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 crnW ivc nmskwr:
 sB qoN pihlwN mwqw iqRpqw jI nUM jo guru nwnk dyv
jI dI mwqw jI sn, ijnwN krky Aj AsIN isK
khwNady hwN.
 dUsrw mwqw swihb kOr jI nUM, Kwlsy dI mwqw jI hn.
 qIsrw ApxI mwqw jI nUM ijnW krky A~j AsIN jo
vI hW auhnW dIAW AwsW krky hI hW.
Mother
 A female person, (especially as a title).
 The head of a convent.
 Who look after somebody perfectly?
 Different names of mother;(used in Guru Granth
sahib)
 Maa,- mwN
 Mata, -mwqw
 Maat, -mwq,
 Mau, -mwa
 Maee, -mwey, mwie
 Mader, -mdr
 Matar, -mwqr
 Maader,- mwdr
 mqRyeI,

Mother name always start with word M,

which is the 13th word of ABC,
 which means- mYN qyrw hwN

 Mother, MOM, in English

  mwNvwN TMfIAwN CwNvwN

 svrg mwN dy pYrwN ivc hY.

 mwN PUlwN dI KUSbU.

cMgIAwN mwvwN-

o gurU swihb jI dIAwN mwqwvwN,

o gurU swihb jI dIAwN supqnIAwN,
o gurU swihb jI dIAwN puqrIAwN,
 Mother is the Best of Best in a family.

 mwN nUM ipAwr krnw hY qwN

o Mother Language nUM ipAwr kro,pVo,Xwd rKo.

o Mother Tongue- a person’s native language.
o Mother Land-a person’s native country.
o Mother is the top most Painter who use all the
best paints to fill up in the life of her child.
 so ikau mMdw AwKIAY ijqu jMmih rwjwn ]
 Awip lIey liV lwie dir drvys sy ]iqn DMnu jxydI mwau Awey sPlu sy ]2]
 ijs qrW dy sMskwr mW dy hoxgy, ausy qrW dy b~cy dy sMskwr hoxgy
 mwvW hI rwjy,joDy,sMq,ispwhI,bRhm igAwnI,Bgq, Er,Dr, Professor, sceintest,
Farmer,etc. pYdw krdIAW hn.
 ismrM soeI purKu Aclu AibnwsI ] ijsu ismrq durmiq mlu nwsI ]
 siqgur crx kvl irid DwrM ] gur Arjun gux shij ibcwrM ]
 gur rwmdws Gir kIAau pRgwsw ] sgl mnorQ pUrI Awsw ]
 qY jnmq gurmiq bRhmu pCwixE ] kl´ joiV kr sujsu vKwixE ]
 Bgiq jog kO jYqvwru hir jnku aupwXau ] sbdu gurU prkwisE hir rsn bswXau ]
 gurnwnk AMgd Amr lwig auqm pdu pwXau ]guru Arjunu Gir gur rwmdws Bgq
auqir AwXau ]
 bwrh vrHy grBwis vis jmdy hI suik leI audwsI] (25-10-1)
o sukdyau nUM mW dy pyt ivc hI igAwn ho igAw sI.
 AiBminaU nUM mwqw dy pyt ivc hI ckrivaU dw pqw lg ihAw sI.
 mwstr qwrw isMG jI nUM mwqw dy pyt ivc hI jpujI swihb Xwd ho igAw sI.

 ies leI mwvW nUM jnm qoN pihlW hI nw mwro, ho skdw hY ik auh koeI
rwjw,joDw,sMq,ispwhI,bRhmigAwnI,Bgq,Er,Dr,Professor,sceintest, Farmer,etc
hovy.
 Agr mW (Aorq) nUM jnm qoN pihlW hI mwr dyvWgy qW Awihsqw, Awihsqw swrw
sMswr hI Kqm ho jwvygw.
 kuVIAW nUM cMgIAW mwvW bnwvo.
 sB qoN pihlW mW nwl sMbD hI bxdw hY, Aqy mW qoN hI pqw lgdw hY ik irSqy
ikhVy ihhVy hn.
mW rwhIN irSqy

 mwqwmh- mwN dw ipqw-nwnw
 mwqwmhI- mwN dI mwqw-nwnI
 nhIN ddswr ipq ipqwmw pripqwmw (100-1)
 sujn kutMb suq bwDv n BRwqw hY [ (100-2)
 nhI nnswr mwqw prmwqw ibriD prmwqw (100-3)
 mwmU mwmI mwsI AO mOsw ibibD ibK@wqw hY [ (100-4)
 QUALITIES OF A RIGHTEOUS MOTHER
 Before marriage, she acquires education and knowledge, learns and observes
principles of good living and builds a high moral character, preserves her
maidenhood.
 bqIh sulKxI scu sMqiq pUq ] AwigAwkwrI suGV srUp ]
 ieC pUry mn kMq suAwmI ]sgl sMqoKI dyr jyTwnI ]3]
 sB prvwrY mwih sryst ] mqI dyvI dyvr jyst ]
 DMnu su igRhu ijqu pRgtI Awie ] jn nwnk suKy suiK ivhwie ]4]3]

 After her marriage, she practically lives the ideal qualities imbibed in her by her
parents. She adores, pampers and beautifies every relationship, values and
feelings of her in–laws and understands their pains–problems.
o nYhr kutMb qij ibAwhy ssurir jwie (119-1)
o gunnu kY kulwbDU ibrd khwveI [ (119-2)
o purn piqbRiq Aau gurjn syvw Bwie (119-3)
o igRh mY igRhsuir sujsu pRgtwveI [ (119-4)
o AMqkwil jwie ipRA sMig sihgwmnI huie (119-5)
o lok prlok ibKY aUc pd pwveI [ (119-6)
o gurmuK mwrg BY Bwie inrbwhu krY (119-7)
o DMn gurisK Awid AMq ThrwveI ]119] (119-8)
 joeI ipRA BwvY qwih suMdrqw kY suhwvY (209-1)
 soeI suMdrI khwvY Cib kY CbIlI hY [ (209-2)
 joeI ipRA BwvY qwih bwnk bDU bnwvY (209-3)
 soeI bnqw khwvY rMg mY rMgIlI hY [ (209-4)
 joeI ipRA BwvY qwkI sbY kwmnw pujwvY (209-5)
 soeI kwmnI khwvY sIl kY susIlI hY [ (209-6)
 joeI ipRA BwvY qwih pRymrs lY pIAwvY (209-7)
 soeI pRymnI khwvY rsk rsIlI hY ]209] (209-8)

 She does not discriminate while covering and concealing the shortcomings of
her own parents or that of her in-laws.
 jYsy kulwbDU buiDvMq ssurwr ibKY (395-1)
 swvDwn cyqn rhY Acwr cwr kY [ (395-2)
 ssur dyvr jyT skl kI syvw krY (395-3)
 Kwn pwn igAwn jwin p@iq prvwir kY [ (395-4)
 mDur bcn gurjn sY ljwvwn (395-5)
 isihjw smY rs pRym pUrn Bqwr kY [ (395-6)
 qYsy gurisK srbwqm pUjw pRbIn (395-7)
 bRhm iDAwn gurmUriq Apwr kY ]395] (395-8)
  AYsI nwiekw mY kuAwr pwqR hI supwqR BlI] (450-1)
 Aws ipAwsI mwqw ipqw eykY kwh dyq hY [ (450-2)
 AYsI nwiekw mY dInqw kY duhwgn BlI] (450-3)
 piqq pwvn ipRA pwie lwie lyq hY [ (450-4)
 AYsI nwiekw mY Blo ibrh ibEg sog (450-5)
 lgn sgn soDy srDw shyq hY [ (450-6)
 AYsI nwiekw mwq grB hI glI BlI] (450-7)
 kpt snyh duibDw ijau rwh kyq hY ]450] (450-8)

 She cheerfully performs her household tasks as her duty and responsibility.
Her behavior towards her in-laws is no different from her own parental family.
Similarly, she cordially establishes brotherhood and harmony with her
neighbors and she always helps the needy.

 An ideal mother never indulges in the materialistic race & jealousy of winning-
loosing or more & less of possessions. She distances herself from
complaints and accusations. She never boosts of her parent’s wealth and
status. Nor does she ruin her precious time and money in exhibiting her
expensive clothes and jewellery. Rather engages herself in healthy, constructive
and benefiting books to elevate her knowledge.

 For an ideal mother, equality of gender does not mean taking revenge from her
husband and making him do the household work. Instead she comprehends
the physical sensitivity and womenism and recognizes her responsibilities also
very well. As WILL of God, she directs her womanhood towards a purposeful
living.

 She endeavors to establish and enhance a mental and spiritual relationship

with her husband before the beginning of the physical relationship so that a
perfect womb/land is prepared for the growth of their offspring. Also she
persuades and encourages her husband towards spiritual living so that his
contribution in the birth/origin of the child be also pious-better.

 Even before conceiving the baby, she consciously strives to diminish her
vices and increase her qualities. She recognizes and realizes the limitations
and obligations of her house, family, society and religion and also puts in her
best efforts in their improvement and accomplishment.
 An ideal mother, owing to the enlightened and transformed brain,
understands the humanity and human values, spares herself from the
expectations and discriminations of a male or female child. Thus, as a result,
the upbringing of the child is bestowed without discriminatory feelings.
 During all those 9 months of pregnancy, she gives priority to ideal company,
good and healing music, benefiting and enriching books, humanitarian thoughts
and always lives with high spirits.
 During her pregnancy, she eludes herself from the thoughts of jealousy,
hatred, revenge, criticism, arguments, shouting, anger, shrewdness and all
other vices. Instead of all these vices she understands and lives the principle
of “forgive and forget” which ultimately affects her child. She avoids scary,
suspenseful, and sexual movies and novels.

 For the spiritual transcendence and character building, she tries to be in the
company of practical and pious/religious people. Instead of wasting time in the
useless gossiping she adds to her knowledge by reading the biographies of
high-spirited characters.
 An ideal mother acquires maximum knowledge and awareness about her
own as well as child’s health, through medical science. Where after she
focuses more on rich diet, regular exercise, walks and adequate rest.

 nwir Bqwr ipAwru hY mW puq smHwly] (27-4-5)

 suqu AprwD krq hY jyqy ] jnnI cIiq n rwKis qyqy ]1]
 jYsy mwqw ipqw pwlk Anyk suq (101-1)
 Ank suqn pY n qYsy hoie n AwveI [ (101-2)
 jYsy mwqw ipqw icq cwhq hY suqn kauo (101-3)
 qYsy n suqn icq cwh aupjwveI [ (101-4)
 jYsy mwqw ipqw suq suK duK sogwnMd (101-5)
 duK suK mY n qYsy suq ThrwveI [ (101-6)
 jYsy mn bc kRm isKnu lufwvY gur (101-7)
 qYsy gur syvw gurisK n ihqwveI ]101] (101-8)
 jYsy qau jnnI Kwn pwn kau sMjmu krY (354-1)
 qwqy suq rhY inribGn Arog jI [ (354-2)
 jnnI suqih jau iDkwr mwir ipAwru krY (355-1)
 ipAwr iJrkwru dyiK skq n Awn ko [ (355-2)
 jnnI ko ipAwru Aau iDkwr aupkwr hyq (355-3)
 Awn ko iDkwr ipAwr hY ibkwr pRwn ko [ (355-4)
 jYsy mwqw ipqw n bIcwrq ibkwr suq] (378-1)
 poKq spRym ibhsq ibhswiekY [ (378-2)
 An ideal mother puts special efforts to establish and maintain a cordial
atmosphere in the family because a tense atmosphere reflects badly in the
family as well as in the ultimate nature of the child in the womb.

 An ideal mother takes utmost care so that the child may become an ideal
personality alongside getting proper academic education. She does not
prefer to the academic education only but is sincerely and seriously equally
concerned that idealistic qualities and spiritual thoughts penetrate deep in his
conscience.

 She does never tell her children about the ills of her husband rather she
inculcates the values of contentment, cooperation and to ignore the ills of
others.

 When her husband comes back after day’s work, an ideal mother does not
sound him about the ill treatment meted out to her by her in-laws in his absence
because this ultimately demoralizes him.
 An ideal mother enjoys and loves to prepare the food herself at home and
cherishes in serving herself instead of going out in the parties where they get
the readymade junk food.

 She does not indulge herself in unwanted spending for just showoff and makes
her children also understand so that they also may restrain themselves from
wastingthe money in performing the rituals of birth-death, marriages and
dowry etc.,

 An ideal mother adopts every good norm to become a successful lady of her
house. If the circumstances of her family needs, she is ever ready to go out to
do some job and utilize her education and wits to help her family financially.

 pyvkVY Gr lwflI mwaU pIaU KrI ipAwrI] (5-16-1)

 ivc BrwvW BYnVI nwnk dwdk sx prvwrI] (5-16-2)
 lK Krc vIvwhIAY gihxy dwj swj Aiq BwrI] (5-16-3)
 swhurVY Gr mMnIAY sxKqI prvwr suDwrI] (5-16-4)
 suK mwxY ipr syjVI CqI Bojn sdw sINgwrI] (5-16-5)

lok vyd gux igAwn ivc ArD srIrI moK duAwrI] (5-16-6)

gurmuK suK Pl inhcau nwrI ]16] (5-16-7)
 An ideal mother, instead of getting frightened and cursing the circumstances
due to any emergency or mishap in the family, stands with boldly and consoles
her family members. She does never let the family shatter and is whole-
heartedly ever ready to help in every way. If need be, she does not hesitate to
dispose off her jewelry so that the financial problems may be sorted out.

 An ideal mother covers her body properly with simple and decent dresses. But
thinks that nudity is lack of intellect thus she decorates her conscience with
more and more intellectual knowledge.

 She does not indulge in superfluous rituals, magical thoughts and

superstitions etc.

 An ideal mother does never hate others because of their different faith, belief
and religion rather she loves and respects every one as one mankind. But
she is very firm in her own religion and faith. She makes her family quite
firmly and fully aware about their own faith. She preaches caring and sharing.

 An ideal mother takes a strong stand and fights boldly against the social and
family excesses and tyranny.
 mwN hI AslI pihlw gurU hY,ipqw dUsrw, qy mwstr qIsrw gurU.
 gurdyv mwqw gurdyv ipqw gurdyv suAwmI prmysurw ] (262-1, gauVI, mÚ 5)
 mWvW nUM b~icAW dy vwl Awp hI hr roj svwrxy cwhIdy hn.
 mWvW nUM ies qrW vI hoxw ijs qrW mhWrwxI ijMdW, ijs vkq aus ny dlIp isMG
dy isr qy hD r~iKAw aus vkq ausny ikhw ik mYN ieh dyKn qoN pihlW mr ikaN
nhI geI, ikaNik dlIp isMG dy isr qy vwl nhI sn. aus idn dlIp isMG ny
prx kIqw ik Aj qoN bwAd mYY vwl nhI ktwvWgw.
 Aorq (mW) ny Agr jnm dyxw hY qW auh- Bgq, sMq, bRhm igAwnI, ispwhI,
sUrbIr, joDw,dwqw rwjw, Er,Dr, Professor, sceintest, Farmer,etc. pYdw
kry.
 qulsI dws dw iek dohw:
 jnnI jny qW Bgq jn, kY dwqw kY sUr(sUrbIr),
 nhIN qW jnnI bWJ rhy, kwhy gvwvy nUr.
 ijn hir ihrdY nwmu n bisE iqn mwq kIjY hir bWJw ]
 iqn suM\I dyh iPrih ibnu nwvY Eie Kip Kip muey krWJw ]1]
 dyK prweIAW cMgIAW mwvW BYxW DIAW jwxY]

(Compiled by Er. Lakhwant Singh Khalsa) on 13.05.2018 ( Mother Day)