Beruflich Dokumente
Kultur Dokumente
Professor Cole
English 234
28 February 2017
Aminatta Forna’s novel, The Memory of Love, tells many stories: stories of trauma, love,
and war. Of his story Elias Cole is the narrator, the man on his deathbed, the victim of a disease
that will soon take his life. As he tells his story from his own biased viewpoint, readers must
decide for themselves how unethical or delusional Elias truly was in pursuing the wife of his
colleague. Near the end of the book, however, readers see that Elias is not simply a fool in love,
but an abuser of power and complicit in murder. Forna contrasts the courageous, trusting
character of Julius with the victim-minded, cowardly person of Elias, who is not the victim of
power abuse, but the perpetrator, manipulating Saffia and the circumstances around their
disorder in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for
admiration and a lack of empathy for others. But behind this mask of ultraconfidence lies a
fragile self-esteem that's vulnerable to the slightest criticism.” This definition amounts to a
portrait of Elias Cole. Falling short of his professional ambitions and unsatisfied in his love life,
he is jealous of Julius who is flourishing and happily married to Saffia, who, as Elias imagines, is
the perfect woman. The first time Elias sees Saffia, he is struck with “a surge of feeling, that then
nameless emotion,” clearly referring to desire or lust (Forna 6). When he realizes Saffia is
married to Julius, his successful and vigorous colleague, this lust manifests into an obsession
Saffia instantly becomes a token, a symbol, a “holy grail” of success and contentment that he is
determined to win.
Older Elias admits that his inner competitiveness with Julius was just like the other
jealousies in his life, including the jealousy he felt toward his “absurdly happy” younger brother
while they were children (289). He recounts behaviors that a psychologist like Adrian may have
conceived as psychopathic, such as tormenting his ill brother by pinching him all over his body
and putting his water out of reach, all because he was jealous of his brother’s positive attitude in
the midst of physical illness (52-53). Such behaviors go far past “sibling rivalry;” they lack any
empathy, therefore suggesting that Elias had much deeper narcissistic complexes from the time
he was a child. His hate of Julius mirrors his hate for his brother, resenting Julius’ boldness and
larger-than-life charisma.
Elias pursues Saffia aggressively. All is done in the name of uncontrollable love for her:
“No woman had ever produced such a restlessness in me,” Elias explains. “...the affection I felt
for those creatures was like comparing the pleasure of a summer’s day to the terror of a storm”
(97). He is lost in a “tempest” that fuels his recklessness, and he justifies his actions by her not
I think it would be wrong to say I ever followed Saffia. In conversation the names of
places she liked to visit or where she did her shopping might arise. Later, I might jot
down the detail down in my notebook. And if I happened to find myself there at any of
those times, naturally I would look to see if she happened to be there also. (Forna 96).
In his narration he simply brushes over what had been clearly his stalking Saffia. Elias, though
honest, is troublingly unashamed of his past actions, shielding himself from the pain of the truth
Readers wonder as the story unfolds whether Saffia is somehow oblivious to Elias’
advances- highly unlikely, it seems- or if she lets his pursuit continue because she likes the
attention or even has romantic feelings toward Elias. Saffia’s lack of confrontation, however,
actually seems to reflect disorientation due to Elias’ manipulative antics. He knows just how far
to go without raising the red flags, so Saffia is left to try to navigate cautiously yet amiably
through his deception. For instance, when Elias visits unexpectedly while she is home alone,
Saffia does not welcome him in immediately. “Saffia regarded me in silence for a few
moments,” he explains. “‘Hello, Elias,’ a note in her voice, of weariness or caution. She did not
open the door, but held on to the handle” (Forna 98). Saffia is obviously grappling with adhering
social norms of courtesy while trying to discourage Elias’ advances. Elias, aware that she does
not intend to let him in, feigns ignorance of the social cue, a manipulative technique of
gaslighting that leaves her only the option of rudely sending him away or letting him inside.
Upon Julius’ arrest, Saffia does go to Elias out of desperation. While Saffia is miserably
distraught, meanwhile Elias soaks in Saffia’s dependence on him. She cries after a few days have
passed, and Elias swoops in eagerly: “I put my arm around her. She neither resisted nor made to
move away…. Her head rested on my shoulder” (186). This does not signify any affection for
him, however; in fact, Elias recalls Saffia’s being detached and defeated, rejecting his offer to get
something to eat, and working tirelessly to find out what is going on with Julius. Instead of
letting Saffia’s love and heartbreak over her husband be a reality check on his expectations, Elias
instead retreats to his imagination, “to think what it might be like. That this was all mine,” he
fantasizes, “my home, lit up against the night. The sleeping woman inside my wife. Not sleeping
from exhaustion, fear, and whisky. But slumbering in peace. I wished Julius would never come
back” (187). Thus, the truth comes out in that final line, Elias’ deepest desire to take what
Elias’ dreams come true. Julius is dead, and Saffia, his holy grail, is now within his reach
to grasp. He exploits her vulnerable position by inserting himself into the void left by Julius,
giving her money to pay for the house and watching “how tired she was beginning to look, how
weary of it all” (Forna 271). In his book, Space and Trauma in the Writings of Aminatta Forna,
Dr. Ernest Cole explains that Elias’ proposal to Saffia not even a year after Julius’ death “attests
to his desperation and disregard for traditional values” because in Sierra Leone, “it is
disrespectful and dishonorable for Elias to make an offer of marriage to his late friend’s wife
during the period of mourning” (Cole 193). Saffia asks for time to consider his proposal, and he
waits just a month before asking her again. Her “yes” is a weary, defeated consent to an abuse of
power much like that which caused the death of her husband. If Elias truly loved Saffia, he
would have been more sensitive and patient to her mourning, and maybe he would not have
expected her to fall in love with him at all. His impatience with Saffia shows that his kind of
their “love triangle,” as he explains (Forna 290). He projects his dissatisfaction onto her during
their lovemaking, frustrated and paranoid by her restraint. Cole refers to this as “the paradox of
his accomplishment,” in that Elias “hopes to remodel his life and lay claim to Julius’ lifestyle,”
but Saffia’s memory of Julius isn’t replaced by Elias, her “memory of love obliterates all his
expectations of happiness” (Cole 194). This is the ultimate blow, the fact that he cannot live up
to Julius, and the thought makes him “jealous even of Saffia, what she kept inside and would not
share” (Forna 291). He becomes irrationally suspicious with her, reading into everything she
says and going through her personal papers and items. Meanwhile, Saffia is still recovering from
grief and confusion of her husband’s death, and is probably vaguely disgusted with the man she
was all but forced to marry, but she copes by maintaining her domestic responsibilities and being
civil to Elias as she feels is her duty. Elias is concerned not with her emotional health, but only
with her affection and attention, so when he cannot have it fully, he turns to Vanessa, ironically
Forna uses Adrian’s conversation with Mamakay about her father to not only reveal the
truth about Elias, but also the truth about war, its victims, and its perpetrators. Victim-minded
Elias is the opposite of confident, upbeat Julius. Elias feels entitled to happiness, wants the
approval of others because of his own insecurity, and, worst of all, is silent in face of injustice in
order to save his own skin. Out of jealousy, he hates Julius so much he allows him to die in
prison- because, as he snaps, “Julius’s betrayal of me was far greater” (349). Damaging enough
in love, Elias’ behavior and its consequences also extends to the political and social scene of
Sierra Leone, a country recovering from a ten-year civil war. Just like Elias “survived” and even
“thrived,” as Mamakay reflects, by his being complicit to injustice and exploiting the weakness
of others, many other Elias’ did the same thing during the war. The ones who stood up were shot
down. Elias might have not been holding the gun, but he was cowering behind the firing line.
Works Cited
Cole, Ernest. Space and Trauma in the Writings of Aminatta Forna. Africa World Press: