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Identity
Samantha McDaniel
Identity
Society has built a plethora of constructions and categories with which human beings
have used throughout history to identify with, make relationships through, and cultivate systems
on. For some, commonly of privileged identities, we may have never had to really acknowledge
parts of ourselves and the implications they have on our walks in life. For others, commonly of
targeted identities, we may have not have had such a luxury to overlook our identities, because of
the way our lives are shaped by them so clearly each day. In social work, practitioners have the
opportunity to work with very diverse populations and clients from all different kinds of
backgrounds and identities. And with this opportunity comes great responsibility: calling for a
deeper understanding of ourselves and how we fit into these identities and the systems that they
are a part of. What does it mean, in this society, to be who and what we are?
Social Categories
The basic identities commonly considered are race, sex, gender, class, age, sexuality,
religion, and ability. Other identities may also include citizenship, education-level, family
background, and more. Looking at myself, I have some identities which fit right in the strict
categories and binaries of identity. For example, I am white and I am a female cisgender woman,
I am middle class and educated. These are identities our society is and has been historically
familiar with and fairly comfortable with acknowledging. However, I have other identities which
do not fit quite so well. For example, I identify as grey-asexual and panromantic, I follow a very
unconventional sort of Christian-based belief system that I have formed on my own, and I am
psychologically disabled with depression. These particular identities, integral pieces of who I am,
oftentimes leave society and its systems confused and uncomfortable. For the sake of being
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Target/Agent Categories
The intersectionality of all these identities and the significance of such is that there are
multiple ways in which I am affected by both privilege and oppression, and there are multiple
ways in which I am capable of both oppressing others and being oppressed. For example, though
this is that, while women all together have a history of being targeted, women of color also have
a long and deep history of being targeted by white women. So much that the term “white
feminism” has been coined to describe a women’s empowerment movement which systemically
stifles out the voices of women of color. Another example of this can also be played out in how I
am a CIS woman. While, again, women have for centuries and across the globe been historically
oppressed, being cisgender affords me some privileges over transwomen. Transmisogyny has a
very significant body count, and it is not one that I will ever be able to identify with as I am and
have always been considered a “real woman” by society. There are even certain sects of feminist
movements which do not include transwomen (“trans-exclusionary radical feminism”), and this
is an excellent example of how the oppressed often still have the capability to oppress. Another
example of how identities intersect in my life is my experience as both a woman and a person
with a mental illness. This is seen in the ways that women are often already vilified for
expressing emotion and often called “crazy” for responding to things which hurt or upset them.
Tie this further to the way that I am also often vilified for being emotional while dealing with my
depression and also being called “crazy” for my responses to things, and the ways in which
internalizing these sentiments further affect me. And yet, though as someone of psychological
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disability I am much likely to get approved for federal disability aid, I still hold privilege in that I
am physically able-bodied even simply by having much more access to everyday routines
very aware of and which affect me greatly, and then which ones I do not think about as often or
feel like affect me as much. For example, I am very aware of my psychological disability. This is
a piece of who I am that affects me every single day and one that I have to constantly address not
only within myself but also in the way that others interact with me. I am also significantly aware
of my sex and gender and the way that this truly has molded the way I walk through life, from
the way I carry pepper spray on my keys to the way I have to wear make-up to a job interview, or
defend myself for wearing shorts on a hot day. Situations like the fact that South Carolina was
the number 1 state for homicide of women through domestic abuse are not things that I have the
luxury of looking past. I am also very significantly aware of my whiteness, and what that means
lot of time thinking about what it means to be white in this society and how that affects people of
color, and how to work alongside and behind people of color to combat these affects. The third
biggest slice on my wheel would be my sexuality. This is one I am aware of most often when I
am around my family and realize that I cannot be my whole honest self to them for fear of being
completely outcast or ruining very important relationships. This piece of my identity hurts the
most because it is one which I am often very aware of, but that I do not have the privilege to be
open about, for risk of negative backlash in many aspects. This backlash not only exists outside
of the LGBTQ community, but also within, as asexual individuals and bi/pan individuals are
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commonly erased/excluded from queer spaces. Some of the identities I’m less aware of are my
religion, my class, and my age. From an obvious standpoint, in all of these areas I fall within a
pretty “average” slot, and thus these things do not feel like they affect me quite as directly as the
identities mentioned earlier. Feeling less affected by these parts of my identity, however, can
possibly be tied to privilege, as I am able to navigate life relatively “normal” in these areas
The first time I realized I was attracted to multiple different genders, I knew it would not
be something I would ever be able to tell my family. And the first time I realized that I very
rarely experience sexual attraction, I knew that finding love and a relationship that would be
sustainable would so much more difficult. I come from a very conservative family, immediate
and extended, but I also am very close to all of my family, both immediate and extended. I highly
value my familial relationships and the friendships I have in this space, so realizing that I would
have to compromise who I am and those relationships I love was a very significant moment in
my life. I have decided that I am not (yet) willing to risk the destruction of some of my dearest
relationships by being honest and open about who I love. And this has caused a very sad divide
in my family that only I am aware of, but one that is very evident to me. Realizing that I was
asexual also had a very interesting effect on me, as I was in a relationship at the time I was
discovering this about myself. Realizing that I was very much in love with and attracted to the
person I was with, but that I was not necessarily interested in ever being sexual with him (or
anyone else in my past or future), really reframed the way I had to experience relationships. My
relationship not only carried along with it this strange feeling of obligation to respond to his
sexual desire even if I didn’t feel it the same, but also this fear that he would think I did not love
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him based on this part of me. I’m no longer in this relationship, but this realization has really
lead to more complicated attempts at relationships, since sexuality is considered normal and so
inherent that the concept of a relationship where one partner is not necessary actively sexual is
one that society is not sure how to navigate. It has led to a lot of complications in my relational
life and also how I’ve internalized what society says I’m supposed to be like, when I am not.
While both of these pieces of my identity have really shaped my activism, the person I am, and
the people I am with, they have also had profound and difficult effects on how I am able to
Triggers
most common responses to triggers range from leaving, avoidance, and silence to naming,
discussing, and confronting. My main response in any case of a triggering experience is using
discretion to figure out how I am able to respond. If I am in a public space or a large classroom
and am triggered but do not want to be further vilified or am too drained from being targeted to
discuss, I will leave the situation, or remain silent while thinking about how I might respond in
my own head. However, if I’m in a setting with people I know better who are triggering me by
saying something hurtful about one of my identities (and I’m safe to be open about this identity)
I try my hardest to remain calm and respond by explaining why what is being said or done is
hurtful. Sometimes, however, if I’m comfortable with the people I am around but my patience
for being targeted has run thin, I may lash out against those people, out of hurt and anger. As a
member of a privileged group, I often try my hardest to respond to triggers with an open mind
and listening ears. Hearing some things may originally hurt me, as being told you are part of an
oppressive system is never a fun thing to hear, and I may be silent or surprised by the sentiment.
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But after actively listening and understanding viewpoints, I try to respond with strategizing. As
the agent group, the best response we can have to hearing the triggering notion that we are
oppressive, is to work with targeted groups to figure out what we can do to help end this
oppression.
Conclusion
Though many of these identities can be argued to be social constructs, the issue is that
they are just that. Parts of who we are shaped by how society categorizes us, how we categorize
ourselves in our society, and how this affects what our day to day lives look like. Self-awareness
is a very important key to competent social work practice, and consistently exploring and
wrestling with who we are and what that means will help build up even stronger practices in the
future.
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Identity Wheel
IDENTITY
Age (T/A)
Class (T/A)
Race (A)
Religion (A)
Sex/Gender (T/A)
Ability (T/A)
Sexual
Orientation (T)