other Wed.
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Upper Midwest’s Largest Gay Entertainment
WI BOOTLEGGERS BAR & GRILL 9:30 PM-2 AM
235 Main St.
Complex. Serving reasonably priced menu in main Somerset, WI (715) 247-2668
bar Wednesday-Sunday. <www.bootleggerssomerset.com>
06 GLADIUS
WHERE
19 Bar
1111 Hennepin Ave., Mpls. WI THE FLAME
(612) 332-9963 19 W. 15th St., Mpls.
1612 Tower Ave., Superior
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The New York Chic of Minneapolis. Gladius God- <www.SuperiorFlame.com>
desses Tuesday. Killer B's Karaoke Wednesday.
WHY
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INNUENDO
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LAVENDER'S THIRSTDAYS
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For club addresses, phone numbers, and Web
sites, see “Bar Advertiser Guide” on page 38.
For events not at bars, see <LavenderMagazine. FRIDAY, AUGUST 27
com/calendar>.
Live Piano: Gary Collins
5 PM. Tickles.
Live Piano: Jeff Olson
9 PM. Tickles.
SATURDAY, AUGUST 28
Elegance
9 PM. Town House.
SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 4
Lip Service
9 PM. Town House.
Official Pride Block Party
The Flame
The Main Club
Superior, WI
SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 5
Pride Drag Show Fund-raiser
Benefits Northland HIV/AIDS Groups
8 PM. The Main Club. Superior, WI.
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Cuisine > Off the Eaten Path
irst, an admission: While I’m a die-hard I marvel at what our earth produces, so I am a devoted
foodie, I take pride in the goal this column fan of chefs who combine those raw materials, trans-
seeks to fulfill, which is slightly different forming them into a unique and—in every sense of the
from that of others. Any decent food writer word—nourishing experience. In that quest, I usually
can criticize, and that has a valuable place, search for the different, the surprising—and often, the
F but my chief aim is to celebrate good food. out-of-the-way.
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> Off the Eaten Path
Charcuterie platter: chicken liver pâté, mortadella, head cheese, and pork terrine. Dining area.
Frye). Now in his own kitchen, his object is suit the handsome gentlemen’s-club decor. charcuterie. My heart skipped a food-geek
to not to bring French or Italian cuisine to The bar is comfortable, and even on a Mon- beat when our server mentioned the spicy
the Midwest, but to elevate Midwestern cui- day night, it attracted a surprising collection head cheese. As soon as it arrived, I dug
sine itself. Though the names of his dishes of hipsters and epicures. Have you heard? furiously into the jalapeño-topped piece o’
are all recognizable and approachable—so Being a food geek is now considered cool. heaven. However, in doing so, I believe I
much so that they are almost disappointing My dining partner and I melted over cheated the delicate, more subtle slices of
at first glance—do not expect to know what the Mint Julep ($9). Not to disparage the mortadella of their full impact.
comes out of the kitchen. mojito, but give me a julep any hot sum- The pork pâté with mustard was
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> Off the Eaten Path
Steak & Eggs: steak tartare, Bloody Mary oyster shooter, romaine hearts, toasted brioche, Fried Chicken, with cucumber salad, watermelon, cherry tomatoes, spoon bread.
egg in a hole.
another favorite, but following it with an voila: apparently…Mac & Cheese. Gee— “Vina Alberdi” Reserva ($12/$48) definitely
almost-too-smooth chicken liver pâté was I’d kind of like this guy to whip me up some was up to the task.
something I also would reverse on a return Pigs in a Blanket sometime. We finished with Sorbet of the Moment
visit. We sipped the crisp, charcuterie- I was curious enough to plow on to Gen- ($5). In that precise moment, it was cher-
friendly Domaine de Pellehaut ($7/$28), eral Tso’s Sweetbreads with Foie Fried Rice ry white pepper sorbet served over diced
which, despite its crispness, drew out and ($14). While I appreciated the switch from peaches.
embraced the smokiness in the meat. tofu or chicken to sweetbreads (imagine It will be very interesting to see how
Next was “Steak & Eggs” ($12)—steak a much silkier texture with a mild organ- Haute Dish’s frequently-changing menu
tartare, that is, heavily spiked with capers meat aftertaste), I personally would have evolves over time. Rumor has it that Schoe-
and mustard, and topped with onion. The enjoyed a little more kick. Of course, I’m nefeld plans to feature the heirloom tomato
egg is a pretty and very satisfying version of a spice fiend, so take my comment with a next. I’m imagining dishes with names like
August 27-September 9, 2010
“frog in a hole,” but it was the fiery Bloody grain of crushed red pepper. “Fries & Ketchup,” or perhaps a festive
Mary oyster shooter that won my heart. As the menu is set to change shortly, we version of “Cocktail Wienies with Tomato/
Mac & Cheese ($15) was similarly unrec- chose Steak & Potatoes ($18/$28 depend- Bourbon Sauce.” Maybe I don’t want to
ognizable as such, but I appreciated Schoe- ing on cut) over some of the other “Last” know. Surprise me.
nefeld’s over-the-top treatment. The cheese plates. While I enjoyed the inclusion of a
is tallegio, and the pasta isn’t exactly maca- marrow bone and gremolata, I found the Haute Dish
119 Washington Ave. N., Mpls
roni. Add meaty pieces of king crab, sprinkle steak slightly on the tough side. While (612) 338-8484
with tobiko and truffle-infused breadcrumbs, our server had several recommendations <www.haute-dish.com>
finish with another drizzle of olive oil, and for wine pairings, the full, spicy Rioja Alta
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Business Profile |
[ by Heidi Fellner ]
more pleasant.
Not everyone wants to leave their apart-
ment eventually, however. Many other
HOMECARE long-term care facilities have a history of
being unfriendly, or just uninformed about
ASSIST the needs of the GLBT community.
Stories of neglect and discrimination
reached the ears of Homecare Assist owner
Michele Roberts (then an employee), who
▼ has a lifelong passion for working with
the elderly. She had many friends in the
GLBT community, so she was appalled to
hear of the poor treatment they received.
As Roberts says, “All people need care—
and safe care—and I wanted to be someone
who was able to make that happen.
Roberts, who eventually took over the
company, ensures that her aides and nurs-
es are trained to be sensitive to the needs
of their GLBT clients.
Michele Roberts. Photo Courtesy of Homecare Assist
In Roberts’s words, “We’re not the only
safe place, but we have set ourselves apart
a bit by proactively learning and educating
ourselves about their needs.”
For more full-time care, Homecare
Assist’s rates are usually comparable to
My family went through an ordeal re- or less than what a long-term care facility
cently: moving my grandmother from her would charge. For people who may need
one-bedroom apartment to senior hous- care just a few times a week, the cost is
ing. Her new home, affiliated with her be- much lower. Furthermore, it is a smaller
loved Moravian church, is more than most agency that can be more flexible about
of us could ask for in her circumstances— meeting an individual’s varying needs.
spacious, comfortable, and flexible enough Roberts explains, “[A client’s] support
to provide her with more care if she needs system may not be a traditional family. It
it. Moreover, homemade meals, daily so- may be through friends, or a partner. And
cial activities, and outings keep her quality then, what happens when they get busy?
of life high. She was not exactly thrilled to If there’s a problem, and someone can’t be
be leaving her apartment, though, and our there, we can.”
family was hard-pressed to help her scale Homecare Assist deals with long-term
back her intimidating amount of posses- care insurance. It also will work with peo-
sions. But it was inarguable that caring for ple who pay for their services directly.
herself, and keeping her apartment clean For more information on what the
and organized, became too much for her. company could provide for each indi-
For countless others like my grand- vidual and circumstance, call, or visit the
mother, it may have been helpful to have website.
information about Homecare Assist, an
inclusive, licensed agency that provides
home-care aides, nurse visits, medication NAME OF COMPANY: HOMECARE ASSIST
YEAR FOUNDED: 1990
setup and monitoring, end-of-life care, PRESIDENT/CEO: MICHELE ROBERTS
NUMBER OF EMPLOYEES: 35
transportation—and even help with ba- PHONE: (763) 557-1126
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FRIDAY, AUGUST 27
Previews. At Theatre in the Round’s annual benefit,
actors will perform short scenes from the nine shows
in the upcoming season, from Rosencrantz & Guil-
denstern Are Dead to The Fantasticks. It features a
silent auction, plus a desert and ice cream bar. Doors
open at 6:30 PM. Show begins at 8 PM. Theatre in the Addiction Info &
Round, 245 Cedar Ave., Mpls. (612) 333-2919. <www.
theatreintheround.org>. Treatment_______
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Spilling Me Softly; or Once the Gulf Goes Black, It
Never Goes Back. Brave New Workshop drills deep
into current events. The truth is always funnier than
fiction, so you may as well laugh while you get your
update on local, national, and world news. 8 PM.
Through Oct. 30. Brave New Workshop, 2605 Hen-
nepin Avenue, Mpls. (612) 332-6620. <www.bravenew
workshop.org>. Financial Services______
SATURDAY, AUGUST 28
Say Thanks Day. Minnesotans say “thanks” to Min-
nesota’s service members, while enjoying a scenic
Walk/5K Run along the Mississippi River. Live music
Attorneys______
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and great food. Free for all military service members
and their immediate families, as well as children under
12. What a great way to enjoy the day, and support a
great cause! Check-in at 9 AM. Sign up now. Harriet
Island, St. Paul. <www.thankmntroops.org>.
THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 9
Concrete and Grass Music Festival. The fourth an-
nual festival returns to St. Paul’s Mears Park. The free
three-day event welcomes music lovers of all ages.
It features classical, indie rock, opera, hip-hop, jazz,
punk rock, and blues on two stages. Through Sept. 11.
<www.concreteandgrass.com>.
FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 10
Cat on a Hot Tin Roof. The play is set on a planta-
tion deep in the heart of the Mississippi Delta. Brick
and Maggie struggle through an unhappy marriage.
Funeral Services___ ___
The entire family gathers to celebrate the birthday of
Brick’s father, Big Daddy. Throughout the celebration,
family secrets are revealed, as Maggie vies for Brick’s
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love. This production is intended for mature audi-
ences. Through Sept. 10. 420 E. Main St., Anoka. (763)
433-2510. <www.lyricarts.org>.
The Glass Menagerie. Amanda, an overbearing sin-
gle mother, lives on memories of her flower-scented
youth, while her children bear the weight of her unre-
alistic dreams for their futures. But when a gentleman
caller offers false hope to the family, their precarious
world shatters, with haunting results. Through Oct. 17.
Jungle Theater, 2951 Lyndale Ave. S., Mpls. For ticket
information call: (612) 822-7063. <www.jungletheater.
com>.
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Rock of Ages. This five-time Tony-nominated musi-
cal stars Tony Award-nominee and American Idol
finalist Constantine Maroulis. In 1987, on the Sunset
Strip, a small-town girl met a big-city dreamer, and
in LA’s most legendary rock club, they fell in love to
the greatest songs of the ’80s. Oct. 19-24, Orpheum
Theatre, 910 Hennepin Avenue, Mpls. <www.hen
nepintheatretrust.org>.
ON GOING
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Backtalk > Dateland [ by Jennifer Parello ]
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Hmmm… I’m thinking. I get it! The Indian line was created by an Indian gay.
Hmmm… je réfléchis. Je comprends! La file indienne fut créée par un indien gai.
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Backtalk > Consider the Source [ by Julie Dafydd ]
insure myself for $300,000. His formula holding up my bed. we had bumped into each other—sitting
was simple: annual income, multiplied by He advised that I insure all my personal around the low-end pool.
the number of stars. property for $10,000, saying that was the Bye for now.
Imagine Dick’s horror when he learned absolute minimum. I told him I’d insure my Kiss, kiss.
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[ by Meryl Cohn ]
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known her to date men, but she’s a wild
card, so we didn’t think much of it.
Last week, Charlie asked if he could
sleep in our basement, because “his girl-
friend” and he broke up. When we asked
him about it, he said Cara had gone back
to an ex of hers, a woman. He also said
that she was pregnant with triplets, and
that the babies were his.
The multiple-birth information put up
a red flag for us. We asked a few female
friends of ours about it, and sure enough,
Cara has been trying for a couple of years
to get pregnant with frozen sperm and
fertility drugs. She must have given up
on paying for the frozen stuff, and found
Charlie. Of course, the fertility drugs
probably created the triplets.
How do we handle the situation?
Charlie seems so proud and distressed,
so upset about his “breakup.” He thinks
Cara’s lesbian relationship is a phase, and
that she’ll come back to him.
Do we tell him the whole story, and let
him know that he has been used? Or do we
mind our own business, and just let him
bunk on the mattress in our basement?
—Gay Gardeners
use rubbers.
© 2010 Meryl Cohn. Address questions and correspondence
to <msbehavior@aol.com>. She is the author of Do What I Say:
Ms. Behavior’s Guide to Gay and Lesbian Etiquette (Houghton
Mifflin). Signed copies are available directly from the author.
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