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Useful Information
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the Next Generation
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Bringing Baby Home


Sweet Things
for the Bundle of Joy
Adar When Joy Jumps
Purim Fun Around Town
Supplement to The Jewish Standard • March 2018
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MARCH 2018

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6 The Joy of Adar Tips for when anger flares up
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7 When There Are Fertility Pictures of our children
Issues in the community
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17 Top Choices Meet a physician and the staff!
8 Bringing Home Baby Great things to do in March
How to handle the newborn
18 Calendar
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Musings from the Editor


I
love Purim carnivals. There is so much fish, finding a bowl big bottom of the bowl. I and for that reason they are seen as a sign
holiday revelry with children dressed enough to allow lots of quickly came to know of blessing and fruitfulness.
in costumes, games galore, food (if space for it to swim. I the sad t r uth, and In this our March issue of About Our
you can call nosh food!), entertainment, also went upstairs to the short-lived Ilene Children, we take a look at pregnancy and
and, sometimes, even fish. our neighbor, Ilene, met the toilet bowl birth and introduce our readers to some
Fish? Yes, goldfish that are given who had a beautiful soon enough. Eventu- medical advice on fertility and getting
away as a prize. aquarium in her home ally, I recovered from pregnant, and what to do when you first
I remember a Purim carnival when to get a lesson on fish my disappointment. take home your baby. We also share some
I was younger. It took place in the gym care. She gave me fish What of this “fish of the great things to get for that bundle
of the Jewish center synagogue that my food, put a little medi- tale”? of joy. We also highlight the many Purim
family attended. I was a young Hebrew cine in the bowl, and I am reminded of carnivals, chagigas and shpiels that are
school student at the time. I wanted told me what to do. For the joy that Ilene gave going on in our community.
nothing more than to win a fish. I can’t her effort, I named my me during the Purim We hope that you enjoy this issue of
remember what game was connected to fish Ilene. season and its accom- About Our Children, and hope that like
this very prized prize, but I remember Oh, how I loved Ilene! I would watch panying carnivals and celebrations. fish, your blessings this month will be
not winning. Near the end of the carnival, her. I would feed her. She was my pet. Fish are significant in Jewish thought. many.
I approached the booth and saw plenty One Sunday morning, I ran enthusi- According to sources, the astral sign of Happy Purim!
of goldfish swimming in what looked like astically into my room to check on Ilene. Adar is the fish (Pisces). Fish live their en-
a big plastic bathtub. Early negotiation But she wasn’t swimming about. She was tire lives underwater, unobserved by the Cheers,
skills kicked in and I offered to buy the lying on the bottom of the bowl. human eye. The sages say that blessing
fish in exchange for some of my tickets. “Maaaaa!” I panicked. does not come to something that is under
Out I walked happy with a plastic bag My mother came in right away, stuck close observation, but only to something
filled with water and my goldfish. her hand in bowl, turned the fish right side that is hidden from the eye, underscoring
I was thrilled to bring my new pet up, and told me it was sleeping. I watched the relationship between blessing and
home. I quickly set up a dwelling for the as Ilene slowly floated back down to the modesty. In addition, fish are very fertile,

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In Adar, Increase Joy


For Ourselves, Our Children
Dr. Tani Foger happy for an afternoon or a full day — but nected with adulthood. We should remind
for a whole month? our children that how they respond to a

P
ositive psychology, also known as According to the three pillars of posi- difficult situation is their choice. Once
the science of happiness, is all the tive psychology, however, a state of happi- we’ve modeled positive thinking in their
rage lately. Developed by Martin ness can in fact be achieved; if we focus on developing years, being positive or nega-
Seligman in 2002, it recently became the satisfaction with the past, contentment in tive is entirely up to them.
most popular course offered at Harvard. the present, and optimism for the future, On the flip side, focusing on short-
Twice a week, 900 students packed into joyfulness and serenity will follow. comings and weaknesses will affect our
Tal Ben-Shahar’s lecture hall to learn how I recently learned something simi- thoughts and behavior negatively. (“It’s
to get happy. Based on research from the lar from Rebbetzin Chana Reichman in too hard. I’m going to fail.”) Thus it’s im-
emerging field of positive psychology, a beautiful d’var Torah she shared; the portant to teach our children the tech-
Ben-Shahar concentrated on what makes middle two letters of the Hebrew word nique of positive self-talk to direct their
people happy, rather than on their limita- sameach, which means happy — the letters thoughts towards a positive outcome.
tions and pathologies. The course he was mem and chet — are the Hebrew word for (Self-talk is simply talking to yourself.
teaching is consistent with what the sages brain. When we instruct our brains to act It’s the inner speech in which we engage
tell us to do in the month of Adar. When in accordance with our wishes, we really Dr. Tani Foger in all the time.) If we focus on the posi-
Adar arrives, they say, we should increase can experience greater joy and happi- tive, it will shape our thinking and impact
our joy. ness. Accordingly, when we make a con- can make a mindful effort to achieve daily. our behavior positively. (“If I relax, I can
So how do we do that? scious decision to be enthusiastic, when The trend in positive psychology is do better. I can handle this.”) In his book,
Every year as Purim approaches, and we chose to see a cup half full, when we frequently to ask “What’s good in my “Positive Self-Talk for Children,” Douglas
the Hebrew calendar changes from She- opt to look at the positive in a situation, life right now?” This question automati- Bloch emphasizes that children can be
vat to Adar, I ask myself how we can be it makes a difference in our overall mood cally focuses us on the positive, on our taught to have an optimistic view of prob-
commanded to be joyful. That sounds like and outlook. Happiness and “joy, there- strengths and advantages, as a spring- lem solving by learning positive self-talk,
a tall order, if not an outright impossible fore, are not something we feel automati- board for looking at our life, rather than such as “I can handle difficulties.” Then
task. Perhaps we can be coaxed to feel cally all the time, but rather something we using our shortcomings and failings as a later, when confronted with a challenge,
point of departure. a child will tell herself, “I can find a solu-
As adults, we come to realize that life tion for this. I’ll keep trying.” As a result
YOUR CHILD needs special education. can be challenging at times, yet we learn of an internal dialogue filled with positive
that what defines us are not the challeng- coping statements, a child is more likely
You want her to have a Jewish education. es we face, but rather how we meet those to persevere.
You want him to be included. challenges. We all know people who seem
blessed with a more positive attitude than
others, who seem to take any challenges
life presents them in stride. Clearly facing
challenges with a positive attitude makes
it easier to navigate a difficult road. That How can we
be commanded
would seem to be the lesson and the gift
of Adar. It’s also an essential life lesson to

to be joyful?
model for our children.
In a world peppered with natural
disasters, violence, and human suffer-
ing, having a positive attitude may not
alter the facts, but it can help make the
intolerable more tolerable, and life more
manageable. Although we can’t control
many of life’s events, we can teach our
children that they can control their reac- Thinking positively can become a
tions to them. way of life for all of us if we approach

INCLUSION by DESIGN
® Children generally are very aware of these suggestions with intentionality
their parents’ attitudes, and they tend to and mindfulness. The month of Adar is a
be good imitators of their parents’ be- great time to start to incorporate positive
liefs and feelings. Good moods, like bad thinking and positive psychology into our
Serving Children with a Broad range of SpeCial needS
moods, are contagious. Therefore, it’s repertoire, particularly because our sages
important to consider how we behave mandate us now to increase our joy. May
Special education uniquely integrated within Jewish Day Schools in front of our children, since they most we all merit a positive attitude no matter
probably will copy our habits and imitate what the circumstances. I wish everyone a
• Individualization • Educational excellence our coping strategies for years to come. wonderful month of increased joy.
• Meeting each child’s academic, social, and emotional needs If children learn to develop a positive at-
titude when they are young, it becomes Tani Foger Ed.D of Englewood, a psychologist
Elementary Schools n High Schools n Adult Services
second nature for them to employ positive and educational consultant, is the founder of
thinking. Later on in life, positive thinking Let’s Talk Workshops. She and her husband, Soli,
www.sinaischools.org/js • 201-833-1134 can alleviate many of the pressures con- an architect, are the parents of four sons.

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When Fertility Assistance Helps


Make Pregnancy a Reality
Heidi Mae Bratt sooner may also include: suspicion that a
male partner may not have sperm, have

T
he dream of having a family a history of testicular surgery or trauma,
sometimes eludes a couple when experience sexual dysfunction, or have a
getting pregnant becomes a chal- history of subfertility with a prior partner.
lenge. There are an estimated1-in-10 cou- With the above being said, if couples are
ples in the United States who are facing unsure when they have tried for enough
infertility issues. For a variety of reasons, time, we never mind couples coming in for
many women are choosing to postpone consultation, and we can determine if it
childbearing until they are in their 30s or appropriate to initiate a workup.
40s, but the biological clock waits for no AOC: What services are offered at
one. The rate of infertility increases with The Valley Hospital Fertility Center?
maternal age. Experts said about one- Dr. Greenseid: The Valley Hospital
third of infertility is attributed to the fe- Fertility Center is a full-service fertility
male partner; one-third to the male part- center. We begin with initial consulta-
ner; and one-third to a combination of tions and diagnostic workups. We offer
issues in both partners or is unexplained. intrauterine insemination, in vitro fertil-
The Valley Hospital Fertility Center in ization, preimplantation genetic testing,
Paramus, which includes Drs. Ali Nasseri, ovum donation, sperm donation, gesta-
medical director; Dehan Chen, associate tional carrier use, and much more, includ-
clinical director, and Keri L. Greenseid, ing overall support through this difficult The physicians of The Valley Hospital Fertility Center in Paramus, from left, Dr. Ali Nasseri, Dr. Keri
helps couples make their dreams come process. Greenseid, and Dr. Dehan Chen.
true to become families with children. AOC: When standard infertility
About Our Children turned to Dr. treatments have failed, what are the other
Greenseid to learn more about the matter.
AOC: When should a woman consult
options for women?
Dr. Greenseid: This is truly an individ-
Hours by Appointment (201) 384-0300
a fertility specialist? ual case-by-case answer. It will depend
Dr. Greenseid: If a woman is under on the background infertility diagnosis
age 35, she should see a fertility specialist and why we think certain treatments are
evaluation after1 year of unprotected in- failing.
tercourse without conception. If a woman AOC: Is there anything else that you
is age 35 or older, she should see a fertil-
ity specialist evaluation after 6 months of
would like to add?
Dr. Greenseid: We are here to provide
Howard M. Friedman, M.D.
unprotected intercourse without concep- patients the opportunity to achieve their Christopher Weiss, D.O.
tion. Reasons to seek a workup sooner dream of a family. We hope the hard-
may include: suspicion that a woman is est part of their journey is just getting Shana M. Kaye, M.D.
Margaret M. Love, M.D.
not ovulating, women at risk for prema- to us, and once here, we hope to provide
ture ovarian failure or early menopause, confidence, support, reassurance, and
history of endometriosis or concern for outstanding medical care to help them
tubal or uterine disease, or if the couple achieve their dreams. Early Sick Call now
for your camp
is concerned their offspring may be at ge- Visits & school
netic risk based on their background or Heidi Mae Bratt is the editor of About Our
family history. Reasons to seek a workup Children. Available! physicals!

The Jewish Name Game


What do you call a Jewish baby boy Ori/Uri, Ariel, Yosef, Daniel, Itai, Yonaton
in Israel? and Moshe.
Besides adorable — aren’t all ba- For a Jewish baby girl, the most
bies? — Noam or David, or Ori or Ariel. popular name was Tamar, which means
A recent report by the Central Bu- date, date palm or palm tree. Tamar has
reau of Statistics in Israel listed some of topped the list in popularity for more
the most popular Jewish names given to than decade and a half. The other popu-
boys and girls. lar Jewish girl names were Noa, Avigail,
The most popular Jewish name for a Maya, Yael, Adele, Shira, Sarah, Ayala
boy was Noam, which means pleasant- and Talia.
ness. Also making the grade was David, Heidi Mae Bratt

ABOUT OUR CHILDREN • MARCH 2018 7


The First Few Weeks
for Newborns
Checkup Party
Sunday, March 11
and Their Families
8:50 AM to 1 PM
56 kids, 7 hygienists, 4 doctors, Dr. Frank Briglia

T
1 magician, tons of giveaways he birth of a baby has to be the most exciting time
Checkup Parties fill up quickly for a family. It can also be overwhelming espe-
so call today to make sure
your family is included!
cially for first-time parents who do not have the
experience in caring for newborns.
See our video on YouTube
There are hundreds of manuals, reference books, and
Richard S. Gertler, DMD, FAGD internet information that detail how best to care for a new-
Ari Frohlich, DMD
Sami Solaimanzadeh, DMD born in the first few weeks of life and during infancy. Even
Disney has published a two-volume encyclopedia on baby
and childcare, which is actually quite a good reference set. contrary, vaccinations have proven to be an important
The following, however, is a list of recommendations method in protecting your newborn from many infant
that I think will ensure excellent care for newborns and and childhood diseases. These vaccinations should con-
infants and at the same time alleviate some of the fears tinue throughout infancy and childhood.
parents may have that they are not doing all they should 5. Keep follow-up appointments with your pediatri-
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in caring for their newborn. cian. Your first appointment with the pediatrician is criti-
201.837.3000 1. Select a hospital or birth center that is designated cal and should be made within the first week of life for
www.teaneckdentist.com a Baby-Friendly facility. A list of facilities can be found your newborn. At your first visit, your physician will check
on babyfriendlyusa.org, along with information that is many things on your baby including the baby’s cord stump,
considered by many to be the “gold standard of care.” The which should be cleaned carefully with a cotton ball dipped
Maternity Center at Chilton Medical Center, for example, in alcohol and which should fall off naturally by itself in
is a designated a Baby-Friendly hospital. To obtain this about 10 days; your infant’s skin color and the possibility
designation, several criteria have to be met, including of jaundice which may require a bilirubin level; as well as a
having expert nursing staff that offer hands-on lessons in complete physical exam including the normal reflexes seen
feeding, bathing, and changing babies. This professional in newborns. At this visit, you will also have the opportu-
help is invaluable to parents especially when newborns nity to discuss feeding and sleeping patterns of your new-
room-in with mothers at a designated site, giving parents born. Subsequent routine pediatric visits are recommended
and babies an opportunity to establish a routine of care according to a schedule set forth by the American Academy
that can be carried over to home after discharge. of Pediatrics that usually occur at one month, two, four,
2. Breast-feed your baby. A huge part of the care rou- and six months, and at ages 9 and 12 months.
tine is the feeding of newborns, and a focus on the value of All things considered, parents will quickly discover the

Enter our breastfeeding should not be underestimated. Baby-Friend-


ly facilities offer tremendous support to help mothers suc-
temperament of their newborn — parents may have a calm
and even-tempered newborn that sleeps normally two-

drawing for ceed in breast-feeding their newborns. Breast milk, includ-


ing the thin, watery substance called colostrum, which is
thirds of the day, while others will have a fussier infant who
is up most of the night. Both are normal, although the latter

Passover produced in the first few days after birth, has been shown
to have the right balance of fluids and nutrition that a new-
will require adjustments by parents in responding to their
newborn baby’s cues for care. For example, crying infants
Cookbooks born needs along with the protective immunity that only
breast milk provides. For these reasons, all mothers should
do not always need to be fed. They may be fatigued, may
need to have a diaper change, or may be uncomfortable in a
for Adults & Kids attempt to breastfeed their infants.
3. Pay attention to your baby’s weight changes.
certain position; or they may have a condition called reflux
associated with “newborn colic” which may need further
2 winners will be chosen from Whether one breast or bottle-feeds or uses some com- evaluation. A parent should not hesitate to call the pediatri-
all entries received by March 16, 2018 bination of both, a newborn needs to feed every few cian for advice or reassurance if this comes up.
hours for adequate nutrition and hydration. Since most No matter what the temperament of your newborn
Name __________________________________________ newborns may lose up to10 percent of their birth weight or how easy or difficult it is to care for your baby, par-
in the first few days after birth, which is mostly water ents should not hesitate to turn to family members and
Ages of Children __________________________________ weight loss, parents should check the adequacy of a ba- friends for help in the first few weeks after their baby is
Street __________________________________________ by’s oral intake by monitoring the frequency of wet and born. Providing the proper care for newborns is exhausting
City/State/Zip ____________________________________ soiled diapers. They also should make note of what the for parents who try to go it alone. Letting others help with
discharge weight is for the baby when leaving the birth dinners, laundry, shopping, etc. will give parents more time
Phone __________________________________________ facility. A newborn will usually regain their birth weight to spend with their newborn and enjoy the many rewards
Email ______________________________________ one to two weeks after birth, and should be monitored of watching their newborn develop.
by a pediatrician closely if this is not the case.
Mail to:
4. Vaccinate your baby. Before discharge from the Frank Briglia, M.D., is the medical director of The Children’s Center
Jewish Standard, 1086 Teaneck Road, Teaneck, NJ 07666
facility where your baby is born, you should start the at Chilton Medical Center in Pompton Plains. Dr. Briglia has been
or fax to: 201-833-4959 by March 16, 2018.
vaccination schedule approved by the American Academy a practicing pediatrician for more than 30 years. He is a father
*By entering this contest you agree to have your name
of Pediatrics and have the Hepatitis B vaccine adminis- and has recently become a grandfather again to another beautiful
added to the Jewish Standard e-mail newsletter list.
tered at the time of birth. Despite media reports to the granddaughter.

8 ABOUT OUR CHILDREN • MARCH 2018


Purim and Drinking: A Safety Primer for Teens
Adina Soclof per, watching TV, or when we witness another person
engaging in unsafe behaviors. For example, when reading

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urim is right around the corner and it is one of our the newspaper, you may say, “Here is an article on the ef-
most joyous holidays. Along with all the revelry fects of drinking on your mind, what do you think about
comes drinking and often unsafe behavior ensues. what it says?” Temple Beth El of Northern Valley
Some parents are at a loss as to how to talk to their teens It is at those times that we can also ask our teens,
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mitzvah on Purim to drink irresponsibly. Rabbi Twer-
ski has been alerting the community of the increasing 4. Be your teens’ safety net
problem of alcohol abuse and marijuana smoking among Our children need to know that if they find themselves
Jewish adolescents. Due to the gravity of the problem he in a sticky situation they have a way out. It’s important
entreats parents to avoid encouraging intoxication. to tell your teens that if they are ever in trouble they can
Here are some ways to talk to your teens about drink- call you at any time of the day or night. Reassure them
ing and other unsafe behaviors on Purim and throughout that you will not be angry, just happy that they called you
the year. when they needed you. Purim continued on page 19

1. Don’t just talk, just role model


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Child-Centered Curriculum Tour the facilities & Meet the Staff
 Barbara
Excellent Teacher-To-Child TODDLER TIME
to be healthy adults, teens need to reject what parents Weinberg, Director Ratios Every
Every Thursday
Thursday–9:15am
9:30am -– 10:45am
11:30am
say so that they can define and refine their sense of self.  nsdir@tbenv.org
Superior Enrichment Programs
Their egos are fragile and they are overly sensitive as they  201-768-3726
Day & Evening Tours Available FREE
FREE -– Drop-ins WELCOME
Drop-ins WELCOME
navigate this tough time in their life.  Welcome families from all backgrounds while
It is difficult for parents to watch their teens grow
cultivating Jewish traditions
up, make their own decisions (sometimes not very smart
 FREE Temple Beth El membership included with
decisions) and struggle for their independence. In their
enrollments
frustration, parents often use language that rankles teens,
putting them in a position where they need to defend
themselves and their decisions. To avoid placing our OPEN ENROLLMENT
teens in a corner where their only recourse is to fight NOW
back, we want to talk about ourselves using “I” messages: Early Bird Special Ends March 9
“I don’t like to read about kids drinking themselves OPEN HOUSE
sick.” “I get upset when kids use drinking to feel cool, I Wednesday, March 7 - 9:30-11:30 am
wish they could find other things to do that would help
them feel good about themselves.”
Contact: Tour the facilities & Meet the Staff

We also don’t want to lecture. There is nothing a Barbara Weinberg, Director


teen hates more than when a parent gets on a soapbox. nsdir@tbenv.org
201-768-3726
Instead it is better if we take little opportunities to talk
when things are calm, when we are reading the newspa-

ABOUT OUR CHILDREN • MARCH 2018 9


OurChildren
About

Jewish Women and Children


Serving the Needs of Others
Heidi Mae Bratt

T
wenty-five years ago, a group of
Jewish women in North Bergen
County saw a need, and formed
a grassroots organization that today has
100 women and their children participat-
ing. The JCO, that is the Jewish Communi-
ty Organization of North Bergen County,
is based in Upper Saddle River, Woodcliff
Lake, and environs, but volunteers its
woman and kid-power to agencies and
people throughout New Jersey.
On Friday, March 2, the JCO joins with
Make-A-Wish New Jersey in hosting a fun-
draiser at the Edgewood Country Club in
River Vale. This is the fifth year that the
JCO has partnered with Make-A-Wish New
Jersey in raising $10,000 to send a young-
ster on their dream trip. This year, the re-
cipient is a17-year-old Bergen County girl Board members of the Jewish Community Organization of North Bergen County.
who has a brain malformation. The teen-
ager is an animal lover, and especially loves membership, are holding their own bowl- busy. Each spring the Junior JCO gathers gift wishes for150 children at the Second
big felines. Her wish is to see the big cats ing fundraiser on March 9 at Montvale to prepare Passover bags for commu- Street Youth Center in Plainfield.
up close at Dade City Wild Things, a zoo in Lanes in Montvale. Less the cost of bowl- nity seniors. The bags are stuffed with On Mitzvah Day 2016, a group of JCO
Florida that offers guided safari tours and ing, all the money raised will go toward Passover staples, decorated by the kids members and their children volunteered
up-close encounters with its animals. the Make-A-Wish pot, said Ms. Ceslowitz. and delivered to the senior seder at the to help SafelyŸHome paint the interior of
“We are responsible for raising the “We really want to teach our children new YJCC. the Hackensack group home for the Alli-
funds to send these youngsters on the to give back and we start them early, long The JCO has also partnered with the ance Against Homelessness.
trip of their dreams,” said Stacy Ceslowitz, before they do their bar and bat mitzvah Healthbarn Foundation, Healing Meals, to And each spring, the JCO holds a
co-president of the JCO, along with Lisa projects,” she said. “We want to instill the prepare nutritious meals for children and Lemonade Stand and Food Truck Fest to
Halperin. values of giving back in our children.” their families with serious medical issues. help raise funds for pediatric cancer re-
“This is our single largest fundraiser The youngsters give back and then Each December, the JCO holds its search with the Junior JCO participating
of the year,” said Ms. Ceslowitz, a mother they get back. annual Chanukah party, to celebrate the by serving lemonade to the crowd. This
of two daughters, 8 and 9. This year for the first time, a young- holiday and thank its members and their year’s event will be held on May 2 from
But it’s not just the women who are ster will be recognized at the ladies children for their efforts in giving back to 2:30 to 6:30 p.m. in Lions Park, Upper
helping the teenager get to Florida. The luncheon. The JCO is awarding the JCO the community. In conjunction with the Saddle River.
Junior JCO, that is, the children of its Leadership in Community Award to Ben party, the JCO participates in NJ Cares’
Carter, a 13-year-old eighth-grader at Frosty Friends program. Through this gift- Heidi Mae Bratt is the editor of
George G. White Middle School in Hills- giving program, last year the JCO fulfilled About Our Children.
dale for his tireless volunteer effort.
Said Robyn Carter, Ben’s mother and
a member of the JCO, “He is a stand-up
kid. He is always quick to volunteer and
to make a difference. It’s his nature. He’s a
Ma’ayanot ‘Geniuses’ to Help
doer and a helper.”
Among his many volunteer efforts,
Women in Community
Ben is a Big Brother, volunteers with se- Apple ain’t got nothing on these girls. eral computing. A pre-session will
niors at the Jewish Home in Rockleigh, is Women in the community are in- also be given by an HR professional
an assistant teacher at the Hebrew school vited to the second annual Genius Bar, and Ma’ayanot’s technology staff
at Temple Emanuel of Pascack Valley in a “reverse mentorship” program spon- about LinkedIn, Personal Branding,
Woodcliff Lake, and more. sored by Project Ezrah and Ma’ayanot Google Apps, and Advanced internet
Said Ben, “It makes me happy when I Yeshiva High School for Girls. Women resourcefulness.
help people.” eager to learn technology skills will be The Genius Bar Technology Men-
“The JCO is doing such good work,” paired with Ma’ayanot student men- torship for Women will take place
said Ms. Carter. “We’re very proud of tors who will work one-on-one to help March 5, 12, 19 ad 26 from 11:12 a.m. to
Ben and appreciate that he’s getting this them achieve their goals. The Genius 12:20 p.m. at Ma’ayanot, 1650 Palisade
award. We encourage other kids to take Bar, which is free, has several menu op- Ave., Teaneck . Sign up: https://goo.
the initiative as well.” tions from which to choose, including gl/66UQUN. More info: https://www.
Ben Carter, 13, feels happy when he’s helping The youngsters in JCO are kept pretty Google apps, Microsoft Office, graphic maayanot.org/event/genius-bar/ or con-
people. design, iMovie, social media and gen- tact rachelbookŸgmail.com.

10 ABOUT OUR CHILDREN • MARCH 2018


DAY CAMPS 201-391-8329 Tenafly, NJ 07670 The NKDC Experience
Camp Veritans www.tepv.org/ecp/ Phone: 201-567-8963 Kaplen JCC on the Palisades
225 Pompton Road Registration is now open for The Early Child- www.jccotp.org/nkdc Taub Campus
Haledon, NJ 07508 hood Program (ECP) at Temple Emanuel of Age 3 – Grade 2 411 East Clinton Avenue
973-956-1220 the Pascack Valley for 2018-2019 and for the Mon – Fri, June 25 – August 17 Tenafly, NJ 07670
973-956-5751 2018 Summer Camp at ECP. Discounts are 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. (shorter days available 201-567-8963
www.campveritans.com available until March 1 New for 2018 – 2019 for preschoolers) www.jccotp.org/specialty-camps
Pre-K – 10th grade school year is early drop-off for 2, 3, & 4 year NKDC offers campers a summer of adventure Sessions: Monday through Friday, June
June 27-August 17 olds and extended hours for 3 & 4 year olds. and nonstop fun with many exciting options, 25 – August 17, 9 a.m. – 4 p.m. (one
Counselor to camper ratio: 1:8, but lower in Included with school tuition is free Young including Hebrew immersion for native He- week sessions)
most cases Family Membership and High Holy Days tick- brew speakers. Our camps features a beauti- Grades: 3rd to 5th grade
Camp Veritans is a summer day camp for ets. The Early Childhood Program of Temple ful 21-plus acre campus with three pools, a An incredible variety of specialty camps is
children entering Pre-K through 10th grade. Emanuel of the Pascack Valley respects in- sprinkler park, sports facilities, a low ropes offered for a full day of fun, from 9 a.m. to
We offer a variety of fantastic activities on dividual differences and the unique pace at course with zipline, indoor rainy-day facili- 4 p.m. and are all-inclusive, providing lunch,
our beautiful 64-acre campus, including Red which each child develops. Children express ties and more. Your camper will enjoy the snacks, daily swim and towel service. Camp-
Cross swim instruction, amazing sports, cre- themselves creatively through art, music, outdoors, learn new skills, make new friends ers also have access to transportation and
ative arts, ropes/challenge course, in addition movement and language. We have over 40 and explore their personal interests. With extended care services. Disciplines include
to daily catered lunches, transportation and continuous years of experience in teaching dynamic, age-appropriate programming that science, technology, fine arts, dance, drama,
so much more. Specialized trip and travel children Jewish customs as they participate includes sports, swimming, art, drama, mu- sports, and more. Mix-N-Match your camps
program for eighth and ninth graders and in Jewish holiday celebrations and practice sic, Judaic programming, special events and for a full summer experience or just choose
a comprehensive CIT program for our 10th doing good deeds. For information and reg- more, your camper will experience an incred- the weeks that work for you. For camp dates,
graders. Please see our ad on page 14. istration 201-391-8329 or email Cheryl@tepv. ible summer to remember. Camper ages 3 details, and to register, visit jccotp.org/camps.
org and go to http://tepv.org/ecp/. Please see to kindergarten are led by head counselors JCC membership is required for campers in
our ad on page 15. who are certified educators. Our day camps third grade through age 10. Not a member?
EARLY CHILDHOOD PROGRAM
are all-inclusive, providing lunch, snacks, and Ask about our $750 camp families summer
Camp at Temple Emanuel of the Neil Klatskin Day Camp towel service, making it easy on parents as membership ($250 for families who are new
Pascack Valley Kaplen JCC on the Palisades well. Campers also have access to transpor- to the JCC). Are you simply a camp person?
87 Overlook Drive Taub Campus tation and extended care services. JCC mem- Do specialty camps speak to you some of the
Woodcliff Lake, NJ 07677 411 E. Clinton Avenue bership is required. time, but sometimes you just want to go back

ABOUT OUR CHILDREN • MARCH 2018 11


OurChildren
About

to the camp you grew up in? Enjoy so many of the activities 201-262-9898 Session Dates: Multiple sessions in July and August
you loved in NKDC, and build on that love with the NKDC 201-262-3026 Cost: $800 with early bird discounts
Experience! Get all the fun of NKDC, with the added bonus of www.ssdsbergen.org/summer-steam Counselor to camper ratio: 3:15
weekly field trips, special workshops, and more. Grades: Rising fifth through eighth graders (as of Deadline for registration: Rolling admissions through
September 2018) start dates
ACADEMIC/ENRICHMENT CAMPS Dates: August 13-17 & August 20-24 Camps offered in musical theater with final performances, as
Cost Per Child: $650/per week; $600/for two weeks. well as an early childhood music program for toddlers and
Big Time Sports Broadcasting Camp Counselor to Camper Ratio: 8:1 pre-school kids. Please see our ad on page 11.
1420 Walnut Street, Suite 605 Deadline for Registration: April 30; cancellations made before
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Day/Overnight options available individual participants and siblings. Coed, full day program, www.Facebook.com/BounceUParamus/
The Sports Broadcasting Camp, located on the campus of including lunch and snacks (9 a.m. to 4 p.m.). Early drop-off 424 Market Street
Montclair State College in Montclair this summer, is celebrat- is available starting at 8 a.m .and late pick-up until 4:30 p.m. Nanuet, NY 10954
ing its twelfth year. Learn from the pros. Meet sports celebri- for an additional cost of $50/week per family. Please see our 845-623-5400
ties; make play-by-play, sports anchor, and reporting tapes. ad on page 13. www.BounceU.com/nanuet-ny
Participate in mock sports talk radio and PTI-style shows, and www.Facebook.com/BounceUNanuet/
much more. Please see our ad on page 16. SCIENCE AND TECHNOLOGY CAMPS Create and Bounce Art Camp
A little bit of exercise goes a long way toward inspiring your
Schechter Summer STEAM Camp Science Camp (NKDC Specialty Camp) artists’ minds. BounceU’s Create and Bounce program gives
The Solomon Schechter Day School of Bergen County Kaplen JCC on the Palisades kids a chance to enjoy physical activity and creative time in
275 McKinley Avenue Taub Campus equal doses, offering an experience that’s healthy, mentally
New Milford, NJ 07646 411 East Clinton Avenue engaging and seriously fun. Complete with lunch, snacks, and
Tenafly, NJ 07670 games, it’s a one-of-a-kind camp experience they’ll never for-
201-567-8963 get. Please see our ad on page 3.

ART
www.jccotp.org/specialty-camps
Grades 3rd through 6th Cresskill Performing Arts

Lessons
Art of Excellence Studio
Mon. through Friday, July 9 – August 9,
9 a.m. – 4 p.m. (one week sessions)
Explore the world of STEAM — science, technology, engi-
300 Knickerbocker Road, Suite 1100
Cresskill, NJ 07626
Phone: 201-390-7513
neering, arts, and mathematics. Each week experienced sci- and 201-266-8830
Unlock your Creativity with Classes in Drawing and Watercolor www.cresskillperformingarts.com
Structured Lessons • Relaxed Atmosphere • Fabulous Results! ence teachers will facilitate a challenging and innovative pro-
gram using hands-on experiments, projects, and lots of fun. Ages: Toddlers – adults (studio)
Age 7 to Adult - All levels of ability Ages: 3 – teens (camp program)
All-inclusive, providing lunch, snacks, daily swim and towel
Art Portfolio Preparation Available service. Campers have access to transportation and extended Born to Perform April Break Camp is April 2 – 6. Half day and
ARTS & CRAFTS CAMPS FOR KIDS THIS SUMMER! care services. JCC membership required for campers in grade full-day camp available. Dancing, acting, singing, arts & crafts,
Artist, Rina Goldhagen 201-248-4779 3 through age 10. gymnastics, silks & hammocks & Iyra, creative Legos, and
www.artofexcellencestudio.com more. Be productive, busy, happy and challenged during the
Big Idea Hi-Tech Camp (NKDC Specialty Camp) school break. Born to Perform Summer Camp: 3 programs,
Kaplen JCC on the Palisades 9 weeks, ages 3 – teens. Preschool Performers. Creative Chil-
Taub Campus dren, Preteen/Teen Exploring Artists come for one or two
Gymnastics • Silks & Hammocks & Lyra 411 East Clinton Avenue weeks or all summer. June 25 – August 24. Early drop-off/late
Tenafly, NJ 07670 pick-up helps working parents, too. Early registration gift; call

Cresskill Grades: 3rd to 8th grade 201-390-7513 for details. Please see our ad on page 12 .
Dance • Acting • Musical Theater • Voice • Choreography

Fencing • Princess Dance • and more • age 2-1/2 to adults

www.jccotp.org/specialty-camps
Performing Arts Sessions: Monday-Friday, June 25 – August 17, 9 a.m. – 4
p.m. (two-week sessions available)
Dance Intensive (NKDC Specialty Camp)
Kaplen JCC on the Palisades
300 Knickerbocker Rd · Cresskill Design your future at our innovative tech camp. Big Idea is a Taub Campus
perfect mix of cutting-edge tech workshops and outdoor sum- 411 East Clinton Avenue
Imagine your child mer fun. Children get to focus on special projects, including ro- Tenafly, NJ 07670
201-567-8963
having fun in the arts! botics, digital photography, coding, 3D modeling, DJ, film pro-
duction and even fashion, all taught in hands-on workshops www.jccotp.org/specialty-camps
by professional instructors from Israel and the U.S. Curriculum Grades 3 through 11
developed by Big Idea, the leaders of tech education in Israel. Sessions: Monday through Friday, July 30 – August 10, 9
All-inclusive, providing lunch, snacks, daily swim, and towel a.m. – 4 p.m. (two-week session)
service. Campers have access to transportation and extended Enjoy two weeks of dance technique that explores all the lat-
care services. JCC membership required for campers in grade est crazes and new dance forms. Students take sessions in bal-
three through age 10. let, jazz, and hip-hop each day, while working toward an end-
of-camp dance performance on stage and in costume. Improve
ARTS, PERFORMANCE AND MUSIC CAMPS skill level, build strength, and gain more flexibility while hav-
ing a great time. All-inclusive, providing lunch, snacks, daily
Art of Excellent Studio swim and towel service. Campers have access to transporta-
Artist, Rina Goldhagen tion and extended care services. JCC membership required for
Dates: Summer 2018 campers in grade 3 through age 10.
Ages 7 – Adult
201-248-4779 Center-Stage (NKDC Specialty Camp)
Join us! www.artofexcellencestudio.com Kaplen JCC on the Palisades
Born to Perform April Break Camp Themed Arts and Craft camps available this summer. You can Taub Campus
email inquiries to artofexcellencestudio@gmail.com. Ongoing 411 East Clinton Avenue
April 2–6 Tenafly, NJ 07670
lessons and portfolio classes available. Unlock your creative
Summer Performing Arts Camp with classes in drawing and watercolor. Please see our ad on 201-567-8963
www.jccotp.org/specialty-camps
Weekly, Monthly, All Summer page 12.
Grades 4 though 9
June 25–August 24 bergenPAC Performing Arts School Sessions: Monday through Friday, June 25 – July 13, 9
REGISTER NOW Summer Programs
1 Depot Square
a.m. – 4 p.m. (three-week session)
This exciting performing experience for beginner/intermedi-
Camps are filling fast! Englewood, NJ 07631 ate and advanced actors combines everyone’s favorite, “Alice
201 390-7513 • 201 266-8830 201-482-8194 in Wonderland,” and its comic sequel, “Through the Looking
www.bergenpac.org/summer Glass,” to create an incredible high-level Broadway-style musi-
studio-info@cresskillperformingarts.com Ages: 3 months to 18 years old cal with set, costumes, challenging dialogue, big musical num-
www.cresskillperformingarts.com bers, and solos. Includes daily workshops in acting, movement,

12 ABOUT OUR CHILDREN • MARCH 2018


singing and improvisation. Each student develops immeasur-
able skills, great confidence and has the chance to realize their
dreams as a performer. All-inclusive, providing lunch, snacks,
daily swim and towel service. Campers have access to trans-
portation and extended care services. JCC membership re-
quired for campers in grade 3 through age 10.

Broadway Showtime (NKDC Specialty Camp)


Kaplen JCC on the Palisades
Taub Campus
411 East Clinton Avenue
Tenafly, NJ 07670
201-567-8963
www.jccotp.org/specialty-camps
Grades 5th through 11th
Sessions: Monday through Friday, July 16 – 27, 9 a.m. – 4
p.m. (two-week session)
A new high-level musical theater experience for intermediate/
advanced students to increase and refine their skills in singing,
dance and building great characters in a classic and very funny
production of “Fiddler on the Roof and Friends.” Daily work-
shops increase skill levels and jump-start confidence and joy
in performing. Each student will have challenging roles, and
can shine in big musical numbers and solos in the spotlight.
All-inclusive, providing lunch, snacks, daily swim and towel
service. Campers have access to transportation and extended
care services. JCC membership required for campers in grade
three through age 10.

Comedic Acting Camp (NKDC Specialty Camp)


Kaplen JCC on the Palisades
Taub Campus
411 East Clinton Avenue
Tenafly, NJ 07670
201-567-8963
www.jccotp.org/specialty-camps
Grades: 3rd through 6th
Sessions: Monday through Friday, July 30 – August 17, 9
a.m. – 4 p.m. (one-week sessions)
Week 1: Comedy Playmaking and Performing — Students
create their own comedy scripts and put them together for
a 5-star performance. Week 2: Comedy Theater — Learn
cool comic skills for sticky situations. Includes performances
for family and other JCC camps. Week 3: Comedy in Mov-
ies — Find out what makes a movie funny and how to spot
and build on the surprising comic sides of life. Students will
create and take home the film they star in with a green screen
to make a special background. All-inclusive, providing lunch,
snacks, daily swim and towel service. Campers have access to
transportation and extended care services. JCC membership
required for campers in grade 3 through age 10.

Fine Arts Camp (NKDC Specialty Camp)


Kaplen JCC on the Palisades
Taub Campus
411 East Clinton Avenue
Tenafly, NJ 07670
201-567-8963
www.jccotp.org/specialty-camps
Grades: 3rd though 6th
Sessions: Monday through Friday, June 25 – August 17, 9
a.m. – 4 p.m. (one week sessions)
Get creative and have a blast at Fine Arts Camp. Each week
campers focus on a different, exciting project that will incor-
porate new art skills, methodology and mediums including
jewelry making, painting, textiles, sculpting, and more. Each
session features a visiting artist who will teach a hands-on
workshop in their craft. All-inclusive, providing lunch, snacks,
daily swim and towel service. Campers have access to trans-
portation and extended care services. JCC membership re-
quired for campers in grade 3 through age 10.

SPORTS PROGRAMS/CAMPS
Ice Vault
10 Nevins Road
Wayne, NJ 07470
973-628-1500
www.icevault.com
Summer ice hockey camps include: Erik Nates Euro Hockey
from August 20 through August 24; FUNdamental Camp (At-
oms to 10 years old) from July 2 to July 6; Laura Stamm Power
Skating for 7 to 11 year olds, and 11 to adult, July 9 through
July 12; ProAmbitions from July 23 through July 27. Please

ABOUT OUR CHILDREN • MARCH 2018 13


OurChildren
About

check the website for summer applications Basketball Camp (NKDC The Michelle Weiss Children’s Tennis campers. Juniors ages 5-9 (must be 5 by July
and updates. Please see our ad on page 19. Specialty Camp) Camp (NKDC Specialty Camp) 1). A traditional camp program. Group sizes
Kaplen JCC on the Palisades Kaplen JCC on the Palisades are no more than six campers. Teens ages 10-
Multi-Sport Camp (NKDC 14: A special life skills camp that helps teens
Taub Campus Taub Campus
Specialty Camp) 411 East Clinton Avenue 411 East Clinton Avenue gain the skills and confidence they need to
Kaplen JCC on the Palisades Tenafly, NJ 07670 Tenafly, NJ 07670 become self-sufficient in activities of daily
Taub Campus 201-567-8963 201-567-8963 living, while enjoying a full camp experience.
411 East Clinton Avenue www.jccotp.org/specialty-camps www.jccotp.org/specialty-camps Special attention is given to life skills as well
Tenafly, NJ 07670 Grades: 3rd through 8th Grades: 3rd through 8th as academic enrichment. Group sizes are no
201-567-8963 Sessions: Monday through Friday, June Sessions: Monday through Friday, July 23 – more than 8 campers.
www.jccotp.org/specialty-camps 25 – August 17, 9 a.m. – 4 p.m. (one August 17, 9 a.m. – 4 p.m. (one week ses-
Grades: 3rd through 8th week sessions) sions) On Our Own
Sessions: Monday through Friday, June 25 –
If you love basketball — this camp is for you. Whether your camper has his/her sights on
Young Adult Summer Camp
August 17, 9 a.m. – 4 p.m. (one week ses- Kaplen JCC on the Palisades
Our JCC basketball professionals bring their the US Open or is just looking for some time
sions) Taub Campus
love of the game and incomparable coach- on the courts with friends — this camp will
Perfect for campers who like variety. This ing skills to teach and enhance your camper’s provide a swinging good time. Campers will 411 E. Clinton Avenue
camp focuses on building fundamentals skills at every level. Includes performance enhance their understanding of the game and Tenafly, NJ 07607
across a variety of sports, for all skill levels, training to build strength, endurance and build skills and confidence through interac- 201-408-1489
in a relaxed and fun environment. Campers flexibility, which increases productivity. All- tive games and drills, while also increasing www.jccotp.org/special-needs-summer-
will love making use of all the courts and inclusive, providing lunch, snacks, daily swim strength, endurance, and flexibility through
programs
fields the JCC has to offer, while learning and Transitions: ages 15 – 21, Monday through
and towel service. Campers have access to performance training. All-inclusive, providing
improving their skills. Includes performance Friday, June 25 – August 17
transportation and extended care services. lunch, snacks, daily swim and towel service.
training to build strength, endurance and Adults (ages 21+), June 25 – August 10
JCC membership required for campers in Campers have access to transportation and
flexibility, which increases productivity. All- 9:30 a.m. – 2:30 p.m.
grade 3 through age 10. extended care services. JCC membership re-
inclusive, providing lunch, snacks, daily swim quired for campers in grade three through On Our Own is a life skills program for teens
and towel service. Campers have access to age 10. and young adults with intellectual and devel-
transportation and extended care services. opmental delays, including autism, who have
JCC membership required for campers in sufficient communication and self-help skills
SPECIAL NEEDS SUMMER PROGRAMS
grade three through age 10. to independently participate with a 1:4 staff-
Camp Haverim ing ratio. Participants gain the skills needed to
Kaplen JCC on the Palisades become self-sufficient in important activities
Taub Campus of daily living. Activities include a wide range
411 E. Clinton Ave. of socialization opportunities, community
Tenafly, NJ 07607 inclusion/instruction and trips, academic en-
richment, sports, swimming, music therapy,

Your Child’s
201-408-1489
www.jccotp.org/special-needs-summer- yoga, specialized art program, dance, cooking,
programs computers and more. Trips may include visits

Summer Memories OPEN HOUSE


SUNDAY
Ages: 3 – 21
Sessions: Monday through Friday, August
to museums, aquariums, shopping, bowling,
movies, zoos, etc. For the transitions group,

Start at Camp Veritans


13 – 24, 9 a.m. – 3:45 p.m. On Our Own may be considered as an alter-
APRIL 15 nate placement for extended school-year pro-
Where differences are celebrated. A unique
1-3PM grams. JCC membership is not required. New

Day Camp!
two-week camp for children and teens with
autism and other intellectual, cognitive and participants must have an intake interview.
developmental delays, with sufficient com-
Therapeutic Nursery
munication and self-help skills, and attend 11
months of special schooling. Campers partici-
at the Kaplen JCC on the Palisades
Four, Five, Six, Seven or Eight Week Sessions Available pate in a diverse full-day program, including Taub Campus
social skills, swimming and water park activi- 411 E. Clinton Avenue
ties, sports and adaptive physical education, Tenafly, NJ 07607
yoga, academic enrichment, music therapy, 201-408-1489
arts, and therapy dogs. Small camper-to-staff www.jccotp.org/special-needs-summer-
ratio to meet camper needs with highly quali-
programs
fied staff. An intake interview is required for Summer-only option, space permitting, July
all new campers. State funding and scholar- 9 through August 17. Monday through Friday,
ship assistance is available. JCC membership morning 9 –1:30 a.m., afternoon 12:30 – 3 p.m.
is not required. The Therapeutic Nursery is a developmental
language-based parent/child program for
Neil Klatskin Day Camp: Tikvah children ages 3–6 with a variety of develop-
Kaplen JCC on the Palisades mental difficulties, including language disor-
Tuition Includes: Wide Variety of Programs: Taub Campus ders, ADHD, high-functioning autism, social
411 E. Clinton Avenue and emotional challenges, as well as selec-
• Daily Catered Hot Kosher Lunches • Serving Pre-K • Arts & Crafts • Soccer tive mutism.
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You’ve Got a Friend


Local teens got together to participate in A Good Lesson
Valley Chabad’s Friendship Circle Sunday Rabbi Ron Roth of the Fair Lawn Jewish Center showing stu-
Best B’nai Mitzvah Circle event recently. Teens were paired up dents and parents of Fair Lawn Jewish Center and the Jewish
The sixth graders at Temple Beth Or’s religious school in Community Center of Paramus/CBT the inside of the Torah at a
with a buddy with special needs. The partici-
Washington Township had a b’nai mitzvah orientation and yad- recent joint program for Tu b’Shvat and Shabbat Shira
pants enjoyed a morning filled with musical
making class. The program was led by Rabbi Noah Fabricant
activities led by volunteer music instructor
and Anat Katzir, religious school director.
Antony Morales.

Teens Have High-Flying Fun


Students at the Bergen County High School of Jewish Studies took
a trip to Urban Air Adventure Park in South Hackensack recently.
Students had a high-flying fun time on the various trampolines,
ropes course, and climbing walls.

Shabbat for Tots


The Artist Within Temple Beth Tikvah in Wayne welcomed young families to
At Glen Rock Jewish Center Hebrew School Art Class a recent Tot Shabbat. There were songs with Rabbi Meeka
students learned about the ancient synagogues in Israel Simerly at the guitar, crafts, and special treats to create a
that had beautiful mosaic floors, with biblical themes warm and memorable evening.
and zodiac signs. Each student made a mosaic based on
his or her own zodiac sign under the guidance of artist
Vicky Katzman.

Hats and Socks of Joy


When the month of Adar arrives we should increase our joy. At
Solomon Schechter Day School of Bergen County, located in New
Milford, this phrase rose to new heights during Crazy Hat and Sock
Day, which celebrates Adar’s arrival.

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OurChildren
About

TopChoices MARCH 2018


Compiled by Heidi Mae Bratt

Dino-Mite Display at bergenPAC


Get ready for the ultimate play date — 65 million help of professional paleontologists, the show’s pup-
years in the making — as Erth’s Dinosaur Zoo Live pets are so realistic you may feel the urge to run and
guides the family on a breathtaking tour that begins hide. But don’t. You’ll miss all the fun. Sunday, March
in prehistoric Australia. Meet and interact with a 11, 2 and 4 p.m.
collection of lifelike dinosaurs and other creatures bergenPAC
presented in a theatrical performance that will thrill 30 N. Van Brunt Street, Englewood
and entertain. Brought to life by a team of skilled 201-816-8160
performers and puppeteers, and designed with the www.bergenpac.org.

Marvel-ous Heroes at Prudential Center


Marvel fans don’t miss this live, hands. The ancient artifact holds against some of the most threaten-
action-packed, legendary battle mystical power and would allow ing villains in an adventure filled
to defend the universe from evil. Loki to achieve his eternal quest with cutting-edge special effects,
Spider-Man, the Avengers, and to crown himself ruler of Asgard aerial stunts, and video projection.
the Guardians of the Galaxy join and Earth. Marvel Universe LIVE! March 15 through 18, various times.
forces with Doctor Strange, master Age of Heroes unites some of the Prudential Center
of the mystic arts, in a race against greatest heroes, including Iron 25 Lafayette Street, Newark
time to recover the Wand of Man, Captain America, Thor, Black 973-757-6500
Watoomb before it falls into Loki’s Panther, Hulk, and Black Widow groupevents@prucenter.com.

The Sensational World of Our Senses


Every day, we perceive the world around us window into the world around us but a product of
through our senses — including sight, smell, our brains. Plus, discover why we have senses and
hearing, touch, balance, and taste. But as it turns what’s unique about human perception during an
out, for humans “reality” isn’t ever exactly what interactive session hosted by a live presenter.
it seems. In “Our Senses,” a highly experiential American Museum of Natural History
exhibition now on display, explore 11 funhouse-like Central Park West and 79th Street, Manhattan
spaces that dare you to trust your senses — then 212-769-5100
show you how what we perceive is not simply a www.amnh.org.

Paper Bag Players


at The Jewish Museum
See an elephant riding on a scooter, a giraffe profit theater company of adults who create
steering a car, a bird giving flying lessons, and and perform original, contemporary musical
more surprises in “That’s Quite Absurd!” the theater for children ages 3 through 8. Sunday,
latest fun-filled production from the Paper Bag March 11, 11:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m.
Players. Delight in the group’s classic blend of Scheuer Auditorium
cardboard and paper sets, whimsical stories, The Jewish Museum
lovable characters, and live music that will 1109 Fifth Avenue, Manhattan
have you and your family singing and dancing 212-423-3200
in the aisles. The Paper Bag Players is a non- www.thejewishmuseum.org.

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The Good Life With Kids To Add Your Event
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This calendar is a day-by-day schedule of events. Although all information is as timely as we can make it, it’s a good idea to call to verify details before you go. Deadline for April issue:
Tuesday, March 20, published March 30,

Saturday, February 24 Torah, 85 West Mount Pleasant Avenue,


Livingston, 973-994-2620, www.surburbantorah.
Sensory Friendly Kidz Cabaret Series: Turtle
org.
Dance Music aims to spark children’s curiosity
and imaginations through interactive, inclusive
musical performances that use a wide range of
Wednesday, March 14
instruments, stuffed animals, games, and tech- Story Time at Barnes & Nobles: Join in at 11 a.m.
nology. The sensory-friendly performance is for a story and fun-filled activity or craft in the
geared for Pre-K, grades K-5, and also students Children’s Department. Barnes & Nobles, 765
on the Autism Spectrum. 1 and 3 p.m. bergen- Route 17 South, Paramus, 201-445-4589.
PAC, 30 North Van Brunt Street, Englewood.
201-227-1030, www.bergenpac.org. Thursday, March 15
Great Family Challah Bake at Gerrard Berman:
Sunday, February 25:
The Pop Ups at The Jewish Museum: To wrap
Meet the Children’s Authors Join us at the Academies @ GBDS for a magical
night at the Great Family Challah Bake. Mothers,
up vacation week, the Museum presents a concert
by The Pop Ups at 11:30 a.m. for kids ages 3 to 8. at Teaneck Public Library fathers, sons, daughters, and grandparents are
invited to come together to make challah. The
evening, from 6 to 8 p.m., includes a kosher,
The Grammy-nominated band presents a special
acoustic concert featuring live drawing, puppets, The Teaneck Public Library will be a pot,” Ariel Bernstein, who wrote “I organic dinner, entertainment, prizes, and challah
and a costume party for the holiday of Purim. hub of activity on Sunday, February Have a Balloon,” Mike Malbrough, au- making. Cost $12 per person up to $36 for family
Tickets for the concert are $18 per person. The of 4. Registration is required. The Academies @
25, when four local children’s authors thor of “Marigold Bakes a Cake,” and GBDS, 45 Spruce Street, Oakland. www.ssnj.org/
Jewish Museum, 1109 Fifth Avenue, Manhattan.
212-423-3200, thejewishmuseum.org. will entertain youngsters and sign their Andria Rosenbaum, who wrote “Trains familychallah.
Bowling and Pizza Friendship Circle: Join in picture books in an afternoon filled Don’t Sleep.” It’s Not About the Cookie Jar: The Valley
a day of bowling and pizza from 3 to 4:30 p.m. Hospital will host a free community health pro-
with not only meet-and-greet the au- The books will be available for pur- gram, “It’s Not About the Cookie Jar” from 7
Garden Palace Lanes, 42 Lakeview Avenue,
thors, but also crafts, games, and lots chase from the Curious Reader book to 8:30 p.m. at The Valley Center for Health &
Clifton. Register by calling 973-694-4970 or at
fcpassaiccounty.com. of giveaways. shop. Wellness, 1400 MacArthur Boulevard, Mahwah.
The session features childhood obesity expert Dr.
On hand from 1 to 4 p.m. will be The Teaneck Public Library is lo-
Thursday, March 1 Chana Stiefel, author of “Daddy De- cated at 840 Teaneck Road.
Sherry Saklowitz-Sukkar; psychiatrist Dr. Kai-Ping
Wang; and dietician Janet Brancato.
Picture Book Parade: Stories for youngsters 3 1/2
to 5 years old. For Paramus residents. Paramus
Public Library, 116 East Century Road, Paramus,
Friday, March 16
201-599-1300. Saturday, March 3 Shabbat Across America at Congregation B’nai
Musical Shabbat in Teaneck: Temple Emeth
Family Shabbat at Congregation B’nai Israel: holds its Shabbat music service at 8 p.m.
Arts & Crafts at Paramus Library: Stop by the Israel: Shabbat dinner from 6:30 to 8 p.m. will
Family Shabbat. For adults and children 12 and Congregants join Rabbi Steven Sirbu and Cantor
library after school from 3:30 to 4:30 p.m. and include rituals, songs and prayers followed by a
older a learning service will take place in the Ellen Tilem and the Temple Emeth Band. 1666
make a special craft. Charles E. Reid Branch, 239 service and oneg. Dinner is $17 adults, $10 chil-
sanctuary at 10 a.m. For families with children Windsor Road, Teaneck, 201-833-1322, www.
West Midland Avenue, Paramus, 201-444-4911. dren 12 and under, a family cap of $45 and grand-
8 to 11, there is an 8-11 Club service from 10:30 emeth.org.
parents cap of $60. Open to the public. RSVPs
Friday, March 2 to 11:30 a.m. For families with children 7 and required. Congregation B’nai Israel, 53 Palisades Tot Shabbat in Franklin Lakes: Tot Shabbat and
pizza dinner at Barnert Temple at 5 p.m. with
Rabbi Debra Orenstein at Starbucks: Rabbi younger, there will be a family Shabbat program Avenue, Emerson. 201-265-2272, office@bisrael.
from 10:30 to 11:30 a.m. An informal lunch of com, www.bisrael.com. Rabbi Rachel Steiner. Welcome pre-readers to this
Orenstein of Congregation B’nai Israel in Emerson
pizza, salads, ice cream and cookies follows the family-friendly service. Barnert Temple, 747 Route
is holding “office hours” throughout the commu-
nity. She’s there to chat, ask a question, or share a family service. Congregation B’nai Israel, 53 Sunday, March 11 208 South, Franklin Lakes. 201-848-1027, www.
Palisade Avenue, Emerson. 201-265-2272, www. barnerttemple.org.
beverage. She will be at Starbucks, 126 Broadway Teaneck Dentist Checkup Party: There will be
in Hillsdale from 2:30 to 3:45 p.m. For more infor- bisrael.com. 7 hygienists, 4 doctors, 1 magician and a lot of Tot Shabbat in Closter: Temple Beth El will hold
giveaways on hand at the checkup party, which its monthly informal Tot Shabbat led by Rabbi
mation, 201-265-2272, www.bisrael.com.
Sunday, March 4 runs from 8:50 a.m. to 1 p.m. Get your child’s teeth David S. Widzer, Rabbi Beth Kramer-Mazer
Seussian Story Time: Celebrate Read Across
Voices in Harmony: Voices in Harmony is a checked. Teaneck Dentist, 1008 Teaneck Road, and student cantor Julie Staple at 5:15 p.m. Tot
America Day with a story time and craft program
musical celebrating student performance from 16 Teaneck, 201-837-3000, www.teaneckdentist. Shabbat is open to all nursery school-age children
at 4 p.m. No registration required. Teaneck Public
schools with students with disabilities. The per- com. and features song, stories, and crafts. Open to
Library, Teaneck 840 Teaneck Road, Teaneck. 201-
formance is at 2 p.m. bergenPAC, 30 North Van everyone. Temple Beth El, 221 Schraalenburgh
837-4171. Family Challah Bake in Montebello: Challah bake
Brunt Street, Englewood. 201-227-1030, www. Road, Closter, 201-768-5112.
Family Shabbat at Temple Emeth: Family for families with children 4 to 13 years old. For reli-
bergenpac.org. gious school students, free, others $5 per person. Family Friendly Shabbat in Closter: Rabbi David
Shabbat services starting at 7:30 p.m.
S. Widzer, Rabbi Beth Kramer-Mazer and student
Temple Emeth, 1666 Windsor Road, Teaneck. Monday, March 5 RSVP to office@montebellojc.org. 10:30 to 11:30
a.m. Montebello Jewish Center, 34 Montebello cantor Julie Staple are joined by Rinat Beth El
201-833-1322, www.emeth.org.
Friendship Circle Mom’s Night Out: at 8 p.m. Road, Montebello, NY. 845-357-2430, www.mon- Junior Choir for a family friendly Shabbat Service
Location given upon RSVP. Enjoy a rejuvenating tebello.org. at 6:45 p.m. Temple Beth El, 221 Schraalenburgh
break dedicated mothers of Friendship Circle. At Road, Closter, 201-768-5112.
Erth’s Dinosaur Zoo Live: A family show featur-
8 p.m. 201-262-7172, www.bcfriendship.com.
ing prehistoric creatures from down under. Shows
Monday, March 19
Wednesday, March 7 at 2 and 4 p.m. The performance is at 2 p.m. ber-
genPAC, 30 North Van Brunt Street, Englewood. Gaming Afternoon at Teaneck Library: Experts
Story Time at Barnes & Nobles: Join in at 11 a.m. 201-227-1030, www.bergenpac.org. and new players welcome. There is Wii & Xbox
for a story and fun-filled activity or craft in the 360. Bring your skills. Light refreshments. Grades
Children’s Department. Barnes & Nobles, 765 Monday, March 12 6 and up. From 1 to 2 p.m. Teaneck Public Library,
Route 17 South, Paramus, 201-445-4589. 840 Teaneck Road, Teaneck. 201-837-4171.
Seder Surprises: Hands-on ways to make your
Friday, March 9 seders an amazing, engaging, exciting and memo-
rable experience for your children. Sponsored by
Thursday, March 22
Auditions for “The 25th Annual Putnam County Congregations Shaare Tefillah, Yavneh Academy- Mummenschanz “You & Me”: For more than
Spelling Bee”: Auditions will be held at the Wayne YPAA, and Congregation Rinat Yisrael. 7:15 p.m. four decades, Mummenschanz has been inspiring
YMCA’s Rosen PAC for teens, ages 16 to 20. Congregation Rinat Yisrael, 389 West Englewood audiences all over the world with its wordless but
Callbacks will be held on Sunday, March 11. Tuition Avenue, Teaneck. extremely poetic visual theater productions. This
for the show, which will be performed in May, is vivid performance is fun for all ages. 8 p.m. ber-
Parenting Lecture: “We’re in this Together:
$330. The Y is located at 1 Pike Drive, Wayne. For genPAC, 30 North Van Brunt Street, Englewood.
Raising Confident and Competent Children
more details, mbudnick@metroymcas.org. 201-227-1030, www.bergenpac.org.
Voices in Harmony, see Sunday, March 4 through Cooperative Parenting.” 8 p.m. Surburban

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Celebrate Purim Queen Anne Road, Teaneck, 201-836-6210,
www.bethaaron.org.
Disney Purim in Woodcliff Lake:
Valley Chabad serving the Pascack Valley
Sunday, February 25 Wednesday, February 28 and Saddle River communities will hold
Purim Carnival at Temple Emeth: Join Purim Chagiga at Congregation a Disney-themed dinner and party at the
at 10 a.m. in for games, prized, and fun B’nai Yeshuran: CBY Purim Chagiga Hilton Woodcliff Lake. DJ entertainment,
for all ages. Come in costume. Temple Extravaganza with a magic show during Disney characters, full dinner, costume

Simchas
Emeth, 1666 Windsor Road, Teaneck. 6:25 Megillah reading. Music and enter- mascarade, Megillah reading and more.
201-833-1322, www.emeth.org. tainment by JAP food, games, costume Beginning at 6 p.m. Hilton Woodcliff
Rubach Family Purim Celebration parade. Prizes for best costume. $30 Lake, 200 Tice Boulevard, Woodcliff Lake.
at the Kaplen JCC on the Palisades: per family. Congregation Bnai Yeshurun, RSVP: valleychabad.org/purim.
Moon bounce, slides, games, inflatable 641 W Englewood Avenue, Teaneck,
201-836-8916, www.bnaiyeshurun.org Thursday, March 1
photo booth, face painting, prizes, life-
size cartoon characters, snacks, a DJ, Shushan Street Purim in Closter: Purim Got Talent: Kids celebrate Purim
Israeli dancing, a Purim puppet show and Temple Beth El of Northern Valley and with Megillah reading, festive buffet
B’nai mitzvah sing-a-long (1:30 p.m. and 2:30 p.m.), and Temple Beth Or invites the community dinner, mishloach manot and Kids Got
Talent Show, see website for more infor-
more from 1 to 4 p.m. Sensory-friendly to a Shushan Street Purim celebration
from 6:30 to 8 p.m. See the Purim story mation. $15 per person. More at door. Bris
on January 27 at Temple hour from noon to 1 p.m. available for
Avrohom, 30-02 Fair Lawn Avenue, Fair
Emanuel of the Pascack children with special needs. Suggested enacted by Temple Beth El and Temple
entrance donation, $1 per person to be Beth Or clergy and staff. Sing along to Lawn, 201-791-7200, www.jccnnj.org.
Valley in Woodcliff Lake. donated to the Center for Food Action. your favorite Sesame Street songs with Sunday, March 4
Ride and game tickets sold on $25 Purim lyrics. There will be a Megillah Magical Purim in Westwood: The
JAKE COHEN cards for 30 tickets. Food available for reading. Come in costume. Temple Beth Jewish Federation of Northern NJ and the
separate purchase, Kaplen JCC on the El, 221 Schraalenburgh Road, Closter, 201- Bergen County Y are sponsoring a magic
Jake Cohen, son of Heather Palisades, 411 E. Clinton Avenue, Tenafly, 768-5112, www.tbenv.org performance by Magic Anthony, costume
Friedman and Randy Cohen 201-408-1485, www.jccotp.org. Dance and Sing with Heichal parade and crafts and food event from
of Ridgewood, celebrated Purim Carnival at JCCP/CBT: JCC of HaTorah: The entire community to dance 9:30 to 11 a.m. Westwood Recreation
becoming a bar mitzvah Paramus/Congregation Beth Tikvah and sing with the students and rabbis of Center, 55 Jefferson Avenue, Westwood.
on January 27 at Temple & Congregation Beth Tefillah present the yeshiva at our annual Purim chagiga $10 family donation and canned food item.
2018 Purim featuring a carnival from beginning at 8:45 p.m. Featuring Eli and RSVP, jccnnjpurimmagic.eventbrite.com.
Israel & Jewish Community noon to 2 p.m. Carnival, bouncy castle, Bentzi Marcus from 8th Day. No alcohol Purim Carnival in Montebello: Purim
ADAM AGRESTI Center in Ridgewood. AMY KIMEL moonwalk, games, lunch, snacks, cotton permitted. The Jewish Center of Teaneck, Carnival from 10:30 a.m. to noon. All
Adam Nathaniel Agresti, Amy Kimel, daughter of candy and prize. Come in costume. 304 E. 70 Sterling Place, Teaneck. 201-335-0633, students should arrive at their regular
son of Ellen and Joe Agresti Erubey and Alexandru Midland Avenue, Paramus, 201-262-7691, ext. 1030, purim@heichalhatorah.org. 9 a.m. time. Montebello Jewish Center,
www.jccparamus.org. Purim Shpiel and Megillah Reading at 34 Montebello Road, Montebello, N.Y.
of Yorktown Heights, N.Y., Kimel of Montvale and sis- 845-357-2430, www.montebellojc.org.
Purim Carnival at the Jewish Center Congregation B’nai Israel: The annual
and brother of Jason, 21, ter of Valerie and Michelle, of Teaneck: Festive Purim carnival from Purim Shpiel and Megillah Reading will Purim at Fair Lawn Jewish Center/
celebrated becoming a bar celebrated becoming a 10 a.m. to noon in the Stein auditorium. take place at 7 p.m. Refreshments, includ- Congregation B’nai Israel: Join
mitzvah on January 20 at bat mitzvah on February Children’s games, inflatable’s, popcorn, ing hamantaschen, will be served. Bring a the Sisterhood and Men’s Progress
Temple Emanuel of the 3 at Temple Emanuel candy a raffle and more. Jewish Center non-perishable food item for food drive. Club of the Fair Lawn Jewish Center/
of Teaneck, 70 Sterling Place, Teaneck, Congregation B’nai Israel: 53 Palisade Congregation B’nai Israel at its
Pascack Valley in Woodcliff of the Pascack Valley in
201-833-0515, www.jcot.org. Avenue, Emerson, 201-265-2272, office@ annual Purim Carnival 10:30 a.m. to
Lake. His grandparents Woodcliff Lake. Purim Carnival at Congregation bisrael.com,www.bisrael.com. 1 p.m. Games, arts and crafts, prizes,
are Ed and the late Enid B’nai Israel: Annual Purim carnival from Purim Carnival at Keter Torah: Keter food and more. No entry fee, just pay
Ruzinsky of Saddle River. 10:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. Food, games, Torah and the ATARA Sisterhood will be to play. Put on your costume. Fair Lawn
prizes and fun. All in costume receive hosting their annual Purim carnival, fea- Jewish Center/Congregation B’nai
additional game tickets. Congregation, turing food, games, rides, face painting, Israel, 10-10 Norma Avenue, Fair Lawn.
ELIZABETH EPSTEIN B’nai Israel, 53 Palisade Avenue, Emerson balloon making and more following 6:45 201-796-5040, www.fljc.org
Elizabeth Epstein, daugh- 201-265-2272, office@bisrael.com, www. Megillah reading. Congregation Keter The Whole Megillah in Montebello:
ter of Heather and Jordan bisrael.com. Torah, 600 Roemer Avenue, Teaneck, 201- Join in for ice cream social for religious
Epstein of Woodcliff Lake Mom and Kids Hamantaschen Bake: 907-0180, www.ketertorah.org. school at 6 p.m., ma’ariv, costume
Make your own traditional hamataschen. Wednesday, February 28 parade and Megillah reading at 6:20
and sister of Evan, celebrat- Wednesday, and Purim Shpeil at 7:15
5 p.m. Must reserve. $18 per person. Bris Purim After Glow at Beth Aaron: 7 to 9
ed becoming a bat mitzvah Avrohom, 30-02 Fair Lawn Avenue, Fair p.m. The event is open to the public.
p.m. Beth Aaron Youth presents Purim After
on February 10 at Temple Lawn, 201-791-7200, www.jccnnj.org. Glow party Following Megillah. Tickets $12, Montebello Jewish Center, 34 Montebello
Emanuel of the Pascack under 2 free. Beth Aaron Congregation, 950 Road, Montebello, NY. 845-357-2430,
www.montebellojc.org.
Valley in Woodcliff Lake.
SPENCER SCHRAGER

JORDANA BRIEF
Jordana Brief, daughter of
Spencer Schrager, son of
Jessica and Eric Schrager
of Paramus, celebrated
PARTY
Jessica and Andrew Brief of becoming a bar mitzvah
Woodcliff Lake and sister on January 20 at Temple
of Sam and Ruby, celebrat- Emanuel of the Pascack
ed becoming a bat mitzvah Valley in Woodcliff Lake.

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Twerski encourages close supervision of
5. Invite them to come up with teens on Purim. Have your teen tell you
some rules for themselves where they are going and who they will
Teens need to learn to think for them-
selves. If they come up with rules and
be with. Make sure that they have a cell
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are more likely to stick with them. We or if they feel at all uncomfortable. Reit-
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and affirms our belief that they can make and that they may never get into a car
good decisions. We can ask them the fol- with someone who is not sober.
lowing questions: “You know the chal- Teens need us to be supportive and
lenges of drinking and drugs. What rules loving as they move through these years Include:
should be in place for teens like you?” toward adulthood. Talking to them in re- 1 hours of skating (during public session)
Private decorated party room
“How can parents help kids make good spectful ways about tough issues and hav- Off ice party attendant
decisions? What do you need from us?” ing rules in place can help. Skate rental
Invitations for party guests
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