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Stephanie Barrientos
Passage 1
Teacher -Rivera
December 2016
Child abuse is an issue recognized worldwide and can be categorized in various ways.
The different ways that it can be categorized consist of neglect, physical abuse, and emotional
abuse. Physical abuse is defined as the harm of a child’s physical being. Neglect is not caring
about a child's well being. Examples of negligence towards a child is not providing food for the
them, not giving them food for several days, and not giving them clothes or caring about their
health. Leaving a child alone at in a public space or just at home for a long period of time is also
neglect. A child's emotions can be abused in many ways. Parents can put them down with what
they say to them, making them feel like they don't deserve to be in this world, and making them
feel unworthy. Parents in the United States through discipline may be actually abusing their child
which has negative effects on the child that may include depression, anxiety, aggression, low
academic performance and PTSD. There lies a fine disciplinary line between parents teaching
children to obey them and parents who take it too far and cause harm to them. Physical and
emotional child abuse caused through disciplining children can have negative effects on children.
Countries where this is seen include the United States, China, and India. Google defines
discipline as “ The practice of training people to obey rules or a code of behavior, using
punishment to correct disobedience.” Discipline is a parent trying to teach their children what is
right from wrong, what they should and should not do and attempt to teach them a lesson without
having to hit their child in order for them to learn causing them feel unworthy. There are
different ways that you can discipline a child. In other countries, there are ways of disciplining a
child and it might be done or seen differently here in the United States. For example, putting a
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child in timeout or confiscating something they are always using such as a cell phone, television,
etc is a way that some people discipline their child on the less harsh side of the scale.
Discipline and child abuse often are mistaken for each other. For a parent to be
disciplining a child without harming them can be hard for some because of the way they are
as a parent. Being a parent is not that easy so it can be difficult or hard to tell when you are
abusing the child or discipling them when they have done wrong. Some parents may
aggressively hit or attack their child as discipline and do not recognize in reality that this is
child abuse. Disciplining your child in a formal way should be in a positive way that will
actually teach the child. The goal of disciplining your child is to get them to understand what
should and should not be done, for them to understand why the things that they do are bad. In
the article it states that “ A child who is punished with spanking, shouts, and threats may
learn how to avoid these punishments simply by not misbehaving in that particular way
within sight of the person who punishes.” If you physically discipline your child, it is
guaranteed that most of the parents take advantage of that and end up abusing their kids.
Getting irritated at the fact that your child is not listening to what you are trying to tell them
may cause the parent to get really mad and end up hitting the child in a way that they should
not. Melinda Smith, a non-profit organization connected to Harvard Medical School, states
that “ Some caregivers never learned the skills necessary for good parenting. Teen parents,
for example, might have unrealistic expectations about how to care for babies and what small
children need. “ Smith also state “ Parents who were themselves victims of child abuse, may
only know how to raise their children the way they were raised. In such cases, parenting
classes, therapy, and caregiver support groups are great resources for learning better
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parenting skills. ” Spanking is a form of discipline many parents use on their children and has
become a well-known way to discipline your child because it scares the child and usually
gets them to stop behaving a certain way or doing something the parent does not approve of
because it is painful ("Child Abuse and Neglect."). There are a lot of different ways that you
can discipline a child without it being considered child abuse. Parents might think that
spanking a children is not really a good way to give discipline because it causes pain. Other
parents may think that sometimes it is better for them to do something that will actually help
their kids understand that they need to start behaving in a better manner.
Child abuse has lasting consequences for the child. In reality, trying to figure out the
line between child abuse and discipline can be a hard thing to do. Some parents might think
that beating their child is going to make them stop misbehaving, but surely what they do not
understand is that abusing their child will later on in the future affect their lives. They also
don't understand that the kid might not stop misbehaving just because they yelled at them so
it's hard for a parent to figure out how to properly discipline the children. When a child is
abused or “being disciplined” physically, the child usually grows into the mentality that
hitting someone will make them stop doing something wrong and have a higher chance of
becoming an abuser when they are a parent than a child who is disciplined much differently
when no physical actions are involved. In an article, by Daniel Goleman he states that “
Studies also now indicate that about one-third of people who are abused in childhood will
become abusers themselves. This is lower percentage than many experts had expected, but
obviously poses a major social challenge. The research also confirms that abuse in childhood
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sexual maladjustment and multiple personality. ” Not only will it effect them in the long run
when they become parents but also in their teenage years they may be violent with the other
students in their school. Growing into the adults that the children will once be, if the child
was abused as a kid it is most that when that child has its own children, they will end up
abusing them as well. If the child grows up to be abused by their parents, they might have a
Emotional abuse can be considered one of the ways of traumatizing a child other than
physical abuse. Hurtful words towards children at a young age hurts them mentally and
affects the way they will grow up to raise their own child. In their adulthood when they later
on grow up and have their own children they might have the mentality that telling your kids
hurtful stuff is the right thing to do and that it is not doing any damage to the children's mind.
Not only does it affect them as a person it affects the way that they think, the way that they
develop things and the way that they will be when they grow up. Children that are
emotionally abused aren't seen as normal people. In this article it states that “ Emotionally,
they are unable to feel and express a full range of emotions appropriately, and to control their
emotions. This is so because their emotional development has been badly compromised, and
cannot feel things like normal people should. ” (“ Effects of emotional child abuse” ) Adding
on to how children cannot feel the same things that a normal person can, the moment that the
parent is telling the child hurtful words their self-esteem is getting lower and lower each day.
Throughout their lives when they grow up they will always take everything that a person tells
them in a bad way because that's how they grew up, they grew up with such hurtful words
from their own parent that they will become very sensitive. It is a cycle that continues and
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sometimes can soon lead to physical abuse. Yelling disrespectful words at a child is a way
some parents discipline their child. The parent might think that the things that they're telling
their child is really not affecting them. Emotional abuse has a lot of side effects to it such as
the children having low self-esteem, low self-worth, depression, withdrawals, inability to
trust, and feeling trapped or alone. In the article by Steven Stosny, it states that “ In many
ways emotional abuse is more psychologically harmful than physical abuse. Emotional abuse
seems more personal than physical abuse, more about you as a person, more about your
Discipline is different in many countries and cultures and can be defined in many
ways. For example, if an American were to go to China and document about child abuse over
there they might find it very harsh and end up speaking up about it not knowing that people
in China don’t see it as bad as they do. In China they have their own policy of Child abuse
and here in the United States people can think that their way of disciplining their child is
really child abuse. In China it is known that if a parent has two kids they have to give one up
and that might be considered Child abuse here in the United States. Catherine Tang of the
University of Hong Kong, states that the base rate of physical abuse was 526 per 1,000
children for minor violence and 461 per 1,000 children for severe violence. Minor violence
was most likely directed at children aged 3-6. Also it states that comparing families from the
U.S, Chinese families showed a lower rate of minor violence but they had a higher rate of
severe violence towards children. Child abuse in China doesn't get much attention but it
should because it's such a big thing. In China the boys are most likely not going to get abused
because they carry on the family name and they are always seen as more powerful than the
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girls. D.P Qiao and Y.C Chan stated in their article “ There are at present no national
statistics on child abuse in China, but some survey data will throw light on the problem. In
2001, a national survey of 3543 married people conducted by the China Law Society, showed
that 71.9% of the interviewees reported to have had the experience of being beaten by their
parents during their childhood.” It also states that there are children that are being abused to
death. The U.S has a different way of dealing with child abuse, China has its own laws.
Also, child abuse in India is some what a big issue. If an American were to go to
India they would see a major difference because India does not have a law that protects
children against abuse in their homes. If a parent and its children were to move to the United
States they would have to change the way that they discipline their child. Their way of
disciplining their children would be considered child abuse here in the United States. In India
Child abuse is really common for girls in the article that I read it stated that some girls wish
they were boys because of the way that they are treated, the boys in the household are treated
way better than the girls are. Here it says “ With regard to child labour 50.2% of children
work all seven days of the week. 81.16% of the girl child labourers work in a domestic
households. 48.4% of girls wished they were boys. ” Further on more information about
child abuse in India was told in this article it also stated that “ Child abuse in India is often
hidden phenomenon especially when it happens in the home or by family members. Children
in India are often highly dependent on their parents.” If a child is getting abused in their
homes their is no way that they can get away from it because as the article stated that even
after they move out or have their own house they will still have to have interactions with
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Throughout every child’s life, there is a time when the child does something the
parent does not like. If the children are being disciplined by the parent and the bad actions
that they are doing continue or they might not understand and cannot learn what discipline is,
the parents might build up anger inside from that and they will end up taking it out on their
kids. This will lead to physical abuse and depression to the child because of the abuse
whether it be physically or emotionally. A child at a very young age can have different
thoughts about discipline, they way that they think is a whole different way than the parents
do. Keep in mind that a child's mentality is different from an adults. The parents thinking is a
higher state than the kids, whenever the parents are trying to discipline a child they
sometimes don't think about this and the bad things that they will face. For example, if you're
trying to discipline a 5 year old kid they wouldn't really think about why the parent is telling
them to do a certain thing, they would just do it because they were told to do so or the kid
would just ignore what the parent said and that's when physical abuse comes in. Many
parents think that smacking their kid will help. In some cases it does, but parents can and will
end up getting irritated with the kid because he/she wasn't listening. they might think that
Some statistics in America about spanking a child for discipline are very interesting,
the survey that they had did asked parents what they thought about spanking their children. In
the survey that they made they asked the father and the mother what they thought about it
and the percent of the mothers were such a low percentage than the father, in reality people
would have thought that the mothers would be the ones that would have said it was fine to
spank their children. According to PJ Parenting it states that “ Corporal punishment involves
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hitting someone physically, and spanking is a specific type used to eliminate undesirable
behavior in children. While 76 percent of men say it is acceptable, only 65 percent of women
agree. A majority of both genders approve of it, but the popularity of the practice breaks
down along ethnic, religious, and regional lines.” The thoughts about spanking a child are
different in each state. For example, in the article by PJ Parenting it also describes how “
Americans do so. The numbers for caucasians, Native Americans, and Hispanics follow the
popular in the South, where 78 percent supports it. It is least popular in the Northeast, where
63 percent do so.” In reality hitting your kid, in a way that would be considered child abuse
will not help the child learn what is right from wrong, the kid will still think that what they
did was right. For some people, smacking their child works. A smack on the hand is helpful,
but sometimes the children ignore it and keep on doing what they were doing. It constantly
Throughout a child’s life, if they are being abused by a parent or guardian, it will
affect them in many ways. Common side effects that child abuse has are depression, anxiety,
dissociation, flashbacks, academic problems, and some kids can grow up to be addicted to
drugs. All of these side effects that the children will have throughout their lives will affect
them in so many ways. They may not be able to grow up and do the things that un abused
children do because they will be diagnosed with one of those side effects. Also they may
have to go to therapy so they can get over what they went through. The children will also
have to deal with some of these side effects for the rest of their lives, that's what the parents
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or the abusive guardian don't think about while they're physically, emotionally abusing the
child.
Depression is one of the most common things that children go through, they start
having suicidal thoughts and depression hits them hard. There are many levels of depression,
depression can affect a child’s life in a very negative way which would cause them to do bad
things. This is when emotional abuse ties in, the parent might be telling them hurtful words
such as “ You don't deserve to be here ” “ You're worthless and nobody loves you. ” While a
parent is emotionally abusing their kid, the kid has a lot of thoughts in their head. They might
sit in their room telling themselves that they should just kill themselves. Depression can also
affect a child's academic process, due to tiredness and absences which make their grades go
down. (“ Depression in Children and Adolescence”) Ellen McGrath stated in her article, “
Recovering from depression as an adult requires some detective work in ferreting out the
with the symptoms of depression. Abuse brings with it the vulnerability to depression. ” A lot
of thoughts can be going on in a children's head especially if their ages are between 10-15.
Depression from abuse makes them think that they really don't belong here. The way that the
brain develops as the child is growing up is very slow and it takes time to process and
understand things especially if they're very young. This article states that “ There are really
just a handful of processes that a developing brain employs in order to make sense of the
world.” (“ Child and Brain: The stages of development”) As a 15 year old growing up to
being an adult themselves, they have a very strong mindset already and they think about
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everything that they can possibly be doing wrong, their thoughts in their heads might be
killing them.
Flashbacks of trauma are another side effect of child abuse. When the kids grow into
adults they end up being traumatized and for some it causes them to have flashbacks.
Children who suffer from physical abuse get traumatized really bad, sometimes they can't
even be around things that remind them of the suffer that they went through when they were
kids. Parents might think that abusing a kid isn't really affecting them in any way but, it
affects them in so many ways that no one will ever understand. If a kid is not getting
attention from their parents it can cause them to have some depression because once in
awhile a child needs attention from the parents especially if they're young or little babies.
Coping with flashbacks as you get older is a very hard thing to do. This article says “
Flashbacks are recollections from the past. They may be pictures, sounds, smells, feelings, or
the lack of them. Sometimes there is no actual visual or auditory memory. You may feel
panicky, or trapped, you may feel powerless without knowing why. These experiences can
also happen in dreams. As a child you had to protect yourself from the emotional and
physical horrors of abuse. In order to survive, that children may remain locked inside, unable
to express the feelings and thoughts of that time. It is as though we put that part of us into a
time warp until it comes out of the present.” (“ Coping With Flashbacks”) That can tie into
emotional abuse in several ways, the kid might think that the parents don't want them or a lot
of thoughts can be going through a child's mind while their parents aren't even considering
them.
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The child abuse survivors or victims wanna feel loved and they can also be diagnosed
with anxiety after or during child abuse. So what is anxiety? Anxiety is a disorder it's a
feeling of feeling worried, a feeling that you get when something bad is about to happen and
you know that it is. The way that a child can be diagnosed with anxiety during child abuse is
because the kid would get anxious to go home and it would cause the child to have a panic
attack. Their daily thoughts and lives make them have anxiety, they get anxious about every
little thing. Anxiety disorder kinda ties into depression, while being depressed about
something a person may get anxious about everything else. “ Some people, particularly
survivors of abuse, experience such a strong feelings of anxiety that they are unable to cope
with their day-to-day lives. Sometimes for no clear reason they are deeply troubled. We still
have the feeling of fear and distress. (“ Help for Adults Victims of Child Abuse”) Anxiety
takes a big role in Child Abuse it is also another common thing that a child needs to go
through.
This picture is a perfect example of the parent emotionally hurting the child with the
words that he is telling her, if he is telling her hurtful words the little girl is trying to avoid
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hearing those things by covering her ears. It shows how the little girl is attempting at
ignoring what might be her father, family member, or guardian. He clearly has his mouth
open as if he is yelling at her or talking down on her and she's in the corner waiting for it to
end. It can also be an example of the little girl having anxiety and wishing all of that to go
away. We also don't know what happened or if she even did anything wrong but this photo
depicts her trying to ignore what's happening and he's just clearly screaming at her.
Children who are often abused have a higher risk of having academic problems. It
is difficult for a child to concentrate on school work when they are often thinking about what
is going to happen once they get home. If the child is being abused at young age such as 4-6
years old they really wouldn't know how to handle everything that they are going through at
home so it would be hard for them to do good in school. On the other hand, it is very
different for a child that is 10-15 years old or older because they are aware that they are being
abused by their parents and they would have a lot of thoughts going on in their head causing
them to stress during school and possibly not being able to concentrate at all. This is the
reason why abusing your child in any way can really hurt their lives in any kind of way.
Physically abusing a child causes them to have social problems and have bad classroom
behavior. Some studies show that most children end up dropping out of school before they
even make it to high school. In an article by Kendall-Tackett, it states “ The present study
examines the effect of child neglect, alone and in combination with abuse, on academic
achievement and school disciplinary problems for elementary, junior high, and senior high
student. The sample included 324 neglected children and adolescents, and a matched non
maltreated sample of 420 children and adolescents. The results revealed that neglected
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children did perform more poorly than their non maltreated counterparts, having lower
grades, more suspensions, more disciplinary referrals, and more grade repetitions.” The
student usually goes and tells the teacher first about what they're going through or what they
have been through. Physically abusing a child causes injuries on the brain and that also
causes them to have issues on the brain, which affects their academics.
In some child abuse cases, it comes to show that the parent(s) or guardian was
addicted to drugs which can cause them to be more aggressive or less attentive to a child.
That being said studies show that the parents wouldn't really care about their child's well
being and do the drugs in front of them not knowing that it can affect not only their health
but also their mental health. The article (“ Child abuse and neglect”) it states “ Parents who
are drunk or high are unable to care for their children, make good parenting decisions, and
control often-dangerous impulses. Substance abuse also commonly leads to physical abuse.”
That can be an example of neglect, the parent at that moment of doing the drug is not
thinking about the child's needs. How it is going to affect them later on in the future, their
feelings or if it's going to affect their health in any way. If the mother was addicted to drugs
before or while being pregnant. This article states “ If you use heroin during pregnancy, your
baby may be born addicted to the drug. They may experience a severe, life-threatening
withdrawal syndrome after delivery. ” (“Alcohol, Drugs, and Babies: Do you need to
worry?”) In one of the cases that I had read about it said that throughout a kid's life some
abused kids end up being addicted to drugs themselves. A case that I read was in Iowa, it said
that “ just last week. A 1-year-old boy living in a Newton apartment tested positive for
methamphetamine. The couple charged with caring for the baby were arrested.” (“Child
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abuse cases tied to drugs growing problem in Iowa”) The children see that their parents were
doing it so they adapt to the fact that doing drugs is the way to go because throughout their
lives that's what they grew up watching”. In the article (“ Child abuse and drugs”) it states
that “ The Children of Alcoholics Foundation estimates that in the U.S population, about one
in eight were raised in homes with one alcoholic parent. Studies suggest that as many as 11
percent of newborns are drug-exposed in utero. About six million women of childbearing age
are marijuana users and 10,000 children per year are born to women using opiates. ” As the
children grow older they think that they have no one to turn to and talk about what had
happen to them so they end up doing drugs because in their head they think that it's the best
thing for them to do when in reality it's not, of course the child or teenager wouldn't know
that because they grew up seeing their parents doing drugs. Babies they were already born
addicted to the drug that were taken by the parents.. According to this article it states that “
Approximately 47 States, the District of Columbia. Guam, and the U.S Virgin Islands have
always within their child protection statutes that address the issue of substance abuse by
parents. Two areas of concern are the harm caused by parental drug exposure and the harm
caused to children of any age by exposure to illegal drug activity in their homes or
Being a Child Abuse survivor isn't an easy thing to live with. Sometimes the parents
that abuse their child were abused themselves when they were little kids. Parents can also
suffer from depression, anxiety disorders, and bipolar disorder which might cause them to
continuously abuse their child. These parents are not in a state where they can take care of
themselves causing them to be less attentive to their children. They aren't in a mental state
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where they can take care of themselves very much less their child. Parents are quick to to get
angry about the things that their children do and sometimes are unsure on why. The parents
might be under so much stress and it can cause them to have anger towards their kids and
they end up abusing them and might find themselves asking why they did it. It feels like they
do not have any more stress on them and at the moment that they are doing it they think that
it's not a bad thing to do. Many parents believe that abusing their kids is a way to take the
stress away, not knowing or understanding that it severely affects the child.
We have seen child abuse as a worldwide issue but we can help end it as we inform
others on ways to better discipline their children to teach children to be the best they can be.
A right as a parent is to discipline their kid, many children don't want to be disciplined
therefore they take that as abuse. We need to educate our children at an early age in order for
them to grow up learning the difference from abuse and discipline, for them to grow up and
figure out what should and shouldn't be done. Teaching children at a young age what's right
from wrong is a very good thing to do. As stated before child abuse and discipline are both
defined differently, for some, it is hard to figure out the line between discipline and child
abuse. In many other countries such as China and India the definition of child abuse is also
very different than in the United States. It is important for parents to know the difference
because after all, physical and emotional abuse that is caused by disciplining is a way that
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