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happiness when you’re happy nap if I can. I play with my MY LAST SUPPER MEAL
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SOAPBOX
by Sarah Lang
P R I M E
TIME
TO TALK
Jacinda’s pregnancy is great news,
says one working mum – especially if
it opens up discussion about the messy
reality of the work/baby juggle
What was your reaction to news of the ‘First hell out of her. I’m not worried about the could handle the night shift, while Jacinda
Sprog’? A gasp, a fist pump, a tear? I had effect of her dual roles on the country. could get some industrial-strength
the warm fuzzies, too. There’s nothing Jacinda will be brilliant at both, but trying earmuffs. And let’s support her whole-
more beautiful than a couple in love, and to excel at both will take a physical and heartedly if she decides to formula feed.
who want to be parents, expecting a baby. emotional toll. Because until you have a Trying to juggle breastfeeding and
My Facebook feed just couldn’t deal. The baby, you don’t know how hard it will be expressing milk with the top job would be
emojis weren’t up to the task of conveying (though you might think you do). Holly logistically difficult and physically taxing.
all the delight and admiration, especially Walker, who had a baby as a Green MP, Many of us are thinking about these
after realising Jacinda had led successful said the attempt to do both nearly broke things. Surely we should be able to talk
coalition negotiations while suffering her. “I was also really sleep deprived, about them without fear of being shut
morning sickness. “F***ing wonder really overwhelmed, really stressed, really down as a traitor to feminism, or a
woman! My first trimesters I took baths. anxious,” Holly said. “I felt like I was tearing nosyparker (come on, we’re all nosy about
this). Surely, rather than donning rose-
Could there be a tougher combo than prime coloured glasses, we can have robust
conversations about the dilemma of the
minister and new mum, contactable for often-exhausted working mother, and put
in place systems to counter patriarchal
six weeks then back at work? values in the workplace, where, for
instance, after-work schmoozing often
That’s all,” one woman posted. “What can’t myself in two every time I went to work in helps you up the ladder, and part-time or
Jacinda do?” posted another. But even as I
happily pictured a glass ceiling shattering
the morning.” Maybe we can have it all, but
can we have it all at the same time? It will
flexible hours are seen as slacking off.
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Being Jen
COVER STORY
Show business
full circle
ennifer Aniston was just 25 when she got the
Words Emma Clifton Extra reporting Ellie McDonald Photographs AUGUST / Raven and Snow
as we tend to our regret is the amount of we’re staring at all these
appliances, as we tend sun-bathing I used to do ơ
Her big dream to everything else we
tend to.”
without sunscreen,” she
confesses. “I mean,
used to just be a
television screen.
here is an obvious elephant in the room when That goes from the baby oil! What was I Now it’s a computer
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where you can have a week away, fluctuate that isn’t real. You can think, ‘that’s the way
up and down a bit and be comfortable I should look because that girl’s got 50,000
with that. I feel great in my clothes, but I followers and I want to be like her.’ But
still have work to do. there is way more body empowerment at
Working in the public eye a lot of the same time. There are just as many
people ask me, “What food plans are you smart, sassy women portraying that amaz-
doing?” or, “How are you doing them?” ing message that you are beautiful.
but it’s important to remember I’m doing “It’s important if you’ve got a platform;
it for me; not for anybody else. It’s not a so your Instagram followers or the people
competition, it has to be for yourself. If who listen to you on the radio know
someone says, “Gosh, you don’t need to you’re real, you’re not hiding behind
lose weight,” that’s not really their prob- Photoshop. There’s definitely a sense of
lem. It’s about being happy in your skin Brodie chills out in Bali, 10 fakeness everywhere you look, but now
and finding that happy place. weeks after starting training. more than ever there’s realness, and we
Right now I’m 31 and in one of the best need to grab that, hold onto that and
stages of my life. You get to a point where got to be grateful for that every day. make sure younger women and our teen-
if you could’ve told your 20-year-old self So many Kiwi women work incredibly age girls know that’s out there.
to appreciate yourself more, be kind hard, whether it’s in a full-time job, You realise the more you look after
to yourself and not worry about what raising children; you’ve got to make an yourself that the better you will be long-
anybody else thinks, you would’ve. I’ve effort to look after yourself. If you’re tired term. I’m fit, healthy and I keep a
always been a free spirit and pretty and rundown you’re not going to be any relatively good hold on that. You don’t
realistic about that stuff, but you’ve just use to anybody, so keeping a good have to do it every day and certainly, you
got to work with and be proud of what routine, eating well and having some sort go away on holidays, but if I do that now
you’ve got. I have wonderful parents and of exercise is important to keep produc- I’m sure my 41, 51, and 61-year-old self
family and I should be grateful I’m here. tivity up. You will be happy if you look will be very grateful for that. And that’s
They’ve taught me to be who I am. You’ve after yourself; that’s not to say you might important to me.
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This second photo is post-pregnancy; I was
20 and a lot thinner than I am now. I wasn’t
happy. I’d started dropping a lot of weight and saying, “You look quite fat, how are foods, because I thought that’s what makes
quite quickly – which, when people have you? Are you okay or eating too much?” people fatter. I didn’t care what I ate.
had a baby, they think is cool. But I Except they were like, “Congratulations That photo was in Huntly. There was this
definitely wasn’t trying to lose weight. It on the baby, you’re looking thin, are you resort I’d stayed at there and gone down
wasn’t until people started to comment, alright? Are you looking after yourself?” I for a kapa haka competition at the Waikato
and often, I was like, ‘do I look that thin?’ joined a gym to try to put on muscle to regionals. The next day I got all the
It’s as bad as somebody coming up to you gain weight. I used to eat a lot, and bad comments. I left the competition, that’s
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wellbeing.
HAPPY HABITS
I’m not the best when it comes to
compliments. They usually go in one ear
and out the other. I’m as comfortable as I
Above: Ngahuia during her
pregancy. Right: Post- can be in my skin, but you get those little
pregnancy, she dropped a lot reservations. Like most people, you have
of weight unintentionally. things you’d like to work on.
I’m not big when it comes to New Year’s
resolutions, but I usually have a theme.
how bad it was. I remember everything This year my goal is to try to look after
about this particular time. I used to weigh
myself every day to see if I’d gained weight.
‘I’m as comfortable myself a bit better. I look at it like I’m
trying to be healthier, exercise, and eat
Looking back at how skinny my legs were
and that flat tummy, I wish I was happy
as I can be in my better foods but not to look a certain way.
You just accept what is, and only focus on
with how I was because it’s hard to be com-
fortable in your own skin. I look at this pho-
skin, but you get the things you can control.
I’d want to say to my younger self, “Be
to now and think, ‘I don’t know what you
were complaining about.’
those reservations’ kind to yourself and look after yourself.”
Because it’s not just how you are physically,
I’d love to find something old from it’s mentally too. I’ve always been quite
then to see if I could fit it. I was smaller It’s scary stuff and that’s why I share my hard on myself. I teach my daughter not to
than what I was at school and yet I was story because this happens to a lot of care about weight. She’s only eight, and
always thin during school. When you leave people, and when they’re young they she comes home and talks to me, “Mum,
school your body changes and I used to don’t think it’s going to happen to them. I I’m getting fat.” Eight years old and she’s
compare myself to my school weight a lot. wanted people to be aware and if you can saying things like that. I tell her, “Darling,
I’m a lot more comfortable in my skin now get one or two people to check them- that’s nothing to worry about, you’re a
than I was back then. selves, why not? growing girl. You need to be eating food
I actually got some messages. One said, so your bones can grow.”
SPEAKING OUT “Thank you so much for sharing your story. I even talk to her about body hair,
When I found out about the cancer scare Because of you, my wife got checked and because she’s concerned her legs are too
I cried – not for myself, but for my found something.” It’s quite a personal hairy. I asked, “Has somebody been saying
daughter. I was scared for her. I found the story and people don’t usually want to go things to you about your legs being hairy?”
lump by accident this time last year. It out and talk about their boobs so freely, She said, “No, but I’ve noticed they are, so
took me a few months to get checked. I but I’m comfortable with that. what can I do?” I told her, “Nothing. You
thought, ‘If you don’t check it you’re not don’t need to worry about anything like
going to hear bad news,’ which is so IN THE PUBLIC EYE that. All you need to worry about is making
stupid. I went to the nurse at work and her I definitely feel pressure because of the sure you’re healthy.”
advice was as soon as you find a lump, get show but I’m better at handling it. When You’ve got to be kind to yourself. If
it checked straight away; better to be safe I’m out people say one of two things, anything just love yourself. Look at
than sorry. My GP checked it and referred “You’re so much prettier in real life,” or, yourself in the mirror and try to find one
me to the breast clinic. “You’re so much skinnier.” Automatically I thing you love about yourself, however
They said, “We can schedule you in for get like, “Do I need to lose weight so I look long it takes, and focus on that more than
a biopsy but it’s already quite big. We skinnier on TV?” the million things you hate. A lot of us,
could either do a biopsy now, and test to I had one lady come up to me. She said, sadly, focus on things we don’t like about
see if they need to remove it, or you can “Are you Esther off Shortland Street? I had ourselves and I did that for a long time. I
just get it removed.” Because it was so big to ask because you look so big on TV but catch myself doing it now too, but I’ve
we decided to get it removed. They didn’t you’re so thin.” Then she carried on, “but learned to pick out the good. That starts a
say, “It’s definitely not cancer,” at the you’re so big on TV”... When I started habit, you’ll start doing it more often, and
beginning but they made me believe it Shortland Street everyone said, “Try not to then you’re happier. It might be something
was fine. They were like, “You’re still check social media because when you as simple as, ‘I love my eyes or how I’ve
young, the chances of it being cancerous start, people always say you’re fat, a bad done my hair today.’ If I’m feeling really
are low.” It wasn’t until I got the results actor, or ugly.” They’ll pick out certain down about how I’m looking, I’ll do
back that they were like, “Actually, it’s not things about you. Occasionally I might something little like get my nails done to
what we thought it was, it’s a bit alarming. read it but not to see what they say about make myself feel better. Or if they’ve done
It’s a tumour.” me, just to see how they’re responding to my makeup at work I’ll leave it on. »
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Jey-May
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VNZ sports presenter and former
Silver Fern Jenny-May Clarkson
copped criticism for being on
television while pregnant with twins.
Looking back on her body journey, the
43-year-old talks about finding her bliss.
days a week and we’ve finally got our like to say that’s how we choose to live our don’t find that, you’re always going to
home gym, a little rower and a few lives always, but it’s not. We go, “Right, no be searching for things you don’t feel
weights. Having done CrossFit, I can put bread, not too much processed food,” but good about.
together workouts. That’s become an you fall off the wagon. You get back on it. When I was single, I felt really good
important part of our lives now our boys about myself when I was doing exercise,
are going off to Kōhanga Reo. We’ve EMBRACE THE SEASON working and taking that time out for me.
finally got our head above water and can Life is about seasons. You’re in different Whether it was going to the gym at 5.40am
start looking after ourselves, so walking seasons all the time. You’ve got to in the morning or that swim at 7am,
James Rooke Hair and makeup Claudia Rodrigues Styling Sonia Greenslade
recognise that season you’re in and accept jumping in the ocean and getting out
it. There might be a season where again, I felt amazing and refreshed. I’d sit
everything’s going well, then maybe there and think about a couple of things I
another season where, ‘I’m so busy I don’t was grateful for. I loved it; I was pumped
have time to get to the gym,’ so your body for the day. Then I’d come to work and
changes. Physically you might not be able feel like I’d been on holiday. It was such a
cool time, even though I was going, ‘I’m
going to be single for the rest of my life,’
but I was taking care of me. That was my
bliss, that’s what made me happy.
And it radiated out; people would say,
“You look awesome.” I was thinking, ‘well
I want to find a man,’ but I was feeling
good about me. Now I can reflect on other
times in my life where I had no bliss and
was miserable, going to work, coming
home – didn’t have anything that gave me
joy. I still looked good, but there was
nothing making me happy. A lot of the
Above: Jenny-May with fellow
mum-to-be Renee Wright and TVNZ
time we get busy and you forget about
1 News presenter Greg Boyed. Right: At your bliss. You’ve got to look after you,
home with her twin boys. whatever that looks like. It doesn’t matter
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ON THE
AGENDA
She wasn’t sure she’d even make it into parliament, but our
new Minister for Women Julie Anne Genter now has big
plans for New Zealand. The Green Party MP shares her
thoughts on closing the pay gap, Trump’s America and why
it’s the perfect time for women’s issues BY MARIA HOYLE
Picture a girl of 10, maybe 11. She lives in a nice But then the incredible happened. Labour leader
home in the suburbs with two loving parents. She Jacinda Ardern became, at 37, the world’s youngest
shouldn’t want for anything. And yet. There is female leader. Jacinda rolled up her sleeves, dived
something she really wants. Not a pony, or a trip to into negotiations with the Greens and NZ First to
Disneyland or new rollerskates. She wants to form a government, and when everyone came up
change the world. for air, Julie Anne found herself wearing three
She debates fiercely with her family at mealtimes hats: Minister for Women, Associate Transport
about inequality, homelessness, the environment. Minister and Associate Health Minister. How on
People no doubt joke – ‘Hey, that kid’s gonna be earth does she know where to start?
president some day’. Well that girl didn’t grow up to
be president; but she did become Aotearoa’s ON THE JOB
Minister for Women. So I’m here, at the door of Julie Anne’s low-rise
Julie Anne Genter couldn’t have imagined, all 1930s apartment building – which she shares with
those years ago growing up in southern California, her partner Peter – in a lush green inner Auckland
that this is where she’d be today. But then even suburb, to ask her just that.
in the months before last September’s general In bare feet and a patterned dress with a colourful
election, when she was still just a Green list MP 70s vibe, she welcomes me into the living room.
plugging away on issues like cycleways and medicinal Wooden floors, plants, lots of books. It’s the sort of
cannabis, she couldn’t have known it either. Two place that urges you to hunker down with a good
weeks out from the polls, Julie Anne “thought it was novel and a cuppa. But I’m guessing not a lot of that
equal chances that I wouldn’t have a job after the goes on these days.
election, that the Greens wouldn’t make 5%”. Julie Anne agrees it’s full on; she’s commuting to
Wellington – she’s there Monday to Friday – where
it would force claimants to compare their actually mean? against others. On the internet especially,”
pay first with colleagues in their own “Women should be equal to men.” That she adds with a smile.
sectors, rather than with similarly skilled simple. And then “It’s not just limited That’s quite a compassionate view, I
workers elsewhere. to women. There are also gender point out. “I think the key to progress is
“With Iain Lees-Galloway, Minister for diverse people who will suffer from compassion,” she counters.
Workplace Relations, he and I are working discrimination. Pasifika women, Māori At this point the traffic outside has built
hand in glove to ensure a new piece of women or other women of colour. We to a rumbling chorus – backing vocals
legislation that will go in a positive need a particular focus on the pay gap for provided by the odd lawnmower. As Julie
direction to ensuring we have equal pay in Māori and Pacific women because it’s so Anne gets up to close the window, it seems
New Zealand.” much worse for them. It’s like 23 to 27%.” an apt place to talk about another of her
And then fresh from this rather official- passions – sustainable, people-friendly
sounding statement, she gives a little EVERYONE BENEFITS cities. And even roads and buildings, it
laugh and, with a hint of mischief, says: How would she explain the level of male seems, are a feminist issue.
“It’s surprising how many men on the denial about the pay gap? “Women have been overlooked in the
internet though, think there isn’t a pay “There’s some evidence that if people design of our cities. Women are much more
gap! And it’s like, well, it’s Statistics New have been in a position of systematic likely to make linked trips to be dropping
Zealand, it’s not like I made this up! privilege and it starts to be more equal, kids at school. Planners for much of the
Soon after being named Minister for they feel something has been taken away second half of the 20th century were very
Women, she proudly nailed her flag from them. And I think a lot of people out focused on single commuter trips from
to the women’s rights mast, calling herself there are perhaps just really unhappy or home to work. So making society better for
a ‘full-time feminist’. What does this lonely and that causes them to lash out women will make it better for everyone.” »
MARCH 2018 / NEXT 43
PROFILE
WONDERFUL IF
the University of Auckland, then worked as became clear it was a date [laughs]; I
a transport and planning consultant – is didn’t know until we got there!”
getting women involved in the planning
process. As well as thinking harder about
WOMEN CAN FEEL I ask if, before I leave, she wouldn’t
mind recording a quick International
what women need. “If you make it easier for
women to have flexible working hours, to
BRAVE ENOUGH TO Women’s Day message for NEXT’s website.
Of course, she replies, but could she just
have longer paid parental leave, for men to PUT THEMSELVES put on some makeup? When she returns
OUT THERE’
be more involved in looking after the kids I’m still frantically searching for the ‘on’
then women are more able to use bicycles button for the sound device. Great. She’s
for short trips. That’s better for their just given me her ‘women can do anything’
health, it’s better for their mental health.” sleep and to eat well. She finds hiking spiel, and I appear to be doing my best to
“restorative”, and wants to get back into refute that.
MUM’S THE WORD yoga, which she used to practise twice Julie Anne waits patiently and then, as
And if you want to create a society that daily, because it energises her. “It’s part of I’m turning to Mr Google for help, she
respects working mums, it can’t hurt to doing my best in the job; if it’s just another leans over and gently hits a switch. The
have a young pregnant PM at the helm? obligation then it’s not going to work.” screen lights up.
“I am thrilled for her and I am thrilled She also loves making ‘good food’, by I have just been, quite literally,
for New Zealand that we have this which she means “healthy and delicious”. empowered by the Minister for Women.
opportunity to prove the naysayers wrong. She’s “obsessed” with Little Bird’s raw And if that is a symbol of what’s in store…
The expectation has been that women
can’t do important jobs and be a mother at
organic recipes, and uses their app to
make smoothies, cashew-based dips and
then bring it on.
*
the same time. Even though for a couple of almond milk. “But also, you know, kumara
decades we have been trying to say that’s chips and it’s not always super-healthy.” ON BACKING
not true, it hasn’t really been…” she picks There’s an amusing anecdote I read OTHER WOMEN
her words carefully “…completely proven.” about Jacinda and Julie Anne – who both
She adds that it is “great symbolism for vied for the Mt Albert seat last year and are
women”, especially as it’s 125 years since good friends – attending music festival International Women’s Day is all
we got the right to vote in NZ. Splore. Jacinda was taken aback that Julie about solidarity. What can women
Meanwhile, back in Julie Anne’s Anne turned up with a pie because… she do to support each other more?
country of birth… Does the Trump cycles. Somehow in her mind that made “Getting out and voting, helping a
phenomenon depress her, or does she see her a very improbable ‘pie person’. candidate in their campaign or
things changing? “To be fair, it was a gourmet pie!” laughs ƥ
ǡdz
“I really hope so. But the electoral Julie Anne. Julie Anne. “We need more women
system there desperately needs to change. in politics. And in the workplace I’ve
They need proportional representation. MEETING OF MINDS heard an example from the Obama
The Republicans have become very Does Peter, her partner of five years, cook? administration. Even though it was
extreme and I don’t think they represent “He tends to do quite complementary very progressive, women weren’t
most Americans. But what gave me the things to me. I tend to do salads and main always at the top decision-making
most hope was reading an article about dishes. He is more into things that require meetings and they weren’t being
how there had been a record number of flour. Pizza crusts. Quiches. Tamales...” heard. So women started to insist
women signing up to be candidates at She met Peter, also from California, when on being present and they would
every level of government as a reaction she’d been an MP for about a year and he amplify each others’ points so they
to Trump.” was working as a consulting economist. wouldn’t be lost. Someone would
I suggest there’s probably an element of Mutual friends told him ‘You have to meet say something and someone else
‘crikey, if he can be president, anyone can’. Julie Anne’. She smiles. “Just to talk about would speak up and say ‘I really
She emits a gleeful laugh. transport economics.” Of course. want to support what she said’
“Yeah! But women are so hard on They met at “one of those mayoral and say it again. Globally I was
themselves and tend not to put themselves conversations run by the council, it was disappointed we didn’t get a female
forward for the top job or to be politicians. about urbanism.” secretary general of the UN…
Because they think ‘who am I? I’m not Apart from an interest in city planning, That’s what unconscious bias leads
perfect.’ Whereas men generally overrate they found common ground; he had two to: ‘We shouldn’t promote someone
their abilities! So I think it’s wonderful if younger brothers, his brothers live in the just because they’re a woman, we
women can feel brave enough to put US, his parents live in California... should get the best person for the
themselves out there.” “He did email me after we met and said job’. The reality is there are plenty
‘Do you want to catch up and talk about of women who are the best person
THE FIRST PRIORITY transport?’ and I think I said ‘Yeah how for the job and they haven’t been
So how does a woman who has ‘put herself about in five weeks?’” Ƥ
Ǥ
out there’ in a big way keep it together? Not to be mean, but because of work Ǥdz
A priority, she says, is to get enough commitments. He rang after five weeks,
MINISTRY OF
TOMORROW
BEAUTY SPOT
Nutrition isn’t the only industry entering a
space that was unimaginable a few years
back; the capabilities of the beauty industry
are evolving at phenomenal speed.
If you thought your options were limited
when it comes to the seemingly inevitable
crinkling, wrinkling and sagging that
comes with age, think again.
Stone’s clinic, the Face Place, already
offers platelet-rich plasma (PRP) – a
treatment which involves extracting
beneficial platelets and plasma from your
blood, then reinjecting them, a process
which aims to rejuvenate the tissues,
improving texture and elasticity.
But in the future she says this type of
procedure will enter another level as our
own stem cells, harvested from blood or
“Within 10 to 20 years ageing will be
optional,” she says. “We are looking at how
we manage this change, doing it in a way
that it integrates beautifully and enhances
10-20
YEARS FROM NO
TECHNOLOGY WILL
fat, will be used to turn back the clock. people’s experience, longevity, and how
“Stem cells are going to become a big they look and feel about themselves as
thing across the board,” says Stone, a
regular attendee at industry conferences
they grow older.”
MAKE AGEING
around the world. “At the moment it’s END OF THE LINE OPTIONAL
not quite there in terms of the balance of For all the advances that have been made
risk and safety, but I think in the next two around ageing and longevity, death itself The theory is this beats the alternative of
to five years we will see stem cells in will always remain an inevitability. But if, being unaware you have just six months to
common use.” as a pensioner, you knew how long you live, turning up to A&E with a health issue,
And as the treatments become more had left to live, would you treat life spending a month in a high dependency
high tech, so too could the process of any differently? And regardless of your unit then even longer in a regular hospital
getting them – with robots enjoying a role. state of health, would you rather spend bed – before being discharged and dying
“Artificial intelligence will become a your final year in and out of hospital or in two weeks later anyway.
much bigger part of practice, both in your own home? “We’re trying to get people to talk about
terms of diagnosis and potentially in These are questions the Institute of those last 1000 days in a positive
the administration,” says Stone, who is Healthy Ageing has devoted a huge way,” Garbutt says. “It’s about making
writing a book titled Grow Younger and amount of research to, to the point the informed decisions at a time when you’re
More Beautiful As You Age. Hamilton-based facility can now work out comfortable to make them, rather than in
She is highly aware the future is both when a person is in their last 1000 days of a time of crisis.”
“mind-blowingly scary and exciting all at life – a prediction they hope GPs nation- While cynics might suggest such an
the same time”, and is already considering wide will soon be able to make. approach – along with other programmes
the best way to guide her business and While it might sound morbid, Barbara which focus on at-home care instead of
clients through it. Garbutt, chair of the Institute, explains it lengthy hospitalisation – is a way of freeing
is quite the opposite. She suggests if a up beds and cost cutting, research shows
person knows they have finite time left, keeping people out of hospital can
2018
they can plan accordingly, and be clear on actually extend life.
Photographs Getty Images
how much intervention they want. Parsons, who works with the Institute,
explains our muscles deteriorate at 3%
per day when we are inactive in a hospital
months and months has long gone,” he the fact we were one of the first countries to healthy and positive ageing in the
says, adding that the prevalence of people to implement InterRAI, a clinical assess- future will be our attitude towards those
going into residential care is also on the ment tool that identifies the needs of over the age of 65 – something Tom
decline. older people. “We take learnings from O’Connor believes is one of the biggest
“All the evidence says getting home is evidence across the world and in many challenges facing that sector.
the best possible thing you can do.” instances we are significantly more “Ageism is one of the most serious
Garbutt points out it is also patients’ advanced than where those initiatives impediments to older people being fully
preference. “We are seeing that our older left off.” engaged in society,” says the Cantabrian,
population would prefer to be at home Ben Warren is attracting world experts who at 73 serves on a district council,
and not in hospital.” to his lab in the Hawke’s Bay, and is runs a small farm and is a newspaper
confident New Zealand “has an opport- columnist – as well as head of Grey Power.
BIG LITTLE COUNTRY unity to be at the forefront of all this.” “Old is a relative term – a generation
What is increasingly apparent is that when “As a market we are of a good size to ago 60 was considered old, today people
it comes to innovations in the ageing space, test offerings, we’ve got good internet, of 70 are not seen as particularly old.”
New Zealand will not be left behind. smart people and we have a great lifestyle,” And in the world of tomorrow, it seems
“I think we’re in a very good position he continues. perfectly plausible that 100 could be the
moving forward,” says Parsons, referencing In fact, it seems one of the only barriers new 70.
*
‘Ageism is one of the most serious impediments’
BREAKTHROUGHS
B
IN THE QUEST
FOR YOUTH
• In 2016 researchers at the University of New
South Wales discovered that a molecule called
NAD+, which is found in every cell of the body,
is key in DNA repair. Treating old mice with an
NAD+ booster vitamin meant that within a week
their cells were indistinguishable from those of
young mice. Human trials are now underway.
Ȉ
ơ
telomeres – structures in chromosomes that
are key in ageing – last year a book was released
explaining how to control them. The Telomere
ơ
, by Elizabeth Blackburn and Elissa
Epel, reveals how healthy living can lengthen
telomeres and therefore your life.
• In 2017 a study from Cedars-Sinai Heart
Institute explored the impact of stem cell
manipulation on the overall ageing process.
A month after old mice were injected in the
heart with stem cells from newborns, they
were able to exercise longer, regrew hair faster
and had a rejuvenated cardiac system.
• In a paper published in the journal Cell last
year, scientists at Baylor College of Medicine
ƪ
how we age. They suggested we may be able to
slow the ageing process and increase longevity
by using supplements derived from gut bacteria.
SIZE and
PREJUDICE
When Louise Green turned up for her first half marathon,
organisers assumed she was there for the fun run. Now the
95kg trainer’s quest is to challenge ideas around fat and
fitness, and help other ‘big’ women get fit BY LOUISE FRANCE
I
“Research into the best dietary advice s it really possible to accumulate that
flip-flops around. But exercise research extra insulating layer without
results have been pretty constant for years: worrying where it will lead? Scientists
fitness appears to provide protection have debated the ‘obesity paradox’
against early mortality no matter how much for decades, trying to determine if exercise
you weigh. In my view it’s inactivity that is ơ
the biggest health risk of the 21st century.” little lardy. John Brewer, professor of applied
The research was as popular with the sport science at St Mary’s University,
skinny brigade as a full-fat latte – but Blair London, says aerobic activity – swimming,
did get an award from the American cycling, brisk walking – ameliorates the
Obesity Society. ơ
Ǥ Dz
10,000 Canadian dollars ($11,900) to get exercise regularly and carry some extra fat
CHANGING SHAPE started. She had clients almost immediately. than to be thin but sedentary,” Brewer says.
Louise actually weighs 8kg more than she Now she licenses her approach to other Dz
did when she began to exercise. trainers. Her latest project is an inspiring, your heart and if that is in good shape
“Hunger shouldn’t be part of your health well-argued book, Big Fit Girl, which tells through aerobic exercise, it doesn’t really
plan,” she says. Although she admits sweet her story and gives sound practical exercise matter how you look.”
stuff is so tempting she can’t allow it into tips tailored for bigger women, including Numerous studies have proved being
the house, she no longer believes in diets. where to buy a decent sports bra and how to active virtually eliminates the undesirable
“For me to live in a thin body, I’d have to work up to a 5km run.
ǡ
starve myself. Some people are going to be terms of heart health. One showed that
big, no matter what.” BIG BUCKS overweight, but not obese, people tended
She argues that any weight gain doesn’t The diet industry – worth about $66 billion to live longer than those of normal weight.
mean she has failed. When she goes to the in the US – keeps going because it knows Other scientists have reached the
doctor her blood pressure is healthy; her people will ultimately fail, argues Louise. opposite conclusion, suggesting being
blood sugars are in a safe range. “Many big girls have dieted for most of heavy raises the risk of high blood pressure,
“Body composition-wise, because I’m so their lives,” she says. “If this model actually high cholesterol and heart problems, even
active, my shape has changed and it looks worked, we’d all be thin.” in a person who works out every day. A
more athletic. I still have fat on my body, Meanwhile, the failure has an impact on ǡ
there’s no doubt about that. But I’m mental health. Exercise, on the other hand, for example, found those who were
definitely more toned.” does the opposite, especially if losing weight overweight with no other heart health risk
According to Louise, muscle strength is taken out of the equation (which makes factors were still more likely to have an
and cardiovascular conditioning are sense, because studies show you have to do early death than a person of normal weight.
much better indicators of a person’s an awful lot of it to burn calories). Anyone Perhaps the most convincing science is
health than their body mass index (a who’s ever gone for a jog around the park
Ƥ
̽
ȋȌȀȀ
measurement invented in the 1830s and knows that for all the slog, they begin to feel of the metabolic and heart risks that are a
widely considered inaccurate). like a new person as the endorphins kick in. Ǧơ
ǡ
When she turned up to run her first half As Louise says, “Exercise makes me feel I won’t eliminate them. What is also proved
marathon, the organisers took one look at can conquer anything.”
Ǯ ǯ ȋ
her and presumed she was competing in The irony is she probably wouldn’t be as ǡ ȌǤ ǯ
the fun run. Even the race shirts were too successful if she were a typically thin but eat badly, smoke and haven’t exercised
small. Gradually she realised if she was personal trainer. Plus-size training is a since school, you’ll almost certainly be
being discriminated against, so were other potentially lucrative gap in the market. ơ
Ǥ
potential plus-size athletes. It was when she “People have a very narrow idea of what A 2015 study in the Annals of Internal
was pregnant with Eli that she decided to health and fitness can look like. There’s a Medicine found normal weight people with
retrain as a personal trainer specifically for belief that you can tell if someone’s fit just fat around their middle were at a greater
plus-size people. She approached a credit by looking at them. It’s not true. risk of mortality than those
union with the idea and they loaned her Weight isn’t everything.”
* who were overweight but fat
all over. Louise Green may be
on to something…
‘MANY BIG GIRLS HAVE DIETED FOR Big Fit Girl, EmbraceThe
MOST OF THEIR LIVES. IF THIS MODEL BodyYou Have by Louise
Green, Greyston Books, $27.
ACTUALLY WORKED, WE’D ALL BE THIN’
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BEST FACE
FORWARD
Kiwi blogger Shannon Harris, aka Shaaanxo
– named by Forbes as one of 2017’s top global
beauty influencers – talks to NEXT about
being a social media star and what got her
through the ups and downs along the way
BY KYLIE BAILEY
New Zealand’s most influential internet star, Shannon’s discussing in detail or not. The fact is, as
Shannon Harris, is gearing up to shoot one of she makes herself up on camera, she captivates.
her legendary beauty tutorials for her YouTube There’s just something about the Kiwi vlogger’s
channel, Shaaanxo. frank, quirky, down-to-earth, tell-it-like-it-is style
Bare-faced and ready to roll, she pulls a silly and self-deprecating humour that makes you want
face, making sure the shot is set up just right. to… keep watching. Not to mention her ability to
Hitting the record button on the camera she has effortlessly conduct a glamorous makeover before
set up above her computer in the white-walled, your very eyes.
fairy lit office of her Palmerston North home, she
greets her three million subscribers with a smile YOUTUBE FAVOURITE
and a wave. Since launching in 2009, Shaaanxo has grown to
Today she’s pre-recording one of the three be one of YouTube’s most popular channels. Last
Shaaanxo beauty tutorials she releases every June, it clocked up three million subscribers and
Monday, Wednesday and Friday. The look she’s Shannon was named by Forbes as one of 2017’s top
road-testing? Mojito – a complex and beautiful global beauty influencers – she was number five on
blend of green eye shadows across and around the the list.
lid, coupled with soft pink cheeks and lips. Aged 25 and already inspiring a massive online
As the episode begins, it’s clear it really doesn’t community of 8.3 million followers (and counting),
matter whether you are interested in the techniques Shannon is sought after by international
marketeers as one of the key faces in the ‘new
generation’ of online influencers.
As she makes herself up on These influencers have become important to the
business of beauty because of their unique ability to
camera, she captivates introduce new customers to brands through »
their massive online networks. The power given to her by her mum. “She always told first launched her channel from her
of their digital footprints is huge – just me to try to find a passion that is both bedroom, Shannon never thought her
one endorsement on Shaaanxo can see a a hobby and a pay check, so it never beauty vlogs would amount to much more
particular product sell out within hours of feels like working,” recalls Shannon. “She than a confidence boost and a chance to
the episode going live. was a big inspiration to me growing up. find like-minded friends online.
Such influence means Shannon is now We weren’t well-off at all and we missed For as far back as she can remember, she
able to command hundreds of thousands out on a lot of time together when I was says she’s been obsessed with makeup.
of dollars in advertising revenue and small. I was with my grandparents while “As a little girl I kept getting in trouble
sponsorship for both Shaaanxo and her my mum worked holidays.” for climbing up on the bath edge to get in
personal channel, Shannon Vlogs, in Today, her mum remains a role model the cupboard where mum kept her giant
which she shares anecdotes (especially and inspiration. Shannon is honest. It’s Elizabeth Arden palette,” she recalls.
about her two dogs, Lewie and Zeus) from “naturally” not easy to work with family When she was bullied at school for her
her daily life. but she’s most proud of the day her mum “red cheeks”, makeup became her shield
Along with her on-camera presence, was able to quit her full-time job to from the world.
Shannon’s behind-the-scenes business join xoBeauty. “My mum started letting me wear a little
savvy is also helping her to successfully The nature of their relationship has tinted moisturiser as the bullying was
build a family empire. She has leveraged changed since working together. really affecting my confidence. When I got
her following to create her very own “There is no one you can trust more to high school, I started experimenting
beauty brand, xoBeauty. Launched in than your own mum. She always has my with foundation and mascara. It was a
2012, the e-commerce business sells best interests at heart. She works her ass security blanket for me and I wouldn’t be
Italian-made vegan cosmetic brushes, off for me! We have had to learn new caught dead in public without makeup.”
false lashes, beauty blenders, brush things about each other. It has made our By the time she had reached her final
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cleaner and cosmetics. Shannon also relationship more solid. She has had to years of high school, Shannon was
collaborated with BH Cosmetics in the come to terms with the fact I’m no longer obsessed with watching US YouTubers
US to release her very own eyeshadow her little girl anymore and I am now a apply their makeup online.
palette at beauty department store Ulta. business person with a reputation and a “It made me feel super-creative and
brand to uphold. empowered when I copied their tech-
FAMILY BUSINESS “We have similar personality traits – niques. But I realised there was no one
Taking care of business with the help of especially our stubbornness and drive – like me, in New Zealand or Australia,
family and support staff, Shannon has which can cause us to clash. When we are filming their own videos.”
been based back in Palmerston North both throwing about ideas and one of us So she decided to get started.
full-time since 2014, when she moved the thinks it’s amazing and the other thinks “I remember filming a video where I
business back to her hometown with it’s the worst, those moments can be propped my camera on top of my TV and
boyfriend Hamish and their dogs in tow. tough. But we’ve always made it out alive filmed myself, showing what I carried
She runs the businesses alongside her and we know how to compromise.” around in my handbag. The TV was on.
mum and Auckland-based manager, The sound too. I was illuminated in the
Imogen Johnson. Over the years, THE EARLY DAYS dark with blue lights flashing about on my
Shannon says she has learned the Like her YouTube channels, xoBeauty was face. I was awkward, shy – terrible, to be
importance of backing herself, taking developed after Shannon saw a gap in the honest, as most people naturally would be!”
time out and never forgetting the advicee market and filled the need. But when she As she refined her techniques, she »
Fr
From makeup demonstrations to product
reviews, Shannon’s Insta is a beauty lover’s dream
RISING
64 NEXT / MARCH 2018
REPORT
46
WOMEN WERE
ELECTED TO
PARLIAMENT IN
NEW ZEALAND
LAST YEAR – THE
HIGHEST LEVEL OF
REPRESENTATION
FOR WOMEN IN
ITS HISTORY
– a 64% jump over the last election.
Non-partisan organisation She Should
Run, which helps women in the US enter
politics, has also seen a huge surge in
interest. CEO Erin Loos Cutraro says,
“Since Election Day, we’ve seen over 4500
– and counting – women step up. To give
you context, we usually see about 100 or so
women each month. It’s quite remarkable.”
In New Zealand, 46 women were elected
to parliament in last year’s election – the
highest level of representation for women
in its history. Of the total 120 MPs, women
currently make up 38.4%, up 7% from the
previous parliament. With Jacinda Ardern
– our third female prime minister – it’s also of the parliament by reason of having the Meanwhile, Lebanon, Jordan and
the first time since 2001 that our governor- care of a baby.” And in May 2017, Green Tunisia voted to repeal an archaic law
general, chief justice and prime minister Party member Larissa Waters was the first that allowed men accused of rape to be
have all been women. to make use of the rule change – and make exonerated if they marry the individual
And in the unending battle to reach history – when she breastfed her daughter they raped. Ghida Anani, founder and
a work/life balance, parliament itself is Alia in parliament. director of women’s right’s organisation
leading the charge, with Speaker Trevor Abaad, says, “A white dress doesn’t cover
Mallard pledging to make parliament a A GLOBAL MOVEMENT up rape. It’s the first step to changing the
more family-friendly place. Following the Chile also eased restrictive abortion mindset and traditions.”
announcement, Labour MP Willow-Jean regulations in September, granting women And Tunisia saw women’s rights get
Prime became the first woman to breastfeed the right to have an abortion in three support from a surprising quarter: The
in the debating chamber in November. cases: when the woman’s life is in danger; president himself. Beji Caid Essebsi
The push to make parliament more when the foetus is not viable; or when the pointed out that under the Tunisian
accommodating has also been seen in pregnancy is the result of rape. Previously, constitution, the state was “civil”, adding
Australia. In 2016, a rule change allowed Chile joined El Salvador, Nicaragua and that when it came to men and women’s
breastfeeding MPs to bring their babies the Dominican Republic as one of four rights, “We must state that we are moving
into the chamber of parliament. Previously, countries in the Americas that banned towards equality between them in every
breastfeeding mums often had to miss abortion under all circumstances. sphere. And the whole issue hinges on the
out on important parliamentary duties The same month saw women in Saudi matter of inheritance.”
and delegate their voting power to other Arabia finally granted the right to drive,
members to vote in their absence. and they’ll be able to drive not only cars LEVELLING THE FIELD
When the vote passed, Leader of the but trucks and motorcycles too. Many It was a bold stand. Under Islamic
House Christopher Pyne said, “No member, activists saw it as a milestone moment after jurisprudence, daughters have a right to
male or female, will ever be prevented a long campaign that saw women arrested only half of the inheritance given to sons,
from participating fully in the operation and jailed for defying the driving ban. barring exceptional circumstances. »
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WHILE SOME FIRMS IN THE UK HAVE ALMOST CLOSED
THE PAY GAP – OR CLOSED IT ENTIRELY – OTHER
COMPANIES HAVE PAY GAPS OF UP TO 64.8%
Widows are also systemically passed over those at the table – a big step forward for due to “unexplained” factors, including
for inheritances, in favour of brothers- women’s representation in the region. conscious or unconscious bias that
and parents-in-law. Together, it means While there were momentous wins for negatively affected women’s opportunities
that women are usually reduced to being women’s rights across the world, there are for both recruitment and wage increases.
dependants for life. many areas where equality isn’t yet a reality. Hope is on the horizon though. The
And in Africa, women’s groups organised Pay equality in New Zealand is still to government last year announced a $2bn pay
a Congolese Women’s Forum for peace be achieved. The gender pay gap has equality settlement for aged and residential
and equal political representation in the remained static at around 12% for a decade care support workers, which would see care
Democratic Republic of Congo. Just weeks – though Statistics New Zealand reported workers in female-dominated industries
after the forum, 80 local women were it fell to 9.4% in September, the smallest receive page rises of up to $5000. This year
included in talks alongside militant groups the gap has been in five years. Research the Labour Party has pledged to build on
in the volatile and often violent Kasai commissioned by the Ministry for Women equal pay by implementing the changes
region. Women made up almost 20% of last year found 80% of wage inequality was to the Equal Pay Act, as recommended by
the Joint Working Group on Pay Equity
Principles. As the legislation put forward by
The BBC said in a statement “there was no sexual assault. and speaking out, and
systematic discrimination against women”,
though it has since announced that it will
Both Madeline, who
was wearing a ‘glitter
y ink? New Zealand celebrates
an important milestone in
be making “substantial pay cuts for some boob’ decoration by We’d love to women’s rights, here’s to
get your feedback!
men, and pay rises for some men and GypsyFest at the time Write to us at next@ the coming year bringing
women” to address a series of “anomalies”. of the incident, and bauermedia.co.nz that dream a little bit
Many companies cited the different Jolene Guillum-Scott, closer to reality.
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THEITY
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EQUAPORT
WHERE WE STAND
“I am 62 years old. I hope I live to see
RE my granddaughters grow up to know true
equality, so they don’t have to choose
44%
between family and a career. I thought
e’ve long lauded our history as a this would be true for my daughter and
89%
“masculine systems dominate government, an issue in workplaces and a fifth believe
business and social interactions”. Others the glass ceiling will always remain. One
pointed to the home as an area where woman said she held a senior position
women are disadvantaged. “Men do not at her workplace but was often assumed
have to choose between having children to be taking notes for meetings, while
and filling leadership roles in business another said that in her male-dominated
and the community. In many families, industry, it was perceived men were more SAY THAT EQUALITY
IS PERSONALLY
women can work but running the home knowledgeable when it came to technology.
and childcare are disproportionately their And one said she felt there was an
responsibility. The man’s job is important
while the woman’s job is peripheral to her
expectation men would play the key role:
“I’ve recently been in a role at a large NZ IMPORTANT
role in the home.” company where the entire senior leadership
Attitudes in society are also to blame, team was male. As a female working closely still to come,” said one.
said some. “Men are automatically referred with them I still felt at times like I wasn’t But there is hope. The past 12 months
to as strong leaders, women as aggressive. taken seriously. I had to be assertive and saw women take the spotlight and sparked
The bias around words defining roles at times almost aggressive to get my point a new conversation around equality – and
is extreme.” across and then I was made to feel like I was 70% of women believe that equal rights for
One woman said she didn’t feel she was a ‘bulldog’ for being that way. It surprises women is not yesterday’s news. In fact, just
treated equally when it came to finances. me that that sort of attitude still exists. over half of New Zealand women believe
“Men are still looked to for the final rights That very same workplace was desperately we still do okay as a country in leading
in banking situations, real estate purchases, trying to recruit more women into senior the conversation around equality. Many
job seniority, authority. I do all the buying roles and to diversify its leadership team. said our history of leading the charge in
and control the Visa in our house but when It really isn’t surprising that many women women’s rights made us a good leader for
I want to change anything it’s my husband don’t aim for leadership roles and senior that conversation: “We are a country of
who has to give permission to the bank. roles when they have to put up with that.” strong women with enormous potential.”
I instigated an account with a store and In fact, many women believe there’s Many women were advocates for carrying
Words Julia Braybrook Photographs Getty Images
when they sent out new cards many years still a way to go for equality; 69% say there on the conversation around equality.
are still big battles for women’s rights to “Social change is slow,” said one. “We still
70%
be won. Some women said they were still need to lead the equality conversation
fighting for rights they thought would until equality becomes the norm.”
have been won years ago. Another said we owed it to previous
generations to keep pressing for progress.
“Our grandmothers fought for equality
OF WOMEN BELIEVE THAT EQUAL and we would not have the educational
opportunities we have today if it wasn’t for
RIGHTS FOR WOMEN IS NOT them. It is our responsibility to honour that
fight and keep striving for change.”
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opinions on matters regarded as
important as men’s opinions.”
“Equality is about having the same
recognition, responsibilities and BY GEORGE ORWELL
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Zealand has no shortage of inspiration. More than half
the women surveyed picked Prime Minister Jacinda
Ardern as the country’s top role model, followed by
Helen Clark (47%) and Valerie Adams (31%). Rounding
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BEAUTY
C O M E
OF AGE
As we add on the years, so does our skin. We give you the
lowdown on what to expect in each decade and how you
can address the signs of ageing BY TAMSIN MARSHALL
In yr 30s
Your sun and lifestyle habits from earlier
years are going to haunt you now and
what you do during this decade is
crucial for the years to come. “Now is
when you’re likely to start developing
uneven skin tone with sun spots and
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Stone from The Face Place.
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stimulate collagenase, an enzyme that “You could try IPL to target the redness and
destroys collagen, which results in superficial brown spots, but it doesn’t work well
sun-damaged skin,” adds Brandy for melasma. Sometimes dermal needling can be
Wehinger, national education manager helpful in moving the deeper pigment,” suggests
for Caci Clinics. Your skin will also start Stone. Wehinger also recommends regular
to get drier and it might also become treatments and says sonophoresis infusions and
thinner and more prone to fine lines and microdermabrasion facials help keep skin in good
wrinkles as sebum production slows. shape – they stimulate the creation of collagen and
increase cell turnover. Platelet-rich plasma (PRP)
ELIZABETH ARDEN PREVAGE injections can also help stimulate the skin.
ANTI-AGING DAILY SERUM, $299. “These treatments are useful for ‘banking’ your
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this decade is crucial restore volume and lift the early signs of ageing
through the smile lines and mouth corners. »
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patches’ that can develop on skin at this age,” says Stone.
Skin will start to thin even “Look for products with copper peptides – small proteins that
more and become dehydrated, help your cells communicate and can also be helpful to add
and fine lines will start to into your skin regime, as they get ‘eaten up’ by stress and our
show around the eyes and skin is often depleted of them by now.”
mouth. Boosting hydration Structurally we start to lose some of the support in our faces
topically with serums and and the skin starts to drop from the cheeks to the jowls and
moisturisers rich in often through the brows. The fat pads around our temples,
hyaluronic acid will help, as mouth, chin and jawline also shrink.
will drinking more water. “The 8 Point Lift (with dermal filler) or ‘vampire facelift’
Sunscreen is still a must for (filler and PRP) can create a beautiful, subtle lift that
protection and prevention of restores the facial volume and gives a fresher, more youthful
further damage. Hormonal changes during this decade also look, in a very natural way,” says Stone. “Small, regular doses
make a difference as some women go into perimenopause. of Botox can help reduce and prevent the fine ‘smoker’s
“You want to continue treatments that promote collagen lines’ around the mouth and you might consider a special
production and hydration levels,” says Wehinger. “Treatments form of PRP, Cellular Matrix, which uses hyaluronic acid
like photo-rejuvenation and collagen induction will help to with the PRP to help strengthen, hydrate and thicken skin. If
maintain a fresher, more healthy-looking skin, even out skin you’re noticing hair loss, leaky bladder or a diminished
tone and help diminish signs of sun damage from earlier years.” sexual response, PRP can be helpful in treating those too!”
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While we can’ t genetics as opposed to lifestyle?
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to it every day. Our skin is the
largest organ in our body, and is
we can remedy age can help us understand
the predecessors for our
our barrier to the environment
so it is important that it receives
the damage skin, there’s no doubting that
lifestyle factors have a huge
adequate nutrition,” says Stone.
“Unfortunately, it is the last
role to play. The sun is the most organ in the body to receive the
damaging element there is – nutrition from our blood, and
you simply need to look at the in most cases our diets have
ơ
inadequate nutrition so we need
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FICTION
Is saturated fat really bad for you? We look at
ew thinking around fat intake and ask,
how much is too much?
Without giving it much thought, do you and increasing your risk of other health
trim the fat off steak, drink skimmed problems such as insulin resistance, which
milk and opt for low-fat spreads? It’s is the precursor to type 2 diabetes.
probably because for years you were told
SAT FAT FACTS
the saturated fat in these foods isn’t good
for you, that it raises your cholesterol As a macronutrient, fat is vital for your Did you
levels, increases the risk of heart attack
and stroke, and makes you overweight.
health. It gives you energy, keeps your
brain firing and helps you absorb other know...
But recent science suggests the low-fat nutrients such as lycopene, beta-carotene ● There are more than a dozen
lifestyle could actually harm your health and fat-soluble vitamins A, D, E and K, types of saturated fatty acids?
and that saturated fats shouldn’t be which are important for bone strength, The ones we eat most are stearic
completely shunned. blood clotting and fighting off free radicals. acid found in animal fats;
Contrary to what you may have thought, “Saturated fat has a specific role to play,” palmitic acid from palm oil, red
a diet that’s very low in saturated fats says registered nutritionist Claire Baseley. meat and dairy products; and
has now been found to possibly increase “It’s used to manufacture hormones such lauric acid, which is found in
your risk of premature death by 13%. as oestrogen and progesterone, which are coconut and palm kernel oils.
Meanwhile, a relatively high intake could made from the cholesterol created when
actually lower your chances of an early we eat it. This combo also provides part of ● All fats contain a combination
death by 23% and reduce your risk of the structure of all the cells in your body.” of fatty acids – no fat is pure
suffering a stroke, according to a new However, while the latest research saturated fat. Animal fats, for
study from McMaster University in suggests eating plenty of saturated fat ǡ
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Canada. The most likely reason for these could help you to live longer, earlier amounts of essential omega-3
findings, say the researchers, is that when research has disagreed. and 6 fats, especially if they
you cut back on fat, you turn to carbo- “Previous trials have shown that high come from grass-fed as opposed
hydrates to fill you up – which often equals intakes of saturated fat lead to high LDL to grain-fed animals.
bread, rice, pasta and sugary foods. This cholesterol levels, which in turn could lead ● Fats that are mostly saturated,
could mean missing out on vital nutrients to a greater risk of heart attack and » such as butter and coconut oil,
are solid at room temperature,
A DIET VERY LOW IN SATURATED FATS HAS while fats that are mostly
unsaturated, such as olive oil, are
NOW BEEN FOUND TO POSSIBLY INCREASE liquid at room temperature.
The coconut
cardiovascular and medical sciences at
Glasgow University.
oil debate
“We also know that if you have high
cholesterol, reducing your saturated fat
intake could help to lower it and reduce
your chances of a heart attack.” Coconut oil contains 87g of sat fats
per 100g – but some people
HOW MUCH FAT IS consider it healthy. “Some
TOO MUCH? medium-chain saturated fats,
The recent Canadian study suggests that such as those in coconut oil, may
for optimum health, your total dietary not negatively impact cardiovascular
intake of fats should make up 35% health like the longer-chain versions, such
of your calories – a little higher than as palmitic acid found in palm oil,” says Claire.
current New Zealand recommendations, at “However, the main sat fat in coconut oil, lauric
20-25%. For saturated fat, it gets a little acid, behaves more like a long chain saturated
more complicated. The study showed the fat and therefore isn’t overly heart healthy.”
healthiest people ate up to 13% of their
calories from saturated fat. Current
recommendations are set at 10% of calories
from saturated fat.
So eating a little bit more than the saturated fat per 100g is considered to be and potassium, which are two minerals
guidelines suggest might not be harmful high in saturated fat. “It’s best to eat less important for blood pressure control.
to your health if your diet is otherwise of these foods, but you don’t need to avoid Plus, they contain protein, which helps
healthy and balanced. them completely,” says Claire. you feel satisfied and means you’re less
If you were eating 2000 calories a day, likely to overeat.
10% of your calories would equate to 20g ADDICTIVE COMBOS Other sources of animal protein are
of saturated fat and would give your body When people experience dietary-related fine to enjoy within that 10% quota – as
all it needs to produce hormones and health issues, a lot of it can be boiled long as you go for quality.
keep your cells healthy. down to problematic food combinations. “A couple of portions of red meat per
Check out food labels when you’re For example, products containing both week is okay, especially if it’s from grass-fed
shopping – anything with more than 5g butter and sugar aren’t very nutritious, animals, which contain a higher proportion
of healthy omega-3 fats too,” says Claire.
‘A DIET HIGH IN SATURATED FAT AND “But it’s best to eat a variety of protein
sources, including plant-based ones such
SUGAR TOGETHER IS LIKELY TO BE WORSE as pulses, as well as fish, eggs and poultry.”
Olive oil: 14g excess, contributes to weight gain with all sugar and low in fibre is associated with
Butter: 51g its associated risk factors for cardiovascular lower levels of ‘good’ HDL cholesterol
Dark chocolate (70%): 24g disease, cancer and type 2 diabetes.” and higher levels of ‘bad’ LDL cholesterol
Digestive biscuit: 21.5g Instead, opt for full-fat dairy such as and triglycerides, which could increase
Sausages: 8g milk, cheese, butter and (sugar-free) your heart disease risk. Wholegrain carbs,
Rump steak: 3.6g yoghurt within your sat fat quota, which on the other hand, such as oats and brown
Ƥǣ͛Ǥ͙ can also have additional health benefits. rice, could help reduce cholesterol levels.
Vanilla ice cream: 7g More research is needed to explain Overall, these new studies are reassur-
Full-fat natural yogurt: 2.9g exactly why the saturated fat in dairy ing that if you’re otherwise healthy, and eat
Whole milk: 2.6g seems to be better for heart health, but a balanced diet, then a nice steak, a nibble
Skinless chicken breast: 1g scientists suggest milk and other dairy of cheese and perhaps the occasional ice
products are a good source of calcium cream, is fine.
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From puberty to pregnancy to menopause, there are many
times when our hormones can be thrown out of whack.
We’ve rounded up expert advice and practical tips to help
you keep your hormones happy
CONSULTANT GYNAECOLOGIST
NICK PANAY SAID PMS WAS ‘POORLY
UNDERSTOOD AND, IN MANY CASES,
the phase of the cycle that lasts from 10 to
16 days after ovulation, regressing by the
INADEQUATELY MANAGED’
cycle’send. Sowhydotheseinterchangeable
and fluctuating hormones have such an
impact on some women’s mental health?
Frustratingly, we don’t definitively know. This feeling of alienation is something chairman of the National Association for
Janice Rymer, vice-president of the 40-year-old Julia Willmott has also battled Premenstrual Syndrome, concurs. In a
RCOG, says: “Hormone levels fluctuate throughout her life. Experiencing heavy report, he said PMS was “poorly understood
throughout the month, which can affect all bleeding and terrible pain, she was put on and, in many cases, inadequately managed”,
organs in the body and therefore changes the pill by her GP, aged 13, but it wasn’t until calling for an integrated response
in emotions, processes of thought and she had her first baby at 38 that she began comprising gynaecologist, psychologist,
physical wellbeing can be expected.” to struggle with low moods. “I was only able dietitian and counsellor. In order to alleviate
Anyone who’s burst into uncontrollable to see the negative side of things; this would the effects of PMS on our lives, it would
sobs watching X Factor can testify to this. affect my confidence at work and my ability seem seeking professional help and making
However, just like the basic diagrams we to cope with the slightest of stresses. I was lifestyle adjustments are of equal
studied in biology at school, this explan- less patient with my family, too.” importance. Although the RCOG guidelines
ation can still feel unsatisfyingly impersonal Amy and Julia aren’t alone. Janice Rymer are quick to point out that improved self-
and vague. Going one step further, the says four in 10 women experience symptoms care (eg reducing stress or eating a low
RCOG’s guidelines suggest our ovarian of PMS, and 5-8% of these will suffer from glycaemic index diet – foods with complex
output of hormones has an influence on severe symptoms. At the furthest end of the carbs that keep blood sugar levels balanced)
particular messengers in our brain. spectrum, premenstrual dysphoric disorder hasn’t been studied in depth, they still
(PMDD) affects 5-10% of women, triggering consider it ‘good general advice’.
PMS PROBLEMS more exaggerated symptoms that can Both Amy and Julia’s experiences seem to
TV presenter Amy Nickell, 27, doesn’t need include feelings of hopelessness, persistent back up this theory. For Amy, while the
science to tell her reproductive hormones depression, low self-esteem and extreme contraceptive pill, implant and injection all
and neurotransmitters (the brain chemicals anger or anxiety. “PMDD and severe PMS worsened her symptoms, an antidepressant
that communicate information) are linked. can have a profoundly negative effect on a prescription actually balanced her out.
Amy first started noticing PMS symptoms woman’s daily life,” she says. Alternatively, she credits turmeric tincture
and its immeasurable effects on her daily So what’s the approach to managing these as a ‘breakthrough’ in helping to manage
life in her early teens. hormonal conditions. And is it working? her symptoms. As for Julia, looking back,
“I feel like I’m two different people,” she “Diagnosis and management of PMDD and she says it’s a shame the only treatment she
says. “When experiencing symptoms, I’m a severe PMS can be difficult,” Janice admits. was offered when she sought professional
shell of the woman I am without them.” Nick Panay, consultant gynaecologist and help was drug-based. “I now know nutrition,
SEROTONIN
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maintaining appetite, sleep and,
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2 exercise and mindset make a huge
difference to my symptoms,” she says. In
effects of all the additives and preservatives
that are added to packaged food,” says
the past 12 months, Julia has made a big Fran McElwaine, a certified integrative
Ǥ effort to cut down on sugar, starchy carbs nutrition health coach and wellness
ǡ and caffeine. Healthy fats such as oily fish, expert. “What we do know is most of these
seeds and nuts have also helped. “A lot additives disrupt the endocrines (glands
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Ǧ more could be done to educate women on which release hormones) and it just makes
ǡ hormonal health,” she adds. sense to avoid them if at all possible.”
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For those women who wish to reduce
ǡ CLASSROOM FAILURES their PMS or work through menopause or
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So why aren’t we educating women more? perimenopause, Fran suggests swapping
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“The response I get from most women is, refined carbs for fibre-packed foods
increase a person’s generosity by ‘Why was I not taught this at school?’” says such as lentils, beans and wholegrains.
͘͠άǤ Lisa Lister, author of Love Your Lady For anyone “with even a hint of
Landscape. For Lisa, the key to PMS, perimenopause, polycystic ovary
DOPAMINE
3 understanding our bodies lies with the rise
and fall of our hormones, and how this
affects us at different times in our cycle.
syndrome or endometriosis”, she advises
cutting back on unfermented soy products
like soy milk and tofu, and even processed
Ǧ She’s also keen to underline that it isn’t vegetable oils like margarine. “Oh and eat
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all doom and gloom; there are times when chocolate!” she adds. “Raw and dark
Ǯǯ we can utilise our hormones, too. Lisa says chocolate are amazingly good for you.”
Ǥ ovulation can make you “super articulate”,
can become addictive and distract so it’s the perfect time to schedule in an FUTILE FERTILITY
Ǥ important work presentation. “These are When it comes to fertility issues, the sad
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ơ power tools for women,” she says. “If you reality is hormones can kick up a fuss
Ǧ know your cycle, you are able to take back there too. Although my IVF cycle was
Ǥ control in your life.” necessitated by my husband’s chemo-
Speaking of power tools, nutritional therapy, for a proportion of the 3.5
Ǥ health is another. “The simple truth is we million couples who struggle to conceive,
really don’t understand the compound hormonal disruption can be a significant
Micro
MANAGEMENT
Studies suggest the foundation of healthy hormone levels is the gut. So
how can we help our gut create a better environment for optimum
balance? Nutritionist Jeanette Hyde has some answers
Q Is it true the gut holds the key to avoid. If you eat lots of sugar, white refined in us feeling hungrier. They could also be
hormonal balance? If so, how? carbs, artificial sweeteners and fats, and few responsible for worsened PMS symptoms. I
A Many scientists are now calling the veg, you tend to find the microbiome won’t invite people to stop the Western diet for a
bacteria in our gut the ‘control centre’ of have abundant species and is out of balance. month, and to eat in a way that actively
our health. We all house a ‘microbiome’; You can develop dysbiosis, ie gut health is nourishes the microbiome. In a study I’m
bacteria that live in and on us, most of imbalanced and pathogenic (bad) bacteria working on with St Mary’s University, 21
which are in our colon – about 1.5kg in are in the majority, instead of good bacteria. people did a ‘gut makeover’ diet over one
weight. In the past, the medical profession You can fall into poor health, which has month and filled out questionnaires before
acknowledged them, but it was thought an impact on your hormonal balance. and after the trial. We saw that digestive
they had no function. From 2008 over five Antibiotics are also detrimental; you might symptoms (wind, bloating, heartburn, IBS)
years, there was a major piece of research have an ear infection, and want to kill the decreased, while brain symptoms (anxiety,
in the US, the Human Microbiome Project. bacteria that’s causing it, but the antibiotics mood, memory) improved dramatically.
Scientists found the microbiome was far also kill swathes of bacteria in your gut. This backs up the research that the gut,
more plentiful and active than previously brain and nervous system are connected.
thought. Since then, other research has Q What does gut health mean for
revealed the microbiome is very powerful hormonal wellbeing? Q What changes can we make for gut
indeed and sends signals to, as well as A The hunger hormones, ghrelin and health and to rebalance our hormones?
connects with, several systems of the body. leptin, for example, which tell us when A First, try to get around 30 different
we’re hungry and when we’re full, are varieties of plants and veges into your diet
Q What exactly is the microbiome? hugely impacted by gut health. When there every week. When you’re shopping, if you
A It is a finely balanced ecosystem; like a isn’t a range of species in the microbiome, see a pomegranate and think, ‘When did I
forest with many types of plants, trees and we can feel hungry all the time and have last have one of those?’, buy it and the put
animals living in it. Microbiome is the cravings. In this regard, artificial sweeteners the seeds in a salad. If you’re roasting veg,
umbrella name for all the bacteria, good have been shown to upset the balance of put in as much variation as possible.
and bad, but they need to be in balance, good and bad bacteria, which could result Fermented foods contain tens of thousands
with the good bacteria dominant. It’s of good bacteria. Extra virgin olive oil is
important to keep it in a good condition, rich in polythenols that the gut bacteria like
and it can be manipulated by what we eat,
our environment and lifestyle factors like
‘THE MICROBIOME to feed on, which helps the microbiome
flourish. After people adopt these changes
stress. It’s linked to our immune system and IS A FINELY for a month, their cravings disappear and
BALANCED
nervous system, and sends signals to them. their hunger hormones become more
Research has focused on the microbiome’s balanced. They also sleep better, which is
signals in relation to hormone production.
The research is new but, if you accept the ECOSYSTEM
ECOSYSTEM’ connected to hormone balance. Women
also often see an improvement in their
broad principle that the miccrobiome men nopausal symptoms. Secondly, have a 12-
needs to flourish and be in ballance, hour overnight fast; finish dinner by 8pm
you start to see improveme ents and don’t eat breakfast until 8am. Drink
in our physical systems, and lots of water but don’t eat; this gives the
connections with our moo od, micrrobiome time to repair and rebalance,
influenced by hormonal health h. and for the right bacteria to start to flourish
againn. Thirdly, sit down at mealtimes, relax
Q What’s one key thing we can and properly chew your food. Undigested
do to support the microbiome e? partiicles of food, which make it down to the
A When you eat well, many sppecies colonn, feed the bad bacteria and cause an
of bacteria will flourish. For gut health, imbaalance. Slowing down to chew food can
the Western, processed diet iis the one to make a big difference to health. »
MARCH 2018 / NEXT 119
factor. Janice says one of the causes of or absent periods,” Janice says. “High the amount of oestrogen in the body drops.
infertility is the frequent release of eggs levels of testosterone can also lead to This usually happens between the ages of
from the ovary, which can occur as a result infertility and are commonly seen in 45 and 55, although a rare number of
of hormone balance disturbances – the polycystic ovary syndrome.” women can become menopausal in their
most common being polycystic ovary 30s, or even younger. Janice says during this
syndrome, an endocrine condition MERCILESS MENOPAUSE time, up to 80% of women experience
sometimes seen in women of childbearing Which leaves us with, arguably, the biggest physical and/or emotional symptoms,
age. Problems can also develop if a woman hormonal taboo: the menopause. It’s including hot flushes and night sweats,
produces too much prolactin (breast milk something that affects all women, so why tiredness and sleep disturbances, as well as
hormone), thyroid hormones or adrenal are we uncomfortable talking about it? Like mood swings, forgetfulness or lack of
hormones. And even testosterone can be all reproductive developments, the meno- concentration, and a loss of sexual appetite.
an issue. “If a woman’s body produces too pause is governed by hormones, initiated “Every woman is affected by the meno-
much testosterone, she may have irregular when the ovaries stop producing eggs and pause differently,” Janice says, “but for
some, the symptoms can be debilitating answer – and neither is denial. It’s about
and dramatically impact their health, time we spoke up and shared our hormonal
work, relationships and quality of life.” journeys: the good, the bad and the ugly.
Despite this, she adds that a recent We may feel uncontrollably defined by the
British Menopause Society survey found chemicals that surge through our bodies,
only half of the UK women who took part but that doesn’t mean we can’t redefine our
spoke to a healthcare professional about relationship with them. Self-awareness is
their symptoms, a shocking admission key, as is knowledge and communication.
that illustrates just how self-censoring To paraphrase Lisa Lister, our hormones
many women still are when it comes to are about so much more than making
their bodies. babies. They work overtime to promote our
If I’ve learned anything from my isolating
IVF experience, it’s that silence isn’t the
health and wellbeing too.
*
the antidote to cortisol, the cravings for sugary, fatty food. can undermine feelings Get off the rollercoaster:
hormone which signals to your Get off the rollercoaster: of wellbeing. Producing excess cortisol can
body it’s time to slow down. A diet high in wholegrains Get off the rollercoaster: throw your female hormones
Get off the rollercoaster: and lean protein and low in Keeping on top of stress can off balance, as can lack of sleep.
Cutting back on sugar, fat can help suppress levels of make a big difference to your Reducing stress and keeping
caffeine and alcohol, and ghrelin. Go for low-GI, mood. But exercise is key, blood sugar stable by eating
taking time to relax is high-fibre, wholegrain foods helping your body process wholegrains, lean protein and
important for you, as it will and include lean protein excess cortisol and boosting fresh fruit and veg can take the
help keep your cortisol in with meals. Do breathing serotonin, the calming brain edge off PMS. Add regular
check. You can also support exercises in the day to keep chemical. Mindfulness and exercise to soothe nerves and
your melatonin levels by cortisol in check, and get lots yoga will also help. If your boost mood. If menstrual or
avoiding screen time before of sleep. On hungry days, mood swings are cyclical, try perimenopausal issues continue
going to bed and making sure try short bursts of high- agnus castus, a phytoestrogen to affect your sexual energy and
you sleep in the pitch dark. intensity exercise. supplement, or lavender oil. wellbeing, see your GP.
Turn to page 134 for delicious recipes to help you balance your hormones and regain your youthfulness and vitality
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The salsa criolla on the barbecued salmon (page 132) uses baby
heirloom tomatoes, and what better opportunity to seek out the
fruits of Anthony and Angela Tringham’s labours? Their
Curious Croppers heritage tomatoes appear in restaurant
menus around the country, in specialty food stores like Moore
Wilson’s and Farro Fresh and at their Clevedon Village Farmers’
Market stall. Of course, farmers’ markets around the country
are a great place to get your hands on quality fresh heritage
tomatoes so keep your eyes peeled! curiouscroppers.co.nz
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paper rolls, page 131
Salmon patties
with courgette
& asparagus
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TABBOULEH
½ cup coarse cracked wheat
flesh side of salmon. Season. over medium-high heat. (burghul), rinsed
4 Barbecue salmon on open 2 Using a mandoline or sharp 1½ cups water
grill, skin-side down, in knife, thinly slice parsnips 2 spring onions, thinly sliced
covered barbecue. Turn lengthways. Combine parsnip 1 medium tomato, chopped
burners off underneath with half the oil in a large coarsely
salmon and turn other bowl; season. Cook parsnip 1 cup firmly packed fresh flat-
burners to high. Cook on barbecue, in batches, for leaf parsley leaves, coarsely
on covered barbecue for 2 minutes each side or chopped
20 minutes or until cooked until charred and tender. ¼ cup firmly packed fresh
as desired (salmon is best 3 Brush salmon with mint leaves, coarsely chopped
Barbecued salmon served medium-rare in remaining oil; season. 1 Tbsp lemon juice
the thickest part). Cook salmon and lemon TAHINI SAUCE
with salsa criolla 5 Serve salmon with salsa halves, cut-side down, on ½ cup Greek-style yoghurt
2 tsp sea salt flakes criolla and lemon halves. barbecue for 4 minutes 1½ Tbsp tahini
1 Tbsp extra virgin olive oil SERVES 8. each side or until salmon is 1 clove garlic, crushed
2kg salmon fillet, skin on, READY IN: 40 MINUTES cooked as desired and lemon 2 tsp lemon juice
pin-boned is lightly charred.
2 Tbsp coarsely chopped fresh 4 Meanwhile, blend or 1 To prepare tabbouleh,
flat-leaf parsley process garlic, walnuts, bring cracked wheat and the
2 cloves garlic, crushed herbs and juice until finely water to the boil in a small
Lemon halves, to serve chopped. While motor is saucepan. Reduce heat to low;
SALSA CRIOLLA operating, add extra oil in cook for 20 minutes or until
350g baby heirloom a thin, steady stream; tender. Drain. Cool. Place
tomatoes, sliced or blend until mixture is in a large bowl with onion,
quartered combined. Season. tomato, herbs and juice; toss
250g cherry tomatoes, 5 Serve salmon topped with to combine. Season.
quartered walnut pesto and torn parsley; 2 To prepare tahini sauce,
½ medium red onion, finely accompany with parsnip Whisk ingredients in a small
chopped chips, watercress and bowl until combined; season
2 Tbsp extra virgin olive oil charred lemon halves. to taste.
1 Tbsp red wine vinegar
Salmon with SERVES 4. 3 Preheat oven to 200°C
ΨΡ cup loosely packed fresh walnut pesto & READY IN: 20 MINUTES (180°C fanbake).
coriander leaves parsnip chips 4 Line an oven tray with
baking paper. Place salmon
1 To prepare salsa criolla, 3 small parsnips on tray, sprinkle with 1 tsp
combine all ingredients, 2 Tbsp olive oil of the sumac; drizzle with
except the coriander, in a 4 x 200g salmon fillets, oil. Season. Bake for 12
medium bowl. Season to taste. skin on minutes or until almost
Just before serving, add 1 lemon, halved crossways cooked through.
coriander; toss to combine. 2 cloves garlic, quartered 5 Serve with tahini and
2 Preheat a covered 1 cup roasted walnuts tabbouleh. Sprinkle with the
barbecue, with all burners on 1½ cups firmly packed fresh remaining sumac.
low and hood closed, until mint leaves SERVES 4.
temperature reaches 200°C, 1½ cups firmly packed fresh READY IN: 40 MINUTES
or follow manufacturer’s parsley leaves
instructions. ¼ cup lemon juice Baked salmon Tip: Baking salmon in
3 Combine salt flakes and ½ cup olive oil, extra fillets with the oven makes for a great
half the oil in a small bowl; 1 Tbsp torn fresh flat-leaf weeknight meal – it lets you
rub mixture on skin side of parsley leaves
tahini sauce focus on other parts of your
salmon. Combine the parsley, 2 cups firmly packed trimmed & tabbouleh meal while the fish cooks.
garlic and remaining oil in watercress 4 x 150g salmon fillets, Just keep an eye on the
a small bowl; rub mixture on 1 Heat a barbecue (or grill) skin removed cooking time.
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Turquoise sea, ancient streets, blue-domed buildings that dazzle
in the sun… Greece is a photographer’s dream,
and Danielle Lagos gets to strike a pose on two
of its most picturesque islands
TRAVEL
Opposite: Clockwise
from top left, even the
souvenir shops have
great views; Santorini
is postcard perfect;
seafood doesn’t come
much fresher; quad
bike queen Danielle.
This page: Narrow
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an adventure;
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Mykonos.
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from the pad of her foot. one way you can get around and that’s by white to the sweetest dessert wine you could
quad bike. Well, you can also get cars and dare taste. We never want to leave.
Yachtie for a day scooters, but with narrow gravel roads you’ll
Opposite: A sunset
yacht voyage is a
romantic way to see the
islands. This page,
clockwise from above:
Who needs Uber when
you’ve got four-legged
transport; the views and
food are to die for.
of grey cobbled paths twist around stark light about me after I finished everything
white buildings, and vibrant red and that was served.
fuchsia bougainvillea frame blue shutters. Where Santorini had us exploring,
Mykonos had us mooching. There’s no
up, we are guided to a small table near the past the lounge, bar and restaurant, and
● There’s no such thing
fire pit, sitting among vines, the smell of you’ll feel like you’ve stumbled into an
as a free sun lounger. They
barbecue wafting on the air. We look out extravagant bedouin campsite thanks to can be anything from about
on a typical Greek scene of cliffs and blue the atmospheric music, cushions scattered NZ$16. Some are ‘free’
water – and it’s the perfect setting for around the cliff’s edge, massive fire pit and if you buy a drink, but be
what’s about to come. We decide on the lanterns. If you’re budget-conscious, skip careful as these drinks can
baked feta, a mix of the salads, octopus the meal, order a bottle of wine, and head be expensive. Always check
and chicken thigh. To say this was one of for a cosy nook to take in a stunning view the price before you lay out
the standout meals of our vacation is not of, you guessed it, the sunset. You really your towel.
putting it lightly – and there is nothing never get sick of them.
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ARIES usually the restless one see the beginning of don’t hold back. Take CAPRICORN
MAR 21 – APR 20 but this time it’s your something new. time to pamper DEC 23 – JAN 20
Someone new comes partner. If that rings an Recognition for effort is yourself on the 31st. You’re in a significant
into your life, most alarm bell, it could be indicated on the 23rd. phase of growth,
likely at work, and there your cue to ease the SCORPIO helped along by feisty
will be the spark of a pressure and go your VIRGO OCT 24 – NOV 22 planet Mars in your
sudden attraction on own way for a while. AUG 24 – SEP 23 The whole thrust of birth sign. It’s just the
the 7th. The planet Your love life is given a your life just now is impetus you need to
Mercury enters Aries CANCER lift by the arrival of positive, with real confront a troubled
on the same day and JUN 22 – JUL 23 Mercury, your ruler, in rewards beckoning, so relationship. A special
favours all activity The Moon’s moods are adventurous Aries on it’s a shame your skill that has often
where you make use important for Cancer the 7th. March brings a relationships may be stood you in good
of your intuition. and this month the whole swag of positive about to get a bit stead will come to your
effect is especially developments – a key messy. The weekend of aid. March 26th is a
TAURUS noticeable. The Full goal is looking the 10th sees the day for action.
APR 21 – MAY 21 Moon on the first eminently achievable. reappearance of
There’s a renewed weekend of March Avoid mixed messages someone who used to AQUARIUS
spring in your step brings a sparkle to on the 24th. Try to matter to you. Be true JAN 21 – FEB 19
and you’ll feel more your social activities. make sure you say to yourself. There’s a lot going
motivated. The month A stranger will be exactly what you mean. on in your life, none
picks up speed as you intrigued by your aura SAGITTARIUS of it straightforward.
LIBRA
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get into it, so there’s no of mystery. NOV 23 – DEC 22 Still, you thrive on
point putting things off SEP 24 – OCT 23 Lots of coming and action and this month
– do what has to be LEO The Libran Full Moon goings this month, you’ll meet someone
done right away. The JUL 24 – AUG 23 on the 2nd brings an socially and at work. who’ll have a far-
weekend of the 24th Feeling restless? You opportunity. A distant Your ruler Jupiter is in reaching effect on
brings a surprise. can turn that feeling to influence, whether via success-driven Scorpio your future. The
your advantage. A travel, a visitor or and this will strengthen weekend of the
GEMINI re-awakened sexiness unexpected news, will your effectiveness. 10th is all about
MAY 22 – JUN 21 on the weekend of the shape this month in a Financially, a late- commitment. Are you
There’s change in the 10th has a hint of the significant way. If month influx of funds in for the long haul, or
air for a long-term forbidden – dangerous, you’re about to embark marks the start of a are you keeping your
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HE, SHE
AND WE When it’s time to face
her lover’s wife, Sarah
learns matters don’t
always go to plan
I’m trying hard to think it’s normal that don’t listen to Trump-related news’, and up a cigarette in continued defiance of
the wife of my new man is involving me so on. When I got married, I vowed I the smoking ban passed in 2008.
in discussions about their divorce. “Not would never speak like that – and part of The kindy teacher’s face has turned
normal,” Jenna says decisively. She’s the tattered silver lining of divorce is that as red as her hair. “I didn’t realise,” she
started a dogwalking business and we’re it’s become even easier to avoid the says embarrassedly. “We don’t go to bars
out walking in a maelstrom of saliva- Merged Person’s pronoun. very often.”
soaked leashes. “She wants an Ally – and “Don’t worry,” I reassure her. “We’ve
becoming The Wife’s Ally is the surest way
to lose The Husband.”
When I got been coming here so long that we don’t
notice the weirdness anymore.” Her use
“You think?” I’m not completely sure,
thinking of the steely upbeat tone of Mrs
married, I vowed of ‘we’ is crystal clear; she’s wearing a
wedding ring. But mine? “We…” I trail
Stable’s emails. She seems to be casting
me in the role of an Objective Adviser I would never off. “Me, the headbutters, her” – I nod to
the aged once-famous actress who carries
who, instead of taking a fee, will take a
pesky absent-minded professor off her speak like that photos of herself in her salad days.
“And – ” I stop short as Mr Stable enters.
hands. But I could live in Germany for “And him…”
the rest of my life without being any closer “You know what else?” I stare bleakly at The kindy teacher does a double-
to understanding German women: their Jenna, who’s pulling reams of plastic bags take and her warm anti-bourgeois beer
practicality when it comes to love and from her pockets like a magician. “I hate to sloshes in her glass. Mr Stable looks wildly
marriage astounds me. say it, but I feel territorial.” around as if considering doing a runner.
Jenna jerks on the leads of two unruly “You mean you want to be ‘we’?” She In a flash I realise who I’m sitting beside:
dachshunds. “Tom! Harry!” She smiles starts briskly scooping poop. “Don’t Mrs Stable, who’s belatedly come to
glintingly at me. “Now all we need is a worry, sweet, you’ll be there before you check out where her husband has been
Dick. They always compound a problem.” know it.” drinking and straying all these years. Our
I laugh but I feel as skittery as the dogs. Later on, before the dreaded dinner, I ‘we’s’ have violently collided and suddenly
“It’s 11.58. She said she’d contact me stop in at my local bar. I need to set foot being headbutted seems an awfully
before midday.” Right then, with the usual
Stable precision, a text pings in:
on my own turf before entering
unfamiliar Italian territory. It’s the usual
desirable thing.
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‘We’ve discussed locations, we’ll meet at off-kilter scene, like a scene from
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ON NEWSSTANDS NOW
BEST MAGAZINE DESIGN
Canon Media Awards 2017
LAST LAUGH
by Lisa Scott
Sweet and
SOURLisa ponders the
phenomenon of the
sneakily toxic friend
EACH OTHER’S WAY
one another can be quite subtle. Take to fetch the paper – pointless, unnatural,
‘gaslighting’ for example. If you don’t know and tiresome for both parties. Plus, I don’t
what that is, here’s the dictionary definition: need anyone’s help falling off my psycho-
verb, manipulate (someone) by psychol- designed to change perceptions of reality logical perch; all it takes is one exploding
ogical means. Per the element, it’s a sneaky, to ensure a permanent state of wonkiness. bottle of elderflower champagne – you try
odourless threat to your wellbeing where Gaslighters tell a lie with a straight face. keeping your cool while picking glass out
seemingly innocuous whiffs build into toxic Once they tell a huge lie, you’re not sure if of the ceiling on Christmas Eve, worrying
fumes, much like my attempts to make anything they say is true. They deny they about all the other unexploded bombs
elderflower champagne. Gaslighting is have ever said something, even if you have under people’s trees. Moral of the story,
when someone tells you didn’t say/do some- proof. It’s done gradually, then starts don’t double the fermentation yeast
thing when you did, that up is down, and ramping up, frog-in-boiling-water style. because it doesn’t seem fizzy enough.
Nana’s armchair has always been in that Gaslighters use random drops of praise, Recently though, I couldn’t help but
corner. Do it often enough and a person because they know confusion weakens notice, as the woman concerned may as well
will start to seriously doubt their sanity. people. In management this is called the have been wearing a T-shirt saying, ‘Lisa,
The younger man’s 1928 villa is best ‘sandwich technique’, where you insert an I’m being a dick to you’. Cornering me
viewed by gaslight; it was he who explained insult between two compliments: “You outside the Warehouse when I was in bare
the phenomenon to me (and made me have a lovely smile Bob, shame you’re so feet (I’d just blown a plugga on my jandals),
realise I’d worked with a gaslighter in my crap at data entry, but everyone loves the the lies she told were ginormous (the kind
very first job; I’d just thought she was a muffins you bring for morning tea.” a five-year-old tells), the conversation
shockingly bad listener). He was gas-lit Gaslighters align people against you, or say seasoned with compliments and insults
himself in a previous relationship and, they have: “Moira knows you’re crazy, too.” both. Back home, jandal-less and reeling, I
being a simple rural chap: it’s either a Gaslighting is essentially Mean Girls grown thought ‘what the hell just happened?’ Why
cheese roll or it’s not, it did his head in. up and, unsurprisingly, women are the are women such bitches to each other?
Gaslighting is so clever, so Hitchcockian. stone-cold queens of it. We need to be pilot lights,
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Like the plot of Vertigo where the blonde I’m just too lazy to not gaslights, illuminating
was actually a brunette and poor Jimmy gaslight anyone (you’d each other’s way, solar lights
Stewart got all bamboozled, the psycho- need to be fairly consist- What do on a midnight path, kindly
logical term comes from the 1938 play Gas
Light where a husband tries to convince his
ent and I’m easily dis-
tracted). Also, I think, y ink? beacons for sea-tossed
ships, because I have
wife she’s going insane by constantly with a bit of repurposing, Have you ever been enough trouble remember-
moving things around then lying about it. it’s the perfect excuse for gaslit by a friend? Send ing where I put the keys
your thoughts to:
A form of manipulation that uses persistent a sloppy memory. “What next@bauermedia.co.nz without some baggage
denial (much like having teenagers) and do you mean I was telling me I never owned a
misdirection to destabilise the victim, it’s supposed to be here car in the first place.
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The
of
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theory... and a solution
grouting and eating more leafy greens? It from that period which try to encourage
sounds crazy, right? How can experiencing sadness in readers by giving them lists of
happiness be a chore! It’s just happiness. reasons to be disappointed. Historian
It’s not a ‘project’ (although actually that’s Tiffany Watt Smith, in a brilliant TED talk,
the name of a bestselling book. Ugh). says these self-help authors thought you
We say we want to be happy, but take a could cultivate sadness as a skill, since being
look at our mental health statistics and expert in it would make you more resilient
obviously something is not right. In when something bad did happen to you, as
material terms, with modern midwifery invariably it would. Feel sad today, and you
Floating on an inflatable rainbow unicorn and plumbing and smashed avocado toast might feel impatient, even ashamed. But
on a blue pool on a summer day. Getting we’re objectively better off than centuries maybe we could learn a bit from the old-
sore hands clapping as your daughter wins ago. And think about all those books and fashioned attitude of stoicism.
a school prize. Finishing writing the first podcasts with people doing yoga on the The great psychoanalyst Carl Jung called
draft of a TV script: finally! All the family beach and laughing while eating salad. We neurosis (that is most mental illness) a
squashed in bed with popcorn and a Harry celebrate happiness. We worship it. We flight from authentic suffering. But many
Potter marathon. Can you summon some really, really want to be happy. Or do we? of our mental health problems may actually
happy moments of your own? Prosecco, Here’s my wacky theory. Contrary to be a flight from authentic joy. Psychologist
Venice, maybe? Or even fish and chips, in what we might think, we find it harder to Ken Page argues there is a happiness skill
summer, on the ordinary beach down the let ourselves experience happiness than we no one teaches us: that we have to “learn to
road? You know those special stop-the- bear our joys”. I like his suggestion: a
clock moments when everything comes
together, when everything is perfect. Got THE UNSPOKEN deceptively simple practice, which only
takes one to two minutes, to help you build
one? Good. Can you really feel the
happiness, bask in it, let it soak into you,
TRUTH ABOUT the important – and untaught – skill of
savouring your joys. It’s a micro-meditation.
like water soaking into a sponge? If you HAPPINESS IS IT Any time you experience joy, happiness,
can, good for you, my friend! Keep going. peace or pleasure in your day-to-day life,
But for some of us, when those so-called MAKES US NERVOUS don’t just note it and move on. Page suggests,
wonderful moments happen, you might take an extra 30 seconds to savour the good
try to do the sponge-thing and appreciate do to experience pain and suffering. feeling. Let it linger, casting its ripples inside
it, but you also feel a bit, well, awkward. Like Consciously we tend to say we are on a you, soaking the sponge. Get to know its
you’re not there fully, in the way you’d like quest for happiness, but in reality we tend flavour. When the ripples of pleasure pass,
to be. That you should be able to feel the to minimise our good feelings. They are move on. You can do this with the many tiny
delight more vividly, without any nagging too scary to trust. pleasures of your day; it doesn’t have to be
thoughts bringing you down, like you don’t The unspoken truth about happiness is drinking bubbly on the Grand Canal or
really deserve this. Or perhaps there’s some it makes us nervous. It feels too fragile and winning an award. Try it with your morning
niggling irritation, trivial but annoying. precarious. It might be good now, but we coffee, a positive interaction with a stranger,
A friend of mine, an entrepreneur, used are waiting for the other shoe to drop. an interesting or beautiful sight. In the
to say even when he was in bed, having Maybe it is safer not to be happy in the first warmth you feel after these tiny moments
great sex, part of him would still be going place. So without even realising we tend to you’ll be enriched, deepened, truly joyful.
‘This is great, but it could be even better if step past some of our quiet deep pleasures. Can you picture doing this? The late
we had 800-thread count Egyptian cotton When you have achieved something, poet John O’Donohue said, “A lot of
sheets’. I know what he means. satisfaction in your accomplishment suffering is just getting rid of dross in
Or maybe you need to post a photo on quickly devolves into a kind of clinical self- yourself, and lingering and hanging in the
Facebook to assure you what is happening is evaluation and self-deprecation. darkness is often – I say this against myself
authentically blissful. (Er, not a picture of Maybe we are not so scared of sorrow as – a failure of imagination, to imagine the
the sex). It may only feel an authentic happy we are of joy. We might be happier if we door into the light.” That imagination
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moment if it is reflected back to you through stopped trying so hard. sounds a lot like learning to bear joy.
the appreciation of others. You need the Happiness is meant to Oh but honey, just one warning, and I say
comments: “Cool shot! Love the inflatable make us better workers this as a veteran over-thinker
and parents and
gold swan! I’m jealous!” to give you
permission, a signal, to tell you what to feel. partners; it’s supposed What do myself. Don’t put this micro-
meditation on your to-do list
Does it feel sometimes, like experiencing
real happiness is just another thing you’re
to make us live longer.
But in the 16th century,
y ink? and make it into another
oppressive drag, something
What are your thoughts
not getting quite right? Or even that being sadness was thought to about relishing happiness... to do along with cleaning
happy is something you have to work at, do most of those things. we’d love to hear! out your cutlery drawer.
something else you need to do properly, It’s even possible to next@bauermedia.co.nz That would really not make
conscientiously, along with scrubbing your read self-help books you happier!
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