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Confucius Analects
Kirill O. Thompson
Philosophy East and West, Volume 67, Number 3, July 2017, pp. 887-907 (Article)
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RELATIONAL SELF IN CLASSICAL CONFUCIANISM:
LESSONS FROM CONFUCIUS ANALECTS
Kirill O. Thompson
Department of Foreign Languages and Literatures
National Taiwan University
Introduction
Ones translating, reading, and understanding of texts from other eras and traditions
are conditioned by tacit assumptions built into ones own vocabulary and psycho-
cultural understanding of selfof which one tends to be only intuitively aware.
Thus,for example, when encountering the vocabulary in Classical Chinese for I,
me, mine, self, et cetera, modern readers are inclined to import their own
linguistic, cognitive, and cultural intuitions about these terms, unconsciously and
without second thought. This has been particularly problematic for modern Western
readers of the Confucian classics, who tend to take self as ontologically and ethi
callyindividual. However, recent psychological accounts of self as relational, West-
ern as well as Eastern, offer a new opening for contemporary readers to understand
the implicit classical Confucian notion of self that animates the early texts. The
present study first traces developments in Western philosophical accounts of self
from, roughly, the modern self to the postmodern self to the relational self; it then
explores how the relational view opens the way to a fresh understanding of self in
classical Confucianism by focusing on the expressions for self used in Confucius
Analects.
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the Christian soul and on to increasingly secularized variations under the rubric of
mind, notably by the modern philosophers.2
This postmodern questioning of the modern conception of the self has led to
aplethora of new accounts of self and personhood, generally viewed as the re
flection of ones sociocultural milieu. Countering the idea of unity and autonomy,
postmodernists have stressed the multiplicity, passivity, and constructed nature of
personal selfhood. However effective they have been in breaking up the modernist
conception of self, postmodern accounts have tended not to square adequately with
the psychological facts or be sufficiently explanatory. Generally, we do not usually
experience people (or ourselves) as quite so multiple, passive, or thrown together
as postmodern theory demands. The people of our experience tend to follow rela
tively coherent lifelines. They engage in critical reflection; they choose alternative
courses of action, occasionally even jumping into alternative sociocultural outlooks
and milieus. Their grasp of ethical principles and moral values is often determined by
their own feelings and critical reflections, et cetera, and is not simply a reflection of
contemporary trends. Ironically, it appears that postmodern thinkers would have had
to transcend the constraints of their account of the self in order to have formulated
their own creative theories.
Probably the most formidable empirical challenge to the postmodern view
comes from research on identical twins. In study after study of identical twins who
were separated in infancy and lived without communication (sometimes even with-
out knowledge of each other) in very different circumstances, it is found that they
tend, for example, to have virtually identical personalities, styles, tastes in colors,
clothes, foods, and even moral attitudes, to the extent that they drive the same make
and color of automobile; marry a spouse with the same name, temperament, and
appearance; work in the same profession; and so on.3 This is not to argue for biolog-
ical determinism or a return to the modernist conception of the enclosed, bounded
self; rather, I am just registering that people tend not to be so passive, multiple, or
anarchic as postmodern theory demands, even if they do, in many respects, especially
on the surface level, tend to reflect their sociocultural milieu. Many personal traits
and preferences are inbornsuch as athletic prowess and cognitive aptitudeor are
ingrained in early childhood, and persist through peoples lives as they adjust, adapt,
and attune themselves to changes in their milieus. In sum, people display more
purpose, direction, and consistency in their lifelines than postmodern theory seems
to be able to countenance.
In light of these considerations, I regard the postmodern view of the self and
personhood as a transitional view that is based largely on exploring the implications
of denying the modernist view of the self. Postmodernism likely just offers the pre-
lude to a more adequate accounting of the self and personhood. In recent years, steps
have been taken toward just such a more adequate view under the rubric of a rela-
tional view of self, particularly as developed and elaborated in books and articles by
the Swarthmore University psychologist Kenneth Gergen (2009) and National Taiwan
University psychologist Kwang-Kuo Hwang (2012).4
other may lead in the joint process of change, yet neither remains untouched,
unaffected.
Given that the very term self begs a number of questions about the nature
ofpersons, I suggest following Kenneth Gergen that the expression relational self
be replaced by relational being.10 (Heidegger similarly sought to avoid question
begging about subjectivity and selfhood by commencing his Existential analysis
byspeaking of Dasein or Being-there rather than of self or person.) This is to em-
phasize that we are not talking about selves in relation or just relational selves,
expressions that put the person-as-self aheadand independentof interpersonal
relationship. Tellingly, the expression relational being stresses that relations are the
thing; they are confluences in the flow of life, and people are shaped, characterized,
and identified in and through their relations.11
What about Confucius terms for self? Are they consistent with the relational ac-
count? In the following, we consider several terms used by Confucius in the Analects
that correspond to the English word self. First, the Analects records Confucius as
using the term ji for self in several senses. In his negative formulation of the
Golden Rule (that is, the Silver Rule), he uses ji as an indexical to mark off oneself
in contrast to other, with no special implications about the status or content of
self: That which one does not want done to oneself, one does not do to others
(12.21). In other instances, he uses ji to refer to the basic, raw selfthe self that has
to be worked, that is, relationalized, via learning and cultivation. For example,
he gives the admonition to Master oneself [or the self] by practicing the rites; this
is how to be humane (ren ) (12.1). As the raw material of self, ji corresponds to the
Is this evidence that early Confucianism not only recognized the private inner
world of self but was preoccupied with the subtle impulses that lie hidden in ones
inner space? I would contend, instead, that this passage presents introspection in just
the way that it is understood in relational psychology, for which introspection tends
to focus on ones interpersonal relationships, even unrealized but hoped-for relation-
ships. The expressions the hidden is apparent and the minute is evident serve to
show that ones impulses and intentions are not utterly private inner possessions of
self, but rather are factors in the overall play of ones intentions and conduct that,
ultimately, perceptive others can discern. Does uniqueness (du ) refer back to a
private inner self? Again, I would argue that uniqueness here refers to the unique
sets of relations in which each person is born and constituted in his or her flow of life.
In a sense, ones relationality means that ones conduct and performances are reflec-
tions of ones originative, nurturing, and constitutive sets of relations. Hence, ones
relationality, ones nexus in bundles of relations, does not mean that one does not
have the responsibility or initiative we tend to think of as belonging to autonomous
individual agents: relationality involves immanent responsibility to and for the other
relata. Moreover, the notion of initiative reflects the importance not only of playing
ones role as relatum but of making good on, and for, the relationship, even on and
for ones relationships as a whole. For better or for worse, ones achievements reflect
back on ones relationships, even if only indirectly or at a distance.
The following lines, which climax Zhongyong chapter 1, again, are often taken
to refer to the inner world of consciousness:
The pre-aroused state of joy and anger, sorrow, and happiness is called equilibrium
(zhong ) [tranquility, equipoise]; aroused, timely, and in due proportion is called har-
mony (he ). Equilibrium is the great root of the empire and harmony is the penetrating
way of the empire.
From the relational perspective, we admit that this describes a mental state but not in
the sense of a private inner world of self. It must be noted that this account of the
pre-aroused and aroused states of mind is descriptive of the highly cultivated person
who normally keeps his mind tranquil, but is prescriptive for others in the sense of
apsycho-emotional model or goal to emulate and realize: relationally, one is to
maintain a tranquil heart in equilibrium in order to be fully receptive and respon-
sivewhen matters come up. While scholars are often curious about the feel or q uality
of this mental state itself, this is not the point. What was important about such inner
After critiquing theories of self and mental health that identify inner unity and consis-
tency or coherence as prerequisites, Kenneth Gergen elaborates on the basic fact
ofthe multiplicity of peoples relational self/being. Simply put, even in the most
ordinary everyday life, people need to present themselves differently and interact
indiffering ways according to relationship and context.18 Gergen suggests that peo-
ple tend to relate and develop in three basic ways, through (1) modeling others, (2)
becoming somebody, and (3) co-acting with others (2009, pp. 135ff.).
(2) Becoming somebody refers to coming into being anew by starting to play a
new role, assume a new identity, or the like. Gergen writes:
With my mother, I come into being as a child; with my children, I come into being as a
parent, and so on. Each relationship will bring me into being as a certain kind of person,
and the actions that I acquire will enter the repository of potentials for future use....
Weare prepared for a future in which we imitate various versions of ourselves.... [A]s
the years accumulate, so do the laminations of possibility.... In the latter years, one
mayif one daresdraw from an enormous repertoire of potentials. One may re-visit
and re-kindle in ways that are impossible for the young. When we feel most private, most
deeply into ourselves, we are in some other sense most deeply connected with others
through whom we have learned to become a self.Stephen Mitchell19
(3) Co-action refers to the interactive scenarios that we play out in the context of
our relationships. Gergen gives the vivid example of learning to dance. When we
learn to dance we learn to
move our bodies in the prescribed way; we also watch our partners, and possibly imitate
them as well.... We learn the coordinated activity of the dance itself, how it goes when
we move in this direction, or in that. In the same way, I learn what it is to participate in
the give and take of an argument, in classroom discussion, scenarios of emotion ... and
so on. In sum, all meaning/full relations leave us with anothers way of being, a self that
we become through the relationship, and a choreography of co-action. From these three
sources, we emerge with enormous possibilities of being. (italics added)
From the relational perspective, ethics and moralitywhether as designed for au-
tonomous selves or for relational selves/beingwhich give sharp definitions of
what is good and what actions are right, create situations in which so-called
bad or evil and wrong are highlighted and cover ever wider spectra of conduct
and affairs, which in turn leads to increased dissonance, disharmony, and conflict.
From the relational perspective, however, there are no inherent wrongs or evils. In
the relational analysis, it tends to be differences of style or misalignments that
aredeclared bad or wrong. Gergen calls this effect the formation of virtuous evil
(Gergen 2009, p. 358). He points out that this happens not only in obvious conflicts
between, say, people of different cultures or within one person of mixed heritage,
buteven in one persons feeling the pull of competing life goods, such as between
career and family or different love interests (Gergen 2009, p. 359):
It is good to defend ones country, but it is also good to avoid killing others. In every
choice, I am both moral and immoral. For every relationship of which I am a part, I am
also part of another relationship for which my present action may be misbegotten.... At
every moment, the voice of the disapproving judge hovers over the shoulders.
Something similar happens with the articulation of universal ideals. They are origi-
nally intended to bridge our differences and underwrite harmony between us.
However, such articulations often result in a hierarchy in which good and evil are
In the first passage above, the Laozi is advising the king to be empty-minded, that is,
to be open-minded and responsive to all of the perspectives of his subjects because,
as king, he is the leader of many different groups of peoples with their own respective
outlooks and valuesand should be responsive to all of them. Indeed, elsewhere,
the Laozi notes that the king refers to himself as a motherless orphan; this is to
underscore that the king has no personal relations and thus is open and fair in
hisrelations with all of the people. In the second passage, Zhuangzi is advising his
readers to keep in mind that peoples views and values are all perspectival, and thus
to be responsive to them in context rather than to stick to rigid views and values and
quarrel with them until the end of time.
Classical Confucian thought was centered on relational self/being. Grasping this re-
alization puts us in a stronger position to understand classical Confucian concepts,
values, and precepts. Additionally, it places us in a stronger position to read and
translate early Confucian texts. Importantly, the fact that major, lasting, influential
traditions, such as Confucianism and Daoism, have bodied forth a relational ac-
count, not just of the person, but of all sorts of human values, customs, practices,
ethics, forms of life, et cetera, lends prima facie persuasiveness to the relational view
Analects, Chapter 1
1.2Few who are filial or fraternal would be likely to offend against their superiors.
... The exemplar devotes himself to the root. When the root is established,
theWay unfolds. As to being filial and fraternal, they are the roots of being
humane.
In the relational self/being account, parent-child relations and sibling relations usu-
ally tend to play primal roles in a persons formation: people enter life and take shape
via confluences of parental and sibling relations. Hence, being filial and fraternal
constitute a person, and set the pattern for his or her engaging in and responding to
other relations later. For Confucius, filial and fraternal relations not only cast and
seta persons mold; they yield his or her inner sense of norms for navigating inter
personal relations in general. Filiality can be said to be returning to prominence in
East Asia due both to Chinas single-child policy and to the rise of small nuclear
families across modern urban East Asia.
1.9Tend carefully to the funerary rites and pay respect to the long departed; then
the peoples attunement will be ample.
Relational self/being extends beyond the physical body: one remains constituted
bythe impact and remembrance of ones forebears. For their part, departed elders
considered the course and fate of their progeny. Zhu Xi naturally felt at one with his
ancestors not only in spirit but in that he felt that their blood coursed through his
veins and their qi flowed in his body. Indeed, at certain junctures, people will pause
to consider how the departed would regard their situation.25
Confucius understood and respected that other societies had different customs, dif-
ferent patterns of realizing relational being. Hence, he was particularly courteous
and respectful in inquiring into their ways. This was his second-order morality and
manner of forming trans-cultural relations. His larger quest was to gain a sense of the
range of customs or patterns of relational being and of which ones were perhaps
more harmony-engendering and co-propitious.
1.12In ritual action, harmony is prized. The Way of the late kings was beautiful in
this regard....
1.13Being faithful comes close to being appropriate, it means being able to repeat
ones words. Being respectful comes close to propriety, it means distancing
oneself from shame and disgrace. Not departing from ones parental intimacy,
it means that one honors them as models.
1.14The exemplary person in eating does not just eat his fill and in dwelling does
not just seek comfort. He is attentive to affairs, circumspect in speech, and he
frequents the company of people who mastered the Way in order to adjust
himself. He is one who takes joy in learning.
In light of relational being, eating and dwelling are basic interpersonal activities,
tobe done with relational sensitivity and propriety. Our feasts and creature
comforts are to be sharedand should be aimed at facilitating relational harmony,
rather than, say, to stir awe at ones riches. Attentiveness and circumspection are
alsorelationally directed, for example how to handle affairs and how to communi-
cate in view of relational being. Presumably, artisans of the Way would present
models, indices, references for gauging the balance and quality of ones own rela-
tional endeavors. Learning is essentially about cultivating ones responsive sensitivity
toward, and in, relationships. Since the goal of study is to refine ones aptitude for
harmony-engendering relational conduct, study itself is a joy in that it yields a d
eeper
appreciation of life.
Analects, Chapter 4
Humane people are those who are deemed masters, virtuosos, at conducting inter-
personal relationships. Indeed, life among such people would be secure, balanced,
and culturally educative and embellished.
4.4The Master said, If ones will is set on being humane, one will tend to be free
of wrong.
4.8The Master said, If at dawn one discerns the Way, at dusk one can face death.
The Way represents the tapestry and stream of upright human relationships. One who
starts life with a measure of appreciation and discernment into the Way in this sense
will feel fulfilled and free of regret at lifes end.
4.10The Master said, In their actions in the empire, exemplars are free of biases
for and against. Rather, they proceed with appropriateness.
The exemplars are not parochial and do not stick to abstract or artificial codes, but
strive always to act with aplomb and appropriateness in view of relationship and
situation.
4.25The Master said, The virtuous will not live in isolation; they will certainly
have neighbors.
In Confucius relational view of self/being and life, the virtuous indicates those
who are open, sensitive, and appropriately responsive to others. Such congenial
people will surely flourish with others and usually tend to have company.
4.26The Master said, If in your friendships, you are unrelenting, you will find
yourself an outcast.
In this passage, Confucius displays his emotional intelligence about human relation-
ships: one cannot simply push directly and work actively for what one feels is right
or wants; at times, one must also be somewhat soft and sensitive to the mood and
ambiance of the othersand tread lightly.
Notes
This article was originally a paper presented at the Third Seminar of the International
Forum on Confucian Culture in East Asia, Confucian Premodernity, Modernity, Post-
modernity (III): Centering on Confucianisms Postmodernity (
(): =
()), jointly sponsored by the Academy of Korean Studies
and the Institute for Advanced Studies in Humanities and Social Science of National
Taiwan University in Taipei, Taiwan on May 2829, 2010. A revised version of the
paper was presented at Colloque International: Self-Talk: Forms and Practices,
hosted by the Institut des Humanits de Paris at the Universit Paris Diderot on
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