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Parvin Parsai
Submitted to the Graduate Faculty as partial fulfillment of the requirements for the
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Dr. Susanna Hapgood, Committee Chair
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Dr. Laurie Dinnebeil, Committee Member
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Dr. Rulan Slutsky, Committee Member
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An Abstract of
by
Parvin Parsai
Submitted to the Graduate Faculty as partial fulfillment of the requirements for the
Doctor of Philosophy Degree in
Curriculum and Instruction
This qualitative study examines the way in which preschoolers exhibit prosocial
and empathic behaviors during their sociodramatic play in a preschool classroom. Data
were collected every school morning over the course of one month in March 2014 by
with 24 children and three teachers in a privately owned preschool. The sociodramatic
play area had two distinct set of props, one being for a home living theme and the second
being for veterinary clinic theme, each used for two weeks. Taking a sociocultural
engaged in their play with peers as well as with their teachers. Analyses of the data
prosocial and empathic behaviors. It was also found that teachers played critical roles in
fostering and encouraging prosocial and empathic behaviors. Across data collection, I
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observed that the issues of gender and age were not necessarily contributing factors to the
way in which the children exhibited prosocial and empathic behaviors during their
sociodramatic play.
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Esmail, you taught me perseverance and enthusiasm to be a lifelong learner.
teachers and children who made this study come alive. A special note of gratitude to the
I would like to recognize my advisor, Dr. Hapgood. I truly appreciate you sharing
your wisdom with me. I would like to extend my appreciation and gratitude to you and my
committee members, Dr. Amy Allen, Dr. Ruslan Slutsky, and Dr. Laurie Dinnebeil. Your
Abstract iii
Acknowledgements vi
List of Tables xi
I. Introduction 1
A. Rationale 1
D. Definition of Terms 6
B. Prosocial Behavior 10
C. Empathy 12
D. Development of Empathy 13
E. Theory of Mind 16
F. Play 20
G. Sociodramatic Play 23
a. Cultural-Historical Theory 29
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L. Developing Learning Communities 31
M. Conclusion 33
III. Methodology 33
E. Data Collection 45
G. Data Sources 53
I. Organization of Data 56
K. Identification of Patterns 57
M. Ethics 59
N. Reciprocity 59
P. Triangulations 60
Q. Summery 61
IV. Results 63
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C. Video-recording 72
a. Theme 1: Empathy/Care 74
b. Theme 2: Cooperation/Compliance 76
c. Theme 3: respect/Acceptance 78
P. Conclusion 121
V. Discussion 124
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D. Research on Children’s Prosocial and empathic Behavior 140
E. Limitations 149
I. Conclusion 154
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List of Tables
Table 3 The list of play props for home living theme. .................................................48
Table 9 Frequency theme occurrences during home living in sociodramatic play. ...134
play.................................................................................................................134
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Chapter One
Introduction
Rationale
As we move through the twenty-first century, the world our children will
inherit is becoming more and more of a global village, a village that requires its
tolerant. Today, more than ever before, the notion of a successful learner as
strategic, and empathic. These students recognize that their success involves their
ability to communicate with others; and to view themselves and the world through
the eyes of the others. Jones further contends that successful students value
reciprocal relationships and developing communication skills that allow for the
perspectives (Jingbo & Elicker, 2005; Pianta, 1999; Vygotsky, 1978). Empathy is
reaction, feel what others are feeling and then respond to them (Allison, Baron-
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2011). Empathy also allows one to understand and appreciate the behavior,
thoughts and beliefs of the others that may be different than one’s own
(Calloway-Thomas, 2010).
higher being, and building a global community for peace – one that can promote
(Obama, 2006). Empathy, Haynes and Avery argued, does not end with the
Eisenberg and Fabes (1998) defined empathy as “an affective response that stems
condition, and that is identical or very similar to what the other person is feeling
or would be expected to feel” (p. 702). Empathy helps one connect with others,
understand their feelings and behavior, make predictions and react appropriately
(Allison, Baron-Cohen, Wheelwright, Stone, & Muncer, 2011). The reaction then
children’s worlds from their own to their families’ to peers’ and eventually, to
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others’, teachers attempt to foster children’s empathic capacities starting as early
as in preschool settings.
view about values education and/or character education, there is an agreement that
meaningfully with others is an important and desirable goal” (Cotton, 2003, p. 2).
problematic. Nel Noddings (2005) not only supported the idea of teaching caring
education, she argued that it must be the main purpose of education. Noddings
response to social changes of the last decades, and the overemphasis placed on
human beings” (2005, p. 15), more specifically, she viewed classroom caring as
consisting not only a teacher caring about students, but also to be helping students
develop caring relationships with others and the environment around them.
Noddings insisted that students must learn to develop feelings about other people,
animals, objects and even ideas. Eisenberg (1995) identified this affective
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Some researchers believe that we are biologically programmed to be
& Emde, 1992). That is to say that over time empathizing was recognized to
benefit the human race, therefore it became part of our biological inheritance.
relationship with their caregivers tend to be more secure and as a result their focus
will turn to others instead of to themselves (Kestenbaum et al, 1989). On the other
hand, children who experience physical punishment, threats and harsh treatment
may be less likely to develop the ability to empathize (Eisenberg, 1995). Michael
humans are born cooperative and helpful, and society later corrupts them, or
whether they born selfish and unhelpful, and society teaches them better” (p. 75).
To enter the debate, Tomasello sided with Rousseau arguing that children from
around their first birthdays show their cooperative nature in many but not all
and apes, Tomasello concluded that children are naturally helpful and
they are presented with in their surroundings. Tomasello’s findings may be able to
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settings in which educators are often attempting to nurture the development of
and empathic capacities early in life. My study has been designed to allow me to
observe the ways in which children demonstrate their prosocial behavior and
is thought to foster role playing and perspective taking abilities in young children
(Bodrova, & Leong 2001). My focus is in looking for ways in which children’s
prosocial capacities are shown through their verbal and non-verbal expressions. I
want to learn how children’s prosocial behavior and empathic abilities are
expressed during their play and their interactions with peers. My goal is to enrich
sociodramatic play?
and children’s capacity for empathy as it may be exhibited during their play. In
Chapter 2, I examine the related literature about prosocial behavior and empathy
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in early childhood, how it is developed in, and demonstrated by young children.
taking a qualitative case study approach and all the associated methods that have
been used. The primary data source were observations of children’s interactions in
the participants, as well as information about how data were collected. The
process of data analysis and the methods of coding are also explained. The
emerges from the data. Chapter 5 includes a conclusion of the study as I explore
the implications of this research for practice in the field of early education, and
professional development.
Definition of Terms
For the purpose of clarifying the terms used in this manuscript, I will
allocate this section to defining the terms that I will encounter throughout my
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Empathy: the ability to feel what another person is feeling, understand what that
person is feeling, communicate that understanding to the person, and then act in a
emotional state or condition, that is not the same as the other’s state or condition
but consists of feelings of sorrow or concern for the other” (Eisenberg & Eggum,
2009, pp.71-72).
Negative emotions: emotions such as sadness, fear, and anger that are subject to
different rules regarding their expression, depending on the social context as well
as the gender and age of the child expressing the emotion (Michalson, 1983).
Theory of Mind (TOM): the term theory of mind refers to children’s abilities to
their own and others’ mental states to understand others’ behavior (Carlson,
or pretend play, has been defined as, the “voluntary social role-taking involving
two or more children, an engagement where the children transform activities from
their real objective and objects from their real counterparts” (McCune-Nicolich,
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activity in which the preschool children will engage, by taking on roles, and use
make believe transformation to act out situations and play episodes (Christie et
al., 2003).
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Chapter Two
Literature Review
Introduction
During the past decade, the role of emotion in teaching and learning has been on
the rise in educational research and literature, and has become more of a focal point in the
field of early childhood education (Hyson, 2004). However, the specific topic of my
research, children exhibiting prosocial behavior with peers in the classroom, has not been
the subject of an extensive body of research. For this reason, I will draw upon the related
literature in educational research that focuses on caring education and its role in early
behavior and empathy in young children in the context of a preschool environment and
within teacher-child interactions. In this chapter, I will discuss each of these topics,
education. Nel Noddings (1984), grappled with the idea of caring in education. She
initially stated that caring-about involves a certain neglect. “One is attentive just so far.
One assents with just so much enthusiasm. One acknowledges. One affirms. One
contributes five dollars and goes on to other things” (p. 112). In her later works, she
contended that “caring-about” needs more attention. Children learn first what it means to
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be cared for, and then gradually they learn to care about others. It is this caring-about that
she argued to be the foundation for our sense of justice. For Noddings, social relationship
plays an instrumental role in developing the caring-for and caring-about equation. She
claimed that ‘we are dependent on each other even in the quest for personal goodness.
How good I can be is partly a function of how you, the other, receive and respond to me.
Prosocial Behavior
another” (Eisenberg, Fabes, & Spinrad 2006, p. 646). Those behaviors involve helping
others, showing compassion, and being understanding and fair toward others (Garner,
2006; Kidron & Fleischman, 2006). Prosocial behaviors may also include cooperation,
giving a complement, including another child in play, and comforting a child who is
upset (Honig 2004; Ramaswamy & Bergin 2009). Such behaviors are identified by there
being an element of obligation and duty towards others instead of them being personally
charged with pleasure and desires (Mussen & Eisenberg, 2001). Nelson and Crick (1999)
argued that children who are prosocial tend to view their world from a prosocial behavior
where they can better control their actions and feelings (Eisenberg, Fabes, Guthrie, &
Reiser, 2000). These children in contrast to neutral children (i.e., children who are neither
prosocial nor antisocial) will act in ways which will have a positive outcome for others.
They are less likely to attribute hostile intent to aggression by peers; instead they are
more likely to demonstrate a “benign attributional bias,” giving their peers the benefit of
the doubt in situations that can be considered provocative (Eisenberg, Fabes, Guthrie, &
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Reiser, 2000). They will be more prone to develop and maintain relationships with peers,
and deal with them more effectively (Webster-Statton & Lindsey, 1999).
prosocial tendencies and empathic capacity in young children. Such analysis is beyond
the scope of this research. Instead, the focus of this literature review is on classroom-
related environmental factors and their attributes to the development and exhibition of
Most children begin to exhibit their prosocial and empathic tendencies early in
life. The display of such tendencies becomes more elaborate and systematic as the
wellbeing becomes a focus of attention since traditionally, teachers of this age group are
believed to be responsible for preparing students for school. This “school readiness” is
both academically and emotionally with the intention of constructing a positive mindset
helpful, concern for others), resulting in fewer disruptive behaviors (Battistich, Solomon,
Watson, & Schaps, 1997). This is highly salient in elementary school classrooms where
students and teachers constantly send and receive emotionally charged verbal and
and thus, a corresponding range of academic outcomes (Meyer & Turner, 2002; Shelton
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Empathy
The above poem was written by the 13th century Persian poet Saadi. This poem is
now a motto on the entrance of the United Nations building for its eloquent manifestation
that is relatively recent, somewhat complicated, and has been used in different disciplines
by many different scholars (Decety & Ickes, 2009). Empathy has been related to
exhibition of prosocial behavior (Eisenberg & Miller, 1987; Roberts & Stryer, 1996;
Strayer & Roberts, 2004) and increased social skills (Denham, et al, 2002a; Hoffman,
known to be the emotion which joins the affective condition of one person with that of
Robinson, Usher, & Bridges, 2000; Hoffman, 2000). Haynes and Avery's characterization
of empathy is, “the ability to recognize and understand another person's perceptions and
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feelings, and to accurately convey that understanding through an accepting response” (p.
supportive looks and body language, and prosocial behavior such as sharing goods or
providing help. The ability to empathize is an important part of social and emotional
development which impacts the quality of individuals’ social relationships and their
behaviors toward others. In fact, reviewing the literature on prosocial behavior and
empathy showed that there is a reciprocal relationship between the two constructs.
Empathy is defined to be part of a range of prosocial behaviors for children and those
who show empathy are more likely to display prosocial behaviors when they reach the
school years.
Although the works of early theorists such as Freud (1958) and Piaget (1965)
suggested that young children are too egocentric and/or cognitively unable to experience
empathy, a body of more recent research has provided evidence that children are, in fact,
Zahn-Waxler et al. 1992a; Zahn-Waxler et al. 1992b). Hoffman (1982, 2000) proposed a
theoretical model which defined the role of infants’ and children’s affect and cognitive
that there is a shift over time from self-concern to empathic concern for others that will
lead to other-oriented prosocial behavior. Hoffman further argued that infants have not
yet acquired a sense of self-other orientation and thus experience empathic distress
through simpler modes of empathy like reactive crying or mimicry. Early in the second
year of life however, toddlers begin to demonstrate prosocial behaviors such as patting,
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touching, or hugging a victim of distress. According to Hoffman (2000), even though
toddlers do not distinguish well between their own and another’s internal state, they can
experience empathic concern for another, rather than solely seeking comfort for
themselves.
Hoffman proposes a four- stage theoretical model for the emergence of prosocial
behavior in young children. The model constitutes the role of infants’ and children’s
emotional and cognitive sense of self awareness and self-other awareness. He points out
the developmental phase that arose in time from self-concern to empathic concern in
children’s response to others’ distress. Hoffman argues that this developmental shift over
In the first stage, children show rudimentary empathic response to another child’s cry or
empathy.” The second stage-egocentric empathic distress- appears at the end of first year
of life Infants in this stage seek to comfort themselves when exposed to another’s
distress. Although immature, but at this stage the infants begins to separate their sense of
self from others; they are more likely to respond to empathic and real distressful situation
During the second year of their life, toddlers react to the victim of distressful
situation by offering help, or kind gesture as their effort to alleviate distressful situation.
Their resolution, however, is based on their own perception of what they find comforting.
Toddlers at this stage show empathy that is different from the previous stage in that they
are not entirely egocentric and are more likely to react with appropriate empathic affect.
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The third stage in Hoffman’s model is “veridical empathic distress” which occurs
sometimes in the second year of children’s lives. In this stage, children are more likely to
be aware of others’ feelings, and their perspectives as different than their own. The
egocentric residue of previous empathic stage is less likely to contribute to the children’s
prosocial reactions to distressful situation in this stage. Toddlers at this stage have
developed language that can help them to more accurately convey their empathic
As children’s age progresses so will their perspective taking skills. They become
more sophisticated in their abstract thinking skills. The fourth stage is mid to late
childhood at which, the children can express their empathic response even in the absence
of the physical person or actual situation-that is when they hear or read a story. The last
stage for Hoffman’s model is during adolescent years when children can understand and
respond to the plight of a class or group of people. Hoffman concluded that as children
gain cognitive maturation, they are more capable of responding empathically to others’
distress.
Many researchers examining empathy focus on sympathy, which often may stem
concern) to another’s emotional state or condition” (Eisenberg, Fabes, & Shea, 1989, p.
55). This responsiveness to another’s distress has often been identified as a measure of
empathy for young children due to their limited verbal expressiveness. Young infants
others. Infants’ reactions to others’ distress and negative emotion are thought to be
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During the second year of life, this concern for self, changes to a capability for concern
for the other (Knafo et al., 2008). Children between the ages of 14-24 months exhibit
empathic concerns and prosocial behavior such as helping, verbal comfort and sharing in
response to real or simulated distress (Zahn-Waxler et al., 1992a). By the time children
are 3 years of age, they exhibit a variety of empathic behaviors including facial and
Preschool children demonstrate significant gains in the latter component as they grow
goes on in another’s mind, and why others behave the way they do. TOM allows the child
to comprehend another’s emotions, and to realize what another person may or may not
children’s development of social skills and play behavior as they use mental clues to
guide their responses (Nguyen & Frye, 1999). The age at which this development takes
place has been a source of a great deal of research. Some researchers have contended that
TOM appears to be “an important intellectual change at about 4 years” (Perner, 2000, p.
396). Others have argued that it is not just the chronological age but an array of other
factors that influence the development of TOM. The classic experiment that was
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performed by Astington and Gopnik (1988) sheds light on age-relatedness of this topic.
During this experiment an adult showed a 3-year-old a candy box and asked, “What is
inside?” The child said, “Candy.” Then the child was shown that despite it being a
candy box, it was filled with pencils. Subsequently, the researcher closed the box and
asked the child to recall what the child had thought was in the box before the box had
been opened. As was found to be typical of 3 year olds, the child answered “pencils.”
This response was interpreted to mean that the child was not yet able to hold onto their
previous thought and compare it with their current knowledge. When the researcher went
on to ask the child what a friend of the child who had not yet seen what was really inside
the box would say if that friend was asked to guess what was inside. The child, again, as
was found to be typical of 3 year olds, answered “pencils.” Here, the interpretation was
that the child was not yet able to separate their own knowledge – what is in their own
mind – from what someone else might know. This capacity to be able to imagine that
another person has a different set of knowledge and beliefs than one’s own has been
called a “theory of mind.” Generally, by the age of 4 or 5, children have been found to
remember and compare their thinking about the contents of the box over time and to be
able to realize their friend would probably think the box would contain candy, just as they
had at first.
Adult: Now I’m going to put them back and close it up again. (Does so) Now…when you
first saw the box, before we opened it, what did you think was inside it?
Child: Pencils.
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Adult: Nicky [friend of the child] hasn’t seen inside this box. When Nicky comes in and
Child: Pencils
vocabularies and greater fluency as result of verbal experience with their families have
been found to have theory of mind earlier (Ontai & Thompson, 2008). It has also been
suggested that language development leads to more verbal exchanges during interactions
with peer and/or sibling resulting in acquisition of TOM. Perner (2000) has discussed the
pivotal importance of having older siblings to the extent that “two older siblings are
worth about a year of chronological age” (p. 383). Young children in a household with
older siblings will try to argue, compete, and cooperate with the older siblings; while the
older siblings teasingly try to fool the young ones. It is through such exchanges that
young children can come to understand that not everyone thinks the same as they do; the
The connecting point in all the discussions related to TOM, socialization, self-
regulation, and perspective taking is the notion of executive function. Executive function
skills are thought to involve the conscious control of thoughts and actions (Zelazo et al.,
2008). This concept refers to more “top-down” control of one’s thoughts, actions and
emotions (Zelazo, 2012). The skills include: maintaining focus on one’s current task,
inhibiting oneself from becoming distracted, flexibly shifting one’s attention during
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reflexively, impulsively, or by habit and instead by intentionally selecting a course of
action (Davidson, Amso, Anderson, & Diamond, 2006). Executive function skills
influence children’s abilities to regulate their emotions and control their behaviors. As
others and reasoning in relation to thoughts and emotions (theory of mind). The
development of these skills will help reduce negative emotions and allow children to
become more productively engaged with age-appropriate paly and peace making tasks.
Such practices will help children develop behavioral regulation (Denham, et al., 2013).
theory of mind. My contention is that there is likely a span of a child’s life when children
mimic prosocial behaviors they see others do without necessarily thinking about the state
of mind of another person. But, from a Vygotskian point of view, learning can lead to
development, and by learning the prosocial behavior, it may accelerate the development
strips one of the title of human. In early childhood, the same lack is believed to contribute
to psychopathology later in life (Cohen & Strayer, 1996; Pardini, Lochman, & Frick,
2003). These findings are especially convincing when one considers the research findings
(Eisenberg, 1988, 1989; Zahn-Waxler et al., 1992). Empathy, as the ability to feel or
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imagine another person’s emotional experience is an important part of social and
is an element that varies from one person to other, and is displayed by verbal and non-
For the purpose of this research, I define empathy as the ability to take another’s
perspective by imagining what is like to be in the predicament of the other person. In this
awareness to the other people so the other people feel understood. This has involved
planning sociodramatic play experiences which I thought would allow children to exhibit
empathy and prosocial behavior. I have investigated the ways in which children exhibited
empathy in their interactions with prosocial and empathy-promoting materials with their
Play
In a quality early childhood program children’s work and play are used
interchangeably testifying to the notion that play is an integral part of any early childhood
Sociodramatic play in particular has been the center of much research done to link
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and kindergarten classrooms, skills that are often recognized as important goals in early
childhood education. Berg (1994) offered his explanation for such a link since
“sociodramatic play, a form of symbolic play, has the clearest link to reading because it
involves both simple and complex uses of imagination and through it a child manipulates
much research, the increases in academic standards, threatens the early childhood field
for the direction that is ahead. “Educators have always considered play to be a staple in
early childhood classrooms. But the growing demands for teacher accountability and
measurable outcomes for pre-kindergarten and kindergarten programs are pushing play to
the periphery of the curriculum” (Bodrova & Leong, 2003, pp. 50-53). This is in large
part due to the misinterpretation of the role of play within the preschool setting and the
undeniable benefits it provides. “Teachers also tell us that they feel obligated to prove
that play not only facilitates the development of social competencies but also promotes
the learning of pre-academic skills and concepts” (Bodrova & Leong, 2003.pp. 50, 53).
As early childhood educators, we still occasionally find ourselves defending the role of
play to parents who believe the children’s time in preschool must be a mini version of
children in elementary school for them to be effectively learning. It is the hope of this
research that the function of play in general and sociodramtic play in particular, once
again be recognized for its role in children’s education and development. I will focus on
analysis. Sociodramatic play is considered to be different than free play in that there is a
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slightly structured environment. In most cases the toys or props used by children are
selected to promote play in that thematic orientation. Some curriculums encourage play
planning by the children to make the play more intentional. Children will have the
opportunity to discuss play with their peers and teachers to map out the play specific to
the chosen theme. I chose to observe the children in both ways. During the first week of
the data collection, the teachers read books in small group to those children who chose to
start their day in the sociodramatic play center. This particular theme was quite familiar
to the children since it replicated a home setting. The children were familiar with the play
props and the roles. They entered the play knowing what roles they are going to play and
what tasks necessitated the roles. The children’s knowledge of the role expectation in this
play kit helped them with their play. During the implementation of the second theme of
the veterinary clinic however, I realized that having the children entering the play without
play planning put some of them at a disadvantage. There were times that I observed
children engaged only with handling the props, and less of engaging in role-play.
Children seemed to engage in deeper play only when a teacher was present in the center
guiding, scaffolding or being part of the play. These were the children who needed more
guidance during other play events and activities as well. I will discuss these issues in
empathic behavior as they come into contact with the type of materials and themes that
sociodramatic play setting. The objective of the research was to capture the
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circumstances and conditions of an everyday situation in children’s play. Therefore, I
chose one hour of each day during which children were engaged in sociodramatic play.
Sociodramatic play
learning and development during the early childhood period” (Pellegrini, 1997, p. 488).
Both in research and in practice, a sociodramatic play area has been used as an important
part in: language and literacy acquisition; science and numeracy development;
socialization and negotiation skills; role playing, perspective taking, and self-regulation
skills. This important part of preschool and kindergarten learning appears to have
suffered as the result of push-down academics, specifically following the “No Child Left
Behind” era. The narrowing down the curriculum and high-stakes testing has caused
many preschool programs to forsake sociodramatic play (Neuman & Roskos, 2005). This
is despite findings that sociodramatic play within preschool settings fosters social and
emotional development of children. More specifically, the interactions children have with
those around them including teachers, parents, peers, and siblings while engaged in
sociodramatic play allow children to recognize their roles, as well as the roles others and
experience interactions within those roles. Sociodramatic play, through its inherent role
taking nature, provides opportunities for observation and practice of such social relations
Sociodramatic play requires the ability to transform the objects and actions
negotiation, and problem solving to name a few. When children engage in pretend (or
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dramatic) play, they are experimenting with the social and emotional roles of life, an
is, children learning to be in tune to their own emotions, understand, and express their
own feelings to others; all precursors to developing empathy – the understanding the
Research shows that “children who engage in dramatic play tend to demonstrate
more empathy toward others because they tried out being someone else for a while. They
have the skills to cooperate with peers, control impulses, and are less aggressive than
children who do not engage in this type of play (Dodge, Colker, Heroman, 2002, p. 271).
One of the many issues related to prosocial behavior in early childhood setting
environment, one realizes that not only does environment affect those who occupy it, but
environment has a strong impact on the development of the attitudes of the children.
achievement” (1995, p. 334). Fraser also reminds us that “in contrast to earlier
theories of teaching and learning view students as actively involved in their own
learning” (1995, p.416). Therefore teachers whenever possible will allow students
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environments. This occurs when teachers involve students in making classroom rules at
the beginning of the year and then continually involve them in problem solving when the
intelligence. It is children’s ability to be in tune with their own emotions as well as the
social emotional climate of the classroom in which the relationships are formed.
Relationships that are established during the preschool years and early primary years
appear to have a significant impact on children’s attitudes towards the remainder of their
educational journeys (Hamre & Pianta, 2005; Howes & Ritchie, 2002). The authors
identified the social-emotional climate as the relationship that is nurtured during teacher-
both the teacher and the students as they build relationships within the classroom;
empathy and understanding. The social-emotional climate incorporates the needs and
goals of members of the classroom. Teacher-student relationships influence the social and
emotional development of the students which in turn influences peer interactions and
During the first half of the century, research focused on the natural development
of the young child where the teacher provided a positive and safe environment for
development and social interaction. Literature in the late 1940s and 1950s indicated that
researchers were beginning to examine the need for nursery schools to introduce
academic instruction. Over time this change from a social to an academic focus led to a
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shift in the relationships between teachers and students (Braun & Edwards 1972). This
intensified most recently with the current standardization of content in 2001 and the No
Child Left Behind Act, resulting in the spread of academic expectations into younger
grade levels, pushing out the time for appropriate social interactions that support social-
relationships. The teacher’s role changed from nurturer to instructor and from supporting
social development to guiding academic learning. Walberg (1969; 1976; 1979) examined
the changes that occurred in the social and educational arenas of research during the
second half of the century, and more recently, the work completed by Pianta (1999, 2002)
examined that shift and focused on teacher-student relationships as they impact academic
outcomes.
Pianta (1999) has conducted many different studies with a variety of his
the classroom environment. His focus has usually been on individual students and not the
class as a whole; often researching ways to support children who struggle with
relationships in the school setting. Pianta has explained that a stable, supportive,
structured relationship between a teacher and student can provide the necessary context
for development; especially if the child lacks experience with strong relationships at
home. Pianta has also explained that children must be understood within the context of
relationships provide a context and focus for social and emotional development of the
student.
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Pianta, La Pero, Payne, and Bradley (2002) explored the relationship of the
223 schools. These researchers gathered data from teacher reports and observed child
outcomes in kindergarten. The most frequently observed forms of activities were teacher
directed activities and whole group instruction. Classrooms scoring high on instructional
quality were rated high on instructional conversations between teachers and students.
When focusing on improving outcomes, students were more likely to do well when there
was a high frequency and intensity of instructional interactions between teacher and
child. Positive interactions with children, classroom instructional climate, and classroom
child-centered climate were lower where the concentration of poverty in a school was
higher.
This study led to questions about class size issues, equity, and early school
experiences. Pianta et al. (2002) identified the teacher-child ratio as more important than
class size. The teacher-child ratio is probably a more effective barometer of the frequency
classroom quality. These researchers constructed a system for observing and assessing
observed were emotional and instructional support that contributed to the quality of the
classroom settings from preschool through third grade. This research focused on 224 pre-
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generally positive impression of the classroom. The nature and quality of instruction was
found to be of paramount importance in a later study by Hamre and Pianta (2005). They
environment and teacher child interactions. Hamre and Pianta found that school failure
may have been moderated by strong support from teachers in first grade classrooms. By
offering strong instructional and emotional support, first grade teachers were able to
support teacher-student relationships within the classroom and with peers. Students at
risk placed in less supportive classrooms, had lower achievement and more conflict with
teachers. Children with a negative cycle of relationships, needed teachers who were
willing to support the child and help them shift to a more positive attitude (Hamre &
Pianta, 2005). Their conclusion noted that instructional and emotional support decreased
the risk of early school failure. Children who struggled through kindergarten were more
likely to succeed if they were able to develop a positive relationship with their teachers in
first grade (Hamre & Pianta, 2005). It was important for the first grade teachers to realize
that they had an important role in interrupting cycles of negative interactions; particularly
and development of the children in their care (Birch & Ladd, 1997; DeVries & Zan,
1994; Pianta, 1999). Because there are many dynamics related to all children’s
interactions with those around them, academic development can also be enhanced by
(Pianta, 1999; Shore, 1997). Children need to learn how to interact in a positive, social
manner that incorporates beneficial and reciprocal interactions. These interactions may be
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key to our children’s future success. Children also have a better chance of acquiring the
social behaviors believed necessary for effective adjustment in our increasingly complex
world (Miller & Pedro, 2006). It is recognized that children needing more assistance with
developing social skills (particularly in case of children in special education) need more
adult support, and therefore require more contact with teachers. In this case, the teacher is
considered a “critical factor” in the early childhood environment (Hestenes & Carroll,
2000). Teachers guide children’s development in the classroom setting, and play a role in
the overall social development of children (Gallagher, Dadisman, Farmer, Huss, &
Hutchins, 2007). They are responsible for arranging and organizing the environment for
the children and promoting positive social engagements among all children in the
classroom.
guide early childhood educators. In the next several sections, I will explore some of the
Cultural-Historical Theory
Cultural-Historical Theory is the idea that child development is the result of the
interactions between children and their social environment. These interactions include
those with parents and teachers, playmates and classmates, and brothers and sisters. They
also involve relationships with significant objects, such as books or toys, and culturally
specific practices that children engage in the classroom, at home, and on the playground.
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Children are active partners in these interactions, constructing knowledge, skills, and
attitudes and not just mirroring the world around them Bodrova & (Leong, 2001).
things (Montessori, 1948). Montessori’s idea of educating young children was not like
those of her colleagues in the field of education. Montessori used math and language
materials developed by Itard and Seguin; the bricks and blocks of Froebel, and nature
lessons from Pestalozzi (Montessori, 1912). She did not use the borrowed materials in the
same way their developers did. Instead, she instructed a full time adult not to teach but
instead to let children choose their own activities and learn for themselves what could be
done with the materials. Dr. Montessori learned a great deal about how children learn by
observing the children. This observation led her to develop the Montessori Method which
The pedagogy that stemmed from working with these children was based on
philosophy of deep respect for life in general and children in particular. This led into the
which children could construct their own personalities by following their developmental
needs through interaction with people and materials in a specially prepared environment.
The prepared environment was intended to allow child to grow independent of the adult.
This special place provided the children with opportunities where they can do things for
themselves without the immediate help of adults. In this environment the child will
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initiate in directing his own life; and, in so doing, becomes empowered (Standing, 1957).
education. The first and most well-known to the field is the Montessori materials,
community. The latter component is probably the least well known (Lillard, 1992), but
most instrumental to my area of interest and research. It is the prosocial behaviors that
will lead to developing a community of learners where children are expected to take
responsibility for making decisions and choices for themselves while considering taking
the well-being of their peers. It is through emotional competency that children are
expected to take care of their school environment, take perspective of others as they
teachers to support their pedagogy with a solid philosophy that recognizes the needs for
developing the capacity for empathy and compassion. Many teachers are competent and
caring, but since the emphasis on academic outcomes has entered the field of early
The main paradigm shift in child development theory occurred with Lev
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individual child’s progress through the biologically determined learning stages, the social
learned is not separate from how it is learned and used (Brown, Collins & Duguid, 1989).
For Vygotsky, learning occurs when children interact with their peers and the adults in
their lives. Children’s learning from birth throughout their lives takes place in a social
context. Their first social context is known to be with their families and later with their
peers that will shape their understanding of the world. Children’s language also develops
from their social interactions from which their thinking is supported and their learning is
developed. Vygotsky regarded language as the essential tool that promotes thinking,
develops reasoning, and help transfer the culture. Children use language, in addition to
their eyes and hands to solve problems. Bodrova and Leong (2007) in Tools of the Mind,
speech (self-talk) to guide their own thinking process. The authors argue that as children
grow, self-talk will become internalized as part of a strategy for problem solving. The use
of language will help children to move from being impulsive to become strategic, and
learning and development is facilitated through the teacher’s assessment of the learner’s
zone of proximal development (ZPD) where the learner needs assistance. The teacher
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provides assistance by modeling, demonstrating, and asking probing questions and
this study seek to view children in their social context, and as agents of their own
learning. It is my contention that young are interested in the thoughts, feelings, and
beliefs of other people; as well as active interpreters of their own experiences. I intend to
observe children’s prosocial and empathic behaviors in the context of their play
environment.
Conclusion
In this chapter I have reviewed many key ideas and theories related to the
development of prosocial and empathic behaviors. In addition, I have examined the role
that social contexts and teacher-child interactions can play in the development of
emotional competence. In the next chapter I will go into detail regarding the methods I
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Chapter Three
Methodology
design, measurement, analysis and reporting, all flow from purpose” (Patton, 2000,
p.213). The purpose of this case study is to explore the interactions of preschool children
with prosocial and empathy related materials, peers, and their environment as they
incorporated in the literature review for the purpose of this study, help explain the reason
for choosing a qualitative methodology. There are variations of definitions for qualitative
constructed, that is, how people make sense of their world and the experiences they have
Parkinson and Drislane (2011) describe qualitative research as: “research using methods
Still other definitions focus on the process of data collection and the position of the
Qualitative research is a situated activity that locates the observer in the world. It
consists of a set of interpretive, material practices that makes the world visible.
These practices transform the world. They turn the world into a series of
representations, including field notes, interviews, conversations, photographs,
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recordings, and memos to the self. At this level, qualitative research involves an
interpretive, naturalistic approach to the world. This means that qualitative
researchers study things in their natural settings, attempting to make sense of, or
to interpret, phenomena in terms of the meanings people bring to them. (Denzin &
Lincoln, 2005, p. 3)
as they attempt to make sense of the world, and interact with peers and their environment
during their play. The interactions that the children have with their peers and their
environment can contain prosocial behavior (e.g., hugs, “here you can have a turn”) as
well as empathic behavior (e.g., a sad look or saying “I’m sorry”). Children as young as
three years old are capable of a variety of empathy related behaviors, which include
verbal and facial expressions (Zahn-Waxler et al. 1992a). My goal is to enrich the
dialogue about the children’s prosocial behavior, and how it can be displayed when
my research journey, one which delineates the filters and lenses through which one sees
the world (Mansfield, 2006). My personal history has shaped my interest in the field of
started my family. The privilege of having two children sparked a new fascination with
the field of early childhood education. I started educating myself about the theories and
philosophies of education, and this turned into a desire to turn this interest into a new
juxtaposed the practice and theory to my current situation. I chose to have my research
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setting requires a mention of research reflexivity – the process of examining the “self as
researcher” (Lincoln & Guba, 2000; Merriam, 2002). This was a more critical discussion
as I entered the data collection and data analysis phases of this research (Merriam, 2002;
"A researcher's background and position will affect what they choose to
investigate, the angle of investigation, the methods judged most adequate for this
purpose, the findings considered most appropriate, and the framing and
communication of conclusions" (p. 483-484).
construction, and that it will affect the researcher throughout the research process. To not
neutrality, is to assume “an obscene and dishonest position” (Shacklock & Smyth, 1998).
the research setting, and the participants and herein attempt to account for the interactions
of literature in early childhood education about the role of prosocial behavior, and
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Ragin contended that the methodology of qualitative research could be understood
are “data condensers”; they condense data in order to see the big picture. On the other
hand, qualitative researchers are “data enhancers.” They are like photograph enhancers
who are trying to see certain aspect of the picture (photograph) more clearly and when
qualitative methods are used to enhance data, researchers may see something about their
this mindset as well as the proponents of the quantitative approach by stating that,
qualitative research is not positivistic and that therefore traditional (quantitative) notions
phenomena in the natural setting (Merriam, 1998). This is particularly important for this
research since the focus is on understandings, feelings, and experiences that are context-
A case study, in particular is appropriate since my focus is on the way children exhibit
their prosocial tendencies, allowing me to limit variables and illuminate the factors
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The sociodramatic play is considered to be the bounded system chosen for this
research housing children’s social and emotional interactions that are “socially
specifying the unit of analysis is the key decision point in case study design” (p. 30). My
program. In this research, the case or bounded system is preschool children engaged in
they enter and engage in that play environment. A qualitative method which lends itself
to research that seeks to describe complex interactions embedded in context, is the right
method for this study due to the complicated nature of social and emotional interaction in
I purposely chose the preschool where I am very familiar with its program,
curriculum, philosophy and the staff. I chose the Advanced Learning Center-ALC (all
names and other identifying details have been changed to pseudonyms) as the site for my
work because I have worked in this preschool for 13 years as a director of the program,
ensuring the implementation of the preschool’s philosophy and curriculum, and at times
supporting professional development of the teachers. I have, therefore, built rapport with
the staff and the children involved in the classroom. These relationships helped me to
(Bredekamp, 1987; Bredekamp. & Copple, 1997) by two teachers in a space rented from
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a local church. In 2000, I bought the school and operated it in that same location. Shortly
after, I realized that the rough look of the building and other limitations were preventing
me from creating the homey environment I thought would be ideal for the program. I
consulted a parent who was a realtor, and with her help I was able to move the program
to its current location the following year. The single family dwelling with a large fenced
backyard in a wooded residential neighborhood was renovated to meet the needs of the
preschool program. The entrance to the school is from the parking lot through a narrow
stoned pathway through the landscaping. The entry door is a French style door that helps
children see the inside and outside at their eye level. The process of enrollment involves a
visit and observation period to ensure a good fit for the child, family and the Center.
Once the child is enrolled, the parents enter a contract with the Center knowing that there
will be a one month probationary period during which time either of the two parties can
end the contract if they find the program not beneficial to the child. The program enrolls
families, and 2% other nationalities. Only 0.06% of the population is subsidized by state
funding who also have co-pay (that means the families’ income is larger than the state
allows for free childcare). Although the program has an inclusion policy, there are
currently no children with special needs who are enrolled. The preschool sought and has
been accredited by the National Association of Education for Young Children (NAEYC)
from its inception by and has been awarded the highest rating by the “Step up to Quality”
since the rating system started in 2003. “Step up to Quality” is a voluntary quality rating
improvement scale developed by the Ohio Department of Jobs and Family Services and
the Ohio Department of Education. To achieve 3 stars (the highest possible rating at the
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time of this research), programs must maintain a favorable teacher-child ratio, hire
tool, and implement a research-based curriculum. The quality and the rating of the
belief that the preschool was a good context in which to study children’s prosocial
tendencies as they interact with their peers and environment during play. By choosing an
of the particular classroom I chose for this work, I had seen the environment to be
nurturing and supportive to individual children with few if any behavioral challenges. For
environment that supports the whole child, thereby allowing for prosocial tendencies to
surface.
The Center’s philosophy and curriculum supports care and education of the whole
child. The program replicates a homey environment that is warm and accepting of all
children, as well as of all aspects of their development in body, mind and spirit. The
Center is known for its effort in raising peaceable children. Teachers are asked to use a
glossary that is common in every classroom, addressing children with kind and respectful
words, to show gestures of love and compassion, and lessen the unreasonable limitations
different committees and events. One of the recent and popular committees is the
“Sustainability Committee” in which parents lead activities that educate children and
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The preschool program consists of one large pre-kindergarten classroom that runs
a morning and an afternoon session. The uniqueness of the classroom is the open view
provided by many large windows to the wooded backyard. Outside from the classroom is
a huge, fenced playground that includes a sandbox, climber with slides, a bicycle path,
and plenty of grassy areas for running and playing ball or climbing on the climber to get
to the slide. There is a greenhouse and a garden that the children created as part of their
outdoor activities. This study was conducted in an 1100 square feet classroom which
included a variety of centers including those for dramatic play, blocks, science, art,
writing, math, sensory table, music, and reading. Also included, was a large open carpet
area (14x16 feet) for shared manipulative toys, meeting time and large group instruction.
The classroom is divided by centers including a large area devoted to sociodramatic play.
I chose a corner of the sociodramatic play area to place the video camera. The video
camera recorded children when they were actively engaged in their sociodramatic play in
the classroom. In addition to the video recordings of the play events, I collected field
notes during my observations of the children while they interacted with peers, play props,
exhibited during sociodramatic play were identified and coded. I created the classification
scheme through both inductive and deductive processes based on the literature I’ve
reviewed and the observations I’ve made of the participants. Selected examples from the
collected data are presented in the text in chapter 4. Equally important components to this
data collection and analysis, are the verbal and non-verbal interactions of the children,
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The study includes 24 children between 36 and 71 months of age (12 girls and 12
boys) who attended ALC part- or full-time. These children are from middle and upper-
middle class families. Most children’s parents are married and are in professional careers.
A number of the parents are in medical or educational careers. Only one family has a
stay-at-home parent, a father in this case. The families come from a variety of cultural
backgrounds with some families new to life in the United States. Home languages for
There are up to 20 children per session (morning or afternoon) in the pre-k classroom
with 3 teachers in the classroom. These teachers circulate in the classroom as they see the
need to facilitate, engage in and/or scaffold children’s play activities. The children
participate in one hour of sociodramatic play activity in each of the morning and
afternoon on sessions. Data for this study were all collected during the morning sessions.
All children and teachers are identified with pseudonyms. Table 1 below includes
demographic information about the children such as the number of days attended per
week, age in months, age when child first enrolled at the Center, gender, and number of
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Table 1
Description of Children Participating in Sociodramatic Play
Table 2
Description of Teachers
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Entry to the Site and Gaining Consent
professional working relationship with the teachers, there were no issues regarding entry
to the preschool. I met with the 3 teachers of the pre-k classroom early in the year. I
explained that I would be observing the children in the sociodramatic play area. I assured
them that this observation would not in any way be an assessment of their performance. I
did however mention that throughout my observation period I might share my findings to
enhance the level of play and general quality of the program. My presence in the
classroom was a common practice and the teachers were used to seeing me in different
capacities of evaluating the program in its entirety, assessing a child’s development, and
being engaged with the children. All three teachers consented to my presence in the
classroom.
Written details of the study along with a request for permission to videotape the children
were emailed to the parents and consents were obtained. I was available in person,
especially at arrival and dismissal time, so that I could speak with parents and address
their questions and concerns. One hundred percent of the parents gave me permission to
whatever is being observed is studied in its natural setting) and tends to concentrate on
the whole content including behaviors and the environmental setting. Most qualitative
studies rely on observations and interviews as types of data collection. Since my focus
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was on young children and their interactions in a “play setting,” observation was a critical
practices allowed me to achieve “data saturation” (Glesne, 1998) and have collaborative
relationships so I could view “authentic” behavior, rather than running the risk of only
seeing participants trying to display themselves in what they may have believed to be a
favorable light (Merriam, 1998). I found my relationships with the center, staff and the
backgrounds, recent events in their lives and even their home settings as I had been in
some of their homes. I observed children engaged in sociodramatic play, recorded field
notes, and videorecorded the children’s play episodes. More details regarding my data
Data Collection
The week before the actual data collection time, I set up the camera in the area
where I could see the most activities taking place. Due to the noise level from the
adjacent block area, I was not able to distinguish some of the conversations between the
children during their play. I asked the teachers to close this area temporarily and instead
moved a large Lego table to the classroom to compensate for the absence of blocks as a
center. I started my data collection for the 4 weeks from March 3-29, 2014. Monday
through Friday from 9:15 a.m. to 10:15 a.m. I set up the camera the night before, and
came to the classroom around 8:30 as most children started arriving. I helped with arrival
procedures which included children signing in and putting their belongings away.
Children are each assigned a locker that has their names on the inside of the locker. The
children first enter the foyer right outside of their classroom. They sit on the bench in the
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foyer, take off their shoes and take them over to their lockers. They place their
belongings and then pick up their indoor shoes to wear inside the school. The children are
required to wash their hands upon completion of their arrival tasks and then join in for a
short period of greeting time. The children then step in to another room and gather around
on the carpet. They meet for about 15 minutes in large group (meeting or circle time) in
which they read books, sing songs, and practice turn taking by participating in group
discussions on a variety of topics. The teachers talk about what centers are available to
the children and the children are asked to make their choices known to their teachers and
peers as they get called on. Those who chose to participate in the sociodramatic play
center meet with a teacher and often first read a book related to the sociodramatic play
area’s current set of props. The teacher often opens discussion about the possible roles in
the play, and the children choose the role they wanted to play in the sociodramatic play
center.
Sociodramatic play is usually one of the most popular centers and it continued to
be popular for most of the data collection period. Sociodramatic play is the medium
within which children think, communicate, and act. The children negotiate social
to resolve conflicts so their play can continue. In order to sustain the play, children
develop rules to determine space, props, and even roles generated by gender or activity.
Sociodramatic play provides children the opportunity to socialize, negotiate, assume roles
and take the perspective of the other while stepping into a world of possibilities (Bodrova
& Leong, 2006). Children’s play is a medium in which children mold private thoughts
and feelings as well as a vehicle for communicating these thoughts and feelings (Ariel,
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2002). I expected to see these relationships unfold during my observation, as it had been
in the past. I had seen children take on a role of a doctor, a shopkeeper, a cook, a
princess, and simply a mother or a father. They try roles familiar to them and roles that
are purely make believe, they however enjoy and engaged in both play equally. While
observing the children’s play, I expected to see their language of play, the rules they
negotiate, and the overall function of prosocial behavior in developing and sustaining
their play. I expected to see the creative aspect of the moves the children make (prosocial
or otherwise) within the complex network of play relationships in which they are
engaged. By choosing sociodramatic play as a case study for this research, I intended to
shed some insight in the area of prosocial behavior and how it is exhibited in the
sociodramatic play.
During the first two weeks of data collection, I set up the sociodramatic play area
to resemble a home with living room furnishings, dress up clothes, and a full kitchen.
Initially only two children visited the center and interacted with the materials while I was
present. I gradually added more props as time went on and even on occasions I brought
the props to the carpet for the children to see during their meeting time. This helped both
to create an interest and also ignite some ideas of how to play with the materials. A list of
the play props is in Table 3. The extras included a mobile phone, a sound making vacuum
cleaner and a couple of strollers. The novelty of these materials and their popularity
helped create more instances for observation of how the children negotiated turns to use
the props. I chose a home living for the sociodramatic play because almost every child is
familiar with this theme and it is considered to be popular among all children. The initial
relative lack of interest may have been due to my presence or perhaps having the camera
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in that center. But, by the third day of data collection, the children had become
accustomed to my presence and to the camera being present, making the sociodramatic
Table 3
The List of Play Props for the Home Living Theme
The sociodramatic play area was often the first choice for many of the children.
As time went by and especially during the second phase of the data collection when the
area became a veterinary clinic, more and more children became interested in
participating in that center. Typically, there are four children allowed to play at the center
at a time, and it almost always works out well with children leaving the play and new
ones joining in. There were occasions at the beginning of the week that more children
were interested in choosing the sociodramatic play as the first activity of their choice.
The teachers recognized the issue and took it on as an opportunity to engage the children
in solving the problem at hand. After some discussions, the children came up with a turn
taking idea. Ms. Stacey assisted the children with making a “waiting list” where children
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wrote their names down on a piece of paper and placed it on the shelf outside of the
center. This helped ease the tension for some of the children as they realized that they
After two weeks of the home living theme, I introduced a veterinary clinic in the
dramatic play area. My goal was to provide an opportunity in which children can rely on
previous knowledge about the themes presented in the dramatic play so they can assign
and assume different roles to play. This provided opportunities to display caring
behavior by the children. The notion of an animal in need of medical care brought
children to demonstrate kindness and compassion not only toward their animal patients
I thought that one of the best – and probably one of the most enjoyable – ways for
children to show prosocial behavior and empathy would be through the human-animal
relationship. Beginning at birth, we surround children with animals, sometimes real and
sometimes not. Their clothing is often decorated with animals. Stuffed animals are
cuddled, named, and become trusted confidants. Plastic animals accompany them in their
baths. Most children learn their numbers by counting animals and learn to read from
pages filled with pictures of animals. Of course, real animals also fill their lives:
props in the sociodramatic area. A list of the play props is presented in Table 4. One
corner of the play area was designed to be the waiting room. The office reception desk
was placed in the corner of that area with a telephone, a typewriter, memo pad, pencils,
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and a card holder with business cards that I had picked up from a local animal hospital.
Behind the desk was a chair for the secretary and across from it was another chair for the
person visiting the office. On the other side of the visitor’s chair was a red leather couch
and next to it was an end table with a plant and some magazine about animals on the top
of it. There was a table on the side covered with a blue tarp and with some supplies on the
top. In the middle of the area I placed a stack of gym mats and covered it with cloth to
resemble a hospital bed. I included a cage, a number of different stuffed animals, toys and
pretend food for the animals. A “Sunflower Veterinary Clinic” sign was made by the
posted all around the area. I had brought in an x-ray viewing light box and placed an x-
ray image of an animal’s vertebrae on it. Some of the children interacted with the cell
phone and pager to call for help, as others enacted the role of veterinarian and secretary
responding to the calls. Table 4 below shows the list of the play props available to the
children.
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Table 4
The List of the Play Props for the Veterinary Clinic
The main form of data collection during this play kit continued to be observation,
video recording and field notes. The field notes documented what actually happened
during children’s play, notes to myself, and also my interpretation of the events and
exchanges.
As I had done during the two weeks of home living theme, children’s play
episodes were video recorded every day during the veterinary clinic so that I could
repeatedly view them later and transcribe them. Each day after down loading the
recording to my laptop, I deleted the recording from the camera and positioned the
camera back in place for the next day’s recording. The purpose of the video recording
was to capture the children’s verbal interactions as well as non-verbal cues that were
indicative of presence or lack of prosocial and empathic behavior as they interacted with
their peers, play props and environment. A total of 10 video recordings were documented
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The Role of a Qualitative Researcher
Participant observation refers to a form of research in which the researcher takes on a role
in the social situation under observation. The researcher is immersed in the research
setting, getting to know the participants with the aim of experiencing the activities from
community being observed, who is trusted by the participants, and who has meaningful
contact with the participants in order to gain benefits, such as becoming privy to
information (Spradly, 1980). It is important to note that, as the director of the Center, the
teachers might have felt some power-dynamic at play and have thereby changed their
ameliorate this possible effect by doing the following. First, and this was not difficult
because it was already my usual practice, I made a point to be very present in the
classrooms and Center all the time, not just for these particular observations. The teachers
are very used to my presence. Second, I made myself as unobtrusive in the play area as
possible. I avoided directly interacting with the children or teachers. In fact, I stayed just
outside the sociodramatic play area, though close enough to observe and hear clearly
what was occurring. Additionally, I observed every day for quite a lengthy period.
Although teachers, and children, might have been on their “best behavior” initially, after
several days, it is unlikely that could be sustained. I feel I was able to observe authentic
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It was for the advantages of the participant observer role, however, that I decided to
select a research site with which I am closely involved and base my study primarily on
with the children and the classroom environment. I am the first person they see and
interact when they first come to the center for a tour with their parents. I have the
opportunity to introduce our prospective students to the classroom teachers, and their
future peers. I direct my attention to the child, kneeling down at their level when
explaining where they can make their play choices and where to look for different play
and work items. All throughout the year, children find me an integrated part of their day,
as I greet them in the morning and at dismissal time. The children see me in their
classroom on the carpet during large group time, watching them, and sometimes engaged
in play at different centers. I conduct regular staff meetings and team meetings to discuss
issues related to specific children, and I am always available for consultations regarding
teaching strategies for particular children and/or any socio-emotional concerns that may
arise. I greatly benefitted from such an in-depth knowledge of the children during my
involved in the children’s activities while gaining perception of the reality they
Data Sources
I chose a qualitative study to explore how two sociodramtic play kits (home living
and veterinarian office) and materials that I calculated could engage children in
demonstrating their prosocial and empathic behavior. The purpose of the study was to
explore the interaction of the children with peers and play props as they engaged in
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pretend play. Participants were the children who would enter the sociodramatic play
center by choice during the time of study. I focused on 4 children at a time who entered
the sociodramatic play area during the morning session. The case study approach was
chosen to explore the relationship between the children and their environment in which
they played. The sources of information were video recordings of the children while
engaged in play, field notes and researcher’s memos. A case study by nature seeks to
produce an in-depth description of events under study. It is also suggested that the
researcher begins analyzing the data while the data collection is in progress (Leedy &
Ormrod, 2005). Emerson et al. (2001) contend that “descriptive writing embodies and
reflects particular purposes and commitments, and it also involves active processes of
interpretation and sense-making” (p. 353). During my data collection, therefore, I made
notes on the margin of my field notes as well as during the transcribing of the video
recordings. These notes included but were not limited to comments about codes or
background information about a child or event; notes to myself that included ideas for
professional development, or just ideas of adding to the play props to observe the
children’s reaction, all of which were tied directly to the data being collected.
Data analysis in qualitative study can be done as the data are being collected
(Merriam, 1998). Qualitative research is emergent in nature (Gall et al., 1996) and I was
able to examine different behaviors at different points within the study. For example
conjunction with data analysis strategy of triangulation to analyze the data. Separate
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pieces of information including, video recordings, observation, field notes, and
researcher’s memos were used in triangulation of the data. Video recordings were
recorded and saved to be viewed as many times as needed to include notes in longhand of
the children’s verbal exchanges, and more accurately the verbatim passages. There were
times that I could not decipher a child’s words. I would review that section of the video
repeatedly and if still not clear, I asked a teacher to view the clip with me to help clarify
the words, preferably verbatim. The transcription provided me with an accurate account
of children’s verbal exchanges in long hand. I also accounted for their gestures and was
After compiling the field notes and the video transcriptions, I searched to identify
units of data. A unit of data refers to “any meaningful (or potentially meaningful)
segment of data” (Merriam, 1998, p. 179). I identified prosocial and empathic behaviors
as units of data and started the coding process by reading the transcripts line by line to
include emerging insights, tentative concepts, and possible questions in the margins. As
an attempt to verify that my interpretation of the data were appropriate, I sought feedback
from an objective colleague who reviewed the coded transcripts with me, and was able to
agreement with my choice of coding. I also realized that children’s sentences, and
nonverbal language were coded for more than one function in prosocial and empathic
behavior categories. This I attributed to the nature of the play kits, age of the children and
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(Leedy & Ormrod, 2005). In addition to analyzing single vignettes, I included thematic
examples based on the prosocial and empathic themes mentioned in the literature review
and those derived from codes that I categorized into the following 5 themes:
• empathy/care;
• cooperation/compliance;
• respect/acceptance;
• problem solving/negotiation;
Organization of Data
A triangulation method was used to pull field notes, video recording and its
Specific strands of information were identified and related examples of children’s spoken
words, behaviors and gestures were extracted from the data. In addition, vignettes were
produced to explore the prosocial behaviors and empathic tendencies of the children
during play.
I examined the field notes, researcher’s memos, video recordings, and transcripts
for specific meanings they held in relation to the case study. Field notes included my
conversations almost verbatim going through a process to compare my field notes of the
conversations to the video recording transcripts for accuracy. I expanded on these field
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notes during my observations (when possible writing a word or short sentence) and
immediately after the observations with more detailed accounts of my impressions. These
included notes on individual child’s home background, usual play behavior and possible
special circumstances that may have contributed to the child’s behavior that I observed.
The purpose of these detailed notes was to understand the child’s behavior viewing the
“whole” child and not an isolated single strand of behavior. I regarded observation as my
primary source of data, and field notes as a primary recording tool by which an accurate
account of participants, conversations, place and play events were described (Glesne,
2006).
Interpretation of data was a work in progress across the data collection period and
beyond. I included information that helped with answering the research question: How do
Identification of Patterns
I studied the data and my interpretations for underlying themes. Based on what I
had observed in the classroom at this center, I expected to see themes of prosocial and
empathic behaviors as discussed in the literature review section of this study such as:
kindness, courtesy, and generosity. I used pattern coding (Miles & Huberman, 1994;
Saldaña, 2009) in order to develop the conceptual and thematic organization of the data
(Saldaña, 2009). For example, “cooperation” was a code that I wrote again and again and
it often coincided with the construct of care, and compliance. As more of the same
demonstrated as an important part of their socialization skills. In the course of the next
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chapters, I will also discuss instances of prosocial behavior as well as (occasional) lack
thereof. For example, the same child that demonstrated prosocial behavior one day, was
used member checking throughout the study. After my daily observation session, during
the lunch break, I had informal conversations with the classroom teachers to ask for their
interpretations and share mine to ensure the interpretations of children’s behavior made
sense. This allowed me the opportunity to review the field notes for accuracy and
additional thoughts or comments (Stake, 1995). There were times that the voices of the
children were not clear in the video recordings, at these times, I made notations on the
transcript and later viewed the clip in question with a teacher for clarification.
Before proceeding with the writing of the analysis, it is important to mention that
throughout the process of data collection, coding, and the analysis, I had absolutely no
intention to label the children or the teachers. Instead, my primary focus was to make
interpretations of the children’s statements and actions, and not a classification of their
interpretation of a particular passage, I viewed the video again and this time looked for
the tone of voice or other non-verbal cues to help me reexamine my interpretation and the
intent of the statement. At other times, I consulted a colleague who agreed to view the
clip and share her findings with me. I sought the help of the same colleague to
incorporate intercoder agreement on codes and themes (Creswell, 1997) that I had
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identified during my data interpretation (Armstrong, Gosling, Weinman, & Marteau,
1997). I presented her with the transcripts of the video recordings and asked her to read
and code the transcripts. We then reviewed our selection of codes and themes and
discussed the underlying reason for our selection. The resulting set of agreed-upon codes
Ethics
I was overt about my study to the teachers and parents. I informed the teachers
about my research and assured them that it would not be an evaluation of their
presence and observation of their activities. I wrote a letter to the parents about my
research and shared the letter of approval from the university’s Internal Review Board
(IRB). I used the IRB prescribed permission form and asked parents to sign, allowing me
to document my observations and the video recordings of their children, while assuring
them of the children’s anonymity in my research. I did not begin my data collection until
all permission forms were signed and returned to me. The permission forms, my field
notes, video recording and its transcription are stored in a locked cabinet and will be
destroyed later. The children and the teachers were assigned pseudonyms in this
manuscript.
Reciprocity
presence” (Marshall, & Rossman, 2006, p. 81). I was grateful to the teachers for
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them, I offered them trainings about practices that can improve sociodramatic play in
their classroom. I was able to render my ideas and services for creating a classroom
the data collection period. I also donated books to the teachers, and other resource
Historically, the Center has had a large population of middle and upper middle
class families. Although, the Center accepts state subsidized children, it is usually only a
very small percentage of that population who enroll at the center. This lack of diverse
SES backgrounds is a limitation to the study. Another limitation is the length of the
study, in that observations were made at only one time of year across just four weeks.
However, this study was not designed to consider possible longitudinal trends in
children’s prosocial behaviors. Likewise, given that observations were made only in the
sociodramatic play area, I cannot make claims about the pervasiveness of children’s
Triangulation
A case study allows flexibility in data collection methods, which can be adjusted
to meet the needs of the study. A combination of data collection methods includes
observations, field notes, a review of documents and artifacts, and informal study notes
(Merriam, 1998; Yin, 2003). The attempt at collecting multiple forms of data allowed for
triangulation of information. Triangulation helps to eliminate bias that might result from
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relying exclusively on any one data collection method, source, analyst, or theory (Gall et
al., 1996). The process of triangulation strengthens the validity of the findings.
Summary
I collected data over a period of 4 weeks during the morning session in a pre-
kindergarten preschool classroom for a period of one hour each day, amounting to 20
preschool children as they interacted with peers, their environment and materials present
in the sociodramatic play area. I was engaged in participant observation of the children,
used a video camera to record the children at play, and recorded my observation in a
dated field notes which included verbal and non-verbal interactions between the children
during their pretend play. As part of my data collection, I recorded research memos on
organization in my data. I had the advantage of knowing the children, teachers and the
setting, which allowed me to start the data collection immediately upon receiving IRB
approval, without needing to spend time in the classroom to become acquainted with the
their teachers and peers, field notes, and research memos. Areas of observation included
practices that indicated capacity for empathy, social responsibility, friendship, kindness,
with their peers, and environment. The following question was the focus of this research:
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How do children exhibit prosocial behavior with their peers and their environment?
For this research, dramatic play was considered to be an open forum for exploration of
different roles, containing all aspects of children’s social emotional development. The
following are examples of prosocial behaviors and empathy that I anticipated to observe
from the children during their sociodramatic play: sharing, helping, comforting, making
reparations, turn taking, recognizing feelings of others and responding appropriately, turn
taking, respects and caring for classroom environment and materials by using it properly.
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Chapter Four
Results
to know both what constitutes their theoretical framework and how they are developed
throughout the analyses and writing (Golden-Bidle and Locke, 1997). Undergirding the
work in this manuscript is my belief, based on research evidence and many years of
experience with young children, that children are capable of displaying prosocial
behavior and empathy in their interactions with peers and objects. My research question
specifically targets these two constructs during the sociodramatic play in a pre-k
classroom of 3-5 year old participants. In this chapter I present findings from the analysis
through which I see the children will be appropriate for this descriptive qualitative
research.
As an educator and care provider for young children, my view of children first
and foremost influences the guidelines I place for selecting, recruiting, and training my
staff. The traditional view of children such as those of learning theory and the cognitive–
egocentric thinkers whose self-interest is the basis for the choices they make. Children in
this view, respond to the incentives and sanctions provided by their peers and adults in
their lives; and their actions are guided by rewards and punishment. These beliefs still
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guide some parents’ child rearing methods, and early childhood care and education
the traditional view of children by the developmental scientists and the research
conducted by early childhood educators resulted in different findings, namely, that young
children have been found to be interested in the thoughts, feelings, and beliefs of other
dissipates from the most commonly held beliefs among early childhood educators,
that exist in a child’s life. This became evident during my observations of the children in
their sociodramatic play as suggested by Corsaro (2003) that “kids link or articulate local
features of the ongoing play to their developing conceptions of the adult world” (p.126).
perceived by the adult in his or her life. Children are also influenced by their peers
(Pellegrini & Galda, 2001). They develop friendships and become motivated to maintain
their relationships through application of their social skills. There are also occasions
when children demonstrate social skills without having an intention from which they
during their sociodramtaic play?” To best answer this question, it is important to include
an analysis of the environment in which the children spend a major part of their day.
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Equally noteworthy is the role of the teachers and their strategies in affection,
communication, and proactive efforts that are instrumental in the child’s social-emotional
well-being and development. The discussion below is aimed at analyzing both the
physical as well as the social emotional environment created by the teachers in the
classroom.
All data were collected from the participants during their usual play. Analyzing
across my observations, field notes and memos, I identified major concepts and behaviors
that addressed my research question. Children’s play episodes and events represented the
in Chapter 2. Before launching into discussion of those episodes, I will set the stage with
some more description and analysis of the classroom context and more information about
the teachers.
After carefully analyzing the data, the classroom set-up and schedule appeared to
have provided many opportunities for children to interact with their peers in a socially
appropriate manner. A glance at a typical day of the preschoolers at ALC will provide an
inside view of the carefully designed environment and schedule. Most of the children
arrive between 8:30-8:40. Parents have the option of using the drive up lane to wait for a
staff member to go to the car, greet the child and the parent and help the child to walk
into school. Even with this convenience, there are still parents as well as children who
prefer to escort or be escorted to school by the parent. Whichever the choice, the idea
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behind this special arrival arrangement is that at any given time there will be a noticeable
interaction between a staff member and the child accompanied by his or her parent. There
had been occasions that parents came after the arrival time and had to wait at the door for
install a coded key pad so parents can just enter the code and walk in, to which I
answered, “and take the risk of missing a chance to greet you personally?” This
arrangement is in fact by design, as the school tries to uphold social standards that
promote sociability.
As the children arrive, they immediately sit on a bench in the foyer and remove
their shoes to change into a pair of “indoor shoes.” This policy came about several years
ago when the program actively took a “Going Green” approach to much of its practices at
school. As the director of the center, I had witnessed many families from a non-Western
culture enter the school and either attempt to or to actually remove their shoes upon
arrival. This was both a sign of respect and a confirmation that one is entering a sacred
space; this practice resonated well with me as I witnessed a similar practice while
growing up. In addition to the cultural aspect of this practice, I read research findings that
showed how this simple practice results in a cleaner, safer environment for the children.
The children then walk to their lockers that are individually assigned and labeled with
their names to place their belongings. After that they are guided to wash their hands, then
join in at the table where they engage in some table-top activities while socializing and
waiting for the rest of the children to arrive. After this “Greeting Time,” comes “Snack
Time”; immediately followed by the “Meeting Time.” For this segment of the day the
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children step down into another room. This room has an area of 1100 square feet with
large windows around the room inviting natural daylight and a pleasant view of the trees,
birds and squirrels running in the outdoor play area. The paint colors on the walls were
chosen after research was done on the effect of the colors on children. A light violet color
on one side of the room was chosen to complement a light gold color on the other side
while doors and windowsills remained in white. A typical pre-k classroom is often loaded
with poster signs, children’s art and pictures which adds to a sensory overload for some
children. The walls of this classroom are decorated with the conventional signs found in
pre-k classrooms, except that they are not “store bought,” but made by the children’s
work. For example, on the wall in the reading area where there is a child size couch and a
low book shelf, is decorated with a series of 3x5 index cards of the children’s works of
art representing the alphabet letters. Other walls include children’s art, writing samples,
pictures of the children while engaged in an activity with the caption. At the beginning of
the school year, teachers request a collage of family portraits to be sent from home; these
are also posted on the walls so children can make the connection from home to school.
During the meeting time all the children gather around on the carpet to sing,
dance and engage in storytelling. The children are rarely assigned to a seat, this allows
them to choose where on the carpet they want to sit. Occasionally, if a children
encounters a conflict regarding the seat arrangements, the teacher gently assists in finding
companionship during which children have a chance to share with the whole group. The
area under the easel is reserved for placing the materials that are chosen by the teachers to
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be introduced to children during this time. The materials may include a new activity or a
new play prop that may be used in the sociodramatic play area that day. A selected
number of books are also present at the foot of the easel to be read to the children. At the
end of this time, each of the three teachers takes a group of the children and a few books
and moves to different corner of the classroom to begin their small group times. Those
children who choose sociodramatic play as their first choice meet with a teacher near the
sociodramatic play center for reading and discussing some stories before they start their
play. The books chosen are often related to the sociodramatic play theme that is set up for
that day. During my data collection, I left the choice of books to the teachers for both of
the sociodramatic play themes, but I made a collection of related books available to them.
A sample of the books that were made available is included in Table 5 and 6.
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Table 5
List of Books on Family/Friendship
Table 6
List of Books on Animal Care
If you Give a Dog a Doughnut by Laura Out and About the Vet Clinic by Kitty
Numeroff Shea
Skippy Jones in the Doghouse by Judy Bark, George by Jules Feiffer
Schachner
Dog Biscuit by Helen Coupe Pets All Around by Sarah Schuette
A Cat Called Penguin by Holly Webb My Humongous Hamster by Brue Hale
My Cat, My Dog by Katrina Streza Pets by CT Wilton
Matilda's Cat by Emily Graver Everything Pets by James Spears
I Love My Cat by David Cruka Baby Animals by King Fisher
Mr. Waffles by David Wiesher We work at the Vet’s by Angela Aylmore
Up Cat by Hazel Hutchins Sally Goes to the Vet by Stephen Huneck
Dear Zoo by Rod Campbell What Happens at Vet’s Office by Amy
Hutchings
Goodnight Moon by Margaret Wise At the Animal Hospital by Carol Greene
Brown
Animals, Animals by Eric Carle Duck in the Truck by Jez Alborough
A Color of His Own by Leo Lioni
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Teachers’ Roles and Strategies at the ALC
skills are best developed in an appropriate group care environment, and teachers are often
the guides for children’s first experiences with socialization skills required to interact
harmoniously in a fairly large group of children. The teacher is responsible for creating a
healthy socio-emotional environment where children can feel respected and cared for.
The ALC teachers planned activities to have parents stay connected to their children’s
life at school. They also provided activities and opportunities during which children
shared their home lives with their peers. For example, one activity designed to bridge
home and school was called “Take Home Turtle.” For this activity, a stuffed turtle in a
bag with a binder was sent home with each child and upon its return, a journal of events
along with pictures came back in the binder. This binder included the child’s pictures
often always holding the turtle while engaged in family activities such as going out to
dinner, visiting a park or getting ready for bed. The pictures and the journal were shared
with the children during the large group time. This activity helped children make
connections between home and school, and it helped them to be comfortable talking
about their families to their peers. As part of the daily routine, the teachers created a job
chart in which three children were selected to be snack helper, light helper and clean up
inspector. This activity was aimed at creating a sense of community and was particularly
beneficial to include socially reserved children. The conversations that took place
between the teachers and the children during group time were often indicative of a safe,
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supportive environment in which the children’s individuality was accepted and respected
by all.
children to feel valued and validated. Teachers made every effort to give the children
their undivided attention as they engaged in long conversations during different segments
of the day. This type of communication was extended to the families also. Teachers were
available during arrival and dismissal as well as during intentionally scheduled occasions
and events that drew families to the school and to their classrooms. Systematic attention
to establishing and maintaining frequent communication started one week before school
officially started with an evening event called Summer Visitation. For this event, families
and children were invited to visit the classroom where they met their teachers and peers.
This was also intended for the families to meet and potentially initiate relationships with
other families which I have seen last beyond preschool years. ALC has an open door
policy for parents to visit at any given time. There were scheduled events such as Fairy
Grandparents and Special Friend’s day in February; Spring Festival in March; Pastry for
Parents in April; and the ever-favorite Annual Art Show in May that provided
children’s care and education. I am always amazed at the generosity of the parents in
their donation of time, talents and resources whenever the teachers mentioned a request.
As part of building relationship with the community, the teachers yearly ask for donations
for the Toledo Humane Society. During the collection week, I observed the children
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carrying bags of pet friendly goods to school. They read books and learned about animal
shelters and what shelter workers do to help animals; most children were well on their
way to becoming animal advocates in a short time. At the end of the collection period a
representative from the humane society came to school to speak with the children in the
classroom. Last time she brought a rescued dog that she had adopted and shared the story
of how she found the dog in poor health. Her talk with the children focused on the time
and effort she spent on caring for the dog. The children were very impressed and had lots
of questions for her. I particularly know of a child who took the story home to her parents
and came back with a generous cash donation for the society.
There is one more activity that is worth mentioning to illustrate the teachers’
empathic tendencies. In the weeks preceding the winter break, when most families were
busy preparing for the holidays, the teachers requested a donation of toys for
underprivileged children. Once more, I witnessed young children walking to school with
brand new toys in their small hands and big smiles on their faces as they proudly
approached the box and parted ways with the toy. To get the children to reach this stage,
teachers in cooperation with parents, carefully designed lessons to plant the seeds of
Video-recording
Using a video camera to capture play events in the sociodramatic play area was
vital to this study as the recordings constituted a key source of data along with
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observation field notes of the play events that provided additional information to help
address the research question. For example, the issue of gender and age were not of focus
in this study, but field notes findings showed that these two constructs were not
necessarily a contributing factor to the way in which the children interacted with peers
and their environment. There were numerous episodes that the children took on a role
that in the past would have been considered unconventional for their gender. Time after
time I observed Lucas and Lamar engaged in vacuuming the carpet, cooking meals, and
feeding the baby, all aspects of home life which at one point were considered to be
female tasks. The observation of these behaviors revealed much about the teaching
practices in the classroom and the teachers’ interactions with the children. Surely, the
children had engaged in similar roles in the past and had not received negative feedback
and non-verbal expressions that are categorized by prosocial behaviors and empathic
behaviors. Following these examples, I will present some more extended vignettes that
allow readers to see the richness and complexity of how young children’s prosocial and
In my effort to analyze the data, I identified/coded the concepts found in the data
by reading the transcripts and field notes line by line. These codes were then gathered
2- Cooperation/Compliance
3- Respect/Acceptance
Showing tolerance, sharing, turn taking, accepting, respecting others and their belonging,
4- Problem Solving/Negotiation
idea
children were demonstrating empathy and caring behavior towards peers and the
The following examples occurred with the children playing in the sociodramatic play area
Example 1: Victoria very consciously was holding the baby doll, she reached to scratch
her foot. She leaned over very carefully not putting any pressure on the baby that would
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Example 2: Lewis was engrossed in his role as the dad while making breakfast. He
promptly responded without any hesitation when he heard Victoria’s voice sighing, “Oh
no, I dropped the baby’s bottle.” Lewis quickly turned around to observe the scene and
Example 3: Mollie was holding the baby doll warmly in her arm and rocking her by
gently moving her knees while sitting on the chair. This action exhibited her awareness of
Example 4: Victoria has a young sister at home and therefore throughout her play she
Example 5: Ms. Stacey reminded Molly that her baby was hungry, and Molly spent
Example 6: Victoria chose to hold the baby while vacuuming. She did this while making
Example 7: Krishna suddenly remembered that Amy needed to eat breakfast before going
to school. He rushed to the kitchen and brought her scrambled eggs, Amy was
surprisingly impressed.
Example 8: Ms. Jessica gave the baby doll to Allison and watched her cuddle the baby
lovingly and moved the pillow under the baby’s head while wrapping her in the blanket
ensuring that the baby was well tucked and could breath.
Example 9: Amy ran to Krishna handing him the dress up jacket while reminding him
“You need to wear that before you go to work, it’s very cold today.”
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Example 10: Ms. Jessica looked at the baby in the crib and said, “oh, I think the baby is
crying,” at which point Lucas rushed over, picked up the baby and started rocking her in
his arm.
Example 11: A caring gesture was observed as Lucas put his hand on Lamar’s shoulder
Example 12: Rachel brought the baby doll to Ms. Linda, then she handed her a blanket
and said, “It’s cold.” Ms. Linda accepted the baby and the blanket and gently wrapped the
baby in it. Rachel then took the baby and walked away with a smile.
cooperation during children’s play regularly, both compliance and cooperation are
children was observed to be the backdrop of many play episodes. Disagreement about the
choice of roles to play or props occurred minimally, and when disagreements did occur,
they generally lasted only a short time and were resolved with both parties’ consent. The
children usually reached an agreement mostly on their own and were able to continue
with their play. This was in contrast to the common practice of eliminating the object of
Example 1: Amy validated the role Rachel had chosen as a mom by giving her the apron
even though she had it on at the time and had wanted to be the mom. It was Amy’s first
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Example 2: Rachel was very involved with her role as she was vacuuming the carpet
when Amy approached her with the idea that it is “time for dinner.” Rachel stopped
vacuuming (although it was a very popular activity) and joined in without any
reservation.
Example 3: Lauren chose to walk to Rickie and give him the beater (the play prop had
just been added to the kit and was very popular) realizing that it was his first time
Example 4: When Lucas realized that Neely was not able to move the heavy crib to
kitchen, he came and lifted one side as Neely held the other side.
Example 5: When Nevin saw Lauren had a hard time figuring out how to put the turtle’s
shed back on, she came to Lauren and showed her how she can use the Velcro to fasten
Example 6: Lakshmi had a diaper in one hand and the baby doll in the other hand trying
very hard to put a diaper on her baby doll. Out of frustration, she yanked the diaper out
and said, “It won’t work.” Lucas playing in the block area, heard this and walked up to
her and said, “I know how to do it, let me show you.” In the meantime Rickie came to
Lucas to ask him to go back to the block area. Lucas with a serious look and without
lifting his head said, “I’m changing the baby.” He had placed the doll on the table and
was trying to adjust the diaper under the doll. He struggled with keeping the diaper in
place while trying to unfasten the velcro. All through this process, Lakshmi stood by him,
with a look of trust in his competence. After some hard work, Lucas completed the task.
Lakshmi took the doll and placed her on the stroller and started pushing the stroller away.
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Theme 3: Respect/Acceptance. For this construct to be meaningful in my
observation, I adopted a definition that was beyond the traditional cultural, racial and
openness and tolerance for the differences of opinion and choices made by their peers.
They were accepting of gender differences, and accommodated their peers holding
different ideas than their own, and respected the different choices made and ways that
Example 1: Lauren and Rachel persistently invited Lily to join them for pretend play
Example 2: Krishna returned Joyce’s stuffed animal that she had brought from home to
share. He recognized that she could not be parted with her toy.
Example 3: Alison and Rachel exchanged respectful language during their pretend play:
Example 4: Nevin was excited to see a stroller in the sociodramatic play area and said
Example 5: when Ingrid told James that she didn’t want to play pretend, James agreed to
follow her to the carpet so they could play with the cubby toys.
tool in resolving conflict, solving problems, and building relationships with peers for the
preschoolers. Children learn and practice this skill based on their experiences-by what
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worked in the past. I observed that children’s language was instrumental in in children’s
success in their effort to solve problems and negotiate with peers. As had been in other
areas, teachers’ mediation and modeling were also contributed to reaching the desired
goal.
Example 1: Joyce spent some time trying to open the latch on the animal cage. She
proudly showed Mollie how it was done the next day when Mollie encountered the same
situation.
Example 2: Lauren walked in to a loud quarrel between Lamar and Lucas both wanting to
be the dad. She simply suggested, “Why are you fighting, you both can be dads.”
Example 3: Rachel was busy in her own play, but aware of her surroundings and Lucas’s
need of a trashcan to which she suggested a solution, “Just pretend there is one right
here.”
Example 4: Allison walked up to Victoria who had the glasses and successfully requested
patience.
Example 1: Lamar announced that “I’m gonna be the brother, and I will do the
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Example 2: As soon as Lauren heard that the next group of children were coming to play
in the sociodramatic play center, she started cleaning up thereby providing an organized
environment for others. She saw herself as part of the classroom community.
Example 3: Joyce was standing in the sociodramatic play center crying. Joyce often
exhibited difficulty with expressing herself verbally and often resorted to crying. Victoria
approached her bringing a book to her. Joyce pushed the book away hard enough that it
fell down on the floor, and continued crying even louder. Victoria’s chin dropped, she did
not expect that reaction; she picked up the book and walked toward the bookshelf to put it
back. Ms. Stacey finished helping another child at the art table, and walked up to Joyce.
“What’s making you so upset Joyce?” Ms. Stacey’s choice of words was to help Joyce
identify her feelings. She then reminded her, “do you remember that I need to hear your
This example illustrates Joyce’s lack of emotional well-being that despite the teachers’
effort in working with Joyce to control her emotions, it still surfaces at times. Victoria
to her kind gesture. Victoria’s facial expression showed her disbelief in what she had
known to be a cause and effect – that your appropriate actions will result in appropriate
reaction. Ms. Stacey’s calm and collected response to Joyce’s behavior, however, is yet
another example of how teachers modeled behavior that they wanted to see in children.
Using a kind tone of voice, she relayed her empathic understanding of Joyce’s emotional
experience and followed up with a plan of action-“I need to hear your words so I can help
you.”
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Example 4: Mollie was crying quietly because Lauren did not want to “share” the dog.
Ms. Stacey suggested to Mollie to “talk to Lauren and see if she can give it to you when
she is done playing with it.” Ms. Stacey’s suggestion in addition to offering a solution to
Mollie’s situation can also be categorized under “Respect/ Acceptance Theme” for
showing Mollie to respect Lauren’s choice of not wanting to “share” the toy. This
since Mollie was showing a lack of emotional wellness as she wanted Lauren to disregard
her own wants and give up the toy. It could also be categorized under
Example 5: Ms. Stacey asked the children to help in cleaning up the play area to get it
ready for the next group to come in. All children who were participating in the play
cooperatively became engaged in the cleaning activity. Nevin was not playing in this
center but as she was finished at the bock area, she joined the children in cleaning up by
holding up a baby bottle cap and asking, “Hey Rodney, do you know where the baby
bottle is, I have the lid.” Nevin’s offer to help was voluntary as she considered herself a
The sociodramatic play center provided opportunities for children to learn and
exhibit empathy and prosocial behaviors, but to enhance this learning the adult modeling
collection, I noticed the way in which the teacher became co-player; asked open-ended
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questions; and injected ideas and challenges into play to keep it dynamic; allowing the
children to build social competence. Modeling respect is the most effective approach in
creating an environment that children recognize, accept and respect their peers and the
demonstrating respectful language when addressing the children and being responsive to
their needs. Their tone of voice was not threatening or intimidating. The teachers
and reassuring tone of voice while always being in physical proximity to the child to
imply differentiated attention. Below is a list of examples in which teachers exhibited the
Example 1: Ms. Linda modeled respect by promptly providing a trash can to Lucas who
swept the room and was asking for a trash can to empty his pretend trash from the
dustpan.
Example 2: Ms. Linda modeled respect by allowing Jonathan to take his time finishing
Example 3: Ms. Stacey reminded Joyce to wait her turn by stating, “Oh please wait, I am
Example 5: When Mollie decided that she didn’t want Victoria to try on her necklace,
Ms. Linda helped her with choosing appropriate words to communicate that to Victoria.
Example 6: Ms. Linda models respect for others’ belonging when she suggests to
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Example 7: Ms. Stacey modeled respect of the children’s play time by warning them
ahead of time to for the upcoming transition by announcing “ 5 minutes and then we have
to clean up,” this was followed by Rodney walking around the classroom, going center to
center with a bell in his hand saying, “5 more minutes, 5 more minutes.”
Example 8: Ms. Stacey modeled respect for Lily, an English Language Learner by
engaging her in a conversation while she was play-pretending to serve Ms. Stacey lunch.
This also helped give Lily a sense of belonging as it appeared in her confirming smile.
Example 9: Ms. Stacey modeled respect for play props by asking James pick up the purse
Example 10: Ms. Jessica modeled problem solving by allowing Lauren to figure out how
the beater worked. After many trials, Lauren was able to turn the handle to get the whisk
moving.
Example 11: After Ms. Jessica asked Lucas, “Dad, is my food ready?” she modeled self-
regulation by stating, “I will try to be patient,” in response to Lucas letting her know that
Example 12: Ms. Jessica modeled caring by asking Rachel if she needed help removing
Example 13: Nevin, dressed in a mink coat walked in and placed a dish on the table. Ms.
Linda turned her head toward her and affectionately stated, “Oh that’s very nice of you to
bring a dish to the party.” Ms. Linda modeled appreciation for Nevin’s thoughtfulness by
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Analysis in the Form of Vignettes
To probe the play behavior of the children in the sociodramatic context, I focused
on the interactions of the children during their play. Readers may recall that as a general
practice in this classroom, at the end of the morning meeting large group time, children
were asked to make choices about the center or activity with which to start their day.
Those that chose to play in the sociodramatic play area met with a teacher to write/draw a
play plan which explained the roles they would take during the play. Teachers provided
more detailed information to the group typically by reading books related to the theme,
occasionally they watched a video clip, and engaged in related conversation with the
children who chose to play in the sociodramatic play area. On the first day one of my data
collection, Ms. Jessica read a book about a family during small group time and asked
questions such as: “what is the housekeeping area set up as?”; “what does a family
have?” When the children learned that the sociodramatic play has a home living theme,
they started talking about who lives in a house, and chose what role they were going to
play. Ms. Jessica told them “when you are in the housekeeping talk to your friend about
what you want to be”, Krishna immediately announced, “I am definitely glad I chose
housekeeping.”
The vignette below was observed with the following children whose brief history
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The Big Family Vignette
Virginia, Joyce, Krishna and Lakshmi entered the sociodramatic play area. Ms.
Jessica had already read a book to them about family and discussed what makes up a
family. The children had contributed to the discussion and now they were ready to take
Krishna first came to the center 3 years ago when he was almost 2 years old. His
family consists of a father, a mother and an older school age sister. For the past few
years, Krishna has been consistently escorted to school by his father and his sister. His
sister takes the initiative in helping Krishna to change his shoes and help him place his
belongings in his locker. She sits down at the bench where Krishna sits as he stretches his
foot out to be helpful. He too has his routine down, as he expects the help and the sister is
ready to render her help as she seems to feel it is her responsibility. The father takes his
time watching the two of them engage in the process and is available to assist as needed.
Krishna is a very easy-going child and has a cooperative demeanor with his peers. He is
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very articulate in his thoughts and language, and shows a great consideration of his
surroundings.
The next person in the group is the 4 year old Joyce. Joyce too joined the program
when she was two years old at which time both parents were living with her. Her parents
were separated when Joyce was three years old and consequently she spends some days
during each week living with each of her parents. Most days Joyce is picked up by a sitter
and often shows her discontent with that arrangement by stalling her departure process.
The staff often make the remark that “Joyce isn’t finished with her play yet,” to help ease
the situation for the sitter as she appears to be embarrassed by the objections from Joyce.
The staff have worked very closely with Joyce, assisting her with separation issues during
arrival and issues related to dismissal. Joyce has also been closely guided to help her find
words to express her needs instead of crying or becoming frustrated as displayed in her
tone of voice. I have often observed the ALC teachers approach a child in distress with a
calming voice helping the child to identify his or her feelings and then making
suggestions about how to cope with them. In these instances their general practice has
been to provide the child with words to describe the feelings and to guide the child in
finding a way to cope with the unwanted feeling. Such self-regulation techniques are an
integrated part of the teachers’ daily planned activity. For example, they sing action
songs that are directive to certain motions like the Hokey Pokey song to more complex
games that require inhibitory skills such as those needed for playing Simon Says. These
activities develop listening skills as well as skills for following multi-step direction.
Other techniques to help children develop patience and focus include: reading books,
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telling stories, discussing “turn taking,” and teaching children to take long deep breaths
techniques often and this has helped her make great progress in controlling her emotions.
The 5-year old Virginia, joined ALC when she was 3, one year after her brother
had joined the program. She used to come with her mother to pick up her older broth and
was elated to enter the school. Her mom told the staff that she often says she can hardly
wait to come to school herself, and it certainly proved to be the truth when she joined the
program at age 3. For the next two years Virginia entered the door with a wide smile on
her face and lots of stories to share with staff. Virginia’s mom, a teacher herself in a
public school, says, “she acts as if this is the best thing that has happened to her.” During
the time that the older brother was also attending the program with Virginia, she had a
nurturing relationship with him. Virginia would often check on him, and made sure his
needs were met. I am not sure if was in the way that she did it or perhaps how her brother
accepted his role in relation to her; but there were never any disagreement between the
two of them. Virginia continued to be verbally expressive in large group time, extremely
friendly to her peers and a child who followed directions very closely.
Lakshmi joined the program this year as she turned 4 years old. Both of her
parents are professionals and initially she was raised by her grandparents away from her
parents. They had just reunited as she joined the program. Lakshmi is a big sister to a
toddler brother and attends school full time even though her mother works part time.
Initially, Lakshmi showed some separation issues at arrival and cried when her mom
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came to pick her up. That did fade away quickly as she became oriented to the classroom
routine and very interested in play. Lakshmi possesses a broad vocabulary and has a
strong sense of imagination, which is often evident in her sociodramatic play. One
usually finds Lakshmi making a choice to play at that sociodramatic play center and is
very comfortable with any role that is pertinent to the play kit.
On this day, the children’s play started with no objections from anyone with
regards to the roles adopted by each of the children, almost as if it was rehearsed. Krishna
was the only boy in the group and it seemed obvious to him to assume the role of the
father in their play. Krishna pointed to two of the girls in the group: “you’re the little
sister and you’re the big sister.” The two girls accepted the suggestion with no apparent
objection. The atmosphere of cooperation throughout the play events was noticeable to
the teacher as well. Ms. Linda confirmed: 2 sisters, a mom, and a dad and said, “Wow,
that works.”
Ms. Linda: Oh you’re quite a big family; what would you like to do together?
Ms. Linda: Ok, so what do you do when it’s too cold to go outside?
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One can see in this excerpt how Ms. Linda was careful not to make any
assumptions when she engaged in the conversation with the children. At most, she
rephrased what information they provided in an open ended format to extend the
conversation by the children. This was intended to encourage the children to reflect and
Krishna had a pondering look on his face encountering the question from Ms.
Linda. Virginia jumped in: “I wish it was summer so we could go swimming in the pool.”
The shared experiences of the children regarding the notion of taking a vacation,
illustrated that their sociocultural backgrounds also contributed to the children’s play
patterns (Dyson, 1996). But this particular group of children had more in common than
their sociocultural backgrounds; their personalities were also a reason they seemed to like
to play together. They often played in a cooperative manner and were considerate of each
other’s needs. Three of them have siblings, which has perhaps helped in their developing
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a sense of cooperation in group play. Joyce on the other hand is an only child, and often
showed less patience when playing with peers. It is apparent that when she was in the
company of these peers her play behavior was also influenced positively.
Virginia was busy putting the dress up clothes on, while Lakshmi was working in the
kitchen preparing food. Krishna was talking to Ms. Linda when Joyce came up to him
calling his attention, “Dad, Dad” with an urgent voice while directing him toward the
stove. This showed that even in the midst of a conversation about a real life experience,
Joyce was still immersed in her role as the “sister” calling on “Dad” to show him
something. The children’s play continued as they pretended it was nighttime and they
even suggested that Ms. Linda go to sleep too. Krishna remembered what he does before
Krishna: He says touch your head and touch your knee and touch your toes
Ms. Linda: Oh really? And then you do all that and then you fall asleep?
Krishna: Yes
experiences and the play theme across my observations; a practice that we encouraged to
promote children’s deeper learning as they tie the two experiences together.
The nature of play has been described as the creation of imaginary situations
(Franklin, 1983; Vygotsky, 1978). In this vignette, children acted “free” from the
constraints of concrete objects, real situations, and indeed from the limitations of seasons
about as they infused their own intentions and what they wanted to occur in their play.
When they adopted the role of the mother, father or the sisters, their roles both declared
and denied themselves. When Krishna said “I’m the dad,” and acted accordingly, he was
making a conscious choice to rise above the situational constraints. I was able to observe
that even though Krishna rose above the situational constraints of his play, he still
subjected himself to what being a ‘daddy’ culturally meant to him. The children’s pretend
play revealed their knowledge of “classes of individuals and their relations, of categories
and types of goals, of the possible actions and consequences of actions that can be
employed to accomplish these goals” (Garvey, 1990, p. 81). Perhaps the acceptance of
each role by the children without the objection was due to this shared knowledge granting
Children often reenacted what was familiar to them, the roles they chose tended to
be mom, dad and siblings. They were, however more excited to take a role that wasn’t
one of their current experience. Even when they chose to act as children they pretended to
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be older or younger than their own ages. Krishna brought up the issue of age and
determined which sister was to be older and which younger and everyone was in
agreement about his classification. Throughout this vignette, both Virginia and Joyce
were comfortable with sharing the role as sisters, and played in a cooperative manner.
The direction that their play took appeared to be about the issues that were familiar to
them. The children often stayed with their roles and presented a sense of empowerment
Ms. Linda took on the role of the facilitator as she engaged in a dialogue with the
children while providing probing prompts. She openly participated in their play giving
them confirmation and acceptance. The children welcomed Ms. Linda within their
pretend play by suggesting she should go to sleep because it was nighttime. The sense of
comfort and belonging felt by Krishna was surfaced as he shared a very intimate piece of
information about his own bedtime routine with the group displaying his deep level of
trust.
Ms. Linda exhibited care when she engaged in the conversation with Virginia
asking her which lullabies she sings with her mom. Noddings (2005) considered caring in
the classroom to be not only when a teacher cares about a student, but also when helping
a student learn to develop caring for others and the environment around them. The
relationship that Ms. Linda established with the children was one of respect and
acceptance. She was honoring what each child was able to express as well as not able to
express. Ms. Linda gave the children time to think by rephrasing their words into a
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question. This encouraged the child to share more authentically, while feeling safe
because the teacher was able to allow for that exchange to take place. Ms. Linda was
affirming what each child had stated, allowing the children to feel that they had been
heard, and thereby also provided an opportunity to add clarity. I was able to observe this
practice from Ms. Linda throughout the different parts of classroom time and place. For
example, in her comment about how the children’s enactment of having a father, a
mother and two sisters made up for a big family, she followed-up with a value-loaded
question of “What would you like to do together?” This started the conversation between
the children about making arrangements to pursue the fun activity of going to the park.
During her conversation with Krishna, Ms. Linda chose to ask about the impact of
his bedtime ritual assisting in his falling asleep. She provided a caring approach to her
conversation allowing Krishna to share stories from his real life with her as well as his
peers. That exchange was an open invitation for other children to join in the conversation.
Ms. Linda continued her probing by rephrasing and asking open-ended questions. When
Krishna said that, “It was too cold to go outside,” Ms. Linda asked “What do you do
when it’s too cold?” I attributed Krishna’s pondering expression to wanting to figure out
how to do something that was incorporating his friends and their needs.
We will next examine a vignette in which 3-year old Jonathan makes strides
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The Cell Phone Vignette
On the next day, the home living sociodramatic play kit remained the same as the
previous session with the addition of a cell phone. Some children showed interest at the
level of investigating the prop and not necessarily including it in their play. There were
also a few children who became quite occupied with the new prop to an extent of
fascination and showed a harder time being able to depart from it.
In this vignette, we meet Jonathan and Lucas and see Victoria and Joyce again.
The 3-year old Jonathan typically spends the bulk of his time with his buddy Lewis who
he knew from last year when they both were in the toddlers’ classroom. When they both
started this year in the pre-k classroom, they were joining a new group of children. It
seemed like they discovered each other in the new classroom having relied on their
shared history. So when Jonathan decided to choose to play in sociodramatic play area
despite of his buddy’s choice of blocks, I welcomed the opportunity to observe him.
Jonathan has made huge progress with expressive language although at times a teacher
may have to clarify his words to another peer. Jonathan entered the play area and
immediately reached for the cell phone. Victoria entered holding the baby doll to her
chest indicating the role of mom, while Lucas declared, “I’m a dad.” Lakshmi chose to
play at this center almost every day since it was turned into a “house.” She walked in and
was happy to find the second baby doll. Having seen the cell phone in Jonathan’s hand,
Lucas came to me asking “Ms. Parvin, can a 6 year old have a cell phone?” I know his 6
year old brother by name, so I asked him if his brother wanted to have a cell phone. He
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nodded with a grin on his face. Lucas took a half glance at the cell phone and made a
quick attempt at grabbing it from Jonathan. But soon he relinquished the idea and moved
on with his play. Jonathan however, followed him trying to convince him to take a
landline phone instead. Lucas showed indifference and ignored Jonathan’s effort.
Realizing that Lucas was not interested in the phone receiver, Jonathan walked up to him
and said, “You can have the cell phone if you ask nicely.” It almost seemed as if Jonathan
was looking for a way to convince himself why he should hold on to the cell phone, or
perhaps this was a way for him to seek Lucas’s friendship. Whatever the intention,
Jonathan had recognized that for Lucas to receive the phone he must ask “nicely.” This
may not be identified as a prosocial behavior since it lacked volunteering and had a
condition (i.e., ask nicely) attached to it, but certainly it was an indication that Jonathan
recognized what was socially appropriate. Jonathan’s long-term relationship with his
buddy Lewis was one of negotiation and cooperation. They knew how to work together
though occasionally, when they faced disagreements, Lewis would give in when he found
Jonathan crying. The suggestion by Jonathan that Lucas could have the cell phone only
when he asks nicely had proven effective with different play partners in the past.
The next vignette again found Victoria and Lucas along with Lakshmi in the
housekeeping area. Victoria’s manner in which she held her baby doll resembled an
adult’s handling of a real baby. Gently holding the baby to her chest, Victoria sat on the
red couch with one leg crossing the other. She held the bottle close to the baby’s mouth
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and began feeding her, while propping the baby’s head to position it just right. The
professional handling of the baby by Victoria was likely achieved as a result of watching
her parents care for her new baby sister. The children were playing cooperatively until
Lakshmi walked up to the crib hastily and shouted in distress, “Lucas, Noo!” “Don’t push
it Lucas!” Lucas in reply repeated twice firmly, “I’m not doing anything.” Ms. Linda
heard the exchange and walked up to the children and sat by the crib with the baby doll
Ms. Linda paused as she expected the children to answer her question. When no
reply was offered she turned to Lucas and continued, “Are you rocking her to
asleep?” Lucas nodded his head with a look of relief merged with a look of
triumph on his face for having been understood by his teacher. Lucas’s caring
attitude as well as the acceptance from his peers allowed him to transcend the
traditional gender roles (playing with a doll) and display a deep level of patience
and care for the baby. I attributed the disagreement stemming from Lakshmi’s
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unwillingness to share the baby with Lucas, because she had created a play plan
and did not want Lucas to interrupt the plan (I have previously observed Lakshmi
in similar situations). However, since she did not give any reason, I will never
know if the objection from Lakshmi had anything to do with Lucas being a boy
and wanting to take care of the baby. In any case, Lakshmi was assured of the
baby’s safety by Ms. Linda and the play continued. Ms. Linda’s intervention was
an opportune moment to shed light on the incident and help Lakshmi see the
situation from Lucas’s perspective. Ms. Linda explained to Lakshmi that, “We
take care of baby, we rock her to sleep; feed her and change her.” She continued,
“When you shouted at Lucas, you surprised him, he couldn’t tell you that he was
only trying to rock the crib with baby in it.” This explanation not only helped
Lakshmi in her understanding of the situation and her realization that what
appeared to her was not what was happening. It also helped Lucas realize that
Lucas showed both Lucas and Lakshmi the appropriate behavior; Lucas to know
babies need rocking and for Lakshmi to learn to ask question when not sure.
of the baby and the important role preschool teachers can have in subtly guiding
children’s deeper understandings of each other with coaching about effective ways to
communicate. Ms. Linda could have simply told Lakshmi not to yell at Lucas, but that
response would have missed the opportunity to allow Lakshmi more time to consider that
her perception of what Lucas was doing might not have been his actual intent. Lucas also
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had a chance to hear how he might have expressed his intentions more clearly to
Lakshmi, and the fact that sometimes intentions maybe misunderstood if not clarified by
words. As discussed in the literature, being able to realize that another person may not
understand what you are thinking as well as understanding that another person can have
intentions different than one’s own are ideas related to development of a theory of mind.
In the next vignette, still from the home living play theme, we again see how
The next day, Lakshmi and Rachel entered the sociodramatic play area discussing
how they wanted to bake a cake. I have observed both girls in play pretend at an
advanced level. They would probably be able to hold a play episode all day if no one
interrupted them. There were numerous occasions that I observed these two girls in
particular, walk around this play environment and investigate the area very closely. These
girls knew exactly what play props were in this area, how to use them and they were
often a source of information to other children. These two girls appeared very natural in
their roles during play as if they had come to terms with their worlds (Greenman, 1988).
The expansive knowledge of the play sometimes created a rivalry where one had to
convince the other to accept her lead. On this particular day, Lakshmi and Rachel started
their play with a disagreement about the baking of the cake. Holding an empty bottle of
syrup, Rachel pretended to pouring it over the batter that they both had worked on
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preparing. Lakshmi taking this more seriously was trying to convince Rachel that the
recipe did not call for syrup. At first she tried to calmly reason with Rachel:
Rachel pretended that she did not hear anything and continued to squirt the
Rachel still ignored her and continued with the squirting movements over the
pretend cake. Despite Rachel’s lack of overt response, Lakshmi peacefully, yet
As children look up to adults, they often feel that whatever their parents do cannot
be wrong. In this situation, Lakshmi was referring to her knowledge that her mother’s
cakes are tasty and do not contain syrup. Realizing that even her logic didn’t seem to
convince Rachel finally frustrated Lakshmi, who then yelled in a loud voice “No
Rachel!” while holding the beater in her hand, she followed Rachel to stop her.
At this point, Ms. Linda intervened, trying to help resolve the situation:
Ms. Linda: How about if we make one cake with syrup and one without any syrup
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This suggestion worked like water on a flame of fire. The girls calmed down and
reunited by the stove in the kitchen. I had witnessed Ms. Linda in similar situations
inviting children to resolve their issue by simply stating, “What do you think we should
do?” In many cases the children were the ones thinking of a solution. This time, however,
she identified the need for a more immediate intervention and proposed a solution. The
one she suggested managed to honor both children’s right to choose. By suggesting the
baking of two cakes, Ms. Linda validated both children’s expansive knowledge of their
In the “taking turns” vignette below, we see another way that teachers in
interaction with the children can take advantage of opportunities to model and inculcate
The sociodramatic play center continued to be popular. The children learned how
the “waiting list” worked and used it properly. This system allowed the children to
recognize a sense of fairness in the system. They knew that it might feel a long time
while they had to wait to enter, but also realized that their interest in choosing this center
was both recognized and respected. They often reminded a peer wanting to enter the
center to either check for the next name on the list or write their name down for a turn. I
also witnessed children offering markers to peers or helping them with writing their
names on the list. This waiting list itself became a source of cooperation and self-
regulation. But, we still encountered instances of a child who eagerly wanted a turn in the
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center. On the fourth day of the housekeeping theme, Lauren was reminded by Ms.
Stacey for the third time that four friends were playing in the sociodramatic play and that
she needed to make another choice until her turn came up on the waiting list. Having
realized Lauren’s impatience with waiting, Ms. Stacey held Lauren in her arms and
whispered into her ear, “I know you really want to be here, and that you were here before,
but we have to wait till one friend leaves before you can go in.” Lauren showed signs of
relief hearing Ms. Stacey’s calming voice and the acknowledgement that her teacher
knew how much Lauren wanted to play at this center. She got off from Ms. Stacey’s lap
and moaned, “But, it’s fun here.” Ms. Stacey put her hand on Lauren’s shoulder leaning
down to see her face said, “I know, but please make another choice to give our friends a
chance to be here too.” Lauren nodded in agreement while taking the long way out of the
center as she went to the writing center. Not much later she was able to replace a child
Ms. Stacey, through kind gestures and calming words, was able to persuade
Lauren to extend her patience for a turn to play. Teachers modeling of love, empathy and
empowerment is vital for children. When teachers respect children with the courtesy of
acknowledging that children’s desires and wishes are important to them, the children are
more likely to cooperate. Ms. Stacey’ reference to the fact that Lauren had been in the
sociodramatic play center before, and that she needed to give her friends a chance too,
strengthened a sense of empathy in Lauren. Lauren was indirectly instructed to see the
situation from the perspective of her friends. She was encouraged to relate to what others
are feeling (“give our friends a chance to be here too”). Ms. Stacey validated Lauren’s
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desire, while showing a gesture of affection (holding her in her arms) and appealing to
her sense of fairness. When Lauren shared her reason for wanting to stay – “it’s fun
here,” – Ms. Stacey first acknowledged Lauren’s emotions, thereby helping her feel
validated and heard, and then shared ideas about fairness and giving everyone a chance.
This was done from a space of empowerment, allowing Lauren to know that she can
The concept of choice is crucial for children, as it allows them to develop self-
confidence, self-esteem and a feeling of empowerment that they do have some control
over their own decisions and choices. Opportunities for making choices teaches children
to look inside themselves for problem solving and ultimately self-regulation techniques
and skills. If the children are told what they have to do, they are likely to become
followers not leaders; they may become less interested in thinking for themselves and
wait for others to make their decisions or tell them what to do; and they are more likely to
seek for others’ approval. Lauren’s understanding and agreement to the present situation
will likely later be demonstrated in her prosocial behavior towards her peers. Lauren’s
understanding that her needs are recognized and valued will help her in developing her
self-calming skills as well as her sense of caring, fairness, and empathy for others. By
allowing Lauren to take the long way out of the center, Ms. Linda gave her freedom, time
and space to process her feelings in her own way. If Ms. Linda had interrupted Lauren
and told her to leave quickly, she possibly would have gotten upset and then started
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Even though the teachers had to limit the children’s time in the center so that
other interested children could have a chance to participate, but throughout their
sociodramatic play narratives. They were able to sustain enjoyable play scenarios and the
I next turn to several vignettes of episodes that occurred during the days when the
Veterinary Clinic
During the second part of my data collection, I switched the home living theme in
the sociodramatic play to represent a veterinarian’s clinic. I began to set up the play kit
on Sunday evening to have it ready for when the children walked in on Monday morning.
When the children gathered on the carpet for group meeting, Ms. Stacey told the children
that “Ms. Parvin has turned the housekeeping into a veterinarian’s office for you to play
in.” She then added that I would be watching them play as I have done in the past couple
of weeks. She also reminded them that the camera will be there too, so I would be able to
watch them at play later. This explanation worked to satisfy the curiosity of the children
who were surprisingly excited to see the new set up in the sociodramatic play.
As discussed in chapter two and three, children enjoy participating in play and
activities that involve animals in general and their care in particular. Each year, the
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teachers involve the children in collecting donations of goods for an animal shelter. I had
seen children’s dedication and immense engagement during this activity, which prompted
me to consider this play kit. I anticipated that the children would demonstrate their
Cheng and Monroe (2012) have suggested that witnessing a damaged animal or plant
may foster empathy and the motivation to take care of the creature and nature. I
anticipated that children’s involvement in running a clinic to care for the damaged
animals would bring many episodes of care and empathy to their play. The vignettes
Nevin, Joyce, Lewis, Rachel and Mollie entered the center excitedly. They were
the first group that had the chance to make their choices for this center. Due to the
overwhelming interest from the children, and since this was the first day of the new kit,
the teachers decided to allow 5 children to enter the center to decrease the number of
Unlike the home living theme that included play props with which most children
were familiar, this play kit included items that demanded initial exploration from the
children. They first began to manipulate the tools and toys in the play kit that were laid
out on the table covered by a surgical cover to resemble an operating table. Some of the
children (many of whose parents were physicians) knew the names for some of the tools
and started explaining them to the other children. The demeanor of the children offering
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the information and of those who were receiving the information suggested a relationship
Nevin: It beeps a funny sound and then she calls the office.
After this episode, Joyce picked up the stethoscope and placed it around her
shoulder just like the picture on the poster hanging on wall. She told Ms. Stacey that she
was making a special treat for her snake. Ms. Stacey had brought her snake to the clinic
to get examined; the snake had not been moving according to its owner. Ms. Stacey
responded to Joyce, “Oh you’re making a special treat for my snake, that’s so nice of
you.” Mollie brought the surgical mask to Ms. Stacey so she could help her put it on.
Children were moving around the table, looking inside the doctor’s bag and taking out
different tools of the trade. Nevin had put on one pair of gloves and offered the other pair
to Rachel, saying, “Here, you need these too.” Lewis was holding a bear (stuffed animal)
and moving around the table wondering where to start. In the meantime, Joyce brought
Joyce: Yeah!
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Ms. Stacey: What do I need to do to care for him at home?
Ms. Stacey handled the snake very delicately that demonstrated sensitivity and
care. Ms. Stacey did not receive a reply from Joyce who was trying to keep her
gloves on, so she rephrased and continued, “So what do I need to do so I make
Ms. Stacy held her snake carefully in her arms and motioned to leave the clinic.
At that point, Lewis holding a dental mirror, walked up to Nevin and asked “What is this
for?” Nevin was talking to Rachel and did not answer him, so Lewis went to Ms. Stacey,
“What is this for?” Ms. Stacey crouched down to Lewis’s eye level and replied, “Let me
see.” She took it from Lewis so she could see it closely, and continued, “It’s a mirror to
look inside the animal’s mouth.” Lewis then took the device and walked away holding
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Ms. Stacey gave the children a warning that, “my friends in this area you have
about 5 more minutes.” Joyce, who still had the stethoscope around her neck, objected
with a moaning voice, “But I just got here.” Ms. Stacey replied, “I know but I have a lot
of friends who want to try this area today, and then if you want to come back here you
can add your name to the list again, but you have 5 minutes, so you are good for a little
longer.” Ms. Stacey’s gentle motion of touching Joyce on the shoulder and assuring her
that she still had time remaining, eased Joyce’s eagerness. Knowing that there was
system in place that could assure her return (the waiting list) also contributed to her
acquiescence to the situation. Joyce had had the stethoscope since they arrived at the
center, Nevin gently approached her pointing to the stethoscope and asked:
Joyce: Hey, you knnnnow (with a convincing tone) here (giving her the doctor’s
bag and looking around to find another possible interesting thing to offer her.)
Since Joyce couldn’t find anything of interest in her immediate vicinity, she took
off the stethoscope and handed it to Nevin. Nevin happily accepted it and put the
stethoscope in her ears while holding the end with one hand and the bag in the other
hand. Joyce with Nevin at her side stood near the table, picked up a Dalmatian puppy and
placed the thermometer in the puppy’s ear. Lewis started picking stuffed animals off the
floor and placing them on the couch. In a somewhat complaining tone, he said, “There
are too many animals on the ground.” Ms. Stacey heard his comment and turned around
and added, “I know, I’m gonna have to find a basket to put some of them in there.”
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Although, the program has done away with having “show and tell,” teachers
sometimes ask children to bring things from home as their way of making a home-school
connection. This time they had asked the children to bring their favorite stuffed animal to
the clinic. That resulted in a busy clinic. At the surgical table, Nevin and Rachel
continued their examination of the animals on the bed while giving them injections and
medicine. Ms. Stacey announced, “My friends in this area, let’s go ahead and pick up
everything, and then we’re going to allow the next group to come in.” Joyce started
jumping up and down saying “I wanna stay here,” as the other children started to put the
toys away promptly. Ms. Stacey continued with her past argument, “Oh Joyce, I have a
big list, and I want all my friends to have a turn today.” She brought the waiting list to
Joyce, leaned over the table and gave her the pencil and said, “Add your name and you
will have another turn here.” Joyce took the pencil and started writing her name down on
the list. Ms. Stacey had realized that Joyce needed a tangible assurance about her return
to this center. Ms. Stacey’s sensitively offered a solution to situation that could have
escalated. This was more than half way through the school year, and the teachers had
learned that Joyce often required their undivided attention and additional support to
control her impulses. They had devised a system, and developed a glossary that they used
for supporting Joyce to control her impulsivity and emotions during different parts of the
The concept of self-regulation has received a great deal of attention in the recent
research in the field of early childhood education. It has been recognized as a stronger
indicator of school success than IQ. This concept is deserving of its fame now more than
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ever before as modern lifestyles do nothing but speed up. Children today witness their
families’ busy schedule and consequently they feel the impact on their daily lives. We
live in a time and a place that “fast’ is the golden word (fast food, fast cars, fast healing,
fast weight loss, etc.), and its counterpart, waiting is an undesirable concept. The skills to
learn to wait, to delay gratification, to allow the present moment, and to be tolerant of
events, people and ideas are of great value that need to be rooted early on in life. The
notion of a “waiting list” was created to give waiting a positive connotation; one that
helped children become “accepting” of the concept of “waiting” as an integral part of the
classroom routine. The children initially showed minor discontent with the procedure of
the waiting list, but they soon came to understand it as a way to reach their goal. The
waiting list became a self-regulation tool for those who needed the support. Joyce, for
example, benefitted greatly from this design and teachers hoped that these small steps
would work to help her develop patience and more self-regulation. While Joyce was busy
adding her name to the waiting list, Lewis voluntarily started picking up the stuffed
animals from the floor and lined them up on the couch; making the center look orderly
for the next group of friends to enter. Lewis’s action can be attributed to his sense of
Mollie who had anxiously waited for a turn into the sociodramatic play area
entered with Lucas, Jonathan and William. Mollie, holding a bunny in her arm, walked in
and went straight to the reception desk. She must have had that planned while she was
waiting for her turn at the nearby writing center. Jonathan was interested in examining
the stethoscope, while Lucas walked in announcing that, “I’m the doctor.” William, who
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was not a frequent visitor to the sociodramatic play center, showed some hesitancy as he
entered the center. He stood at the surgical table calmly and inspected the props one by
one. At the other corner, Ms. Jessica brought a dog to the reception desk and addressed
Mollie, “Mam, my dog hasn’t been feeling good, can I see the doctor about my dog?”
Mollie holding her rabbit closely with one arm, reached out to the keyboard with the
other hand and started typing the information that she received. Lucas having a
stethoscope in his ears and a pair of gloves on his hand, walked up to Ms. Jessica.
Lucas nodded with approval while smiling and took the dog from Ms. Jessica.
Lucas held the dog with two arms close to his chest with much care and walked to the
surgical table. Ms. Jessica followed him. On the way, Jonathan holding a stethoscope
close to his ears told Ms. Jessica “I wanna be doctor too,” to which she replied, “Oh sure,
Ms. Jessica followed Lucas to the table where Lucas had laid down the dog and
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Lucas: I can help him
For the following several minutes, Lucas took his time examining the dog,
listening to his heart, giving him a shot, and offering him a bone. All through the
examination time, he kept the dog on the table, moving him side to side with extreme
caution. Lucas had immersed himself in his role as the veterinary doctor and took his task
became more in control of their play events, their imagination rose higher, and their play
language expanded. There were still occasions of play at its “functional” level observed
with some children engaged with the play props, as it was the case with William. Overall,
children exhibited care and cooperation during their play; they showed a sense of
community by taking on tasks that benefitted others; and practiced self-regulation skills
It was the second day of using the veterinary clinic and a pretend hospital bed had
been added to the props. This bed was in the middle of the area and was covered with
new stuffed animals. The children had been asked to bring their favorite stuffed animal to
school to include in the clinic. Almost every child came to school with a stuffed animal
and some brought more than one, but were asked to keep the extras in their lockers and
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swap them with the one they had in the play when they wanted to control the crowded
clinic. Pointing to the stuffed animal on the hospital bed, Lakshmi said, “Rachel, pick a
pet.” Rachel while picking up a dog said, “I will take this one.” In the meantime, Victoria
reached and picked a pig from the group. Joyce, hastily charged at Victoria with a
complaining voice, “That’s mine, Victoriaaaa.” Victoria’s first impulse was to hand
Joyce the pig and with a clam, quiet voice she said, “We’re supposed to share these toys.”
Victoria must have assumed that the toy she picked up was the toy that Joyce brought
from home. She showed no resistance and gave it up. Surprised and somewhat
embarrassed, Joyce tried to make up for her unfriendly gesture and picked up the biggest
animal from the pack and offered it to Victoria, “You can have this one.” Her voice was
very convincing as she made it sound like she was giving Victoria a better deal. Victoria,
as is her usual demeanor of leading her own play, showed no interest and walked further
to take another animal from the other corner of the hospital bed. Victoria was happy with
her choice of a bunny and she held her closely and smiled. From outside of the range of
the camera I heard Lamar’s voice counting the number of children in the sociodramatic
play area, “There is only one, two, three, four friends in there.” Lamar was talking to Ms.
Jessica about joining in the group. Ms. Jessica said, “Oh four people? I will try to start a
waiting list.” She must have found the waiting list close by as I heard her say, “Oh there
is a waiting list over here.” Ms. Jessica brought the paper to the table and helped Lamar
write down his name on the waiting list. She continued, “Ok, I’m setting the timer for 15
minutes today, since we have a lot of friends who want to play here today.” Jonathan and
William asked to be on the waiting list too. Lamar carried the frog he had brought from
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home and added it to the animals already on the hospital bed. He then left to make
another choice.
Lakshmi, holding the doctor’s bag walked to the surgical table while talking to
Joyce who was telling her that her pet was sick and she had brought her to the clinic.
Lakshmi guided her to have a seat on the chair next to the surgical table and asked her to
leave her pet on the table for examination. Joyce put the pet down and picked up a
magazine turning the pages, while Lakshmi put on her gloves and took out a needle from
her bag:
Lakshmi took out a syringe from the bag and placed it on the dog’s leg. Rachel
and Jonathan approached the table where Lakshmi was working. Rachel was holding a
cage and Jonathan had a bunny in his hand. Lakshmi pointed to the corner of the room
and said, “That is the waiting room, you need to wait there for your turn.” They both
rushed to get there, Rachel sat on the red chair holding the cage on her lap, while
Jonathan moved behind the reception desk and sat on the chair. Lakshmi walked up to the
table and proceeded to speak to Jonathan, “Hello, do you have a patient for me?”
Jonathan got up, picked up the bunny from the table and followed Lakshmi to the surgical
table where she had laid out the syringe, thermometer, gloves, mask and the doctor’s bag.
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Lakshmi put the thermometer on bunny, and said, “It’s 3, 3, 8! He has a high fever.” Ms.
Linda joined in the play, “Hi friends.” Lakshmi announced, “I am the doctor.”
Lakshmi: Yea
Lakshmi got distracted by the conversation outside of the play area, after a short
pause, she responded, “the bunny got a high fever.” Ms. Linda continued, “Oh, that isn’t
Ms. Linda: A checkup? Are you giving him a shot? (As she saw Lakshmi picking
up a syringe)
Lakshmi: Yea.
Krishna walked in holding a big monkey wearing a t-shirt and a pair of sneakers.
Earlier that morning, Krishna had showed the monkey to his friends as they were all
sharing what they had brought from home. Ms. Linda addressed Krishna, “Is he coming
for a checkup?” Krishna looked perplexed and Ms. Linda rephrased her question, “Or is
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there something that doesn’t feel right about him?” Krishna paused and replied,
“Something that doesn’t feel right about him.” Ms. Linda then repeated Krishna’s
sentence back to him as a question and added, “What would that be?” Ms. Linda had to
turn to Lakshmi as she wanted to follow up with the conversation they had earlier.
Jonathan was still patiently waiting by the surgical table while Lakshmi was getting
Ms. Linda: How many times a day should we give it to the bunny?
Lakshmi: 11 or 12
By this time Krishna had some time to hear the conversation and perhaps think
about what could be wrong with his monkey. He came to Ms. Linda holding his monkey
Ms. Linda: You’re right, there is something that doesn’t feel right about him.
Krishna: Yea.
Ms. Linda: Maybe the veterinarian can check on his hand to make sure everything
is ok.
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Krishna turned around and tried to get Lakshmi’s attention, Ms. Linda continued,
sustained from the very first day, probably as it offered them a setting about which they
had a greater familiarity (Shapiro, 2004). Their prior knowledge about the home living
theme offered them an advantage in which their language and practices enhanced their
play. They knew what it takes to run a home, how the play props worked and what
defined the roles. In the veterinarian’s clinic theme, some children were more engaged
than others. This was partly due the individual child’s developmental level and his or her
pretend play ability; and partly due to child’s prior experiences with the language and the
real props used for the treatment of a patient. Ms. Linda made that realization when she
rephrased her sentence when asking Krishna about his monkey. Krishna’s pause to
respond was an indication that she needed to be more descriptive in her question. Perhaps
Krishna did not have the schema for “a checkup.” Ms. Linda provided the children who
questions such as: “So what should I do for him to make him feel better” and “Are you
gonna get a different medicine for him, now that the other medicine didn’t help him” as
well as “What do you think this is used for?’ and “Should I sit in the waiting room while
When Nevin entered the play, I anticipated that the play might go deeper than it
had for a while. The children were mostly engaged in playing with the props, handling,
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exploring and investigating them instead of using the props to create a story episodes.
Nevin was usually very interested in books and I would always see her in the reading area
either looking at books or having gotten a teacher to read a book to her. She had a broad
vocabulary, articulate language, and a strong sense of imagination. Her parents (both
trained in medicine) read to her regularly, and engaged her in conversation often. She was
also visited by her grandparents who stay at her house regularly. The conversation below
is between Nevin and Lauren when she picked up the phone and called the doctor:
Nevin: Hi doctor
Nevin: My froggy, my froggy just doesn’t feel good today, I think he’ll need a
checkup today.
Lauren: Oh ok, you can come right here and I will help you.
They both hung up the phone and got together. Nevin had a frog in her arm, while
Lauren was trying to keep her loosely fit nylon gloves on, and manage the stethoscope in
her ears.
Nevin’s voice was sad and somewhat distressed as she handed Lauren the frog.
Lauren took the frog, brought it to her eye level and said, “Hi Froggy” with a loving
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voice. She then put the frog down and started searching in the doctor’s bag. Lily
continued, “He’s having some trouble, he’s been really really sick.” Nevin paused as
she looked to see what Lauren is taking out of the bag, and then added, “He’s been,…
he’s been having like diarrhea and stuff.” Nevin saw that Lauren did not show any
reaction to her statement so she repeated herself as though she wanted to make sure that
Lauren understood her, “He’s been having diarrhea and stuff, ok?” Clearly Nevin was
interested in developing a story in her play, Lauren on the other hand was more immersed
in playing with the props and as a result did not jump into the story with Nevin. At this
instant, I described in my field notes that Nevin was enacting the character in the book
she had read earlier about the veterinarian office visit by a pet owner. She was trying to
convey the symptoms of her pet to the veterinarian during her visit. It was clear that her
narrative was adapted from the story and she had put it to use with a real experience she
had in real life (she herself had been ill the week before with diarrhea).
During my observation of this plat kit, I noticed that novelty of materials and a
really empathy-conducive setup may not necessarily translate into very many
opportunities for exhibiting prosocial and empathic behavior beyond the general “care of
animals.”
On the 8th day of this play kit in practice, Lakshmi walked in to join Jonathan and
Lauren already in the center. Lauren announced that she was the doctor, Jonathan was
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sitting at the reception desk writing on a piece of paper while holding a telephone
receiver to his ear. The children asked Ms. Linda to come join their play.
Ms. Linda: So, you may want to wait in the waiting room (pointing to Lakshmi
who was standing by the surgical table, and directing her to the red chair).
Ms. Linda turned to Jonathan and asked if he had the patient information
(assuming he is the receptionist). Jonathan gave her the clipboard. Ms. Linda said, “Oh,
looks like you’ve already taken the information.” She handed Lakshmi the clipboard, and
continued, “Can you make sure all the information is correct?” Lakshmi held her dog in
one arm close to her chest and placed the clipboard on her lap. Lakshmi stared at the
clipboard for a few seconds, then lifted her head up and told Ms. Linda, “It’s all correct.”
To her response Ms. Linda said, “The doctor will be with you shortly.” Lauren heard that
from the other side of the play area and walked up to Lakshmi, saying “Coming.” She put
her hand on Lakshmi’s shoulder and directed her towards the surgical table where all the
Lauren: What’s wrong with your dog? (While putting on the vinyl gloves)
Lakshmi: He can’t walk, I think he broke a bone. (Ms. Linda started writing)
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Ms. Linda: I am taking down all these information so that way we have it on the
Lauren, while struggling to keep her gloves on, pulled out the syringe to get it
ready for the injection. She placed the dog on the table, asked Lakshmi to place her hand
on the dog and then gently proceeded with the injection. She then took out a bone and
offered it to Lakshmi to give it to her dog. I watched Lauren’s play behavior improving
significantly from the week before when she was playing with the animals in isolated
instances. On this day, Lauren’s play had a narrative with action and language that were
contextual to the play. Lakshmi, who grew up in a household of physicians and seemed to
be not only drawn to such play but also leading the play and directing her peers,
graciously took the role of the pet owner. She accepted Lauren as the doctor, a role that
she had masterfully performed every time she participated in this play area until this
instance. The teachers’ effort to include more books related to the play theme, and
discussion with the children about their experiences with the care of their pets may have
helped make the connections to real life experiences and facilitated the children’s play
narratives. This became more obvious, when Ms. Linda asked Jonathan if he had a name
for his bunny that he brought into the clinic. Jonathan while waiting in the waiting room
for his turn, started jumping up and down and said, “Hoppie!” Ms. Linda asked,
“Hoppie? You know what does that reminds me of?” Jonathan with incredulity in his
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voice answered “Noo…” She continued by reminding him about the bunny that the
children used to watch from the window as it hopped around the playground. Ms. Linda’s
remembered how the bunny had eaten a lot of the vegetables that they had planted in the
garden, and when they didn’t see him coming back, they thought that he must have gotten
Toward the end of the second week of veterinary clinic play kit, I noticed the
children became more fluent with the enactment of their roles, and the appropriate use of
terminology relevant to the veterinary clinic. As time progressed, the children’s pretend
play became more mature. I noticed the teachers spending less time identifying play
props and their functions, as well as less explanation of what might be entailed in the play
roles. The children’s narratives and play became more complex and lengthier. What
remained the same however, was that the children were as cordial if not more so, when it
came to respecting their peers’ taking turns, sharing props, and agreeing to the role
enactment by their peers. These were essential components for peaceful, and cooperative
interactions that guided the children’s play through which they demonstrated prosocial
Conclusion
I selected a classroom for collecting data for this study inside of a program that I
knew for the last 13 years. I informed the families about my study and had numerous
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discussions with the teachers about my research design. I discussed with the teachers the
two play themes of home living and veterinary clinic to be implemented in the
sociodramatic play area. I gathered a list of the play props and ask them to choose the
related books to be available to the children during the data collection period.
I video recorded the play themes, wrote observation field notes and added memos
to clarify what I had observed. I did not engage in the children’s play but I answered their
questions mostly about the play props and how it was used. During the first two weeks of
data collection, children were engaged in the play as they took on the roles of parents
and/or siblings. They were comfortable in their roles and mostly reflected their past
experiences in their play. The language, the play props and the relationships were all
familiar to the children and required minimal explanation or assistance from the teachers.
During the second phase of the data collection using a veterinary clinic, I found that the
children required more guidance as how to use the play props and the language needed to
I had the advantage of knowing the teachers in the classroom, some more than
learning. When a question came from the children to each teacher, I could usually predict
what the responses would be and most often I was proven right. All three of the teachers
had similar theoretical perspectives and that helped with the continuity and consistency of
their teaching. The teachers were attentive to children’s physical and emotional needs and
the environment was designed to promote prosocial skills. The general ethos of the
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classroom was positive and loving which doubtless helped the children reflect these
attitudes in their behaviors. I found that the sociocultural context of the children’s home
prosocial and empathic behaviors during their play. The notion of caring and cooperation
repeatedly surfaced as children interacted with each other. The display of empathy
through tone of voice, gestures, looks and attitudes was most salient in children as they
negotiated play plans, solved problems and worked at maintaining peaceful play events.
In this chapter, I discussed findings from participants, environment and the classroom
settings in which the data were collected. In the final chapter, I will discuss the overall
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Chapter Five
Discussion
The purpose of this study was to explore children’ prosocial and empathic
behaviors exhibited during their sociodramatic play. The sociodramatic play center was
selected not for its known ability in developing prosocial behavior, but as a vehicle by
which prosocial behavior becomes salient to the observer. Sociodramatic play provided
the opportunity for this study to explore prosocial interactions between preschool
children and their peers and teachers as well as the environment in which they played.
The prosocial behaviors explored in this study included-but were not limited to acts of
cooperation, compliance, kindness, assistance, and sharing. The children’s capacity for
empathy was demonstrated through their ability to connect to their peers, understand their
feelings and behaviors and communicate that understanding through their appropriate
reactions (Allison et al., 2011). Children’s reactions were displayed through an array of
verbal and nonverbal means; their body language and gestures, in particular, often
another person or group of people without the actor’s anticipation of external rewards”
(Mussen & Eisenberg-Berg, 1977, p. 3). Such actions are identified by some researchers
as empathy, sharing, caring, helping, comforting, and cooperation. From this perspective
thought to encourage prosocial behavior. Regardless of the different views about the
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exact relationship between prosocial behaviors and empathy, in this study I observed
children display prosocial and empathic behaviors during their pretend play with their
peers, teachers and environment. In my observations during this study, I learned that
prosocial behavior and empathy are closely interrelated; while their relationships varied
Although this study did not examine the process by which prosocial behavior and
empathy are developed in young children; there were many factors that contributed to the
situation being particularly conducive for seeing prosocial and empathic behaviors. These
included that many of the children had been at the Center for one to two years and
therefore quite well-enculturated into the norms of Center. Also, there has been
continuity in the staff for a number of years, allowing them to build strong relationships
with each other and with the families. Additionally, the size of the Center, being limited
ratio of 3 teachers to 20 children (in the classroom observed) fosters close relationships.
contexts, but this particular set of factors likely enhanced the chances. The classroom’s
view of the daily routine and operation of a classroom in which there was concerted
effort to promote such behaviors. Teachers’ interactions with children, their efforts to
practices, helped meet each child’s emotional needs. A general feeling of trust, respect
helping, sharing and other prosocial behaviors with their peers (Eisenberg, Fabes, &
prosocial behaviors and empathic tendencies were lacking and were present. The impact
of teachers’ modeling caring and empathic language, as well as actions were highlighted
in this study to demonstrate that prosocial and empathic behavior are skills to be
acquired. When adults model the desired value-loaded behaviors, children are more likely
to adopt these than if they are merely exhorted to behave in a certain way (Kohn 1991;
Tables 7 and 8 represent the frequency of children attending the home living and
the veterinary clinic in sociodramatic play on a daily basis. The number of children
fluctuated day to day with the second day of the first week of the home living theme
having had the highest number of children choosing sociodramatic play. This was the day
that I brought in the baby dolls and the strollers and perhaps the novelty of the new play
props added the attraction for the children. On the third day the number of participants
decreased as I observed less children interested in choosing this center. The day before,
children who played at the center experienced less sharing and this may have contributed
to fewer children interested in going back to that center. On the fourth day, I added a cell
phone which brought a new interest for some to choose the sociodramatic play area as
their choice. Two children, Rickie and Neely that participated in this center, I later
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observed did not show repeated interest in this center as did their other peers. This may
have been due to their curiosity about the new props. Rickie came back to this center at
the beginning of the veterinary clinic as if he wanted to see what the play props were;
particularly, since I observed him less engaged in the narrative and more in handling the
play props. I sometimes found him playing at the close by center, sometimes just
stopping his activity and watching the children who were playing at the sociodramatic
play area, and sometimes talking to them from afar. Rickie returned to this center the
very last day of data collection, but I was able to see him playing in the sociodramatic
play area at other times after my data collection was completed. Neely came back to the
sociodramatic play area the last two days of the veterinary clinic and was interested in the
actual pretend play. Ronnie came to this play area once during the second week of the
home living theme. His first choice often was the writing center, and later on he would
move to math and puzzle center. Even when he was in the sociodramatic play area he
listened to what others would suggest for him to take on as a role and was not interested
in initiating a role. Interestingly however, when the teacher asked for a volunteer to leave
the area so another child can have a turn, Ronnie voiced out, “I just got here”, even
though it had been 20 minutes since he was playing in the center. This leads me to
Several children chose sociodramatic play almost regularly, when teachers asked
children to plan their activities for the day, these included children like Lucas, Lakshmi,
Rachel and Victoria confidently chose sociodramatic play area. While another few were
more interested to follow a friend’s lead. For example, Amy seemed to wanting to follow
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Victoria and her choice; Lewis seemed to sometimes base his choice following
Jonathan’s lead and choose the center because Jonathan was going to play there. I
observed the same situation at times was true for Lamar as he seemed to be interested in
where Lucas chose to play. The general overview of the table, demonstrates that a
number of children regularly chose the sociodramatic play area, a few showed interest
only a few times and one (Brad) never chose to be in the sociodramatic play center. One
reason for Brad not making it to the sociodramatic play area may have been due to his
late arrival to school. Brad attended school three days a week, and was dropped off after
his sibling were able to get on the bus, that caused him to arrive after circle time and
Contrary to the first day of home living theme with only 2 children at a time
showing interest in choosing sociodramatic play as their choice; the first day of the
veterinary clinic started with a bang, as a large number of children showed interest in
participating in this play center. The waiting list was in full swing allowing four children
at a time to enter the play area. This may have been due to both a new theme being
introduced and that the teachers had asked the children to bring in their favorite stuffed
animal to add to the veterinary clinic. Every child came to school with a stuffed animal
and was eager to have a turn in the play center showing their friends what they brought to
school. On the following third, fourth, and fifth days of the first week of the veterinary
clinic, the children’s interest seemed to decrease as fewer children participated in the play
center. During the initial phase of the veterinary clinic theme I observed the children
engaged in manipulating the play props more than engaging in building narratives. I
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attributed this to the complexity and unfamiliarity of the children to the play language
and the play props (i.e., blood pressure cuff, pager, syringe, etc.). However, as time went
by the children became more familiar with the materials and had many more exposure to
the language thereby they may have been more interested to participate in this play
Table 7
List of children participating in Home Living
10 9 10 10 10
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Table 8
List of children participating in Veterinary Clinic
13 9 6 5 6
Week 2 (Veterinary Clinic)
Day 1 Day 2 Day 3 Day 4 Day 5
Joyce Amy Joyce Lakshmi Victoria
Lucas Lauren Lewis Victoria Lucas
Lamar Jonathan Rudy Mollie Amy
Rachel Rachel Nevin Lewis Rickie
Victoria Krishna Virginia Rachel William
Nevin Victoria Lamar Virginia Lakshmi
Lewis Allison Mollie Krishna Lucas
Jonathan Lucas Rudy Neely Neely
Lamar Lakshmi Lucas Rachel
Lamar James
Jonathan Rudy
Allison
8 9 9 11 12
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Explanation of the Prosocial Frequency Tables
Based on the eagerness as well as their attachment to their favorite stuffed animal,
I anticipated to see children show more empathy. The more sophisticated play props used
in the veterinary clinic, however did not necessarily resulted in more empathic behavior
to be displayed. If anything, I found the complexity of the play props may have inhibited
children from building narratives in their play. Much of their time was spent learning
about what the props’ function were and learning how to incorporate them in their play.
The simplicity of home living play props and its connection to prior knowledge help
elevate the level of play and engage them in a deeper narrative. It is also noteworthy that
in depth analysis.
occurrences between the two sociodramatic play themes. The graph represents a
comparison between the two play themes as it relates to the prosocial frequencies.
Although, the addition of cell phone in the home living added to the number of interested
children in that center, and captured the attention of some children, I also observed that
some children had a harder time sharing the new prop. This may explain the lower
cooperation rate for that day. Across data collection, Joyce’s attraction to the cell phone
was observed almost on a daily basis. She experienced a hard time giving turns to her
peers with the cell phone. I observed Joyce having a difficult time separating from the
cell phone. Her command of the use of the cell phone and the appropriate language
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proved her prior knowledge and current interest in this device. On many occasions her
head was down on the screen and fingers moving on the key pad which prompted her
peers to ask what was she doing; to which she responded, “I am texting my friend to go
for a coffee”. Later I observed that behavior being imitated by another child who was
able to convince Joyce to giving her a turn with the cell phone. Perhaps, this practice of
convincing peers to share props explains the reason for the higher rate of “problem
solving” theme in the veterinary clinic. There were more props available in the veterinary
clinic, and children experienced less sharing episodes compared to home living theme.
They, however showed more of problem solving skills in the veterinary clinic than
perhaps was needed in the home living theme. In both of the themes, it appeared that as
children began their play they were able to sort through understanding the rules and
becoming comfortable with each other, allowing for deeper levels of expression, and the
connections between them. This is more salient in the increase in children’s exhibiting no
sense of community on the first day of veterinary clinic play followed by a steady
increase.
Table 9 also shows that the display of “empathy/care” was more salient in the
home living theme that included opportunities for caring for family particularly the care
for the baby. The home living theme provided many opportunities for children to bring
their real life experiences into their play. Victoria and Lakshmi seemed to be very natural
in taking care of the baby and managing the work in the kitchen. They both have younger
siblings which I believe helped them in their display of care for their baby dolls, and
impact their peers paly as well. As a center director, I have had the opportunity to observe
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the families’ interactions with their children, I have seen the children being surrounded
with the love of family and extended family and attribute such relationships to fostering
the feelings of compassion and empathy in the children. Table 10 shows that the
been on the rise during the veterinary clinic. This may be attributed to the nature of the
play as the children needed each other’s help in learning about the functions of the play
props and also ways to problem solve and negotiate taking turns with the many props that
were available during the veterinary clinic play theme. The increase in the two themes
may also be attributed to the longer time the children had practicing these skills. The
“respect/acceptance” theme stayed the same during both play kits, while the “sense of
community/emotional wellbeing” was higher during the home living theme. The children
used their prior knowledge to enhance their play during the home living play kit; this
perhaps helped them build an increasing sense of community and emotional wellbeing
compared to when they played in the veterinary clinic to which they had less prior
knowledge. Graph 1 represents the relationships of the two sociodramatic play kits and
the percentage of each strand of prosocial behavior in each of the two play kits.
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Table 9
Frequency Theme Occurrences During Home Living in Sociodramatic Play
D2
D3
D4
D5
D1
D2
D3
D4
D5
D1
Empathy/Care (Showing affection, offering help,
recognizing feelings of another, perspective taking)
5 8 4 8 5 5 6 5 7 8
Table 10
Frequency Theme Occurrences During Veterinary Clinic in Sociodramatic Play
Themes
D2
D3
D4
D5
D1
D2
D3
D4
D5
D1
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Graph 1
Percentage of Prosocial Occurrence in Home Living and Veterinary Clinic
30%
25%
20%
15%
10%
5%
0%
House% Vet%
The sociodramatic play center context provided children with opportunities that
these behaviors became salient to the eye of the observer. Children’s previous
socioeconomic status, and that can, in turn, influence children’s play behaviors and skills.
In reviewing the literature, gender roles were often discussed to be evident during
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sociodramatic play and to influence children’s role taking skills. Various researchers have
argued that children most often relate to their own gender, and act out the roles of people
who have the same gender. Prosocial behavior, as a result may also be gender specific.
Perhaps for some children, the caring for a baby doll may be shared more in young
female children as an indicator of real life experiences with mothers as primary care
givers. During my observations, however young male children were as engaged in caring
for the baby dolls as their female counterparts. Perhaps, children’s cultural backgrounds
may have had an impact on their prosocial and empathic tendencies and the way in which
they were exhibited. For example, if in some cultures spoon-feeding a preschool child is a
sign of affection, that very act may be displayed by the preschooler during interactions
with a peer as a sign of affection. During this study, I observed children who regarded
preparing and serving food as a token of endearment and therefore they became
immersed in such activities repeatedly. A first or second language spoken at home may
also contribute to the definition and categorization of prosocial behavior and how it is
exhibited. When it comes to the play behavior of the children specifically in the
sociodramatic play area, all the above issues can be considered instrumental in the type of
play outcome it will produce by the participants. Although, this study did not examine
these issues in detail, it was apparent that the diversity of the children involved in the
sociodramatic play can be a factor in the nature of their play and its relation to their real
world experiences.
As I observed the nature of the children’s pretend play, I realized that I was not
engaged in ongoing cooperative, friendly, loving and empathic exchanges that appeared
a sociodramatic play are to be harvested, only if the seeds of empathy have been planted
in children’s lives, both at home and at school. What I was observing in this area of the
classroom was not a product of the play kits that I had selected, but was the outpour of
what had been integral practice in all other areas of the classroom, and, most likely, the
homes of the children. The children in this classroom extended their prosocial and
empathic behavior as a general practice of living in a group. Observing their play in the
sociodramatic play center provided me the chance to view the behaviors microscopically
and nonverbal gestures. In this classroom, teachers took an active role in promoting
Although, some children did not show much interest in the sociodramatic play
area at the beginning, the more the children played in that center, the more other children
who had seemed less interested, became curious and interested in participating in the
pretend play. This allowed the opportunity for the children to discover new friendships in
The home living theme of the sociodramatic play brought about a recurrent theme
of empowerment that I was able to observe in the children. For example when Lily, an
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English Language Learner in the classroom sat at the table in the kitchen talking to Ms.
Stacey while waiting for Lewis to make them dinner, a look of joy and recognition filled
Lily’s face. She started speaking by naming the objects on the table in English all as a
result of Ms. Stacey asking Lily for the equivalent word in her native language. I also
observed children play beyond traditional gender roles. This, in and of itself, was a
testimony to the fact that children’s play and selection of play props had been respected
and accepted in the past by all the participants. Preschool teachers have a prominent
lack of gender-specificity in the roles they chose to play as indication of their teachers
having provided gender neutral experiences. When I observed Lucas and Lamar compete
and cooperate to vacuum the kitchen and cook breakfast, I attributed this to (a) the
likelihood of children observing the men in their homes to take on similar tasks, and (b)
learning. It is this kind of social literacy that preschoolers need to develop prior to any
scholastic literacy.
To demonstrate the important role of the teachers, I share one more example from
my data that illustrates how the children were supported by their teachers’ comments and
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Ms. Linda: Nurses can be both boys and girls.
Ms. Linda: Oh, I have seen men who work as nurses in the hospital.
Krishna was clearly connecting his past experience to his pretend play. Ms. Linda
realized that conversations help uncover and challenge children’s assumptions, and used
this play event for a discussion about gender. She may not have convinced Krishna that
there are many male nurses, but he might be more willing to allow his male friends to
play the role of a nurse during sociodramatic play because of this exchange.
behavior from many of the boys who bottle-fed babies, changed diapers, pushed strollers,
washed the dishes, cooked the food, and vacuumed the carpet. All the household actions
that have been traditionally expected to be performed by the girls, in real life and in their
play, were performed by the boys without any objections or opposing comments from the
children.
influenced by their experiences with their family, culture and life style, as well as by the
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The primary change in the life of the modern families has led to convergence of
the roles mothers and fathers take to balance the work and family. The increasing number
of children living in two-income families, that is families with both parents employed;
program, I have witnessed an increase in the number of fathers involved in custodial care
of their children, compared to last decade. Today in our program, we see almost equal
number of mothers and fathers involved in packing children’s lunches, drop off and pick
up children from the center. As a result of changes in the life of modern families, social
issues such as gender role will surface in classrooms, and when they do, teachers’
abilities to identify and address the issues will greatly influence children’s learning and
opinion-forming.
tasks and using teacher and parent reports of children’s behavior. Although these are
valid and reliable research methods, it is also important to study children’s prosocial
behavior in a natural environment and the context of their everyday play. This study
with their peers, teachers and environment. The content for the sociodramatic play during
home living theme was derived from children’s lived experiences. Familiarity with the
objects and the roles performed helped children immerse themselves in their play as they
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birthday party, etc.). Throughout the data collection period, the children continued to play
in a cooperative, friendly environment and manner. The children respected each other’s
imaginations and broadened each other’s pretend play. For example when Lucas was
looking for a trashcan in which to empty his dust pan, Rachel told him to pretend there
was one by the stove. The participating children were involved in assuming roles, trying
out the dress up clothes and using the play props in a cooperative manner.
pointed out that “preschoolers are capable of engaging in truly cooperative play with their
peers and forming real friendships. However, development of these important social
skills is not automatic for children. They need coaching and supervision to learn and
maintain appropriate behaviors with others.” (Bredekamp & Copple, 1997, p. 116)
animals from home during the second phase of data collection, during the veterinary
clinic set-up. This activity helped spark conversations between the children and the
sharing of stories about their home lives. For example, when the children learned that
Rudy had a real pet snake that was eagerly accepted by the children and one remarked,
“Isn’t it cool to have a snake for a pet?” They shared in many ways with each other. As
the children gathered around the play prop hospital bed that was placed in the middle of
the veterinary clinic play area, talking about the toy animals that they brought from home,
I heard them say things like, “That’s my favorite bunny, I had him since I was a baby”;
“My grandma got me that monkey, I keep him on the top of my dresser”; “I bought this
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giraffe when we went to Disney last year.” The children made a stronger connection to
the paly environment which was constructed by them, they were respectful of each
other’s belongings, and, in general, practiced generosity in sharing their toys from home.
High-interest play props such as a vacuum, stroller, cell phone, and egg beater
that were to be operated by individual children were added to the play kit. These items
came in a designated time during the data collection to explore children’s prosocial skills
such as sharing and turn taking. I purposely added only one of the high interest play
props at a time to observe the reactions by children. Their skills in negotiation, problem
solving, turn taking and even control of their impulses were topics of observation. The
children for the most part adopted skillful resolutions to obtain the prop from their peers,
but there were some instances when the children were not so peaceful and cooperative.
For example, when Lauren walked in immediately after Amy in the play center, she lost
her chance of picking up the cell phone. Her impulses ruled and she started pulling the
cell phone out of Amy’s hands. Knowing that this was not an appropriate method, she
merged her action with a sweet tone of voice, saying to Amy in the most persuasive of
tones, “I need this phone so I can call you (the veterinarian) to help my sick puppy.”
Lauren was caught between using force and the knowledge that that method was not
appropriate.
Teachers’ requests for the stuffed animals from home also provided me with the
opportunity to observe the children’s lack or presence of prosocial skills. I observed the
respect that children showed to their peers’ belongings. They showed no resentment,
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teasing or excluding of any toys that were brought in by the children. If anything, they
were cautious in choosing a toy that was available to them instead of being persistent
about having toys that the owner had had a hard time separating from. When Joyce yelled
at Victoria for picking up the stuffed animal that she had brought from home, Victoria
placed it back down with a startled look on her face. Ms. Linda came to Joyce, kneeled
down to her eye level and explained to her, “Do you remember that we talked about the
toys from home?” Signs of regret came to Joyce’s face as she remained silent. Ms. Linda
continued, “We told our friends that if you choose to bring your favorite stuffed animal
from home, you will be sharing it with your friends playing in the clinic. If you don’t feel
like sharing, you may keep your stuffed animal in your locker.” Joyce had picked up
another toy that she was going to offer to Victoria instead. This reminder convinced her
to share her toy even while still showing some reservations about doing so.
The children in this study spoke to each other using kind words almost all of the
time. They were generally agreeable to each other’s role selections, and they respected
the process of turn taking. Peer interactions represented mentoring, compliance and
cooperation between the children regardless of their age or gender. Children shared their
knowledge of play props, past experiences, and home lives to extend their play with their
peers. Equally important, was the way the children on the receiving side of an interaction
demonstrated acceptance, respect and willingness to apply what they learned during this
process.
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Children’s connections to their past experiences enhanced their play. Those
children who had pets at home; had visited the veterinarian’s office with their families; or
had connection to the field of medicine were more engrossed with the veterinary clinic
play activity than those children without those kinds of real life experiences. They were
more likely to use language that was relevant to the care of the animals during pretend
play (e.g., “my dog needs stitches”), and they showed affectionate gestures (hugging,
patting, and tone of voice) toward their animal patients. The children who had siblings
were more likely to share/swap a toy and knew the tactics to negotiate to get a toy from a
peer. These children often were more patient with events that did not go according to
their plans and displayed problem-solving skills that assisted them in resolving the
In analyzing the field notes I had taken during my observations, I found that when
the children played in the home living environment, they appeared to have the basic
schemas and were well-versed in the roles they took. They used the terminology and
language that were related to their play, and were able to maintain a storyline. The
children’s previous experiences of watching their parents function at home provided them
with a context to sustain their play. Children’s home life experience were brought into the
play episode (“Lamar, do your homework”), and the play props and their usage were
identified by prior knowledge (“that’s an egg beater, my mom uses it when she makes us
eggs”). At the same time, I observed a fascination for manipulating the play props (e.g.,
the egg beater) by children who saw this device for the first time. They were interested in
few days. I observed fewer sustained play episodes and more isolated play that involved
manipulation of the play props. Ms. Linda spent her time in the play area answering
children about the function of the play props and how they were used, and she modeled
the language, and used specific terminology that was related to the play. I attributed this
to some children lacking the experiences in their real lives to help them connect to the
play. For some children, the connections to this play kit were limited to having read
books and watching video clips in the classroom. The absence of schema and
terminology required to uphold the play theme became apparent in the duration and the
level of the play in which the children were engaged. For some children in this study,
play became more about the play props and less about developing a story. For example,
they became preoccupied with exploring the blood pressure cuff, thermometer, scale,
syringe, stethoscope, animal cage, and so forth. The children’s play became more
Teachers’ engagement was often an important part of the children’s play. During
the first week of each of the play kits, one of the teachers became part of children’s play,
as she took on a role. I observed that some children became dependent on having the
teacher engaged in their play. They would ask the teacher to join in and would not initiate
or continue their play unless the teacher participated. Although, this helped the play to
carry on longer and at a higher level, it seemed to have taken away from children’s
imagination. At times, it appeared to be guided by the teacher rather than by the children.
During the second week of the home living play kit and the veterinary clinic, I asked the
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teachers to refrain from participating in the play-but to stay in a close proximity so they
could support children linguistically by providing them with the appropriate terminology
to enhance and help sustain the play event. During this time, teachers used sentences to
vignette). They also helped clarify children’s intention to their peers (example of Lucas
to children’s play theme by including books, video clips and stories. This was more
evident during the veterinary clinic play theme as some children seemed to require this
According to Decety and Jackson (2004), empathy is hardwired in our brains and
is developed through interactions with others. Researchers believe that human beings can
learn empathy and that is possible to train or enhance empathic behaviors (Decety &
Jackson, 2004; Feshbach & Feshbach, 2009). Empathy is not a magic wand but it is a
The activity planned by the teacher to collect donations of goods and money for
the Toledo Humane Society can be considered a kind of empathy-training that was
intended to increase the children’s empathy toward animals in need of protection. When
the organization representative read a story to the children, they showed a tremendous
amount of attention and they appeared to be immersed in the story of the stray dog in the
book. The look on the faces of these young children was a demonstration of empathy, as
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they put themselves in the place of the lost dog in the story. The advantage of developing
empathy in young children is not limited only to their social emotional well-being, but, as
Gallo (1989) argues, empathy training enhances both critical thinking skills and creative
thinking.
and empathy. Imaginative processes have been suggested to account in part for the
operation of both empathy and role taking by providing more direct response to another’s
role taking may be due to their shared underlying premise, namely, that they both require
cognitive decentering. That is, they both require creativity and flexibility to allow for
observations of the children’s play, I noticed that some children’s imagination guided
their pretend play, while others depended on peers’ input to enhance their play. The same
children also played cooperatively and conformed to role changes suggested by their
peers. For example, I have known 5-year old Victoria since she was 18 months old. She
was immensely interested in storybooks and used to bring a new book every day to
school for us to read to her several times throughout the day. This interest increased as
she grew older. Victoria started talking by age 2 and developed an expansive expressive
language by the time she was 3 years old. At age 3, she was deeply interested in
imaginative play and used to walk into school dressed as a character in one of her many
fairytale costumes. Victoria was so immersed in the enactment of her role that she would
object if called by her name. She would correct us and tell us to call her by the
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character’s name. Victoria’s mother, an early childhood professional herself, nurtured
Victoria’s love of books and respected her imaginative processes. I remember last year,
when we had a book exhibition at school, as Victoria stepped in the room all decorated
with shiny colorful books, her face lit up the room. She excitedly chose the books she
wanted and walked over to the cash register. She had brought in her money and perhaps it
was her mother who made sure Victoria had a limited budget since it was only that she
was going to pay by herself that she was convinced to limit herself in the choices of
books to buy. Victoria, on other days, was escorted to school by her father and since last
year, accompanied by her younger sibling. She usually carried a tote full of small toys
that she keeps in her locker (school policy). She then follows through a goodbye ritual
When I observed Victoria during the sociodramatic play, I noticed that regardless
of the playkit, she took a lead in the pretend play and often raised the level of play in
during sociodramatic play. Throughout the data collection period, I observed Victoria’s
display of empathic behaviors as she took the role of a caring mother, almost always
holding a baby tightly in her arm (even when she was engaged in vacuuming the floor). I
observed her empathy during play as a veterinarian when she delicately held an injured
dog in her arm, laid him on the table and talked to the dog’s owner assuring her that after
she puts the cast on the dog’s leg, it won’t be long before he would be all well again.
Epstein, 1972), particularly when one’s own emotional needs are met (Hoffman, 1975;
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Strayer, 1980). In my observation of children, and as a particular example, Victoria, I
noticed that children whose home lives were supportive of their affective needs, tended to
be more forgiving in general, and empathic, in particular, toward their peers. Empathic
antisocial behavior.
Limitations
One clear limitation of this study was that the children involved were from a
that it was possible to see differences among the children at that their home lives differed
in many ways. I did not focus on children’s home life situations, their family dynamics,
or other behavioral or environmental factors that may impact children’s social and
thoroughly and comprehensively to gain accurate insight on all aspects of their social and
emotional development at home and at preschool. Among the factors that may be
important are the child’s culture, gender, birth order, language(s) spoken at home, and
even parents’ different outlook on life. All of these may have potential impact on
producing the behaviors children will exhibit with their peers, and are important concepts
The number and/or themes selected for the sociodramatic play in this study can be
considered as another limitation of this study. Although, the two themes presented in the
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sociodramatic play offered the children the opportunity to develop and demonstrate their
prosocial and empathic behaviors; there are still a number of other themes that can be
organized and produced to create optimal avenue for the children to enhance and their
social and emotional development, and to exhibit their prosocial and empathic behaviors.
I only implemented two themes that I felt were interesting and applicable in bringing out
children’s prosocial and empathic behaviors. It may be beneficial to observe other themes
carried out as well as other materials and play props used by the children in their play.
Future Research
In our modern society, do our children see traditional acts of kindness like giving
up a seat to a pregnant woman on the bus, helping an old lady cross the street, or helping
a homeless individual fallen on the ground, or even the neighbor’s cat being rescued from
the tree? What is the likelihood of our children experiencing negative conditions that may
television, difficulties with peers, and bullying? Since the likelihood of experiences much
of the latter is much greater than of the first, a focus on prosocial behavior and empathic
tendencies in children from early age should take precedence on the “research and
development” agenda of early childhood education and care advocates. Constructs such
as kindness, caring, respect, generosity, and patience as part of social skills can offset the
negative behaviors that otherwise will replace prosocial and empathic behavior.
There were many ideas that came to my mind throughout the process of this
study, including ideas for future research as well as for professional development. Topics
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of interest for future research include examining empathy as a desired disposition for
teachers (Katz & Raths, 1985). The field of education can benefit from investigating
teachers. Empathic people are known to be better communicators as they are skilled in
placing themselves inside the shoes of another person and viewing the world from the
teachers and families by highlighting it as one of the standards for professional practice
family composition, language, and culture. Regardless of the familiarity of the teacher
with the home culture of a child, a teacher can only establish a collaborative relationship
with a family when she demonstrates empathy with the family. Teachers’ empathy will
open a window of perception to the diverse livelihood of each child. It could be important
to study the empathic understanding of teachers who are instrumental if we are to ever be
detailed analysis for understanding children exhibiting prosocial and empathic behaviors
during sociodramatic play. The ability to engage in and sustain imaginative play is not
understand their roles as mediators and facilitators of dramatic play, remembering the
objectives, but allowing play to be guided by children. It is my hope that this study will
help bring teachers the information they need to further enhance the children’s dramatic
for this work. Previous research has shown that social-emotional climate in the classroom
relationship between the socio-emotional climate of the overall classroom and the
activities observed within the sociodramatic play area. Elements of teacher- child
contributing factors to this study, but it was beyond the scope of this research for them all
learned that for prosocial and empathic behaviors to be exhibited, it must first be nurtured
by the adults in the children’s lives. Social learning and development theorists like
Bandura (1962), Erickson (1968), and Vygotsky (1978) highlight the importance of
regards development in terms of change and how structures alter and impact life
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pathways. Children’s learning and development therefore, is influenced by the socio-
cultural context in which the children interact. Bruner (1996) elaborated on the
framework of historical and social context of learners, representing a shift from cognitive,
psychoanalysis, and learning theories of the past that described development in universal
terms. He argued that such theories can no longer be applicable to everyone, everywhere,
The truths of theories of development are relative to the cultural context in which
they are applied. The plasticity of the human genome is such that there is no unique way
into which an individual is born....man is not free of either his genome or his culture...to
say then that a theory of development is ‘culture free’ is to make not a wrong theory but
development and the way they learn; and therefore, the importance of educators’ and
researchers’ awareness that the development of children are culturally specific and
contextual. It is with this understanding that future research can more accurately account
for what, why and how children learn (Ferrari, 2002; Rogoff, 2003).
A Call to Action
This study was in a sense a “proof of concept,” that given a supportive context,
even very young children can demonstrate capacities to be empathic and self-regulatory
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as well as kind, and considerate. These are currently aspects of character development
we, as a society, are realizing are just as important, if not perhaps more important, than
the acquisition of academic skills (Tough, 2011). In a time when IQ losses its place to
"successful students often recognize that much of their success involves their
ability to communicate with others … they are also able to view themselves and the
world through the eyes of others. This means … examining beliefs and circumstances of
others, keeping in mind the goal of enhanced understanding and appreciation. Successful
In the world of early childhood education and care, the model of a small, homey
early childhood program in which teachers, children and families want to stay for many
years, is one I think we should consider more seriously trying to replicate on a broader
scale.
Conclusion
tendencies of children during play. Today’s media has contributed greatly to inculcating a
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lack of sensitivity toward pain and distress of others. The potential violence in our
society, the significance of bullying in grade school students, and the lack of
are all new challenges that are best conquered with learning about the importance of
empathy. These examples are proof of our vital need for implementing prosocial behavior
Empathy and prosocial behavior need to be regarded as the new currency with which to
build a world democracy. Perhaps, it’s now time for a paradigm shift—a leap toward the
final stage of human evolution—a realization of a higher being, one that moves away
This study’s findings confirm that young children are capable of learning and
exhibiting empathy and prosocial behaviors when the vital components as discussed in
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