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saying he had news. I was afraid he was going to ask if I’d had the
node biopsied, and since I had not yet been approved for new health
insurance, I had not. But it was news of a different sort. “Robert Gallo
at the NIH has developed what he hopes will be a test to detect the
virus for AIDS. At the moment it’s being called HTLV-3. Soon he’s
going to be collecting blood samples from gay men in New York, San
of his test. You can be in the first cohort to be tested if you’re willing.”
“Yes,” I said. “My Grandfather Murray used to say, ‘The devil you
know is better than the devil you don’t know.’ If the devil is in my
mid-May.
The Gamma Interferon group Mark had been part of had finished
but asked every few days if I’d heard anything. I reassured him that
antibodies? If I’m sick, how will I manage knowing and still continue
All six of the original members of Mark’s group were still alive, but
others that I’d only heard about had joined the group and died within
matter what the results of Dr. Gallo’s test were, I knew the
partner” rather than “the apparently well partner”. If I were sick, I’d
In early June we hit a hard patch. Mark was tiring more easily
again without the Gamma. I drove him down to New York City on a
Friday to stay for two nights with close friends and to meet with his
drove out to Fire Island for a couple of nights by myself. Knowing that
morning and he sounded fine. I spent the two days walking the long
the boardwalks we had walked, passing the house where we’d had our
first night together. By this time two more of the six roommates with
whom he had shared that house were sick. AIDS was inescapable. I
was reminded of Mark at every turn. In the late afternoons I sat at the
what had happened in Boston in the few days we’d been gone. His
friends in the PWA group were under siege: Pedro Martinez had died
the day we left, David Tiffany remained in a coma, and Richard was
It took hours for Mark to settle down, and I believed that our being
in the city, the stimulation and pace had rattled him. He said
guys.” I knew it was fruitless to suggest that his presence would have
and talking, me rubbing his back, and the rigidity in his body
two clients left to see before going from Cambridge to Brookline for
morning but found myself dialing the number from memory. When I
“You tested positive for the HTLV-3 virus, Mike. Don’t jump to
conclusions about this. These are the very first clinical trials. What we
know is that everyone who has AIDS has HTLV-3, but there are many
men in these trials who have it but seem otherwise healthy. Some may
experience of going into shock. Did he just say that I do have the
virus? I sat down, afraid I was going to pass out.
“Yes, Jerry. I’m sorry. I’m at work and have to see a client now.” I
period is two to five years. We’re learning so much now. It might just
Right. And it might just mean that I’m dead in the water.
I stared blankly out the window for a few moments and, still in
shock, met with my clients, one after the other. I felt grateful that the
dozens of people were scattered across the lawn. Guests had been
asked to wear white instead of black, and at first sight they looked like
third memorial service in two months for people from Mark’s original
when and if they felt moved to, with long silences between speakers.
gazebo. The only time I cried was when Mark spoke about his
friendship with David, how much he would miss being able to count
on his courage and sense of humor. Wine and soft drinks were then
I got Richard and Patrick alone for a few minutes and told them
about the test results. Richard hugged me and asked, “Does Mark
know?”
“No,” Richard said firmly, “let him know tonight. He’s done
I could see Mark working his way toward us through the small
crowd and said, “Let’s just talk about David’s service for now.”
Later, when I told Mark, he was silent for long moments. We were
sitting in the bay window looking west down the river toward the
remnants of the sunset, and he reached over and took my hand. I had
spoken calmly and repeated all the reassuring things Jerry had said to
“Despite the threat of you having ARC, we’ve been operating for
many months as if I’m the patient here. But if you become sick, we’ll
I felt a rush of love for him, so grave and worn out from these last
difficult weeks. We carried so much grief, the losses of our friends, the
“I think we stay with the game plan we have, sweetheart. I feel fine
someday one of the drugs or treatments they come up with may work,
He said, “I’m sorry that Pedro and David won’t have the chance to
get better.”
“Me too.”