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Marriage is the legally or formally recognized union that involved two persons as
partner in personal in relationship. In this era many teenager have to marry in the early age or
the age under 17 years old. There are some reason that make them marry in the early age,
some of them have to marry because they get an accident or they get pressure from somebody
else and etc. As a result, many teenagers who have married will face many problems such as
the interruption of education and also they will get some health problem, either the physical
state or the state of their psychology in the future. And that’s why marriage should not do in
Many girls get the disadvantages of the early marriage among teenager, especially in
their education side. Early marriage disavows the authority of teenagers to get education, and
reach their passion to get higher education. For example, according to Educational Institution
in Sampang, East Java, at least there are 79 students of junior high school in that region that
resign from the school because of early marriage. However, even though those girls want to
continue their study, they will be disturbed by their household duties and sometimes they also
already have a child that makes them will think twice to continue their study. Consequently,
teenager who didn’t continue study will have a low education that is usually they will become
a jobless or at least they just become a labor or etc. Therefrom, it will be the one of the cause
their physical state or in psychological state. However, teenagers are still young they have
high emotion that can explode anytime. Their mood could change quickly, and sometimes it
is make some problems in the teenager’s household. For example, teenager couples usually
get angry because of trivial problem. Then, they will have common argue or huge argue till
even the husband will do harassment to his wife because of it. Moreover, such thing like that
will make some injury and anxiety to the victim and makes them get depressed. Meanwhile,
early marriage will increase the risk of young mother to get uterus cancer, it happened
because the uterus of girl teenager has not developed well in this age. In addition, young age
is not the right time to them to get marry. Actually, that time is the best time to them to
explore the world, to hang out with their friend and spend their time to socialize with others,
but, young marriage seizes their time to socialize with others. As a result, to fill their willing
to socialize with their friend, sometimes young mother will neglect their kid.
People who agree with this issue argued that early marriage will avoid teenagers to do
fornications, free sex or immoral thing. This may be so, but in this case, early marriage is not
the best solution to avoid those problems. So, the best way to avoid those problems is the
parental role. Actually it is better to parents to prevent those problems by growing their
children aware and also give them motivation to get higher school first and stay away to those
problems and if parents can’t do that they can send their children to an Islamic boarding
school or a hostel to keep away their children from immoral thing. In other hand, people who
agree with this issue argued that early marriage will develop the maturity and the
independently of teenagers who have already married. In fact, teenager couples who are
married by accident or because of pressure, they will not ready to manage their own money,
or even they haven’t produce their own income. Finally, they will stay with one of their
solution to decrease immoral thing in this country, but it is not the best solution to avoid those
things. And, actually the most important thing to avoid free sex or immoral sex is the role of
parent to prevent their children from free sex or immoral things by always give explanation
and give them motivation to avoid it. Indeed, avoiding early marriage will have more
advantages to teenager’s future such as the can reach their dream to be a successful people